Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!   Today’s Sponsor:Quince - Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://www.quince.com/adulting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?27:53 You have to make you love yourself31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure47:51 The benefits of active journaling56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life  Connect with Tara on:https://www.taraschuster.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster https://www.tiktok.com/@taraschuster https://twitter.com/taraschustar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!.Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:34 It’s just that type of week02:55 Let me tell you about my week05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months 07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.   Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingEveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you02:45 Something most people don’t know about you04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl10:20 The Bhagavad Gita12:13 Best advice from your dad15:25 Holding onto resentment17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?20:26 When you feel invisible24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner32:37 Having a supportive partner35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?47:27 How do you connect better to others?50:28 What's your definition of love? 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out Connect with Radhi on:https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ .https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly (A Cookbook)Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at LumePodcast.com! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:10 Uche is an energy vampire03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie30:55 No one respects people who bring people downGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too! Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use the promo code ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?03:34 Part of Key Glock music video05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents11:09 Zodiac signs13:29 How did the influencer life started15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions31:41 Everyone is depressed36:15 He gave me STI41:51 It’s over, I’m done…43:26 I always know what I want to do45:43 Imposter syndrome46:11 What it feels not to have social cues49:46 Craziest job you had54:54 Getting a lot of hate58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about01:09:20 I like your teeth!Connect with Amanda on:https://www.youtube.com/@amandamccants5381 https://www.instagram.com/amandamccants https://www.tiktok.com/@amandamccants  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:HoneyLove - Get 20% off by going to https://www.honeylove.com/adsulting #honeylovepodCurology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?06:14 They say your hair keeps memories07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip13:32 You create your own reality17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?   Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think. But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl!  Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com/adulting and entering code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:04 How Violetta met Apryl05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy06:46 What’s your definition of love?08:50 How do you deal with your kids?13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better17:40 Not looking at anyone different18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough25:26 Always open to learning28:31 Having children is much bigger than us33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?38:35 How do you start dating again?41:50 It started with an Instagram DM45:58 Best and worst advice about love48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life 01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl JonesConnect with Apryl on:https://www.instagram.com/aprylsjones/ https://twitter.com/aprylsjones https://www.facebook.com/OfficialAprylJones/ https://www.tiktok.com/@apryljonesofficial Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it! Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.  Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingTalkspace - Get $80 off of you first month when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:50 Four steps to love yourself03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy  17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S531:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…34:41 Still following random girls on IG   Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you  need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.  Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products free or up to a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to https://curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better lifeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do. Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time. Today’s Sponsor:Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and manage our money the easy way by going to https://www.rocketmoney.com/adulting DoorDash - Get 50% off your first DoorDash order up to a $20 value when you use code ADULTING23, Visit https://www.doordash.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 How are these people in their 20s?02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.” Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Amika - Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.Curology - For discounts visit, www.curology.com/adulting Skims - Free shipping on orders over $75, visit www.skims.comWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?03:14 Describe me in one word05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?11:21 Sandwich flavors14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening19:53 Taken highly out of context21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?27:47 It’s done and final28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?31:06 Start loving yourself33:32 I just had to go through the pain36:05 How did you get through the breakup?39:10 Put yourself first40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported49:06 Rapid questions with Katie Connect with Katie on:https://www.instagram.com/musickillskate/ https://www.tiktok.com/@katiexmaloney Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:39 Call #1: This guy I met on Tinder asked if size mattered15:50 Call #2: He sh*t himself while I was giving him a bl*wj*b21:21 Call #3: Dylan, you’re not a serious person about me being your sugar baby  Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been easy, but today she is thankful and you will be too by the end of the episode. Today, Violetta shares FOUR STEPS that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page starting today with this episode! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:55 Let’s take a moment to be thankful03:44 Low moments are necessary to transform you07:06 Step #1: Ask yourself, “Is this working for me?”10:07 Step #2: It’s all in your head11:06 Step #3: Sit with rejection, be comfortable with it12:50 Step #4: Turn your resentment into your superpower14:35 Correlation between anger and passion to succeed17:43 Your mind will continuously believe what you tell itGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Amika -  Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co/ Honeylove - For a limited time get 20% off of your entire order with my exclusive link www.honeylove.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose16:40 Selling The OC - Polly17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall 19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler25:16 The lack of empathy for others26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…27:13 It was an escort partyGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harmEver wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.     WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time03:51 Do we look alike?06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin 09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came13:23 Manifesting what you want in life17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?23:43 A thousand random thoughts28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…33:26 Constant criticism about your looks38:24 Competition is an illusion40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?43:23 Public breakup is never easy48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace54:37 The human resilience in any situation56:33 The effect of divorce on children58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer  Connect with Laura on:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSfJoOxzmSr5ibdGcLN3Ysg https://www.instagram.com/lauraclery https://www.facebook.com/laura.clery/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraclery Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Shop all my favorites at loveamika.com/adulting and get 20% off your order.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as they come. So get ready for some seriously entertaining, toe-curling moments that'll have you saying, "I've been there too!"If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:03 Story #1: Overloaded teacher 13:12 Story #2: Disgusting, intimate experience17:31 Story #3: Walked out while doing the deed23:17 Story #4: The other guy was my crushGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:As a listener of this podcast, you’ll get $80 off your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com/ADULTINGDownload Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for.Shop all my favorites at loveamika.com/adulting and get 20% off your order.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden. Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!   WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:40 The story you tell yourself06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions20:09 Consumed by hatred24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?” Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for. https://hinge.co/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:01 The best revenge is to move on05:40 How to be the It Girl?13:05 Ways to let go and move on19:02 Ghosting tricksGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsor:Download Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app for.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds. Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.   What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state08:02 Are you in a system together?13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns 19:49 The natural fear to fall in love23:31 Struggling to open up 25:25 Know what’s your attachment style29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions33:21 Both need to show up for each other36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others42:31 The gray area on first dates47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt01:07:29 What people really need is not what they wantConnect with Figs on:https://empathi.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@empathinow https://www.facebook.com/EmpathiNow/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnPbjlO6Q0KBXVHXeGyivlw https://www.instagram.com/empathinow/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Get $1.49 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com/podcast and entering code 49adultingProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping togetherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that's up to 40% off) with promo code DULTING at lumedeoderant.com/ADULTING #lumepodFor a limited time, you'll get 50% off up to $10 on your next order of $15+ when you sign up for DashPass Student plan and enter code ADULTINGProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways. Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars." The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 Most people don’t know about you04:53 Fulfilling moments in the industry06:35 When roles rub off on you in real life11:09 Do you miss Pretty Little Liars?13:16 Starting young in the industry15:58 Advice for your younger self?16:44 How do you handle criticism19:52 Diagnosed with PCOS26:59 Every woman had different needs30:48 Have people around you can trust31:57 Physically and mentally stronger as a mother36:13 You can’t be another person39:57 Your purpose should be what you love doing44:00 Remember people as a whole, not just the positives47:37 Talking is important even when it’s not fun Connect with Sasha on:https://www.youtube.com/@sashapieterse https://www.facebook.com/TheSashaPietersePage/ https://www.instagram.com/sashapieterse/ https://www.instagram.com/womeninthenudepodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/sashaingoodtaste/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sashapieterse https://www.threads.net/@sashapieterse Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesEpisode Sponsors:Treat yourself to the best shape wear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com/adultingAs a listeners of this podcast, you'll get $80 off your first month with Talkspace when you go to Talkspace.com/adultingProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

And we're back! Hold onto your hats because we've got a whirlwind of exciting stories and insights to share with you in another Benson Knows Best episode.Violetta excitedly shares how she unexpectedly crossed paths with her 'future' husband just last weekend. But that's just the tip of the iceberg! And she's peeling back the layers of being a "placeholder" for someone else and learning how to read in between the pages and know your worth in your partner's future plans. Plus, men often categorize the women they meet. In what category do you fall under? Listen up and find out!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:20 I ran into my future husband this past weekend09:19 What is one thing you will never do again?10:52 Men and women look for different things12:41 You’re just a placeholder20:19 Three categories men have for the women they met20:31 Where do I buy my clothes?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How often do we find ourselves tangled in misconceptions about love, and what impact does this have on our relationships? Could redefining our understanding of love lead us to more fulfilling and authentic connections? As we navigate this emotional landscape, Violetta is up for a candid conversation that dismantles these misconceptions and leads us toward a more profound understanding of love's essence. It's time to bid farewell to those who don't see our value and make space for the ones who do. Let's take a look into the practical steps to mend our wounded hearts and how fall in love with ourselves once again. Afterall, it's a journey of rediscovery, embracing our worth, and rekindling our self-love flame.  WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:11 A man’s interest only grows in time, not disappear05:12 The biggest mistake we make is the idea of love07:38 Close your door to someone who won’t love you10:21 We lie to ourselves and think they’re the right person13:14 Who hurts more after the breakup?16:12 How to get over a heartbreak?20:28 Why does heartbreak hurt so much?24:11 Fall in love with yourself againGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, gorgeous souls! Hold onto your seats as we unveil the raw and riveting stories for another Confession Corner. We're here to dish out the juiciest details and sizzling discussions.Violetta gets candid on the complexity of relationships and emotions with the intricacies of postpartum depression and its impact on a relationship, a confession involving sibling rivalry, perceptions, and the pursuit of fairness. But we're not stopping there! We're peeling back the layers on the intoxicating world of friendship and attraction and those moments that make your heart skip a beat. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:01 Confession #1: I cheated on my wife while she had postpartum depression12:10 Confession #2: My sister Angela is obsessed with making me the bad person20:34 Confession #3: I ended having a crush with one of my guy friendsGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As your go-to gal for all things fun and motivational, I'm sharing with you today the conversation I had with Hannah Berner in her podcast, Berning in Hell. In this episode, Hannah and I dive into the humorous world of pet allergies and discuss the empowered choice of not having s*x by choice. From navigating emotions around watching prn to the empowering journey of reclaiming virginity, we're here to embrace every aspect of ourselves! We'll share some vulnerable moments, from the impact of getting off birth control to potentially losing hearing, reminding us to stay resilient. And, of course, we'll talk about the power of laughter and funny skiing stories that'll leave us in stitches!  It's time to live our best lives, Besties – you're in for a treat!  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:42 I’m so allergic to my cat…07:24 By choice, you’re not having s*x?14:56 Working on your people-pleasing habits18:05 When something bad happens, find the fun in it23:43 How does watching p*rn make you feel?26:40 Are you a v*rgin again?28:10 Why did you get off birth control?31:23 I could potentially lose hearing in left ear37:57 The happiest times in your life isn’t always about a milestone44:59 Let’s talk about some funny skiing stories   Connect with Hannah on:https://hannahberner.com/https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_bernerhttps://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/Berning in Hell PodcastGiggly Squad PodcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! It's a brand new Benson Knows Best episode. Get ready for exciting announcements and juicy discussions as we dive into some burning questions from you guys! In this episode, Violetta is keeping it real with a candid conversation about hormones that haven't gone back to normal, the complexities of love and relationships as we address some questions you guys sent including how to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for – trust me, we've all been there, a possible narcissistic prick, who keeps you around for their ego boost, and a break down of why some men treat us poorly and how to break free from that cycle of disappointment.WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:10 I have a few announcements04:09 Make sure to check in with your friends and family06:31 My hormones have not gone back to normal13:07 Question #1: How to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for?17:57 Question #2: Is he a narcissist prick who’s trying to keep me around to make him feel better?28:08 Question #3: I’m at a loss as to why men treat me so badly?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives.Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest your desires and tap into your intuition while also exploring the mindset required for a fulfilling practice, the irresistible love letter method to make someone obsessed with you, and some laughter as they recount hilarious stories from their teen years.As they venture into the divine practice of tarot card reading, they will unveil the basic principles behind this mystical art and even conduct love readings for the fabulous listeners. With insights into breaking old patterns and the empowering whisper method, let's manifest our wildest dreams and unleash the magic within. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:23 How did you get into manifesting and tarot card reading?04:54 What's one thing you wish the people understood better when it came to manifesting?06:29 How do you manifest properly?07:54 How can you tap into your own intuition?13:28 What mindset do you need to be in before practicing manifestation?17:52 Walk around with an identity that would make people treat you better19:38 How do you get someone obsessed over you?23:29 What is the love letter method?24:33 Give them a chance to think about you28:17 Affirmations for the next 21 days to attract abundance in your life29:27 Funny story when I was 13 years old32:29 What are the basic principles behind tarot card reading?33:33 Let’s do love reading for the listeners39:58 Love reading for Violetta46:30 Is it working for you to repeat old patterns?47:18 What is the whisper method? Connect with Hot High Priestess on:https://www.youtube.com/c/HotHighPriestess https://www.instagram.com/hothighpriestess/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hothighpriestess Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect.  It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this.Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that friend unplugged so many pent up emotion, highlighting the importance of talking about feelings and embracing vulnerability. We will explore the impact of taking accountability for everything and the power of vulnerability in strengthening our connections. Crying becomes a powerhouse tool for emotional healing as we validate our emotions. Plus, find reassurance that time heals all wounds and love will find you again. Get ready to embrace your emotions, love yourself fiercely.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:24 Taking accountability to a fault06:38 How can you tell when someone cares?11:18 Channeling your anger onto the wrong things15:02 How can people learn to love you when you’re not letting them in?19:29 Adam from Reddit said: “Scientific facts imply that crying is actually healthy.”23:06 Do you still think about the ex that you left?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity. We'll travel back to our childhood to understand the root of our shadows and explore the four most common patterns of childhood wounds. Through integration and acceptance, we'll celebrate our wholeness and emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than ever before. So, cozy up, my lovely sisters, and embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and growth. Your big sister is here to guide you every step of the way!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:39 The shadow is where we keep our most hidden thoughts and desires02:06 What is shadow work?04:18 Top 3 places you will meet your shadow self09:47 There’s nothing worse than trying to work on yourself but people kept blaming you12:08 When we're dating people, we end up holding a mirror to ourselves 17:58 First step is to acknowledge the existence of the shadow 19:31 Second step is cultivate self awareness22:34 How do we bring our shadows to the surface?23:17 Third step is face your shadow and engage in an inner dialogue28:00 Fourth step is to do a childhood analysis and meet your inner child30:34 Four most common patterns of childhood wounds33:24 Fifth step is integrating the shadow and embracing compassion and acceptanceGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else.Today, Violetta is going to share what transpired during her recent trip to St. Tropez. The energy is electric as she tries her best to get close to her newfound friends and then realizing that despite the initial connections, something feels off. From worse to worst, the house she had been staying with the group had been robbed! The realization hits like a tidal wave - the house had been robbed. But amidst the trauma and the missing personal belongings, there's a glimmer of gratitude. She's safe, unharmed, and reminded of the irreplaceable value of life.St. Tropez may have thrown unexpected twists her way, but she's determined to let this experience shape her into a woman who cherishes every moment, holds onto what truly matters, and never takes her safety and well-being for granted.If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:19 The seven of swords from the tarot card04:49 Meeting new girlies in St. Tropez05:35 And the gossip started08:40 She dropped her glass on my foot11:53 The girls I partied with last night think I hate them15:24 No one has power over you, except yourself17:50 The more I wanted to hang out with the girls, the more I was told to stay away from them19:01 I walked into the house, the alarm didn’t go off21:14 We found out there were two break-ins in the house24:54 No one asked if I was okay and I thought I didn’t get robbed29:29 I finally realized that I was robbed33:23 I learned a lot about myself during the St. Tropez trip Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.    Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:48 The most common question you always get asked?04:05 We fight to make up not to break up05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?22:32 Childhood trauma26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve43:03 Why do some women remain single?47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending55:47 Why you should not accept his apology01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gottenConnect with Anna on:https://www.instagram.com/maybeboth/https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmaybebothhttps://maybeboth.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication. From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful ideologies, and delves into controversial topics such as the Red Pill movement and cannibalism laws. With personal stories, insightful discussions, and a touch of controversy, this episode empowers listeners to embrace their authenticity, honor their boundaries, and foster understanding in a world filled with assumptions and judgment. Get ready to be inspired, uplifted, and encouraged to unleash your inner warrior as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.   Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:21 What is the most common assumption from people?02:54 What made you decide to wait?04:50 What does your virginity mean for you?15:26 Losing my virginity during high school20:16 TikTok and OF22:07 Misconceptions about OF26:34 Being a virgin and doing OF29:03 Would you date a guy who has slept with lots of women?31:08 Dating a guy chatting with a OF model33:53 Guys going to strip clubs35:19 How do you define p*rn addiction37:52 Do you have a good relationship with your parents?41:40 Would you lose your V-card for money?42:45 Red Pill movement48:23 Dealing with hate52:24 Do men have lizard brains?55:13 Did you know that cannibalism isn’t illegal in some states?56:22 Sharing of passwords01:03:08 They are not you, so communicate01:08:43 Sharing of locationConnect with Farha on:https://www.instagram.com/farhakhalidi/https://www.tiktok.com/@farhakhalidihttps://twitter.com/farha_farha_ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs.       First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on  popular manosphere podcasts such as the Whatever Podcast and Fresh&Fit where she fearlessly confronts the hosts' purportedly problematic and sexist viewpoints. The duo challenge the notion of basing our value solely on our bodies and encourage a holistic approach to self-acceptance and discuss the art of reading between the lines, trusting our intuition, and making informed decisions.     Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:16 Red Pill community07:16 What made you join these podcasts?12:19 They are nicer on the show, period!14:05 How they think they can get women18:11 My ex just wants me to stay at home23:27 Get to know his mom27:40 Empathizing with their struggles29:32 The main purpose of the Whatever podcast32:53 Would you have sex without emotional attachment?38:53 Basing your value on your body41:09 Is the third date the default?45:03 Pay attention to the signsConnect with Farha on:https://www.instagram.com/farhakhalidi/https://www.tiktok.com/@farhakhalidihttps://twitter.com/farha_farha_ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week. First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more! Get ready to glow, babe, because this episode is all about women!If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:08 What’s the one thing most people don’t know about you?04:28 One question you get asked a lot?05:00 Are you happy?07:37 What’s your happiest moment this year?11:55 Egg freezing journey18:54 Lack of information on the reproductive process22:43 Getting off of birth control24:23 Body sensitivity to medicationGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments. The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows, and surprises us along the way, and how love is love but we're here to celebrate all the beautiful colors of the rainbow.Also, both of them will explore how life's twists and turns shape us, guide us, and lead us to incredible moments of growth and happiness. Trust the journey, babe, and know that every step has a purpose.So, grab your favorite cocktail, turn up the heat, and join us as we bid farewell to June in the most unforgettable way. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:35 Maintaining balance between work and personal life08:20 Friendship time16:42 When your friends are sharing, check in first20:39 Have your definition of love changed?26:55 What’s your love language?39:27 Keeping your relationship private45:09 Let’s talk about sexual preference49:24 Coming out and how people reacted59:48 No pressure when the platform isn’t monetized01:03:48 Being more perfectly imperfect01:11:05 Everything happens for a reasonConnect with Adelaide on:https://www.instagram.com/adelaidekane/https://www.tiktok.com/@realadelaidekanehttps://www.youtube.com/c/adelaidekanehttps://twitter.com/adelaidekanehttps://www.facebook.com/TheRealAdelaideKane/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected. Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw vulnerability of sudden loss, to the emotional weight that comes when a family member falls ill. She also talks about the trap of comparison and helps you break free from that toxic cycle. Join us for a packed episode filled with helpful insights, self-love reminders, and positive vibes to leave you feeling unstoppable. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:52 Story of the day: He’s father suddenly passed13:37 Don’t sit there and blame yourself15:06 It takes a toll on you when a family member gets sick19:44 How you’re feeling about a situation is valid24:26 He just wasted your time28:47 With time, you’ll start comparing yourself to other peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look. Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey of the beginning stages of dating. From the thrill of new connections to the underlying fears and insecurities, the common struggles of anxiety, doubt, seeking validation, withdrawal, and battling our own insecurities to the value of authentic connection, how it can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and challenging the perception of negative emotions and highlight their potential for growth and transformation.  Tune in to this enlightening episode as we navigate the ups and downs of dating, uncover the lessons that relationships teach us, and explore how vulnerability and communication can lead to authentic and thriving connections. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adulting  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 The beginning stages of dating is fun but also scary05:01 The biggest teachers are those who didn’t truly love us06:29 There’s no perfect partner, but a person who truly wants to be with you will stay08:53 We are the worst narrators of our own lives11:29 Pause and ask yourself, “Why am I reacting like this?”16:41 Instead of pushing your partner away, communicate19:08 Our reactions are hurting our partner as well24:59 Negative emotions can be helpful26:39 A healthy relationships happens when you show up for each otherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you. Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's important to keep an eye out for those sneaky red flags that might signal potential trouble ahead as you venture back into the dating scene, how to give yourself time to heal and reflect if you find yourself in a relationship that didn't end horribly but just didn't work, and how by embracing vulnerability you create a safe space for both you and your potential partner to truly connect on a deeper level. Remember, the end of one chapter opens the door to new and exciting possibilities. You've got this, gorgeous!If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:36 They’re probably not really that into you04:45 Red flags in the beginning of dating09:27 Why should we become vulnerable and not shut off?17:06 How to move on from a relationship that did not end horribly?23:11 What does it mean when he tells you that he’s rooting for you?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret. Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fiercely, more than anything else in this world, embrace your flaws, celebrate your strengths, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. When you radiate that self-confidence, trust me, the right guys will flock to you like bees to honey. So, go out there, strut your stuff, and let everyone know that you're a woman who deserves nothing less than the best!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:16 Here’s why you should always be the leading lady in your own story05:27 Don’t tell them how sh*tty your ex is07:59 How do you view yourself as a prize?11:30 The mistake you’re always doing13:57 Change your perspective: You’re the price15:42 Real interest does not peak, it only rises17:54 Dating is a journey of self discovery and growth19:04 Remember, love yourself fiercelyGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner stories. Today, Violetta shares another round of stories that tells how a woman’s childishness caused her boyfriend to leave her on the side of the road, another who’s blaming her bestfriend for her marriage falling apart, and lastly, a wife who’s guilty of cheating on her dying husband. Hear the stories fresh and be the judge!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:04 Story #1: He left me on the side of the road and I deserved it07:52 Story #2: To my pick me *ss bestfriend who ruined my marriage14:40 Story #3: My husband is going to pass away to get back at meGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Loving your own body plays a crucial role in relationships and intimacy, especially when it comes to sex. When we struggle to embrace our bodies, it can create self-consciousness and insecurity in the bedroom. These feelings can hinder our ability to fully let go and enjoy intimate moments with our partners. However, when we cultivate self-love and acceptance, it empowers us to be more confident and comfortable in our own skin. This newfound confidence not only enhances our own pleasure but also fosters a deeper connection and trust with our partners, leading to more fulfilling and intimate experiences together.Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes a favorite returning guest, Emily Morse. Emily Morse is a well-known sex and relationship expert, host of the popular podcast "Sex with Emily," and author of the upcoming book "Smart Sex." With her expertise in psychology and human sexuality, she's all about helping people create stronger connections and more fulfilling experiences in their love lives. Emily's podcast is a trusted resource for honest advice, and now her book is set to provide even more wisdom and insights into the world of smart and satisfying sex.Together with Emily, Violetta talks about loving and being comfortable with your body, communicating your desires to your partner, oral sex, the use of lubes, the importance of foreplay, and how to stay present and focused during sex. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order  What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:42 Growing and learning to love your own body03:37 Why are you not turned on?05:03 You’re responsible for your own pleasure09:28 The biggest misconception when it comes to sex12:07 Foreplay starts outside of the bedroom13:32 Communication is a lubrication14:45 Masturbation as a mindfulness practice17:09 Tell your partner how you want to be loved19:07 Prioritize your pleasure21:50 Be comfortable with your own body27:04 How to tell your partner to get down on you?29:44 “Men are frying pans and women are slow cookers…”30:54 Insecurity 32:47 Rebranding anal sex40:23 G-Spots and squirting46:34 Stay present and focused during sex49:08 When your partner goes soft50:51 Confidence in bed is sexy52:08 Sex transformation story55:03 Mutual Masturbation56:15 Let’s talk about lubes57:58 Five Pillars of Sex IQ1:04:09 The best oral method1:06:21 Effect of childhood traumas1:10:19 Scheduling intimacy1:14:10 Take control of your sexual health & pleasureConnect with Emily on:https://sexwithemily.com/https://twitter.com/sexwithemilyhttps://www.facebook.com/sexwithemilyhttps://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily?lang=enhttps://sexwithemily.com/listen/https://www.youtube.com/user/SexWithEmilySmart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, Besties! June is Hookup month so we’re going to be talking a lot about relationships, relationship advice, and so much more!Today, Violetta is back with another episode of Benson Knows Best where she will answer some of your questions. First, she will talk about some of the personal questions she received over DM, and then she’s going to discuss why men come back after breakup, why they end up marrying someone else, and why some of the people that we meet are just lessons we need to learn along the way. They were never meant to stay. WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/TALKSPACE - To match with a licensed therapist today, go to www.talkspace.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:47 Reasons why I’m feeling happy today04:57 Today, I’m going on a date…09:57 What is your strange habit?13:28 What skill are you terrible at?15:35 What is the best advice you recently received?17:02 What’s a great book you’re currently reading?18:03 What’s on your mind currently?23:12 The reason why they come back after leaving you24:59 Sometimes, they’re just a lesson25:57 Men marry when they are ready27:30 Speak about your issues, don’t hold it inGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why is it crucial to invest time and effort in individuals who recognize your true worth? The answer lies in the profound impact that such people can have on your personal growth and development. When you surround yourself with those who appreciate and understand your value, their presence serves as a catalyst for your own self-belief and confidence.       Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Portuguese actress and Suicide Squad star Daniela Melchior. The duo talks about the time when Daniela had to pretend to be Violetta’s ex-boyfriend begging for her attention, why it’s best to move on from someone who can’t appreciate you, and how real energy exchange is.    *THIS EPISODE WAS ORIGINALLY RECORDED IN DECEMBER 2022 AND ONLY RELEASED NOW*Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:15 Get to know Daniela Melchior04:14 She pretended to be my ex-boyfriend11:54 Every person you meet is an experience14:54 People who let you down don’t deserve your time16:20 Energy exchange is real23:05 That one narcissistic friend26:25 Why do we neglect our boundaries?31:24 We’re both people pleasers Connect with Daniela on:https://www.instagram.com/danielamelchior/https://twitter.com/MelchiorDaniela Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, Besties! We are back for another confession corner episode. And for the final episode of the mental health month, we will listen to another batch of reddit stories. Today, Violetta sits down to listen to and share a piece of her mind on some stories which includes a father who’s feeling resentful towards his children after divorce, a woman in her prime striking a deal with his boyfriend after she found out he cheated, and this girl who’s madly attracted to her already married cousin. There’s more to these stories so stick around! If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm SHOPIFY - Sign up for $1 per month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction02:37 Halloween is my ‘it’ holiday04:30 Story #1: I started to resent my children10:19 Story #2: I developed a massive crush on my cousin13:49 Story #3: Is she breaking up with me?21:00 Story #4: My cheating ex25:52 Story #5: Making money off of your cheating boyfie Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the characteristics to look out for. She proceeds with enumerating the different mind games narcissistic people often do to trick us into believing they genuinely care and other character traits to help us spot if we are dealing with one. And finally, she ends it with the most common reasons why many find narcissistic people attractive.  WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:13 Let's talk about the narcissist in your life05:53 Five mind games narcissists play17:46 A story about a narcissist21:12 Other things to look out for24:28 Reasons why you keep attracting narcissistic peopleGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and get your power back.  If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm KITSCH - Get 30% off of your order by visiting https://myKITSCh.com/adultingZOCDOC - Find your local doctor by visiting www.zocdoc.com/adultingNEBULA9 - Visit https://nebula9vodka.com/ and use code ADULTING to get 10% off of your order What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Update on the guys I kissed during the Kentucky Derby03:33 How to respond to a guy who’s losing interest?08:35 Men from my past have been showing up12:05 Story #1: Grieving a full on breakup18:46 Tips on how to heal from a breakup20:36 Story #2: He was obsessed with me one day, he pulled away the next day24:28 Change your perspective when talking about yourselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

TW: Self harmWhy is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves.      Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewellyn. Mari’s journey to self betterment started when she finally decided to heal her body and mind through consuming a healthy diet and the continuous pursuit of wellness. She also shares her episodes of self harm, dealing with shame, and why showing up for yourself is the best form of self love.  Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm ETSY: Use code: NEW for 10% off of your first purchase. Visit https://www.etsy.com/NOCD - Go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ to book a free call today What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:28 Leading an unhealthy life during college05:56 Self harm 09:43 Creating a life full of positivity11:40 Triggers and self harm episodes13:25 Self value14:54 Dealing with shame18:20 Advice for your younger self20:33 Living a mediocre life27:49 Shedding weight and getting fit29:49 Showing up for yourself31:08 PCOS36:38 Hormonal healing39:43 Founding Bloom42:58 Just keep tryingConnect with Mari on:https://www.instagram.com/marillewellyn/https://www.tiktok.com/@marillewellyn https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAUN0lbKJFUVzrys9qtgbdw https://bloomnu.com/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0xKOhJLfnQTGkWqFSodeCA Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more!      If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction03:11 How did I get into the Kentucky Derby?10:48 I missed my ghost hunt trip  15:24 Day1 of the derby21:18 Gala night26:32 Hot and heavy make out30:02 He made it a point to be around me the whole time38:11 I went to the Jack Harlow party39:19 The sexual attraction was intense41:43 My flight back home got delayed48:09 One thing I did not enjoy in the eventGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.