In This Episode You Will Learn About: How growth leads to discomfort Changing your relationship with failure Choosing how to utilize your time when you’re unhappy Bringing your partner along on your growth journey Understanding why you are in the place you are in Auditing your inner circle Practicing radical candor in your personal and professional life Accepting anything that comes up Writing a book Resources: Learn more: thehollisco.com Read: Get Out Of Your Own Way LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dave-hollis-b5a48671 Show Notes: I’ve already had a chance to talk with Rachel Hollis on the show, but today I get to talk with the other half, Dave Hollis. It is so fun getting both perspectives when talking to someone about their business and life. His new book, Get Out Of Your Own Way, is all about finding a path to growth and fulfillment when you may be skeptical about the practicality of it. We dive deep into how growth leads to discomfort, getting familiar with failure, and growing along with your partner.   Question Highlights: Do you still get uncomfortable? What do you say to people who have serious concerns and fears around failure? What would you say to someone who doesn’t know if their partner is right for their personal development journey? What are the things that you want to say to people about what it actually takes? How do you make spaces to have private conversations? What do you do to accept anything that comes up? What are the things that came up when you wrote your book?   Guest Bio: Dave Hollis serves as the CEO of The Hollis Company where he chases audacious dreams with his partner and CCO, the extraordinary NY Times Best-Selling author, motivational speaker, and world-changer Rachel Hollis. The Hollis Company is built around the belief that everybody is made for more. It exists to arm people from every background with the tools to change their life for the better. Our content is a mix of encouragement, authentic truth-telling and tangible direction to make lasting change. We create tools and foster community to help people grow in their relationships, businesses, sense of self, and opportunities to impact others. The Hollis Co measures success in impact: how can the media, live events, and merchandise we produce create real and lasting life change? The company lives in these lanes and it’s where the family of existing brands will continue to thrive. Outside of The Hollis Co, Dave is a member of the Motion Picture Academy and sits on the membership committee, serves on an innovation board called Fandango Labs, as well as the board of Will Rogers Motion Pictures Pioneers, the board of foster care charity Austin Angels and the board of Pepperdine's Institute for Entertainment, Media and Culture. Dave believes in the importance of variety in a career as a prerequisite for considering any candidate -- his myriad jobs in Research, Publicity, Talent Management, Grassroots Marketing, Brand Management, Retail Strategy, Technology Innovation, and Sales has rounded his expertise and affords an informed, solution-oriented macro view of any business. Dave is the father of four children, an adoptive father, and four-time foster dad. As a family, the Hollis’ support philanthropy in the foster care and the teen/transitional homelessness space. They live and operate their business out of Austin, TX.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting yourself out there Showing up as a leader Not being afraid of sounding stupid Standing up for yourself Failure is progress   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: When I was trying to get my message out in the world, I felt like I wasn’t being seen by people. I kept waiting to be chosen by someone — fitness magazine editors, publishers, or influencers — and what I didn’t realize is that I wasn’t making myself as visible to get that recognition myself. You need to stand up for yourself and take accountability for making yourself heard. What are you doing to be visible?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Pushing through the fear Telling people your vision to hold you accountable Letting go of the things and people holding you back   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome! Evans and I answer your questions about pushing through fear and how to resist letting go.   Question #1: @itsmvsilly How do you keep pushing through, even when fear is holding you back?   Question #2: @cbello4410 I've been resisting letting things and people go, will life change when I let it go and be free?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Adding value to others Creating events How you uplevel your customers   Resources: theblissproject.info Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: We’re back with another he said, she said, giving you both Chris’ and my perspective on a topic. Today, we’re going to talk about how you can uplevel your tribe, both the people around you and your customer base.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being honest about moments of resistance The meaning of movement Pulling yourself out of a rut Nature therapy Looking at others with compassion Reassessing your perspective of fitness Being vulnerable and getting help   Resources: Read: The Align Method Learn more: alignpodcast.com/lori Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Becomealigned.com Fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: Aaron Alexander is constantly searching for different ways to make your physical life better. There is still so much we don’t know about our bodies, but we are finding out more every day — and Aaron wants you to take advantage of the latest and greatest. If you want to learn all about how to align your body and your mind, you need to listen to this.   Question Highlights: What does it feel like to get a book out into the world? Can you explain the quote that opens your book? What does it mean to you? What is your favorite conversation coming out of this book? Why is it important for people to understand what you are talking about? If you feel like your life is a shit show, where do you start? What’s blowing your mind right now? How can you let go of your ego quicker?   Guest Bio: Aaron Alexander CR, LMT, CPT is a pioneering manual therapist and movement coach whose clients range from A-list Hollywood celebrities to professional athletes and everyone in between. Since 2014, he has been interviewing the world's preeminent thought leaders on physical and psychological well-being on the top-rated Align Podcast, integrating a diverse variety of perspectives on the art and science of physical inhabitance When Aaron isn't writing or speaking, he can typically be found somewhere in the Pacific Ocean or on Original Muscle Beach in Santa Monica, California.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: What it’s like having a conversation that ends a relationship Letting the people who don’t matter leave Judging people based on your own experience of them The truth will rise to the top Focusing on your own goals   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Recently I was going through my messages and reading some feedback on a podcast I did about having tough conversations and setting boundaries. One person made an amazing point — they knew it was going to be hard, but they had no idea the kind of backlash that was going to come. How do you deal with these situations?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to overcome the fear of not being good enough What fear is telling us Finding who you are meant to be   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome! Evans and I answer your questions about overcoming fear, using fear to motivate you to work, and the fear of not knowing.   Question #1: @jillianmurphy.fitlife How do you overcome the fear of not being good enough for the task ahead?   Question #2: @joyharrington.ig When is fear logical? Like a healthy fear that makes you actually get up and work?   Question #3: @loveofmylifeag How to find yourself and who you are meant to be -- my fear is not knowing how

