You'll be devastated and ruined when your heart is broken. Still, love fully and fiercely. A life lived any other way is dull by comparison. How do you do it? You place your hand on your chest and you leave it there for the rest of your life. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Whatever you want to do, with very little exception - you can do it. That being said, karma and responsibility are real. The UNcivilized man has figured out how to live a life outside the rules with respect, intention, and discipline. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

You must know all three, independently and intimately, and you cannot fear them. They are your allies in your quest for growth, actualization, and individualization. They hold the power. The question is, are you avoiding one of them? The next question is...why? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Honor and reverence remind us that our time here is limited. The start and conclusion of each breath holds everything that came before you, is with you, and will be after you're gone. Learn to feel it. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Combine both your primal and your divine in every area of your life. Try starting in the bedroom. You'll need your determined, competitive nature to make friends with the part of you that feels a rush of emotion when you ride the perfect wave, hit the buck in a silent forest, or reach out your hand to a brother in need. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Let your heart break for the life you wish you had. Let your heart break for the love you want to give. Let your heart break for the unexpressed gifts you have inside of you. Let it break. Until then, you aren't going anywhere. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

The civilized man is a slave to his mind and a pimp to his body. Take charge of both, and you're running your own damn life. Learn to meditate. Get physically stronger than you've ever been. Own your duality. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

The more dangerous you are, the less of a danger you will be. The man who is civilized, who has something to prove, who walks around with a chip on his shoulder, who is in denial of his true nature is where the danger lies. Do you make those you walk among safer? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Many men, perhaps you or men you know, are facing the number one killer of men: isolation. You may be surrounded by people and still alone. Who can you confide in? Who confides in you? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Men who know who they are, why they are here, and are focused on penetrating the world with their deep purpose, these men are not raping, abusing or murdering anyone. (Hurt men are.) Find out why there's no reason to be ashamed of being unapologetically male in this episode. I hope it makes you think about your own masculinity differently. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

Never before had I met a man so interested in ending the suffering of men and the suffering caused by men like Stephen Jenkinson. As you may know, it is one of the many times that we have had Stephen as our guest, and it is because this man speaks with such wisdom that it is impossible not to learn something from him. In this episode, Stephen and I will be talking about the 60's revolution, the pandemic, freedom, grief, and suffering. He will also tell us about his tour, Nights of Grief and Mystery. I promise you will love this episode. Stephen spoke in such a poetic way that it will make you feel like you are having a piece of his tour. Can't miss it. ABOUT STEPHEN Culture activist, worker, author ~ Stephen teaches internationally and is the creator and principal instructor of the Orphan Wisdom School, co-founded the school with his wife Nathalie Roy in 2010, convening semi-annually in Deacon, Ontario, and in northern Europe.  Apprenticed to a master storyteller when a young man, he has worked extensively with dying people and their families, is former programme director in a major Canadian hospital, former assistant professor in a prominent Canadian medical school. He is also a sculptor, traditional canoe builder whose house won a Governor General’s Award for architecture. Since co-founding the Nights of Grief and Mystery project with singer/ songwriter Gregory Hoskins in 2015, he has toured this musical/ tent show revival/ storytelling/ ceremony of a show across North America, U.K. and Europe and Australia and New Zealand. They released their Nights of Grief & Mystery album in 2017 and at the end of 2020, they released two new records; Dark Roads and Rough Gods. CONNECT WITH STEPHEN Website: https://orphanwisdom.com/ Stephen’s tour: https://orphanwisdom.com/nights-of-grief-and-mystery/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:28] The hardest challenges of being on tour. [7:18] What's Stephen calling? [14:14] Where did Stephen get the relationship he has with words? [18:10] The 60's revolution [21:23] The 2020 pandemic. [33:54] Nights of Grief and Mystery tour. [39:55] What's suffering? [48:02] Where to find Stephen. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course. Join The UNcivilized Nation, registration is only open through Jan 3rd, 2023

