Now that I'm in my mid to late 20s, I have been stressing a little bit about my "timeline." What my next moves are—if I'm going to have kids, if I'm going to get married, if I'm going to buy a house—the list goes on. The best way that I cope with these stressors is by talking through them with all of you. Today I'm throwing it back to a TNTC community favorite! Last year, I did an episode about navigating your 20s, and so many of you told me that you found it helpful. In today's episode, I talk about what it's really like to be in your 20s and how to navigate the not-so-perfect parts of it. This episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods To get 15% off your next gift: https://www.uncommongoods.com/podcast/tntc This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc  Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes when we get upset, we don't know entirely why because what we're upset over seems so insignificant. But a lot of the time, the reason we're upset is because things that we've struggled with in the past resurface. In today's episode, I talk about why I think it's important to understand why things trigger you the way they do. I talk about my experience with being bullied over how I smell, growing up with parents who fought, being told I eat too much, anxiety over being late, friends mistreating me, and managing others emotions.  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month This episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift: https://www.uncommongoods.com/podcast/tntc ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another advice session! In today's episode I answer some of your questions. This episode covers:  - How to handle mood swings - Figuring out if someone likes you back - How to get over a crush - How to stop being codependent - How to face failures - Comparing yourself to older adults - How to deal with social anxiety when hanging out with new people - Whether you should send that long paragraph to someone  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form or reply to the Q&A under this episode on Spotify. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For the girls who want to form habits and feel good but don't want to commit to 75 hard or 75 soft. After finishing 75 hard, I fell off a little bit with my routine, and I decided I wanted to get back into it. I miss working towards something and feeling as good as I did doing 75 hard. I don't want to commit to another 75 days, and I don't believe that challenge aligns well with my current lifestyle. With that being said, I have decided to start my own self-improvement challenge that will run for 30 days. Listen now to learn more! This episode is sponsored by Green Chef Get 60% off plus free shipping at Green Chef with code 60tntc  ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this episode if you find yourself basing your value on what others think. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with past relationships and how I allowed how they treated me to determine my worth. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's no secret that I love fall. I love fall fashion, fall activities, seasonal food, pumpkin spice coffee and even the weather. But once Halloween passes and the temperature drops below 60, I find myself being affected by seasonal depression. During the fall and winter, I struggle a lot mentally. I have an extremely hard time getting out of bed, staying motivated, socializing...and my energy is at an all-time low.  In today's episode, I explain what seasonal depression is, my experience with it, how to improve your mental health during the fall and winter as well as some products to buy that can help combat seasonal depression. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC products mentioned in this episode: https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-b74cda50/list/WJX7FHF9OC9X?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-b74cda50_PQC55KSYNSZ5V4168DR3 ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For the majority of my life, I was under the impression that I got my period and that was it. I had no idea about the four phases of the menstrual cycle and how those phases affect our body. Recently I've been learning more about the menstrual cycle as well as cycle syncing and I wanted to share what I've learned so far with you! I also share my experience with birth control, my thoughts on periods and my period care essentials. Products mentioned: Stardust period tracker app period care essentials link PMS stick This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month   ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As much as I love hot girl fall, I want to be hot every single season. In today's episode, I talk about 5 things that I believe not only make someone attractive but also magnetize others to them. In this episode I cover: - Confidence - Being present - Not being open with everyone - Sticking to your word - Taking care of yourself  Try the Peloton App today for free for 30 days: https://www.onepeloton.com/home-trial New paid memberships only, starting at $12.99/mo after trial, unless canceled. Terms apply. ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

