Confident Collective
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Kristina Zias and Raeann Langas
Two plus-size models & body activists here to get real and candid about living your most confident life. Get ready for powerful conversations that will leave you laughing, motivated, and inspired.
Kerry O’Brien on Career Pivots, Buying Your First Home & Taking Risks
Today, we sit down with Kerry O’Brien, a powerhouse in real estate who pivoted her career in her 40s and quickly became a billion-dollar seller in Monmouth County. Karrie shares her advice on how to go after what you want in life, from doing things out of your comfort zone to going the extra mile to embracing the hard moments. It’s never too late to go for what you want and Karrie is proof of that. She also gives her tips for first-time homebuyers on how to set yourself up for success and how to find “the one”. Whether you're ready to pivot your career, start a business, or buy your first home, this episode is full of great advice and inspiration to help you take that leap of faith!
42:3729/10/2024
Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show Returns: Glamour, Inclusivity & Unfiltered Opinions
This week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year’s show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotlight to Lisa from Blackpink’s stunning performance, but they also drop some critiques—pointing out the lack of glitz and glam and the small percentage of body diversity. The girls reminisce about the old show and how happy they are that it’s back but with better diversity and the message that it’s for the girls! Kristina and Raeann also share that they're hosting Friendsgiving for the Confidant community again this year! It’ll be an intimate affair in NYC and it’ll sell out quickly so join our Patreon to be the first to know. Thanks to our sponsors! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code: TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #ad #sponsored Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
37:4722/10/2024
Pop Culture Round-Up: Star Power, DWTS Highlights & Conspiracy Theories
Kristina took a peaceful but semi-chaotic bike ride to the podcast studio today. Raeann chats about her wholesome weekend with her parents and how her dad will strike up a conversation with literally anyone. Kristina also shares her perspective on school uniforms and how parents put pressure on themselves just to impress other parents. They also talk about their frustration with brands that claim to carry larger sizes but don’t, and on a more positive note, they share their excitement about attending the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. In today’s episode, the girls break down the latest in pop culture, from Sabrina Carpenter’s flirty, pop-star charm to Raeann’s love for Remi Wolf’s captivating star power. They explore Chappell Roan’s quick rise to fame and her struggle with the spotlight, while Ilona Maher wins hearts on Dancing with the Stars and deserves that celebrity status. Kristina swoons over her new favorite show, Nobody Wants This, featuring a realistic nod to how dating is right now. Plus, they cover Anne Hathaway’s Princess Diaries 3 news, how everyone seems to hate J. Lo, and the crazy P Diddy conspiracy theories!
35:2115/10/2024
The Art of Delusional Confidence
Today’s episode is all about the art of delusional confidence, but first, Raeann chats about her birthday plans for Gabe’s 29th and Kristina tells us about her upcoming suburban block party. Plus, they share everything that’s on their fall wishlists—think apple picking, chunky sweaters, and fall re-runs like Practical Magic and Gilmore Girls. Now, get ready to embrace your delusional confidence! We break down how to embody and apply this unapologetic belief that you can achieve anything. Delusional confidence is all about having a dream, creating a clear vision, and working hard to turn aspirations into reality. Kristina and Raeann share their examples of how they apply this mindset, from dating to being on TV to becoming a curve model. As you begin to speak your dreams into existence, you have to tune out the haters, surround yourself with ambitious people, and embrace the ups and downs. Just believe in yourself and remember, sometimes you have to be a little delusional! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
35:0108/10/2024
Ask Away: Body Image Issues, Workplace Crushes & 30th Birthday Dilemmas
Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first, the girls fill us in on their trip to sunny Los Angeles. Kristina and Raeann chat about their live show in LA with Naturalizer, where they interviewed Deepika Mutyala, Founder of Live Tinted, and celebrated the launch of Naturalizer’s most inclusive boot line yet. They also try to decipher the question of, are you are innately cool or popular, and chat about Kristina’s fascination with the P Diddy scandal. The girl’s questions today are hard-hitting, from self-care and body image to relationship dilemmas and childhood friend drama. Raeann and Kristina give advice on how to shift your mindset towards fitness for mental health and strength, rather than just physical change. They also cover how to navigate a stale relationship and complicated work crush, along with how to feel confident and overcome insecurities when dating. Hopefully, a little fresh perspective and honest advice gives you girls some clarity! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
44:0701/10/2024
Live from LA: Deepica Mutyala on Championing Inclusivity in Beauty and Beyond
In this *Live* episode from Los Angeles, Raeann and Kristina, along with special guest Deepica Mutyala, engage in a lively conversation about confidence, inclusivity, and fashion. Deepica shares her journey in the beauty industry, challenges of representation, and the success of her brand Live Tinted. They discuss confidence in dating, career hurdles, and the significance of a supportive community. Audience questions further explore business failures, inspirations, and the essence of genuine leadership. This episode was brought to you LIVE from Los Angeles thanks to Naturalizer!
42:4026/09/2024
Payton Sartain on City Hopping, Manifesting Your Dream Man, & Embracing Change
Today, we’re joined by Payton Sartain, content creator and podcast host of Note to Self. We chat relationships, city vs. country living, and how to navigate life transitions. Payton talks about her frequent moves—from the Midwest to Fashion Week in NYC to preparing for her next chapter in South Florida. As someone who thrives on new beginnings, she offers advice on navigating life in a new city, making friends as an adult, and finding your community. Payton also gives a peek into her relationship (and Raya success story) with her MLB boyfriend, Joe, and how she manifested him down to a T. The takeaway? Trust yourself, stop overthinking, and don’t be afraid to walk away from what doesn’t serve you. And remember, we’re all just girls trying to figure life out as we go! Kristina and Raeann also chat about their trip to LA, their obsession with the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and how taking a break from drinking may have to wait until winter. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
01:11:3124/09/2024
From Grandma’s Pasta to Saucy Wings: Celebrating Food Without Shame
In this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann’s dopamine menu of little joys like iced matcha, fresh sheets, and ocean dips, while Kristina raves about her new pilates princess era. Today, the girls are talking alllll about food! The focus is to celebrate the joy a good meal can bring and to quiet the toxic diet culture. They share nostalgic childhood dishes, like Kristina’s grandma’s butter pasta and Raeann’s family’s homemade pizza dough. From last meals on earth to their shared love for sauces to food-specific pet peeves, they reveal all their food loves and hates. Plus, they drop their favorite NYC restaurants where you don’t need a reservation two months in advance. Whether it’s cooking scrambled eggs at home or ordering sushi delivery, Kristina and Raeann remind us that food should be fun and free from shame! Bon appétit, ladies! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
52:2217/09/2024
193. LIVE from NYFW: Lauren Chan on The Power of Confidence & Changing the Fashion Narrative
In this *LIVE* episode of TCC, Raeann and Kristina sit down with the iconic Lauren Chan. Together, they dive into the world of fashion, body confidence, and how to authentically show up as yourself. Lauren shares empowering insights on choosing outfits based on how they make you feel, not just how they look. Plus, they discuss fashion inclusivity, give a shout-out to brands making an impact, and share advice on finding emerging designers. Tune in for style tips, real talk, and a whole lot of inspiration! This episode was brought to you LIVE from NYFW thanks to Naturalizer!