No matter how many times you feel stagnant or hit bottom, remember that even in the desert, the flowers blossom. I'm not trying to sound poetic, but today's guest story reminds me of desert flowers blossoming amid the drought, in isolation, and under brutal circumstances. For this episode, Saora Love will join the conversation. She is a men's coach and what I find most fascinating about her is not only her desire to help others but her story of self-improvement. To put you in context, Saora experienced many difficult moments in her life from a young age, but none of them were as tough as the time she spent three years in prison in India for cannabis possession, leading her to miss her sister's wedding — the moment she understood the seriousness of her imprisonment. In this episode, you will hear not only Saora's story but also about healing, meditation, embodiment, and how we can start to be more present and aware of our bodies as men. ABOUT SAORA LOVE Saora Love is a mentor and guide for people who want more intimacy, cohesion and harmony in their lives. She is mostly focused on helping us all understand each other more, particularly from a standpoint of radical self responsibility. Saora often says she's been blessed to live a life of a lot of suffering. This has given her a lot of street cred and she has learnt to be able to navigate life with a lot of awareness. Because of this she is able to support others on their journey to wholeness, and is able to really see and understand the intricacies of what's really going on in people's lives. She works with women to help them understand themselves, and to specifically understand men more. She works with men to help them understand more of what's needed for embodiment and wholeness and to understand what women want. She gives powerful reflections from a deeply attuned feminine system. CONNECT WITH SAORA Instagram: @saoralove  WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:17] Who's Saora Love? [4:35] What's embodiment? [5:34] Why do men have a hard time being one with their bodies? [8:55] "Pain and suffering don't have to hurt." [10:30] Three years in India. [15:29] First days in jail. [20:22] The power of meditation. [22:01] Life outside prison. [32:31] What does "praying" mean? [36:49] How to get out of toxic situations? [41:11] How she became a men's coach. [48:52] Why do women have a hard time understanding men? [51:11] How the embodiment can lead to healing. [57:04] Where to find Saora.  If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the final part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking WRATH and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the sixth part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking GLUTTONY and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the fifth part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking SLOTH and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the fourth part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking GREED and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the third part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking LUST and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the second part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking ENVY and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

In the first part of this 7 part solo podcast series on the Civilized vs the UNcivilized view of the Seven Deadly Sins, I’m taking PRIDE and breaking it down for you. I’m looking at how you can make it work for you and how it can upend your life. These are short, hard hitting solo podcasts as a thank you for all of your support throughout the year. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Join The UNcivilized Body, take your body back, take your life back Take a look Behind the Mask as we dive into elements of masculinity with Anger, Relationship, and Sex. Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise

The power to change is within you and depends on you. When we feel like we've hit rock bottom, sometimes, we wait and pray for a hand that comes to save us. However, even if they do, the greatest help will always come from us because we are the only ones who can heal our traumas, problems, and deep wounds. At the bottom, all we find is loneliness — it is just our mind and body. We are the only people we have to deal with daily. Therefore, we are responsible for keeping falling or starting to rise. In this episode, we'll be talking about change, loneliness, and overcoming with our guest George Bryant who leaves us with an impressive quote, "make yourself a home." ABOUT GEORGE BRYANT He has been homeless, bullied, abused, and in combat. George is a New York Times best-selling author, the 7-figure entrepreneur, the Crossfitter, the veteran with PTSD, the family man, the marketing guy, and now… he's home. CONNECT WITH GEORGE Website: https://mindofgeorge.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsgeorgebryant/ WHAT YOU'LL HEAR. [2:35] Meet George Bryant. [17:50] Steps to achieve a real change. [44:36] How to start being more honest with ourselves? [1:00:55] What to do when we feel lonely? [1:18:13] Where to find George? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Imagine growing up and realizing that your dad was one of history's greatest cultural icons and martial arts master, Bruce Lee. Being the daughter of one of the most famous people in the world, today's guest, Shannon Lee, had to find her own identity within the Lee Family. Unlike many children of celebrities, her deep love for her father and his philosophy led her to carry his last name and her father's legacy with pride. Shannon lost her father at the age of four, and unlike many people think, only four years of her life helped her to discover the real essence of her father, growing a desire in her of getting to know him more personally through his memories. Today, on Bruce Lee's birthday, we want to celebrate by sharing this episode with you. Enjoy! ABOUT SHANNON LEE Shannon Lee is the Chair of the Bruce Lee Foundation, the CEO and Owner of the Bruce Lee Family Companies as well as the daughter of the legendary martial  artist and cultural icon, Bruce Lee. Shannon’s mission is to provide access to her father’s philosophy and life through education and entertainment and be a cause of healing and unity in the world. She is the creator of Camp Bruce Lee through the Bruce Lee Foundation, and has spoken at TED,TEDx, and Creative Mornings, to name a few. Shannon is a mother to daughter Wren and lives in California where she hosts the Bruce Lee Podcast and executive produces HBOMax’s Warrior, now shooting season 3. Her first book, Be Water, My Friend, was released in October 2020 and offers insight into how to use her father’s philosophies toward a more fluid, peaceful and fulfilling life. CONNECT WITH SHANNON Websites: brucelee.com https://bruceleefoundation.org  leewaymedia.com Social media: @brucelee  @bruceleefoundation - IG @BruceLeeFDN - Twitter @Bruce Lee Foundation - FB @therealshannonlee - IG WHAT YOU’LL HEAR [6:40] Shannon's biggest influence in her life. [10:31] Getting to know the real Bruce Lee. [17:52] Learning to embrace Lee's last name. [24:32] Shannon's personal journey. [28:40] What can we learn from grief? [30:01] Bruce's philosophy. [36:36] Were Bruce's abilities innate? [43:28] What's an honest expression? [53:42] The legacy of the Lee family for the future. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Being on the verge of death puts into perspective what we have been doing with our lives. Surfing is one of the most beautiful and liberating sports that can exist, but it can also be one of the most dangerous. If you don't believe me, ask our guest, Koa Smith. Koa is a professional surfer who suffered a traumatic brain injury that puts his life in perspective. During his healing journey, he found the answers he was looking for about the incident with the help of psilocybin mushrooms. ABOUT KOA SMITH Koa Smith is a professional freelance surfer who travels around the world surfing the biggest waves and competes in national surfing competitions. CONNECT WITH KOA Instagram: @koasmith Youtube: @itsKoaSmith WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:34] Who's Koa Smith? [6:24] The most impressive surfer experience Koa's had. [14:19] What is it to be a professional surfer? [18:30] Koa injury story. [24:46] Fighting depression and seeking healing. [38:10] Koa initiation. [40:20] Koa's documentary: resurfacing. [42:34] Koa's new life perspective. [47:55] What's next for Koa? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

The holidays can be a trying time for a lot of folks. I know this because so many reach out to me asking for advice on how to deal with a difficult ex, challenging family situations, or being alone. In this solo episode I give a three point plan on how to not only survive the holidays but how to thrive during them. Give it a listen and feel free to DM me on Instagram @traverboehm with any thoughts you have. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Our military and first responders receive so much training in preparation for their careers in service, but so little training in preparation to send them back out into the civilian world.  In this Veteran's Day bonus episode I sit wit Dave Boyd, a former firefighter, police officer, SWAT, active military and current president of Man UNcivilized, to discuss what veterans and first responders need to hear. We unpack what they are NOT taught as service members returning to civilian life and what they desperately need for that transition.   Yours UNcivilized, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man uncivilized 