GET TO KNOW ME! I love to share my thoughts and advice with you on this podcast but very rarely do I share much information about myself. In today's episode, I'm answering 26 questions about me, so you and I can get to know me better.    Ava's episode that inspired today's ep: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tgxac7JAw68eFH4hertPF?si=DLvZ3K87RnqTcGnVTzDaJQ If you want to ask yourself or the people in your life these questions: https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2016/04/26-question-to-help-you-know-yourself-better This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode, I talk about my experience with comparing my time in the podcast space to others. As I've compared my journey to others, I've noticed that the only time I find myself doubting my abilities is when I'm putting them up against others. In this episode, I talk about comparison and its negative effects on you, Bevy Smith's "Take a Note, Give a Note" and how the only real competition you have is yourself. Watch How to Discover Your Authentic Self -- at Any Age | Bevy Smith | TED This episode is sponsored by Liquid IV - Get 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re worried about what others think, listen to this episode.  After seeing a video of two women (who run a podcast) making fun of aspiring creators for posting online, I decided it was time for me to talk about the topic myself. I started this podcast with nothing. I just quit my job, I didn’t have a huge online presence, and I had no idea how or if Trying Not to Care would work. I looked at other podcasters who already had a huge following and loyal listeners. In doing that, I almost allowed the comparison of my show to theirs, to stop me from pursuing my spot in the podcast community.  In today’s episode, I talk about not allowing what others are doing/thinking to steer you away from doing what you want, why it’s not embarrassing to put yourself out there and how to fake it until you make it. Everyone is a "faux-fluencer" before they become an influencer. You have to start somewhere.  This episode is sponsored by Proactiv To get 20% off your first order go to Proactiv.com and use code TNTC  This episode is sponsored by Petoton Ready to give it a go? Take the Peloton Tread home for 30 days worry-free. https://www.onepeloton.com/home-trial ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Here's a glimpse into my morning and night routine! Social media is filled with so many aesthetically pleasing morning and night routines which are fun to watch, but they're not always realistic. Not everyone has time to have a dedicated routine! But in today's episode I share how you can build a routine that is beneficial and works for you. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We've all heard of "pick me" girls or girls who refer to themselves as not like "the other girls." After watching a video of a girl talk about her disinterest in Taylor Swift, I started thinking about why some women try so hard to separate themselves from others. In today's episode I talk about why some girls refuse to share similar interests and opinions as other girls and why I personally love being like "other girls." ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Recently I’ve noticed that I’ve been falling back into not so great habits of mine and honestly I’ve been struggling a little. When this happens, I know that the only way to get through it is to work through it. In today’s episode I talk about some things that I’ve done and am currently doing that make my life more enjoyable. By making an effort to do these things, I am much less frustrated, am more positive, more motivated, more grateful and more present. Let me know some of you favorite things to do that help you when you’re feeling down and need to feel better! This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Get 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout. ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I’ve been a little behind on advice sessions and wanted to get one out there for my besties who are lacking motivation or inspiration.  In today's episode, I answer your questions about  Lowering your screen time  Staying consistent  Being afraid of failure  Changing career paths  Change  Spending time alone  Motivation to workout  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lately I've been reflecting on past experiences of mine where someone has hurt me. There's been plenty of times where I've fought fire with fire and tried to get even, but it never got me far. We've all heard the saying, hurt people hurt people but what if instead of hurting others back, we grow and heal instead? In today's episode I talk about breaking the cycle and getting better instead of bitter. I talk about why people hurt people, being the bigger person, letting your ego get in the way and turning negative experiences into positive ones. ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Positive self talk is so important but it can only do so much when you don't believe the words you're saying. In today's episode I talk about why your affirmations aren't working and things you need to stop saying to yourself. The words you speak become the house you live in.   Listen to Leo's episode here! ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In my early twenties, I felt extremely lost and confused. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I felt like everyone had it figured out while I wasted away. Now at 26, I can confidently and proudly say I know what my purpose is. In this episode I talk about how to find your purpose and why you may be struggling with finding it. I go over ways to discover it as well as reasons why you're delaying it. This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's very easy to beat yourself up/judge yourself for things that have happened in your past. As someone who has difficulty letting go of past mistakes, this episode is a gentle reminder to me and you to not hold the past over your head. It's not fair to blame yourself for things that have happened to you or things that you've done. Instead of shaming yourself by saying "I should have known better" congratulate your growth and say "now I know better."   This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

