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Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman
The podcast that answers the question, "how do I break free from the Nice Guy Syndrome, so that I never come in last again?" - with hosts Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff, and Chuck Chapman
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Episode 26 - Taking Women Off The Pedestal - The Real Truth Abut Female Worship

Episode 26 - Taking Women Off The Pedestal - The Real Truth Abut Female Worship

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of Nice Guys and the transformative process of taking women off the pedestal, shedding light on how this shift in perspective can lead to more balanced and authentic relationships.
32:2704/12/2023
Episode 25 - Does Therapy Fail Nice Guys?

Episode 25 - Does Therapy Fail Nice Guys?

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a candid conversation about their own journey with therapy, delving into both the advantages and potential challenges that arise along the path to personal growth and self-discoveryLearn more at NiceGuyShow.com
38:4029/11/2023
Episode 24 - The Unattractive Truth About Men With Mommy Issues

Episode 24 - The Unattractive Truth About Men With Mommy Issues

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the intricate connection between the Nice Guy, their relationships with their mothers, and how this pops up in dating and relationships in some unattractive ways .Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
38:2222/11/2023
Episode 23 - The Truth About Nice Guys And Their Daddy Issues

Episode 23 - The Truth About Nice Guys And Their Daddy Issues

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a deep discussion about the Nice Guy's relationship with their fathers; exploring how early experiences can impact their approach to relationships and personal development.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
37:2415/11/2023
Episode 22 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part Two

Episode 22 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part Two

Join Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they dive into part two of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
45:0808/11/2023
Episode 21 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part One

Episode 21 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part One

Join Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they kick off part one of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
39:1101/11/2023
Episode 20 - Why Nice Guys Are Addicted To Comfort

Episode 20 - Why Nice Guys Are Addicted To Comfort

Chuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect the Nice Guy's yearning for comfort and a trouble-free life, shedding light on how this desire can hinder men's personal growth and fulfillment in relationships.Learn More at NiceGuyShow.com
30:1025/10/2023
Episode 19 - Kill The Nice Guy Neediness

Episode 19 - Kill The Nice Guy Neediness

Chuck and Ari delve into the topic of Nice Guy neediness and share effective strategies to overcome it, helping men break free from this common relationship challenge.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
34:0318/10/2023
Episode 18 -The Three Wise Nice Guys

Episode 18 -The Three Wise Nice Guys

Join us as Chuck and Faisal extend a warm Recovering Nice Guy welcome to official Co-Host and Psychologist Ari Graff to the Nice Guy Show. In this episode, they dive into their backgrounds and much more, setting the stage for insightful discussions to come.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
29:4403/10/2023
Episode 17- No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part 2

Episode 17- No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part 2

Join Chuck and Faisal as they rejoin guest Ari Graff for part two of their podcast on Nice Dads, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
36:4328/09/2023
Episode 16 - No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part One

Episode 16 - No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part One

Join Chuck and Faisal as they welcome guest Ari Graff to their podcast, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
30:5919/09/2023
Episode 15 - How To Deal With A Difficult Ex When You Have Kids Together

Episode 15 - How To Deal With A Difficult Ex When You Have Kids Together

Chuck and Faisal explore the challenging terrain of managing relationships with your ex-partner when you share children.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
36:1006/09/2023
Episode 14 - She's Put On Weight. I'm No Longer Attracted To Her. What Do I Do?

Episode 14 - She's Put On Weight. I'm No Longer Attracted To Her. What Do I Do?

Chuck and Faisal fearlessly tackle the complex issue of shifting attraction when a partner gains weight and how to handle it.Learn more about the Nice Guy Show at NiceGuyShow.com
25:5430/08/2023
Episode 13 - Two Words To Make You Love Fitness

Episode 13 - Two Words To Make You Love Fitness

Join Chuck and Faisal as they reveal the two powerful words that can ignite a nice guy's love (need!) for fitness. Through insightful discussions and personal experiences, they'll delve into the core of motivation and inspiration, guiding listeners toward a newfound passion for embracing a healthy lifestyle.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
28:2403/08/2023
Episode 12 - Boost Your Libido Now: 4 Proven Strategies Every Nice Guy Needs

Episode 12 - Boost Your Libido Now: 4 Proven Strategies Every Nice Guy Needs

Join hosts Chuck and Faisal as they delve deep into the topic of libido and uncover the four proven strategies every nice guy needs to bring their best and enhance their intimate relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
38:0124/07/2023
Episode 11 - 10 Ways To Fix The Dead Bedroom

Episode 11 - 10 Ways To Fix The Dead Bedroom

Join hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they each share their top fie ways to avoid the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
53:3317/07/2023
Episode 10 - 5 Things Nice Guys Can Do To Get More Money And Sex

Episode 10 - 5 Things Nice Guys Can Do To Get More Money And Sex

Unravel the mysteries of money, sex, and personal energy in the enlightening journey with Faisal and Chuck.Through their raw and riveting exploration, they reveal surprising connections between money and women, viewing both as energy forms.This podcast shares lessons from their upbringing and personal experiences, with unique perspectives on money and sex, culminating in five transformative ways to enhance your attractiveness to both.The duo's candid chat is a mix of intriguing insights, humor, and relatable narratives - one that will leave you enlightened, inspired, and entertained.Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion that masterfully combines personal growth with societal taboos.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
40:5411/07/2023
Episode 9 - Woman Are Not Always Innocent. Why They Cheat On Good Men.

Episode 9 - Woman Are Not Always Innocent. Why They Cheat On Good Men.

