From crime, to the illuminati, join your favourite online sisters as they deep dive into current trending topics such as the viral Tumelo interview clip and the 4B feminist movement. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] References:'Influencers are lying about their lifestyle': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HR2D2EmnC0 'The illuminati and witchcraft - the year of exposure, Hollywood party': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwWlWwj48kQ&t=1262s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Marriage continues to be a sensitive topic for many of the sisters in the 21st century. With the rising global divorce rates, the perversion of faith and patriarchy, and so many questioning whether marriage is really worth it, the sisters weigh in on pertinent conversations on whether marriage really is outdated for the ‘modern woman’. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your mid-week boost of TMS Hottakes is back, and in this episode, we're getting through our hefty bank of dillemmas. From height insecurities to heeding warning signs from our parents, tune in to another session where we get deep into our agony aunt bag!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Dilemma 1: My friend keeps asking me for money...11:05 Dilemma 2: Having everything you've wanted and feeling stuck...24:30 Dilemma 3: My mother had a dream he'd ruin my life... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're fast approaching the end of the first quarter of 2024, and it feels as though many of us have had a whirlwind start to the year! In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on the lessons they've learned so far and across the board - and the transformation that has occured in spiritual, mental, emotional and spheres. Tune into another wholesome episode with your favourite online sisters!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements02:11 Ding Ding Dilemma: I broke a man's heart... 15:17 Lessons learned in Q1: Celebrating Your Wins22:19 Faith & Spirituality 37:30 Mental & Emotional Health49:28 Physical Health & Self-Care Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode, the sisters talk about some strategies to overcome the depression that can be adulting (at least, in the UK), the epidemic of digitally altering photos, and the temptation to...steal?! All this and more in TMS Hottakes!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The process of maturing isn't always easy for women, and choosing to be a better woman is a daily practice. In today's episode, the girls talk about their own journey of 'becoming', the reality of pursuing wisdom, and what it looks like to truly step into the woman of purpose that God has called you into.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What extremes are permissable when you've done wrong to your partner? Would you go on a podcast to profess your undying love? Is it wise to marry young - especially with all these divorces left right and centre? The tea, as usual, is piping hot with another serving of TMS Hottakes.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Navigating dating and relationships seems to be a minefield these days, and identifying red flags can be even more challenging. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the rising levels of ‘no-good men’, identifying red flags and what to do when we’ve overlooked ALL the warning signs.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is Love REALLY blind? What kinky sexual requests are 'too much'? Why do we have so many grown folks playing high school teenagers on Netflix? Is Tyler Perry at it again? Coming to you hot with another episode of TMS Hottakes!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What is going on on Netflix: Tyler Perry's Mea Culpa, Blood & Water 15:08 Onlg God knows how we got here LOOOOL: Kinks and other things26:35 Love is Blind Nonsense! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they share lessons they took from the viral TikTok storytime ‘Who TF Did I Marry?!’ from spotting the red flags to desirability politics and so much more. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if your husband buys his sister-in-law a Valentine's Day Gift? Are sending blue heart emoji's enough to repair a broken relationship after infidelity? What to do when your man stays lying? All this gist and a catch-up on all our fun times and trips awaits you in this episode of TMS Hottakes 💫 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Who TF Did I Marry?! - A 52-part TikTok Storytime 08:26 The Girl with the Louding Voice Dilemma 12:07 Your Sister in Law is Your Valentine18:00 Blue Heart Emojis & Bare Minimum Romance25:47 How often do you speak to your mother?28:06 Do we want kids? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Healing isn't easy. From dealing with generational trauma to the pain we caused ourselves, it seems like the girls are in a season of trying to overcome old wounds that have penetrated deep below the surface. How do we move on in a meaningful way that is authentic and holistic? Prepared for an intense chat on today's episode of TMS!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation! 