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(Apple's Best of 2018) In-depth conversations with people at the top of their game. Jordan Harbinger unpacks guests' wisdom into practical nuggets you can use to impact your work, life, and relationships. Learn from leaders (Ray Dalio, Simon Sinek, Mark Cuban), entertainers (Moby, Tip "T.I." Harris, Dennis Quaid), scientists (Neil deGrasse Tyson, Bill Nye), athletes (Kobe Bryant, Dennis Rodman, Tony Hawk) and an eclectic array of fascinating minds, from art forgers and arms traffickers to spies and psychologists.
981: Bobby Gunn | The 73-0 Undefeated Bare-Knuckle Boxer
Grab a front-row seat to the gritty world of bare-knuckle boxing with undefeated champ Bobby Gunn and his 'Bare Knuckle' biographer Stayton Bonner here!
What We Discuss with Bobby Gunn and Stayton Bonner:
The culture and traditions of — as well as the stereotypes, lifestyle choices, and challenges faced by — the traveler community in which Bobby was raised.
How Bobby started fighting drunks for money at the not-so-tender age of 11.
The rich history — and brutal realities — of bare-knuckle boxing.
How Bobby answered the call of the underground bare-knuckle boxing circuit and what the costs have been along the way.
The evolution of bare-knuckle boxing, and Bobby's indelible mark on the sport.
And much more...
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01:25:5023/04/2024
980: Sister Was Wild — Should You Adopt Her Child? | Feedback Friday
Your pregnant sister-in-law was a wild child growing up and suffers addiction. Would adopting her baby disrupt your family life? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Whenever you're hit with a double-whammy of physical illness and depression, remember that psychology is, in fact, biology. Metacognition is the key.
Your pregnant sister-in-law was a wild child growing up and suffers from addiction. Would adopting her baby disrupt your own family's tranquility?
What's the most drama-free way to get your professional contacts on board with the changes you've made since coming out as transgender? [Thanks to Noelle Soncrant, the first visible transgender financial advisor at Northwestern Mutual, for helping us with this one!]
You just discovered your wife has a warrant for her arrest after neglecting to pay $173,000 in taxes your co-owned and recently dissolved business owes to the IRS. Now what? [Thanks to bankruptcy attorney Erin Hoskins for giving us some sound advice here!]
Your sister left her amazing husband for a man she finds more attractive — but who also exhibits controlling and manipulative behavior. He's pressuring her to have a baby despite her lifelong decision against it. How can you help her realize she's making a huge mistake?
How can you mitigate career setbacks while taking time off from work to travel?
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01:30:4319/04/2024
979: Adam Gamal | My Top-Secret Fight Against Terrorism Part Two
What's it like to be one of the only Muslim Arab Americans fighting terrorism in the US' most secret military unit? Adam Gamal shares here in part 2 of 2! [Part 1 can be found here.]
What We Discuss with Adam Gamal:
How Adam Gamal went from being an Egyptian refugee who barely spoke English to an operative in the United States' most secret special forces unit.
The unit's tasks range from counterterrorism and hostage rescue to counter-narcotics operations.
The ethical and emotional complexities of covert operations.
How top secret operatives navigate cultural nuances while making personal sacrifices for the greater good.
The importance of intelligence, adaptability, and the unseen battles fought every day to ensure American safety.
And much more...
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01:17:3618/04/2024
978: Adam Gamal | My Top-Secret Fight Against Terrorism Part One
What's it like to be one of the only Muslim Arab Americans fighting terrorism in the US' most secret military unit? Adam Gamal shares here in part 1 of 2!
What We Discuss with Adam Gamal:
How Adam Gamal went from being an Egyptian refugee who barely spoke English to an operative in the US Army's most secret special forces unit.
The unit's tasks range from counterterrorism and hostage rescue to counter-narcotics operations.
The ethical and emotional complexities of covert operations.
How top secret operatives navigate cultural nuances while making personal sacrifices for the greater good.
The importance of intelligence, adaptability, and the unseen battles fought every day to ensure American safety.
And much more...
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01:23:2616/04/2024
977: Do You Strive for a Love That Can't Survive? | Feedback Friday
We have a follow-up from our episode 904 listener on her Persian boyfriend's hesitation to advance their six-year relationship. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday:
What are the benefits of raising a resilient child? Daily Dad Ryan Holiday counts the ways.
An update from the listener who wrote in on episode 904 regarding her Persian boyfriend's reluctance to commit to the next step of their six-year relationship. (Hint: it's got very little to do with his family's acceptance of her non-Persianness.)
As a Mandarin-speaking American quickly rising within a Chinese-owned organization, you find the inevitable influence of the CCP over the fate of your company and career to be suboptimal. How do you reconcile the broader moral objections of your work with your responsibility to ensure financial stability for your family moving forward?
Getting divorced would be financially disastrous, but marriage to someone who lacks critical thinking skills, is incapable of reading the simplest of context clues, and can't come to any opinion he isn't told by his parents, church, or political movement is exhausting. What are your options?
In the event of your untimely demise, how do you keep your kids safe from your estranged, narcissistic, abusive, BPD-afflicted, manipulative, and generally toxic parents? [Thanks to trust and estate attorney and judge Jordan Richards for helping us with this one!]
