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The Mark Groves Podcast is for heart-led humans eager to expand perspectives, explore HARD truths, and break old patterns while cultivating deeper, more honest connections with self, our relationships, community, and the world. Tune in twice a week for powerful guest interviews and solo episodes that deliver real talk, fresh insights, and practical tools to transform (y)our relationships — because relationships are how we truly connect — and supercharge (y)our personal growth.
#176: The War on Nature with Dr. Nathan Riley
Themes: Quantum Philosophy, Medicine, Health Freedom, Harmony, Biology, Nature, Culture, Anthroposophy
Summary:
Our inherent connection to the natural world is in a state of disharmony and Dr. Nathan Riley, who refers to himself as a recovering OB/GYN, joins us in this episode to talk about his experiences practicing within the constructs of the Western medical model, why he left, and how he pushes back against the template approach to human health + standardized medical intervention. Dr. Riley treats the whole being in order to facilitate an elevated, expansive, and embodied life (and a good death).
Discover:
The problem with the Western medical model's one-size-fits-all, template approach.
Birthing practices, medical convenience, and coercion in “corporate” medicine.
Death, rebirth, and ancient wisdom.
Embracing the beauty of our natural death experience.
Re-harmonizing with + reconnecting to the natural world.
Links
IG: @nathanrileyobgyn
Tiktok: @nathanrileyobgyn
Website: www.BelovedHolistics.com
End of episode reference: Dr. Stan Grof
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01:45:4601/11/2021
#175: The Complexities of Being Alive with Rainier Wylde
Themes: Self-Discovery, Societal Expectations, Individuality, Accountability, Repression
Experienced teacher, writer, and speaker, Rainier Wylde takes us on a journey of the human experience and his struggles with finding his true self. Rainier also shares how society conditions us to wear a cloak of dishonesty, and how we can dissolve the daily illusion we live and learn to be our true selves.
Discover:
Deeper understanding of the human experience.
You have to be a SELF in order to be in relationships with others.
What fuels us to repress individuality.
What comes next when the mask comes off and it’s time to face your true self.
The basement of shadows and how it helps to dismantle your reality to find yourself.
Links
IG: @rainierwylde
Website: https://www.rainierwylde.com/
The Rope, an 8-week transformational experience of discovering self, building mastery, and encountering profound connection. A community of brothers becoming strong individuals in relationship to others, a leveling up, and a sense of freedom. Current Rope experience is May 4 - June 22.
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01:03:4426/10/2021
#174: Good Death - Solo Episode
Themes: Death, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Learning to Let Go, Self-Reflection, Relational Endings
Death. Learning to let go. It’s easier said than done. You didn’t fight hard enough for this relationship.
These are words and phrases that haunt us when we shift towards a new phase of our lives, whether it’s professionally, romantically or both.
When we find ourselves at the end of a relationship we often feel that we need to fight so we can preserve the relationship. We feel that we need to give that extra push to preserve the love that once was. But what if...the best way to fight for the relationship is to let it go? What if...the best way to honour each other is to honour yourselves first?
When we find ourselves at these crossroads where do we go? What do we need to do to move on and grow?
Discover:
How we mistake letting go with giving up.
Letting go of people, behaviours, patterns that are not in alignment is a superpower.
Relationships are a potent invitation to your expansion and growth.
We’re not honouring our worth when we don’t show up.
Love is meant to teach us, to prepare us for connection that is within our highest alignment.
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34:5721/10/2021
#173: Reclaiming Your Inner Fire with Anahata Ananda
Themes: Breathwork, Shamanic Healing, Transformation, Spiritual Awakening
Anahata Ananda blends the compassion and tenderness of an Angel and the wisdom and strength of a Shaman to guide profound journeys of core healing and spiritual awakening. As a Certified High-Performance Coach, Shamanic Healer and Soul Guide, Anahata has guided thousands of individuals through core life shifts, helping them to turn their life around and manifest the life of their dreams.
Anahata is the founder of Shamangelic Healing, based in Sedona, AZ, where she offers life coaching, virtual workshops, group retreats, private healing sessions and online courses. She is also the host of the internationally acclaimed Shamangelic Healing Podcast.
Discover:
Anahata’s passion for guiding people through their transformational journey of reclamation and relighting their fire.
Opening up our subconscious where we can see ourselves in our fuller potential through the Shamangelic healing.
Accessing our natural state of joy and fully expressing ourselves as compassionate humans.
Free gift for our audience from Anahata:
Free Guided Visualization for Balancing the Feminine & Masculine Within + 15% off Anahata's online Balancing the Feminine & Masculine Within course: https://shamangelic.pages.ontraport.net/FreeGift_MarkGroves
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Resources:
Website: ShamangelicHealing.com
Instagram: @AnahataAnanda
Facebook: facebook.com/ShamangelicHealing
YouTube: youtube.com/ShamangelicHealing
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01:08:2218/10/2021
#172: Facing the Chaos with Jennifer Jimeno
Themes: Relationships, Self Discovery, Accountability, Self-Care & Social Conditioning
Jennifer is a hairstylist, writer, podcaster, and mother who shares her courageous and transformative journey of self-discovery and accountability. Jennifer also shares the importance of running towards the chaos instead of running away from it, and the value of putting in the work.
Discover:
Jennifer’s personal journey learning to face challenges head-on.
Normalizing life’s beautiful struggles.
Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Links:
Instagram: @hightide_mama
Jennifer’s Podcast: High Tide - a podcast about brave individuals navigating life's waves and going beyond their comfort zones.
Experience the Rediscover Your Wholeness course that transformed Jennifer's personal growth journey at Create The Love!
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50:0711/10/2021
#171: Discover Your Sparketype with Jonathan Fields
Themes: Career Fulfillment, Finding Purpose, Leadership, Identity, Personality Archetypes
Jonathan Fields is the mastermind behind the Sparketype assessment, which uses 30 million data points to help you discover your unique imprint, so you can become aligned with the work that makes you come alive!
Discover:
Why you feel burned out and uninspired by your career, and how a simple, unexpected shift can bring more meaning and joy back into what you do.
How to reimagine your current work to feel more energized and inspired.
Tapping your Sparketype to ignite a sense of purpose, excitement, and possibility.
