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Caryn Gillen
Caryn (like "car in"surance) Gillen works with coaches who want their businesses to feel as great as their coaching does.
Known for her warm but direct manner and laser-like ability to get to the root of the issue, her primary focus is helping clients get what they want, and do life their way, taking the most impactful route.
Caryn is a Master Coach, former commercial fisherman and therapist, and holds a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology.
The Shift That Is Coming
In this episode, I talk with Business Strategist, Neil Schimmel. We talk about institutional barriers, team dynamics, and showing up as your authentic self.
After this past year, there is no more community-wide lie that people in the workplace don't also have a real life at home (because we SAW it). In the midst of COVID we were forced to recognize that both exist, simultaneously.
And, because of that, we are not going back to a typical 9-5 corporate environment.
The status quo is simply not good enough anymore... It's not working (and hasn't been for quite some time). The companies and teams that will do the best moving forward are the ones that will allow people to do the work the way they want to do it, where they want to get it done, and even - in many cases - at the pace of their choosing (in conjunction with company goals).
The way we work has changed and will continue to change. "What a tremendous moment and opportunity this is."
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For more business fun and exploration, join me over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
Looking for the person you trust and admire, whose values align with yours, to give you an assist - so that you can be in it for the long game? My next round of group mentoring/coaching/masterminding opens SOON. Want to know if we're a fit? Check it out HERE. (https://caryngillen.lpages.co/mmgc521/)
41:2112/07/2021
Own Where You Are
Whatever you're gonna do, own it.
People always ask me what I wish I'd known in the beginning. Here it is. Are you ready for it?
When you start to take it seriously is when it gets serious.
You have a "real" business. The only person who gets to decide that is you. And, the time to decide is right now.
This short episode is a calling out, a calling forth. It's a bit of my backstory and the very best thing I've learned.
Where are the places you can (and need) to catch yourself? What limiting beliefs can you drop? Where does it get good? And, why can't you step into that now?
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For more business fun and exploration, join me over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
Looking for the person you trust and admire, whose values align with yours, to give you an assist - so that you can be in it for the long game? My next round of group mentoring/coaching/masterminding opens SOON. Want to know if we're a fit? Check it out HERE. (https://caryngillen.lpages.co/mmgc521/)
11:3705/07/2021
Finding Your Signature Program and Caring for Your Clients
Why do you do what you do? What's it for? What does it create - for both you and your clients?
Today's conversation, with Maya Gaddie, is all about bringing more of yourself to the work AND caring for your clients really, really well - topics we are both very passionate about!
In the last 10 years, Maya has helped over 300 clients create purposeful and profitable signature programs.
We talk about unpacking industry standards, why you should organize now and stick to a simple system that works, and finding the thing(s) that you do best... the ones that light you up inside.
Do yourself a favor and listen to this episode. Then, keep showing up, keep being honest, and keep serving your clients. Those are the most important things AND they will never stop serving you.
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You can learn more about Maya at mayagaddie.com and/or find her on social - she is mayagaddie in ALL the places!
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
29:4928/06/2021
Cultivating Resilience
Today's episode is a fun one! I talk to Jason Shen (a former NCAA gymnast, 3x venture-backed startup founder, and product leader at companies like Facebook, Etsy, and the Smithsonian) about cultivating resilience and playing by your own rules.
Jason says, "resilience is all about how we successfully adapt in the face of change. And, how you can make that change work for you and your situation." He reminds us to trust our instincts and creatively explore whatever comes next.
He also shares some daily practices to help build resilience. You've gotta hear him talk about those... so good!
Other topics covered include:
- How reflecting on the past helps you learn and grow faster
- Why it's important to be emotionally in-tune (and how we can hold more than one emotion at a time)
- The link between rest and resilience
- Normalizing the sales process, while appreciating the vulnerability and intimacy inherent there
- What true strength looks like (and why it's not always what you think)
As well as, so much more!
I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. And, that these insights from Jason help you build and strengthen your resilience.
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For more about Jason, check out his newsletter on Cultivating Resilience (jasonshen.substack.com). Follow him on Twitter (https://twitter.com/jasonshen). And/or, watch his TED talk - which has received over 4M views. (https://www.ted.com/talks/jason_shen_looking_for_a_job_highlight_your_ability_not_your_experience)
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
47:0721/06/2021
Living the Life You Want To Live
In today's episode, I talk to my uncle, Ron Flint, about living the life you want to live and embracing what you want.
There are a million roads to satisfaction. And, as the owner of a successful second-generation business, he has got some wisdom to share around:
- Building a business that lasts
- Being a good boss
- Team satisfaction and retention
- Building momentum beyond the effort you're putting in each day
He also gives us the low-down on his personally-tested, favorite outdoor gear and a tip that makes packing for travel smarter (not harder). Listen in!
To learn more about Ron and Nugget Alaskan Outfitter visit https://nuggetoutfitter.com/.
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
35:3114/06/2021
Behind the Scenes of My Sold-Out Launch
In my last Group Coaching/Mastermind launch, I sold out two groups with ONE sales email. And, I filled 25% of the next one. In this behind-the-scenes episode, I tell you what that looked like and share some decisions I made along the way. Namely, why I decided to prioritize pacing for myself and the size of the container for my clients as opposed to "I can do more, faster, now."
There are lots of different ways to do things. All you need to do is DECIDE what feels best to you. How do YOU want it to look? What would make the long game MORE enjoyable?
Keep growing, keep going. It's only going to get better!
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In this episode, I mention:
My 6-Month Group Coaching/Mastermind Experience - now accepting applications for August (https://caryngillen.lpages.co/mmgc521/)
Lead Your Profit - a self-paced course/prep work for Group Coaching (https://caryngillen.thinkific.com/courses/lead-your-profit)
The Playground - a FREE Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
10:3112/06/2021
See + Be Seen: A Lesson On Visibility
Today's guest, Danielle Cohen is a Visibility Coach, professional photographer, and the creator of Visibility Medicine.* She is also the person who helped me come up with the name for this podcast!
How do you see yourself?
How do you see others?
How are you showing up to be seen?
And, where is there room to push that?
These are important questions - and ones we should definitely be asking ourselves on a regular basis, especially as online business owners.
In this episode, Danielle and I talk about that, as well as:
>> What has shifted in business (particularly, in the life coach space) over this past year
>> A term Danielle has dubbed "risky revelation"
>> When to take up space and when to lean back
>> Where we're headed - in terms of visibility and vulnerability
We'd love for you to listen and let us know what YOU think.
Does this resonate for you? Is there anything you're going to lean into/change/celebrate?
"My hope is that we continue to move towards truly being known and seeking to know the other, as fully expressed human beings." - Danielle Cohen
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*Visibility Medicine is a program that supports powerful and prosocial creatives, coaches, leaders, and healers to increase and align their visibility so they can have the impact they're here to have - and thrive while doing it. To learn more about Danielle Cohen and her work visit www.danielle-cohen.com.
For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
26:1707/06/2021
Working Against Violence
Today, I invite you to listen, consider, and act on whatever feels important.
Joining me in this conversation is Annette Bennett - Tlingit mother, auntie, and the Executive Director of a nonprofit working with people impacted by violence (Working Against Violence for Everyone or WAVE) in Petersburg, Alaska. (https://www.petersburgwave.org/)
Annette wants us to know that violence has a lot of layers and that it's often more complicated than people think. They also remind us that consent is about so much more than just sex.
We talk about the joys of parenting, connecting back to the 'why' that's behind what you're doing, the most difficult thing about running a non-profit, and personal boundaries (aka how they take care of themselves).
It was a lovely and important conversation. I hope you'll think so too.
The book Annette mentioned at the end is HERE, if you'd like to check it out. (Happy: Why More or Less of Everything is Fine by Derren Brown)
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches and entrepreneurs. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
30:0331/05/2021
Growing Through Discomfort
This conversation has so many helpful gems. But, will be especially good for anyone who wrestles with change and feeling uncomfortable or who wants to grow their capacity for leadership.
Today's guest, Stacey Heath is an Organizational Development specialist and a self-proclaimed change addict.
We talk about:
- How values drive our decisions
- Why self-awareness is so important
- One of the most critical boundaries we can have
- Recognizing and creating opportunities for 'leadership moments'
- And, leaning into discomfort/resistance (to get to the good stuff)
As Stacey says, "we avoid discomfort and that's normal." But, what are we potentially missing out on by doing so?
Stacey has a fascinating story, does really important work in the world, and is a joy to know. Take a listen to our conversation and think about what resonates for you.
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Stacey Heath is a Principal at Change Dynamics, LLC. She is also the Board Chair and a long-time volunteer for StreetRoots (https://www.streetroots.org/), Portland Oregon's award-winning weekly street newspaper.
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
27:3624/05/2021
Making 'Failure' Fun & Learning to Trust Yourself
What was your biggest business failure? What things have you invested in where you didn't get the result you wanted? What would you say to coaches and entrepreneurs who are in the depths of self-doubt, shame, and misery? What do you do to move through fear/when you're feeling like a hot mess?
Have you ever wished you could ask someone these questions? Someone who's maybe just a little further along on the journey than you are, someone who would answer truthfully and with your best interest in mind?
Today's podcast interview is one of my favorites so far! We turn the tables, a bit, and I am interviewed by one of my clients, Savanna Schiavo.
Savanna always shows up with so much genuine excitement and curiosity. She asks me ALL THE THINGS she has ever wanted to know and I answer, candidly.
It's a bunch of stuff I never talk about out loud. And, a bunch of stuff Savanna said was so helpful to know. We peel back the curtain on my life and business. Nothing is off-limits, we leave it all on the table.
Here's an overview. We talk about:
- My biggest failure and what I learned from it
- Investments that didn't turn out the way I'd planned
- The book I wrote and left behind (you'll have to listen to the episode to hear more on that)
- How I make decisions now
- How to trust yourself
- Why it's dangerous to put people on pedestals and what you can/should do instead
- The thing I am currently making more room for
- Freedom as a business owner/entrepreneur
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Savanna is a Life and Confidence Coach who helps entrepreneurs grow their confidence in themselves so they can seriously grow their businesses.
She works with her clients to build their confidence in themselves, their expertise, what they offer, and how they feel in front of their audience.
You can find her at https://confidencewithsavanna.com/
And, also on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/savanna.schiavo
Or, in her group: Grow Your Confidence, Grow Your Business (https://www.facebook.com/groups/growyourconfidencegrowyourbusiness)
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For more business fun and exploration, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
51:0917/05/2021
Opportunities Are Everywhere
What do coaching and commercial fishing have in common? More than you might think.
In today's episode, I relive my time on a commercial fishing boat with Captain and long-time friend, Tony Moran.
Like many guests of the show, Tony is an amazing human and has his own unique way of doing things... Listen in as we talk about:
- How to find and take advantage of the opportunities that surround you
- Your responsibility, as a boss, to the people you hire
- Following the money AND enjoying the heck out of your job
- How being efficient really pays off
- And, why everyone should find a great mentor
Tony says, "where I live and work is one of the most beautiful places on the planet." I agree... the scenery and marine life we got to see every day on the boat was one of my favorite parts as well. Sit back and let us tell you about it!
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Tony Moran is the Captain of the Tacoma. He resides in Petersburg, AK (where I'm from). And, has a 1600 Ton Master’s license - enabling him to operate the BIG boats. He supplies to Trident Seafoods. And, is very passionate about/would love us all to take a look at a cause that is near and dear to his heart: Stopping the Pebble Mine in Bristol Bay (https://stoppebbleminenow.org/).
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For more business fun and exploration, as well as behind-the-scenes on each episode, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches. (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
40:1610/05/2021
BTS: A Few Things I've Learned
At this point, I have recorded about 15 episodes and there are a few things I've learned.
Every once in a while, I'll drop a behind-the-scenes/bonus episode, because I love to be let in on other people's process - what they're up to, what they're learning, how they're going to shift and change as a result. So, I thought I'd do the same for you. It's all part of the FUN!
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For more business fun and exploration, as well as more behind-the-scenes, join us over at The Playground - a free Facebook group for coaches/business owners (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen).
03:1501/05/2021
Caryn with Meredith Holley on Healthy Workplaces & Protecting Your Career
Today's episode features my friend, Meredith Holley. She's a lawyer, life coach, and the founder of Eris Conflict Resolution. The work that she's doing in the world is so unique and important - I can't wait to share it with you!
I'd encourage you to listen today not only for how the thoughts and ideas we discuss might apply to you, but how they could also benefit and be applicable to someone you know.
Meredith is a cultural health expert who helps employees stop toxic work environments and sexual harassment without losing their jobs. Her practice is very client-focused and explores the myriad of options that are available in situations where it can often feel like there aren't any good ones.
The problems we can face in the workplace are serious (especially for folks who hold a marginalized identity). But, there is hope.
The stories Meredith shares, about her own and some of her clients' experiences, are a great example.
I hope you enjoy this conversation. And, I would encourage you to check out more about what Meredith is up to at ErisResolution.com.
She is also gifting listeners FREE ACCESS to both of her books:
Career Defense 101: How to Stop Sexual Harassment Without Quitting Your Job (CareerDefense101.com)
The Inclusive Leader's Guide to Healthy Workplace Culture (HealthyWorkplaceCulture.com)
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As always, if you are enjoying the podcast, we'd love it if you would subscribe, rate, and leave a review - we read and appreciate each one!
And, for more business fun and exploration, as well as a behind-the-scenes chat on each episode, join us over at The Playground (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen).
30:3629/04/2021
Caryn with Nikki McKnight & Erin Leslie on Bringing the Inside Out
We have a special episode for you this week, where I talk to my team (Nikki & Erin) about ALL the things. It's kind of like an out-loud team-building exercise, where we take all of the behind-the-scenes, bring them front-and-center, and invite you along for the ride!
We talk about:
- Why being in a hurry and reactive in business can be so costly
- Why it's important to operate from your values and actually "walk your talk"
- What a "business minimum baseline" is and how that can serve you (and your team)
- The process of moving from a "me" to a "we"
- Our mission to make the coaching industry better
- What we each bring to the team and why we love working together
You'll also hear about Nikki's love for rom-coms and why rapid-fire questions make Erin sweat.
Business should be FUN and this conversation is a great example of how it really, really can be! Welcome to Team CG. 🧡
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We all hang out over on Insta, probably the most.
@caryngillen
@nikki_mcknightmoc
@erinkleslie
And/or you can join us at The Playground (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen) for even more business fun and exploration!
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If you're enjoying the podcast, remember to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. We appreciate and read each and EVERY one.
40:5622/04/2021
Caryn with Gina Palumbo on Leaving Licensure & Entrepreneurial Potential
Caryn is joined on the podcast today by Gina Palumbo, a local relationship expert. In her practice, she serves individuals and couples, offering them a personalized approach to transforming their lifestyle, relationships, and work.
The main theme of this episode is FREEDOM. Two old (former therapist) friends talk about:
- Letting go of the rules we place around ourselves
- Honoring our POTENTIAL
- How courage often feels like sh*t and how that doesn't mean you're "doing it wrong"
- Embracing new levels of oxygen in our lives and
- Why it's so important for us, as business owners and entrepreneurs, to CELEBRATE
Listen in and see what lands for you!
And, as always, we'd love to hear about it. Subscribe, leave a review, and join us at The Playground (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen) for even more business fun and exploration!
You can learn more about Gina at ginapalumboma.com. Or, by giving her a call! She is old-school, and actually drops her number (in the podcast) for you to reach out.
39:3815/04/2021
Caryn with Kristin Messegee on Getting Coached, Masterminds & Growth
This conversation is full of joy, laughter, truth bombs, and transformation. Listen in as one of my clients, Kristin Messegee and I talk about ALL the things...
- 1:1 vs Group Coaching
- Showing up to do the work
- Vulnerability hangovers
- The importance of cheering each other on and having a supportive community
- Making decisions by listening to your nervous system
- Why we should always know what it's like to experience what we offer
- Having new problems and dreams
- Elevating the coaching industry and building a legacy with lasting impact
If you have been considering working with a coach or joining a mastermind, this conversation is a great place to start!
If you want to know what it's like to be coached by me, specifically, you'll get that too.
I hope this conversation is as fun for you to listen to as it was to record and that you walk away with exactly what you came for.
Caryn
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Links from today's episode:
>> Caryn's Group Coaching/Mastermind (https://caryngillen.lpages.co/mmgc521/) - Starts May 1 <<
Kristin's Facebook Group, Life Coaching for Enneagram 6 (https://www.facebook.com/groups/201879333945167)
Kristin's Instagram Handle: @kristinmessegeecoaching
Kristin's Website Helping Enneagram 6's Get Healthy (https://kristinmessegee.com/)
30:1910/04/2021
Caryn with Her Dad, Rocky Flint on Business, Family & the Long Game
Caryn comes from a family full of business owners. Her parents' business has been around for 40 years! Join the conversation as she and her dad talk about business, their family, and what it's like to be in it for the long game.
Rocky shares his takeaways on teachable moments, passion as the most important business driver, and what it's like to leave a legacy.
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Check out Caryn's family's business and see what Rocky's Marine is up to HERE (https://www.rockysmarine.com/).
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Want more hang time with Caryn? Join us at The Playground (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen) - her free Facebook community for behind-the-scenes content, deep-dive coaching, her signature "gut-punch" questions, and more!
28:4908/04/2021
Caryn with Rob Cohen on Holding Space and the Long Game
My guest today is Rob Cohen, my former employer and a restaurateur who builds community through public spaces.
In the past 27 years, Rob has built and/or owned a cafe, whiskey bar, fine dining restaurant, brewpub, deli and pizzeria. In all of these spaces he has tried to create inclusive, convivial places where friends become regulars and regulars become friends.
I learned a lot from Rob in this area and believe you will too. Take a listen as we talk about everything from the client/customer experience to taking risks and innovation in your industry.
This short conversation is a masterclass in holding space for others and winning at the long game with my friend, Rob Cohen.
Enjoy! And, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review! We love, read and appreciate each one.
Did all our talk of Falling Sky make you hungry and/or thirsty? Check them out here: https://fallingskybrewing.com/
Want more hang time with Caryn? Check out her free Facebook community, The Playground (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen) for behind-the-scenes content, deep-dive coaching, her signature "gut-punch" questions, and more!
33:1901/04/2021
Behind The Scenes: Episode 2
Before we REALLY get started I wanted to let you in on a few "Behind the Scenes" moments of getting this podcast off the ground.
Take a listen, subscribe, and leave a review!
Links mentioned in this episode:
Join me at The Playground, my free Facebook group for coaches (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
Brene Brown's podcasts (https://brenebrown.com/podcasts/)
Thanks for being here!
Caryn
02:4422/03/2021
Behind The Scenes: Episode 1
Before we REALLY get started I wanted to let you in on a few "Behind the Scenes" moments of getting this podcast off the ground.
Take a listen, subscribe, and leave a review!
Links mentioned in this episode:
Join me at The Playground, my free Facebook group for coaches (https://www.facebook.com/groups/caryngillen)
Thanks for being here!
Caryn
03:1018/03/2021