40:1405/09/2024
192. We're Back, Baby! Summer Lovin' & Suburban Bliss
We're back, Confidants! Raeann and Kristina are back from their summer break, settling into their new sunroom studio! They dive into the joys and challenges of suburban life and how they’re striking the perfect balance between that and their city roots. Rae shares her summer adventures, from horseback riding to hiking in Colorado, while Kristina reflects on her relaxed, family-centered summer and some heartfelt thoughts on motherhood. Rae and Gabe are perfect - are they not? Raeann gives us an update on their relationship—go back and watch her bull riding video on Instagram if you haven't seen it! The conversation also turns to pop culture, where they chat about their admiration for stars like Addison Rae and Sabrina Carpenter, plus all the buzz surrounding Love Island USA and influencer drama. To top it all off, they share their excitement for their first live event with Naturalizer on September 3rd, where they’ll be celebrating inclusive sizing and fostering a sense of community. This episode feels like catching up with old friends—full of warmth, insight, and a little bit of juicy gossip. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Goodwipes: Be sure to shop for Goodwipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local grocery stores! If you are more of an online shopper, Goodwipes are available on Amazon!
46:1703/09/2024
191. Summer Rewind: Help! I’ve never been in a relationship. Is something wrong with me?
In the final rewind episode of the summer, we turn back the clock to one of our personal favorites! Remember when Rae dropped the big "what are we" question? And Kristina rocking the neighborhood mom scene. We're also spilling tea about the craziest things we've ever done in relationships (hint: it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗). We chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, tackle troll comments, and discuss Kristina’s obsession with Mike the Situation. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind. "42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship." We’re delving into the inner struggles of never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect great sex and fairytale romances, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. The TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of dating experience. We’re here to be your hype women and remind you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn’t a bad thing; if anything, it’s kind of a turn-on. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return NEXT WEEK on September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
49:4427/08/2024
190. Summer Rewind: Romanticize the F Out of Your Life
In today's throwback episode, we got some great tips to help you embrace your "Main Character Energy" all year round. Plus Kristina shares an epic story involving a magical Tesla, a lost purse, and a white fig tree that led her to realize her current house was meant to be. We also dive into the Beckham documentary and discuss why it’s so captivating, and whether David and Victoria Beckham might have one of the greatest love stories of all time. Naturally, this leads us to chat about the Spice Girls. One of us channels Scary Spice, while the other embodies Posh Spice. Can you guess who’s who? Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
39:4120/08/2024
189. Summer Rewind: Going Deeper with Rosie on Fat Shaming: Navigating Negative Comments & A Size-Biased World
Even the most confident among us can be deeply hurt by fat shaming. Intentional or not, overt or covert, no one wants to experience it. After a recent conversation with our friend Rosie about her distressing encounter with fat shaming on a plane, we found ourselves asking: Why does this still happen? Why is "fat" used as an insult? And why do some people think it's okay to say that? In this re-released episode, we’re diving into the roots of fat phobia, exploring size stereotypes, and discussing why "fat" remains a weaponized term. We reflect on our personal fat-shaming experiences, how they’ve impacted our confidence, what we’ve learned, how to handle such situations, and ultimately, how to rise above these negative comments. Remember, confidence and happiness aren’t dictated by size. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
57:4613/08/2024
188. Summer Rewind: The Power of Self-Pleasure
Today we're revisiting an enlightening episode featuring Kiana Reeves, a leading voice in sexual wellness and Chief Content Officer at Foria, as part of our summer rewind series. Kiana shares her expertise on how to enhance your connection with your body and experience more pleasure in your sex life. Join us as we explore the holistic approach to sexual wellness, encompassing emotional, biological, social, and spiritual aspects. Kiana discusses the importance of self-care through masturbation, the science behind orgasms, and practical tips for communicating your desires with your partner. Whether you're seeking to feel more empowered in your sex life or simply curious about improving intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration. Tune in to discover new ways to embrace vulnerability and remove shame from your sexual journey. For more enriching discussions on sexual wellness, be sure to explore Kiana's work at Foria and continue learning with us on the Confident Collective podcast! Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
01:15:5206/08/2024
187. Summer Rewind: Dating & Relationship Q+A with Unsolicited Advice Podcast
Welcome back to another summer rewind episode of the Confident Collective! Join us as we revisit a fan-favorite conversation with Ashley and Taryne, our fabulous co-hosts from the Unsolicited Advice podcast. Together, we dive into a variety of intriguing topics, from navigating the complexities of the dating scene to confidently setting boundaries after undergoing personal transformations. We also explore how to reignite the spark in long-term relationships, drawing from our own unique experiences and insights. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
01:04:2530/07/2024
186. Summer Rewind: Single and Ready to Mingle? Jared Freid’s Advice for Navigating Dating Apps, Making the First Move & How to Seal the Deal
Dusting off a gem from the vault! Join us as we revisit a classic episode packed with all the vibes. Raeann reflects on five years of singlehood, embracing every moment along the way. Meanwhile, Kristina, amidst the NYC hustle, dreams of sandy Malibu shores, contemplating a sunny return to LA. We also dive into Kristina's obsession with Vanderpump Rules, the ever-shifting world of influencers, and a peek into Travis Kelce's surprising side. Plus, get ready for some male perspective as comedian Jared Freid, known for his Netflix special and podcast on modern dating, shares his insights. From DM sliding to defining relationships, Jared spills the tea on navigating today's dating landscape with confidence and authenticity. 🔥 Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
01:12:5223/07/2024
185. Summer Rewind: Shit Men Say
In this revisited episode, we boldly explore the audacious comments men have thrown our way. From ridiculous remarks about our looks and mannerisms to downright bizarre statements, we recount personal anecdotes that showcase just how surreal these interactions can be. Additionally, we revisit some of the most jaw-dropping stories shared by our TCC listeners. Join us as we reflect on the bizarre thought processes behind these comments and collectively address their absurdity. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
25:1416/07/2024
184. Summer Rewind: Going Deeper With Rosie On Casual Sex, Celibacy & Reclaiming Sexual Freedom
Join us as we revisit an insightful conversation with Kristina, Raeann, and special guest Rosie, exploring Raeann’s evolving views on casual sex. We delve into Raeann’s reflections from her ‘hoe phase,’ where she embraced casual encounters without regrets, to her subsequent ‘celibate era.’ Discover how Raeann navigated dating during her 'siren summer,' prioritizing connection over immediate intimacy. This judgment-free episode encourages reclaiming sexual freedom while ensuring personal comfort and empowerment. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! *Please note: This episode was recorded earlier, so any mentioned ads or discounts may no longer be available. Additionally, some topics, opinions, and advertisements may have changed since recording.