We seek to solve problems like toxic masculinity in men when our focus should be given to boys to avoid these types of struggles in their adulthood. Our childhood and how we are educated greatly influence our mentality and way of thinking. That is why giving the necessary education to children is essential for their development. In this new episode, we will have Richard Reeves, the author of Of Boys and Men, as our guest. Richard and I will talk about why the modern male is struggling, why the education system should change, and why a healthy father figure is important in the development of children. We will also talk about why spaces for men are seen as anti-feminist. We will touch on interesting topics that you cannot miss. Let's get started! ABOUT RICHARD REEVES Richard V. Reeves is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution, where he directs the Future of the Middle-Class Initiative and co-directs the Center on Children and Families. His Brookings research focuses on the middle class, inequality, and social mobility. Richard writes for a wide range of publications, including the New York Times, Guardian, National Affairs, The Atlantic, Democracy Journal, and Wall Street Journal. He is the author of Dream Hoarders (Brookings Institution Press, 2017) and John Stuart Mill – Victorian Firebrand (Atlantic Books, 2007), an intellectual biography of the British liberal philosopher and politician. CONNECT WITH RICHARD Website: richardvreeves.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/richardvreeves Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Men-Modern-Struggling-Matters/dp/0815739877 WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:27] The reason behind Richard's book Of Boys and Men [6:42] Why do men still struggle in 2022? [9:44] Why's the collective action problem? [10:31] Why can male spaces be considered anti-feminist? [17:33] How to build mature masculinity? [22:25] Why is toxic masculinity so attractive? [29:42] Why do men seek structure? [31:54] What should change in education? [41:19] The importance of the father figure in the lives of children [49:27] Because men stagnate and women adapt [54:51] Where to find Richard? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

So many men are frozen. So many men are riddled with anxiety. So many men want yet have convinced themselves they cannot have. Why? Their fear of the unknown. And the fear they have with the unknown stems from not cultivating a relationship with themselves AND the unknown parts of their lives. In this solo episode I break down some concrete ways to liberate yourself from the stories in your head and the grip of fear in your stomach and live more fully. Yours UNcivilized, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Today we are joined by Stefanos Sifandos and will be talking about fatherhood, childhood traumas, confidence, and money,  things most men deal with. Stefanos is a trained educator and relationship expert with a background in behavioral science. To be successful, you have to start working internally. If you haven't you started this is a great time to dive in. ABOUT STEFANOS SIFANDOS He is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential and to each other. Stefanos’ philosophy merges the best of Eastern and Western methodologies to promote spiritual balance and empower people in life and love. From trauma release to navigating the at times murky waters of modern masculinity to helping women understand the men in their lives, he helps people escape negative patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self. Stefanos has also cofounded a world-class coaching and education institute and a global men’s empowerment movement. CONNECT WITH STEFANOS Website: https://stefanossifandos.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandos/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stefanossifandosalchemist WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [4:10] How parenting gives you a new perspective on life. [6:57] How to handle the responsibility of parenthood? [18:01] Why do men always seek their parent's approval? [23:33] How to cultivate trust? [34:45] Why does money make us feel worthy? [37:50] Healing your relationship with money [40:17] Benefits of inner child work. [50:03] How to develop a practice or relationship with grace [52:38] Where to find Stefanos If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Folks, In this episode I give you three of my favorite tools to take you from civilized to UNcivilized. I’m not going to tell you what they are here, you’re just going to have to listen to the episode! I’ve also got an announcement for you at the end so please listen all the way through and share this with one man in your life for me. Yours UNcivilized, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Get your hands on an UNcivilized Journal  Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Did you know that the lack of connection can lead us to depression, addiction, infidelity, and even a midlife crisis? A society that celebrates function has forced hundreds of men to think logically, suppressing their emotions and sweeping them under the rug. What we do not know is that this is an error that later in life, it will be difficult for us to solve. In this episode, we will be joined by Elise Micheals. She is a mental health coach for men, and perhaps you may think that she doesn't know how to help men because she is a woman. Elise's knowledge about men and her point of view is impressive — I even took out some golden nuggets from this conversation. With Elise, we will talk about trauma, connection, disconnection, and how the latter affects us in our lives and relationships. We will dive into the midlife crisis and how to prevent it from affecting us. ABOUT ELISE MICHEALS Men's mental health coach. She helps clients heal subconscious trauma, improving the quality of their relationships, lives, and business. With her own exploration of trauma therapy, relationship science, neuroscience, NLP, and therapy of her own, she was able to pinpoint the cycles and behaviors that ultimately always led to her demise. Now she helps men, as many men are silenced when it comes to emotions. This causes their struggles to be compounded and makes it even more difficult to process. CONNECT WITH ELISE Website: https://www.elisemicheals.com/about Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisemicheals_/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:04 Who's Elise Micheals. [4:16 Why do most men suffer a midlife crisis? [5:46] Elise's Story. [7:23] How to avoid a midlife crisis? [11:05] Why do men have a hard time expressing emotions? [13:14] How do childhood traumas affect our adulthood? [15:23] The importance of connection. [21:10] Why do men find it difficult to understand the idea of pouring back into themselves? [25:30] The illusion of control. [31:34] How self-connection helps us to have better relationships and change our environment. [41:10] What should men know about other men? [42:57] Where to find Elise? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Here's the episode on relationships I mentioned. Men in Relationships with Duey Freeman and Michael Gay Podcast Episode Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this solo episode I dive head first into uncharted relationship waters, first talking about why there’s so much shame thrown on men who are single by choice. I then tackle what I think is the REAL relationship issue — the standard relationship paradigm doesn’t work with the male nervous system. This episode is bound to upset a lot of people, be warned. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Here's the episode on relationships I mentioned. Men in Relationships with Duey Freeman and Michael Gay Podcast Episode Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