Links:
Find Your Sparketype: https://sparketype.com
Website: https://www.jonathanfields.com
Jonathan on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonathanfields
Jonathan’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanfields1
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01:12:5004/10/2021
#170: The State of Things - Solo Episode
Themes: Identity, Othering, Restoring Our Humanity, Finding Your Center
The world is in a state where the divisiveness cuts so deep that human beings are actually wishing death upon one another for not falling in line with a particular point of view. How did we get here?
Discover:
The issue of our resistance to discomfort and intellectual fragility.
Dehumanization in order to justify human rights violations.
The crafty marketing via captured organizations driving “othering” and exclusion.
Links:
IG: @createthelove and @createthelovecards
Website:www.createthelove.com
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32:1927/09/2021
#169: Love Is Transcendent with Moe Ari
Themes: Loving + accepting Transgender family members, Re-learning how to receive love, Radical Authenticity
Moe Ari is a licensed marriage and family therapist + reiki practitioner who brings the confluence of these worlds to his healing practice. Moe specializes in working with the LGBTQIA+ community and all people in pursuit of authenticity + self-awareness.
Discover:
Moe’s personal journey as a member of the Transgender community.
Overcoming adversity in the quest for your authentic self.
The authenticity versus belonging dynamic.
Links:
IG: @loveoutproud
Website:www.loveistranscendent.com
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/loveistranscendent
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01:04:3820/09/2021
#168: Crushing Comparisonitis with Melissa Ambrosini
Themes: Unhealthy Comparison, Social Pressure, Individuality, Identity
Best-selling author, motivational speaker, and empowerment entrepreneur Melissa Ambrosini walks us through overcoming what she’s coined “comparisonitis,” a.k.a. the unhealthy and incessant self-comparison that stems from spending so much of our time in the digital landscape.
Discover:
The signs that you’re suffering from comparisonitis.
Embracing your uniqueness and becoming genuinely happy.
Getting clear on your own core values in order to heal from comparisonitis.
Links:
@melissaambrosini
www.melissaambrosini.com
http://comparisonitis.com/
https://twitter.com/Mel_Ambrosini
https://www.facebook.com/MelissaAmbrosiniTribe
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01:08:2413/09/2021
#167: The Cost of Censorship with Africa Brooke
Themes: Self-Sabotage, Healthy Discomfort, Courage, Curiosity & Cancel Culture
As a collective, we must exit our echo chambers, open our minds, embrace nuance, and return to curiosity & reasoned discourse.
Discover:
Practicing critical thought & becoming okay with the potential of being wrong
Creating an environment where it’s acceptable to experience healthy discomfort
The intrinsic power of curiosity and the value of embracing nuance
Collective self-sabotage and how “cancel culture” has created an environment where discourse is viewed as an affront
In this episode, I sit down with globally recognised mindset coach Africa Brooke to talk censorship, collective self-sabotage, and how the success of humanity relies on the understanding that we must be capable of coexisting, which requires healthy, productive engagement with one another instead of forced homogeneity & conformity of thought.
This is one of the most important podcasts you’ll listen to this year.
Links:
IG: @africabrooke
Website: africabrooke.com
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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01:12:2806/09/2021
#166: The Art + Science of Fulfillment with Robert Mack
Themes: Gratitude, Happiness, Success, Positive Psychology, Authenticity, Mental Health
Positive Psychology expert Robert Mack is one of the world's leading experts on the relationship between happiness and success. In this episode we discuss Robert’s own illuminations on healing from a life-altering event that completely shifted the course of his personal and professional trajectory + we get to the bottom of what blocks us from experiencing true peace, love, and joy in our lives.
Discover:
How to avoid overwhelm with the infinite choices we’re faced with in our daily lives.
Learning to experience ourselves in a state of presence resulting in effortless success.
The transformation that manifests when we become rooted in beingness, planted in presence + grounded in gratitude.
Links:
IG: @robmackofficial
Website: www.coachrobmack.com
Be sure to check out Robert’s new book Happiness from the Inside Out: The Art and Science of Fulfillment which provides a practical approach—born out of both personal experience + science—for living a happier, healthier, and wealthier life.
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59:2903/09/2021
#165: Attachment Theory 101 with Silvy Khoucasian
Themes: Attachment Theory, Attachment Styles, Dating, Relationships
THIS IS IT! The Attachment theory podcast you’ve all been waiting for! Silvy Khoucasian is my personal go-to expert for attachment theory so sit back and let us guide you through all things attachment!
Discover:
Attachment 101- New Course all about Attachment Theory and attachment styles
Silvy’s background and expertise in Attachment Theory
What your attachment style tendencies are and how you can change them to create secure stable relationships
Links:
https://createthelove.com/attachment
https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/
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01:00:2726/08/2021
#164: Just BREATHE with Josh Trent
Themes: Breathwork, Emotional Awareness
Josh Trent is back by popular demand! Josh is the Founder of Wellness Force Media , host of the Wellness Force Podcast and the creator of the BREATHE: Breath & Wellness Program. Josh has spent the past 19 years as a trainer, researcher, and facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world. This episode is for new AND seasoned breathwork practitioners!
Discover:
The role pain plays in shaping our ability to deal with adversity
The power of using breathwork to regulate emotions in everyday life
All about Josh’s program BREATHE, use code 'MARK' for 20% off!!!
Find more of josh at the following links!
www.wellnessforce.com
www.civilizedcaveman.com
www.wellnessforce.com/iTunes
www.youtube.com/wellnessforce
www.facebook.com/wellnessF
www.wellnessforce.com/group
www.twitter.com/wellnessforce
www.instagram.com/wellnessforce
www.linkedin.com/in/joshtrent
www.facebook.com/fitnessSD
www.instagram.com/trent_SD
www.facebook.com/CivilizedCaveman
www.instragram.com/civilizedcaveman
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01:02:4119/08/2021
#163: Quit Your Day Job with Cathy Heller
Themes: Careers, Alignment, Professional development,
Cathy Heller is your number one hype woman! Seriously I get so pumped talking to her. Cathy helps people find out what they truly love in life and then helps them find ways to get paid for it.
Discover:
How to come back home to yourself and find out what you truly would like to do with your life
How to hold your own wants as goals for professional and personal development
What finding alignment with your professional life can do for your interpersonal relationships.
Links:
https://www.cathyheller.com/
https://www.instagram.com/cathy.heller/
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01:03:0713/08/2021
#162: On Loving Yourself: Solo Episode
Themes: Values, Relationship to self, Boundaries, Self-love
Join me on this gentle invitation to think about how you love and relate to your own self. What do you value? What do you hold sacred when venturing outside of yourself to love another? If self-love is ultimately about the choices we make, do you love your choices?
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Discover:
The process of processing grief
Why checking in with yourself is important
Nurturing mental and emotional health
What is self love?
Sitting with yourself and listening, "What this pain asking of you?"
Betrayal of self
How to have reverence for yourself
What does sacredness mean to you?
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19:2208/08/2021
#161: Inside Male Emotions with Bryan Reeves
Themes: Male emotions, Masculine vs feminine communication, Anxious attachment, Breakups
Bryan Reeves is a writer, educator and coach specializing in the male experience within relationships. Bryan is an expert in troubleshooting emotional expression and you're going to want what he has to say!
Discover:
The male emotional experience and how men were traditionally expected to show up in relationships
What men AND women can do to take responsibility for how we communicate with each other
Bryan’s new book “Choose Her Everyday Or Leave Her”
Links:
https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/
https://bryanreeves.com/
https://www.tiktok.com/@bryanreevesinsight?lang=en
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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01:07:2004/08/2021
#160: What Femininity Wants with John Wineland
John Wineland is a speaker and teacher who leads men and women in the practices of embodied masculine leadership, spiritual intimacy and sexual polarity. John’s embodiment-driven teachings draw from over 30 years of experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, as well as 10 years of intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida.
Listen in as John unpacks the roles that masculinity and femininity play in our lives. John is a master teacher who navigates this space like no other. You’re going to want to hear his new paradigm of how masculinity can inform what action needs to take place in order for more freedom and love to be experienced in a relationship. I’ve admired John’s work for years, incorporating many of his teachings into my personal journey. You can find out more about John via the following links.
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Discover:
What is authentic masculine and feminine energy?
How do the masculine and feminine act in nature? (Structure vs. Flow)
The recipe for presence
How to dismantle pain and how it liberates us
The collective grief for men
How we lost permission to access anger
The path for men to reconnect to their feelings
How non-verbal communication can co-regulate the nervous system
What women really need
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/john_wineland/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/johnwineland
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnWineland1/
Webstite: www.JohnWineland.com
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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59:3228/07/2021
#159: How To Not Die Alone - Logan Ury
What does the science say about finding and creating health relationships? This week I dive into the science on dating and love with behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury, who is also the author of the incredible book How To Not Die Alone. Not only is Logan a dating and relationship science ninja, she's also the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. You're not going to want to miss her brilliant and practical insights on how to create the love. #seewhatididthere
Find Logan at www.loganury.com on Instagram.
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Discover:
What makes a great relationship?
Dating blindspots
The "romanticizer", the "maximizer" and the "hesitater"
The Disney and Rom-Com paradox
The happily every after fallacy
The life partner vs. the prom date
How to improve your dating habits
How are you showing up?
Why we don't use discernment in dating
The drug of love
How to not die alone
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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53:5418/07/2021
#158: Why You Run From Love (or Sabotage it) - Dr. Alexandra Solomon
Why do we have such a hard time stepping towards love and/or surrendering into it? Why do we sabotage relationships with people who actually want to love us? In this episode, I welcome back one of your favourites, Dr. Alexandra Solomon. She is an absolute relationship wizard and we discuss what gets in the way of love and why. We explore how to navigate the delicate space of relationships and take responsibility for ourselves, and invite our partner to take responsibility for themselves. You're not going to want to miss this wisdom-packed episode. Buckle up.
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Discover:
Why we don't touch the depth of grief and pain
Noticing and exploring patterns are necessary to create shift
Why do we hesitate talking about our feelings
Name your pain
Taking in feedback and healthy shame
How to deepen relationships
How to move through shutting down
Relational is change cemented when...
Why acknowledgment is so critical
How to love bravely
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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01:07:0614/07/2021
#157: The Impacts of Lockdowns - Dr. Jay Bhattacharya
This week I am so excited to welcome Dr. Jay Bhattacharya on the podcast. He is a Professor of Medicine at Stanford University and directs Stanford’s Center for Demography and Economics of Health and Aging. Dr. Bhattacharya’s recent research focuses on the epidemiology of COVID, including the lethality of COVID infection and effects of lockdown policies.
Listen out for:
The ideas behind pandemic plans, and why Dr. Bhattacharya says lockdowns will be viewed as the single biggest public health mistake in all of history.
Why public health officials' had the wrong approach by focusing on controlling all infections (or cases) in the population, rather than focusing on how to protect those most at risk.
The psychological, socio-economic, and physical effects that infection control/ lockdowns have had on individuals and communities.
Learn more about the Collateral Global project and connect with Dr. Bhattacharya on LinkedIn.
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Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
Grab your Organifi at organifi.com/createthelove and receive 20% off all products with code CREATETHELOVE at the cart!
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01:16:0507/07/2021
#156: Recognizing Red Flags - Vienna Pharaon
This week I am so excited to share an amazing conversation from a Live webinar I hosted with one of my best friends, Vienna Pharaon. Vienna is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of New York, practicing out of NYC. Vienna received her Master of Science in Marriage & Family Therapy from Northwestern University and trained extensively at The Family Institute, Bette D. Harris Center.
In this episode we dive deep into dating, red flags, narcissism, unavailability, self-worth and so much more. Grab your pen and paper—this episode is dynamite!
Find more about Vienna's work here, and be sure to follow her on Instagram @mindfulmft.
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Discover:
Dating Q&A with Vienna
Dating dynamics and red flags
Why don't they text me back?
If you loved yourself would you respond this way?
Signs of green flags
What is love bombing?
Narcissism, gas lighting and discarding
Why we are drawn to people who wound us
Emotional familiarity, trauma bonding, and healing
How to touch the wound differently
The conversations we don't want to have are the exact thing we need for alignment
Why we are drawn to avoidant people?
How to heal the chasing
Why you need to tune in to yourself
How to take your power back
Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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01:01:4130/06/2021
#155: How You Relate Is Your Responsibility - Solo Episode
This week I wanted to share some thoughts on taking responsibility for our relationships. When we begin to understand things like our unconscious biases, explore the programs we were raised with, and recognize the BS of what we've been taught relationally — we are presented with a choice. We can choose whether or not we want to do the work, sit with the hard stuff, and become the best version of ourselves. Expansion is readily available to us... will you choose it?
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Discover:
Perspectives of the world of those who are "lucky" and those who are "unlucky"
The unconscious programs that are running the show
Healthy inquiry, self-responsibility and self-awareness
Expansion and the cocoon
Where your worth comes from
Explore the depths of who you are with grace and compassion
Progress and transformation and stepping into a new space
The beauty of repair
Take responsibility for the way you relate
Life is hard, AND we can change
From victim to victor
Life is hard, AND you can change
Owning your sh*t
Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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19:3024/06/2021
#154: Let Yourself Arrive - Solo Episode
How do you honour transitions? Are you able to sit in the space of expansion? Can you fly off the edge and trust? This week's episode is a personal life update. I share what life has felt like lately, moving cities, and how I've been navigating both change and uncertainty while continuously being called back to the present moment.
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Discover:
How to be more present and slow down through change and grief
Sitting with yourself is a gift
How to navigate through life transitions
Pay attention to the subtle nudges
Can you sit in the space that your soul has drawn you to and just trust?
Imposter syndrome is a sign you're on the right path
Can you have courage and let yourself arrive?
Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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19:1916/06/2021
#153: Healing is Multi-Dimensional with Dr. Mariel Buqué
I think it’s absolutely fascinating that a lot of the things we might be healing today… are not actually ours. You may have heard the words generational trauma, intergenerational trauma and collective trauma before – but what do they mean? How does this impact a person’s relational patterns, expansion, intimacy or growth? I am so excited for you to experience this week’s episode with the brilliant Dr. Mariel Buqué, a Columbia University-trained Psychologist, Intergenerational Trauma expert, and sound bath meditation healer. Her work focuses on the advancement of culturally responsive therapeutic practices that affirm the lived experiences of Black & Indigenous People of Color (BIPOCs). Her clinical work centers on healing wounds of intergenerational trauma, holistic mental wellness, and centering indigenous healing practices. We discuss the ways intergenerational trauma forms, caring for ourselves in a holistic way, healing from emotional wounds and how to transition into a liberated version of Self.
Head here to find Dr. Mariel Buqué's work and learn about the the Soul Healing Collective –a community space she created for people to heal together, as she believes in the liberation of both our minds and of oppressive systems as necessary qualities of our collective wellness. Be sure to connect with @dr.marielbuque on Instagram as well.
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Discover:
The things we are looking to heal today are actually not ours
Looking at inherited trauma
The connection to the gut microbiome, trauma and mental health
Challenging western science and psychology
How hollistic and ancestral practices help us feel grounded and connected
Why we hang on to our limitations - the undercurrent of safety
Safety vs. certainty
How trauma effects nature vs. nurture
Epigenetics, stress and resilience
Sound bath meditations for inherited trauma
How to hold compassion for trauma that isn't yours
Finding wisdom inside your history
The multi-dimensional approach to healing
Your body is an amazing organic machine that can accomplish miraculous feats. But it needs the right fuel and signals to function at its best. Some of those signals include adaptogens which can help boost energy and help you return to a state of calm when you’re feeling stressed. Create The Love’s favourite source of adaptogens is Organifi!
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49:2809/06/2021
#152: How to Access Clarity & Connection with Yung Pueblo
This week I am honoured to welcome back Diego Perez onto the show. Diego Perez is a meditator, writer, and speaker who is widely known on Instagram through his pen name Yung Pueblo. His written works focus on the reality of self-healing, the movement from self-love to unconditional love, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves. Diego's practice of Vipassana meditation has given him a deeper understanding of liberation that inspires his writing. Through writing and speaking he aims to support the healing of the individual, knowing that when people release their personal burdens it helps humanity build a global peace.
In this episode Diego shares how meditation practice is a profoundly transformative path, and his primary vehicle for growth, healing and freedom. We anchor into how to traverse serious transformation on both an individual and global level. How to dance in nuance, how to practice love in its purest form, and how to deepen our connections rather than our attachments.
The name Yung Pueblo means young people; it serves to remind him of his Ecuadorian roots, his experiences in activism, and that the collective of humanity is in the midst of important growth. You can connect with Diego on Instagram @yung_pueblo, and find his new book Clarity & Connection, here.
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Discover:
The power of mediation and silent retreats
"In silence is who you are."
How silence can give you more than a college education
How to hold space for different perspectives and truths
How to deepen trust intimacy
How 50% gives you success in relationships
How impermanence is critical
How to return to circadian alignment
How to create more balance in life and relationships
Love in purest form
How to deepen clarity and connection
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01:10:4703/06/2021
#151: How to Harness The Power of Plant Medicine - Jenny Sansouci
I am so excited to welcome Jenny Sansouci onto the podcast! Jenny is the author of The Rebel's Apothecary: A Practical Guide to the Healing Magic of Cannabis, CBD, and Mushrooms. Jenny is a Certified Health Coach through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and has been trained by functional medicine doctor Frank Lipman, MD, in New York City.
In this episode we discuss the various medical and wellness uses for cannabis and medicinal mushrooms. How they can enhance the lives of anyone living with pain, anxiety, depression, weakened immune system, insomnia, and more. We talk about the myths and stigmas associated with these powerful healing plants and fungi. We get into the research on psilocybin mushrooms, and share our personal journey’s — diving deep into the weird and beautiful blend of biological and spiritual facets.
What starts off as a conversation aiming to deepen your understanding and respect for organisms that literally exist under our feet, quickly shifts to the understanding and expansion of human consciousness.
Discover:
Cannabis, psilocybin and chemotherapy
Healing modalities that academia is now supporting
The benefits of Reishi, Maitake, Chaga, Lion's Mane and other medicinal mushrooms
Censorship of natural modalities
Looking at healing through a different perspective
Questioning what we were taught in relationship
How relationships are the gateway to the divine
Depression: blunting the symptoms vs. getting to the root cause
The beauty and wisdom inside nature
The illusion of security
"When you get the message, hang up the phone."
Exploration vs. recreation
Maybe there's another way
Click here to grab your copy of The Rebel’s Apothecary. Download this free immune support chapter from the book, and be sure to follow @jennysansouci on Instagram.