40:5109/07/2024
183. Confident Collective Pool Party Recap: Celebrating Community, Body Positivity & Girl’s Girls
We had the best time at our 2nd Annual Confident Collective Pool Party this past Saturday in Los Angeles!! The sun was shining, the outfits were slaying (shoutout DSW), the girls were hyping each other up, and everyone was just living their best lives while feeling confident in their own skin! We were so happy with how everything turned out, from the Americana-themed food to the curated gift bags to the Argi Daneli custom jewelry bar. We also share some special moments that highlight why we host these parties and showcase just how amazing our community is. Thank you to everyone who joined us in celebrating body positivity, community and the start of a great summer. Until September 3rd, have a lovely summer, and catch us on Patreon for updates! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsor! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
40:2002/07/2024
182. Ask Away: Picture Perfect, Coworker Crushes & Curvy Confidence
On today’s Ask Away, we’re delivering candid advice to your burning questions! To the person that asks why every photo they take of themselves looks bad, we remind you that everyone posts their best angles online and that even lighting can make or break a photo. Have a crush on a coworker? Go for it girl, flirt your little heart out!! We also address how to navigate dealing with a new sister-in-law that you have bad blood with, and how to navigate splitting finances in a relationship. We also feel strongly that everyone looks better naked and you should feel confident and sexy in the bedroom as a curvy girl. Side note, quick reminder that our Confident Collective Pool Party is THIS weekend, June 29th in Beverly Hills, CA!!! If you haven’t already, click the link below to buy tickets to the hottest summer party of the year! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
44:4325/06/2024
181. Katie Austin’s Balanced Approach to Fitness, Nutrition & Mental Health
Today we welcome special guest Katie Austin, a multifaceted fitness personality, recipe developer, Sports Illustrated model, and app creator. Known for her attainable and balanced approach to health and wellness, Katie gives insightful advice from how to change your mindset around nutrition to creating a simple morning routine. She shares how growing up in a sporty household with fitness legend Denise Austin influenced her passion for staying active and fueled her competitive spirit, leading her to become a D1 lacrosse athlete. As Katie slowly found joy in working out after years of intense training, she now emphasizes the importance of mental health and balance in the fitness industry — a bender weekend in Miami isn’t always a bad thing. We also chat about protein intake, the current colostrum trend, and how to get out of a slump. If you’re looking for “healthified” versions of your favorite meals or need a little extra motivation, we highly recommend downloading Katie Austin’s app! Kristina and Raeann also chat about the highlights from last year’s pool party, our booked and busy summer schedules, and the crazy NYC humidity that ruins any blowout. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
47:4618/06/2024
180. Solo Ep: Your Guide to a Confident & Effortless Summer
Today’s solo episode is so summer-coded, but first, let’s catch each other up! Kristina shares how she used to romanticize traveling, but when the kids stay at home, the fear sets in. Also teeming with anxiety, Raeann talks about the chaos of moving in New York. And of course, our weekly obsessions — Kristina chats about The Valley, while Raeann does a deep dive into the allure of rodent men. Summer is finally here and we are so ready for the pool parties and beach hangs that are in our near future. We emphasize that we need to start embracing the bodies we are in now and stop tearing ourselves down. We share advice on how to build up our confidence and mental health, from going on daily walks to planning outfits ahead of time to ditching makeup for a natural glow. This summer, aim to feel like your most authentic and effortless self. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
27:0711/06/2024
179. Anna Kai on Dating, Self-Worth & Life Beyond the Highlight Reel
Today, we welcome on Anna Kai of @maybeboth — content creator and the friend you call if you need life advice. From the outside looking in, Anna seems to have it all figured out, yet she shares her story through the uncertainties of life beyond the highlight reel. We chat about how life isn’t one perfect timeline or plan, and we aren’t meant to have things always figured out. With over a million followers, she reflects on the importance of embracing the journey to the destination, finding your “why”, and just going for what you want. Anna also gives us top-tier dating advice, from finding self-worth outside of relationships to the importance of communication in marriage. Marrying the right person is 100% worth the wait even if you have to go on date after date. Anna gives us her raw, authentic advice on how to truly thrive in your life even through the hard times and how to find meaning in the struggle. Tune in for an insightful episode, plus hear about Raeann’s and Kristina’s upcoming trip to LA! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsor! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up!
59:4204/06/2024
178. Ask Away: Engagement Drama, Glow Downs & F-Boys
Today’s Ask Away episode is full of juicy drama, but first, get excited confidants!! On June 29th, we’re throwing a Confident Collective Pool Party in Los Angeles! It was one of our highlights from last year and tickets sold out so fast so make sure to set a reminder to buy them this weekend. As we recap our week, Raeann shares the details of her first hormone-fueled fight with Gabe. Kristina chimes in that the hormone rage just heightens after you have kids, just one of the joys of being a woman. Kristina also chats about her fight with Steve and him being antisocial with the soccer dads. In this week’s obsessed, Kristina is raving about the start of a great Jersey Shore summer and Raeann is listing off curvy girl leads and crossing her fingers for a racy scene in Bridgerton. The girls brought plenty of drama this week. We explore a brother-in-law’s whirlwind engagement and the tension that results within the family. Red flags are apparent, but we give our two cents on how to restore harmony. We also discuss how to navigate a “glow down” season, from embracing self-care and mindset changes to putting on a cute new outfit. One girl asks for advice on how to proceed with a potential (aka definite) f-boy, while another asks whether or not to disclose all of her past relationships from her sexcapade era to her partner. We also offer encouragement to those in their early 20s to embrace this chaotic chapter in their lives. Hope our advice helped and we can’t wait to see you all in person on June 29th! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
35:3828/05/2024
177. Talia Hubble on How-To Host Pinterest-Worthy Dinner Parties
We’re thrilled to welcome Talia Hubble, founder of linens brand Maude & May, content creator, and queen of girly pop aesthetic. Talia shares her secrets to mastering the art of dinner parties and gives us a step-by-step guide on how to host a stunning summer soirée without all the stress, from choosing a theme to crafting the perfect menu (whether you’re cooking or DoorDashing). Talia also gives us budget-friendly hosting tips, revealing how to perfect your Facebook Marketplace algorithm and where to find an affordable venue. The goal is to bring people together and create community, so focus on the things you love when hosting and everything else will fall into place. We also get the tea on Talia’s new life in NYC and how it compares to LA, especially when it comes to dating. Talia is thriving and so is her linens brand, Maude & May. Discover how it came about and what her exciting plans are for the future! Talia gives us both aspirational and practical advice on how to host the perfect Pinterest-inspired summer dinner party. Also in this episode, Raeann and Kristina reflect on their recent rom-com watches and realize they have very different taste in men. Raeann discusses her body image struggles and voices her desperate need for new running gear, while Kristina chats about her triathlon training. And this week’s obsessed list includes the current TikTok trend of why marriage is hard and the out-of-touch Bumble rebrand. We loved chatting with Talia Hubble and now feel inspired to host our own dinner parties this summer! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
