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New episodes published weekly! Table Rush: A wild, frantic hurry to buy something. Typically an audience response to a speaker selling from stage, “I’ve never seen a table rush like that. People were running to the back to buy your stuff.” Or from viewers of a webinar; "They couldn't pull their credit cards out fast enough." Applies to any sales or marketing designed to entice buying from a sense of inspiration, urgency and excitement.
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Money was not solving the problem and the emotional bottle cap was ripped off.  Yeah…so I get grief!

Money was not solving the problem and the emotional bottle cap was ripped off. Yeah…so I get grief!

Two awesome examples of how my arrogance flared up, how I got to apologize, and how the forgiveness and love that followed.  And then where my term “Kick the stool out from under me” originated from, love you mom!Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit Virtually and FOR FREE:  https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitLast episode I promised I would talk about:  (Heads up I only discuss how my arrogance flared up ...).  “I’m done worrying about __________”,How my arrogance flared up.Everything I thought I couldn’t live without I’ve had to learn to live without.Let's start with ‘How my arrogance flared up”.  I was on an all mens group zoom meeting with 6 or 7 men and…  Someone’s friend had passed way.  Drug addiction killed they guy.  He was trying to get sober and died from heroin, OD’d.  The friend who released the news to us is thriving and really doing well, has a great girl.  It’s kind of new for me to be happy for someone who has a great girl… I can be competitive.  So I was like “Oh no! did he break up with that girl?” and when he said someone had died I was like “phew” he’s still with the girl.  Of course I didn’t say anything in the moment :).So there’s lots of emotions flying around…  Tears, someone else new someone who died…   When we were hanging out after the meeting I told the guy, I’m like “hey man, you know what my thought was…?”, ‘I was relieved that you didn’t break up with your girl and that your friend had just died…”.  So wrong, coated in arrogance, insensitive, it was not cool.  Anyway - I’m such in this space of we are all one.  Death, life, it’s all an illusion.  I went through this big grief cycle to get to this point and so it can definitely sound flippant and arrogant and perhaps it is.So I’m starting to internalize and believe that death is an illusion.  and there is no judgment because we are all pieces of puzzle as required by gods creation.  Idk.  None the less it was not an appropriate time for me to talk about “we are all one” in the way I presented it.  It did not come across like that.So I sent an email to the group and called my friend and apologized…  (You can listen to the episode for the content of my apologies.).  Basically I copped to my insensitiveness and arrogance.  Sometimes you don’t need someone cackling in your face.And I have been through the grief.  Cried for 3 years straight…Part of what made the Tools For A Good Life Summit possible was the grief sparked in me from  a breakup.  It was the final blow.  I had been divorced, career upheaval, parents dying, financial distress.  Then all of a sudden I had more success and had money again and then that break up happened and money was not solving the problem.   And the emotional bottle cap was ripped off.  Yeah, so I get grief.  I do.  So that girl that breakup was the catalyst that got me to this point of this “Tools For A Good Life Summit”.Arrogant #2 - Someone was concerned about the child and I was very flippant about their concern…  And I pointed it out in front of a bunch of people, which was a total asshole move.  I projected my opinions and thoughts onto him.  Dude was being vulnerable and I just kicked the stool out from under him.I have this whole story of my mom kicking the stool out from under me which is where that comes from.Sorry mom, love you, we are all one, assuming her essence is flying around.  (Listen to the rest of the episode for the Mom story about kicking the stool out from under me.)“Your heart is full man, you’re so loving, kind, and compassionate we will give you a pass.  A pass for humanness.”  Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: Virtually and FOR FREE https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
14:3516/08/2021
“What is this for?” “Why am I doing this work?”  “Is it all for nought?”

“What is this for?” “Why am I doing this work?” “Is it all for nought?”