As children, our lives and decisions were driven by the wishes and dreams that our caregivers placed upon us. However, everything changes when we grow up and start to make decisions on our own. We become the drivers of our future, so at some point, it is important to ask ourselves: what do I want to do with my life? In this episode, we will be joined by Alex Weber, a man with an interesting biography. When you press play, today you will hear a story about how the decisions we make can lead us to live the greatest moments of our life. Remember, we only live one. ABOUT ALEX WEBER He is an International Keynote Speaker on Leadership and Peak Performance, a competitor on American Ninja Warrior, and an Award-Winning Entertainer for NBC, and more! CONNECT WITH ALEX Website: www.imalexweber.com Instagram: @imalexweber WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:05] Whos Alex Weber [9:40] A coach that makes a difference. [12:50] From coaching to American Ninja Warrior. [19:23] Know when to walk away. [24:31] How did you start with men's work? [27:51] What are the most difficult issues that men deal with today? [30:01] The importance of having daily practice. [36:44] What do you want to do with your moments on earth? [38:46] Connect with Alex. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us for The Awakening, a seven day retreat Dec 27, 2022 - Jan 3, 2023 that will change your life forever Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this solo episode, I take a listener’s challenge he’s having in his relationship and dive into it. He had found that he and his wife were in a pattern of ending the day sitting on the coach, watching tv night after night. They weren’t talking, they weren’t connecting and they weren’t having sex. This is an episode for anyone in a relationship or anyone who plans to be in a relationship! Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

This former gang member sentenced to 24 years in prison is the perfect example of how transformation exists if we feel supported and heard. Today's guest is Eldra Jackson. At just 14 years old, Eldra was convicted of a series of gang violence crimes. Locked up in prison, he had to live alone with his mind due to the environment around him until the Inside Circle community gave him the opportunity to transform himself. Eldra, who is the Co-executive Director of the aforementioned non-profit community, teaches incarcerated, former, and young people to achieve self-acceptance. He says self-awareness is capable of great things within us. Listen to this magnificent story of overcoming and healing, where a man “found freedom in a life sentence.” ABOUT ELDRA JACKSON Writer, speaker, and advocate for at-risk youth, criminal justice rehabilitation, community building, and overcoming toxic masculinity. As a living example of successful rehabilitation and re-entry, his life's work now — as a facilitator, trainer, and mentor — includes actively supporting others in overcoming their limiting beliefs. CONNECT WITH ELDRA Website: www.insidecircle.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InsideCircleOrg/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:38] Who's Eldra Jackson? [5:46] The feeling after the verdict. [7:53] Prison survival plan. [9:04] The most challenging part of being in prison. [11:10] How to deal with loneliness in prison. [12:00] The positive consequence of being in prison. [13:03] The Inside Circle job and how this community changed his life. [22:21] Finding freedom in prison. [27:33] What is life like after prison? [30:34] How healing circles can change lives. [34:00] What can society do to help the incarcerated? [46:08] Current generation VS. the previous ones. [48:44] Where are we going as a society? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