47:0821/05/2024
176. Solo Episode: The Art of Being Cringe & Caring Less
In today’s solo episode, we are chatting about embracing the cringe and not letting people’s opinions get in the way! Raeann posted about her butt acne issues and her community came through with helpful advice, the girlies understand. Especially helpful as we’re in our sporty girl era, Kristina is excited about joining a beach volleyball team and Raeann is currently training for a half-marathon. We also chat about our expectations when it comes to surprises… catch Raeann’s couch boy 2.0 surprise reaction with Gabe on our Patreon. Also soon to be on Patreon, Kristina drops that she’s having sleep coach, Steph Fischer, guest star to give advice to us parents who need a little help getting our little ones to sleep. In pop culture news, we dissect our favorite rom-coms and swoon over Tom Brady in his latest feature on The Roast. Okay, let’s get into why being a little cringe is not a bad thing! Our opinion is that to be successful you must do things that are considered cringe-worthy, especially when you’re just starting out. Kristina and Raeann relive their moments of cringe and why those moments also got them to where they are now in their careers. Once we get rid of this limiting belief and stop caring about other people’s opinions, we can truly start being our most successful, badass selves. Post the TikTok, join the sports league, start painting, write the book, do whatever it is that you feel excited and passionate about and don’t worry about what others say or think, they’re just jealous anyways! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
35:5914/05/2024
175. Kaitlin Reagan on Her Journey of Grief, Healing & Finding Herself Again
Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Kaitlin Reagan, a content creator whose journey through love, loss, and self-discovery has inspired many. Kaitlin and her boyfriend of 9 years, Francesco, began to share their love story on TikTok during the monotonous days of the pandemic and quickly grew a loyal following. She reflects on their beautiful love story and how their love endured even as cancer tragically took Francesco’s life. As she grappled with Francesco’s passing, Kaitlin found herself navigating one of life’s darkest moments and began the process of rebuilding her life from rock bottom. She slowly discovered what it means to truly heal and be happy again while redefining the role social media should have in her life. Kaitlin also opens up about her new-found journey back in the dating world and gives insight into how to put yourself out there again while staying true to yourself. Tune in to listen to Kaitlin’s moving story of love and resilience, and don’t forget to follow her @kaitlin_reagan to get the inside scoop on her recent dating life. On a lighter note, Raeann shares that she finally made it through the overwhelming process of finding an apartment in New York and is looking forward to a fresh start. Kristina is enjoying the little moments of life and chats about how her family’s sunset beach hangs have been good for the soul. Also, they’re obsessed with Nicola Coughlan being the curvy lead of Bridgerton season 3! Anyways, this week’s episode with Kaitlin Reagan is moving, insightful, and makes you believe in true love. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
54:4907/05/2024
174. Ask Away: Dating a Short King, How to Flirt & Getting Friend-Zoned
Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first a little life recap! Raeann may have came back from her Mexico vacation paler than when she got there, but her relationship with Gabe has grown stronger. Raeann and Kristina share how they feel like they are glowing down, but apparently it’s a normal feeling in your early 30s so love that for us. Speaking of aging, Kristina got a 3D mirror image of her face and left with Botox recommendations and how to fix her tech neck. Also, Kristina drops that she is Taylor Swift’s muse?! One of her songs mentions an interview Kristina had with Travis Kelce and the Swifites are obsessed to say the least. Meanwhile, Raeann is fixated on the common theme that men never ask questions on dates and are just terrible conversationalists; the reason why is up for debate. On today’s Ask Away, we give advice that will hopefully help you navigate your life dilemmas. Dating a short king can be an insecurity for some, but just own it! Rock the high heels and don’t be self-conscious about it. We also give our hot takes on how to get comfortable with flirting out in the wild. If you leave the RBF behind and give them a compliment about how much you love their shoes, you’ll be just fine. We share our thoughts on how to handle being friend-zoned and the best way to ask your friend to pay you back. You got this ladies, just be yourself and be confident! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
43:0030/04/2024
173. Unfiltered With Chelsea Blackwell: Life After Love is Blind
Today we sit down with Chelsea Blackwell to unveil what really went down during her time on Love is Blind, the Megan Fox debacle, and her dating life post Jimmy. Chelsea thought she didn’t say or do anything too crazy on the show that would bring unwanted attention, but little did she know that she would soon be roasted by America for saying Megan Fox is her celebrity doppelgänger. As she navigates this new life in the spotlight, she is handling the scrutiny with humor and grace while embracing exciting new opportunities with confidence. Chelsea gives her raw thoughts on the Love is Blind experiment, if she would do it again, and what really happens during a normal day in the pods. She opens up about her toxic relationship with Jimmy and the unexpected rollercoaster of emotions. As she reenters the dating scene, she is excited to see what happens and may even slide into some celebrity DMs. From being a jet-setting flight attendant to being a verified reality star, the world is truly your oyster and we cannot wait to see what’s next for you, Chelsea! In other news, Raeann fills us in on her first vacation with Gabe! Other than Raeann ditching Gabe for TSA pre-check, it went swimmingly! Kristina and Raeann real talk about the dreaded bathroom sitch when traveling with your significant other. Are you a lobby bathroom or embrace the awkwardness type of person? Also, Raeann is still on the apartment hunt, apparently finding a place in NYC for under 10k/month is not an easy feat. And Kristina raves about her friend’s new movie, Musica, on Amazon. This is an episode you won’t want to miss, and if you haven’t seen Chelsea’s season of Love is Blind, we highlyyy recommend for a great binge-watch! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
42:0323/04/2024
172. Solo Episode: Being the Bigger Friend, Childhood Trauma & Changing Your Mindset
In today’s solo episode, we talk about growing up as the bigger friend and the universal experiences we went through as a result. But before we dive in, we have to fill you in on a few things. Big steps were taken as Gabe met Raeann’s parents for the first time! There might have been a little chaotic family energy but we realized every family has a little crazy in them. Speaking of, how often do you talk to your parents?? Kristina’s trip to elusive Sarasota finally left the group chat. We also chat about the financial pressure of over-the-top bachelorette parties and similarly, the slippery slope over birthday dinners when the check comes. And of course, in pop culture news, Nick Viall’s reality recap podcast enlightens us with a male perspective about constantly critiquing your partner and the debate over proactive couple’s therapy. If you’ve ever felt the anxiety that comes with writing down your extra-large t-shirt size in a room full of size smalls, this is for you. Being the big girl in the friend group or growing up as the bigger girl, we have had to endure many experiences that take a hit to our self-esteem. The defeating experience of prom dress shopping, not being able to share clothes with friends, and the feeling that no boys like you, were just some of the fun things we had to go through as the bigger friend. Raeann and Kristina also open up about how their families affected their body confidence, both the good and the bad. As we work through our past traumas, we learn to change our mindset and how we should talk to ourselves. This change in mindset was largely due to the body-positive movement in the media and seeing others embrace self-love at any size. Hype yourself up and fake it till you make it because you ARE hot! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