In This Episode You Will Learn About: We all have rough days Needing a space to vent Sticking to your fundamentals Maximizing your opportunities where you are Building a life where you are mostly doing what you love   Resources: theblissproject.info Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Today we are getting real: Sometimes, you just get crabby and you have to find a way to shake it off. Our life is awesome, but as positive as we show up online, we all have rough days. Chris and I give an honest look at how we have conversations and move through difficult times.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Creating the environment to attract what you want Taking inventory on where you are thriving Identifying the right coaches & workshops Tapping into abundance with gratitude Learning from your breakdowns Being challenged by the people closest to us Counting your blessings   Resources: Facebook: facebook.com/chrismotivador Twitter: twitter.com/chrismotivador LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/chris-lee-13a4666a Read: amazon.com/Transform-Your-Life-Principles-Prosperity/dp/0692676309 Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Becomealigned.com Fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Chris Lee is a celebrity coach, he’s freaking hilarious and down to earth brilliant. We talk about how your environment impacts your life, how to find authentic coaches and workshops, and learning from your failures and breakdowns. You are going to have some massive shifts around what abundance really is.   Question Highlights: How do we get into the mindset of creating an environment of abundance? Was there a point in your life where things weren’t going in your favor? How can people identify the right workshops and coaches? How do I better stick to the decisions that I am making? How do we balance setting goals that are not too small but aren’t unrealistic?   Guest Bio: Chris Lee is a Transformational Trainer, best-selling author, and Life Coach from San Juan Puerto Rico. For 30 years, Chris has been traveling the world and has led seminars and workshops for over 1 million people teaching them the art of living abundant, extraordinary, and successful lives! Chris Lee has worked with top companies worldwide such as Dream Works, CAA, WWE, Apple, Microsoft, IBM, Dragados, Amgen, Unilever, Google, Sony, Univision, NBC, and Telemundo in addition to having been a collaborator for top Latin TV networks and radio shows. He also coaches many celebrities and business leaders, like Lewis Howes, to create unprecedented results. He has also opened and run successful seminar businesses in the US, Europe, Asia, Latin America, and Puerto Rico called Impacto Vital. He has created a workshop for Teens called Torch/Antorcha that teaches adolescents the key to happiness and success. Lee wrote Best Seller "Dile Yes a la Vida!" and “Transform Your Life: 10 Principles of Abundance and Prosperity." You can also listen to Chris Lee on Lewis Howes' School Of Greatness podcast where Chris's 14 interviews have already gotten over 1 million downloads making him the top speaker and most frequent guest on the show.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Choosing to go all in Having accountability Wanting to be seen Starting your own groups Creating value in the world   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Lindsay Schwartz joins me today to talk about having patience in your journey to create your purpose and step into your bigger ideas and making yourself undeniable.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Explaining growth to your partner Setting goals together Being on your own journey What to do when relationships won’t let you grow Finding clarity   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome! This week we have special guest Lindsay Schwartz with us to answer your questions about growth, relationships, and clarity.   Question #1: @heatherriv004 Tips on explaining your growth to your partner so it affects your relationship in a positive way?   Question #2: @jaylaagnes How do you know if walking away from relationships will help you grow?   Question #3: @laurynjuhl What is your go-to strategy for finding clarity? (i.e. journaling, meditation?)

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Enjoying the process Meeting women where they’re at now Pivoting and changing Pulling your dream through the drudgery   Resources: litepink.com theblissproject.info Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: Chris and I both bring in such different perspectives when we look at topics together. This week, I get to give more details on my exciting upcoming project, and how we are dealing with all of the fear and doubt that comes along with a pivot and new product launch.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Growth can go fast or growth can go very fast Having the self-restraint to focus on what is now instead of figuring it all out Opening your heart to new experiences, connection, and growth Relying on your strengths Leaning in and being vulnerable The results you can see from taking action on a mastermind group Listening when things aren’t feeling good   Resources: Learn more: nursesinspirenurses.com Instagram: instagram.com/nursesinspirenurses Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: Cat Golden has been on this journey of growth and self-development with me for about two years, but it feels like I’ve known her forever. While struggling with her job as a nurse, she picked up A Tribe Called Bliss and began following it to a T. It’s been so fun watching her create something out of a need she had in her own field and to watch it completely explode. We unlock all of the things that she did on her path along the way. Question Highlights:   Where were you before A Tribe Called Bliss came into your life? What was it like following the book with these girls together? What was the point when you put up a wall in your life, and how did you open your heart? How do you lean in instead of withdrawing? What were the main benefits of joining a mastermind?   Guest Bio: Cat Golden became a nurse after completing her BSN at the University of Colorado. Her passion for helping nurses find the confidence they need to create their own schedules has come from her own need in the industry. She helps them take a chance on their dreams and maintain self-care, and that is what sparked her movement Nurses Inspire Nurses. She runs the Nurses Inspire Nurses shop, and she hosts monthly events and coffee talks, as well as provides free resources to support nurses no matter where they are in the world. She has shipped thousands of Nurses Inspire Nurses merch out to nurses across the US, Canada, Europe, and Australia, and she’s built a 6-figure business in under a year. The Nurses Inspire Nurses movement virtual community consists of 20,000 nurses from all over the world. She takes nurses through her 90-day mentorship program, the leap/land/live method, and helps them look inside themselves and uncover what they’re truly passionate about. She believes that if nurses embrace their true being that they will uncover their purpose and be able to live a life they are obsessed with.