This solo episode is inspired by another Instagram question I got about how to navigate the loss of marriage when your spouse suddenly ups and leaves and dives right into a brand new relationship. While I hope this never happens to you, if it does, here are some ways to cope with the loss and move powerfully forward. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

There is a belief that the first responders are broken after their service. Although it is not entirely untrue—since some suffer from PTSD—there is always room to heal. Today's guest is Tom Gaines, a man passionate about serving and helping others. This led him to serve as a military and special force for several years. In this episode, Tom will be talking about service and the importance of aligning your values ​​with those of the organizations you work for or serve. Furthermore, we will dive into the challenges that come with being a man in today's society, and the feeling of loneliness for first responders. You're not alone. There are always people willing to help you. ABOUT TOM GAINES The son of a military father, Tom studied history at the University of Tennessee. At 17, he was an army officer, taking him to serve in Iraq and Naples, Italy. In 2014, he studied special operations, a position he continues doing to this day. CONNECT WITH TOM WHAT YOU WILL HEAR. [2:25] Who's Tom Gaines? [8:42] Is there a mental preparation to be outside the wire? [11:47] The importance of managing your emotions as a military person. [16:45] How does not having control over decisions affect us? [20:00] The power of values. [32:24] The unintended challenges of belonging to the special forces. [36:34] The current challenges we face as men. [40:35] Finding a middle ground between the primal and the divine. [43:05] The importance of learning to heal. [48:32] Connect with Tom. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

This episode is inspired by an Instagram message I got asking how I built a powerful network of amazing male friends. It’s not lost on me that many men suffer from a lack of friendship, or are dissatisfied with the depth they have with their friend group. I count myself as extremely fortunate to have the circle I do. In this episode I dive into ways that men can build and maintain deep friendships with other men. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Men and relationship are often considered to be like oil and water, but why is that? When I asked my audience what questions they have as men, and for men, about relationship challenges — my inbox was flooded. For this special episode of the podcast, we recorded a live call with over 100 people in attendance and took questions from the audience about how men can be more successful in relationship and how people in relationships with men can better understand them. Hang on to your hat for this one! Cheers, Traver ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Loving his partner and desiring another woman; the duality of men. According to Sigmund Freud's theory named The Madonna-whore Complex, there can be no love in man's desire and vice versa. To discuss and dive better into this psychological complex, the sex and relationship coach, Jamie Elizabeth Thompson, will join us in this episode. You will learn how to communicate your desires as a couple, why men suffer from this complex, and how to solve it. Could any man in the world love and desire his partner at the same time? Let's hear what Jaime has to say. ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. ABOUT JAMIE ELIZABETH THOMPSON Jamie helps high-caliber people to navigate intimate desires and differences with loving, open communication. She believes people deserve to be completely met, deeply connected, and profoundly satisfied in their relationship and sex life. CONNECT WITH JAMIE Website: https://awakenedwoman.life/paths/erotic-muse/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticsexcoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/missjamieelizabeth WHAT YOU'LL HEAR [2:55] Who's Jamie Thompson [4:18] What does embodying our erotic expression mean? [8:23] Celebrate your desires while respecting your partner's. [16:22] What's the Madonna-whore Complex? [26:22] Why does this complex prevent you from sexually desiring your partner? [30:27] Does this complex also exist in men? [39:02] How does this complex play out in relationships? [43:24] How do personal differences affect relationships? [50:31] How to connect with Jamie? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