46:4516/04/2024
171. Meet Emma Arletta: Body Confidence, Plus-Size Dating & Personal Branding
We are thrilled to sit down with the inspiring plus-size content creator, Emma Arletta. She is the face behind the ‘Big Girls’ movement, is a prominent voice in the body confidence community, and is known to give great advice about dating as a plus-size woman. Emma delves into the dynamics of growing up with a thin mom and how her journey for self-love and confidence grew into what it is today. Finding confidence within yourself can be challenging, but it is so important to look within yourself to find what brings you fulfillment and joy outside of your looks. Emma talks about her transition from being a full-time Speech Therapist to a full-time content creator. She gives advice about personal branding and how to use your unfiltered voice to grow on social media. We also hear about her merch launch that sold out (!!) and how she is about to take the modeling world by storm! Emma opens up and offers refreshing advice on self-acceptance, relationships, and pursuing your dreams regardless of societal norms. Speaking of relationships, Raeann and her boyfriend hard launched on social media and it accidentally went viral! If you’re curious about how they met, head over to Patreon for a full Q&A. Both Raeann and Kristina chat about how they want their partners to become influencers, like who doesn’t want more content of Steve?! Speaking of, Steve and his “Fyre Festival of easter egg hunts” comments definitely would’ve been a hit. This week’s obsessed with items revolve around pop culture, from JoJo Siwa’s cringe-worthy rebrand to The Valley and Kristina’s hatred of Jesse on the show. This episode featuring Emma Arleta offers incredible insights that we're obsessed with, and we hope you will be too! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
55:4609/04/2024
170. Ask Away: I’m Still a Virgin, I Love My Ex & I Don’t Know How to Budget
Well, first things first. Raeann is filling us in on her and her boyfriend and expressing how she can be her weird self around him (*insert Olive Garden metaphor here*). Kristina chats about her stunning New Jersey home and how it got chosen for an insane remodel opportunity via an interior design magazine. Get the inside scoop, a full home tour, and more boyfriend gossip over on our Confidant Patreon if you haven’t already! In this episode, we also chat about the control social media has over us, the power of meditation and great therapists, and the shocking revelations about Jay Shetty. In today’s Ask Away episode, Raeann and Kristina are dishing their thoughts and hard truths as they answer your questions. We tackle the complexities of being single, from how to navigate and embrace your single era to overcoming comparison and insecurities about your sex life or lack there of. We also drop some tough love which may be hard accept. But girl, cut ties with your ex and book a solo trip to Europe, and if you don’t hear from your boyfriend while they’re out of town, they don’t deserve you, period. Then we switch gears and talk about the anxiety-inducing topic of finances, and while we’re obviously not experts, just being more intentional and not booking bougie $100 lunches is a great place to start. We love connecting with our community and getting to give advice during these Ask Away episodes. See you soon on Patreon or stay tuned for next week’s episode! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
36:0502/04/2024
169. From Runway to Reality: Lauren Chan is Redefining Beauty Standards
Today we sit down with Lauren Chan, supermodel, Sports Illustrated rookie, and plus-size fashion designer (yes, she really does it all). Lauren is a prominent voice in the body-positive and self-love community and is truly redefining beauty standards across every avenue she ventures into. In our conversation, Lauren opens up about her trauma-driven pursuit of perfection, her self-discovery as a gay woman, and her inspiring journey post-divorce. We dive into her time as a Sports Illustrated rookie and how it is an incredible experience but it is also eye-opening to realize that every woman gets insulted for their own beauty standards and that there is no “perfect woman” in a man’s world. Lauren shares advice about how dressing for the female-gaze is the best thing you can do for your confidence and that you should curate your social media feeds with uplifting creators that make you feel inspired. From breaking beauty standards to navigating her passions, Lauren’s story shows us the importance of representation and to always stay true to yourself. In other news, Raeann and Kristina launched Confidants yesterday!! Confidants is our new Patreon community that will be full of new solo episodes, first access to live events, a Discord channel, and so much more. We are SO excited for this new extension of The Confident Collective community. We also dive into Em Rata’s controversial divorce rings, swimming with no goggles on, and that Kristina finally fulfilled her dream of getting a partnership with Bravo! From talking with the brilliant Lauren Chan to dishing out the details of our Patreon, this is an episode you won’t want to miss! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
52:2326/03/2024
168. The Ozempic Effect: Unpacking Society’s Obsession with Thinness and the Body Positivity Backlash
In this solo episode, we’re talking all about the craze behind Ozempic and of course, catching up with our girls. Kristina spills the tea about her bougie Aspen brand trip, meanwhile, Raeann had a much-needed low-key week. Kristina and Raeann chat about how drastically different their lives are now as Kristina talks about how special her first mother-son dance (aka rave) was. Raeann opens up about not feeling settled and her current existential crisis that she’s been trying to navigate. As for pop-culture references, we’re watching Summer House, binging The Traitors, and wondering where is Kate Middleton hiding! And we’re taking a poll — should Kristina be on The Real Housewives of New Jersey? We’ve allll heard about it, seen ads for it, or know someone who’s on it. Yes, we’re talking about Ozempic, Wegovy, semaglutide. While some are tempted by its promises of thinness and a lack of food noise, others raise concerns about its long-term effects and the added societal pressure to conform to a narrow beauty ideal. We have made monumental strides forward as a society in the body-positive movement but overnight we’ve taken steps backward. Raeann mentions her fashion collaborations have dropped due to their lack of larger sizes available. A woman’s Roman Empire is their body and weight, so when praising and parading around this ideal that thinness is only a few injections away, this may have a negative effect on people in larger bodies and promote a negative stigma. There are so many sides and things to take into account with these drugs so by no means are we judging you if you are on them. Amidst this weight loss trend, we hope there’s a refocus on what really matters which is feeling and being healthy, nourishing your body, and loving the body you’re in, instead of constantly chasing a thinner body. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
45:4519/03/2024
167. Solo Episode: Unveiling Spring Fashion Trends from Capris to Ballet Flats