01:15 What happened to the visuals 👀 09:25 The tea on our trip to South Africa 🇿🇦22:00 Thank you for supporting our paperback 📚💌 22:48 Some encouragement for the girlies looking to start something new ✨24:49 🇺🇸 We're heading to New York City!!!26:52 Ding ding dilemma: My partner and I have a very different approach to finances...38:24 The non-linear nature of healing is frustrating! 52:29 Learning to be patient and compassionate towards yourself56:52 Reframing how we think about generational trauma 01:07:07 Cycles are the biggest cause of delay01:11:52 Breaking generational curses one generation at a time Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes your favorite online sisters play a game (badly), discuss the rhetoric surrounding women out-earning men, who would you want to pass first out of you and your partner, and they answer a heartfelt dilemma from a sister trying to support a friend who has just lost their parent. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Let's play a game...11:32 Why do people think it's ok to call you randomly?!14:35 Women are out-earning men as a... "trauma response"?21:24 Could you live without your partner?28:38 Ding ding dilemma: Supporting my friend who just lost her parent38:36 How often do you take out your wig braids? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Constant body changes are a normal part of womanhood. From your monthly hormonal cycle to rapid weight gain and loss, learning to love your body can be a tough ride. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters share their experiences with body dysmorphia, battling the desire for the male gaze, and learning to love themselves in a society that punishes self-acceptance. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements 07:36 Ding Ding Dilemma: My friend accused me of theft...19:11 Dealing with insecurity and body dysmorphia33:04 Feeling undesirable and unhappy44:45 How sisterhood and community helps you accept yourself57:15 Divesting from the male gaze Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting lost in daydreams is now becoming an addiction according to the girlies - so what do we do when reality just isn't hitting right? From mental escapism to our favourite films, not to mention our travel hacks and 'girl dinners' - TMS is back with another hot-off-the-press episode of TMS Hottakes!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes we need to be raw and honest about the ugly - and in today's episode, the sisters are taking on the 'ugly' behind comparison, envy, and jealousy. From our own experiences of comparison and jealousy, to talking about the challenges facing women being pitted against each other, tune into another episode where we go deep into what it takes to 'keep up with the Joneses'.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So is it true that we're in the advent of 'monitoring spirits'? Are Black Women once again being told to be 'softer' to embrace their femininity? Are we joining what seems like an imminent world war? From bringing back slang words to the Barbie 'snub', it's the latest tea served piping hot on another episode of TMS Hottakes!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 MC RK? 04:43 Are you joining the war?08:25 If you were in a zombie apocalypse who would you bring?11:25 The Barbie Snub 17:49 Black women would get more if they were softer...?! 23:58 The truth about Monitoring Spirits Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Whilst it may always appear like things are fine and dandy and #SoPlatonic between Courtney and Renée, the sisters are transparent about the reality of trouble in friendship paradise. They also touch base on female friendships more broadly, and whether or not it's realistic to expect to have lifelong, healthy female friendships in the age of loneliness and individualism.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping: NEW BOOK ALERT!! 07:42 Dilemma Update: The right one is worth waiting for sis! 11:08 Ding Ding Dilemma: A professional pessimist at 18?!28:55 The misrepresentation of female friendships36:37 Dealing with your trust issues41:07 Everyone is so suspicious45:31 Learning to trust people 59:59 The UGLY parts of our friendship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apparently women are going childless by CHOICE and folks aren't happy about it? Not to mention, it looks like luxury products are in the bin too? We'll be chatting about this (as well as some more gist) on this week's TMS Hottakes!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] 00:00 Already Exhausted & Living in an alternative universe09:19 We all need better critical thinking skills 13:39 Being childless by choice 21:29 Things we’ve been loving recently 30:12 People are letting go of luxury... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're coming to the end of the month and the girls seem to be losing momentum! From being transparent about our own shortcomings, to addressing how we overcome self-sabotage and failure, the sisters get real about what it takes to bounce back.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome & Announcements: South Africa LIVE SHOW details! 