With the Fourth of July and summer events, drinking may be a hot topic of discussion within you and your friend group. I wanted to put out an episode where I talk about the pressure of drinking alcohol and why you shouldn't drink if you don't want to. In this episode I talk about alcohol being so normalized, being pressured into drinking as well as hangxiety and tips to avoid/manage it.  Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code TNTC at lumedeodorant.com/TNTC! #lumepod Get 20% off anything you order when you go to https://www.liquid-iv.com and use code TNTC at checkout. ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode I talk about 5 things that I think make someone unattractive. We all can see when someone is physically attractive but I truly believe someone's behavior and how they treat others also influence this. I go over talking negatively about others, being insecure, being negative/complaining, competition and following trends. Through talking about how these 5 things make someone unattractive, I hope that it encourages listeners to want to better themselves.  This episode is sponsored by Dipsea To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by Julie You can go to JULIECARE.CO to learn more or find Julie at your nearest CVS, Target, or Walmart today ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Forget about hot girl summer, it's healed girl summer. This summer we're putting ourselves first, embracing who we are, leaving bad company and FOMO behind, and doing what we want. In this episode I talk about - putting yourself first - listening to your body - embracing your body, hair and skin - spending time with good company - letting go of FOMO - doing things alone - less imaging and more doing This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The feel good episode of your dreams. Today I talk about the little things in life that I love so much. I think gratitude is so important and I want this episode to remind you to find joy in the little things. Ava’s episode that inspired today’s ep!! https://open.spotify.com/episode/1qr21lSPTbFJJ4pf0KYaHn?si=5-KOJVdoR0aopbQt8-ZJxQ This episode is sponsored by Dipsea - To get 30 days of full access for free go to dipseastories.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ADVICE ON BEING IN YOURS 20S In today's episode, I answer your questions on how to navigate your 20s. This episode covers: - Feeling like you're behind in your 20s. Not being "on track" because you aren't doing conventional things like getting married, buying a house and having kids. - Finding the courage to move out and live alone for the first time. - How to manage personal finances and save money. - Becoming comfortable in your own skin as your body changes. - Finding a good balance between your alone time and spending time with friends. If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf LINK TO MERCH: https://tryingnottocare.com/password MERCH IS AVAILABLE 06/01 BUT ADD YOUR EMAIL FOR A CHANCE TO WIN A FREE HOODIE!!!! This episode is sponsored by Julie - You can go to JULIECARE.CO to learn more or find Julie at your nearest CVS, Target, or Walmart today. This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode I talk about setting boundaries and sticking to them (despite others being unhappy about it.) We often get push back when we set boundaries, especially in friendships and relationships, which is why it's important to be clear with your expectations and stand your ground. I talk about my experience in past relationships, learning that it's okay for others to not understand how you feel, walking away when a boundary has been crossed, the difference between boundaries and walls and figuring out what's important to you and your values. LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK! ♡ This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTC MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Lifeline Chat and Text SAMHSA’s National Helpline ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to take control of your life when you're feeling stuck and unsatisfied. I give you a list of things that I believe get in the way of living your best life: 1. Adjusting your screentime + what you're consuming during that screentime 2. Working a job that you hate 3. Staying in your comfort zone 4. Engaging with people and things that don't serve you 5. Letting others tell you who you are 6. Neglecting your needs LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK! ♡ This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Lifeline Chat and Text SAMHSA’s National Helpline ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this if you're in a slump. In today's episode I talk about navigating life through the highs and lows, realistic ways to get out of a funk and finding balance between work and rest. This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Lifeline Chat and Text SAMHSA’s National Helpline ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this if you’re struggling with your mental health. To kick off Mental Health Awareness Month, we are talking about 6 things that can improve your mental health.  This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Lifeline Chat and Text SAMHSA’s National Helpline ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I have been struggling hard with Coachella FOMO which got me thinking about the fear of missing out and why it happens. In today's episode I talk about FOMO, what it feels/looks like, the reasoning behind why it happens and how we can avoid it by turning it into the joy of missing out.  This episode is sponsored by Blissy - Get better sleep now with Blissy and use TNTC to get an additional 30% off at blissy.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this episode if you are someone who overshares a lot. I talk about the reasons behind why we overshare, why we feel regretful and embarrassed for sharing too much and why oversharing isn't a bad thing. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE This episode is sponsored by Tinder - On Tinder, it starts with a Swipe. Download Tinder today and explore all of the possibilities for yourself. https://apps.apple.com/us/app/tinder-dating-new-people/id547702041 Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to my birthday therapy session! In today's episode I talk about why I struggle so much with my birthday. I cover why birthdays are hard, having high expectations, feeling lonely, anxiety about aging and my new mindset about my birthday.  This episode is sponsored by Headspace: Try Headspace FREE for 30 days CODE: TNTC30DAY Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ADVICE ON ALL THINGS RELATIONSHIP AND SITUATIONSHIP RELATED This episode covers: - How to move on from an ex - Regretting past decisions and hookups - Do guys settle when they're ready or in love? - Do you like him or are you bored? - Boredom in long term relationships -  Growing as an individual in a relationship - First loves This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month  Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode I talk about overthinking, why we do, why we shouldn't and how we can stop.  This episode is sponsored by Headspace: Try Headspace FREE for 30 days This episode is sponsored by Dipsea: 30 day free trial Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this if you've ever been told you're too sensitive or too emotional. This one is for my besties who feel too much/feel as if they are too much. In today's episode I talk about the heaviness that comes with being an emotional person, my struggles with having deep emotions and why being "too emotional" isn't a bad thing.  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try: get 10% off your first month  Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're struggling with letting go of the past, having difficulty seeing the light at the end of the tunnel or are outgrowing the people and space around you - listen to this episode. I talk about how the people and environment we grew up in impacts how we live our life now. This episode covers my personal struggles with high school, what I learned over the years and my decision to move back to my hometown. This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

