In This Episode You Will Learn About: How Alexa got into wrestling How Alexa recovered from eating disorders How Alexa creates safe boundaries for herself and deals with online bullying Alexa’s plans for her future   Resources: Instagram: @alexa_bliss_wwe_ Twitter: @AlexaBliss_WWE The Bliss Project 2020 Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course   Show Notes: Today my guest on the show is professional wrestler Alexa Bliss. Alexa watched wrestling growing up, then competed as a bodybuilder while she was recovering from eating disorders. Although she got a lucky break to become a wrestler she says really she was training for it her whole life because she’s been in athletics since she was five. In this conversation we talk about online bullying, handling out of control situations and pushing yourself to achieve your goals. What I learnt from interviewing Alexa is that the basic mindset and principles are the same exact across the board, no matter what your dream is. I don't care if you want to start a business. I don't care if you want to be an entrepreneur. I don't care if you want to be a WWE superstar. It is all the same mindset and belief in yourself and connection to other people.   Question Highlights: How did you become a professional wrestler? How did you integrate recovering from eating disorders into your fitness journey?   How do you keep a safe boundary for yourself mentally when you're in the public eye all the time?   What keeps you going in those moments where you don't think there's anything left?   What do you hope teenage girls get from seeing you?   Guest Bio: Alexa has been a driven competitor her entire life, excelling especially in gymnastics and eventually becoming a Division I cheerleader. Alexa even entered the world of competitive bodybuilding, where she became one of the youngest competitors to receive her IFBB Professional status. With such an incredible athletic background, it’s little wonder that Alexa quickly became one of NXT’s most dangerous Superstars. Although she never captured the NXT Women’s Title, she was a constant threat.   When she joined SmackDown LIVE, Alexa ascended to the top by becoming a two-time SmackDown Women's Champion. Then she made history at WWE Payback, becoming the first Superstar to win both the SmackDown Women's Title and the Raw Women's Title.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations How to “plant” the right feelings so you reap the benefits later How to dismiss negative thoughts and excuses How failures can help you to succeed How dreams come with problems that you need to solve How you need to take your pain and transform it into your purpose   Resources: The Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: I get so many questions and messages from aspiring or beginning entrepreneurs and people who want to start living their purpose. The truth is we're all in different places and it really is just about falling in love with the process. I’m starting a new business right now and even if it doesn’t succeed, I know I was meant to do it. In this episode I talk about how to stop feeding negativity and “plant” positive thoughts so you nourish your ideas and your gifts and can reap the benefits later. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How fear and pain are a necessary part of uplevelling Making the mundane magical Overcoming self-doubt The need to be around people who are striving for similar things Listening to your inner guide Minding your mental space Overcoming judgement of others Not downsizing your dreams   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about overcoming self-doubt and judgement of others plus how to embrace being in your 30s. Your assignment for this week is to make up a fantasy in your mind - what if your dreams came true in the best and biggest way possible? What would that look like?    Review of the Week:Tayneub: Lori and Evans, y'all are my SOUL SOOTHERS! So grateful for this podcast. I look forward to my morning walk everyday because I know I get to spend it with you. Much love xoxo Question 1:@ivriymIs there anything that you want to overcome currently? Question 2:@rachu04How to avoid negative feelings of people in my own mind? Question 3:@evelaceymusicJust turned 30, what would you have wished someone told you to start (or stop) by 30? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s mastermind, Fast Foundations Why Christina, Cassie and Jim joined Fast Foundations Fears people experience when they’re starting out Lessons we can learn from wall-kicking moments Playing the long game The true value of masterminds   Resources: Fastfoundations.com becomealigned.com decideitsyourturn.com Instagram: @bechristina wanderlustskulls.com Instagram: @wanderlustskulls Jimcarter.me Instagram: @causehacker   Show Notes: In this episode my husband Chris joins me to interview three amazing humans from the first round of our mastermind, Fast Foundations. Listen in to find out how Christina, Cassie and Jim have used the mastermind to grow, both personally and in a business sense. What’s fascinating to me is that all our mastermind participants have completely diverse businesses, but they support each other so much and have created such amazing relationships. We are currently filling our second round of fast foundation so if you’re ready to change your life, apply now.  Question Highlights: What's your long term vision for your brand and what is your goal that scares you? What is the best piece of advice or inspiration that you have for entrepreneurs at the beginning of their journey? What made you join Fast Foundations?   Guest Bio: Christina Lecuyer of Decide It's Your Turn is a former professional golfer turned mindset life coach. Cassie Everson of Wanderlust Skulls is an artist who creates modern art pieces out of buffalo and longhorn skulls. Jim Carter III of Cause Hack is a long-time programmer who now coaches organizations and entrepreneurs of all sizes on their technology. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Chris and Lori’s Fast Foundations Mastermind How confidence is formed through taking action How confidence is at odds with people pleasing  How confidence goes against our survival instincts  How scheduling time to take action is so important How you do not have time for drama It’s okay for people not to like you as long as you speak and act with love   Resources: Fast Foundations Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes:   Today’s episode is all about confidence. When you move forward with the attitude of “I am that bitch”, it doesn't mean that you're full of yourself, it doesn't mean that you don’t like other people or that you think you're better than someone, it means that you realize that you are literally made of God energy, you are made of what the universe is made of and you cannot die with the thing you’re meant to do trapped inside of you. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting past fear and taking action Why being nice will get you further being mean What you should do when you feel your boss doesn’t respect you If you are attracting the same type of jerky boss over and over, there is a lesson in that for you How to tell if your goals are authentically yours How pain is a driver for change Not overanalyzing your goals How to stay out of your own head when meeting new people Giving yourself grace to screw up and say stupid things when you’re nervous How being sad is part of being human   Resources:   Read: The Execution Factor: The One Skill that Drives Success   Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about what to do you feel your boss doesn’t respect you, how to tell if your goals are authentically yours and how to stay out of your own head when you’re meeting new people.   Review of the Week:Aprill_Nicholee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Seriously just listened to the “earthquake” episode. I never laughed so hard. You both are awesome and make my day. I look forward to new episodes. I’m glad you're safe and I will always keep one in the chamber 💨 Question 1: @shannonbierek My boss doesn't respect me and I'm completely unappreciated. Should I quit my job?   Question 2: @wee_lass_in_a_big_life How do I tell if my goals are really what I want or just me trying to prove people wrong?   Question 3: @nourishedwolf When meeting potential new friends, any tips for staying out of your head and connecting? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What scientific studies are revealing about spirituality How to find fulfillment Asking for guidance The power of surrender Using a God box to solve your problems Keeping your vibe high Finding your soul correction and soul contribution   Resources: Learn more: annayusim.com Learn more: successiblelife.com Read: Fulfilled Instagram: @annayusim Learn more: becomealigned.com Learn more: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today my guest on the podcast is Anna Yusim. Anna is a nationally recognized psychiatrist, speaker and author with a private practice in New York City. After spending so much time studying and working with science, Anna felt there was something missing in her life so she set out to find it. She traveled, lived and worked in over 50 countries while studying Kabbalah, learning Buddhist meditation and working with South American shamans and Indian gurus. Her life goal for many years now has been to figure out how science and spirituality work hand in hand. And that's ultimately what led her to write her book, Fulfilled: The Science of Spirituality and How it Can Help You Live a Happier, More Meaningful Life. In this episode she shares with us her fundamental truths around fulfillment.   