In this solo episode, we are chatting about spring trends and giving our honest opinions as true fashion connoisseurs. But before we get into it, Kristina and Raeann catch us up on what’s new. Kristina and Raeann unveil that they are both thriving in their fitness era — Kristina even signed up for a triathlon!! Raeann confesses her love for buffalo sauce, Kristina shares stories about her nanny, and the girls find agreement on ending friendships if they associate with disrespectful men. Also, does Kelly Clarkson know she’s the face of weight loss pills that are targeting old parents?! As spring is just around the corner, we can’t WAIT to stash the puffers away until next winter. We analyze the hottest spring trends from dressy shorts to feminine rosettes. There is a slight departure from the long-time standing clean girl aesthetic, as we are seeing boxer shorts, funky glasses, and cheetah-print pants. Now, Raeann and Kristina are in debate about balloon jeans and mesh shoes, but it might just be all in how you style them. We dive into micro-trends and our current go-to fashion brands. Whatever trends you do or don’t participate in, just remember that cool girls rewear their clothes! Happy styling! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsor! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
39:5312/03/2024
166. Who TF Did Tory Almost Marry: Red Flags, Gaslighting & Sex Addiction
We’ve all binged or heard about @ReesaTeesa and her 50-part TikTok series about her pathological liar husband, right? Well, let us introduce you to Raeann’s sister, Tory Langas, who’s about to open up about her 5-year relationship with a man who ended up being a sex addict and narcissist. The red flags started early on in their relationship when he lied about his age (hello, 16-year age gap), but was overlooked because of their love and pull towards one another. But the red flags kept piling up from fighting with family members to going to Vegas with his “ex” to not being able to hold down a job.🚨 His narcissistic tactics kept Tory on her toes to please him which ends in a huge hit to her self-esteem. After his lackluster proposal, enter Tinder girl and Tory’s new therapist. They opened her eyes, shattered the illusions, and made her start to trust her intuition because window shopping on Tinder is NOT okay.🤯 Amid deception and heartbreak, Tory stood up for herself and left the toxic relationship and we are SO happy for her and her new lovely life!!🤍 The takeaway is not to fall in love with the potential of someone and always trust your gut, ladies. On a lighter note, Raeann and Kristina also fill us in on their tropical humid-filled vacations.🌴Raeann vents about her flight chaos and Kristina shares how Steve booked their Miami trip and the hiccups that entailed. Also, if Natural Cycles said you’ll be on a trip during your period would you move it?? Raeann did just that, but we know the swim content is going to be fire! This pod is full of twists and turns so buckle in and get ready for Tory to spill the tea. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month. Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up!
01:59:1905/03/2024
165. Ask Away: Wedding Planning Drama, Intimacy Dynamics & the Journey to Self-Love
In this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey even break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also sparks the debate if returning gifts from a loved one is tacky or not. Rae and Kristina also chat about the planning it takes to get ready as a girl, the elaborate lies they told to impress boys in high school, and the fact that they have quite different dating philosophies. As we explore the intricacies of relationships through YOUR Ask Away questions, the ladies give their raw and juicy advice to help with your love life dilemmas. We tackle wedding planning drama and the controversial topic of tray-passed hors d’oeuvres to comparing yourself to your partner’s ex to getting your partner to be more intentional. Then we spice things up by talking about the dynamics of watching porn in a relationship, emphasizing the importance of realistic expectations and the allure of a 10/10 storyline, such as the art of baking bread. 🔥 Throughout the episode, Raeann and Kristina emphasize the importance of body confidence and self-love, encouraging deep talks, shared experiences, and maybe some ethical porn. As our Month of Love concludes, we hope you find self-love, embrace one another’s love languages, and spice things up in the bedroom. xoxo Raeann & Kristina 💕 New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
37:3927/02/2024
164. Getting Vulnerable with Dr. Morgan: Decoding Attachment Styles, Breaking Toxic Cycles & Building Self-Worth
If you’ve found yourself saying “they hate me, it’s been 6 hours since my last text ” or if you run as soon as feelings start to brew, this episode is for you. Dr. Morgan, a relationship coach, is here to help us navigate through the four different attachment styles and give us advice on how to stop self-sabotage and break toxic relationship patterns. Get ready to get deep and vulnerable as we analyze past dating history and learn how to let go of unhealthy relationship beliefs. We also learn that certain attachment styles repeatedly attract each other which made the constant “you’re dating the same guy” spiral make so much sense. And remember, boundaries and self-worth is HOT. 🙌 As we enter week 3 of our Month of Love, also enter Mr. Jersey?! Yes, Raeann’s man now has a nickname which must mean they’re getting serious, right? 😍 Rae and Kristina also debate whether meeting the friends is a big deal or if the opinions on the man’s jorts is just creating unhelpful noise. Speaking of men and their icks, Travis Kelce anyone?! Meanwhile, Kristina is still obsessed with her cute little neighborhood and also found a new obsession for Nara Smith and her idyllic dream life. ☁️ Rae on the other hand is obsessed with the ‘starting over at 30’ side of TikTok...if you’re also feeling a quarter-life crisis coming on, you’re not alone. New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
52:1420/02/2024
163. Help! I’ve never been in a relationship. Is something wrong with me?
We have a LOT to catch up on and we are going DEEP! Rae for one, drops the big “what are we” question, but does that mean they are official?! Meanwhile, Kristina is slaying the neighborhood mom scene, future Mayor Kristina D’Angelo anyone? We’re also spilling tea about the craziest shit we’ve ever done in relationships. Hint, it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗 We also chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, some recent troll comments, and the fact that Kristina is obsessed with Mike the Situationship. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind. “42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship”. On week two of our Month of Love series, we’re talking about the inner struggles that come along with never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect good sex and prince-charming fairytales, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don’t worry, you’re not alone, the TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of experience in the dating world. We’re here to be your hype women and tell you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn’t a bad thing, if anything it’s kind of a turn-on. 💋✨ New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
49:4413/02/2024
162. Single and Ready to Mingle? Jared Freid’s Advice for Navigating Dating Apps, Making the First Move & How to Seal the Deal
Buckle in for the juiciest month of the year! Raeann opens up about being single for the past five years and how she’s learned to embrace and celebrate this era in her life. Kristina, drowning in NYC gloom, daydreams about Malibu beaches and for a minute contemplates a dramatic return to LA for a little sunshine. We also get into Kristina’s love for Vanderpump Rules (bonus episodes anyone 👀), influencers’ ever-evolving trends, and Travis Kelce’s freaky side. Now, as we kick off our month of love, let’s hear from a man’s perspective. Whether you’re anti-Valentine’s Day or a romantic at heart, comedian, Jared Freid, gives us his advice and hot takes on navigating the dating world. Jared has a Netflix special and a podcast talking all about this modern era of dating so he has experienced a thing or two. Get the lowdown on sliding into the DMs, how to stand out on the dating apps, and how to tackle the dreaded “what are we” question. We also chat about how confidence and being authentically yourself will only help you slay the dating scene.🔥 Are men like cabs? Are men intimidated by women who make more money? Is it harder to date as a curvy woman? Download the podcast, open Hinge, pour yourself a glass of wine, and let’s get into it! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month. Maybelline New York: A proud sponsor of our show and the feelings our mutual! We are obsessed with Maybelline and our glam has never looked better! Shop all of our favorite must-haves at Maybelline.com!