A big big day today!  A culmination of all the hard work and the summit copy is effectively done!  I kind of can’t believe it.  Stories around all of this and the final push of the summit copy.  How months of hard work all of a sudden started coming together and the pieces feel into place. The Tools For A Good Life Summit registration page is ready!Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: Virtually and FOR FREE https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitYou are not going go believe this.  I can barely believe it.  I got the copy effectively done.  Round 1, serviceable, for the Tools For A Good Life Summit done.  For the registration page. Go check it out.If this was the oscars I would have so many people to thank.  2 Kyles, Coach Vince, Dave/Kombucha Dave, Jim Edwards, Bill O. My most funnest part was the bullet points of all the speakers.  I did a little recap of all the emotions I felt from interviewing all the speakers.  I got the “Why are you doing this” section done.  So humbling that I literally cried tears of joy writing it.  Very very humbling. Now I get to have the coaching team evaluate the copy.  They may knock it about - But it’s all good.  I feel good.  So much hard work is done.I managed to get all the contracts out to the speakers.  DocuSign.  So that’s good.This is not a profit motivating thing.  It is a break even thing.  This is a mischa covers his costs thing.There are so many awesome gifts from the VIP All Access Pass.  The speakers are giving all kinds of cool things.  Also MP3’s, transcript, and more :).  REGISTER!Hanging in there one day at a time really is what the emphasis could be.  It’s a big day!  Just a few episodes ago I was panicking about the copy.  I did a lot of prayer and a lot of meditation.  There was a lot of inspiration flying around.I cobbled together a lot of months work.  From lots of different time periods of work and of writing.  Some of the coaching calls I was able to transcribe.  From some of the coaching calls that were flying around.  Working with those ideas.  Often times I was wondering “what is this for” “why am I doing this work?”  “Is it all for nought?”  “NO!  It was not all for nought.”  As it started to come together it was an awesome feeling.  Still took a lot of work but…  Yeah what a good day.What you have to look forward to is “My arrogance shined through today.”  I had a couple of arrogant flair ups that I got to make amends for.  And I cleaned em up quick too. I’m done worrying about_________! You don’t get to know until the next episode.I’m letting go of expectations as best I can…  Meaning that the process has been the joy.  From here it’s irrelevant.  If you get attached to any expectation you are setting yourself up for trouble.Everything that I thought I couldn’t live without, I have had to live without.  And that includes everything moving forward.I’m stopping!  Save this stuff or next episodes.Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit hereStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:5715/08/2021
Needing to think we’re special is the root of much of my problems…and the inverse of we are all oneness.

Needing to think we’re special is the root of much of my problems…and the inverse of we are all oneness.

A couple of great tangents today… The comparing and judging has got to stop.  It is so unhealthy.  A riff on playing with the wrong puzzle pieces.  What’s up with our need to be special that’s the opposite of oneness.  And the language of “Plant Based Medicine”.  You might as well just hand me crack.   Episode notes:Go register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit AND upgrade to the VIP Pass — it is less than a half a months Starbucks.  Show yourself some love!   I’ll kiss your ass if this episode goes 8 minutes.  My skill set of stream of consciousness of getting to the 8 minute episode absolutely feels like it is waning.  A few months ago it was easy I could go on!  Not today with the summit going on :).What we are going to talk about on this episode is…  The comparing and judging has got to stop.  It is so unhealthy. The puzzle pieces of life.  Am I playing with the right puzzle.  Are the puzzle pieces I am playing with illusory shiny objects and I am trying to put all those puzzle pieces together?  And then when the puzzle’s done the whole thing is just an illusion and disappears and you’re emotionally crushed!  That’s what happened to me.  I was playing with the wrong puzzle pieces. Now I am playing with the right puzzle pieces.  I’m playing with the spiritual puzzle.  And moving the spiritual puzzle pieces around. Mediation, prayer, literature, community, all these things.  healing.  Healing Shmeeling… Man If I’d have heard someone say healing 10 years ago I’d have slugged you in the face.The comparing and the judging is the illusory puzzle piece.  No puzzle piece is better or worse.  We are all parts of the puzzle pieces of life.  That’s my new how we are all the same analogy.The ACIM this morning has been about needing to think we’re special is the root of much of my problems.  and the inverse of we are all oneness…I’ve been in recovery for a few decades.  I’m not a recovery representative.  At many of the meetings I go to around here we like to think we are special, we have a special brand of recovery around here…  That is more of that specialness…  Which implies other people or brands of recovery are not special.As far as recovery is concerned, some people role in and need some serious tough love.  Some people need serious love and hand holding, and then there is everything in between.In recovery, if I needed a hard ass to help me get sober I think everyone needs a hard ass, and everyone should be a hard ass.  But that is not the truth, that is an immature viewpoint.  As we are around long enough perhaps we learn how to discern and wield different sticks. It takes all kinds.  In some of the meetings I go to the theme is “It’s not being done right.”  And if you look around the world recovery continues to thrive and grow for all types of addictions and things. God bless the pharmaceuticals for cranking out the pills and god bless everyone who takes advantage.I could go on a riff about plant based medicine…  Which is code for Psilocybin, DMT, guides, there is this whole language around that… The micro dosing is helping people.  I would not risk it, I have cashed in my ticket, I would rather meditate for an hour and accidentally fall asleep, than go find a guide, a shaman, and do some heavy Psychedelics and end up smoking crack…  Thats just me.  I tend to project.  The plant based medicine is being of service to communities.The comparing has got to stop it is not heathy, it just creates separation, the judgment, it does not lead to happiness, it just doesn’t anymore…  and the comparing. How are the stpes…  First you compare and then you judge what you see.  How am I different and then I judge it.  Perhaps progress would be how am I the same, look for the similarities.  We hear that in the recovery lingo a lot.  Look at the similarities and not the differences.Go register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit AND upgrade to the VIP Pass — it is less than a half a months Starbucks.  Show yourself some love!  Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:5714/08/2021
Interview #32 Dr. Krista Ryan “3 simple tricks to sleep better!”