Also learn about my Become Aligned course. The reason why my husband Chris and I created this course is because we get asked so many questions on how we started living the life that we live now, a life of happiness, of abundance, of really understanding that life is always full of problems every single day, but there's always a solution. In the course we cover everything from mindset to the rituals that we do every single day. We talk about different energy sources, we talk about your purpose, what that actually means and how it's always changing. We show you how to build a tribe to support where you're going. And we talk about wealth, abundance, money, all of the good things, and how to sustain them. Question Highlights: I want to know how science and spirituality work hand in hand. What is a really good starting place for people to start unpacking that? How does spirituality change your brainwaves? What is it about being fulfilled for you that made you want to write about this whole topic? What is your main false sense of fulfillment? And how did you figure out what was true for you? Is there something that you're surrendering right now? And what exactly is the narrative in your brain when you are releasing or letting go of something or offering it up? What does living in your purpose mean? Can your purpose change? How do we know when it changes? What are the fundamental truths that you have found around fulfillment for you?   Guest Bio: Dr. Anna Yusim is an award-winning, nationally recognized psychiatrist, speaker and author with a private practice in New York City. She is also a lecturer at Yale’s Psychiatry Department. After working as a neurobiology researcher with Dr. Robert Sapolsky Ph.D and completing studies at Stanford, Yale and NYU, Dr. Yusim felt that something was missing from her life. In her quest to find it, she traveled, lived and worked in over 50 countries while studying Kabbalah, learning Buddhist meditation and working with South American shamans and Indian gurus. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why you should come to The Bliss Project in March 2020 Pain is the way we learn and expand We experience pain when we are not living our purpose If we don’t transform our suffering, we transmit it to our families, our neighbours and our communities   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project 2020 Read: The Path Made Clear   Show Notes:   Today's podcast is inspired by the idea that pain is a valuable lesson. We experience a lot of pain when we don’t know the things we're put on the earth to do or we don’t know how to do them. If we don’t transform our suffering, we transmit your suffering to our families, our neighbors and even to our communities. So we have to start taking action on the things that we know we are meant to do. Also The Bliss Project is coming up in March 2020. I would love to see you all there. It is one of the most amazing things that I've ever gotten to do and participate in and it's your opportunity to meet some of the most epic women that you can possibly meet and be able to have them in your life as friends and business partners. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to reframe things that are causing us pain in life so we can see them as an opportunity for growth How to communicate effectively with your partner How to be a great leader by doing what you’re amazing at and letting other people shine in what they are amazing at   Resources:   Read: Start Where You Are   Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about acknowledging pain as an opportunity for growth, maintaining healthy romantic relationships and being in business with your romantic partner.   Review of the Week:RafSchObsessed with this podcastSo much love for Lori and Evans. I can't stop listening 🥰 Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful journey. Your souls shine, girl! ✨ Question 1: @finding_steadiness   You and Chris are relationship goals! What's your advice for a healthy relationship? Question 2: Melanie Oligeri I was recently listening to when you were on Ed Mylett’s podcast last year. At the end of the episode you were talking about how you and Chris used very different methods in business. He was more about finance/numbers/etc. and you were more of the soul work. My husband and I are both entrepreneurs and that sounds like the exact phase we are in. How did you figure it out and not take things personally when opinions clashed?   Question 3:   Samantha Montalbano   What are you most excited about in life right now? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Erica’s new book You Deserve The Truth Her goals for writing and marketing the book  Integrating faith, spirituality and development into all areas of your life Questioning the values you grow up with and changing your story Finding your purpose and life’s work Finding support when you’re not sure what you’re doing Measuring success by impact, not popularity   Resources: Read: You Deserve The Truth Instagram: @missewill Learn more: ericawilliams.com Listen: The Call Podcast Watch: The Assembly   Show Notes: Erica Williams Simon joins me to talk about the power of story and changing your life. She started her career in politics, policy and activism then took some time out and realized she also needed to talk about faith, love and money. On this episode we discuss stories that we learn growing up and how to forge new identities. We also cover how changing your story can trigger other people and how to deal with that. I can't wait for you to listen to this conversation because I literally fell in love with this woman.     Question Highlights: Were you nervous about your book coming out? What are some of the stories that you carried with you growing up? What do we do in the transition of flipping a story? What do we do when our circles are really against whatever it is that we're doing? What has been one of your biggest challenges in life? What was your story growing up around money? And how have you changed that?   Guest Bio: Erica Williams Simon has worked in and around the highest level of every change focus industry in America - politics, tech, media and faith. In the process she unlocked the truth about creating change in a culture hell bent on maintaining the status quo. From her days as a Washington insider all the way to the times at the creators lab at Snapchat, this preacher's daughter has spent her life inside and outside of major industries, driving the honest conversations that help a diverse generation ask critical questions, build fulfilling lives and change the world. She is the host of the popular podcast The Call, and co-host of The Assembly, a non traditional talk series. She’s also just released her first book, You Deserve The Truth. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why sitting in indecision will cost you money and your peace How to decide what you will honor, enforce and tolerate Why you shouldn’t say yes to most things straight away Why getting to solve problems is a blessing   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today’s episode is all about decision making. I have so many amazing women in my life right now who are having trouble with making tough decisions and feeling like their boundaries are getting crossed left and right. Our boundaries are getting crossed because we're tolerating things that do not serve our highest self. Listen up for a way to decide what you will honor, enforce and tolerate in your life and business. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Growth through solving problems The practicalities of launching a whole new business and rebranding yourself Dealing with social situations without alcohol Reframing whatever you are dealing with   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: Everything is Figureoutable Read: The Path Made Clear   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about taking action to get out of a stressful situation, staying connected to the things that matter to us, moving from one career to an entirely different one and dealing with social situations without alcohol.    Review of the Week:Emilia DavieAloha, Lori and Evans. I am writing in to send you a BIG THANK YOU from sunny Scotland. (Kidding, it's never sunny here...) But even when the rain is pouring down, your podcast never fails to brighten my day! At 21, I have just started my journey of "adulting" but listening to this podcast has been the most amazing and refreshing reminder that I don't have to give up loving myself and having fun just because society sometimes tells me to! I listen to you guys on my bike, at the gym, when i'm cuddling my dog...you name it! And I am always in stitches and LOVE hearing such great guidance that resonates with me each week!! You guys are cool, wanna be my friends? Stay glorious, Emilia.Question 1:@hannahtoliver I know you've spoken about this, how do you feel comfortable with yourself without alcohol?Question 2: @_kylie__smith In a highly stressful situation, what's your tool back to inner peace in the moment? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Bringing your personality into your writing Captivating your audience How to nail your unique brand personality Delivering value to your audience Creating profitable copy Speaking your audience’s language   Resources: Learn more: talkingshrimp.com Instagram: @talkingshrimpnyc Facebook: Talking Shrimp   Show Notes: Laura Belgray describes her zone of genius as writing in a way that gives other people permission to be who they are. I’ve been a big fan of hers since I came across her work in 2014 and I’m so excited to have her on the show. In this episode Laura gives golden and easy-to-implement tips for writing emails that will captivate your list, injecting your writing with personality and making your brand stand out. If you have any struggles around copywriting, you will not want to miss this conversation.  