01:12:5206/02/2024
161. Imperfect Beginnings, Going For It, and Stressless Pivoting with Abby Price
Kristina is filling us in on her new neighbor meetup and Raeann tells us about the MOST chaotic Pilates class she’s taken— no but really. You have to hear this story. Then we’re getting a Dating Challenge Update from Rae … it’s a good one and we’re excited about it. Also, OSCAR NOMINATIONS are here and there are discussions to be had. So we will absolutely be talking about Barbie and its snubbing. 💅🏼🙃 Also, Raeann’s a Belieber and may or may not be making a public apology to SZA by the end of this ep. 🤷♀️ Finally, the ladies catch up with their artistic, entrepreneurial, and inspiring friend, Abby Price. We hear about the beauty and beginnings of hand-delivered dried floral arrangements, the building of her incredible store and business. To top it off, Abby’s also giving some insight and boots-on-the-ground wisdom the whole way through. She’s a boss building a great company and she’s inspiring. Oh and the timeline she did it in? It’s truly shocking. Get ready to feel like you had the best kind of espresso shot + a few belly laughs, a healthy kick in the pants, and an unexpected giggle or two. This one’s worth the download, just trust us! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!
51:2730/01/2024
160. Solo Episode: Catching up with Rae and K, Friendship Tips, and Pop Culture Round Up!
Okay, quick question for the class… is every single person on the earth on Ozempic? And Tom Holland and Zendaya didn’t break up, right? Because Kristina and Raeann have thoughts, questions, and opinions about it all. But before they dig into that, we’re going to get caught up on Raeann’s Vermont ski trip, WHICH may or may not have been her last. Ice is meant for drinks, not to ski on, ya know? In other news, is Kristina made for the Mob Wife Aesthetic? Maybe she is and maybe she IS. Buckle up for a lively episode, no one’s holding back and there’s a lot of ground covered. Like, what’s got Raeann teary-eyed, is Kristina’s husband in the mob, and how important are intergenerational friendships?! Well, you’ll have to listen to find out! Also, Kristina’s giving one of the best lines you’ve heard to use on the next annoying person you encounter. You won’t miss it. It’s an episode chock-full of goodness you don’t want to miss! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
43:1923/01/2024
159. Ask Away: Dating Post a Breakup in Your 30's, Going From One Child to Two, and Financial Convos with Friends
Well, first things first. Guess who hates Saltburn, Kristina or Raeann? Also, who is caught up on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City? Because Kristina has thoughts, STRONG ones at that. She believes one deserves an award while the other literally put her to sleep, in fact. 🤷♀️ Next up we’re getting some life updates and may or may not be hearing about a new crush, buttt you’ll have to 🎧 to find out! And don’t worry, we’re not skipping past Gypsy Rose … and the fact that her husband *MIGHT* look like her mom?! 😬 Raeann goes speed dating again and we get all the ☕️. What would YOU do if you were on a 10-minute date and it’s underscored by, “My Heart Will Go On” creating maybe the weirdest experiences ever? This week’s ASK AWAY is a 👌🏼 one! Kristina and Raeann both have incredibly vulnerable, insightful, and wise advice to speak on dating in your 30’s after a breakup, growing your family, and having genuinely hard conversations with friends … especially where money’s concerned. Helpful and hilarious, enjoy! New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month. Maybelline New York: A proud sponsor of our show and the feelings our mutual! We are obsessed with Maybelline and our glam has never looked better! Shop all of our favorite must-haves at Maybelline.com!
36:5016/01/2024
158 Exploring the Cosmic Vibes of 2024 with Astrologist, Alice Bell
Raeann and Kristina are spilling the tea on everything that's been happening since the last episode -- 2024 is off to a wild start! From Raeann's January Dating Challenge (👀) to Kristina taking a wild polar plunge all by herself and all the trends that are IN and OUT in 2024. But the real icing on the cake? Alice Bell is back on the pod, and she's here to break down all things astrology! If you've been riding with TCC for a while, you know Alice Bell was the one who got Raeann hooked on astrology in the first place. Now, she's here to unpack the cosmic vibes of 2024 and how they're playing out in our everyday lives. Whether you're just dipping your toes into astrology or you're a full-blown astrology fanatic, this episode will have you locked in. Tune in for a laid-back chat with Raeann, Kristina, and the astro-expert Alice as they break down and make sense of 2024's cosmic vibes! 🌌✨ New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month.
01:22:0509/01/2024
157. ‘23 Wrapped: Milestones, Big Moments, Dating and Relationship Recaps
What a year it’s been and what a fun episode to send us all into the Holidays! Today, we may or may not be getting some ☕️ *tea on the Golden Bachelor while Raeann fills us in on some circulating questions about the bachelor himself … not least of which, the pronunciation of “Gerry.” Then we get into Taylor Swift’s latest Vogue cover and some quotes to chew on, because obviously we must and we will! 👸 Before we start looking to the new year we have some dating recaps from Raeann, a solid story involving an un-called for Instagram blocking, along with some thoughts from Kristina on her own relationship with Steve and overall goals for the new year. We’re also getting therapy insights as Raeann vulnerably lets us in on her own journey. Therapy is no joke! Good thing there’s hilarious stories, sweet updates *like Christian’s projected height, and some really encouraging takeaways. We really are so grateful for each of you and can’t wait to see you in January ‘24 with all new episodes, but until then, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year! What We Talk About: We’re getting some Golden Bachelor Gossip Is it “Gerry” or “Ga-ary”? Kristina tells us about an interesting timing between her period and fighting with her husband Once and for all, did Kristina move the garland or not? Updates on Christian’s weight, projected height (which is impressive btw) Live Event Recaps ‘24 Live Event Teases and some overall well wishes Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up!
50:1112/12/2023
156. Hello, Cuffing Season! feat. Sixtine Rouyre
It’s a wonderful day for all our single and searching friends out there because we have Sixtine Rouyre in-studio dishing the goods! She’s dropping real dating-expertise, excel spreadsheets, some simple adjustments to your dating strategy and overall? - Just some confidence and chill we can all sit back and enjoy even if you're already cuffed! She’s giving us all some permission to be our most settled and authentic selves, to hide nothing on dates, and to find our own siren eyes … You’ll get it when you hear it. But before we get into all that goodness, we’re first finding out what and *cough who* might be making Raeann a sports fan. In the end, Raeann and Kristina are entering their sports era and we are here for it! And then after announcing our Gift Bag Giveaway winner we obviously have to address the low-hanging garland in the room and #JusticeForSteve. What We Also Get Into: Is Raeann going to be an Avalanche or Rangers fan? Does Kristina live in Pleasantville or what!? Is Jack Harlow Raeann’s new perfect celeb crush? #JusticeForSteve and the low-hanging Christmas garland Announcing the Gift Bag Giveaway Authentically going into dates What if a date doesn’t confirm day-of? “Most men can't be trusted to plan … Like, realistically, you're just gonna be disappointed. The same applies to sex, I think. If you just expect them to know everything, you're gonna be disappointed.” –Sixtine Rouyre New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/confidentcollective and get on your way to being your best self plus get 10% off your first month.