06:41 Ding Ding Dilemma: I think I want him back... but he might have moved on?18:10 Starting to year off TOO hard28:08 The sisters are self-sabotaging 39:23 Overcoming perfectionism through gratitude 44:17 Having a softer approach to discipline 51:00 Accepting that you aren't perfect56:52 How to practically comeback from a setback Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From 'wasted virginity' to the clash between self-love and romance - in this week's episode, the TMS Hottakes is packed with the latest gist and girl talk over at the sisterhood HQ. Tune in now for the latest episode guaranteed to add some much needed heat to your day!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]:00 Catching up with the sisters.05:59 Being a virgin SUCKS?! Purity Politics13:52 Our thoughts on if 'self-love can't beat romance'18:12 Sex toys on PLT LOL20:09 Public vs. private correction on the Internet22:30 'Digital modesty', privacy & boundaries Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It seems like a lot of the sisters are feeling blue, especially with the pressures of life starting to creep up on us! From processing undealt-with trauma, to supporting sisters going through mental health challenges, the girls share their thoughts, experiences, and more - in the latest TMS episode!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome & Announcements: South Africa LIVE SHOW details! 08:44 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I go corporate just for the money?26:49 Are mental health issues really on the rise?28:45 Our experiences with depression, anxiety, and sadness39:42 The complexity of being high-functioning 42:00 The burden that comes with wisdom and purpose44:36 The importance of recognising the small things46:31 Being consistent with wellness practices50:34 Embracing transparency 54:11 Allowing yourself to be vulnerable and seen55:14 How to be a supportive sister01:03:31 Allowing yourself to receive love and be sensitive01:14:16 A prayer for you: peace, joy and love Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey sisters! We're back at it again with your midweek fix, coming in HOT with what's trending, our latest thoughts and a little bit of chit chat. From sisters poisoning their bestie due to jealousy, more Katt Williams drops and tuning into Marvel's latest series, it's about time to get into TMS Hottakes! 🔥 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome to the gist and laughter! 01:43 Ding Ding Dilemma: Should I embrace interracial dating? 08:20 This flue that's going around is NO JOKE! 12:26 Katt Williams is back at it again! 18:33 The leap year pattern... 19:59 Poisoning your best friend because of jealousy 25:21 The Receipts Podcast and the beauty of female friendships28:57 Sisters in South Africa 31:34 Quarter life crisis' and frontal lobe development 37:34 What is paracetamol please?39:43 What we've been watching lately47:37 What's the best UK Slang? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating felt like the dumps for a lot of the sisters last year, and even though women are starting to embrace singleness, there's still a lot of women out there who have given up hope to find a life partner. In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on what it looks like to embrace singleness this year, and whether finding 'Mr Right' is nothing but a pipedream.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome & Announcements: We're officially billboard babes!!07:31 Ding Ding Dilemma: I might be pregnant...24:30 Why is our generation embracing singleness more?31:37 Modern pressures on romantic relationships38:43 The money issue...40:49 We've got commitment and trust issues47:44 Analysing a trend in divorce rates.50:55 The idolatry of marriage and the misunderstanding of femininity01:00:59 Enduring hard seasons in relationships01:05:23 The difference between hard seasons and dysfunction01:08:23 What the season of singleness is and is not. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Introducing TMS Hottakes - the sisters' take on the hottest topics of the week! The sisters asked, and we delivered. The official mid-week gist, candid conversation, and opinionated space where we'll be talking everything from our takes on the latest TikToks, conspiracy theories, movies, and more. Make sure you have either a tea or a wine in hand sis, it's about to get hot in here!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] 💌 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomysisterhood💌 SAY HI TO THE HOSTS! https://www.instagram.com/cdboatenghttps://www.instagram.com/reneekapuku Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Starting 2024 with a bang! Now that the sisters have the prayers and affirmations necessary to speak life into 2024, the sisters talk about how the girls NEED to channel their energy, overcome the past and make 2024 their best year yet!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome & Annoucements: New Season & Show BABYYY!08:34 Ding Ding Dilemma: I strongly dislike (lowkey hate) everything about myself as a person…32:35 Major keys for 2024: Be UNAPOLOGETIC39:18 Major keys for 2024: Stay FOCUSSED45:27 Major keys for 2024: Fill up YOUR CUP49:56 Major keys for 2024: Submit to ACCOUNTABILITY & WISE COUNSEL54:33 Major keys for 2024: Move from affirmation to CHARACTERISATION01:00:11 Major keys for 2024: CREATE more than you consume Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Would it be a New Year without affirming the sisters ahead of 2024? In today’s episode, your resident sisters share the TOP affirmations and prayers women NEED in 2024. From boosting your confidence to securing the bae, tune in get some of the words you need to water in the next few months!