Question Highlights:   What is your zone of genius? And how did you discover it? If you’re thinking, wait, I would say this to my friend, but I'm afraid to say it to my list, what should you do?   How do you make your emails fresh and interesting?  Do you have tips to add personality to writing? How can you turn copy into something that is profitable?   Guest Bio: Laura Belgray, founder of Talking Shrimp and co-creator of The Copy Cure, is a copywriting expert who helps entrepreneurs find the perfect words to express and sell what they do. Through her work with hundreds of clients (including online biggies like Marie Forleo and Amy Porterfield) she’s seen first-hand that putting “you” into your copy is pure magic for getting people to love you up, share your ideas, and happily click your Buy button.    In addition to online types, Laura’s list of clients and credits include NBC, Bravo, HBO, TBS, Fandango, and many, many more. So if you watch TV and don’t skip the commercials, you just might see her words on air.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Asking yourself if you feel like you are expanding or contracting when you receive information What to do if you feel like your beliefs are being challenged Why it’s so important to take action and create your purpose Letting yourself be wrong if your ideas change Forgiveness   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Today I want to give you a set of questions that is going to give you a reference point for lots of decisions in your life that you can make for taking big leaps and making big decisions. These questions can even help determine who you want to hang around, who you want your mentors to be, what podcasts you want to listen to and what books you want to read. Something that I've been asking myself is, does this make me feel like I'm expanding or contracting? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Starting new ventures with something that looks like crap Trading services and networking when you don’t have any money to hire help Motivating your partner to join your growth journey Stirring up energy and attention in positive ways   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Listen: Soul Transformation with Gina Meyers Listen: Turn Your Hard Times Into Greatness   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about dads who take their daughters out for breakfast, taking imperfect action to start new ventures, getting your partner involved in self-development and stirring up energy and attention in positive ways. This week we’re also asking listeners to tag Evans and I in something new that you’re going to do this week or that you’re doing. You can tag us @loriharder and @ecradd.   Review of the Week:Ladybug9872Great Minds Rant AlikeThe first episode I listened to I was hearing what sounded like crazy banter between Lori and her sidekick partner Evans. I wasn’t sure this was for me. But I was now having fun because they were having so much fun. For some reason I kept listening, it’s been 5 months now, and I have gotten something out of each episode. I’m a few years older than Lori, and can totally relate to all of her music, TV, movie references to yesteryears. I shared three takeaways from the show with Sheri Salata on my IG, and I’ve never shared a show there before. Then, when I heard the episode called Turn your Hard Times Into Greatness, and Lori shared the anxious rant that runs in her head that keeps her from being present in every aspect of her life, I realized I love this podcast so much because I can relate. So many of us can. I’m not the only one saying the same rant to myself. Lori will give you tips on all aspects of Earning Your Happy, because she’s gone through this and is completely relatable. Listen up! Question 1: @lisalupo_ Without knowing all the "tricks" + having an assistant, how TF do you radically uplevel?   Question 2: @andreagreen94 How do you motivate your partner to start growing with you? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why Monique is so passionate about helping women live their purpose How she established boundaries and let other people take care of her when she was sick Speaking your truth in a way that allows you to maintain your relationships Showing up, even if you don’t feel you don’t have anything important to contribute yet   Resources: Instagram: @moniquebryan_co Twitter: @MoniquebryanTO Learn more: moniquebryan.com Learn more: The Bliss Project   Show Notes: Monique Bryan shows up in such a beautiful way. She is a speaker, a personal branding expert, a triple positive breast cancer survivor. She also helps successful women entrepreneurs package and sell their genius and unlock the lucrative world of personal brand building. Monique draws widespread admiration for her passion, hustle and unshakeable commitment to helping women showcase their expertise and pitch with confidence. She gave a Tribe Talk at the Bliss Project this year, and I’m so excited she could join me on the podcast to share her story with you all. Question Highlights:   What was your experience preparing for the Tribe Talk?    Was there any parts that you were like, ‘Oh, my God, if I don't share this, will they understand?’ What were the reminders that you had to tell yourself to get through cancer treatment?   How do you accept help or ask for help?   What does that first step of being able to speak your truth look like?   Guest Bio: Monique Bryan is based in Toronto and runs her own branding consultancy. Monique has a BA in Fashion Design from Ryerson University and spent time studying abroad in London at the University of Westminster.  Upon returning to Toronto, Monique landed a design position for national retailer Le Chateau and worked her way up to Product Manager for all of ladieswear, becoming the youngest executive at the company. She quickly learned the ins and outs of manufacturing and global sourcing from working with their partners across Asia. But it was her frequent trips to India where she discovered her love of jewellery design and in 2010 she launched a jewellery company, landing her line in retailers across Toronto and New York.  This began her crash course in entrepreneurship and where she discovered her true love for business and marketing. So, when she was offered a chance to head up an accelerator program helping entrepreneurs jump-start their business five years later, she jumped at the chance. Partnering with global brands such as Paypal, Burberry, and Toms Shoes, Monique thought she had found her calling. But before she had a chance to decide, she discovered a lump in her left breast that changed her life forever. Over the next year Monique underwent eight rounds of chemotherapy, surgery and 21 rounds of radiation, documenting the entire journey through her uncensored and very real account, on her blog, “Surprise, It’s Cancer!” Her blog was discovered by the writers at “Entrepreneur Magazine” and Monique was featured in the October issue in 2018. Today Monique has built a loyal following through her 10K + followers, speaks at events and conducts workshops while running her brand consultancy. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Supporting yourself when you have a vision Working out what you need to fulfill your vision Exhausting all possibilities for support Asking people to help you Setting yourself up to succeed   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: After last week’s episode where I talked about my emotional rollercoaster of late, I was blown away by the amount of people that said they were struggling too. I’m so happy that we have each other to go through this with. In today’s episode I talk about how important it is to learn how to support yourself when you have a vision because nobody else is going to be able to see that vision when it’s still in your head. So what do you need to do to fulfill your goals? What boundaries do you need to set and what help do you need to ask for? I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.  Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Changing things up when you feel stuck Marie Forleo’s upcoming book How to deal with “LA people” Having an abundance mindset while being responsible with your money   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Everything is Figureoutable Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about moving your energy around when you feel stuck, dealing with “LA people” and maintaining a mindset of abundance while also being responsible with your money.    Review of the Week: MyahJoJo“I seriously love the Q&A episodes You both are uplifting and motivating! Love listening at work to keep myself positive and feeling blessed."