01:06:3305/12/2023
155. Ask Away: Seeing Your Old Crush at Your New Job and How to Handle Your Friends Being Approached by Guys - But Not You!
We’re still recovering from our wonderful Friendsgiving Dinner and can’t wait to announce the winner of a free Goodie Bag, so make sure to subscribe to our stories so you don’t miss the announcement! Now, we know you’re all dying to hear whether or not Raeann went out on THAT date we talked about last week … Well, let’s just say there was a shirtless selfie and some bad communication, do you think that was a dealbreaker for Raeann and would it be one for you? Next we’re moving on to some Golden Bachelor and Golden Bachelorette Theories, of which there are a few … Is it going to be Leslie or Teresa and WHO is right for the first Golden Bachelorette? All of that aside, Kristina spent the first night at her new house and is filling us in on her favorite parts of the house, especially a shower and bathroom that sounds like a spa— heaven. But the last half of this episode is devoted to YOUR questions and we’re tackling two great topics today: Old crushes in new environments and confidence in context to your friends. What We Talk About: Did Raeann go on that date or not? “When in doubt, don’t send sexual selfies.” Golden Bachelorette Theories- Should it be Joan, Leslie, or Teresa? Kristina’s first night in her new house A shower, some built-ins, and some waterfront light that make all the difference What do you do when the past co-worker you fell for shows up at your new job? How do you feel confident in your skin when your friends are seemingly approached more than you? Someone else’s beauty doesn’t take away from your own. –Raeann Langas New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! Honeylove: Get Up to 60% OFF @honeylove by going to honeylove.com/TCC! #honeylovepod
31:2128/11/2023
154. Friendsgiving: A Night to Remember
Well our Confident Collective Friendsgiving was one for the books! We’re going to fill you in on our incredible night with awesome new friends, throbbing feet, a beautiful dinner, and we may even answer the age old question, “How many dirty martinis can Kristina order before the waiter tries to cut her off?” But before that, we’re catching you up on the day … which may or may not have included tears on New Jersey Transit, a euphoric cab ride, and a buccal massage— All before noon. Raeann’s filling us in on the pre-Friendsgiving photo shoot drama and a pretty privilege joke that fell flat while also bringing us along for a Nightcap Adventure involving a pickle entrepreneur, raccoon eyes, and Lady and the Tramp. You’ll just have to listen to see what we mean! But the gist is that we had another wonderful night, just bringing women together, and we’re excited for much more. And if you’re on board for some incredible goodies, you’ll not want to miss us going through our Holiday Gift Bag. We’ve got everything from Rose Inc. Eyelash Curlers to Kérastase and Orbe products, to Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patches and some wonderful Maybelline treats. The point is, you don’t want to miss a second! What We Talk About: A crying commute, a lot of excitement, and some frazzled bag stuffing Sometimes things just don’t go as planned Kristina had a buccal massage that Raeann missed in the same room Why do pictures on film just look better? Pretty privilege and when jokes miss Possibly one of the best nights ever? Kristina tells a story about carrying a 15lb. chair around her neck via a scarf Why does everyone think Raeann and Kristina are siblings? Going through the gift bag New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
40:0121/11/2023
153. Getting Dressed Without Getting Stressed
Finding an outfit you love and equally feel confident to rock at any party, get-together, or (in Kristina’s case) a gala, can be downright overwhelming. So we’re getting into it today! Before that though, we’re talking appropriate Christmas decorating times ... Someone may or may not already have a tree decorated and up in her house before her couch. Which, respect. Then getting into the meat of this ep, Kristina and Raeann are tackling an ongoing question and challenge for most of us— “How do you deal with dressing anxiety?” The holidays mean prepping for all sorts of social functions, so why not eliminate future last-minute stress by sorting your fits now? Also, keep in mind that dressing up can be FUN; especially when you’re mixing textures, throwing in a feather here and there, for starters. Kristina and Raeann are giving solid advice and some practical ways to get ahead of all that potential holiday stress. We’re romancing our lives, remember? So let’s have some fun and feel good doing it together! What We Talk About: Getting SO excited for Friendsgiving “tonight” When is the right time to start decorating for Christmas? Answering the question, “How Do you deal with dressing anxiety?” Tips for feeling the most confident when getting dress for THAT big event Some Fantasy Fashion Holiday Trends “Give me all the feathers and all the sequins” - Kristina Zias New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! Thanks to our sponsors! Rakuten: Start all your shopping trips at rakuten.com or get the Rakuten app to start saving today, your Cash Back really adds up! OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod
33:0014/11/2023
152. Going Deeper with Rosie: The Virtue of Food, Eating Differences within Relationships, and Commenting on Each Other’s Habits
Navigating any food conversations with your person or potential partner can be tense and tricky. We each have a very different relationship with food but that doesn’t mean we can’t come to the conversation from a level place and not with a grenade-of-opinion in our hand. That’s why we’re so glad to have Rosie back with us to help answer a listener’s question about this very thing. The best part? We all heard the question a bit differently so you’re really going to get a variety in perspectives today! We also get to hear about Raeann’s trip to Vegas, XS, eye-surgery update and a surprise Diplo show. This may or may not have subsequently led to an urgent care pit-stop on her way out of town to Paris. And don’t worry, we’re getting the details on what may be the perfect hookup, anddd some other possible vacation romances. Meanwhile, Kristina’s having a bit of a time getting settled after her big move and some disappointing school visits, lack-luster ferries, and a not-so-reliable babysitting situation. But she’s trusting the process! So gear up, we’ve got a great ep for you! “Just like you don’t talk about your sex life in bed, don’t talk about your eating habits at the table.” -Raeann Langas What We Talk About: Kristina has been exploring markets near her new neighborhood … But where’s best? Rae catches us up on Vegas and Paris The struggle of reading signs - it’s just not that easy Rae’s *almost* regret on the eye surgery Kristina’s fulling stepping into her interior design era Answering the question, “How to accept your partner's eating habits and let them make their own food choices?” That time Steve tried to warn Kristina about the quesadilla Answering the question, “Is there any room for input and commentary around food in a relationship?” Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Thanks to Our Sponsors! Nutrafol: Take the first step to visibly thicker, healthier hair. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code TCC. Dose: Invest in your health, and give Dose a try! Dose is offering our listeners 15% off your first order, plus an additional 15% off if you subscribe for a monthly delivery! That’s 30% off your first order! Go to dosedaily.co/TCC and use code TCC. BetterHelp: Find more balance, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/confidentcollective or use code "confidentcollective" at checkout and save 10% off your first month.
55:2407/11/2023