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What a Merry Christmas indeed! Amidst the fun and festivities of the season, join the sisters as they talk about some of the biggest challenges that we’ve had to overcome over the course of the year. From overcoming old trauma and dealing with huge setbacks, ’tis the season to rest, reflect, and grow.  📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From repairing relationships with our mothers, to whether relationships with older men can be wholesome? Tune into another episode of asking the sisters those burning questions you’ve had and more!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome, House Keeping Announcements & Gist! 07:27 Ding Ding Dilemma: My love for my boyfriend feels FAKE17:16 Top tips on healing a relationship with your mother?31:55 Our thoughts on relationships with big age gaps!44:43 Advice for those entering 30's without a husband, house or kids?54:30 What are our prayers for the new year? 59:44 How to find joy after a stressful season?01:07:12 Our body care routine?! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It seems the list of things we ought to leave in 2023 is a bit more expansive than we thought! From pocket watching and flexing on social media to toxic relationships, the sisters dig into part two of what should NOT be coming with us into 2024!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] seems the list of things we ought to leave in 2023 is a bit more expansive than we thought! From pocket watching and flexing on social media to toxic relationships, the sisters dig into part two of what should NOT be coming with us into 2024!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]:00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements01:37 Ding Ding Dilemma: My friend is violating my boundaries!14:31 Everyone is making 6-figures?!29:31 Living above your means!45:30 Toxic Relationships!51:51 Cancel Culture!01:03:39 Dating shows! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How is it already December!? As we draw to the end of the year, the sisters wanted to share 10 things you should leave behind in 2023. Join your favourite online sisters as they gist about it all; from relationship mistakes to spiritual matters and the gender wars taking place in the world wide web! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]:00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements05:50 Ding Ding Ding Dilemma: Can I Date My Best Friend's Ex-Situationship?24:14 Things to leave in 2023: Not Investing In Your Spirituality32:13 Leave The Gender Wars Behind! 40:44 SHAME & EMBARRASSMENT HAVE GOT TO GO!48:34 Stop weaponising therapy speak! 58:28 Let 2024 be the year you take your health seriously! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Friendships with the girlies isn’t always a bed of roses - we go through it with each other too, and that includes friendship breakups. Resentment, drama, restoration and more, the girls talk about the real behind maintaining the friendships that need to stay, and breaking the ones that need to go. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]:00 Welcome & House Keeping Annoucements04:07 Ding Ding Ding Dilemma: I HATE MEN! 23:36 The Diddy & Darius Situation31:02 Experiencing the end of a friendship34:49 Adult friendships are hard! 37:22 How do you know when to LET GO or FIGHT?47:19 Healthy conflict in friendship 57:29 Restoring a broken friendship01:02:58 Grieving & heartbreak post-breakup Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It seems to be the dawn of the day of reckoning for bad men! For many years, women have been given the advice to invest in the potential of men, endure hardship, and to ignore some red flags from questionable love interests. Well, enough is enough! In today’s episodes the sisters talk about the tea on ‘bad men’, how to stop feeling sorry for those committed to being no good - and when it’s time to make an escape plan if you’ve been trapped by one!Non-exhaustive list of domestic violence organisations and resources: UK: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ and https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ USA: https://www.thehotline.org/ and https://ncadv.org/get-helpSouth Africa: https://findahelpline.com/za/topics/abuse-domestic-violenceInternational: https://wave-network.org/list-of-helplines-in-46-countries/ 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We had such a blast at the TMS Live in London show, and we wanted to bring a bit of the show to you - by answering your dilemmas! From essential first date questions to transitioning to your 30s, get tucked in and ready for another girl chat with the TMS sisters!📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome to the conversation & House Keeping Announcements02:20 Ding Ding Dilemma: I'm in school in India and I HATE IT HERE15:49 How do you maintain multiple fruitful friendships?23:56 What are the key questions to ask when dating?32:35 What advice would you give to women who are giving up on finding true love?39:58 How do you free yourself from shame and your past? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The reality behind being a woman and being a leader isn’t always as peachy as it always seems - and in this episode, the sisters team up with Kike Oniwinde-Agoro, founder and CEO of the BYP network, to delve into the true and transparent cost of being a ‘boss babe’. From motherhood to losing mothers, tune in to what promises to be a frank and necessary conversation for women who need to show up as leaders.📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]:00:00 Welcome to the conversation02:45 Kike Oniwinde: Becoming an intentional leader04:56 Overcoming the fear of being seen06:24 Dealing with the negative stereotypes about black female leaders07:45 Leaning on Community: Marriage & Motherhood10:11 The importance of resilience and showing up whilst grieving12:00 The courage to be disliked & misunderstood14:15 Let's talk about the FAILS!16:34 Intersectionality: The reality of leading as a Black Woman19:20 3 Practical Tips for Cultivating Intentional Leadership21:37 Live QnA: Owning being a black woman in business23:11 Live QnA: One way you want to give back to the community?24:41 Live QnA: How can black men support black women professionally?27:22 Live QnA: Advise to your younger self becoming a leader.31:13 The Debrief Conversation with Courtney & Renee: The journey of becoming a GOOD leader Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can sisterhood really transcend the borders of interracial and religious diversity? Is it still possible to have intimate relationships with women from ALL walks of life, or only with the women who are close enough to you? In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on the reality of a sisterhood without borders!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] 00:00 House Keeping Announcements04:19 Dilemma Update: Embracing my broke seasons05:40 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My boyfriend has now accountability or mentorship!'22:46 The importance of having diverse friendships 37:39 Representation: Our experience as black women leading a global sisterhood 42:27 The keys to cultivating diverse intimate relationships: listening & empathy47:26 Our experience of finding friends at predominantly white institutions52:36 Fake sisterhood and allyship 58:43 Openness, transparency and passing the mic Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is social media detrimentally affecting our friendships and relationships? Whilst the internet has been such a great source of connection and platforming, is the constant access to each other online going to harm us in the long term? Is everyone REALLY making six figures, have the perfect relationship, and able to own a house at 25? Are these things you should aspire to? Check out the sisters’ thoughts in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements05:37 Ding Ding Dilemma: Adjusting to New Seasons & Letting Go of Your 5-Year Plan24:46 The Internet is a Scary Place: Cosplaying Perfection & The Dangers of Delusion38:47 The Uncomfortable Reality of Economic Crisis & The Distracting Illusions of Capitalism46:20 Being a Force for Positive Change in Your World Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are friendships getting too pricey to sustain these days? How do you navigate showing up for your friends when you’re in a tight financial spot? What’s the tea on supporting your friends going through rough patches? The sisters talk all things money, friends, and more in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements06:33 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My friend is unhappy in her marriage '24:21 The Cost of Friendship: Birthday Dinners, Girls Trips 38:55 Being a 'Sugar Sister': Generosity & Being Sensitive48:37 Unrealistic Friendship Expectations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it ever a good idea to get back together with your ex? Can you make peace after troubled times with friends and family? The sisters talk about all things rekindling and reconciliation in today’s episode!🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!01:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I feel unwanted & undervalued by my friends...'12:19 Why is reconciliation so hard?: Forgiveness & Transformation25:46 Once a cheater, always a cheater?!36:31 The process of healing your relationships: patience vs. acceptance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Getting your finances together and cultivating a healthy relationship with money is an integral part of the glowing and growing journey! In today’s episode, the sisters talk all things jobs, aligning your goals with your money, and how to ensure you’re getting the best use of your money as a sister. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🔥GET A TICKET TO THE BYP LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE: https://byp.network/leadership-conference-2023/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 House Keeping Announcements & Come See Us This Week!07:24 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'I'm trying to gain financial independence from my parents!'22:42 Lessons We've Learnt About MAKING MONEY: 9-5's, Freelancing & Entrepreneurship 42:14 Tips on MANAGING YOUR MONEY: Budgeting for Enjoyment & Avoiding Lifestyle Creep 57:04 Investment Strategies People Rarely Speak Of: Generosity & Seeing Yourself as an asset Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The sisterhood have had their fair share of trouble with the opposite sex, but it seems like the problems have been compounding and increasing lately! Join your resident sisters in today’s episode as we talk about how to effectively guard your heart, date with intention, and watch out for red flags in the quest to find a life partnerJoin your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss how to guard your heart in the dating process.🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Exciting House Keeping Announcements & Life Updates04:50 Ding Ding Dilemma: I had a one-night stand & an update! 24:35 STORYTIME 😂 The time we found out he already had a girlfriend42:12 Setting expectations & boundaries 55:53 Letting go of a relationship that isn't working 01:07:29 Having hope for the right one & 👀 preying on single women Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As women we can go through many pivotal life changes like marriage and motherhood which change the dynamics of our friendships. So let's talk about it, how do you balance the tension between new responsibilities, changing priorities, and your existing friendships? How do you know when you cut a friend off? And how does it feel to be cut off?Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss the reality of building lifelong friendships through changing seasons. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In a world that tells us that we constantly need more things in order to be happy, it’s easy to find ourselves becoming discontent with our lives. So how do we practice gratitude and thankfulness for what we have, whilst still aspiring for more in our careers, relationships and other pursuits? Join your favourite online sisters in today’s episode as they discuss balancing ambition, contentment and gratitude.☀️🇬🇭 VOTE FOR THE BRIGHT FUTURE ACADEMY TO WIN CSR PROJECT OF THE YEAR IN GHANA : https://www.mysmsinbox.com/gba/contestant.php?q=CSR%20PROJECT%20OF%20THE%20YEAR&cat_id=12 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/...🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-...📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To my empowered sisters, this is your sign to start betting on yourself to change the world (or at least your world)! On today's episode, your favourite online sisters sit down with activist, author, entrepreneur, and their friend Vee Kativhu, to get the tea on what it really takes to create change, make sure your voice is heard, and some of the misconceptions people have about dating high flying women. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Growing up without a dad, parentification & family values17:24 The mindset of a high achiever: persistence, confidence & accountability 44:05 The truth about dating as a hypervisible woman Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

No one wants to feel unwanted, rejected and like a failure, but at some point in our lives, we are all going to have to contend with these feelings. Join your favourite online sisters in today's episode as they get real about overcoming rejection and making mistakes on your glowing and growing journey. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s time for you to enter into your confident era sis! So let’s have a conversation about how to practically build your confidence after dealing being faced with a setback or deep-rooted insecurity.Join for favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss leveraging the power of gratitude, consistency and community to build your confidence on your glowing and growing journey. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS International experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Like romantic relationships, our female friendships can go through a honeymoon phase where everything feels fresh and exciting; but what should we do when that season comes to an end? Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they discuss the reality behind being friends for over a decade, how you can build true intimacy and secrets to finding joy and contentment in your platonic relationships. 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Being a woman of many talents is wonderful, it allows you to explore your passions and talents and could lead to multiple income streams. But what happens when burnout and overwhelm creep in? How do we redefine confidence and self-esteem when we're validated by our hyper-productivity? Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they get vulnerable and honest about it all 🎉 GET A TICKET TO OUR LIVE PODCAST SHOW!!https://hackneyempire.co.uk/whats-on/to-my-sisters-live-third-anniversary/🏆 VOTE FOR US TO WIN PODCAST OF THE YEAR: https://www.bcreator.co.uk/awards/ 🏆 VOTE FOR COURTNEY TO WIN RISING STAR OF THE YEAR:https://www.foundervine.com/changemaker-awards-rising-star-of-the-year ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate🌍 JOIN US for TMS experiences: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.