Filmmaker and writer Miranda July, whose novel All Fours is on many best books of the year lists, and was described in the New York Times as "the year's literary conversation piece." July spoke with Terry Gross about issues in the novel, like separating from a spouse you're growing distant from, perimenopause, and having an affair. And jazz historian Kevin Whitehead reviews a newly released recording of a concert he attended in 1978, by pianist Sun Ra and his Arkestra.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
In this episode, Anna Kai explores the complexities of love and infidelity, using the Ashley Madison documentary and Laci Peterson case as reference points. She argues against dating someone who has cheated while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal fulfillment. Anna discusses love bombing and emotional manipulation, particularly in relationships transitioning from long-distance to being together. Through sharing insights on coping with heartbreak, personal empowerment, and navigating the challenges of relationships, she encourages listeners to move positively forward and pursue their dreams, regardless of past setbacks.
Understanding the reasons behind infidelity is essential. Often, cheating stems from unfulfilled personal needs rather than dissatisfaction with a partner.
Self-awareness is a crucial element in establishing healthy relationships. Individuals must know their desires before engaging with others to prevent harm to both themselves and their partners.
Filmmaker and writer Miranda July, whose novel All Fours is on many best books of the year lists, and was described in the New York Times as "the year's literary conversation piece." July spoke with Terry Gross about issues in the novel, like separating from a spouse you're growing distant from, perimenopause, and having an affair. And jazz historian Kevin Whitehead reviews a newly released recording of a concert he attended in 1978, by pianist Sun Ra and his Arkestra.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
In this episode, Anna Kai explores the complexities of love and infidelity, using the Ashley Madison documentary and Laci Peterson case as reference points. She argues against dating someone who has cheated while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal fulfillment. Anna discusses love bombing and emotional manipulation, particularly in relationships transitioning from long-distance to being together. Through sharing insights on coping with heartbreak, personal empowerment, and navigating the challenges of relationships, she encourages listeners to move positively forward and pursue their dreams, regardless of past setbacks.
Understanding the reasons behind infidelity is essential. Often, cheating stems from unfulfilled personal needs rather than dissatisfaction with a partner.
Self-awareness is a crucial element in establishing healthy relationships. Individuals must know their desires before engaging with others to prevent harm to both themselves and their partners.
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