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What to do when you hit rock-bottom How it’s important to be able to ask for help Making sure that the environment that you are in or creating for yourself is thriving How you need to show up for yourself every day   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Instagram: @ginaandsugar   Show Notes: I’m so excited to bring you this episode with the amazing Gina Meyers. Gina is a celebrity fitness instructor and motivational life coach in Los Angeles, California, where she has been changing lives for over a decade. On the show we talk about how Gina changed her life when she realized she was desperately unhappy and how she manages to show up every day, even when she’s not feeling it. Question Highlights:   How did you learn to create the SoulCycle experience for people?     What does it look like when you feel like you're failing? What were the thoughts going on in your head that you were like, I can't live this way anymore? How did you meet your husband? What is one of the biggest lessons that motherhood has taught you? What has being in a SoulCycle room just about every single day taught you? Why did you start racing cars? What is something that you are craving more of right now in your life?   Guest Bio: Originally from Cincinnati Ohio, Gina packed her bag and followed her childhood dream of being an actress when she moved to California in 1996. After years of auditioning for small parts on television shows, movies, and commercials, she realized that her passion was not in the entertainment industry. Instead, she found her calling in the early 2000s when she realized her true passion was helping others love themselves and feel good in their own skin. Gina’s fitness coaching career began as a yoga and spin instructor at a boutique studio in Venice, California. In 2012, Gina was recruited to be a founding Los Angeles instructor for SoulCycle. Previously only in New York City, Gina helped launch SoulCycle’s west coast venture. She personally helped open up four current Los Angeles studios: West Hollywood, Brentwood, Santa Monica, and Malibu. Recognized for her fitness following, in 2015 Gina became an ambassador for Lululemon Santa Monica and was promoted to Master Instructor at SoulCycle in 2017 as part of the first group of Master Instructors on the west coast. Gina’s passion is grounded in helping others feel their best. In Gina’s work, she not only motivates and inspires her clients to push their physical limits, but to also be mindful of their internal dialogue to create shifts in their perspective. Gina’s classes offer a safe space for individuals to explore their limits, challenge their minds and their bodies, and most importantly walk away feeling accomplished and successful. Gina strives to create meaningful connections and believes vulnerability and self-love are the foundation of a happy life. When not teaching or training, Gina is spending quality time with her husband, two dogs, and two year old son. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Reevaluating what’s important to you Accepting and loving people even what they’re not at their best, including yourself How indecision can be incredibly painful   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Jordan Dooley Dr. Morgan Francis   Show Notes: Another quickie because there's always time to find inspiration. This episode is all about being on the struggle bus. Right now I'm not feeling super clear. I'm not feeling super strong. And I think that these times are the times that make you reevaluate what's most important. I embrace all parts of me, tight and jiggly smooth and wrinkly, kind and prickly. Mistake and masterpiece exists perfectly inside of me. Failure guides my way. Hopefully this resonates, and I'm just excited to be on this journey with you. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Finding your tribe Moving through fear Waving your weirdo flag   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 The Path Made Clear Everything is Figureoutable The War of Art   Show Notes:Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about Marie Forleo’s upcoming book, Everything is Figureoutable, waving your weirdo flag to attract other people who are authentically themselves and how indecision is a terrible state to be in.   Review of the Week:   Liv Born @FavoriteJuggernauts I MEAN HOLY SH%$ WHERE HAVE LORI AND EVANS BEEN MY WHOLE LIFE?!!! I’ve seriously binged all the Q+A podcasts before I went to any other ones...y’all make me laugh so hard and i wanna be you both when i grow up. Sorry that was weird, but you guys are awesome and thanks for making me laugh and learn so much.   Question 1: Samantha HoweI am at a transitioning time in my life, finishing up my degree, working full-time and raising two beautiful kiddos, and over the last 3 years I’ve been on a personal journey to find my passion and to heal myself and I’ve noticed I’ve lost a lot of “friends” in this process. I don’t find myself sad about losing them but do you believe that it’s all part of the process of finding oneself? Like true friends would stick with me and the others fall off because of whatever reason? I’d love to hear what you think. I’m on the search for my tribe and I cannot settle until I find them.   Question 2: @mrs.swarlos New opportunity is just around the corner. How do I lean into it without tripping myself up? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Finding your own creative process How Monique sacrificed the safety and security of the path most taken to truly find fulfillment in her individual purpose and unique gifts How creating art for yourself frees you from worrying about how others perceive it How to connect with an audience by inviting them to breathe with you Creating mentors for yourself Finding the right support Implementing fun as a non-negotiable in your work Understanding the need to rest and gather inspiration Maintaining your creative control How to get past your own stories and ask for what you need   Resources: Learn more: Monique’s Facebook Instagram: @moniquebenabou Watch: Monique’s YouTube Support: Monique’s GoFundMe   Show Notes: Monique Benabou creates music and magic on her own terms. In this episode Monique and I go deep into how to create your own authentic pathway and connect with the people who need you. Make sure you share this episode with anyone that you know is feeling called to something bigger, feeling like they're having trouble getting something out in the world, feeling judged or feeling comparison. Question Highlights: What's your relationship with procrastination and periods of lull in your work? When did you discover that you needed to be expressing yourself through music? How do you know what to expect when you're pulling a vision through into reality? What would you say to the you of even two years ago? I know that one of the hardest things for you was you started a GoFundMe account. Can you tell me about that process? You're in a super fast interaction with someone, but it's a total stranger. And it's only 30 seconds and they look at you and they say, how can I make myself happy? What do you say?   Guest Bio: After her worldwide debut on season two of The Voice and many years in the pop music industry, Monique Benabou decided to shift her focus from the mainstream to her own unique path of conscious music creation and healing arts. Her mission on the planet is to bring reliability, authenticity and joyfulness to the world through music and storytelling and a little hood humor. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Making decisions instantly and moving forward without regret How even bad decisions give us valuable feedback How joining a mastermind can help you take massive action How when you live in your purpose, God and the Universe have your back How you have to decide what kind of life you want   Resources: Healing the Wounds of Trauma Mastermind The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: In this episode I talk about how you have to decide RIGHT NOW! Indecision is killing your life and there’s no time for it. When you fail to make decisions straightaway, you create more work for yourself and you stop yourself from moving forward.   What’s worse is that you stop yourself from getting valuable feedback. I promise that even if you have made the wrong decision, the feedback you’ll get will be invaluable. When you live in purpose and act with love, God and the Universe have your back. So decide what kind of life you want to live, take one step at a time and be fully alive. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What a flock of unicorns is actually called How to develop confidence in a new situation How to keep your vibes high Simplifying your morning routine for travel   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Fast Foundations Amy Cuddy on Ted.com   Show Notes:Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about how to develop your confidence at a new job, keeping your vibes high and simplifying your morning routine for travel. Also finally learn what a flock of unicorns is called!   Review of the Week: girlonfireeeeeeeeeeee The most life changing podcast ever! I absolutely love listening to Lori and Friends (Evans, Chris and yes, I even LOVE Waffles!) Her podcasts have spoken to me. As a broke college student who works two jobs, these podcasts have made me smile, belly laugh (Q&A) and also cry with emotion when things just really speak to me. I listen while doing homework, at work, and while working out. I recommend this podcast and if I could give more than 5 stars I absolutely would. Thank you, Lori! Question 1: @goodvibeschelsea “How do you gain confidence in yourself at a new job, when you doubt yourself constantly?”   Question 2: @_kelsey_thomas_ What's the best way to ramp up energy and keep showing up being high vibe?   Question 3: @jractrempe What's your morning routine? Do you still do it during travel? Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Why Sheri felt called to write a book Moving out of thoughts that aren’t working positively for you Having a dream come true life + career Putting together the Sherri program How to shift your identity and create newness later in life Detaching from external opinions Sherri’s two key pieces of advice The beautiful “no” in Sherri’s life How to say clear no’s Going through the pillars of your life   Resources: Learn more: thepillarlife.com ; thebeautifulno.com Instagram: @sherisalata ; @thepillarlife Listen: The Sheri + Nancy Show ; EYH Ep. 211 Read: The Beautiful No   Show Notes: Sheri Salata is BACK! I am so excited for this episode not only because I love talking with Sheri, but because we are talking about her brand new book, The Beautiful No. If you don’t know her, Sheri is the cohost of the wildly popular podcast, The Sheri + Nancy Show; she’s also the cofounder of the inspirational lifestyle brand, The Pillar Life. Sheri is an absolute powerhouse, and this conversation is one you do not want to miss!   