ADVICE ON ALL THINGS HOT GIRL RELATED This episode covers: - How to emotionally support yourself - Ways to manage anxiety - Forgiving yourself - Self confidence - Struggles with body image - Embracing your skin/dark circles/acne - Daily routines - Self love and self care - Self improvement favorites  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form This episode is sponsored by Headspace - 30 DAYS FREE Listen to Crimeaholics Links to listen Follow Crimeaholics on Instagram Follow Crimeaholics on TikTok ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Listen to this episode if you find yourself stuck in the same routine and are questioning why nothing in your life is evolving. In this episode I talk about what's holding you back, creating new habits, visualizing and showing up as your higher self, leaving your comfort zone, and how to align yourself with your goals.  Follow along on my socials: INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form SPONSORS: This episode is sponsored by Dipsea - For your 30 day free trial, go to Dipseastories.com/TNTC This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you just got your heartbroken or you're having a hard time getting over someone, listen to this episode. In today's episode I talk about: - Feeling broken after a breakup - Having love for someone who no longer deserves it - Letting go of people who aren't good for you - How to move on - Focusing on the bigger picture after a breakup This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month and get on your way to being your best self. If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form MY SOCIALS!! INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

With February being the month of love, this episode is a reminder to show yourself love before giving it away to someone else. We're all so quick to pour our time and energy into others and make sure they feel loved, while neglecting the person who deserves it the most.....ourselves!! In today's episode I talk about: - Damage from past relationships - Letting others determine our self worth - Looking for things we need in others - Raising your self worth - Using love languages to love yourself - Ways to fall in love with you If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form MY SOCIALS!! INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

THE FIRST ADVICE SESSION FOR TRYING NOT TO CARE!!!  The last episode of every month will be an advice/Q&A where I answer your questions and give you my opinion/advice on topics you want to hear about. The first topic I will be answering questions about is all things friendship.    This episode covers: - Toxic friendships  - Betrayal  - Boundaries  - Being left out  - Outgrowing friends  - Letting go of friendships  - How to make new friends  If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode topic ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form This episode is sponsored by Dipsea - Get a 30 day free trial ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