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Stopping ourselves from circling the drain The four steps you need for getting through any challenge Prove that you can do this Playing it to the end   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: I am so proud of all of you who are facing the things you don’t want to face right now, but we all face challenges sometimes. I want to talk to you about the 4 steps that will make you a total boss in your life whenever you are facing a challenge, and if you just did these 4 things, it would change everything.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Creating boundaries Caring less about things that don’t matter Being mindful of the things you’re putting attention into Sticking up for yourself   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome. Evans and I answer your questions about setting boundaries, getting over compassion fatigue, and caring less.   Question 1: @saraharango99 How do you create boundaries that allow you to see what's possible, but stop comparing?   Question 2: @sarah_loves_carbs Compassion fatigue. It's very real. Have you experienced it and how did you get over it?   Question 3: @baileythegreatt How do you balance your compassion with people who take advantage of it?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How to say no to friends without letting them down Leveling up your tribe Setting boundaries with your partner Communicating love languages Setting boundaries around spending habits and communication   Resources: Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com Show Notes: We are back with another episode where I sit down with my husband Chris and we talk about what’s going on in our lives around a cup of coffee. This week, we have a few questions from our listeners about saying no to friends, setting boundaries, and love languages.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How solving your own problems can lead to a business Feeling comfortable pivoting when you see new opportunities. Relationships with friends and family moving in different directions Getting your audience to receive the message you’re sharing How to receive feedback Communicating as an introvert   Resources: Learn more: chalenejohnson.com SnapChat: ChaleneOfficial Facebook: Facebook.com/Chalene Instagram: Instagram.com/ChaleneJohnson Twitter: Twitter.com/ChaleneJohnson Push Journals: pushjournal.com 131 Method Online Program: 131method.com 131 Method Book: 131book.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: Chalene Johnson has so many talents I’m not sure what to talk about first: Her dance moves, her high kicks, her ability to shift people into reaching their highest potential, her business savvy, or her TikTok account. She is the real deal, she is pure fire, and she will light your soul up with education and truth.   Question Highlights: What was foundational for you? How did you pivot without feeling guilt? How do we move on when we feel our personal relationships aren’t working? What’s some advice for how to take feedback? Is there anything in your life you feel that next-level communication could help you?   Guest Bio: New York Times Best Selling Author of Push, Chalene Johnson is a lifestyle and business expert, motivational speaker, and podcast host. She and Bret, her husband of over twenty years, are the founders of the SmartLife movement. Today, with her husband, Chalene runs a fun-loving, collaborative team focused on helping others live a healthier, more simplified life through their online academies, membership sites, and live, sold-out seminars. Chalene, with the help of top dietitians, doctors, researchers, and experts, she founded the 131 Method - a nutritional coaching program that’s turning the diet industry upside down. Chalene’s new book The 131 Method just came out in April 2019. She hosts two top-ranked podcasts, The Chalene Show and Build Your Tribe, Huffington Post recognized Chalene as one of the “Top 50 Female Entrepreneurs to Watch.”

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Giving yourself forced breaks How to fit in when you are joining a new tribe Having hard conversations upfront Being willing to say yes and give new experiences a shot   Resources: Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: You’ve all said you wanted to hear more of Chris and me, so here we are to having a laid-back discussion about whatever is on our mind! Today, we talk about the benefit of forcing yourself to take breaks, and how to fit in when you’re leveling up your tribe.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Showing up where the opportunities are Not letting yourself stagnate How bigger problems bring bigger hope and deeper connections Failure leads to greater joy How to prove to yourself that you’re all in Stepping into your glory   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: What I’m talking about today is the theme for my Bliss Project event, and that is going all in. I didn’t really understand what this meant for a big portion of my life, but even now when I do, I didn’t realize how safe I was playing it. If you are done sitting in your comfort zone, you need to commit to a decision.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: How marriage works Losing friends and making room for new ones Transitioning from one group of friends to another Dealing with loneliness   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome. Evans and I answer your questions about friendship, losing friends, making room for new friends, and grappling with transitions.   Question 1: @jesswecann Why do you think some friends stick with you through the mud of life and some bail?   Question 2: @atracktive How do you navigate the transition space when you know you're up-leveling your tribe but you also feel super isolated because the new up-leveled tribe hasn't come through yet?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Recognizing the beauty in people and the world How trauma can shape you How to stop people-pleasing Breaking patterns and stepping into your calling Hurting your family by being successful Life gives you the lessons that you need   Resources: Learn more: laceyjohnson.com Facebook: facebook.com/thelaceyjohnson Twitter: twitter.com/thelaceyjohnson Instagram: instagram.com/thelaceyjohnson Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com   Show Notes: I was so lucky to connect with Lacey Johnson over the phone, and before even meeting with her in person I felt immediately connected. She has stories that are going to take your breath away and move you, and I can’t wait for you to hear them. Question Highlights:   Why do you connect with people so well? What got you interested in writing? What are some things you saw in your life that shaped you What was one of the biggest things you realized you were capable of creating? How do we make room for letting our truth come out? How does self-betrayal show up for you and what do you have to do? What do you do to see the opportunity in life?     