 This is a major block for so many men — and it shouldn’t be. Doing personal work, growth work, and/or healing work is the furthest thing from selfish. In fact, it’s the opposite. The stronger and healthier you make yourself, the more you can provide and guide those around you. In this quick and dirty solo episode, I dive into all of this. If it lands, please share it with one man in your life. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this extraordinary episode, The UNcivilized Nation Elder Council, Duey Freeman and Mark Sylvester chime in live from the Uncivilized Men’s Initiation where they share their journey as fathers, grandfathers, healers, businessmen, and elders. They also field questions directly from the men at the event. This is one of the most profound conversations I’ve ever heard in my life and is a must listen. If you’re a human, you need to listen to this episode. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Imagine growing up with the talent of teaching and advising your parents from a very young age; this is the story of today's guest, Jayaji. An unusual story and life. It all started when his mother's psychic friend predicted his future at first sight. After many years, that vision became a reality because today, Jayaji is a yoga teacher and spiritual guide. From Australia to Guatemala, he still has a long way to go and hundreds of people to guide. Don't miss Jayaji's story! I'm sure you're going to love it. ABOUT JAYAJI Founder of Sound Ceremony, Jayā Saraswatī, Floresta Atitlan, and co-owner of the Yoga Forest. Author of more than five published books and two hymns (medicine hymn books). CONNECT WITH JAYAJI Website: https://linktr.ee/jayajii Instagram: @jayajii WHAT YOU'LL HEAR [3:14] Who's Jayaji. [4:50] Influenced by music and new age culture. [9:24] Thinking outside the box. [11:05] Where does true spiritual awakening come from? [16:00] Marrying music and spirituality. [23:04] The challenges of moving to a foreign country. [29:20] The relationship with the word practice. [37:30] A healthy relationship with our emotions. [40:07] Contemplating what it means to exist in the world as a man. [45:28] The male and female roles in marriage. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this episode Duey Freeman, Michael Gay and I sit down and break down what we learned after four intense days with 30 men in a workshop. We dive into the power of loneliness and the intense ways it affects men. We chat about the necessity of having a relationship with the land under your feet and how so many men truly do want to be better partners and fathers. And how all of this gets shifted, understood, and deepened when men work together, in person. If you’re a man, you need to listen to this episode. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this solo episode I break down why every man needs to have a physical training regimen. From running to lifting weights to Jiu Jitsu, it matters little. What matters most is that each man understands it is his RESPONSIBILITY to be in shape, strong and capable. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join the Nation, registration is open now, AND it closes today. JOIN HERE Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

The brain and a computer are light years apart from being the same. It is true that both store data, process information, and perform tasks. However, although technology tries to simulate the human intelligence processes, the human brain has proven to be better adapted than any computer could. To dive into this topic, today we will be joined by the Story Science Professor, Angus Fletcher. Angus is a man curious about the human brain and how it works. His research led him to discover how history can help us to be tougher, capable, and to have courage. During this episode, we talked about chaos, growth, attitude change, and initiative-taking. In addition, we will also be talking about the brain as a machine and why it is superior to computers, a topic worth listening to. Don't miss this episode! ABOUT ANGUS FLETCHER Angus Fletcher is Professor of Story Science at Ohio State's Project Narrative. His research with teams in US Special Operations, Silicon Valley, and the Healthcare Community explains why children are more creative than AI, how to adapt and overcome in fast-changing chaotic environments, and how to more effectively treat grief, burnout, and trauma. CONNECT WITH ANGUS Website: https://www.angusfletcher.co/ Email: [email protected] WHAT YOU’LL HEAR [4:37] Who's Angus Fletcher? [6:32] Why is the human brain superior to a computer? [10:08] Why are stories so captivating for us? [14:15] How to reduce the rate of depression and anxiety in the male population? [17:12] How to create a relationship with chaos? [21:08] What to do to get out of burnout? [24:25] Human beings and their relationship with the divine. [26:20] How stories can help the military? [33:57] What must I do to be successful? [36:00] How to break the patterns? [41:19] Creating a daily practice. [44:48] How to manage isolation? [48:07] More information about Angus. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join the Nation, registration opens today. JOIN HERE Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