YOU ARE SO LUCKY!!!! In today's episode we talk all about lucky girl syndrome and fixing your mindset. We go into what lucky girl syndrome is, how to use it and how to change your life with it. - Believing in yourself - Law of assumption and manifestation - How to use lucky girl syndrome to your advantage - Attracting what you want - Your mindset impacts your day - Lucky girl syndrome affirmations for 2023 goals MY SOCIALS!! INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc - Go to Zocdoc.com/TRYINGNOT and download the Zocdoc app for FREESee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode I talk about how to get out of your flop era. I give you a list of tips and tricks on how I overcome a funk and how I make myself feel better. Make sure to check out my Instagram and TikTok to enter my giveaway. I will be posting about it this week! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp - Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month and get on your way to being your best self.” This podcast is sponsored by Apostrophe - Get your first visit for only five dollars at www.apostrophe.com/TNTC when you use our code TNTC INSTAGRAM: my main account + podcast IG TIKTOK: lilbabyaries + podcast tiktok YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're back besties! The first episode of 2023!!! With this being the first episode of 2023, I figured it was only right to go back to our roots and talk about not caring. In this episode, I talk about: - why do we care what people think? - why caring what others think is harmful  + why you should stop  - how to stop caring This podcast is sponsored by Apostrophe - Get your first visit for only five dollars at www.apostrophe.com/TNTC when you use our code TNTC ♡MY SOCIALS♡ Instagram: personal, podcast TikTok: personal, podcast Youtube Revolve, Amazon Storefront + more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf If you want to ask me questions, need advice or have any episode ideas, submit here: TNTC Community Google Form Business Inquiries: [email protected] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

hi besties! I hope the holidays are treating you well. Before we begin the new year, let's dive into what needs to stay and what needs to go for 2023. What will you be leaving behind in 2022 to make 2023 the best year yet? Where do you see yourself a year from now? Let's talk about it ♡    my socials: INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 Today's episode is sponsored by Apostrophe - Your first visit is only $5 with code TNTC...go to https://www.apostrophe.com/pod/TNTC/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

With the year coming to a close, I've been reflecting on my accomplishments while also reflecting on what I haven't accomplished. While looking back on this year, I realized how often I fixate on "the bad" and disregard the good. In today's episode I talk about being hard on yourself, celebrating others but not yourself, comparison, depending on others and letting yourself down. Let me know your thoughts!! This podcast is sponsored by Care/of -  For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to takecareof.com and enter code tryingnot50 Let's be besties! My socials:  INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast  YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

it's the most wonderful time of the year......but is it really? today's episode I talk about everything not so holly and jolly during the holiday season. I talk about feeling lonely, family problems/pressures, food struggles, mental health and the pressure of gift giving.      This podcast is sponsored by HelloFresh - Go to hellofresh.com/tryingnot18 and use code tryingnot18 for 18 free meals plus free shipping! This podcast is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://www.uncommongoods.com/TNTC let's be besties! my socials:  INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast  YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

hi besties! today I wanted to talk and reflect on feeling like you're too hard to digest/like you have to work harder than others to be liked. I also touch on reflecting on whether or not you're the reason why relationships in your life fall apart as well as self sabotage. as always, let me know what you think! make sure to dm me your thoughts and questions over on instagram my socials: INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 Today's episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://www.uncommongoods.com/TNTC  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp get 10% off your first month: https://www.betterhelp.com/TNTC See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

hello!!!! today's episode is a super special one. I talk about everything I wish I could tell younger me and give you some big sister advice. I cover high school, competing with other girls, boy problems, breakups, mental health and self love. my socials: INSTAGRAM: @ashleycorbo + @tryingnot2carepodcast TIKTOK: @lilbabyaries + @tryingnottocarepodcast YOUTUBE: ashleycorbo444 Today's episode is sponsored by Apostrophe - Your first visit is only $5 with code TNTC...go to https://www.apostrophe.com/pod/TNTC/ Today's episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods - To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://www.uncommongoods.com/TNTC See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.