Hey, bro, if you need us to hook you up with Carl's DNA-altering money pills (as mentioned on episode 941), your business may be failing for reasons completely unrelated to the ones you're imagining. But we have thoughts...
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01:24:1112/04/2024
976: Bruce Ladebu | Stories of Hope in the Fight Against Slavery
Children's Rescue Initiative founder Bruce Ladebu joins us to discuss the 20 years he's spent liberating hundreds of people from slavery and trafficking!
What We Discuss with Bruce Ladebu:
Human trafficking and slavery affect around 40 million globally, generating $150 billion per year. Exploitation includes forced labor, domestic servitude, and sex trafficking of all ages.
Heartless and often sadistic traffickers prey on the most vulnerable and desperate populations, including disaster-stricken children and marginalized minorities. Corruption and apathy among local authorities and law enforcement allow this atrocity of an industry to thrive.
Rescuing trafficking victims is perilous work, but Bruce Ladebu's team has saved hundreds over the past 20 years. Extensive physical and mental rehabilitation in the aftermath is often necessary for these survivors to cope with the trauma they've endured.
Children's Rescue Initiative is Bruce's organization that provides funding for a variety of programs that help to rescue children from trafficking and slavery, provide them with shelter and care, and help them reintegrate into society.
Donating cash is just one way to help — people can also volunteer their time to organizations like Children's Rescue Initiative that are working to combat human trafficking and slavery. There are a number of ways to volunteer, such as working in a shelter, providing legal assistance, or advocating for policy changes.
And much more...
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01:31:1611/04/2024
975: Cal Newport | Reclaiming Time and Focus with Slow Productivity
How can we achieve work/life balance when we're always so dang busy? Slow Productivity author Cal Newport helps us achieve without burning out here!
What We Discuss with Cal Newport:
Why we need to redefine what productivity means in an age of constant connection and unclear boundaries between work life and home life.
How the pandemic's remote work "solutions" exacerbated — on a societal level — an already simmering host of workload issues.
How committing to doing fewer things makes work more sustainable and increases its overall quality.
How to increase the volume of email you can process while minimizing the productivity-killing need to context switch.
Innovative work models that may be key to better balance and slow productivity in the near and distant future.
And much more...
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01:34:4409/04/2024
974: Emotional Support Animals | Skeptical Sunday
Are too many people abusing laws that allow service animals to accompany the legitimately disabled? Michael Regilio walks us through this Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
If you've noticed a proliferation of people threatening legal repurcussions if they aren't allowed to go absolutely everywhere with their emotional support animals, you're not alone. They're just hoping you don't know the difference between emotional support animals and service animals.
Service animals are trained to perform specific tasks for people with disabilities and are legally protected by the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), while emotional support animals provide comfort to their owners but do not have the same level of training — and are not covered by the ADA.
There are some legal allowances for emotional support animals, but they vary depending on the state.
Those who abuse the system by insisting their emotional support animals be allowed to accompany them everywhere undermine people who legitimately rely on their service animals to get around.
It's important to understand the difference between these two types of animals so we can provide appropriate care and support to both animals and their handlers (and call out the fakers who ruin it for everyone).
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48:3307/04/2024
973: Kid's Not Possessed, She Just Needs a Safe Nest | Feedback Friday
Your alcoholic sister's in an abusive relationship, and you worry your nieces are in danger. What can you do? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Your alcoholic sister's in an abusive relationship, and you worry your nieces are in danger. What can you do?
Taking over from a clueless old boss can be challenging. How can you forge ahead without tinging new business relationships with his old-boss smell?
“Your dad gave me an STD! Wanna share a toilet?”
Your immigrant parents seem to have your best interests in mind. It's a shame they're so racist.
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01:30:2305/04/2024
972: Mustafa Suleyman | The Coming Wave of Artificial Intelligence
How has artificial intelligence (AI) become the 21st century's greatest dilemma? Microsoft AI CEO and The Coming Wave author Mustafa Suleyman weighs in!
What We Discuss with Mustafa Suleyman:
A deep dive into the evolution of AI and understanding how AI learns and predicts.
AI's potential impact on everything from everyday jobs to gaming to national security to solving global challenges.
The ethical considerations of allowing AI to replace humans in the workforce — particularly as it gets more sophisticated and more capable of taking on more complex tasks.
How AI will shape the course of the arms race between the superpowers.
The critical need for responsible innovation, international safety standards, and cooperative governance to harness AI's benefits while mitigating its threats.
And much more...
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01:26:2202/04/2024
971: Laughter is Life's Lubricant | Feedback Friday
A dinner party with friends was interrupted in one of the most embarrassing ways possible — and then it went viral. Welcome to April Fools' Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday (April Fools' Edition):
A dinner party with friends was interrupted in one of the most embarrassing ways possible — and then it went viral!
You could be upset about the all-day wardrobe malfunction nobody bothered to tell you about, or you could choose funny.
Remember that time you ended up in jail and they took your offhand joke about wishing you were dead way too seriously? That escalated quickly.
So you think you can avoid your ex's family with diligent planning around all possible social events? Try that in a small town.
The Old Man and the Ski is something Ernest Hemingway never wrote.
I hear she got wet in the company of a grateful stranger. That's why the lady is a tramp.
The chances of Gabe bombing a job interview while succumbing to a puzzling medical condition? Exactly one in a vermillion.
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01:12:1629/03/2024
970: Annie Jacobsen | The Nuts and Bolts of Nuclear Annihilation
Are you afraid of the possibility of nuclear war? Chances are good you're not scared enough. Journalist Annie Jacobsen is here to change all that!
What We Discuss with Annie Jacobsen:
What checks and balances keep us safe from nuclear attacks — and prevent such attacks from being initiated accidentally?
Why nuclear war preparedness and response plans are woefully inadequate under even the mildest potential scenarios.
The mechanics and strategies of nuclear warfare and the fantasy of space-based defense systems.
The terrifying concept of nuclear EMPs and their consequences.
The chilling reality of nuclear winter and its aftermath on those unlucky enough to survive the first blasts.
And much more...
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01:44:1628/03/2024
969: Scott Walker | Persuasion Tactics of a Hostage Negotiator
If you want to understand communication, emotional regulation, and bargaining under pressure, join us here with former hostage negotiator Scott Walker!
What We Discuss with Scott Walker:
The role of trust in successful negotiations.
How emotional intelligence plays into hostage negotiations.
The minimalist toolkit of a hostage negotiator.
Navigating legal and ethical boundaries in negotiations.
The perils of fame in kidnapping situations, and the importance of ransom discipline and social media caution.
And much more...
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01:27:0226/03/2024
968: Bottled Water | Skeptical Sunday
Does the $200 billion bottled water industry provide a superior product to what comes out of your tap? Andrew Gold investigates on this Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
Is the bottled water industry a $200 billion sham?
Fluoride in water: myths and facts.
Bottled vs. tap, and purified vs. filtered: quality, safety, and environmental impact.
The benefits of spring water over other types.
The dangers of drinking too much water.
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Connect with Andrew Gold on Twitter and Instagram, and check out On the Edge with Andrew Gold here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts!
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56:2624/03/2024
967: Dad's Years of Abuse Have Come Home to Roost | Feedback Friday
Now in his 80s, the abusive dad who made your life Hell is experiencing domestic violence at the hands of his younger wife. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Are you making the right decision, or are you making the decision right?
Now in his twilight years, the abusive dad who made your life Hell is experiencing domestic violence at the hands of his younger wife — though he would never admit to being victimized by a woman. What should you do?
You're great at actively listening and asking questions to keep a conversation rolling — until the focus turns to you. How do you develop confident storytelling skills that keep an audience engaged in what you have to say?
How do you manage your infatuation with multiple partners during the devil-may-care, badminton-driven casual dating phase you're going through?
Despite trying to resolve numerous points of family drama by doing the right thing, you have regrets that maybe you didn't do the right thing even better. As we review the circumstances, might you consider giving yourself a damn break?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
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01:27:2422/03/2024
966: Patrick Winn | Wa State: When a Drug Cartel Becomes a Country
How has a drug cartel operating as its own country thwarted hostile actions by its neighbors and the CIA? Narcotopia author Patrick Winn is here to explain!
What We Discuss with Patrick Winn:
Burma vs. Myanmar.
The CIA's role in Wa State's formation.
How Wa State went from a poppy-harvesting cartel to a self-sufficient, defense-capable narco nation.
The evolution of Wa State's drug branding and distribution that outsells Starbucks and McDonald's.
The future of Wa State and its potential global impact.
And much more...
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01:17:1919/03/2024
965: Seeking Repentance for Unfair Life Sentence | Feedback Friday
Your friend is legally chained to a life of debt for something he did in his youth. Is there an ethical way to ease his burden? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Your friend is legally chained to a life of debt for killing one person and disabling another when he fell asleep behind the wheel in his youth. While everyone agrees he should be held accountable, it seems cruel and unusual that his only hope for relief is death. Is there an ethical way to ease his burden? [Thanks to bankruptcy attorney Erin Hoskins for helping us with this one!]
On your big wedding day, how should you navigate the friction that's liable to happen between your trans brother, the other two members of his throuple, and your conservative family who doesn't get (or wants to get) how any of this works?
How do you tell your MS-diagnosed and newly unemployed roommate and his ever-present (but non-rent-paying) girlfriend to either find a new place, move back home, or start contributing more to household cleaning and maintenance?
Should you share unsupervised custody with your toxic, out-of-control, cheating ex who has exhibited countless episodes of poor judgment and domestic violence with the woman he left you for? Or should you trust your instincts and keep things the way they are?
Do we recommend any networking conferences that might help an ambitious 25-year-old learn more about himself, gain valuable experiences, and add perspective to his life?
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01:35:3815/03/2024
964: Miles Johnson | The Secret World of International Crime
How do globally organized criminals stay two steps ahead of the law? Chasing Shadows author Miles Johnson takes us into the underworld for answers!
What We Discuss with Miles Johnson:
The global impact of drug trafficking and sanctions busting.
How the DEA internationally operates more like the CIA than the FBI.
The Syrian conflict: a tangled web of alliances and interests.
Innovative low-tech money laundering schemes and the shadow economy.
The evolution of criminal networks and the role technology plays in their prosperity.
And much more...