Join hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they tackle the often overlooked topic of women who cheat and discuss the telltale signs to watch for in relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
28:0021/06/2023
Episode 8 - Why Nice Guys Can't Help Cheating

Episode 8 - Why Nice Guys Can't Help Cheating

Chuck and Faisal explore the underlying psychological and emotional factors of the Nice Guy Syndrome, discussing the patterns of behavior and mindset that can lead to dissatisfaction and frustration in relationships and result in men cheating.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
31:3614/06/2023
Episode 7 - Monogamous Or Open Relationships?

Episode 7 - Monogamous Or Open Relationships?

Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar dive deep into the age-old debate of open relationships versus monogamous relationships. In this captivating episode, Chuck and Faisal bring their unique perspectives and expertise to the forefront as they explore the pros and cons of both relationship styles.
27:1505/06/2023
Episode 6 - Avoid The Death Penalty - 4 Signs To Look For Before Entering A Relationship

Episode 6 - Avoid The Death Penalty - 4 Signs To Look For Before Entering A Relationship

Faisal and Chuck discuss the "4 Signs When To Enter A Relationship & Avoid The Death Penalty," they delve into the factors the nice-guys make when entering a relationship. Faisal kicks off the discussion by sharing his personal experiences, highlighting the pitfalls of impulsive relationships and hasty decision-making. He reflects on the journey of meeting a girl, having a great time together, moving in, and ultimately becoming parents, emphasizing the importance of taking a more measured approach.Chuck chimes in, pointing out a common issue many people face in relationships—seeking external validation. He emphasizes the significance of finding internal validation and self-assurance before entering a partnership.The episode centers around four essential signs that indicate a healthy foundation for a relationship while avoiding potential pitfalls. Faisal and Chuck elaborate on each sign:1) TIME: They emphasize the importance of allowing enough time to pass before committing to a serious relationship. By ensuring that the initial infatuation stage has subsided, both individuals can make more rational decisions based on genuine compatibility.2) DUE DILIGENCE: Faisal and Chuck stress the need to vet potential partners thoroughly. They discuss the significance of progressing through relationship stages, such as establishing clear boundaries and understanding each other's intentions.3) CONFLICT RESOLUTION: The hosts highlight the importance of being unafraid to address conflicts and take responsibility for their part. They emphasize the value of actively working to resolve issues rather than letting them fester, promoting open communication and growth within the relationship.4) GROWTH: Faisal and Chuck emphasize that both individuals in a relationship should have the desire to work on themselves and see personal growth as an ongoing process. They encourage being open to feedback from each other and being willing to consider professional help when necessary.Faisal urges listeners to take their time and seek expert help before investing their time and emotions in a relationship. By considering these four signs, individuals can navigate the complexities of relationships with a more informed and thoughtful approach, ultimately avoiding the "death penalty" of unhealthy partnerships.Resources are also provided, encouraging listeners to explore additional guidance and support in their journey toward fulfilling relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
31:0623/05/2023
Episode 5 - Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Episode 5 - Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

In this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle one of the toughest decisions individuals face: whether to stay or go in a difficult relationship. 
40:2316/05/2023
Episode 4 - Why Do Nice-Guys Rescue Broken Women? And How To Stop

Episode 4 - Why Do Nice-Guys Rescue Broken Women? And How To Stop

Welcome to Episode 4 of our series on the Nice-Guy Syndrome! In this video, Faisal and Chuck delve into the question of why nice-guys tend to be attracted to broken women and what can be done to overcome this pattern.They discuss the five reasons why this might be the case, including a sense of familiarity with emotional support, replicating the dynamic with their own mother, seeking validation, struggling with low self-esteem, and a savior complex.Furthermore, they highlight the role of control in this dynamic, and how it can give nice-guys a sense of security and power.Join us in this insightful discussion, and learn how to break free from the Nice-Guy Syndrome by avoiding the trap of rescuing broken women.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
35:5609/05/2023
Episode 3 - Things Nice Guys Hide To Get Sex and Love

Episode 3 - Things Nice Guys Hide To Get Sex and Love

On this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into covert contracts and the things that nice guys hide to get sex and love. 
21:5302/05/2023
Episode 2 - Five Reasons Nice Guys Settle for Bad Sex - or NO SEX!

Episode 2 - Five Reasons Nice Guys Settle for Bad Sex - or NO SEX!

On the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into a topic that many men can relate to: why nice guys settle for bad sex or even no sex.  
43:5225/04/2023
Episode 1 - Welcome To The Nice Guy Show: What is a Nice Guy?

Episode 1 - Welcome To The Nice Guy Show: What is a Nice Guy?

Welcome to the Nice Guy Show, where hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle the tough issues that face men today in relationships, sex, and life. With a focus on empowerment and self-improvement, the Nice Guy Show explores the challenges and rewards of being a man who knows what he wants and goes after it, and why being a Nice Guy is keeping that from happening.Join Chuck and Faisal as they share their personal experiences and insights, drawing on their combined expertise in psychology, counseling, coaching, and relationship advice. From navigating the complexities of modern relationships to building a fulfilling career and personal life, the Nice Guy Show provides practical advice and inspiring stories that will help men take control of their lives and relationships.Whether you're a single guy looking to improve your dating game, a married man seeking to strengthen your connection with your partner, or simply someone who wants to live life to the fullest, the Nice Guy Show is the podcast for you. Tune in for candid conversations, expert guests, and valuable insights to help you become your best.
32:2320/04/2023