Guest Bio: Lacey Johnson is an award-winning essayist, editor, and journalist. She has worked with a broad range of authors, celebrities and entrepreneurs — including Deepak Chopra and Daymond John. She founded The Wonder Report in 2018, and her words can be read in a variety of print and digital media sources including Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Woman’s Day, POPSUGAR, and OprahMag.com—many of which have been syndicated by Apple News, MSN, The Huffington Post, and Yahoo! With a deep intrigue for human beings and fiery passion for smacking her readers in the face with the truth, she writes and reports boldly and introspectively about topics that challenge the status quo — in the realms of love and relationships, spirituality, trauma, women’s issues, wellness and the nuances of a successful and fulfilling life. She is also deep in the process of co-authoring her first book, which is a conscious and gutsy exploration of the illusions of fame, power, success, and the inescapability of humanness—all told through narratives involving some of the people the world most idolizes.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The three things that set us apart Being accountable The three vital pieces of accountability Controlling your environment Thinking about the big picture Resources: Fast Foundations: fastfoundations.com   Show Notes: On this quickie, I’ve invited my husband along! We talk about 3 things that we know have made us successful and stand apart from the rest.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Learning in a state of joy Focusing on solutions and belief Trying on the highest version of yourself Feeling more like yourself Meeting people with zero expectation   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Welcome to Questionably Awesome, where you’re going to find yourself questioning why you are listening. Evans and I answer your questions about doing a rebrand, finding courage, setting goals, and the fear of getting close to people.   Question 1: @alecialindsay How to be bold in sharing when your soul decided to do a "rebrand"?!   Question 2: @katieandhercanines How do you find the courage to leave the religion you grew up with and limiting beliefs?   Question 3: @andi_ruth HALP: I often fear the more people I get close to just leads to more stress and obligation to others.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Working with a publisher vs. self publishing What happens when your dream comes true and you don’t realize it Imposter syndrome Getting the confidence to crown yourself Serving people with purpose Remaining fearless as your audience grows Doing things that are uncomfortable for other people   Resources: Learn more: caraalwill.com Read: Girl on Fire Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: Whenever I get a chance to have a glass of champagne with someone, I’m probably not going to pass it up. With Cara Alwill being the creator of the Champagne Diet blog, I needed more of that. She is one of the most down to earth, champagne-loving girls girls I know. She has a new book called Girl on Fire that you are not going to want to miss.   Question Highlights:   What was the difference between working with publishers and self-publishing?  Why do people always wait to be chosen instead of choosing themselves? Can we skip the publisher process or is it a part of the journey? Why do we need to burn the rule book in order to move forward? What is your confident voice saying, and what is the other voice saying? What are you available for?     Guest Bio: Cara Alwill Leyba is a bestselling personal development author, mentor to women entrepreneurs and creator of The Champagne Diet blog. She has self-published eight bestselling books, including the worldwide sensation Girl Code, which have inspired women around the world to step into their power and fulfill their potential. Cara’s books have been translated into multiple languages like Russian, Chinese, Portuguese, Mongolian and Vietnamese. Her weekly podcast, Style Your Mind, has achieved over six million unique downloads as she continues the conversation started in Girl Code. Cara has been featured in Forbes, Glamour, Shape, Entrepreneur, Success, Cosmo, Marie Claire and many more publications.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting clear on what you want Going on manifest walks How to manifest big goals My core values   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Today I want to talk about specificity. Why is it so important to be so specific in our lives with what we are asking for? You must be clear on what you want, even if you don’t know what it is for sure. You will need those details to manifest the life you want.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Crying at work Finding people worth the effort Staying committed when your tribe isn’t Finding a tribe when you travel a lot Staying connected   Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about staying motivated when your tribe isn’t onboard, finding a tribe when you travel, and staying connected when life gets busy!   Question 1: @alstew22 We finished your book, now what? Half of us want to keep going and the others don't seem like they are interested or committed.   Question 2: @laurenksorensen How do you find your tribe when you travel a lot?   Question 3: @stbarbeau How do you stay connected to your tribe when life gets busy?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Getting your family to buy in on your business ideas Missing out on the joy in our lives due to clutter How every yes is saying no to something else Setting boundaries The “sandwich” strategy Giving yourself space Having a priority list instead of a to do list   Resources: Learn more: tonyadalton.com Read: joyofmissingout.com Instagram: @tonya.i.dalton Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss becomealigned.com Show Notes: When I interviewed Tonya Dalton for this week’s show, I instantly knew I wanted to connect more with her in my life. She is a productivity expert, and we all could use some tools there. This podcast is so much fun and so clarifying, and you will find ways to get hacks out of this even if you are not a business owner or entrepreneur.   Question Highlights: How did you start doing what you do? Where do we start with productivity? What does JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) mean? How do we say no when it’s really challenging? How can we give ourselves some breathing room when we need it? How do you make peace with not taking on other’s priorities? How often should we check in and get clarity?   Guest Bio: Tonya Dalton is a productivity expert, author, speaker and founder of inkWELL Press Productivity Co, a company centered around productivity tools and training. She released her first book, The Joy of Missing Out, with Harper Collins in October. Tonya’s messages about business management, productivity, and the pursuit of passion have impacted thousands and inspired her to launch her podcast, Productivity Paradox which has surpassed more than a million downloads. Her podcast regularly ranks in the top 50 of all business management podcasts on Apple Podcasts. Tonya has been featured on Real Simple, Entrepreneur, Inc., Apartment Therapy, Lauren Conrad, and Fast Company among other places. In 2019, Tonya received the  Enterprising Woman of the Year Award and was named North Carolina's Female Entrepreneur to Watch by The Ladders. 

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How joy and grief go hand in hand -Processing grief and letting yourself feel it -Not isolating yourself -Supporting yourself   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Joy and grief exist together on the same highway. While holding my dream event, my best friend and puppy, Waffles, passed away. If you’re in a good place right now, don’t worry, this will only make it better. And if you’re experiencing grief and loss, I express my deepest sorrow for you. In the process of experiencing pain and loss, I’m also noticing my heart expanding in love as well.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Being supported by friends -Sharing your pain to bond more with people -Tools to help you be courageous -Jumping into the fear -Asking for help -Letting people know you’re there   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: We’re back with another episode of Questionably Awesome with me and Evans! We’ve got our favorite quotes of the week, and we answer your questions about courage and helping others in your life to be more courageous.   Review of the Week:   AmandaLeeSouthernSoul "More than just a podcast!  “Earn Your Happy” is amazing . Not only is it incredible alone - making me laugh, cry and feel like I’m connected to a supportive community, but is a gateway to new podcasts, inspirational people to follow on instagram along with adding to my ever growing book collection! I binge at work and get those weird looks when I bust out laughing at Lori and Evans (whatever totally worth it) and constantly take notes from the amazing guests on the show. This has truly been such a blessing that I stumbled upon casually looking through podcasts one day. So grateful for this podcast to bring me back down from the stories I tell myself that are not true, get back into my higher self mindset and be my authentic self with no apologies!"   Question 1: @goodvibes_chelsea What are some tools that helped you to be courageous?   Question 2: @al.lanz What gives you the courage to jump into the fear?   Question 3: @meg_cole_ How do you support others to be courageous?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How our environment can feed who we are -Getting out of a creative block -Giving yourself grace to have incomplete ideas -The “tortured artist” -Having a human connection while remaining anonymous -Making room for possibilities -Finding a balance between creative and business ambitions -Feeling stuck and how to get unstuck   Resources: -Atticuspoetry.com -The Truth About Magic -@atticuspoetry -Wine: winc.com/lostpoet -Podcast: atticuspoetry.com/pages/podcast -becomealigned.com     Show Notes: Atticus, the two-time anonymous best-selling author has taken the world by storm with his beautiful poetry and his powerful themes of love and strength of the human spirit. He remains anonymous so he can “write from the shadows” and share from his heart without judgement. I went deep on asking him about this, wondering what it’s like to create like that, and how we can art from a place where we feel exposed.   Question Highlights: -How did your environment feed who you are now? -When did you discover that you had something worth putting down? -How did your inspiration come through for you? -How do you notice when you’re feeling stuck, and how do you get out of it? -Do you ever regret being anonymous? -Where do you feel these creative ideas are coming from? -What advice do you have for people who feel really stuck in life? -What is your favorite poem?   Guest Bio: Atticus is the anonymous New York Times Bestselling author of Love Her Wild, The Dark Between Stars and The Truth About Magic. He is a storyteller and observer. Born in the Pacific Northwest, he’s spent much of his life exploring the world and now calls California his home. He loves the ocean, the desert, and playing with words.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -How training others can lead to the growth you need -Quieting our limiting beliefs -How confidence comes from overcoming difficulties   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: We’ve got another quickie this week, and to add to the fun I’ve got a special guest today that you’ve probably heard before, Lindsey Schwartz. We’re in the middle of our “train the trainer” event, Eventluv, for speakers and facilitators. We talk about how training can lead to growth, and about how doing the hard things you need to do is what results in real confidence and magic.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Reflecting and setting intentions for the new year -Identifying the underlying theme of last year -Feeling lost and anxious -Becoming the person you need to be without it hurting -Enjoying where you’re already at   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about reflections, feeling lost, making transitions, and enjoying life.   Question 1: @magzszs How do you transition from an old environment into your new environment without being rude?   Question 2: @alycek.peterson How do you allow yourself to trust the process?  What triggers taking action?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -The transformations that Tara has seen -Showing up regardless of your mood -Practicing consistency daily -Holding a mirror up to yourself -Taking massive action -Avoiding self-sabotage -Living guilt-free -Setting aside time for yourself -How important communication is   Resources: -tararomano.com -toneandtease.com -yourlifeunleashedevent.com -Instagram: @tara_romano -becomealigned.com   Show Notes: Tara Romano, every year at my Bliss event, blows everyone’s mind, rocks their world, and makes them feel 100 times sexier. Her heart is so beautiful, and she is that person who you feel so invited to be your biggest, best self in front of. She makes doing crazy dance moves feel comfortable. She is hilarious, she is fun, and she is so talented. We get into her mindset, where it comes from, and how you can unleash yourself to show up as that wild, big, bold, sexy version of yourself.   Question Highlights: -How did you get started with this? -What did bartending help you learn that you use now? -What did the years leading up to your big success look like, and how does it feel now? -What would you say to the person who isn’t yet seeing themselves in the right light? -What were the things you did that finally made a difference? -How have you been able to find the joy within hard things? -Do the behaviors that you used to self-sabotage ever resurface still?   Guest Bio: Tara Romano is a serial entrepreneur, performer, teacher, personal development junkie and unshakable optimist dedicated to helping you unleash and let go so that you can become the best version of you. She has an insatiable curiosity about what it means to live life to the fullest. Whether it’s hosting Tone & Tease masterclasses around the world, speaking at conferences, or confessing the struggles of her love for carbo loaded temptations on an IG live, she wants you to know, being perfectly imperfect is something to celebrate!

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Using visualization to have breakthroughs Facing the things you are afraid of Embracing the things you are meant to do Starting the things you need to and following through   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: I have a huge ask for you. No matter how you feel about visualization, I want you to go along with me. For me, and so many top performers, visualization is so important. Just keep your eyes closed and let your mind wander. We’re going to be going through a process of start, stop, face, and embrace. Get comfortable, because we’re going to be here for the next 20 minutes.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Being in transition Turning unwanted criticism into compassion The importance of communication Having tough conversations Letting go of the mainstream idea of balance Talk to yourself as if you’re talking to a friend Resources: Learn more: The Bliss Project Learn more: eventluv.com Read: A Tribe Called Bliss Watch: Radical Candor Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about transitions, communication, and work/life/everything else balance. Review of the Week: mandisueday Lori’s heartfelt and motivating messages are top of her game! When her co-host Evans joined, the podcast gained a playful and witty spirit that I absolutely adore! While listening to this podcast, I gained my first client! I also gained more self-appreciation and a BIG ‘ol healthy dose of laughter. 😂This is my weekly bliss. Thank you Lori and Evans. You have truly blessed my life. I love you guys!   Question 1: @magzszs How do you transition from an old environment into your new environment without being rude? Question 2: @al.lanz What are your struggles with communication and how have you moved on from those? Question 3: @cbello4410 How do you balance life, work, working on yourself and making sure you have time for others?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -How Ali helps brands + influencers work together -Growth mode + creating a company culture -Celebrating employee milestones -Keeping up with an ever-changing social media landscape -Figuring out TikTok -Moving past imposter syndrome -Making mistakes + not getting bent up over them -Having a strong why behind a product -Creating authentic social media content   Resources:   -besocialpr.com -Instagram: @besocialgroup -Instagram: @aligrant -Read: Radical Candor -becomealigned.com Show Notes: Ali Grant is a leader who has built an extraordinary business. Her company, Be Social, helps influencers and corporations build powerhouse brands. Be Social is currently scaling and growing, so this conversation is a must-listen if you are interested in building a vision bigger than yourself and want to know how it’s done.   Question Highlights: -How do you create a company culture if you're a small business? -How do you show up as the leader and keep people excited about your vision? -What gets you back into your creativity? -How should influencers approach TikTok? -What do you do to keep yourself really grounded every single day? -What are three things that make people uber successful in business? -What makes a product go viral?   Guest Bio: Ali Grant launched Be Social in 2012 as one of the first agencies executing integrated influencer outreach and collaboration. Today, the communications group is headquartered in Los Angeles specializing in digital-forward campaigns for lifestyle, wellness and beauty brands and talent. With Ali at the helm, Be Social has been named one of Inc.’s fastest growing businesses, spearheading digital campaigns across influencers, social, events and publicity. Be Social is a member of the The Professional Beauty Association (PBA) and The PR Net. The firm supports and is partnered with the Freedom & Fashion non-profit, which uses the arts of fashion and beauty to empower youth overcoming trafficking, homelessness and other injustices.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Making every year better than your last even if it’s hard -Making choices that don’t betray yourself -Busting your ass but also taking time to rest + recover -Creating a sense of urgency to get your message out -Believing that you are loved + protected by God or the Universe -The bravery involved in failing + the potential for failure to propel us into bigger arenas   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Before we really get stuck into 2020, I want you to take time here to be proud of the things that you've done. Think of a moment last year where you showed up when you didn't want to, and got results. We have to get really grateful for these moments. And I want to say welcome to 2020. Welcome to this epic opportunity where you get to create a year that is different from the last and you get to make choices in the direction that you want to go. This is truly time to create and rise up and put things out in the world in such a massive way. I want you to treat 2020 like it is your last year to play. Find the courage, energy and strength to do something big and different. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -The downside of gossip -Creating a new position for yourself at work -Taking the time to appreciate the little things -What to read if you struggle to find the time   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Happy new year! Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. We cover goal-setting at work, setting an intention to find joy in your life and how to meet your reading goals.    Review of the Week: MsLids Another aha moment thanks to Lori and Evans! Whenever I need some inspiration, laughter or an aha moment, I tune into Earn Your Happy, and usually there is always something in an episode that is exactly what I need to hear. I was listening to Evans and Lori talk about pivots and Lori was sharing the story about baby sea turtles and it was the aha, calming advice I needed. You see I’m a mom to a 14 year old middle schooler that has really struggled this year and my momma bear has wanted to come in and “fix” it. Hearing that the turtles need to struggle on land so they can survive in the sea was a great analogy for parenting middle school girls. This struggle is part of her learning how to figure things out and my job is to provide her with the tools to help but not do it for her. Thanks as always for the motivation!!   Question 1: Morgan I took a job recently that feels like the right thing right now, but as soon as a better opportunity comes up I want to take it. How do I do that without feeling guilty about leaving my current job?   Question 2: @aspengineer How do you have time for reading? Reading more is a big goal!   Question 3: @cailynprins What are the little things you do every day to bring yourself joy?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Our Become Aligned course -The experiential economy + EventLuv -Our New Year’s Eve manifesting ritual -Why Chris decided not to go to Justin Beiber’s party + P Diddy’s 50th birthday -How Lori’s building a physical product business  -Chris’ plan to write a book in 2020 -Mentally detaching from the desire to please people -Saying no to things, even when you want to support people -The need to keep growing + developing -Having tough conversations with people because you want to love them more -Facing reality about your physical health -The fine line between giving yourself grace + holding yourself accountable -Knowing your value + obeying the law of chemistry   Resources: -fortheloveofmoney.com -Instagram: @chriswharder -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: This episode is with my husband, Chris Harder. He interviewed me for our end-of-year wrap on his show, For The Love Of Money, and I liked it so much I decided to share it with you. It is all about the things that we are going to be doing - and not doing - to become the next version of ourselves. Tag us on Instagram and tell us what you’re going to start, stop, face and embrace in 2020.  Question Highlights: -What are you gonna start doing? -What are you gonna stop doing?  -What are you gonna face?  -What are you going to embrace?  Guest Bio: After an 11-year career as an executive and partner in the banking industry, Chris experienced plenty of success, however he severely lacked fulfillment – and was completely burned out. Recognizing that a change needed to be made, he retired from banking in 2011 and partnered with his wife, Lori, and her brand, LoriHarder.com, along with their Isagenix network marketing business. Chris now handles most of the business affairs and business coaching for their two multimillion dollar brands, and has found exactly the fulfillment and happiness he was seeking in a career. Chris is the host of the new hit podcast, “For the Love of Money”, aimed at helping people bust through their money mindset blocks to become unapologetic about their pursuit of wealth. It is through interviewing business moguls and celebrities and exposing their exciting stories of contribution and philanthropy that he helps prove that money is a tool for good in a world with many needs.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Getting clear on what’s important to you in 2020 -Checking in with your dreams every time you go to make plans Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: It’s almost time for the new year, and we get to choose how we feel about it. There is so much beautiful energy around 2020 of manifesting what you want and getting rid of what you don't want. A lot of times I fail at reaching my goals because I’m prioritizing things that are less important or not important or things that I don't actually want, and I get stuck in the busy work. And the more and more clear that I've gotten about letting go of things, the more I’ve been able to focus on what matters. I want you to ask some simple questions: -What needs to go?  -Who do you need to say no to?  -What do you need to stop doing?  -What do you need to let go of in order to make room for what you want? I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Avoiding the rabbithole of worrying that you’re making the wrong decisions -Digging yourself out of sad places as fast as possible -Developing a sense of urgency around your goals -Hiring an assistant or contractor before you’re ready -How scrolling Instagram only delivers the picture-perfect aspect of someone’s life   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about goals. If you’re in a place where you’re consistently not reaching your goals, it’s time to get realistic about where you’re at energetically. Maybe you’re not doing the things to hold yourself accountable to your goals, like telling people or putting money down. Maybe you don’t have enough willpower left at the end of the day to focus on another thing and you need to prioritize self-care so that you can be the person who can achieve your goals. Wherever you’re at, we wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. Just know that things are working even when they feel like they're not working and all you need to know is, you’ve got this.    Review of the Week: chandlerrae12 My Cup of Energy & Life in the Mornings! Good morning Lori and Evans (btw, love your name!)! Just wanted to start off by saying that you two are my pick-me-up for the rest of the day on Tuesdays and Thursdays as I am driving to class - especially in Phoenix traffic! I feel as though I am sitting right there with you, sipping on my iced matcha latte, laughing at the hilarious tangents and ideas that are thought of; you guys need someone to make a list of all your brilliant ideas, haha! Anyway, I love you both so much and appreciate your wisdom for this soon-to-be college grad! Everything is so relatable and so true. Keep on being your authentic selves and I will continue to do the same. Much Love, Chandler Derby   Question 1: @empowermentwithelizabeth Advice for when you invest in yourself, do the work, but feel like year after year you're not reaching goals/not much further than the previous year?   Question 2: @tay_pelletier How can you prioritize goals without losing work/life balance?   Question 3: @mindset_michelle How many goals at a time can you work on?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -Hannah’s destination wedding in Paris -Why she has zero regrets about her dress -What Hannah does for fun -Transitioning from music videos to more narrative projects -Working collaboratively to bring an artist’s vision to life -The rise of female directors   Resources: -hannahluxdavis.com -Instagram: @hannahluxdavis -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: Hannah Lux-Davis is an award-winning director who works with musicians like Ariana Grande, Miley Cyrus and Lana Del Ray. In this conversation we cover everything from how she started in filmmaking as a production assistant and make-up artist to why she avoids jumping on Instagram.   Question Highlights: -How do you deal with lots of big personalities and potentially big egos? -How do you stay focused on something when there is a lot of pressure? -How do you avoid getting stuck when things aren’t going your way? -What shows up in your body and mind when you're not in alignment with your work? -How do you tap into your creativity?  -What do wish people who would like to emulate your career would ask you?   Guest Bio: Hannah Lux-Davis is an award-winning American filmmaker best known for her striking imagery and iconic vision. The industry's top artists consistently trust her to create boundary-pushing music videos that garner billions of views around the globe. With experience and design, directing and editing, she curates every detail on her projects from start to finish.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -EventLuv - there’s only 11 spots left! -Why having the right perspective is everything -How changing your perspective when things are tough is the real work -How to flip your perspective   Resources: -Learn more: eventluv.com -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Perspective is a beautiful thing that can turn something negative into something that is actually life changing and positive. I practice flipping my perspective all the time because the most successful and happy people that I know all have this power. What is something you can change your mind about? For example maybe you’re going to the gym and feel like you hate it and you’re not seeing results. Thank yourself for showing up and doing something hard because you are building that muscle of showing up even when you don’t feel like it’s worth it. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Feeling overwhelmed during the holiday season -How sorrow and contrast prepare you for joy -Self-care assessments -How in order to be great, you have to be willing to bomb -Knowing when you need to ask for help  -Refusing to be responsible for other people’s happiness -Not rewarding shitty behavior   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about joy. Happy holidays! And don’t worry if you’re a little out of routine - we're gonna get back to our normal feelings and pant sizes soon.  Review of the Week: KarlBird18 ★★★★★ " The Earn Your Happy podcast is the fuel for my fire and never fails to bring a spark of joy into my life (a big spark!). Every Wednesday morning, Lori and Evans join me for my morning workout, motivating me to keep working on my dreams in their fun and silly ways. On more than one occasion, people stop to ask me why I’m smiling and giggling so much during my workout and I love to recommend the podcast to them. My friends and I have inside jokes inspired by Lori and Evan’s witty conversations (Jugernut 😂) and I feel like we’re all one big tribe cheering on each other’s dreams and celebrating our authenticity. Whenever I’m feeling anxious or down on myself, I’ll re-visit Lori’s quickies for an instant dose of motivation or the Questionably Awesome episodes to remind me that life is meant to be enjoyed! I have it on my vision board to one day meet Lori and Evans and to attend the Bliss Project! Thank you both for shining and sharing your irreplaceable awesomeness! Chelsey Bird   Question 1:@al.lanz What do you do when you feel like nothing is joyful? Question 2: @brittgalipeau How do you help people find joy within themselves and stop relying on you for their joy?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -EventLuv - there are only 11 spots left! -The impetus behind Trent’s work - he lost a friend to suicide eight years ago -How he started playing football and the role models that made his success possible -Living for yourself, not other people -Breaking relationships down to three levels  -Trent’s morning ritual - appreciation, affection, accomplishment and activity -Protecting your peace -Helping people turn their pain into power -Accepting everything about yourself Resources: -trentshelton.com -Instagram: @trentshelton -Read: The Greatest You -Read: Straight Up -becomealigned.com -eventluv.com   Show Notes: Trent Shelton is a professional footballer turned motivational speaker, writer and coach. His mission is to help people find promise in their darkest hours and be their greatest self. To do this he teaches about riding out storms, having a perspective that life is to serve you and protecting your peace at all costs.   Question Highlights: -Where do you find the motivation every day to talk to people? -How do you come back from those moments where you feel like you did something horrible or disappointed people? -What are some of the rituals that you do to start going in the direction that you want to go each morning? -How do you handle criticism in your DMs ? -How do you be content with what's going on right now while also striving to be better and reach your highest potential?   Guest Bio: Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver (having been a member of the Indianapolis Colts, Seattle Seahawks and the Washington Redskins) that is now considered one of the most impactful speakers of this generation. He reaches over 50 million people weekly through his various social media outlets and non-profit organization, RehabTime. Shelton travels the world sharing his message of creating lasting change in life. He and his wife Maria live in Fort Worth, Texas, with their two children, Tristan and Maya.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: Eventluv - it’s in January and spots are running out Short-term versus long-term joy Giving yourself grace and staying compassionate Fully expressing yourself and not caring if other people like it or not Bringing more fun to everything   Resources: Learn more: eventluv.com Learn more: The Bliss Project Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: I’m recording this episode on my 39th birthday. I’m feeling deep gratitude, and I want to share with you the most important thing I have learned about life. Our only job is to stay in joy. Sometimes we are so far from it that we don’t even know what it would look like to be in joy. So to be in joy we need to focus on what fulfills us and what makes us proud of ourselves. Whether it’s taking your vitamins, putting that voodoo doll down or meditating, take all the steps to focus on the good you can do for yourself and in the world.  I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Evans’ real name -The amazing results we get from being consistent -Clearing out the clutter -Preparing for tough conversations -Giving yourself grace to get emotional -Recognizing that we don’t always get closure and justice -Non-threatening ways of opening up communication   Resources: -Learn more: The Bliss Project -Learn more: eventluv.com -Read: A Tribe Called Bliss   Show Notes: Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking about communication.    Review of the Week: Lindsay Klix "This is actually my second review for this podcast, my first one was back when it first started and there were only a handful of episodes. This is the first podcast that I began listening to on a regular basis, and every podcast I listen to now, I first heard about here. I always listen while working alone in my pottery studio and in every episode I learn such amazing life lessons, gain inspiration, and have fun and laugh. This right here is what the world needs more of! Thank you Lori, and thank you Evans for giving us all this amazing gift!❤️" Question 1: @caitlynjansen How do you overcome crying when in a serious heated argument with a significant other? Question 2: @andi_ruth How do you know when you need to have a tough conversation vs handling the issue within yourself? Question 3: @_hales.yea_ In a "sitdown talk" how do you get them to open up when they never have and just don’t know how to?

In This Episode You Will Learn About: -Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course -Facing rejection  -Being upfront when we’re dating -Developing a secure sense of self  -Releasing pressure to be in a serious relationship by a certain time -Avoiding the unrealistic expectation that your partner meets all your needs -Learning how to constructively disagree    Resources: -stefanossifandos.com -stefanossifandos.com/bethequeen -Instagram: @stefanossifandos -becomealigned.com   Show Notes: Stefanos Sifandos started studying relationships because he sucked at them. He was pretending he was faithful, happy and unafraid when the opposite was true. Eventually he got tired of trying to hide his childhood traumas and pain and started to look at every aspect of himself. His own journey sparked questions about healing the planet, and now he merges the best of Eastern and Western philosophies to help others enhance their lives and intimate relationships.    Question Highlights: -How did you start to fall in love with the dynamics of relationships? -How can you attract a partner who’s really in alignment with what you’re doing? -How do you know what your partner should be to you and what should be being filled by other people? -How do we release stories and timelines around when we’re supposed to be married or have found a partner? -What advice do you have for people that want to take a risk but fear they might end up worse off? -You're about to be married. How do you share your truth with your fiancée, and what does it look like when you fight?   Guest Bio: Stefanos Sifandos has traversed the depths of his own pain, suicidal thoughts and profound fears and created innovative methodologies and models for navigating the often difficult path of contemporary manhood and intimate relationships. His work merges the best of Eastern and Western philosophies to bring people closer to their potential. On this journey Stefanos has worked with thousands of men and women from all over the world including elite special forces soldiers, Olympic gold medalists and world champion fighters.