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01:13:2027/05/2021
#150: Supporting Women's Mental Health - Taryn Bird
This week I am excited to introduce you to the wonderful Taryn Bird, Senior Director of Social Impact, Kate Spade New York. She leads the social impact team, overseeing the company’s social enterprise initiative on purpose, philanthropic programs and corporate volunteering.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of women’s mental health, the impact it has in today’s society, and the gaps in the women & girls empowerment space. We dive into being proactive about mental health and wellbeing, knowing that you’re not alone, and the unique considerations that are important to recognize among women-identified individuals. Taryn candidly shares her own experiences with mental health, post traumatic stress, loss, and healing. I am so excited to share this important conversation with you as part of Mental Health Awareness Month and Mental Health Action Day.
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Discover:
The accessible mental health tools available to women, girls, and moms
Current mental health statistic during covid
Experiencing negative emotions
The shocking KPI's of women who give
The questions we are not asking enough
The correlation between how much women give and their mental health
How companies are putting resources in place to support mental health
Mental health does not have to be dark
Why feeling seen inside community is healing
The pandemic after the pandemic
Releasing control and welcoming the process
Why filling your cup is so important but so easily forgotten
"Post Traumatic Growth"
Purpose and the connection to mental health
Learn more about the Kate Spade New York Foundation here, and check out the Women’s Guide to Mental Health & Wellbeing. Check out Mine’d, an accessible way to support your mood and mental health.
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01:17:4320/05/2021
#149: Reprogramming Your Self-Worth with Lacy Phillips
This week we welcome back Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, a global manifestation expert and speaker specializing in unblocking subconscious beliefs of unworthiness while expanding into alignment with what one is calling in.
In this episode Lacy introduces us to Neural Manifestation - a concept backed by neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics and energetics, based on raising your self worth and stepping into your true authentic self. You'll learn how manifestation works, what blocks us, and how we can debunk superstitions or other childhood beliefs.
Discover:
Why the "think positive" model doesn't work
Self-worth and deservingness is the law of attraction
We are projecting from the subconscious beliefs from our childhood
Understanding when you're doing the work but it doesn't happen, why?
Negative feelings are the roadmap to what's blocking you
"You don't change the memory, you change the emotional response to it." - Lacy Phillips
Love and money are directly connected - their deepest connection is security
What is your authentic code?
Why must shatter the old relational model
What is your true authentic self and how are you showing up in relationship?
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Find more about Lacy and To Be Magnetic at www.tobemagnetic.com or on Instagram.To get 20% off the Love Bundle head to www.tobemagnetic.com/mark-groves and use code MARKGROVES20.
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01:04:1205/05/2021
#148: Activating the Activist in All of Us with Mark Brand
Mark Brand is a pioneering entrepreneur and chef in the field of Social Impact and Community Development. Along with overseeing the 5 organizations under MB Inc, Brand leads his A Better Life Foundation in Canada, the United States, he is a Stanford fellow, Professor of Innovation and Design Thinking, and has served as executive chef for the American Refugee Committee and Pope Francis's Climate Challenge. Brand has recently been appointed to the United Nations Catalyst team focusing on food waste, poverty, and the impacts of current systemic structures on the most marginalized. At the root of everything he works on, his belief is that the solutions are all attainable with deep cooperation and the understanding there is no “Us and Them, only Us.”
This transformative episode is one that can't be missed. Mark and I discuss poverty and how it affects all of us. Mark walks us through how we as individuals can take immediate steps towards eradicating poverty and becoming and activists in our own communities.
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"The one vs. the one percent"
The incredible things Mark Brand is doing to eradicate poverty
What do you care about and why?
Why volunteering and contribution will light you up
Never stop following your inner guidance
If the community is unwell, we are unwell.
We have to sit in our grief because there is something powerful inside of it
How socialization has caused us to dehumanized
Ways you can show up for humanity
Find Mark on Instagram, or at www.markbrandinc.com www.abetterlifefoundation.ca www.abetterlifefoundation.us
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01:14:2628/04/2021
#147: How To Become A Boundary Boss with Terri Cole
Back for a third time is the fantastic Terri Cole. Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and this week she is here to talk all things BOUNDARIES!
Terri breaks down her own definition of Boundaries and walks us through the 10 rules of her Boundary Bill of Rights outlined in her new Boundary Boss Book. Understanding and getting to know your boundaries is the first step toward getting to know the real you, and building a life that aligns. Start by asking yourself - where am I angry? Where am I exhausted? Where am I not talking my truth?
Discover:
What is a boundary and how to be a boundary boss
How we have learned codependency and people pleasing
Why do we say yes when we want say no
Why checking off the boxes can still leave you empty
What a boundary disaster looks like
Becoming fluent in boundaries is a process of learning about yourself
The "ok and not ok list"
The "boundary bully"
Compatibility and compliance
Are your current boundaries getting you what you want?
What you get by continuing to have disordered boundaries
How to empower yourself by choosing differently
The "boundary boss bill of rights"
Find Terri's book at www.boundarybossbook.com and head to www.boundaryboss.me/ctl for your free gift.
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56:3223/04/2021
#146: Engineering Our Future with Dr. Zach Bush
Back by very popular demand, we welcome Dr. Zach Bush. Zach Bush MD is a renowned, multi-disciplinary physician of internal medicine, endocrinology, hospice care and internationally recognized educator on the microbiome as it relates to human health, soil health, food systems, and a regenerative future.
Once again - I want to premise with the fact that this conversation is a complex one, and not for the faint of heart. After having Zach on previously to discuss the world's response to the Covid-19 pandemic, I wanted to bring him back to further divulge the medical systems response to the virus, primarily; the vaccination, the PCR test and the various strategies that were implemented to combat this virus - plus so. much. more.
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Discover:
Fear-mongering and isolation negatively affect immunity
Why doesn't the government talk about strategies that promote health?
The benefits of sunshine/vitamin D, sleep hygiene, nutrition, and fresh air for the immune system
The no-fear approach
The genetic modification of humanity
New facts about PCR tests
How the innate immune system adapts naturally
A fascinating study with Gonzaga University
The statistics of comorbidities
We have to work with nature, not against it
Our bacteria are essential for our health
What questions are we not asking about the human immune system
We need to be in balance with Mother Earth, not in opposition to it
Healthy soil is directly connected with healthy humans
Viruses are genetic upgrades and we should not fear it
Find Zach on his website www.ZachBushMD.com or on Instagram.
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01:47:1519/04/2021
#145: How To Live Your Best Life, Integrated with Steph Corker
Steph Corker is my dear friend and the founder of The Corker Collective, a human capital consulting firm committed to everyone living their best life, integrated. She is passionate about potential and leading people towards personal transformation.
In this episode we dive into how to bring out the actualized version of yourself in all areas of your life, specifically - in relationships and your career. Join us to learn how to change what is possible in your life so you can love every moment you experience. You will learn how to allocate your time in a way that generates the best version of yourself and raises the frequency of every experience you encounter.
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Discover:
The Corker Collective: Injecting heart beats into businesses
How are you showing up in work, life, relationships, and is it the same?
The evolution of the workplace
To have a big life, you have to be willing to have big conversations
The steps we can take to get who we want to be
It's hard for toxicity to penetrate when you're connected to yourself
What would the actualized version of you do?
The resistance in going to the edge
The consumer vs. the generator
Slow down, you'll get there faster
The five regrets of the dying, and what matters
The "and" is always possible
Find Steph on Instagram or at www.thecorkercollective.com.
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01:11:4414/04/2021
#144: Let It Burn Pt. 2 - Mark Groves & Kylie McBeath
Part 2 of the much anticipated conversation with my partner Kylie on our breakup is here. We dive deeper into the imperative work that was required of both of us to be able to re-enter into right relationship, together. Both Ky and I explore the necessity of the rupture, our wounding and how we healed. Join us for Part 2 of this emotional conversation that further explores so many crucial topics from Part 1. Expanding, unpacking and dismantling old frameworks around what we were taught about relationship. Letting go of what no longer served us, to invite reconciliation.
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Discover:
Relational patterns and dynamics
What is buried underneath grief, loss and suffering
The deep soul knowing that it's time to let go of your old self
The key behind deep, meaningful relationships
How suffering gives us a gift
Support and community is vital during a breakup
Examining and processing generational lineage/patterns
"Man = mother until you do mother work"
External validation vs. internal sourcing
Why we soothe wounds with arousal
Holding reverence for the feminine and mother earth
What love truly means
Find Kylie on Instagram or on her website https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/courses.
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01:27:5009/04/2021
#143: How To Change Your Life Through Meditation - Laurasia Mattingly
This week we jam with Laurasia Mattingly about the power of mindfulness and meditation. Following the loss of her mother, Laurasia began exploring her own spirituality as a means of working through her grief to find peace in the uncertainty of life. Laurasia shares with us how meditation can transform our lives. Join us as we explore how we, through mindfulness and meditation, can overcome our stress and free up the space for us to deepen our relationship with ourselves and our intuition.
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Discover:
The beautiful power of meditation
Can you sit with it?
Start with mindfulness
The power of presence
Why is it difficult to hold so many feelings
Joy vs. Happiness
How softening your parameters makes everything easier
Why life is delicious within this space
Are you abandoning yourself?
Loneliness vs. Alone
Beauty is growing from where you are hurt
The invitation to slowness
Caring for your wounds (aka frequent visitors)
What is essentialism
Find more on Laurasia on her website www.laurasiamattingly.com or on Instagram. You can grab a copy of her book here.
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58:5005/04/2021
#142: How To Transform Anger Into Growth - Alejandra Proaño
Alejandra Proaño is an Anger Management Specialist and is the co-owner of Moose Anger Management. She directs Healing Anger, the program for women that now runs online and worldwide. She and her team specialize in individual, couple and group counselling work on anger and addictions. Alejandra holds a Specialization in Family Therapy, a Master’s in clinical psychology, a Master’s in Science and a Master’s in Literature.
I am so excited to have Alejandra on this week for an extremely informative conversation on anger - how so many of us don't truly know how to express it or feel shame in the emotion. Anger is necessary to protect the integrity of individuals in a relationship; it represents the need for a boundary. Our capacity for a compassionate expression of our anger, is usually the result of past trauma and experience. Tune in to learn more!
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Discover:
Why we can't externalize anger
What is underneath anger?
What are you really feeling?
Understanding cues in the body
Understanding your own relationship to anger
How anger can deepen intimacy and personal evolution
The power of the collective anger
Until we change, nothing changes.
You can find more about Alejandra at www.healinganger.ca or on Instagram. Find her book here: https://healinganger.ca/product/healing-anger-ebook/.
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01:03:1729/03/2021
#141: How To Take Responsibility For Your Worth - Solo Episode
In this episode join me on my hike as I share my thoughts on the false sense of separation we have with the Earth, the disconnection we have with ourselves, and our worth.
The truth is hidden in plain sight, and we can all find it by being present, turning inward and taking radical responsibility for our self worth. We can’t wait for people to choose us. Otherwise we’ll always be waiting, because nobody wants the responsibility of our self worth. We model the love we want by the type of love we give. Make yours unconditional.
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Discover:
Asking the questions: What are you ignoring? What does your body need? What does your soul crave?
Why we get stuck in co-dependency and wrapped up in our wounds
Boundaries are guide-posts to love and trust
Why a baseline for grace, kindness, trust and respect is vital
Expansion is hidden inside the frustrations and challenges
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18:0226/03/2021
#140: The Truth Will Set You Free - Solo Episode
When you don't stand in the truth of what, you're not going to get what you want - pretty simple right? Whether or not we decide to talk about our truth, it will always still live inside you. Not honouring our truth leads to small betrayals, which usually become giant betrayals later on and typically we can look back and see where we betrayed ourselves initially in order to get there.
This week I share a personal story from my past where I self abandoned and didn't declare what I really wanted. The truth always sets us free, no matter how difficult it can be to say it.
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Discover:
Why do we fear stepping into our truth?
The dangers of staying in the comfort zone
Why we self-betray and self-abandon in effort to keep connection
Why we need to explore grief
The two most important questions you need to ask yourself
Small betrayals become giant betrayals later
Where do you betray yourself?
The power of claiming yourself
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26:4422/03/2021
#139: How To Take The First Step Towards Serious Transformation - Stefanos Sifandos
Stefanos Sifandos is a trained educator and relationship expert with a background in behavioral science. He is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential and to each other.
Join us this week for a deep dive into how to take the first steps towards seriously changing your life and the way you relate. Stefanos will walk you through the masculine perspective, shame spirals, and how to create space to heal and take the leap from the old you, to the new you.
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Discover:
The complexities of the human experience
Why we need more quality strong men calling others forward
Why owning your sh*t is healing
Why men shame other men for showing their emotions
What male emotion truly means (strength)
Why we hang on to our identity
Why we need to think of our parents as children of parents
Why rock bottoms are often the best way we learn
Why we need to get comfortable with uncertainty
Why men need adventure back to the mystery
How to hold space for others and yourself
What would love do now?
Find Stefanos on Instagram, or on his website www.growwithstef.com.
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01:06:4415/03/2021
#138: Vanessa Bennett and Dené Logan - Cheaper Than Therapy
So excited to have Vanessa and Dené from the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy on this week! Dené is an Associate Psychotherapist in Los Angeles, a Registered Yoga Teacher and Mindfulness Coach. She specializes in offering tools for moving through anxiety, understanding our addictive patterns and communicating more effectively in our relationships. Vanessa is a Psychotherapist, Mindfulness + Codependency Coach. She brings her passion for Depth, Buddhist, and Yoga Psychology into her own life as well as in her work with her clients. She loves connecting with people while helping them connect to themselves, which usually includes helping them discover who that Self really is.
Join us for a truth-filled conversation around dropping the therapy stigma, the finite nature of grief and death, and dealing with the anxieties and systems that have developed from the present state of the world.
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Discover:
Effects of lockdowns, isolation and removing community
How resisting change only creates more resistance
What is our part in the collective change?
Pregnancy, motherhood and the need for community
Being able to hold space and be curious during conflicting truths
Why does our expansion aggravate others?
Why it's important to stay curious
Searching for the home vs. becoming the home
The power of being witnessed
The power of connection to soul, spirt and nature
Find Vanessa and Dené and their podcast here.
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01:24:2408/03/2021
#137: Dr. Caroline Leaf - Cleaning Up Our Mental Mess
I am so excited to have Dr. Caroline Leaf back on the podcast! Dr. Caroline Leaf is a neuroscientist specializing in cognitive and metacognitive neuropsychology. Since the early 1980s, she has researched the mind-brain connection, the nature of mental health, and the formation of memory. She was one of the first in her field to study how the brain can change (neuroplasticity) with directed mind input. This week we chat about her new book, Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess: 5 Simple, Scientifically Proven Steps to Reduce Anxiety, Stress, and Toxic Thinking.
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Discover:
What is the main differentiator between mind and brain?
Mind is the generator, brain/body is the responder
The mind is 99% of who we are
You can learn to control your mind, you are never stuck
How do we deconstruct toxic thinking
Awareness is the first step in healing
How to handle acute traumas faster
Triggers will always be there, it's about how you react to it
What is neuro-cycling and brain building?
How to be the observer of self
How to perform a mental "autopsy" and change your life
Who doesn’t want to learn how to do that?! Be sure to pick up a copy of her new book and find out more about Dr. Leaf online at www.drleaf.com or on Instagram.
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01:45:3505/03/2021
#136: Selina Gray - Separating Your Worth From Your Net Worth
We are taught to place our worth in our monetary worth. Our relationship to money is one of the most important ones in our lives. We are constantly interacting with money, and yet we’re not taught about it in school! The subject of finances is considered one of the leading causes of divorce, so how do we navigate that subject in a way that deepens intimacy and builds a bridge rather than a wall?
I’m excited to have returning guest, Selina Gray, who is a CPA and expert in managing and healing our relationship to money. Join us for an episode where dive into all the juiciness that money brings.
If you’d like to sign up for our course, go to www.createthemoola.com and use the code createthemoola to save $50!
You can find Selina on Instagram, on her website https://selinagray.com.
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48:0801/03/2021
#135: Resmaa Menakem - Racialized Trauma
Resmaa Menakem is a Healer, New York Times Best-Selling Author, and Trauma Specialist. He helps people, communities, and organizations find strength in healing that is holistic and resilient. He helps people rise through the suffering’s edge. He is a cultural trauma navigator, a communal provocateur and coach.
I first heard Resmaa on my friend Jayson Gaddis' podcast, and I was completely inspired and transformed. After reading his novel My Grandmothers Hands, I knew I needed to have him on this show. This conversation on racialized trauma will transform you, educate you, and move you. You do not want to miss this one.
In Resmaa's words, "Moving from race to culture to creation is important, transformative, and takes work. And a lot of reps."
Find more about Resmaa and his work here.
To find the Energetic Justice course I spoke about during this episode, head here.
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01:34:0722/02/2021
#134: Emotional Unavailability - Solo Episode
Most people don't realize that their frustration with people who aren't available has a lot to do with their own unavailability. In this special episode I discuss 3 questions from my audience and how to handle their relational challenges. Why might we be holding on to or daydreaming about an ex? Why can't my partner fully commit or tell me they love me? How do I know the difference between settling and committing?
These are important and complex questions that so many of us are struggling with. Tune in to learn more!
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Discover:
Why do we choose unavailable people?
How we self-sabotage
"Why do you stay in prison when the door is so wide open?" - Rumi
How relationship is going to invite you to step into a new version of you
Sacred union will show up when you treat yourself as sacred.
What does the word "love" mean to you?
Your worth doesn't live in the validation of someone else
Avoidant and anxious attachment
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44:4219/02/2021
#133: The Practice - A Commitment to Ourselves with Seth Godin
This week I am SO excited to introduce you to the incredible Seth Godin. Seth is the author of 20 books that have been bestsellers around the world and have been translated into more than 35 languages. He’s also the founder of the altMBA and The Akimbo Workshops, online seminars that have transformed the work of thousands of people.He writes about the post-industrial revolution, the way ideas spread, marketing, quitting, leadership and most of all, changing everything. You might be familiar with his books Linchpin, Tribes, The Dip and Purple Cow. His book, This Is Marketing, was an instant bestseller around the world.
In this episode, we speak about Seth's new book The Practice: Shipping Creative Work, and the premise behind it. We dive into the steps required to take action, let go of what other people have laid out for you, and find passion and creativity in the work you do.