Question Highlights:   Why did you feel the need to write a book now? What does the journey of trust actually feel like? What do you ask yourself to make sure you’re truly living your life?   How did you start shifting your identity? What do you do to detach from external opinions? Do you have any struggles around creating boundaries? What would you say to those dealing with anxiety in their everyday life?   Guest Bio: Sheri Salata is a writer/producer, cofounder of the inspirational lifestyle brand, The Pillar Life, and cohost of the podcast The Sheri + Nancy Show. Her current ventures are the evolution of her 20-year career with Oprah Winfrey. Her action-packed days as Executive Producer of The Oprah Winfrey Show were chronicled in the acclaimed docuseries Season 25: Oprah Behind the Scenes. Sheri also served as Co-President of Harpo Studios and OWN, the Oprah Winfrey Network. She has been named one of Fast Company’s 100 Most Creative People in Business, The Hollywood Reporter’s Women in Entertainment Power 100 and the 2017 Feminist Press Power Award winners. Sheri’s new memoir, The Beautiful No and Other Tales of Trial, Transcendence and Transformation, is out now. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Don’t judge the moment Practicing in the hard moments Being present The importance of gratitude   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Learn more: jayshetty.me   Show Notes: Last night we had an amazing guest speak during Chris’s mastermind. The amazing Jay Shetty spoke and answered questions during dinner, and he offered so many incredible takeaways that I knew I had to share with you today! It’s so easy to get deep into the strategy of your business, and forget what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Balancing personal relationships while building relationships Working through mediocre jobs Following your curiosities   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about balancing personal relationships while building a business, working through a mediocre job, and following your curiosities.   Review of the Week:   @emma_fleuette “This podcast has truly improved my everyday mindset and mental health since I started listening a few months ago. The quickie about choosing what you really want and loving yourself literally had me in tears. I didn't know I needed to hear it until Lori told me! I also love listening to Lori and Evans every week - it literally feels like having a conversation with two amazing friends!! Thank you for inspiring and uplifting me and others every day!!!!”   Question 1: @courtbogs “Early on in your journey, how did you balance personal relationships along with your daily grind and businesses? I’m kind of the workaholic in our group and I can tell that they’re starting to get annoyed by some of the comments they make. I don’t want to upset the people closest to me, but I also know I need to start to follow this tugging on my heart telling me to chase this company?”   Question 2: @amandaibarkley “Lori and Evans! I'm a college student, how do I get through working a mediocre job?”   Question 3: @megreynolds18 “I know there's something bigger for me, I just don't know what it is. What do you do?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The experience of writing two books + the differences for Natalie What it’s like when ego comes up strongly in her life How critical mindset is Age stages and debunking false ideas around them Declaring what you want and creating a vision Deciding what you want and determining if you actually want it Speaking directly to who want to talk to The mental work to do before you change your diet + lifestyle Creating more space for herself   Resources: Learn more: www.nataliejillfitness.com Instagram: @nataliejillfit Listen: Leveling Up: Creating Everything from Nothing podcast ; EYH Ep. 10 Read: Aging In Reverse   Show Notes: I can’t wait for you to listen to today’s incredible episode with the amazing Natalie Jill! Natalie is a fat loss expert turned high performance coach, helping people all over the world reach their life, business, and health goals. She does this by empowering them to LEVEL UP, creating everything they want from nothing. Outside of her successful coaching platform, Natalie is also an author, and a fellow podcast host of the ever-so-popular show, Leveling Up: Creating Everything from Nothing. In our conversation today, Natalie and I talk about her brand new book, Aging In Reverse! Natalie reminds us that age truly does not matter, and that by taking away disempowering thoughts, we can do anything.   Question Highlights: What were the differences for each book writing experience that you’ve had? What was the transition of realizing you were still valuable outside of being a coach? How do you dissolve the idea of life being less than after a certain age? How do we change our state when our environment doesn’t reflect what we want yet? Is there anything in your mind that doesn’t feel possible and how are you trying to make that within reach? How do we mentally prepare to cut back on alcohol and foods that we’re used to consuming? How do you figure out what your next vision is? What do you desire more of?   Guest Bio: Natalie Jill is a Fat Loss Expert turned high performance coach. She helps people across the globe reach their health, business and life goals BY empowering them to level up and create everything from nothing. Natalie left a very successful career in corporate America to follow her passion with health and personal development. As a Licensed Master Sports Nutritionist, Fat Loss Expert, and functional fitness trainer; Natalie leveraged the power of the internet and in a short amount of time she was able to help hundreds of thousands of people worldwide step into their best version of themselves! In the process, she created a globally recognized brand with well over 2.5 million social media followers worldwide. She has has been recognized by Forbes and Greatist for a few years running as one of the top health and wellness influencers in the world. She is a best selling author and has now released her NEWEST BOOK “Aging in Reverse”. Natalie is also the creator and host of the top ranking podcast Leveling Up Creating Everything from Nothing. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What you need to live an extraordinary life The rise of the woman There is enough to go around Abundance is your obligation Financial ability The money LIE The giving secret   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Free training videos: fortheloveofmoney.com/free Money Principles   Show Notes: My trusty sidekick, my husband Chris, is joining me on today’s quickie! The two of us are talking about our experience at a conference we both spoke at recently– specifically on a topic that Chris spoke about. He has a way of speaking about money that makes people think, gets them excited, and helps them feel less uncertain. Today’s episode is filled with helpful tips and MUST hear advice– I can’t wait for you to listen! Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Expanding and creating abundance Craving connection Following your gut   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about creating abundance, craving connections, and what it’s like to actually follow your gut.   Review of the Week: @melysaalzbeta "I first saw Lori at an event in October 218 where she did amazing spoken word poem and sang bravely in front of a very large audience. I didn't know I liked spoke word! Shortly thereafter I began listening to her podcast-addictively. I've been listening almost daily ever since. I love Lori's realness, how she can be sophisticated well of wisdom, and/or a supergoof, and somehow pull it off superbly! Her episodes are like a three course meal. when I'm on limited time I go to her "Quickie" series like an appetizers. I've had more time or I really need to sink my teeth into something, her main course of interviewing extraordinary people is completely satisfying. And on the days where I just want to indulge and feel good I listen to her Q&A series with Evan for a delicious, sweet bite that brightens my day every time. My best days have included this podcast! Stay brave, stay real and I'm staying tuned."   Question 1 @malorieavaline “When did you fully step into your ability to create abundance without resistance?”   Question 2 @sumbum2 “What do you want more than anything right now?!”   Question 3 @tracygardnerfitness “How do you actually start following your gut feelings for big decisions/changes?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About:   Diving deep into personal development with her coach Amelia’s experience at The Bliss Project Rituals of taking pressure off of herself before stepping into a leadership role Leaving a toxic relationship and self-medicating to numb The altered messages that Amelia learned as a child Being in “sugar baby” relationships Hitting rock bottom and developing a relationship with God Pushing things away + being viscously defensive What integration means to Amelia Amelia’s money story that continued to show up What daily fear feels like and how Amelia is facing it Setting intentions and releasing from the outcome   Resources: Learn more: stokedyogi.com Instagram: @stoked_yogi Listen: Rise to Thrive Podcast   Show Notes: I am SO excited for today’s episode because I sat down with Amelia Travis, a yoga teacher with over 500 hours of education, a writer, speaker, business coach, and the founder of Stoked Yogi. After breaking her back in a surfing accident, Amelia realized that life is too short to do anything but what you love - our dreams exist for a reason. Her daily mission is to love people and help them activate their highest potential. Amelia and I met at The Bliss Project, and I am so grateful that our paths crossed! This episode is sure to leave you feeling inspired to take action in your own life, and transform your negative script into one of pure passion.   Question Highlights: What do you do to take some pressure off before you lead? Why did you lean on crutches, like drugs, to numb yourself? What made you take a first step out of the numbing lifestyle? Does the theme of pushing things away still come up for you now? What kind of work are you doing around passing the tests of life? What does daily fear feel like for you?   Guest Bio: Amelia Travis is an E-RYT 500, writer, speaker, and business coach. As the founder of Stoked Yogi, she’s impacted thousands of lives through yoga education programs, stand up paddle and surf experiences, and women’s empowerment retreats. The journey to an empowered life was a long and winding road. Body dysmorphia, people pleasing and perfectionist tendencies led Amelia down the path of drug addiction, disordered eating, abusive relationships and a “sugar baby” lifestyle, and spiraled her into a rock bottom of a hundred thousand dollars in debt and a lost and broken heart. In 2009, a spiritual awakening led Amelia to the realization that she was the only one standing in the way of becoming the woman she wanted to be. She decided to embrace messy, imperfect, unapologetic FEELING, and has since built and scaled a multi-six figure business, certified over 700 yoga teachers in stand up paddle board yoga and coached hundreds of women to personal and professional success. Amelia’s writing has been published in Yoga Journal, Huffington Post, and the Inertia. She has also had the honor of sharing a message on mindset shift as a TEDx speaker. In 2012, after breaking her back in a surfing accident, Amelia realized that life is too short to do anything but what you love - our dreams exist for a reason. Her daily mission is to love people and help them activate their highest potential. She lives by her personal mantra: Set your intention, breathe it to life. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Intentionally choosing to feel good What connection is + showing up for our friendships The reward only comes for those who have the uncomfortable talks Accepting yourself and others What people actually want to see You are a miracle   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: In today’s quickie episode, I wanted to talk about our choice to feel a certain way– this expands into so many topics, like the choice to pour into relationships, or the choice to feel self-doubt. Though it may not be a choice to feel an emotion, it is a choice to stay in that emotion, and that’s what I want to dive into with you all today. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting through the fear of failure Turning stress into joy Finding yourself again   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Learn more: powerful-u.com code TRIBE for $100 tickets!   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about getting over the fear of failure, turning stress into joy, and finding your authentic self.   Review of the Week: @liveforsantosha “Thank you Lori and Evans. You have helped me feel connected, have helped me find my voice, and offer me joy and a personal journey to self worth.”   Question 1: @cbello4410 “How do you get over your fear of failing?”   Question 2: @katspiration7_ “How do you turn your stress into joy?”   Question 3: @alassila0729 “How did you find yourself again and truly know that person to be who you are?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Having children later in life What has shaped Rob to live the life he has now Being in an environment that doesn’t match your energy Dealing with past traumas Trusting your gut Leaving chiropractics to start his mastermind What Rob has learned from his travels + what inspires him Over preparing versus allowing the magic to happen Knowing he needed to pivot + how he did it Seeking out environments to change you What motivates Rob Hearing the whispers and following them Rob’s zone of genius + what he believes he’s here on earth for   Resources: Learn more: workhardplayhardpodcast.com Instagram: @robmurgatroyd Listen: Work Hard Play Hard Podcast   Show Notes: I’m so excited to share today’s episode with you because I got to sit down with Rob Murgatroyd, a lifestyle designer, podcast host, and close friend. Rob has had a massive impact on my life, and has helped me think bigger, differently, and is someone that I truly value. This conversation is so great because, even though our friendship spans a decade, I still learned so much from him. Rob has stepped into his zone of genius and it’s been an incredible thing to watch– I just know you’re going to take away so much from this episode!   Question Highlights:   What are the pros and cons of having children later in life?   What do you think has shaped you in your life? How do you handle dealing with past trauma? How did you get to where you are now from being in a chiropractic career? Why did you want to do this mastermind? How did you know you had to pivot? How did you support yourself? Are you more motivated by pain or pleasure? What do you believe you are on this earth for?   Guest Bio: I have overcome my share of obstacles in order to architect the life of my dreams and uncover the key to lasting, meaningful success. Growing up in Queens (literally on the wrong side of the tracks), my early years were tumultuous, marked by hardship and violence. With home being a less-than-idyllic place, I clung to work and education as my ticket out of the bedroom I shared with three brothers, and the low-income reality of the life my parents couldn’t seem to escape. The minute I was old enough, I threw myself into any job I could get my hands on, from washing cars at filling stations, to washing hair in salons. In hindsight, the high-end neighborhood across the tracks (home to the doctors and lawyers) likely played an unconscious role in my decision to attend school to be a chiropractor. Post high school graduation, I moved to Atlanta to complete my training and never looked back.   Over the next decade, I built a successful chiropractic practice, welcomed my first child, experienced the heartbreak of a challenging divorce, found healing and redemption when I met and married my wife, and read a book that changed my life and uncovered for me the world of lifestyle-entrepreneurship. That book was The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferris. Having spent my entire life thus far in relentless hustle mode, I was ready for the PLAY HARD side of the hard work coin. My wife and I wanted to escape the grind and travel the world, so we did. In 2006 we launched our travel/lifestyle Blog ‘Jetset Life’ and my all or nothing tendencies showed up for the party.   Predictably, poppin’ bottles on yachts grew old and I became aware that once again my life was out of balance and I felt disconnected and unfulfilled. THIS was the pivotal moment I decided to apply myself to mastering the counter-balance between the science of achievement and the art of fulfillment. From THIS, the Work Hard Play Hard podcast and mastermind was born. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: My book has been out for a whole year! Who we are with our best friends Being FAUXductive What are your needle-moving activities Finding out what truly makes us happy   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Think for 3 seconds, right now, on that part of you that when you’re with your best friend you totally fall in love with yourself. We all have projects, dreams, and parts of our personality that we hide from the outside world. As we create our projects and as we show up more in the world, we tend to get stuck in our old patterns, leaving us feeling like we can’t show up fully as our true self. Today, I’m digging into this topic and sharing my ideas on being faux-ductive versus productive. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What we grew from this past week Healthy relationships with people who have different beliefs than you Moving through an information overload Keeping it all together What looks effortless to outsiders, but is actually challenging   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Learn more: powerful-u.com code TRIBE for $100 tickets!   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about having healthy relationships with family and friends that have different views, information overload, keeping it all together, and internal challenges that may look effortless to outsiders.   Review of the Week: Leah Melanie: “Lori and Evans crack me up with their "questionably awesome" podcast. I find myself laughing in the car and it brings such levity and lightness to my day. The balance between Lori's tangible tips and topics and her silliness is the perfect blend. It reminds me of my personality and how I love my life. Yin and yang, light and heavy. I am grateful for what this podcast has brought to my life. Keep up the great work and keep being "questionably awesome"! (It's not really a question though, you're awesome for sure) xoxox, Leah”   Question 1: @katieandhercanines “Hi favorite people! How do we have healthy relationships with close family members even if our beliefs and lifestyles are so different? I want to make it work, always!”   Question 2: @stacymacleod “Have you experienced info overload?  A paralysis? How do you move forward?  Thank you!”   Question 3: @tay_pelletier “How do you keep it all together without keeping it all together?”   Question : @emilyghoshharris “What's something for you that looks truly effortless from the outside but is internally challenging?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Speaking to her social media community as an educational voice Running with your ideas The main blocks that Jen faced at the start of her business What ALA is and why Jen connected to it The personal development misconception Listening to your body How Jen works with her clients What we are neglecting in our body, and what we need to change it What we get stuck on Taking time to tune in to ourselves more   Resources: Learn more: docjenfit.com/challenge Instagram: @docjenfit   Show Notes: I am so excited for today’s episode with Jen Esquer! She is a Doctor of Physical Therapy and movement enthusiast. She uses her social platforms to push educational videos on how to maintain mobility, increase strength, and prevent pain throughout the body. The more and more that I learn about investing time and energy into the body and into mobility in their body we’re in, the more that I’ve been viewing my body completely differently. This episode isn’t only going to open your eyes to the importance of maintaining mobility, but this podcast really digs deep into the stories that we have all told ourselves throughout our lifetime.   Question Highlights: Why do you think your social media caught on so quickly? What forced you to take action on what you wanted?   Four years ago, what would you say you were struggling with the most? Were there things that you had to move through that mobility helped you move through? Is there something that can help people through the fear around resting?   What is something you wish more people knew about?   Guest Bio: Jen Esquer is a Doctor of Physical Therapy and movement enthusiast.  She treats patients privately in Los Angeles and has online programs called The Mobility Method and The Optimal Body that reach people globally.  She uses her social platforms to push educational videos on how to maintain mobility, increase strength, and prevent pain throughout the body. As a former gymnast of 9 years, Jen is an avid mover who dabbles in AcroYoga, calisthenics, weight training, Pilates and yoga.  Her vision is to empower others to continue to move and live a pain-free, active lifestyle. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Realizing how important recognition was for me Moving out and living a double life Hitting a wall Learning sales in my early 20’s Drowning out my higher self Beginning to tap into what gave me confidence What happens when your back is up against the wall Sharing my passions Creating the lifestyle we dreamed of   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: I thought that today would be a great day to share with you a deeper look into the timeline of my life. Even though I do share a lot with you about the trials, difficulties, and uncertainties that I’ve had to overcome, I haven’t gotten down to the granules. I’ve done so much work around old stories, and I’ve worked really hard at reframing my mindset so that I can live in present and not in a space of lack. Today, I’m opening up even more to share with you just what my journey has looked like so far! Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Choosing positivity Knowing what is true for you Our favorite ways to manifest what we want Evolving faster than your friends, and how to handle that   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about figuring out what’s true for you, manifesting what we want, and evolving more and faster than your friends.   Review of the week: @VirtuallyNatalie "Lori and her inspiring guests share the best of the best in downright compelling content on how to live a healthier and happier life. (Read: take actionable steps to live your best life). Highly recommend listening and subscribing to EYH if you want the knowledge AND the mindsets to improve your body, mind and spirit and step into that best version of yourself."   Question 1: @carys_elizabeth “How do I know what to truly believe in and not what's fed to me by books, media, etc?”   Question 2: @allypatras “Hi! I love you and Evans!  What is your favorite way to manifest what you want?”   Question 3: @jackie_mendoza “How do you handle not feeling guilty/being a bad friend when you're evolving and they aren't?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The light and dark within us Which one are we feeding? The transition to feeding the light   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Read: The Lotus and the Lily by Janet Connor   Show Notes: Today I’m talking about the duality of the light and the dark that we all have inside of us. It is so important to accept and understand that both are part of you, and help make you who you are deep down. This is what makes us human! In a book that I’ve been reading, the author brought up a story that served as a really beautiful reminder that while yes, we do have that light and dark with us, the one that shows up most often is the one that we feed. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Evans camping out in her apartment Ways to start a meditation practice The hamster wheel of life How to stay confident when you’re the last on single in your friend group   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about starting a meditation practice, figuring out the hamster wheel of life, and staying confident when you’re single.   Review of the Week: @Freeze8: "I love listening to Lori Harder. I've been following her for a few years and am working my way through her podcasts. It has been amazing to listen to her throughout the years and see her growth into being the unapologetic amazing version of herself that she is. She's given me permission to show up as who I am and who I want to be without fear of the judgement hat will come either way. Every time I listen to her podcast I laugh out loud and am loving the relationship sh has with Evans.They are hilarious and always make me laugh and smile. Keep doing you girl! you're making us all better! "   Question 1: @courtboggs “For someone who is new to meditation but would really benefit from it, how do you recommend getting started?”   Question 2: @ashleyshortyworo “What do you do (or not do) when you find yourself on the hamster wheel of life?! Like not working on your goals even though you really want to, but instead get caught up in the survival game.”   Question 3: @chelsey.bird “How can I stay confident when I’m the last one of my friends to be single?” Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Shedding old identities How Libby has pivoted The masculine and the feminine in business Identifying what you want What Libby is excited about in her life right now What to do if you’re just starting out Setting the expectations for yourself + your business The drama triangle Giving and receiving feedback Handling rejection and disappointment Libby’s first book + her writing experience Using food as a teacher and a tool Libby’s relationship with alcohol Her sensitivity to animals   Resources: Learn more: libbycrow.com Instagram: @libbycrow Listen: Behind The Dream Podcast Facebook: Behind The Dream The Bliss Project 2020 Learn more: powerful-u.com code TRIBE for $100 tickets!   Show Notes: I created this podcast because I truly wanted create something that held me accountable to having the connections that I desired in my life, and have them more often. Today’s guest, Libby Crow reminded me of my why. Libby Crow is a global mentor for entrepreneurs helping them grow their businesses and their minds. This conversation with Libby was so great, and we cover so much! She’s dedicated to helping entrepreneurs raise their vibration, in turn raising the planet’s vibration, and you can truly feel that as she speaks. Enjoy this one!   Question Highlights: Where have you recently pivoted? Do you think the hustle was necessary for your journey? What do you do when it’s empty season for you? For those in their beginning season, what would you say to her? How do we get out of the drama triangle? What is a challenge or struggle you are facing in your life right now? How do you not rely on food or alcohol when you’re out socially? What do people need to know about stepping into their dream and what that’s important?   Libby Crow is a global mentor for entrepreneurs helping them grow their businesses and their minds. She is the founder of LC International, a marketing strategy company for digital consultants, and Co-Founder of The Daily Shift, a personal development company for aspiring and accomplished entrepreneurs alike. She’s dedicated to helping entrepreneurs see the journey as a bridge to raising the vibration of the planet and then later as a portal for giving back philanthropically. Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Saying no in order to make space for you What yes feels like Are you ready for what’s coming? Getting resourceful now for the future What to look at + ask yourself How to be okay   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Learn more: powerful-u.com code TRIBE for $100 tickets! Read: Do Less by Kate Northrup   Show Notes: Last year, even though incredible, was a year of burnout for me. I’m excited to say that I’m starting to feel like I’m back in my groove, and I’ve really found power in saying no. Saying no isn’t necessarily because I don’t want to do something, but because I want to create more space. Creating space takes work! Often times, setting these boundaries actually feels like you’re doing the wrong thing because you aren’t doing what others are doing. Today, I’m getting real and honest about what this space looks like and what you need to do in order to prepare for the next steps in your life and business.   