There’s a single line in Robert Bly’s Iron John that grabbed me. “The activity men were once loved for is no longer required.” In this solo episode I look at both sides of the argument for this notion, ending on how Covid and the recent shifts in the world have made men even more needed and our activities even more worthy of celebration. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

From college poet to best-selling author. Today's guest is Sylvester McNutt, surely you have heard of him, and if not, in today's episode, you will meet the renowned author of 9 books who is soon to release his tenth. Sylvester's story shows us how taking leaps of faith can change our lives. Today we will hear how our guest went from being a college poet and working at corporate America to becoming a writer. His story, like many, has ups and downs, where alcohol was his worst enemy. In this episode, Sylvester will talk about self-improvement, self-love, chasing your dreams, and working for them. Also, the parenting challenges that he faces as an all-around person. Press play, and don't miss the little preview of Sylvester's next book. ABOUT SYLVESTER MCNUTT Sylvester McNutt III is an 8x bestselling author, podcaster, public speaker, course creator, and father. Sylvester teaches people how to transform their mindsets through self-awareness and healing practices. Website: www.sylvestermcnutt.net Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxm--uPDTeyhgenYFLiX-VA WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:38] Who's Sylvester? [12:27] From love letters to manuscripts. [18:41] The leap of faith: his first book publication. [26:20] Establishing himself as a writer. [29:16] Sylvester talks about his ninth and tenth books. [32:09] Facing the new challenges of parenthood. [41:48] The positive consequence of having a child. [44:10] Parenting advice. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In my work with Nice Guys, many of them express a deep desire to be taken more seriously as a man. While this may seem like an elusive goal, completely dependent on the whims of the outside world, it is not. In this solo episode I dive into the ways you can immediately begin to shift how the world sees you, by shifting how you see yourself. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

Spending seventeen days at sea, surrounded by sharks, is an interesting way to start a healing journey. When we see successful people, it is almost impossible to imagine that they had a tough life—today's guest is one of them. Damien Rider grew up in a poor and abusive home. Despite having a difficult childhood, he decided to move on and leave his past behind. Today, he is an athlete who loves to participate in challenges that test his physical and mental strength while supporting the cause close to his heart. In this episode, we will hear about Damien's life and his experiences as an athlete. Also, he will share how the seventeen-day paddling challenge changed his life forever and was the beginning of new adventures. Don't miss this inspiring episode. ABOUT DAMIEN RIDER Damien Rider is a multiple world-record-holding Adventure & Extreme Sports Athlete, Author, Creator of One Breath Meditation, and Global Motivational Speaker. Recognized for his International humanitarian work and physical feats, with two feature documentaries aired on National Geographic, and as a speaker in TED talks in the Asia Pacific and the United States. His work and dedication have led him to become a globally respected Wellness and Mindset Coach. Always finding the positive in every situation in life, he has an undeniable resilience to keep moving forward. He continues to challenge himself, discovering what is possible mentally and physically and sharing his discoveries with others along the way. CONNECT WITH DAMIEN www.damienrider.com, www.OBMlearning.com WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:29] Who's Damien Rider? [8:12] An abusive childhood. [21:18] A life-changing challenge. [25:32] How was spending seventeen days in the sea? [30:40] Dealing with the thoughts. [34:19] A new perspective on life. [47:13] What motivates Damien to continue doing challenges? [1:00:00] What's next? [1:04:28] Piece of advice for people in the midst of a life transition. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized