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Welcome to 'Addiction and Relationships,' a podcast where hope and healing begin. I'm your host, Heidi Rain, a dedicated life coach with over two decades of experience in transforming lives. This show is your sanctuary, a place where the chains of codependent relationships and the shadows of addiction meet their match.
Each episode is a journey into the heart of what it really means to love someone battling addiction while preserving your own sense of self. I'm here to offer you a blend of compassionate insights, powerful stories, and practical tools that have helped countless individuals reclaim their lives from the grips of codependency and addiction.
Whether you're seeking guidance for yourself or a loved one, or you're just curious about the intricacies of these complex relationships, you're in the right place. Together, we'll explore the pathways to empowerment, uncover the hidden strengths within you, and light up the steps to a life of freedom and well-being.
Let's embark on this journey of transformation and healing. It's time to get your life back, and I'm here to help you every step of the way.
As always I am here to help www.HeidiRain.com
Unmasking Addict Manipulation, The Top 3 Techniques Exposed!
"Unmasking Addict Manipulation: The Top 3 Techniques Exposed!" π¬
In today's powerful video, Heidi Rain, a renowned addiction and codependency expert, dives deep into the subtle and often unseen world of addict manipulation. Ever been led astray by a lie that sounded too good to be true? Ever felt cornered by emotional blackmail? Or perhaps you've been swayed by half-truths that were expertly used to divert your attention? π
Here's what you'll learn: Believing Lies That Sound Good - How to recognize and challenge these alluring falsehoods. Emotional Blackmail - Spotting it, understanding its impact, and safeguarding against it. Half Truths as Red Herrings - Learn how these can distract you and how to stay focused on the real issues. It's time to empower yourself with knowledge, stand up against manipulation, and take control of your life. If you or someone you know is grappling with these challenges, let Heidi be your guiding light. π
For personalized advice, guidance, and support, don't hesitate to book a one-on-one session with Heidi at HeidiRain.com. Remember, understanding is the first step to healing. Share this video with those who might benefit, and let's create a world where manipulation loses its power. β¨
#AddictionExpert #ManipulationUncovered #HeidiRain
25:5511/12/2023
Codependency as a Coping Mechanism to Another's Addiction. How it Resembles Narcissistic Abuse
Understanding codependency as a coping mechanism to another's addiction. How it resembles narcissistic abuse Join Heidi Rain, a world-class addiction consultant and codependency expert, who specializes in narcissistic abuse and toxic relationship recovery. as she unravels the intricate web of codependency as a response to another's addiction. This video isn't just about defining terms, but about delving deep into the heart of the matter. 1οΈβ£ Discovering the origin of codependency in relationships affected by addiction. 2οΈβ£ Unmasking the multifaceted patterns in which codependency can surface the face of narcissistic abuse 3οΈβ£ A message of HOPE: Shifting from codependency to a life of authentic connection and fulfillment. If you've ever felt entangled in a relationship, unable to delineate where your emotions end and your partner's begin, this is for you. But more than understanding, let's walk the path of healing and empowerment together. π Special Offer: Do you recognize some of these patterns in yourself? Head over to take Heidi Rain's exclusive Codependency Attachment Patterns Test. For those seeking deeper insights and tailored strategies, book a transformative 90-minute strategic coaching session with Heidi Rain directly on the website. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ π Keep Updated: Gleaned insights from the video? Support our mission to empower by liking, subscribing, and hitting the notification bell. New transformative content is always on the horizon! π¬ Join Our Community: Share your stories, questions, or breakthroughs in the comments. Your journey matters, and together, we can inspire change in others. buy Heidi's book https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Wrong-Me-Addiction-Dysfunction/dp/169228598X
29:0804/12/2023
Enabling Checklist for Parents and Partners of Addicts or Alcoholics
Enabling Addiction vs. Enabling Recovery: An Eye-Opening Checklist Description:
Welcome to another episode of Heidi Rain's podcast, where she provides invaluable insights and guidance to individuals dealing with addiction within their family dynamics. In this episode, Heidi dives into the sensitive topic of enabling and sheds light on the crucial difference between enabling addiction and enabling recovery. Heidi understands the heartache and frustration that comes with trying to fix and control addiction. She emphasizes the importance of aligning your actions with your beliefs, focusing on what truly matters: enabling the path to recovery instead of perpetuating addiction. Through a concise and thought-provoking enabling checklist, Heidi shares practical examples and reveals common enabling behaviors to help you identify when you're unknowingly making things worse. Are you repeatedly bailing someone out? Trying to fix their problems for them? These are just a few of the signs that may indicate enabling. Heidi draws from her extensive experience in the field of codependency and addiction, having mentored under the guidance of renowned experts. Her expertise, honed over decades, allows her to equip and empower individuals, helping them transition from enabling addiction to enabling recovery. As you listen to this episode, take a moment to reflect on the enabling behaviors you may have engaged in and ask yourself which aspects you can change. By embracing a different approach, you can break the cycle and move toward a healthier and more supportive dynamic.
If you're hungry for more in-depth guidance, Heidi invites you to visit www.HeidiRain.com, where you'll find information about her semi-private coaching groups. Join a small, supportive community dedicated to personal growth, healing, and establishing healthy relationships. Don't miss this chance to gain clarity and take a step towards enabling recovery rather than addiction. Tune in now and start your transformative journey.
Visit www.HeidiRain.com for more information and to explore the transformative potential of Heidi's guidance and coaching.
21:5228/11/2023
Grief, Addiction and Codependency
Overcoming Grief in Addiction & Codependency: A Personal Journey to Healing Description: π Welcome to Heidi Rain's channel β Your Trusted Guide to Addiction, Codependency, and Toxic Relationship Recovery! π Are you struggling with grief while dealing with addiction within your family? Join me, Heidi Rain, an addiction, codependency, and toxic relationship recovery expert, as I share my personal story in this heartfelt video. I'm here to provide you with the warmth, encouragement, and urgency you need to take action and reclaim your peace, sanity, and happiness. In this emotional journey, I open up about my own experiences, giving you a glimpse into the challenges and triumphs that come with navigating addiction and codependency. Together, we'll explore effective strategies to overcome grief and heal from the inside out. But that's not all! As a special gift to you this holiday season, I've created a unique "Holiday Survival Bundle" filled with valuable resources and tools to support your recovery journey. π Don't miss out! Head over to https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ right now to get your hands on this limited-time offer. This offer won't last, so take action today! Join our community of warriors dedicated to breaking free from the chains of addiction and codependency. Hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an empowering video from Heidi Rain. Let's embark on this transformative journey together β because you deserve to live a life filled with peace, sanity, and happiness. πͺβ€οΈ #AddictionRecovery #CodependencyHealing #GuiltFreeLife #HeidiRain #HolidaySurvivalBundle #ReclaimYourHappiness
17:5528/11/2023
When the Addict has a Victim Mentality and You are in a Codependent Relationship
Breaking the Chains of Addict Victim Mentality in Codependent Relationships π Welcome to a transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment! In this compelling video, renowned addiction and codependency expert, Heidi Rain, opens her heart to share a deeply personal story about her own experiences with an alcoholic father and the gripping influence of victim mentality within the realm of addiction. π± Breaking Free from the Chains of Addiction and Codependency π± Heidi Rain delves into the intricacies of addict victim mentality, shedding light on how it can perpetuate the cycle of dependency and impede the path to recovery. Through her insightful narration, she provides invaluable insights into the psychology behind this detrimental mindset, fostering an atmosphere of understanding and hope. π A Story of Resilience and Healing π Heidi's touching personal narrative not only brings awareness to the challenges that arise in codependent relationships but also showcases the power of resilience and healing. Her journey paints a vivid picture of transformation, highlighting the steps she took to break free from the chains that once bound her to the cycle of addiction and victimization. π‘ Unlock the Door to Your Personal Liberation π‘ Ready to embark on your own journey towards liberation? Don't miss out on the chance to book a strategic coaching session with Heidi Rain herself. Gain personalized guidance, actionable strategies, and unwavering support to overcome addict victim mentality and build healthier, thriving relationships. Visit https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ to secure your session today! π Subscribe for Life-Changing Insights π If you're seeking a profound shift in perspective and a roadmap to break free from the clutches of addict victim mentality and codependency, this video is your guiding light. Subscribe to Heidi Rain's channel and turn on notifications, so you never miss out on empowering content that can spark real transformation in your life. Remember, you have the strength within you to rewrite your story. Tune in, embrace the wisdom shared, and take the first step towards reclaiming your life from the clutches of addict victim mentality and codependent relationships. #AddictVictimMentality #Codependency #HealingJourney #PersonalEmpowerment #HeidiRainCoaching #BreakFreeFromAddiction
23:4127/11/2023
What to do When Your Addict or Alcoholic Spouse Refuses Treatment
Being in a relationship with an addict or alcoholic is maddening. In this video, I discuss what to do when they refuse treatment. Heidi Rain's coaching is all about empowering you with the knowledge and tools to navigate the challenging journey of dealing with addiction and codependency. Today, we're delving into a topic close to my heart β what steps to take when someone you deeply care for resists the idea of seeking treatment for their addiction. Stay with me, because together, we're about to uncover insights that can truly make a difference. In this transformative video, I'm bringing my expertise as a world-class codependency and addiction specialist to guide you through the intricate process of addressing a loved one's reluctance to get treatment. Here's what we'll be exploring: The three paths you can take. As always, if you are struggling NOW and you need answers NOW.. you can book a 90 minute miracle session to strategize exactly what to do in your unique situation. Book here... https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/offers/TqLNjCjD/checkout More info on my services here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
15:2720/11/2023
Is it addiction or narcissism? How to spot the relationship red flags.
Narcissism in Relationships: Spotting Red Flags & Distinguishing from Addiction - Expert Talk with Heidi Rain Is it narcissism or addiction? Heidi Rain, an esteemed expert in toxic relationship recovery, addiction, and codependency, delves into the complex realm of "Narcissism in Relationships: Recognizing Red Flags and Differentiating from Addiction." With her profound insights, you'll gain a comprehensive understanding of identifying narcissistic traits while deciphering the distinction between narcissism and addiction. Key Points Explored: Excessive Self-Centeredness: Join Heidi as she unravels the initial red flag of narcissism - a preoccupation with oneself. Discover how to differentiate healthy self-assuredness from unhealthy self-absorption. Empathy Deficit: Explore the pivotal role of empathy in relationships and recognize its absence. Heidi guides you in pinpointing partners who struggle to grasp and respond to your emotional needs. Manipulation Unveiled: Heidi Rain expertly dissects manipulative tactics frequently used by narcissistic individuals. Uncover the signs of gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and other damaging behaviors that can erode your self-esteem. Craving Validation: Learn to discern genuine appreciation from an insatiable need for validation. Heidi helps you spot partners who perpetually seek approval, often at the expense of your emotional well-being. Boundary Transgressions: Delve into the red flag of boundary violations, where narcissistic partners disregard your boundaries and desires. Gain insights into preserving healthy boundaries and asserting your self-worth. Distinguishing Narcissism from Addiction: Heidi Rain goes beyond red flags, addressing a common query: Is it narcissism or addiction? Gain clarity as she navigates through the subtle differences and provides expert guidance on identifying distinct traits that set these apart. Heidi's multifaceted expertise in toxic relationship recovery, codependency, and addiction offers a unique lens through which to examine the intricacies of narcissism in relationships. Her insights empower you to recognize warning signs, make informed decisions, and foster relationships built on mutual respect. For a comprehensive exploration of narcissism and its differentiation from addiction, tune in to this enlightening video. Remember to like, share, and subscribe to Heidi Rain's channel for further invaluable insights that will shape your journey toward healthier, more enriching connections. Learn more about Heidi Rainhttps://www.lovecoachheidi.com
32:2513/11/2023
Is "Pulling Away" Normal or Toxic in Relationships? Understanding codependency
π Unlock True Love Insights! π Discover if "Pulling Away" is Normal or Toxic in Relationships with Heidi Rain's Expert Advice. Are they genuinely busy or subtly pulling away? π€ Unravel the mystery of relationship dynamics with renowned addiction and codependency specialist, Heidi Rain. π In this eye-opening video, Heidi delves deep into the realms of emotional patterns, helping you decode whether those distant signals are signs of true love or red flags of toxicity. π© Pulling away and chasing, the ultimate relationship tug-of-war, are explored as symptoms of codependent behaviors, spotlighting the "Clinger" and "Withholder" personality types. ποΈ Heidi invites you to take her exclusive Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test (CAPP Test) to identify your unique pattern. This self-awareness journey paves the way for healthier connections. πΊπ Prepare to be captivated by Heidi's insights on how these personality types perform a toxic dance, often leading to misunderstanding and heartache. Put an end to the guessing game and equip yourself with knowledge to foster a fulfilling bond. π₯ Ignite change in your relationships! π₯ Subscribe now for actionable advice that will revolutionize the way you perceive "pulling away" and empower you to distinguish between authentic affection and toxic patterns. Don't miss this chance to create lasting connections based on understanding and respect. π Dive into the discussion and check out Heidi Rain's CAPP Test: https://addictionandcodependency.myka... π Stay tuned for more relationship revelations! Hit the notification bell and give us a thumbs up if Heidi's insights resonate with you. Share this video with friends who crave true emotional freedom. Let's break the toxic cycle together! πͺπΉ #PullingAway #ToxicRelationshipRedFlags #HeidiRainExpert #CAPPTest #RelationshipInsights
20:0306/11/2023
When the worst thing happens to the addict or alcoholic and your biggest fear is comes true.
In this video, Heidi Rain discusses the worst possible thing that can happen to an addict or alcoholic, which is their death. She shares a personal story and offers guidance on how to cope with the fear of leaving a relationship with an addict or alcoholic, knowing that their death is a possibility. She emphasizes the importance of seeking professional support and doing everything possible to help before making the decision to leave. Dealing with the Fear of Leaving an Addict: Coping with the Worst Possible Outcome The fear of leaving an addict is that they will die without you. A listener wrote in about finding their ex-partner deceased after leaving them. The writer asks for advice on how to cope with the worst possible outcome. The Role of Enablers in Addiction and the Inevitable Result of the Disorder Setting boundaries with an addicted person does not guarantee control over their actions or prevent their eventual passing. Enablers may unknowingly expedite the process of someone dying from addiction by providing support and maintaining the status quo. The Importance of Intervention and Treatment in Addiction Recovery Recognizing the need for intervention and treatment in addiction recovery. The struggle of not having control over a loved one's choices and the importance of doing everything possible to help. Understanding that addiction recovery requires professional treatment and intervention, not just being at home. Seeking Professional Support for Toxic Relationships Seek professional guidance to ensure you have done everything possible to save or exit a toxic relationship. Don't rely solely on friends and family for advice, seek professional support for a strategic plan. What do you do when your worst fear comes to pass? I know you have wondered this very thing being in a relationship with an addict or alcoholic. So, today, I address a letter sent in and give some wisdom on the subject. Sensitive topic. If you are struggling to help your family, schedule a 90 minute strategy session to get a plan in place. https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/offers/TqLNjCjD/checkout
19:3230/10/2023
Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Patterns
In this empowering video, toxic relationship expert Heidi Rain, renowned for her specialization in addiction, codependency, and toxic relationship recovery, dives deep into the essential topic of breaking free from toxic relationship patterns. If you find yourself trapped in a cycle of harmful dynamics, Heidi's expert insights are your guiding light towards liberation and healing. Key Points Covered: Toxic Relationship Patterns and Self-Awareness and Reflection: Heidi unveils the first crucial step towards breaking free - recognizing and acknowledging the toxic patterns. Through self-awareness and introspection, she guides you to identify these patterns, empowering you to take control of your narrative. TAKE THE ASSESSMENT:https://addictionandcodependency.myka... Toxic Relationship Patterns and Setting Firm Boundaries: Learn from Heidi how establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries can pave the way for transformative change. Discover the art of saying "no" to toxic behavior and "yes" to self-respect and well-being. Toxic Relationship Patterns and Seeking Professional Support: Heidi delves into the importance of seeking expert guidance. As someone who specializes in addiction, codependency, and toxic relationship recovery, she emphasizes the value of therapy and counseling in your journey towards breaking free. Toxic Relationship Patterns and Building a Support System: Explore the significance of surrounding yourself with a supportive network. Heidi shares insights into fostering connections with friends, family, and communities that uplift and empower you. Toxic Relationship Patterns and Self-Love and Healing: Heidi Rain guides you through the process of self-love and healing. Learn to embrace self-care practices that nurture your physical, emotional, and mental well-being, leading to a profound transformation. Heidi Rain's expertise in addiction, codependency, and toxic relationship recovery brings a fresh perspective to the crucial task of breaking free from harmful patterns. Her insights empower you to step out of the cycle, embrace personal growth, and embark on a journey of empowerment and renewal. If you're ready to break free from toxic relationship patterns and reclaim your sense of self, don't miss this transformative video. Like, share, and subscribe to Heidi Rain's channel for more invaluable relationship advice that can shape your journey towards a healthier, happier you. View Heidi's courses and coaching options. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
23:4723/10/2023
How to tell if it's true love or a toxic behavior: when you are obsessed with someone.
π Unveiling True Love and Toxic Relationship Behaviors with Heidi Rain Welcome to our channel, where we delve into the intricate world of relationships and emotions. In this captivating episode, renowned relationship expert Heidi Rain joins us to navigate the fine line between genuine love and toxic behaviors. If you've ever questioned whether your relationship is built on a foundation of true love or veering into the dangerous territory of obsession, you're in the right place! π Exploring Toxic Relationship Behaviors: Are you experiencing red flags in your relationship? Heidi Rain, with her expertise in addiction and codependency, fearlessly addresses toxic behaviors that often go unnoticed. Learn to identify these warning signs and take proactive steps toward a healthier, happier partnership. π Unmasking True Love: What is true love, and how does it differ from infatuation or obsession? Heidi Rain brings her insights to the table, guiding you through the subtle nuances that set genuine affection apart. Discover the key ingredients of a loving, respectful relationship that stands the test of time. π Navigating Obsession and Self-Medication: Is your intense attachment to someone a form of self-medication for underlying anxiety or depression? Heidi Rain dissects the psychology behind obsession and offers compassionate guidance for those grappling with emotional challenges. Gain valuable tools to differentiate between healthy devotion and potentially harmful fixation. π± Empower Your Relationship Journey: Whether you're single, in a partnership, or simply curious about the dynamics of love and obsession, this episode provides actionable insights to enhance your emotional well-being. Join us in fostering healthier connections and nurturing your own personal growth. π About Heidi Rain: With years of experience in addiction and codependency counseling, Heidi Rain is a leading authority on understanding the complexities of relationships. Her compassionate approach to addressing delicate matters sets the stage for profound revelations and positive transformations. π Don't Miss Out! Subscribe and Stay Tuned: Hit that subscribe button and ring the notification bell to stay updated on our thought-provoking discussions. Prepare to unlock a deeper understanding of love, obsession, and everything in between. π’ Join the Conversation: We love hearing from you! Share your thoughts, questions, and personal experiences in the comments below. Let's create a supportive community where we learn and grow together. #relationshipexpert #TrueLoveVsObsession #ToxicBehaviors #HeidiRain #EmotionalWellness π New Episodes: Every Week for more enlightening conversations about relationships and personal development. Remember, a journey towards healthier relationships begins with understanding. Tune in now and embark on a path to a more fulfilling emotional connection! View our programs and courses... https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
21:0016/10/2023
Identifying Signs of a Toxic Relationship
In this eye-opening video, renowned relationship expert Heidi Rain delves deep into the crucial topic of toxic relationships. With a specialization in addiction and codependency, Heidi brings her wealth of knowledge to help you recognize the warning signs of toxic dynamics early on. Whether you're currently in a relationship or navigating the dating scene, understanding these signs could be a life-changing revelation. Key Signs Covered: toxic relationships and Constant Negative Energy: Discover how pervasive negativity, criticism, and belittling can indicate a toxic relationship. Heidi explains how this toxic behavior can chip away at self-esteem and well-being. Toxic relationships and Lack of Boundaries: Learn about the significance of healthy boundaries in any relationship. Heidi discusses how blurred or non-existent boundaries can lead to emotional turmoil and resentment. Toxic relationships and Manipulative Behavior: Heidi sheds light on manipulative tactics that toxic individuals employ to control their partners. Recognizing these tactics is a crucial step towards regaining your autonomy. Toxic relationships and Isolation from Loved Ones: Explore the dangerous implications of being isolated from friends and family by a toxic partner. Heidi provides insights into how isolation serves as a red flag for a harmful relationship. Toxic relationships and Emotional and Psychological Drain: Gain a deeper understanding of the emotional toll taken by toxic relationships. Heidi discusses the impact of constant stress, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion on one's overall well-being. Heidi Rain's expertise in addiction and codependency brings a unique perspective to the realm of toxic relationships. Her insights empower you to identify these signs, take action, and pave the way towards healthier, more fulfilling connections. If you're ready to reclaim your happiness and build relationships based on respect and love, don't miss this enlightening video. Like, share, and subscribe to Heidi Rain's channel for more invaluable relationship advice. check out Heidi Rains programs here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
30:0509/10/2023
Addict manipulation and Lies addicts tell: You make me want to drink!
π΄ Addict Manipulation and lies addicts tell: "You Make Me Want to Drink: π΄ Welcome to Heidi Rains' channel! In this thought-provoking and empowering video about addict manipulation, Heidi, the renowned codependency expert, delves deep into the crucial topic of how we unwittingly fall into the trap of believing we are responsible for our loved ones' addictive behaviors. Especially when it's hard to figure out the lies that addicts tell. It's time to break free from the burden of this codependent belief! π© Are you falling prey to addict manipulation and struggling to cope with a loved one's addiction? π© π In this eye-opening discussion, Heidi exposes the lies addicts often tell us, and how addicts manipulate, leading us down a path of guilt and enabling. By gaining awareness of these patterns, you'll learn to reclaim your own well-being and set healthier boundaries. π What you'll discover in this video: β
The importance of recognizing lies addicts tell and the codependent tendencies in yourself β
How to release the responsibility you've taken on for your loved one's addiction β
The truth about addict manipulation and how to break free from lies addicts tell. β
Practical steps to support your loved one without enabling their addiction π‘ Ready to take the next step? π‘ Heidi invites you to participate in one of her transformative workshops or courses, specifically designed to empower you in your journey towards healing and self-discovery. These immersive experiences offer a safe and supportive environment where you'll connect with others who share similar struggles, learn effective coping strategies, and develop a newfound sense of inner strength. πΊ Let's walk this path of healing together. πΊ Don't miss out on this empowering video that will change the way you approach addiction and codependency forever. Hit the play button now and join the conversation in the comments section below. Remember to subscribe and click the notification bell, so you never miss another insightful update from Heidi Rains' channel. View Heidi's workshops and courses or request more information: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
16:1102/10/2023
Understanding Empaths vs. Codependents - With Special Guest Dug
Understanding Empaths vs. Codependents: Heidi Rain and Dug
Join Heidi Rain and Dug as they dive deep into the world of empaths and codependents. Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the emotions of others? Ever found yourself constantly seeking validation from external sources? You might be either an empath or codependent. But which one?
π»πΏ In this enlightening video, Heidi and Dug beautifully illustrates the differences between empaths and codependents using captivating metaphors like the sunflower and the vine. Understand the key distinctions, why they matter, and how to truly thrive in your own emotional world.
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25:1727/09/2023
Toxic relationships and healing: "I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough: Toxic relationships and trauma.
Let's talk toxic relationships and healing! Welcome to my channel! I'm Heidi Rain, a codependency expert, and in this video, we're going to explore the powerful reasons why saying "I'm sorry" isn't enough when it comes to healing from dysfunction, toxic relationships, and abuse in our lives. Growing up in addiction, dysfunction, toxic relationships or abuse can have profound and long-lasting effects on our emotional well-being. It's crucial to acknowledge and understand how others' dysfunction has impacted us so that we can begin the journey of healing. In this video, I'll guide you through the process of recognizing the ways these experiences have shaped your toxic relationships, self-worth, and beliefs about love and connection. As someone who has personally walked this path and found healing, my mission is to help individuals like you break free from the chains of codependency and toxic relationships. Whether you're struggling to find healthy connections or feeling trapped in a toxic relationship, I'm here to support you every step of the way. One important aspect of healing is accepting responsibility for the pain we may unintentionally inflict on others due to our past wounds. By becoming conscious of our patterns and behaviors, we empower ourselves to make positive changes in our interactions with loved ones and acquaintances alike. However, healing doesn't happen overnight, and it all begins with self-love. I'll emphasize the importance of putting yourself first on this healing journey. Remember, self-love is not selfish; it's a necessary foundation for building healthy and fulfilling healthy relationships with others. To dive deeper into the healing process and connect with a supportive community, I encourage you to join one of my upcoming workshops. These workshops offer a safe space to share, learn, and grow alongside others who understand your struggles. If you're ready to break free from codependency's grip, heal from past wounds, and embrace a life of self-empowerment and healthy relationships, hit that "Subscribe" button, and don't forget to click the notification bell, so you never miss an update. Thank you for being here, and I look forward to accompanying you on this transformative journey toward healing and self-discovery. Remember, you are not alone, and together, we can create a brighter, healthier, and happier future. See you in the workshop! #CodependencyExpert #Healing #Toxicrelationship #SelfLoveJourney #JoinOurWorkshop #HeidiRain Worhshops: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Wrong-Me...
24:3725/09/2023
What's Your Codependency Style? With Special Guest Dug
Dive deep with Heidi Rain and Dug McGuirk as they unravel the intricate web of codependency. In this enlightening episode, they explore the various styles of codependency, shedding light on how these patterns manifest in our relationships. But it's not just about identifying the issues; it's about understanding their roots. Discover the underlying causes that shape these behaviors and the pivotal moments that can lead us down the path of codependency. But don't despair; this episode isn't just about the challenges. Heidi and Dug infuse the conversation with a powerful message of hope, emphasizing that with awareness, understanding, and the right tools, anyone can reshape their relational dynamics. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of codependency or wondered how to find genuine fulfillment in your relationships, this episode is a must-listen. Join us on this transformative journey and reimagine the way you connect with others. www.heidirain.com
22:1120/09/2023
Lies addicts tell... When will the addict learn their lesson?
Lies addicts tell: when will the addict learn their lesson? Hey there, lovely souls! Welcome back to Heidi Rain's channel, your hub for heartfelt conversations on addiction, codependency, and personal growth. In this brand-new video, titled "I've Learned My Lesson," we're diving deep into the fascinating world of recovery and debunking a common misconception. You know, sometimes we think that once we've learned our lessons, we're automatically on the path to recovery. But here's the thing β true healing goes beyond just gaining knowledge. Join me as we explore the complexity of addiction and why learning lessons isn't the end-all-be-all solution. I'm Heidi Rain, your trusted codependency and addiction expert, and I'm here to guide you through this transformative journey. Together, we'll navigate the twists and turns of addiction, unraveling the misunderstandings that often hinder our progress. One thing I'm passionate about is breaking down complex concepts into easy-to-understand forms. I want you to feel empowered and equipped with the tools to navigate your own recovery journey. So, get ready for some eye-opening insights delivered with warmth, compassion, and a sprinkle of my unique storytelling style. Are you ready to challenge preconceived notions and discover a more compassionate approach to recovery? Then hit that play button and join me in this uplifting and thought-provoking discussion. Oh, and don't forget to grab your favorite beverage and settle in for a cozy and enlightening watch. Make sure to subscribe to my channel so you won't miss out on future videos packed with inspiration, practical tips, and soul-nourishing discussions. Together, we're creating a supportive community that embraces growth and healing. I absolutely love hearing from you, so please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Let's foster a space where we can connect, support one another, and embark on this incredible journey together. Thank you for being a part of our amazing community. Your presence makes a difference, and I'm truly grateful for your support. With love and Big Hugs, Heidi Rain https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
12:0718/09/2023
How to Take Control of Your Life and Overcome Codependence
Are you feeling trapped in a cycle of self-sacrifice, always putting others' needs before your own? Are you constantly overwhelmed with anxiety and questioning if it's too late to reclaim control of your life? Then this episode is designed just for you. Join us as we sit down with the renowned self-empowerment expert, Heidi Rain. In this episode, Heidi takes us on a deep dive into the world of codependency and explains how it strips us of our personal power and leaves us questioning our self-worth. Heidi breaks down how living in a constant state of anxiety, people-pleasing, and self-sacrifice not only robs us of our joy but also hinders our potential for personal growth and self-fulfillment. But most importantly, she provides practical, life-altering strategies to break free from this debilitating cycle and truly take control of your life. Throughout the episode, Heidi instills the hope and confidence that it's never too late to make a change. You'll learn how to prioritize your needs, set healthy boundaries, and foster deep and meaningful relationships without losing your identity. Whether you're struggling with codependency or feel like you're just going through the motions of life without truly living, this episode with Heidi Rain is a must-listen. It's time to stop settling, regain your power, and start living the life that you choose. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
32:4611/09/2023
When they act like nothing happened and expect it to go back to "normal"
Addicts, alcoholics, and other narcissists insist that you pretend like nothing happened. It's part of the cycle of abuse. Let's talk about it. And as always, If you want to get help now, go to https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
32:0504/09/2023
Loving Yourself is Hard When You Have to Detach From a Toxic Person
Hey there, Cycle Breaker! Welcome to my channel, where we embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing. I'm Heidi Rain, a passionate codependency expert, and today, I'm sharing a personal story close to my heart β one that revolves around the profound realization that loving yourself is indeed a challenging but transformative process.
In this raw and honest podcast, I delve into the depths of my own journey to self-love, where I found myself tangled in the web of codependency. Believe me, it wasn't an easy road. I understand firsthand how hard it is to confront the shadows that hold us back from living authentically. But rest assured, my friends, there is hope, and I'm here to guide you through it all.
Throughout the podcast, I'll walk you through my step-by-step process for breaking free from codependency β a process I've developed through years of research, experience, and unwavering dedication. I firmly believe that by sharing my story and insights, we can pave the way for a brighter, more fulfilling future.
One of the fundamental pillars of loving yourself is learning to detach from toxic people. It's not just about cutting them out of your life; it's about recognizing their impact on your well-being and summoning the courage to let go. I know how daunting it can be to release those ties, but trust me, it's an essential act of self-compassion. Loving yourself isn't a spa day filled with temporary bliss; it's a lifelong journey of growth and acceptance. It's about being real with yourself and embracing your imperfections. In this video, I lay bare the truth β the need to confront the toxic influences that surround us and, perhaps, even within us.
As you listen, I encourage you to approach this process with kindness and patience. Grieving the loss of toxic relationships might be painful, but it opens up space for the nurturing love you deserve β a love that starts from within and radiates to all aspects of your life.
If my words resonate with you, and you're ready to embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery, consider enrolling in my codependency and toxic relationship recovery course at https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Together, we'll uncover the strength within, break free from unhealthy patterns, and unleash the love that has always been within you. Remember, my dear friends, you are worthy of love, happiness, and fulfillment. Let's take this incredible step together and blossom into the best version of ourselves.
Hit that play button, join the conversation in the comments, and let's begin this empowering chapter of your life. Stay strong, stay inspired, and always remember β you are never alone in this journey of love and healing.
With love and big hugs,
Heidi Rain π
18:0304/09/2023
How Codependency Affects Sex and Intimacy - Exploring Codependent Attachment Personality Patterns
Welcome to Heidi Rain's channel, where we delve into the fascinating world of codependency and its impact on relationships. In this thought-provoking podcast, Heidi Rain, a renowned expert in codependency and addiction, takes a deep dive into the intricate connection between codependency, sex, and intimacy. She sheds light on how codependent attachment personality patterns can prevent true love and hinder authentic intimacy.
β’ 0:00 Introduction: Heidi Rain introduces the topic of codependency and its influence on sex and intimacy.
β’ 1:20 Understanding Codependent Attachment Personality Patterns: Heidi explains the different patterns and how they manifest in codependent behavior.
β’ 4:00 The Pretender Pattern: Heidi explores how the Pretender pattern hampers genuine connection and vulnerability.
β’ 8:40 The Controller Pattern: Discover how the Controller pattern affects power dynamics and inhibits healthy intimacy.
β’ 12:15 The Pleaser Pattern: Heidi discusses how the Pleaser pattern compromises personal needs and desires, impacting sexual and emotional satisfaction.
β’ 12:59 The Fixer Pattern: Learn how the Fixer pattern interferes with authentic connection and prevents true emotional intimacy.
β’ 16:05 The Withholder Pattern: Heidi explores how the Withholder pattern creates emotional distance and undermines intimacy in relationships.
Throughout the podcast, Heidi Rain provides insights, examples, and strategies to help you identify and break free from these codependent patterns, empowering you to cultivate healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
If you resonated with the codependent attachment personality patterns discussed in this podcast, take a moment to visit Heidi Rain's website at https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
There, you can access her exclusive Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test, designed to help you gain deeper self-awareness and understand your relationship dynamics better. Don't forget to like this video and share it with anyone who might benefit from Heidi Rain's expertise.
If you have any questions or personal experiences to share, please leave a comment belowβwe'd love to hear from you and continue the conversation!
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Remember to subscribe to Heidi Rain's channel and turn on notifications, so you never miss any of her transformative videos exploring codependency, attachment, and personal growth. Thank you for watching, and we hope this video brings you valuable insights on your journey towards healthier and more fulfilling relationships!
21:5428/08/2023
Breaking the Chains of Codependency - 5 Surprising Truths You Need to Know!
In this compelling and informative podcast, join Heidi Rain, a renowned codependency expert and addiction consultant, as she debunks five common misconceptions about codependency. Codependency is a complex issue that goes beyond being "needy" and is not limited to romantic relationships alone. Heidi sheds light on the various patterns of behavior and emotions associated with codependency, emphasizing the importance of recognizing signs beyond neediness. Discover how codependent patterns can manifest in friendships, family dynamics, and work relationships, highlighting the significance of recognizing codependency in all areas of life to foster healthier connections. Heidi challenges the misconception that codependent individuals are weak or lacking independence, explaining that codependency often stems from deep-rooted issues such as childhood trauma or low self-esteem. Understanding these underlying causes promotes empathy and support rather than judgment. Dispelling the notion that codependency is a choice or inherent personality trait, Heidi explains how it often results from learned behaviors influenced by upbringing and environmental factors. She encourages viewers to view codependency as a coping mechanism that can be unlearned and replaced with healthier habits. Additionally, Heidi addresses the limitation of "fixing" someone else's codependency, stressing the importance of personal boundaries and self-care in dealing with codependent relationships. To deepen your understanding of codependency and discover your own codependent attachment pattern, take Heidi Rain's codependent attachment pattern test located on her website. Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights into codependency and learn how to foster healthier relationships. Subscribe now to Heidi Rain's channel and join her community of individuals seeking growth, healing, and transformation. Remember, knowledge is power, and together, we can overcome codependency and cultivate meaningful connections. TAKE THE ASSESSMENT NOW https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
20:3321/08/2023
Is It Love or is it Codependency
Welcome to our Podcast channel! In this thought-provoking podcast, renowned codependency expert Heidi Rain delves deep into the intricate world of relationships and addresses the burning question: Is it love or codependency? Join us as Heidi Rain shares her wealth of knowledge and expertise, guiding us through the nuances of these often-confused emotions. With her keen insights and compassionate approach, Heidi helps unravel the complexities that can blur the lines between genuine love and codependency. Through relatable examples and practical advice, Heidi sheds light on the telltale signs and red flags that distinguish healthy love from codependent patterns. Drawing from her extensive experience working with individuals in various relationship dynamics, she offers valuable tools and strategies to identify and navigate the fine line between the two. This podcast is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of their own relationships or wanting to support loved ones in deciphering their emotions. Heidi's expertise will empower you to recognize and cultivate healthier relationship dynamics, fostering personal growth and emotional well-being. Subscribe to our channel for more insightful content on relationships, codependency, and personal development. Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and gain the tools necessary to create thriving, balanced relationships based on genuine love and mutual respect. Together, we can unravel the complexities and find the clarity we seek. Heidi Rain helps families who are impacted by anotherβs addiction and who want to break free from codependency. Take the Attachment pattern test go here https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7 To purchase our boundaries with an addict course, go hereβ¦ https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/ To view our codependency and toxic relationship recovery course go hereβ¦ https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/ To submit a request for more information, go hereβ¦ https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
21:1314/08/2023
Addicted Partner Warrior Talk: Know what you're dealing with.
Navigating a relationship with an addicted person can feel like a constant battle. In this video, "Addicted Partner Warrior Talk: Know What You're Dealing With," Heidi Rain, a leading expert in addiction and codependency, shares insights to help you better understand the dynamics at play. Join Heidi for this empowering conversation and arm yourself with the knowledge you need to handle the challenges presented by a loved one's addiction.
Explore these valuable resources for further support and personal growth: Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Request More Information: For further details or inquiries, don't hesitate to reach out. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Subscribe to the channel for more insightful videos, and join a community of warriors bravely facing the challenges of addiction and codependency. Together, let's step into a future of understanding, resilience, and healthy relationships.
19:5107/08/2023
Denial about loved ones addiction. Codependency Recovery
If you find yourself unwilling to accept the depth of a loved one's addiction, this episode, "Denial about Loved One's Addiction: Codependency Recovery," is specifically for you. In this eye-opening podcast, Heidi Rain, a leading authority on codependency and addiction, explores the implications of denial in the context of a loved one's addiction. Heidi brings a deep understanding and compassionate approach to a situation that can often lead to strain and confusion within the family unit.
Here are some valuable resources to further guide and empower you on this journey:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Request More Information: For further details or inquiries, don't hesitate to reach out. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
Join Heidi in this transformative journey towards understanding, healing, and growth. Remember to like, share, and subscribe for more invaluable insights and guidance. Together, let's break the chains of codependency and foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
12:3831/07/2023
What to do when the addict or alcoholic is in denial
Does your loved one grapple with substance abuse but refuses to acknowledge their addiction? If so, this episode titled "What To Do When the Addict or Alcoholic Is In Denial" is crafted just for you. In this video, Heidi Rain, a renowned coach for families affected by addiction, provides a wealth of understanding and guidance on dealing with a loved one who is in denial about their substance use. This is a sensitive and tricky situation, and Heidi's insights are aimed at empowering you to navigate these tumultuous waters with grace and wisdom.
For more resources and deeper insights, consider the following:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Request More Information: For further details or inquiries, don't hesitate to reach out. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
Join Heidi in this journey of understanding, healing, and personal growth. Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with new videos that can help you navigate through the complexities of addiction. Together, let's break free from codependency and build healthier relationships.
14:2824/07/2023
When The Addict Blames You
Are you caught in a relationship with someone who is dysfunctional, toxic, or addicted, and often finds themselves blaming you for their poor choices? This video, "When The Addict Blames You," is here to equip you with the understanding and tools to deal with such situations more effectively. In this episode, Heidi Rain draws from her extensive experience to shed light on this complex issue. She provides valuable insights on the behavior patterns of addicts and outlines steps on how you can respond when blamed unfairly, to protect your emotional well-being.
For more support and resources, consider exploring the following:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Request More Information: For further details or inquiries, don't hesitate to reach out. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
Join Heidi in this empowering journey of self-discovery and healing. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more impactful content. Together, we can navigate through the challenges and build stronger relationships.
12:5417/07/2023
Do you have clear boundaries? Addiction and codependency.
Are boundaries a struggle for you? You're not alone, and this episode "Do You Have Clear Boundaries? Addiction and Codependency" has been designed to help you address just that. Defining and upholding clear boundaries, especially when you're in a relationship with an addict or alcoholic, can be a significant challenge. But it's crucial for your well-being and is a vital part of breaking free from codependency. In this insightful video, Heidi Rain guides you through the maze of establishing effective boundaries, sharing her wisdom and understanding, drawn from years of experience. She provides strategies to assert your needs and protect your space in relationships impacted by addiction.
For additional support and learning, here are some resources that may be of interest:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Request More Information: For further details or inquiries, don't hesitate to reach out. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
Join us as we navigate the journey of setting clear, healthy boundaries. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe for more empowering content. Together, we can heal and thrive.
20:3710/07/2023
Feeling shame about another's addiction
Are feelings of shame burdening you because of a loved one's addiction? Today's episode, "Feeling Shame About Another's Addiction," is designed especially for you. Experiencing shame as a result of a loved one's addiction is a painful and all too common occurrence. But remember, you're not alone. This is a shared struggle for many, and today, we're here to unpack this heavy emotion together. In this video, Heidi Rain takes a compassionate, understanding approach to help families affected by addiction. We dive deep into the whirlpool of shame, why it manifests, and how to manage it. Heidi Rain specializes in aiding families impacted by a loved oneβs addiction. With a focus on breaking free from codependency, she provides a nurturing space to heal, grow, and reclaim your life.
Here are some resources for further exploration and assistance:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Join us as we step out of the shadows of shame and into the light of understanding and compassion. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe for more supportive content. Let's heal together.
11:3703/07/2023
ADDICTED SPOUSE: Why one day at a time doesn't work for addicts
In a relationship with an addict or alcoholic, navigating the unpredictable waters of addiction can often be overwhelming. That's why in this video, "ADDICTED SPOUSE: Why One Day at a Time Doesn't Work for Addicts," we're taking an in-depth look into the 'one day at a time' approach and its impact on addicts. Often hailed as the cornerstone of recovery, this philosophy isn't always as effective as we would hope. If you're struggling to understand why, this video is a must-watch. We dive deep into the reasons and provide valuable insight that may reshape the way you approach addiction in your relationship.
In addition, we offer a range of resources to further support you on this journey:
Addiction in the Family Recovery Courses: Get access to specialized courses aimed at understanding addiction's effects on family dynamics and learn coping strategies. Visit: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Semi-Private Coaching: For those who prefer a shared experience, consider our semi-private coaching options for personalized assistance in a supportive group setting: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Remember, understanding is the first step towards healing. Stay tuned for more enlightening content. Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe to ensure you never miss a video. You're not alone; let's embark on this journey of recovery together.
26:1626/06/2023
Can a relationship with an addict or alcoholic ever work?
In the throes of a relationship with an addict or alcoholic, you may find yourself grappling with the difficult question - "Should I stay or should I go?" It's an emotional crossroad many find themselves at, and today's video aims to provide clarity to those in this complex situation. In "Can a Relationship with an Addict or Alcoholic Ever Work?" we navigate this challenging territory and discuss four essential questions you MUST ask yourself to determine your path forward. Understanding your situation in a deeper sense is key to making decisions that best serve you and your wellbeing.
Beyond this discussion, we offer several resources tailored to support those dealing with addiction in their relationships:
Addiction in the Family Courses: To deepen your understanding of addiction and its influence on family relationships, consider exploring our tailored courses here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Recovering from a Toxic or Codependent Relationship? If you're stepping out of a harmful relationship, we offer additional resources to support your healing journey. Find more information here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Codependency Assessment: Are you codependent? Take our Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test to gain clarity and pave the way for recovery: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Remember, you're not alone on this journey. By choosing to seek understanding and support, you're taking significant steps towards your personal healing. Stay connected with us for more empowering discussions and resources. Subscribe and join us as we walk this path of growth together.
23:1219/06/2023
How to tell an addict or alcoholic you want a divorce
Navigating the complexity of a relationship with an addict or alcoholic is never easy, especially when you're contemplating divorce. In this video, we delve into critical considerations that can support you during this incredibly challenging time. You're not alone, and we're here to provide insight and guidance. In "How to Tell an Addict or Alcoholic You Want a Divorce," we explore the most effective and compassionate ways to communicate your intentions. It's crucial to remember that while this decision is difficult, your wellbeing matters immensely. But that's not all - we understand that learning is an ongoing journey. Hence, we've compiled a range of resources to support your healing process and empower you to move forward:
Addiction in the Family Self-Study Courses: Delve deeper into understanding addiction's impact on familial dynamics and how to navigate it with grace and resilience. Find out more here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/addiction-in-the-family/
Codependency and Toxic Relationship Recovery Course: Discover how to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and reclaim your power. Learn more here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codependency-coaching/
Coaching with Heidi Rain: Seeking personalized guidance? Engage in one-on-one coaching sessions with Heidi to address your unique challenges and goals. Book a session here: https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/semi-private-coaching/
Codependent Attachment Personality Pattern Test: Gain deeper self-awareness by understanding your codependent attachment patterns. Take the assessment here: https://addictionandcodependency.mykajabi.com/opt-in-5b8546d7-5c4a-4e2a-8ba3-606eddabf8b7
Remember, your journey towards healing is a testament to your strength and resilience. And we're here to guide you every step of the way. Subscribe to stay updated with more videos that are focused on empowerment, healing, and personal growth. Together, we can heal.
24:4615/06/2023
Sensitivity to Criticism and Codependency Recovery
Codependency recovery is about learning how to detach from others opinions and perspectives so you can hear your own inner wisdom. And sometimes, constructive feedback is helpful on that path. In this video, I discuss when to listen to criticism and when to let it roll off your shoulders. To start your healing journey visit https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
18:3505/06/2023
The withholding Codependent and the Addict
Heidi Rain talks about codependency and Addiction. To take the Attachment Personality Pattern test, go here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ to learn more about semi-private coaching. go here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/cta/
13:4829/05/2023
Warrior Talk: It's up to you Addiction and Codependency
Dealing with addiction in your family? Go here for resources...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
08:5322/05/2023
Partners of Addicts: You're NOT Wrong
Are you in a relationship with an addict or alcoholic? In this warrior talk, I discuss codependent thinking and how to break free. For more support and to view our programs, go here https://lovecoachheidi.com/
11:4015/05/2023
Why I left social media 2023. Deleting facebook and Instagram in 2023
I made this video for my clients who are wondering why I am not on social media outside pf Youtube. Or for those looking for inspiration to leave themselves. If you'd like to work together, you can find me at https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
27:5609/05/2023
The Most Addictive Types of Relationships
What are the most addictive relationships? I talk about the withholder and the clinger as well as the fixer and victim attachment personality patterns. To take the attachment patterns test or to learn more about our programs...go here.. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
17:5609/05/2023
How To Talk To Your Kids About An Addicted Parent
How to talk to your kids about a parents addiction. But the book here...https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Wrong-Heidi-Rain-McGuirk/dp/1087942764 what the video here... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-yckT06nwc&t=0s learn about our group here....https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
18:0701/05/2023
Is an ADDICTED relationship and ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
In this very important podcast, I try and box the ocean. At best, I believe I have parted the sea and built a path to walk through with me to healing. First, we become aware. Then, we create a Way to change things. Join me here... https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
25:4924/04/2023
Trust and Addiction
How do you trust an addict or alcoholic or someone with Substance use disorder? In this video, I give you exactly what to say when the addict asks you why you don't trust them. A must-watch! To learn more about my programs and services, go here.. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
19:0617/04/2023
What are the Signs and Symptoms of a CODEPENDENT Relationship
What are the signs and symptoms of a codependent relationship? In this episode of addiction and codependency breakthrough, I give you the different signs of a codependent person as well as the symptoms you can experience. I also discuss which attachment patters attract each other and end up in dysfunctional relationships. To take our Attachment personality Patterns Quiz, you can go here... https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ to learn about our codependency and toxic relationship recovery program go here... https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/codepe... to learn about our addiction in the family courses, go here.. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
36:0510/04/2023
codependency and adult daughters of alcoholics, addicts and narcissists
codependency and adult daughters of alcoholics, addicts, and narcissists. In this video, Heidi Rain explores the ways growing up in an addicted, abusive, narcissistic household impacts us. Of course, there are many more ways, but these are a few. To learn how to break free from these patterns and cycles, visit Heidi here. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
30:4103/04/2023
Intimacy and Addiction
How do you develop intimacy? I have 3 key ingredients for people who grew up in dysfunction or addiction or for those in relationship with addicts or alcoholics. To learn more about my programs, and courses, or to take the attachment personality pattern test, go here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
25:1815/03/2023
What is Healthy communication and addiction?
How do you effectively communicate with an addict or alcoholic? In today's video, I explain the key ingredients to healthy communication. These three things must be present of you are going to have a healthy relationship, especially when it comes to communication and conflict resolution. For more information about our programs for families dealing with addiction or our codependency and toxic relationship recovery program, you can visit me at https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ You can also take our codependent attachment personality patterns test there. It's super helpful in seeing where you're at in your patterns.
21:0014/03/2023
Codependent Relationships with Dug & Heidi
There are 8 different codependency patterns. Go to www.heidirain.com to download a free book to learn even more
28:4904/03/2023
Co addicted relationships fixer and victim codependency patterns
One of the most common co-addicted dysfunctional codependent relationship is between the fixer and the victim. In this episode, I explain how this relationship develops. and what trauma bonds are being enacted. Grab a copy of the free book Attachment personality Patterns, get the boundary with an addict workshop or schedule a consultation at https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ As an addiction consultant and a codependency expert, I provide people in toxic, addicted or dysfunctional relationships with laser focused coaching so they know exactly what to do. Let me help you get your life back. Are you in the Right Place? You are dealing with an addicted, toxic, or dysfunctional person and need to know exactly what to do. Youβre the glue, the hero, or the rock in your relationships. You have caseloads instead of relationships. Itβs totally unbalanced and you feel unsupported. Youβre confused. Should you stay or should you go? Can this relationship work or be saved? You walk on eggshells in your relationships. You work overtime to protect the feelings of others.. Youβre trying to fix or change someone. Youβre tired of putting up with the behavior you donβt deserve. You want someone to love, respect, and value you. Youβre successful. Youβve achieved a lot in your life, but relationships are difficult for you. Youβre ready and determined to create a happy, healthy relationship. You want a true partner in life who will put in as much effort as you do. Our world class programs specialize in Dealing with Addiction in the Family and Codependency, Toxic Relationship Recovery. We are on a mission to teach you how to deal with an addicted loved one and how to recover from the relationship trauma that has left you drained, numb, resentful, perplexed, anxious or hurt. Throughout my revolutionary coaching programs, youβll be expertly guided to create the healthy relationships you deserve! Youβll decide what you truly want and stop settling, self sacrificing, and struggling. Youβll end all relationship confusion and never be blindsided again. No more one sided relationships where you feel all alone. Itβs finally your turn to be loved the way you love others. You'll stop repeating old patterns. Raise Your standards and never settle again You'll heal and learn when and HOW to detach Cultivate your most powerful self! Who are our programs best suited for? About Heidi Rain D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction Professional, and Master Codependency Coach is the creator of Attachment Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. Her books, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family. Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through codependency education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns, ending the cycles of dysfunction for good. To further the message, Heidi certifies coaches, therapists, and healers through her training and development company, Empowerment Coach University.
18:1427/02/2023
How to get and stay sober for good in 2023
Do you want to be sober? Are you interested in an alcohol free lifestyle? In this video, I explain how to get and stay sober for good. If you are dealing with an addict or alcoholic in your life and want to know how to help them get sober, you can schedule a consultation here...https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/
32:1220/02/2023
Relationship Trauma Partners of Addicts
When you're codependent, you lose yourself. Codependency recovery is about increasing your self-esteem. 1. create a desire to focus on yourself 2. Learn how to detach from others 3. How to make a better decision 4. How to have discipline with that new resolution 5. How to have a deep understanding of your true self As an addiction consultant and a codependency expert, I provide people in toxic, addicted or dysfunctional relationships with laser focused coaching so they know exactly what to do. Let me help you get your life back. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ Our world class programs specialize in Dealing with Addiction in the Family and Codependency, Toxic Relationship Recovery. We are on a mission to teach you how to deal with an addicted loved one and how to recover from the relationship trauma that has left you drained, numb, resentful, perplexed, anxious or hurt. Throughout our revolutionary codependency coaching programs, youβll be expertly guided to create the healthy relationships you deserve! Youβll decide what you truly want and stop settling, self sacrificing, and struggling. Youβll end all relationship confusion and never be blindsided again. No more one sided relationships where you feel all alone. Itβs finally your turn to be loved the way you love others. You'll stop repeating old patterns. Raise Your standards and never settle again You'll heal and learn when and HOW to detach Cultivate your most powerful self! About Heidi Rain D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction Professional, and Master Codependency Coach is the creator of Attachment Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. Her books, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family. Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through codependency education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns, ending the cycles of dysfunction for good. To further the message, Heidi certifies coaches, therapists, and healers through her training and development company, Empowerment Coach University.
33:0913/02/2023
Codependency Recovery - More of YOU!
When you're codependent, you lose yourself. Codependency recovery is about increasing your self-esteem. 1. create a desire to focus on yourself 2. Learn how to detach from others 3. How to make a better decision 4. How to have discipline with that new resolution 5. How to have a deep understanding of your true self As an addiction consultant and a codependency expert, I provide people in toxic, addicted or dysfunctional relationships with laser focused coaching so they know exactly what to do. Let me help you get your life back. https://www.lovecoachheidi.com/ Our world class programs specialize in Dealing with Addiction in the Family and Codependency, Toxic Relationship Recovery. We are on a mission to teach you how to deal with an addicted loved one and how to recover from the relationship trauma that has left you drained, numb, resentful, perplexed, anxious or hurt. Throughout our revolutionary codependency coaching programs, youβll be expertly guided to create the healthy relationships you deserve! Youβll decide what you truly want and stop settling, self-sacrificing, and struggling. Youβll end all relationship confusion and never be blindsided again. No more one-sided relationships where you feel all alone. Itβs finally your turn to be loved the way you love others. You'll stop repeating old patterns. Raise Your standards and never settle again You'll heal and learn when and HOW to detach Cultivate your most powerful self! About Heidi Rain D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction Professional, and Master Codependency Coach is the creator of Attachment Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. Her books, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family. Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through codependency education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns and ending the cycles of dysfunction for good. To further the message, Heidi certifies coaches, therapists, and healers through her training and development company, Empowerment Coach University.
30:5306/02/2023