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to discover your passion What I do to calm my anxiety Advice I’d give my younger self   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about discovering your passions, calming my anxiety, and advice I’d give my younger self.   Review of the Week: From Sarahpappas1991: "Any time I need a therapy sesh I just tune into this podcast here! I was lost until I discovered Lori and I recommend this podcast to anybody who wants to better themselves and their lives! I always end the episodes feeling amazing and have learned so much! Do yourself a favor and start listening now!"   Question 1: @jbradshaw How do you discover your passion? I have no idea where to start.   Question 2: @corrina_quezada Lori!  Help! My anxiety attacks are causing fainting spells and I'm terrified.  How do you overcome?   Question 3: @kodietalley_ If you could go back and give yourself one piece of advice in your 20s, what would it be?   Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Reaching out and connecting to people in REAL life What Unfair Advantage is all about What called Jen to making the event bigger than before The loneliness epidemic Providing value Working alongside her life partner Jen’s vision for her inner performer Stories that come up for Jen as she expands + her badass list When visualizing doesn’t go how you thought What keeps you going and when to know to stop   Resources: Learn more: jenleahgottlieb.com Instagram: @jen_gottlieb The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes Jen Gottlieb is co-founder of Super Connector Media and host of Unfair Advantage Live, as well as the co-creator of Unfair-Advantage Live. Jen has used the media to build a multi 6 figure coaching business in the health and wellness space, being featured in popular media outlets for her incredible success. Jen now helps her aspiring business leader clients make the connections they need to go from FOMO to famous, and fast! This conversation with Jen was so great and so timely– I can’t wait for you to hear this one!   Question Highlights: Why were you called to join Unfair Advantage? Where’s the balance of connections and relationships in this media-heavy time? What does it look like working side by side with your life partner? What’s the biggest vision for your inner performer? Do any stories come up for you while you grow and expand? Have you had moments where you’ve visualized and it hasn’t gone according to plan? When do you know to stop or pivot?   Between her 14-season run as a co-host on VH1 and her acclaimed starring role in a Broadway national tour, Jen Gottlieb is no stranger to the stage. Now, she’s teaching others how to become the star of their own show as the co-founder of Super Connector Media and host of Unfair Advantage Live.   Jen collaborates with life and business partner Chris Winfield to deliver Unfair Advantage Live, a 3 day live event in New York City that gives ambitious entrepreneurs an all-access pass to the couple’s extensive circle of media contacts.   Jen, herself has used the media to build a multi 6 figure coaching business in the health and wellness space. She has been featured on Good Morning America, CBS News, PBS’s Life and Living, Good Morning Washington, Bold TV and The American Dream. You can also find her in publications like Shape, Self, Women's Health, Well + Good and Thrillist just to name a few.   Drawing on her vast media network and her background in television, Jen now helps her aspiring business leader clients make the connections they need to go from FOMO to famous — fast, landing them spots on Entrepreneur, ABC, NBC, Inc Magazine, US News & World Report,  Forbes, Fortune and hundreds of other media outlets. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being in solitary confinement The pressure being the power Choosing to believe what you hear The why behind the events James creates Perceptions and emotions Why you should go to this amazing event   Resources: Learn more: powerful-u.com code TRIBE for $100 tickets! The Bliss Project 2020   Show Notes Today’s quickie is a special one because I am sitting down with James Purpura, the co-founder and CEO of Powerful U, a personal evolution company with the goal to inspire people to tap into their potential. James’s story is a beautiful one of incredible transformation, growth, and perseverance, and I can’t wait for you to listen in on the conversation we have today. Chris and I will be speaking at the Powerful U conference, and have an amazing ticket price for all of our listeners– you don’t want to miss this one!   James and Steph’s journey of transformation is nothing short of extraordinary. Before they met 15 years ago, both of their lives had hit rock bottom. They were both financially, emotionally, and spiritually bankrupt. Life had beaten them down and shattered their self-esteem. At the lowest point in their lives, they met and were united by a shared vision of creating and becoming more. They started the only place they could by working on themselves and helping each other grow. They believed in each other but more importantly, they challenged each other every step of the way, and never settled.   Shortly after meeting, Steph wrote James’ first resume and taught him how to send an email. This began James’ unlikely career in technology. Around this time, they also started a family. Fast forward fifteen years, after many ups and downs and a lot of hard work, Steph and James recently sold their tech company, one of the world’s largest construction software companies. They now have five beautiful children and live an extraordinary life. Through this journey of self-creation, they developed a personal philosophy centered around perception. They believe perception, more than any other factor, will determine how someone’s life will turn out. James and Steph started Powerful U as their way to give back to the world. They believe that through the knowledge they accumulated on their journey they can help others live the life they desire. Their dream is to bring personal development to the masses by making it affordable and readily available to all seekers. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Seeing a dog-intuitive Developing faith after leaving a religion Boredom + if it’s part of the growth process Advice around developing a solid crew of friends Self-development burn-out   Resources: The Bliss Project 2020 Read: Do Less by Kate Northrup   Show Notes Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about developing your faith after leaving a religion, wondering if misalignment is a part of the process for growth, advice around harnessing a solid friend group, self-development burn-out.   Review of the Week: From Chloe Tagan “I’m really grateful to have found Lori’s podcast. The episodes are real, true, and also hilarious. I love the episodes with Evans, and also like your interviews or conversations with Chris. You are all so inspiring. As a new entrepreneur, I feel uplifted by your energy, and energized to keep believing in my dream, even if others think I’m crazy.”   Question 1: @elleryion “How did you develop your own faith and beliefs after leaving a religion that you grew up in?”   Question 2: @corrieblissit “Do you think boredom is a sign of being misaligned or just part of the process?”   Question 3: @hellofrankenbery “What advice would you give to people who don’t have a solid friend crew that’s been around since the beginning of time?”   Question 4: @andi_ruth “How do you know if you’re truly burnt out on self development or just self sabotaging?” Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How Susan started her journey Environmental detox Getting back after a failure The willpower of a woman + the lack of pleasure Mind detox + finding out what you need What we’re missing when it comes to diet + exercise Working the through things that keep coming up Susan’s morning ritual + back pocket thoughts Showing up and being seen Why the BARE process is so important to Susan   Resources: Learn more: shyatt.com ; letsgetbare.com Instagram: @susanhyatt Read: Bare ; Create Your Own Luck Listen: Susan’s Podcast Hub   Show Notes I am beyond excited for you to hear today’s episode with Susan Hyatt, Master Life & Business Coach! Susan’s passion is to help women get MORE of whatever they crave. Can I get a heck yeah?! Susan and I are diving deep into how life, goals, and personal happiness are really running parallel to our thoughts and how we care for ourselves. In her new book, Bare, Susan shares a lot of vulnerability and also makes personal transformation achievable for all. This episode is so amazing and I know it’s going to have you ready for more in your on life!   Question Highlights: How do you begin to understand new approaches when your environment reflects back something different? What happens after the awareness? What do you do after the failures to get back to where you want to be? Do you have tips around really figuring out what you need? How do you teach people to move through the things that keep coming up?   Susan Hyatt is a Master Certified Life and Business Coach based in Evansville, Indiana. She specializes in helping women get more of whatever they want—whether it’s more money, more media recognition, more pleasure, more passion, or more time to pursue meaningful goals.   Susan is the author of two books, Create Your Own Luck and BARE. Her work has been featured in places like O: The Oprah Magazine, Woman’s World, Cosmopolitan, and The Huffington Post. She’s the creator of The BARE Process, a trademarked system for upgrading your mental and physical health, building more energy and confidence, and creating the life that you want. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook