Many believe that knowing how to compromise is an important part of marriage. But what if you’ve been compromising with your husband for years and things aren’t getting any better? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to stop compromising and what to do instead. My guest Britny’s marriage felt beyond repair because of infidelity on both parts and separation. He was so cold and hurtful to her that she wasn’t convinced there was anything to save. But today she says her marriage is better than ever, and that her husband is continuously telling her sweet things and how amazing she is. They are truly happy and close! She’s going to tell us how she did that. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week comes from the co-worker of one of my students and is truly cruel and judgmental.

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It’s natural to want to talk about your feelings with your man and to want him to share his feelings with you. But what if the only feeling he ever expresses is that he’s hungry? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 4 ways to have deep conversations with your man. If you’ve ever felt like your husband would rather spend time on his phone or computer instead of being with you, you’re not alone. My guest Connie’s husband would ignore her often, and instead of getting help and attention from him, all they did was fight. Connie had some insights that helped her to transform her marriage into the amazing relationship it is today and she’s going to share with us exactly what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week claims to know what the secret is to a happy relationship but it couldn’t be farther from the truth.

It’s often said that what you focus on increases, and in my experience, that’s especially true in marriage. I’ve seen women transform their relationships simply by focusing on what they want. But do you really have as much influence as you think? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about the law of attraction for relationships. My guest Juliana finally married the man of her dreams. But soon her marriage started to fall apart and he moved out of her house. She’s going to share with us exactly what she did to save her marriage! The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week claims that marriages are supposed to take an unusual trajectory.

Discovering that your husband has been unfaithful brings up a range of emotions from anger to denial to sadness. It calls into question if there’s ever hope for restoring your marriage after such a betrayal. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about recovering from an affair: the ultimate guide to healing. In the beginning, my guest Michelle and her husband would fight about the conflict that his daughter was causing. But then she discovered something even more painful — she learned that her husband had another woman. Michelle decided to fight for her marriage and now things are better than ever. She’s going to share with us how she did it so you can save your relationship too! The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week suggests that punishing your husband will get you what you want.

Do you have a desire to grow your family but your husband isn’t so keen on it? Believe it or not, there are several things you can do to help him warm up to the idea. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to get your husband to want a baby. My guest Liz, a licensed marriage and family counselor for 35 years, was on her way to a second divorce after being told her husband had a narcissistic personality disorder. People around her thought she should leave him, but today Liz’s marriage is fun, intimate and full of laughter. She’s going to share with us exactly what she did to transform her relationship. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week encourages you to give your husband feedback like a business partner.

Does your husband seem grumpy, depressed or distant? If you wish you knew the secret to making your man happy and having the marriage of your dreams, you’re not alone. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about the 5 relationship hacks all women should know but don’t. My guest Shannon and her husband have been in love since high school but found themselves fighting a lot. After going to counseling and classes they felt exhausted and just as distant as they were before. Shannon knew she had to try something different and today, her marriage is full of fun and she feels taken care of. Today she’s going to share with us exactly what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week only amplifies fears and encourages drama.

I often hear women who are struggling to save their marriage say that their husband isn’t interested in working on their relationship. How can you try to salvage what you once had when you’re the only one trying to fix things? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to save your marriage when he won’t even try. My guest Christy was in an unhappy marriage with a man who acted like a jerk. They divorced after 29 years when he left her for another woman. Today, she has a sparkling diamond ring from that very same man who she just recently remarried! She’s going to share with us how she attracted him back and what her marriage is like now. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week claims that divorce can be the key to happiness.

Most married couples have a fight every now and again, but what if you and your husband seem to be replaying the same disagreement over and over again? Sometimes it can be enough to make you question if the relationship is worth it and leaves you feeling distant and upset. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to recover from a fight. My guest Maria’s marriage is happy, warm, and safe but it wasn’t always that way. She had a huge problem with her husband’s drinking and it led to lots of arguments and cold wars. Today she’s going to tell us exactly what changed in her relationship — and wait until you hear about what happened with the drinking! The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week says that a boundary of “no more cheating” will help to save your marriage.

While we know that there’s no such thing as “normal,” it makes sense to want to compare our relationship to others. How can you overcome the shame that’s associated with marriage breakdowns and discover if what goes on in your house is common? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to know if your relationship is normal. My guest Jennifer didn’t fight much with her husband but still felt miles apart from him in their home. The silence was deafening and she wondered if they would always be so distant. Today Jennifer and her man are a team again and she feels taken care of and loved. She’s going to tell us how things changed for the better. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week tries to tackle narcissism in the worst possible way.

If you feel like your marriage has been broken for so long that it’s too hard to fix, you’re not alone. But what if there was a way to restore peace and intimacy without wearing yourself out? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 3 ways to fix a broken marriage. My guest Martha already felt like a single mom as her husband was usually withdrawn and always on his phone. When he took a job out of town, things got even worse. Today, Martha’s marriage is nothing short of a dream with a husband who’s playful, protective, attentive, and who loves taking her out on dates. She’s going to tell us how her whole family dynamic changed. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week sounds reasonable but doesn’t get you very far.

Does it feel like your list of chores is neverending? Are you the only one doing things the way they actually should be done? Most women are surprised to learn that you can end the cycle of feeling lonely and exhausted by doing one simple thing. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about the most powerful intimacy skill. My guest Whitney constantly felt wounded, criticized, and unappreciated by her husband. Years ago she built up an emotional wall and eventually began to tear it down, but ultimately she wanted to fall back in love with her man again. Today she enjoys a marriage that’s filled with peace, love, and appreciation and she’s going to tell us what she did to make that happen. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week aims at romance but falls short.

Does it feel like every problem you have in your marriage turns into a never-ending power struggle? What if there was a way to end this back and forth easily and get what you want? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 3 steps to end the exhausting tug of war forever. My guest Rebecca’s husband was incredibly controlling and didn’t seem to care about her happiness at all. Yet after changing her perspective, she now gets to enjoy him fulfilling her desires and making her dreams come true. Rebecca’s going to tell us what she did to inspire her man. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week encourages criticism and complaining.

The word “feminist” often gets a bad name, yet many women feel torn between wanting to succeed in the workplace while still appearing feminine and soft. Can you have both, or will “feminist” always sound angry and harsh? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 3 ways to be a feminine feminist. When her husband had an emotional affair with a woman from work, my guest Rae thought her marriage was over. She insisted he end things, which he did, and wanted him to admit his wrongdoing. He wouldn’t, and soon he started texting with a different woman. Rae gave him an ultimatum and began a transformation that eventually brought her to the happy marriage she’d dreamed of. She’s going to walk us through exactly what happened. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week turns sexy time into a chore.

Does it feel like no matter how much you say to your husband, he just doesn’t understand where you’re coming from? We’re told that communication is the key to a successful relationship, but what if talking does more harm than good? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 5 hacks for communicating with men so they hear you and get you. My guest Stephanie so badly wanted to transform her marriage that she was willing to do anything but her husband was completely uncooperative. Not only did they have children but they also worked together, making her home life and job feel out of control. She decided to do things differently and is now enjoying a beautiful new phase in all areas of her life. Today Stephanie’s going to share exactly what changed. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week encourages us to be more virtuous than is necessary.

Do you find yourself wishing your marriage was happier? Many women feel like improving their marriage is an overwhelming task, but what if I told you there’s only one thing you need to do to create a transformation of your own? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about the #1 way to make your marriage happier. If you have anxiety around your marriage you’re not alone. When my guest Suzzen started making some changes, her husband responded with suspicion. As time went on things became calmer and now her home is one that’s full of peace. She’s going to share with us what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week gives preparation a bad name.

Many women have experienced going to marriage counseling when their relationship was struggling, but far fewer have worked with a relationship coach. What’s the difference and how can you use a coach’s wisdom to help your own marriage? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 3 secrets great relationship coaches know. My guest Kathy is one of the world’s best relationship coaches and she’s going to share the most impactful ways to transform your marriage. What does a master coach know that can help you to feel special, taken care of and adored? Kathy’s going to tell us today, so make sure to take notes! The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week makes marriage sound like a chore.

There’s nothing more painful than hearing your husband say he doesn’t love you anymore. But does this mean that you should give up all hope of having a happy marriage or can your relationship be saved? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to make your husband love you again. My guest Tsippi was trying so hard to save her marriage that she built up an immense amount of resentment toward her husband, and after all of her hard work, she was able to improve things temporarily. Then they experienced a heartbreaking tragedy and her marriage was tested in an even bigger way. Today she’s going to share with us what happened. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week actually encourages you to fight with your man.

Does it feel like the only thing wrong with your marriage is your mother-in-law? Whether she tries to tell you how to do everything or it seems like she downright hates you, having a tense relationship with your MIL can put a strain on your marriage. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about what to do with your monster-in-law. My guest Tiffany felt trapped in her second marriage as there was constant tension between her daughter and her husband. She started to give up hope that they would ever become a happy family, but after starting some new practices, she saw things shift for the better. Today she’s going to share with us how her marriage went from tense to soft and loving. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week claims that marriage should be treated as a business arrangement.

Does it feel as if no matter how hard you work, your husband doesn’t give you the appreciation you deserve? Instead of telling him about all of the things you do to make his life easier, there’s a better way to get his recognition. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 3 ways to get more love. When my guest Jodie’s marriage was drained of both emotional and physical intimacy, she feared that she’d never feel close to her husband again. Instead of giving up, she transformed her relationship into one that’s warm and full of affection, and she’s showing her kids what a happy marriage looks like. Today she’s going to share how she did that. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week encourages couples to bare their souls even when it might not be appropriate.

If it’s been a long time since you’ve felt sexy or desired by your man, you might think that changing it is completely out of your control. But what if I told you that you had the power to put the spark back in your sex life? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to attract your husband in bed. My guest Danni was heartbroken when she discovered her husband was having an affair with the receptionist. After the holidays, he planned to leave, but Danni convinced him to go to marriage counseling. She decided to make some changes as they headed toward divorce, and now their marriage is incredible. Danni’s going to tell us exactly what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is full of judgment and rarely leads to a happy ending.

We’re often told that setting boundaries is healthy for our relationships, not just with our husbands but with friends, family and coworkers. But what if I told you that boundaries may not always look the way you’ve envisioned? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about 5 bogus facts about boundaries. Have you ever been caught between your parents and your husband? My guest Raseena was as she constantly tried to make everyone happy while attempting to be the Perfect Wife. Today her marriage is far more relaxed and her husband and family get along much better. She’ll share how this transformation happened. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week encourages a take it or leave it approach that’s truly repulsive.

At first glance it might not seem like watching a movie with your man would do much to help your relationship. However, you’d be surprised at the intimacy you can build in the short time it takes to watch your favorite flick. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about the 5 best date movies for fixing your relationship. Does your marriage feel like a struggle? Are you exhausted from shouldering the bulk of the parenting responsibilities? My guest Rebecca felt that exact same way and it lead to lots of resentment toward her husband. Today, she’s grateful for her man, who happens to now write her love songs. She’s going to share with us what changed. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week tries to bring a business mindset into your relationship and only leads to fighting.

Many people believe that when their relationship is on the rocks, going to marriage counseling is the only way to fix it. However, this “help” is often not helpful at all and can make things even worse. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about four things about marriage counseling that will blow your mind. After experiencing 30 years of loneliness and yelling from her narcissistic husband, my guest RoxAnne decided to transform her marriage. She went from the brink of divorce to now enjoying a husband who puts his phone away so he can spend time with her and who clears the table after dinner. RoxAnne’s going to share exactly what she did so you too can revitalize your marriage. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week paints disagreements in black and white without leaving any room for compromise. 

Does it seem like your husband is lazy, complains a lot, or doesn’t want to spend time with you? What if none of these things were true no matter how much evidence you think you had? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about three things wives get wrong about husbands. My guest Judith found that after 40 years of marriage, living with her husband felt more like a business arrangement than anything else. Sure it was convenient and reliable, but she missed the joy, passion and fun. Now, her relationship is even better than when they first met, and she’s going to share exactly what she did to create this huge transformation. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is often given to couples but instead of it encouraging vulnerability, it actually makes things worse.

No matter how lonely or sad you feel in your marriage, the threat of getting a divorce is even more upsetting. How can you revive your relationship even if things are completely falling apart? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to cope with the threat of divorce. My guest Abby’s husband left her four months ago and said there was no way they would be able to reconcile. She wasn’t even sure if she wanted to save her marriage due to the hurtful things he said to her. Today, Abby’s husband is telling her how deeply in love he is and the two of them have plans to start a family. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is filled with judgment and devoid of hope.

Does your husband watch TV constantly or spend all his free time in the garage? If the days of spending time together are long gone, it’s natural to want to get his attention again. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to inspire him to seek your company. Are you resentful and angry that your husband always puts you down, says you’re wrong or even criticizes your parenting? My guest Inga was but then she got a glimpse of hope that showed her how she could single-handedly improve her marriage. Today she’s going to share with us exactly what she did! The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is terrible but the fact that it comes from a widely syndicated columnist makes it even worse.

While we may not like to admit it, we’ve all experienced a time or two where our anger got the best of us. But what if you have a consistent anger management issue and it’s affecting your marriage? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to stop raging for good. Feeling lonely, attacked and criticized had become the norm in my guest Shanit’s marriage, and even after she begged and pleaded for her husband to stay, he only came home to sleep. Today, he follows her around the house just to be with her and she’s going to share exactly how she created her peaceful and passionate relationship. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week starts more fights than stops them and imparts a sense of false hope.

When was the last time your husband gave you the silent treatment? Whether it was yesterday or years ago, the hurt you feel can be palpable. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about three steps to stop the silent treatment. My guest Ritu figured her husband was going through a midlife crisis when he never seemed to have time for her or their family and instead focused solely on work. She felt lost and hurt and was shocked when he said he no longer had the same feelings for her as he once did. However, Ritu made another kind of discovery that saved her marriage and she’s going to share with us exactly what she learned. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week brings to light just how important it is for us to learn from those who practice what they teach.

Does the thought of being vulnerable in your relationship make you weak in the knees? While it seems scary, it can actually help you to be more authentic and more attractive. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to be loved the way you are. It can be hard to pinpoint where things are going wrong when you’re absolutely drowning under a million responsibilities like my guest Katharine. Her husband was distant and didn’t help much, leaving her confused and tired. Today, Katharine’s marriage is full of love and support and she’s going to share with us exactly what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is dispensed left and right by practically everyone you know but doesn’t really help when you get down to it.

Have you ever felt consumed by worry or anxiety in your marriage? It can be hard to make decisions when you’re unsure of what the future has in store. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to stop worrying about your relationship. My guest Holly had read practically every relationship book ever published but still found her and her husband having the same fight over and over. After 30 years of marriage, she felt betrayed by his addictive behavior. Every weekend of theirs used to be ruined, but not anymore. She’s going to share what she did to transform her marriage into one that’s playful and light. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week comes from a professional who’s trying to offer validation but instead, following their advice usually leads to more conflict.

Have you ever been told that you were controlling when all you were trying to do was help? Sometimes it can be tough to tell the difference between the two. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to recognize the 15 signs you’re not controlling. My guest Ann found that fights with her angry, distant husband often landed her crying in the bathroom and left her marriage feeling like a minefield. Her husband didn’t seem to care about her and always wanted sex, resulting in Ann feeling used and unheard. Today, her marriage is filled with peace and passion, and she’s going to tell us exactly what she did to transform it. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week appears respectful on the surface but uses one small word that can spell out big trouble for your marriage.

We all love to hear praise from those we care about, but what can you do if your husband never compliments you? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re going to discuss three things you can do that will inspire your husband to compliment you more. My guest Deb was abandoned by her first husband and things were tense, lonely, and hostile in her second marriage. Together with her pastor husband, they had a blended family of 9 children, so there was a lot at stake! Deb shares how a solo road trip was the start of a healing transformation in her marriage, one that’s now a source of strength. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week means well, but there are actually several fundamental problems with it that contribute to making your marriage worse.

What would you do if you found out your husband cheated on you? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we’re talking about four important steps to take once you’ve found out that your man has been unfaithful. My guest Michaela was exhausted from trying to sift through her husband’s lies and betrayal but she truly wanted to save her marriage. She found a solution and says that her relationship with her husband is now amazing! Today she’ll share with us exactly what she did. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is so frustrating to even think about that I’m not surprised it doesn’t work. In fact, it probably makes things in your marriage worse instead of better, despite so-called marriage experts claiming that it should fix things.

How can you make your relationship better without your husband even knowing what you did? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we’re talking about how to take your relationship up a few notches - and your husband won’t even realize what changed! My guest Sara was resentful that her husband was weak, didn’t take initiative, and didn’t know how to discipline their children because he didn’t have a backbone. She knew he had a lot of issues to work through, but therapy wasn’t helping. Then Sara learned something that changed everything and today her husband is masculine and attractive! She looks forward to his touch and loves the way he looks at her. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is a recipe for a standoff that could last for years! It’s a saying that many of us have heard time and time again, but instead of being helpful, it’s actually incredibly disrespectful.

What can you do when your husband says he doesn’t love you? Here are 3 secrets for turning the breakdown into a breakthrough.  My guest Becky was fighting for her marriage alone--her husband didn’t want to stay married. But now he says they’re in it for life. Here’s what she did. I promise you’ve heard The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week and if you’re anything like I was, you never even questioned it.

Learn exactly how you can work on your marriage when your husband refuses. Single-handedly create connection again.  My guest Debby’s husband shocked her when he announced that he wanted a divorce. He wouldn’t talk to her or touch her. She describes how she fixed her marriage. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week seems so logical it’s hard to even question it, but it will just leave you stuck.

Here’s the real reason your man is emotionally abusive and 3 ways to make him stop. My guest Bonnie’s husband was abusive and mean, so she filed for divorce. But now she feels safe, loved and knows he’s the best man in the world for her. A blog reader got the Worst Relationship Advice of the Week from professionals. My first question is... professional what? It’s truly terrible!

How to Get Your Husband to Listen: 4 Ways to Speak the Language Husbands Like and Understand Marriage counseling didn’t help Sue with her third marriage...until the counselor wrote something on a post-it note. Now, her marriage is loving, respectful, intimate, comfortable and optimistic. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is so popular that it’s part of the language. But it didn’t work for me and it didn’t work for the listener who sent it in either.

Is your man having a midlife crisis? So frustrating! I’ll share the real reason he’s acting that way and what you can do about it. My guest Valerie was giving her husband a year to shape up or she was done. Then he announced that HE was leaving her. She’ll share how she fixed her marriage and saved her family. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week which sounds pretty good but will make you resentful unless you make a small but important tweak.

There are 5 proven ways to inspire your husband to become more prosperous if he doesn’t make enough money. My guest Shelly wanted to leave her angry, negative husband just when the kids were leaving the nest. Instead, she feels connected to him and enjoys going out on dates with him. Here’s how she got there. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week masquerades as self-respect but it’s a counterfeit that will leave you lonely.

If your husband drinks too much here are 3 ways you can get him to choose you over alcohol. Sage’s husband was an insensitive, drunken jerk. She couldn’t live like that so they separated. Today his drinking is no longer a problem and she has her dream. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is more like the voice of doom because it will doom your relationship.

How to fix your husband’s low self-esteem: 11 Ways to Give Him Swashbuckling Swagger and Self-Confidence My guest Joanna was lonely, sad and defeated because her controlling, workaholic husband was avoiding her and didn’t even want to have sex. But today the passion is back and they enjoy spending most of their time together. She’s going to tell us how she did that.  Then I’ll be giving out the award for The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week which is directly from a pop song that may have worked its way into your subconscious.

3 secrets that can quickly turn the breakdown of feeling like your husband doesn’t love you into a breakthrough. My guest Jo's husband never had time for her. They were like roommates. But today he takes her on romantic trips and wows her. She’s going to tell us exactly how she caused that incredible transformation. You hear The Worst Relationship Advice as the reason a couple ends their relationship. Seems like it could happen to anybody--but there’s more to the story.

On today’s episode I share:  4 powerful ways to get your man to be attentive. You shouldn’t have to be ignored!  My guest Anna’s husband was ignoring her to the point that he didn’t even look up when she walked in the door to their tiny one-room apartment. He even told her she was annoying to talk to on the phone and that he was never going to talk to her on the phone again. And this was when they were newlyweds. But her relationship has come a long way since then and now her husband gives her lots of attention and calls her on his way home from work. She’s going to tell us exactly what she did that attracted her husband’s attention. Then I’ll be giving out the award for The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week which just about everybody I meet heard growing up. You’ll see why it’s such a bummer if you follow it.

I’ll share 3 power moves to restore the peace after a breakdown when you want an apology. My guest Jola was in an exhausting, lonely marriage until she found something that empowered her to create connection and family hugs. She’s going to tell us what she did. The award for The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week comes up so quickly in conversations among girlfriends, and it seems self-respecting, but most of the time it’s just lousy advice.

What if you had a powerful one-word answer that made him think about what he had just said or done and respond with tenderness and even accountability? Darlene’s relationship with her first love fizzled shortly after they had their daughter but...life brought them back together again. She’s going to tell us how she made that relationship amazing, shiny and wonderful. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is part of some popular communication training, but it causes boatloads of hostility. That is not what anyone is trying to do!

What can you do when your husband is not attracted to you? On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about why the problem is not what you think and how to solve the real issue. My guest Tess was devastated, heartbroken and shocked when her husband fell in love with her best friend, who was a marriage therapist. Her husband was so cold and unloving that she just wanted to leave. But then again, she didn’t really want to leave because she wanted her husband back. Then she made the best decision she ever made. She started doing something that put an end to her insecurities and had her husband declare his undying love for her and her alone. The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is something that just can’t be done. It sounds good in theory, but it’s impossible. And if there’s anything you don’t need when you’re struggling in your relationship, it’s impossible advice that sets you up to fail.