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Discover:
How to find your voice
What nervousness really means
The magic of the creative process is that there is no magic, it's a process
If you don't feel like an imposter, you're not trying hard enough
The formula: earn trust, solve problems, and be consistent
Why 1,000 true fans is the most important thing to focus
The details and process inside "the work"
There is no such thing as "writers block"
Find more about Seth and his books at www.sethgodin.com, check out akimbo here and Seth's Podcast here.
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53:0315/02/2021
#132: Say Yes to a Better Life with Laura McKowen
This week I am pleased to introduce you to Laura McKowen. Laura had a long, successful career in public relations and the Mad Men–esque drinking culture of advertising. After getting sober, she quickly became recognized as a fresh voice in recovery, beloved for her soulful and irreverent writing online and in print. She now leads sold out retreats and courses, teaching people to how to say yes to a bigger life. Laura is the author of the bestselling memoir, We Are The Luckiest: The Surprising Magic of a Sober Life.
This discussion dives into the clarity and potential that can be unearthed when living a sober life. We talk about our intentions behind drinking, and the many messages that we've received around alcohol over the years. Check out Laura's Best Selling Book here, and find her on Instagram here.
Discover:
Emotional pain is a sign of function rather than dysfunction
We are one hard decision away from reclaiming our sovereignty
What's below what you numb?
The culture of drinking
The truth about lying
Normalizing alcohol
Why alcohol is the one drug we have to explain why we "aren't drinking"
In discomfort you will find your answer
Co-dependency, people-pleasing and sobriety
What is it like to be fully embodied?
Can you sit with yourself?
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01:25:4008/02/2021
#131: Turning Your Mess Into Your Mission with Drew Canole
This week I am thrilled to introduce you to Drew Canole. Drew is an author, transformation coach, and founder of the superfood company Organifi. Drew has helped thousands of women and men revitalize their health, ignite their vision, and shift the course of their life forever. After reaching a dead end in his own health, Drew discovered the chasm of difference between going through the motions and living with radical intention. He now helps people tap into the "Big You" to create the change they never thought possible.I
n this episode Drew shares his life journey and explains how he used trauma as fuel to create something that impacts peoples lives. Tune in for an energetic and motivational conversation of growth and transformation.
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Discover:
Drew's story as an abused child
The beautiful journey of Organifii
High frequency foods = high frequency life
Drew's #1 way to remove trauma from the body
Shaking, dancing, TRE, and mother natures way of moving emotions
The beautiful magic of purpose and healing
Check out Organifi at www.organfi.com and find Drew on Instagram.
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01:06:2001/02/2021
#130: Healing Our Nervous System with Nicole Lohse
Nicole Lohse is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Feldenkrais Practitioner and yoga teacher. Her knowledge of the body, mind and soul greatly influences how she supports others from a very intuitive, energetic and somatic place. Nicole walks us through how to be more connected with yourself by understanding the language of your body and your survival philosophy. By building your capacity and regulation at a nervous system level, your resiliency will only increase. It's from here that you’ll shift from surviving your way through life to thriving and accessing more of your truth.
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Discover:
What is somatic therapy?
What is a healthy nervous system?
What a normal response to stress looks like
The beautiful invitation to the observation
What's your nervous system "normal?"
How to recognize when you step out of your truth
What is co-regulation
Why safety and security is foreign
Why resistance creates room to learn
The power of noticing
How to get back into regulation
Find more about Nicole on her website https://www.nicolelohse.com, or on Instagram. You can find more details about her course here.
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01:04:2725/01/2021
#129: Designing Your Dream Career with Ashley Stahl
This week I'm super excited to introduce you to the incredible Ashley Stahl. After working careers in national security and counterterrorism, Ashley came to the realization that she wasn't living her full purpose in the workforce. After diving in and uncovering her own natural talents, Ashley set-forth in her new career path as a career coach. Today, Ashley helps hundreds of people uncover their core skill sets and true calling - enabling them to find a career that aligns with their dreams and purpose.
In this episode, Ashley uncovers what this process truly looks like, and why staying in a job that isn't aligned could be preventing you from living a very happy and fulfilling life.
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Discover:
One of the biggest mistakes in the workplace is holding on to an old version of yourself in your career
The new generation vs the old generation in the workplace
When we don't have clarity it's a call to reconnect to ourselves
You can't get to right until you sit in wrong
Why we need to focus on core skill set, personality, and when we at our best
The clarity behind interest vs. passion and dedication
Why failing fast is the motto to live by
Does your work give you energy or drain you?
Find Ashley's book at www.youturnbook.com, and find more about Ashley on her website or on Instagram.
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59:5318/01/2021
#128: Discover Your Dharma with Sahara Rose
Your dharma is your souls purpose - the big reason of why you are here, what you're supposed to be doing, and how you do it.
This week we welcome back the amazing Sahara Rose. In anticipation of her new book Discover Your Dharma, Sahara walks us through what finding your dharma really means and looks like. She teaches us that our lifetime is about figuring out what our dharma is, and once we understand our higher calling, everything we're looking for naturally falls into place. We learn how the obstacles that we face in life are our souls curriculum to get you to your purpose. Uncovering our Dharma can lead to a life of happiness, fulfillment and joy.
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Discover:
Why you should shift from improving yourself to knowing yourself
The obstacles you were meant to overcome were there for a reason
The path of least resistance is found on the path of most resistance
Rock-bottoms, breakdowns and cosmic 2x4's
Karma vs. Kriya
Economic down turns are the birth place of innovation
Using Covid as a speed track for opportunities
It's always an invitation if we pay attention
Trusting the feeling before it forces you to change
Learn more about Sahara and her book at https://iamsahararose.com/dharma, find her on Instagram, or take her quiz here.
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01:05:4611/01/2021
#127: Let It Burn Pt. 1 with Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath
This week I share the much anticipated conversation with my partner Kylie on our breakup.
We dive into our relationship ending, what lead our old container to rupture and the expansion that occurred, bringing us to where we are now.
Both Ky and I explore the struggles we were facing, the masks, messages and wounds we had internalized, and the extensive healing that was necessary for us to reconcile.
This episode is part 1 of an emotional conversation that explores so many crucial topics that contribute to our worth, how to honour ourselves and reclaim our power - both individually, and within relationship.
Find Kylie on Instagram or on her website https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/.
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01:39:1805/01/2021