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01:33:2614/03/2024
963: Charles Duhigg | Unlocking the Secret Language of Connection
How can we build rapport and optimize our connection with others? Supercommunicators author Charles Duhigg brings us the practical steps here!
What We Discuss with Charles Duhigg:
The three categories of conversation: practical, emotional, and social.
The biological underpinnings of communication — such as neural entrainment — that make humans unique.
How to become a better active listener through looping — ask a question, repeat back what you just heard the person say in your own words, and ask if you got it right.
The difference between matching and mimicry in communication — and which one will serve you better.
Understanding and overcoming stereotype threat.
And much more...
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01:36:4312/03/2024
962: Timeshares | Skeptical Sunday
Are timeshares ever not a scam? Kevin Rapp joins us for Skeptical Sunday to delve into their pros and cons without the high-pressure sales gauntlet!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
The hidden costs of timeshares.
The unconsidered benefits of timeshares.
The unexpected demographics of today's timeshare owners.
The trials and tribulations you'll probably face if you try to exit your timeshare investment.
Weighing the pros and cons — and reading the fine print — to decide if a timeshare might be right for you.
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53:5310/03/2024
961: Dark Prognosis of Friend's Postpartum Psychosis | Feedback Friday
Postpartum psychosis is a serious disorder that can make mothers kill their children. So why aren't we talking more about it? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
In the wise words of James Clear (and Adam Smith, probably): "Don't spend what you haven't earned."
A friend you've known for years killed her baby under the influence of a disorder called postpartum psychosis. The media is having a field day reporting her as a murderous monster, but why isn't it taking the opportunity to raise awareness of this condition so others can avoid repeating the nightmare she and her family are experiencing?
You're torn between the desire to maintain the happiness you have with your current partner and the longing for love with someone else who seems unattainable. How can you reconcile these conflicting emotions without hurting anyone?
Is there truth to the idea that your teen niece's father is "the kind of person" who might sexually assault her, or is your conspiracy-minded sister just paranoid about her ex having visitation rights? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]
How can you focus on networking and being authentic on a professional level when your Fortune 10 employer has you signing non-disclosure agreements that keep you from mentioning the nature of your work or even the name of your company?
Hey! We've got an update from the listener whose psychiatrist was hitting on her on episode 931!
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01:20:2208/03/2024
960: Amir Levine | Finding and Keeping Love with Attachment Science
What are attachment styles, and how can we understand them to find and keep love? Attached author Amir Levine is here to share what the science has to say!
What We Discuss with Amir Levine:
The four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and anxious-avoidant.
The influence genetics, environment, and upbringing have on these attachment styles.
How people tend to handle relationships based on their attachment style.
How the development of attachment styles has evolved over time.
What the dependency paradox is and how we can navigate it per our attachment style.
And much more...
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01:13:1705/03/2024
959: Freedom Hopes Dashed If They Find His Gun Stash | Feedback Friday
Your tax-evading husband was lucky enough to dodge prison, but the discovery of his secret gun stash could change that. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
At trial, your tax-evading husband was lucky enough to dodge prison for the sake of his family, but the discovery of his secret gun stash (which you uncovered by mistake) could change that. What should you do now that you know about it? [Thanks — again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]
Narcolepsy hasn't prevented you from achieving superior performance ratings while working from home, but now your job is pushing for a return to the office. How can you best make the case for a medical exception to maintain a win/win status quo? [Thanks to HR professional Joanna Tate for helping us with this one!]
Your borderline personality disorder-suffering stepdaughter's enabling father — your partner — has made it clear he'll always prioritize her needs over yours. Unfortunately, he doesn't want to put in the work to get her the treatment she needs to become someone you feel safe around — or have around your baby. What's your best move?
A colleague you once considered creatively combustive has become, at the helm, a toxic and tiresome lodestone to your organization. Should you join a coup to usurp his deteriorating grasp on the company's reins before all is lost, or give him a heads up that his leadership is in shambles?
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01:19:1001/03/2024
958: Alison Young | Lab Leaks, Pandemics, and a World at Risk
Did the COVID-19 pandemic start with a lab leak? Pandora's Gamble author Alison Young is here to crunch the numbers without entertaining conspiracies!
What We Discuss with Alison Young:
How often disease research lab leaks really occur.
Why even the world's best-run labs are susceptible to safety breaches.
The prevalence of disinformation campaigns to cover up, obscure, or misdirect lab leak blame.
What gain-of-function research is and why it's so controversial.
What we do and don't know about the possibility of the COVID-19 pandemic being the result of a lab leak in Wuhan, China.
And much more...
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01:14:1229/02/2024
957: Arthur Brooks | The Art and Science of Getting Happier
If happiness is a direction rather than a destination, how can we ensure we're enjoying the ride? Build the Life You Want co-author Arthur Brooks guides us!
What We Discuss with Arthur Brooks:
Understanding happiness as a direction rather than a destination.
The dangers of victim mentality and culture wars.
The pitfalls of betting on others to change.
Fluid vs. crystallized intelligence.
How we can nurture our emotional intelligence and shift focus from achievement-based self-objectification to self-awareness.
And much more...
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01:26:5227/02/2024
956: Cannabis | Skeptical Sunday
What are the social, political, and medical ramifications of cannabis use? Michael Regilio is the Chong to Jordan's Cheech on this Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
The historical use of cannabis in the Middle Ages and colonial times.
The criminalization of cannabis in the 20th century and the slow reversal of its prohibition.
The effects of THC and CBD.
Why modern cannabis is so much more potent than the strains our parents used to sneak.
The benefits of legal cannabis.
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53:4325/02/2024
955: Romance Twister: My Mister Once Dated My Sister | Feedback Friday
How do you get over the icky discovery that your boyfriend briefly dated your sister before she kicked him to the curb? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
How do you get over the icky discovery that your boyfriend briefly dated your sister a couple of years ago before she kicked him to the curb for character flaws he seems to have developed past?
You don't regret cutting off ties with the drug-addicted mother who traumatized you your entire life, but how can you help your teenage siblings who are currently subjected to her abuse without backtracking into the darkness yourself?
It turns out you don't really love the field for which your degree prepared you, nor the company you've been with for the past four years. How can you get a fresh start in another career without beginning back at square one?
Is there a socially acceptable way to intervene when you overhear an MLM scammer trying to recruit a stranger into their diabolical web of nonsense?
How do you get your employers to see you as indispensable while cultivating the resilience to persevere even if you do get laid off?
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01:20:4023/02/2024
954: Dr. Ramani | Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
How can you identify and heal from the narcissistic people who inflict themselves upon your life? It's Not You author Dr. Ramani Durvasula rejoins us to find out!
What We Discuss with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:
The impact of narcissism on relationships.
The narcissist's perception of themselves and others.
The influence of status and social media on narcissism.
The struggles of dealing with a narcissist.
The role of culture in narcissistic behavior.
And much more...
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01:28:3720/02/2024
953: We Did the Math — Our Colleague's a Sociopath | Feedback Friday
Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough, but he's also a doctor. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath, drunk, and drug addict who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough — but he also happens to be a doctor who controls the fate of countless lives. Now that this has been uncovered, what happens next?
Caring for your criminally violent nine-year-old adopted brother puts your aging parents in danger. Is there a compromise that would ensure their safety without abandoning him to the foster system that failed him? [Thanks to licensed marriage and family therapist Nancy Yen for helping us with this one!]
A legal battle with a contentious, antagonistic coworker exacerbates your struggles with PTSD and anxiety. Quitting your job over this seems like the only way to stop sharing uncomfortable space with this guy, but what are your options?
Though it's contributed to a more positive overall attitude that's improved your life significantly and helped you kick alcohol, you worry that vaping small doses of synthetic, legal cannabis derivative HHC has you hooked. Does the good outweigh the bad here, or is your concern warranted? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us with this one!]
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01:21:0816/02/2024
952: Adam Grant | The Science of Tapping Into Your Hidden Potential
When we lack a sense of natural talent, how can we unlock our ability to excel? Find out on this episode with Hidden Potential author Adam Grant!
What We Discuss with Adam Grant:
When you're going through the repetitive steps necessary to learn a new skill, how can you turn the daily grind into a source of daily joy?
Why learning from an expert mentor is not necessarily the best path to success.
What are character skills, and why are they more important than cognitive skills or talent when it comes to succeeding?
How did a pair of hyperpolyglots go from repeatedly failing to retain languages to speaking dozens fluently?
Why we should seek advice we can act upon rather than feedback that only identifies our cheerleaders and critics.
And much more...
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01:26:0615/02/2024
951: Anna Lembke | Finding Dopamine Balance in the Age of Indulgence
Dopamine Nation author Anna Lembke helps us understand why it's difficult to resist the temptations of a world designed to exploit our pursuit of pleasure.
What We Discuss with Anna Lembke:
The neuroscience of addiction and the role dopamine plays in keeping us hooked.
How modern society's unrestricted indulgence in pleasurable substances and behaviors can lead to addictive tendencies and the gratification of constant dopamine release.
The pros and cons of using psychedelics.
The impact of resource scarcity on instant gratification.
The need to address underlying conditions for effective addiction treatment.
And much more...
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01:19:5413/02/2024
950: Emergency Medical Services | Skeptical Sunday
Why is relying on Emergency Medical Services (EMS) liable to send your bank balance to the morgue? Michael Regilio joins us on Skeptical Sunday to find out!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
Unlike police and fire departments, emergency medical services (EMS) are not deemed essential across most of the US — which means they're often underfunded and struggling to provide adequate care.
Insurance policies commonly omit coverage for EMS-provided ambulance rides, making them cost-prohibitive for the people who often need them the most.
Even the EMTs who staff EMS outfits are underpaid and can't usually afford to make use of them without going into the red.
Who profits from the status quo of the broken EMS system, and why is it so hard to enact the reforms necessary to have providers declared essential?
What can we do to educate and advocate for the overhauls necessary to make EMS viable for everyone?
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42:1911/02/2024
949: Justice in the Mix for Pervert-in-Law from 796 | Feedback Friday
The blackmail victim from episode 796 reports that the brother-in-law who wronged her is now in custody and awaiting justice. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
The blackmail victim from episode 796 reports that the brother-in-law who wronged her is now in custody and awaiting justice. What happens next? [Thanks — again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]
When loved ones won't take the meds they need to function (at the expense of their family), what can you do?
After listening to episode 807 with Siddharth Kara, where can you send used, rechargeable lithium-ion batteries to be recycled?
Horrible mom lives her life like it's prom. How do you get her to wake up to reality? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]
When it comes to conspiracy theories, how do you tell the difference between the possible and the impossible?
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01:29:0309/02/2024
948: Kashmir Hill | Is Privacy Dead in the Age of Facial Recognition?
Are the benefits of facial recognition technology worth their societal cost? Your Face Belongs to Us author Kashmir Hill weighs the pros and cons here!
What We Discuss with Kashmir Hill:
What is facial recognition technology, and how does it work?
What are the positive use cases for facial recognition technology?
How accurate is facial recognition technology, and what happens when it confidently misidentifies someone (or is used unethically by those with access to the keys)?
Who is pushing for the proliferation of facial recognition technology, and what do they stand to gain from it?
Is there a middle ground between the outright banning of facial recognition technology and completely allowing it to keep tabs on us in a world where privacy is a quaint relic of a bygone era?
And much more...
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01:14:2106/02/2024
947: Getting Back on Track After Cyberbully's Attack | Feedback Friday
How do you get your life back on track after it was disrupted so thoroughly by a cyberbully's campaign to ruin your reputation? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Motion feels like progress. Action is progress.
How do you get your life back on track after it was disrupted so thoroughly by a cyberbully's campaign to ruin your reputation?
What can you do to help your fallen-behind friend excel when it seems like he doesn't want to take the first steps toward helping himself?
You send your two brothers and their kids gifts each year for Christmas, but they don't want to exchange even rudimentary gifts with you. Is it unreasonable to experience inexplicably intense feelings about this?
How do you address the feelings of guilt, cynicism, and responsibility that accompany your work monitoring sex offenders and ensuring they don't re-offend?
Jordan got kidnapped twice so you don't have to! A listener shares how listening to this show saved his family from almost getting abducted in a land far from home.
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01:10:1302/02/2024
946: Michael McQueen | Mastering the Art of Changing Minds
Is polite persuasion impossible among the presently polarized populace? Mindstuck: Mastering the Art of Changing Minds author Michael McQueen has answers!
What We Discuss with Michael McQueen:
Despite technological advances that have changed how we communicate, the psychology that dictates our persuasion, decision-making, and thinking remains the same.
The effects of rationalizing our existing beliefs and the power of our expectations and perceptions.
The importance of not defining ourselves by our opinions.
Practical persuasion techniques such as priming and the power of sequence, as well as the effectiveness — and associated dangers — of using fear as a persuasive tool.
How an understanding of these concepts can improve our ability to communicate and persuade — even when society seems hopelessly polarized (and doubly so during an election year).
And much more...
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01:36:0430/01/2024
945: Estranged from Son for What His Sister's Done | Feedback Friday
The ex-wife turned your son against you because you called the cops when her daughter was caught on camera stealing from you. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
The ex-wife manipulated your son against you because you called the cops when her daughter was caught on camera stealing from you. Now he refuses to talk to you. What can you do?
Is there a way to accept the job offer two states over that pays $60,000 more than you were making while sharing custody of your 16-year-old daughter who graduates in 18 months?
Ever since you were young, networking and building relationships have made you uncomfortable, and you've always felt like you're inconveniencing people by contacting them. You think it may have to do with time spent around a volatile, negative sister during your formative years. How can you overcome this?
Dr. Carl Hart claims that drugs like heroin, crack cocaine, and crystal meth can, when used responsibly, enhance a person's life in a variety of ways, such as helping married couples become closer. Well, in spite of losing your mother to heroin six years ago, you thought you might benefit from giving it a try — to disastrous results. While you're currently in recovery, you wanted to share your story with others to spare them from making the same mistake based on this "expert's" advice.
Working at a large company, you're sick of watching so many others around you get promoted while you continue to languish in the middle ranks. And ever since failing to pass a grueling interview gauntlet for a leadership position, your morale has been drained. How can you heal this emotional wound?
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01:22:2226/01/2024
944: Zach Weinersmith | Out-of-This-World Hurdles to Colonizing Mars
What hurdles must humanity face before it can inhabit the final frontier? A City on Mars co-author Zach Weinersmith is here to ground us with the facts.
What We Discuss with Zach Weinersmith:
How tethered to reality are Elon Musk's grand plans for the human colonization of Mars? Shouldn't we focus on ensuring the sustainability of our current world before investing in centuries-long efforts to squeeze life out of a dead planet?
With current technology, how well can human bodies be protected against prolonged exposure to radiation, extreme temperature fluctuation, and lesser gravity on the Red Planet and the Lunar surface?
The economics of farming, mining, and extracting resources in space.
The political, legal, and ethical considerations of space colonization.
If now's not the most prudent time to hurl our species into the cold, uncaring void, then when?
And much more...
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01:27:2523/01/2024
943: Still Loves His Bride But Seeks Sex on the Side | Feedback Friday
You love your wife, but a surgical mishap makes sex painful for her. Is there an ethical way to have your needs met elsewhere? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Have some good stories about your most embarrassing moments that you wouldn't mind us featuring on a future Feedback Friday? Please share with us at [email protected] (and we'll share some of our own as well)!
You love your wife, but a surgical mishap makes sex too painful for her. She once joked that maybe you should find a girlfriend to help you in that department, so you did — and it didn't go over as well as you might have hoped. Is there an ethical way to have your needs met elsewhere?
An addendum to the statute of limitations in your state has you considering taking legal action against your father — who abused you when you were still a child. Would it be worth the time, energy, and money to do so at this point? [Once again, thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer another difficult one!]
You're financially reliant on your judgmental mother who has withdrawn her support in the past when she felt your values didn't align with hers. How can you get out from under her thumb in what's thus far proven to be a brutally barren job market for your particular set of skills?
As a "nice" boss, how can you cultivate the ability to share feedback with your employees that will foster their growth as professionals without feeling like you're nitpicking at their imperfections?
You're no stranger to the indispensable power of therapy, but you've found yourself making excuses to avoid it ever since the death of a close friend last year hit you hard. What can you do to stop procrastinating and get the professional help you need? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]
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01:21:1419/01/2024
942: Ken Adams | The Confusing Dynamics of Covert Incest
How does emotional enmeshment (aka covert incest) with a parent shape our mental health and relationships? Dr. Ken Adams is here to help us understand.
What We Discuss with Dr. Ken Adams:
What enmeshment is, and how it entwines family members in an emotionally unhealthy way.
How enmeshment dictates the course of future relationships.
The connection between enmeshment and abuse.
The underlying causes for enmeshment to take hold.
How to spot enmeshment and begin the process of healing from its repercussions.
And much more...
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01:04:4716/01/2024
941: Yearning for Abusive Ex Leaves You Perplexed | Feedback Friday
It would be wise to avoid your domestically violent ex and her creepy, extorting family, so why do you want her back so much? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
It would be wise to avoid your domestically violent ex and her creepy, extorting family, so why do you want her back so much?
You worked hard to 10x your income and upgrade life for you and your family, but your wife and kids disrespect and destroy whatever nice things you try to buy for them. What can you do?
To diversify and expand your network, you're wondering if contacting a current or past professional client outside of the work setting is okay. If so, what boundaries should be observed?
A listener thinks we may have been unfair in our assessment of the abusive ex from the lead story in episode 926. We respond — and explain how we weigh the narrative of any story that's shared with us!
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
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01:14:5912/01/2024
940: Byron Reese | Humanity's Mysterious Journey from Antiquity to AI
How coded into our DNA are the universal innovations that have driven human history globally? Futurist Byron Reese shares what he's uncovered here!
What We Discuss with Byron Reese:
Why innovations that increase productivity are always good for humans — because they won't steal and devalue our jobs, but create more than we can fill.
Why did it only take humanity three generations to get from the Wright Brothers' first flight at Kitty Hawk to landing on the moon, but our ancestors endured 80,000 generations using the same stone tool without modification?
How much does civilization owe to the advent of language?
Why are ancient cave paintings found around the world so eerily similar — down to stenciled human hands with missing fingers?
What can we learn about our species and its intrinsic coding by studying the communication patterns of honeybees, ants, and other insects?
And much more...
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01:08:3909/01/2024
939: Teen Blackmailed in the Buff Has Suffered Enough | Feedback Friday
The high school principal wants your girlfriend's nude photo for his 'investigation' into the hacker who got her to send it. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Is it odd that the high school principal wants your girlfriend's nude photo for his 'investigation' into the blackmailing hacker who — posing as you — convinced her to send it? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for getting us out of yet another pickle!]
You spent four years getting a degree in a field that isn't hiring at the pay rate you're worth. Should you forge the path forward by starting your own business, continue working for peanuts, or just give up and go for a new degree?
Your wife doesn't buy your estranged father's attempts to make nice with your family — since his dire medical diagnosis — as anything more than a narcissistic compulsion to regain power in the relationship. Does she have a point, or has Dad really turned over a new leaf?
As an entrepreneurial woman building your successful business over the past 10 years, you find that clients seem to expect a level of personal involvement or interest above and beyond the service you're providing. How can you get them to respect your boundaries without sending them to the competition?
You don't mean to come off as a closed book when meeting new people, but you have trouble understanding when it's appropriate to share thoughts and details from your personal life or keep them to yourself. How can you strike the right balance?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
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Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/939
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01:13:3005/01/2024
938: The Worst Part of Waking up Is Sis Is in a Cult | Feedback Friday
Your sister's life is dominated by a coffee kibbutz cult. What can you do to make her see the light and come back to reality? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Your sister's life is dominated by a coffee kibbutz cult. What can you do to make her see the light and return to reality? [Thanks, again, to Corbin Payne for giving us some guidance with this one!]
As we close out 2023, we wanted to take a few minutes to look back at the year-in-doozies, talk about a few of the interesting themes that came up a lot, and just sit back and warm our hands on the collective dumpster fire you guys started in our inbox!
How do you intervene when you know your HIV-positive ex is sleeping around and not disclosing his status?
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Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/938
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01:07:4029/12/2023
937: Oliver Stone | Nuclear Now
Nuclear Now director Oliver Stone joins us to advocate for nuclear power as a better alternative to wind, solar, and other green energy solutions.
What We Discuss with Oliver Stone:
The history of nuclear energy and the political factors that influence its usage.
Lessons learned from Fukushima, Chornobyl, and Three Mile Island.
How nuclear power compares to wind, solar, hydro, and other green energy alternatives.
The influence the fossil fuel industry wields over energy alternatives of any kind.
What a future fueled by safe, sustainable nuclear power might look like.
And much more...
Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/937
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47:0026/12/2023
936: Family Can't Know About Sister's OnlyFans Show | Feedback Friday
The accidental discovery of your sister's OnlyFans show has you worried it's only a matter of time before the family finds out. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
The accidental discovery of your sister's OnlyFans show has you worried it's only a matter of time before the family finds out. What can you do to keep this from erupting into a full-blown scandal?
When it threatens someone's employment, how can a false report to the understaffed, overwhelmed, and overworked Department of Child Services be contested? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us with another sticky situation!]
How can you gracefully leave a new job that makes you miserable without jeopardizing relationships with the friendly insiders who supported your hiring?
How can you tell if a ghostwriter — who offers to pen the story of your life for a flat, up-front fee — is legitimate?
How do you have the birds-and-the-bees talk with your kids when the message you want to convey differs from the "abstinence only" message their other parent favors?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.
Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/936
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57:0622/12/2023
935: Ben Macintyre | Escaping from a Nazi Fortress Prison
Join us for adventure with Ben Macintyre, author of Prisoners of the Castle: An Epic Story of Survival and Escape from Colditz, the Nazis' Fortress Prison!
What We Discuss with Ben Macintyre:
How Germany's Colditz Castle — around in some form or another since 1046 — came to serve as a Nazi POW camp for high-ranking officers of the Western Allies during World War II.
How concentrating Allied officers who had previously escaped from other camps — or were deemed to be a high-security risk — into one place turned Colditz into a highly competitive "escape university."
Why the hodgepodge layout of Colditz (known as Oflag IV-C during the war) made it a terribly inefficient prison — from which more than 30 successful escape attempts were made between 1939 and 1945.
Plans for more than 300 escape attempts made over the years involved everything from clever disguises to hand-dug tunnels to a glider made from bedsteads, floorboards, cotton sheets, and porridge.
What happened to Colditz and its prisoners after the war?
And much more...
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01:05:0321/12/2023
934: Houthis in Yemen | Out of the Loop
Who are Yemen's Houthis, and what threat do they pose to us here in the West? Intelligence analyst Ryan McBeth brings us in from Out of the Loop.
Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.
On This Episode of Out of the Loop, We Discuss:
Though the group from which they originate has been around for thousands of years, why are the Houthis in Yemen suddenly making headlines and drawing attention from the West?
How Iran benefits from (allegedly) arming the Houthis to fight a proxy war against Saudi Arabia's influence in the region.
Why Yemen is a crucial link in the global supply chain — and how it enriches whoever is able to control it.
Why the well-funded Saudi military has a difficult time keeping the Houthis in check.
Possible global consequences of the recent Houthi attacks on shipping in the Red Sea.
And much more!
Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on an Out of the Loop episode, drop Jordan a line at [email protected] and let him know!
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55:1719/12/2023
933: Are You Fine After Fire or a Trauma Denier? | Feedback Friday
Are you really fine after a fire consumed your home and all you owned, or is there trauma you’re still taking time to process? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let’s dive in!
On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
How did the GiveDirectly campaign to raise money for two villages in Kenya go (introduced by Rory Stewart on episode 867)? We’d say pretty well, actually! — and you can still help transform the lives of people in poverty by giving directly. Through December 31st, all donations will be doubled until $250k in match funds pledged by 21 donors run out. This is a true match, so any unused match funds expire after midnight ET on New Year’s Eve.
Are you really fine after a fire consumed your home and all you owned, or is there trauma you’re still taking time to process?
In the aftermath of your breakup, you sought therapy to cope while your ex-fiancée took a more questionable series of approaches that involved accusing you of abuse. Despite residual negativity, you remain hopeful you might be able to mend your differences and rekindle the relationship. Is this just wishful thinking?
While you’d love to honor your late father’s memory by attaching his name to a sizeable donation you made to a charity in your close-knit town, you’re wondering if leaving it anonymous and remaining invisible might be the wiser choice.
Your addiction-struggling brother chose drugs over visiting your mother in the hospital when she was terminally ill, leaving you to make end-of-life decisions per her wishes. Now that she’s gone, he’s loudly proclaiming to anyone who will listen that you killed her. How should you handle this?
A listener shares how he’s translated some of our advice into real-world application.
Have any questions, comments, or stories you’d like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
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56:1115/12/2023
932: Mike Kelland | A Planetary Approach to Fixing the Climate Crisis
What novel scientific breakthroughs will bring us back from the brink of total climate catastrophe? Mike Kelland of Planetary Technologies explains here!
What We Discuss with Mike Kelland:
The regressive consequences of climate change denial (and why the climate crisis isn't a hoax no matter what your nutty uncle said throughout the entirety of Thanksgiving dinner).
The role carbon plays in climate change.
Current and projected methods of removing carbon from the environment.
How Ocean Alkalinity Enhancement (OAE) enables the ocean to safely capture excess atmospheric carbon while combating the effects of ocean acidification.
The role of companies in accelerating carbon removal.
And much more...
Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/932
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01:07:5612/12/2023