Interview #32 Dr. Krista Ryan “3 simple tricks to sleep better!”

I interviewed Dr. Krista Ryan for my Tools For A Good Life summit and she knocked it out of the ballpark!  Here she gives you 3 simple tricks to sleep better at night AND MORE!  Take a listen you won’t be disappointed and you just may very well sleep better at night.  I am!Episode notes:See and hear more of the Tools For A Good Life Summit interviews here! Tools For A Good Life SummitFind Dr Krista Ryan here: https://healthhelpathome.comStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
27:1213/08/2021
I was playing with the wrong puzzle pieces…  I had put together the wrong puzzle.

I was playing with the wrong puzzle pieces… I had put together the wrong puzzle.

I was tasked to come up with an analogy for where I had ended up in life when I was getting divorced, child support, alimony, career upheaval.  After I had been doing everything right.  “It was like I had putting together the wrong puzzle, I had been playing with the wrong puzzle pieces the whole time.”Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit Virtually and FOR FREEIt’s time to find emotional security.  It’s time to spiritually grow the fuck up!  That was some summit copy :).  The main thing that I am going to discuss is keeping up your spiritual guard when you get busy.I’m doing the summit copy and feeling super busy and the time crunch.  So perhaps skip some of the morning routine, then its skip some of the night routine, then it’s skip the working out…I’m definitely feeling the copy time crunch.  I was gonna put the ACIM to the side, cause that can take an hour…  So I was just like, start the A Course In Miracles (ACIM) don’t skip it.  Of course it’s a 4 pager.Of course as I’m reading the ACIM I start downloading summit copy and furiously taking notes. One of the things I was tasked to do for the Tools For A Good Life Summit copy was come up with an apology.  Like I was swimming in the wrong pool.  etc. I had definitely come to a point in my life where I felt like I was doing everything right and then all of a sudden was I shellacked with divorce, child support, alimony, loose the house…  But wait, I had been doing everything right?The analogy I came up with was, “putting together the wrong puzzle”.  I was playing with the wrong puzzle pieces…  I had put together the wrong puzzle.The rest of the story is I was gonna skip the ACIM.  I was gonna let down the spiritual guard to write the copy.  And so to have the analogy drop down while I was doing the ACIM was very cool and very affirming.  Stay strong in the spiritual guard and the pieces will fall into place.Play with the right puzzle and the pieces will fall into place.  We are all part of the puzzle of life.  All of us are pieces of that puzzle of life.  And all the pieces are required.  Quit judging all the pieces of the puzzle, they are all required, to make the puzzle of life complete.  That little thought warms my heart. Emotional maturity is not a fiction.  Keep your spiritual guard up, play with the right puzzle pieces, complete the right puzzle.Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit Virtually and FOR FREEStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:0112/08/2021
…I was consciously just trying to listen without judging.

…I was consciously just trying to listen without judging.

Two conversations where I would normally prejudge and interrupt I was gifted with the ability to listen. There’s hope for me as a potential boyfriend yet!Episode notes:I had these two conversations yesterday and they shed light on the growth that I’ve had.This relatively long term lady friend who went through a divorce recently, and that is hard…  No one is always shiny in a divorce.  She was talking I wanted to have answers…  and then it hit me, she was just wanting to talk and express feelings so I finally shut up and listen.  And at the end of it, after all that listening, I might be able to be a good boyfriend after all.And then another good friend and I were talking and it got heavy super fast.  And for whatever reason I did not share an opinion.  I just kept listening and listening and listening.  I was consciously just trying to listen without judging.  And finally he asked what I think about all that.Historically - I can start prejudging what they are going to say so I will cut them off mid stream and give my opinion.   This time I did neither of those things!  It’s funny I have heard many many times I am a great listener.  In this situation where I would usually have some impatience with this particular friend, I was gifted with patience.  And you know what it felt pretty gosh darned good.  It felt like a win, “There is hope for me as a friend yet.”Copy is getting done.  I’m getting the copy done much faster than I thought.  But still slower than I want.  But it is getting done.  Copy for the summit.  You want to start promoting the summit 3 weeks before the summit.  So you want the copy done well by then.  So you can entice people to register for said summit.I am literally putting everything I have into the summit.  Resources, energy, thoughts, emotions.  and I’m letting go of expectations of what’s going to happen.   It’s fun to have something you’re passionate about. The journey is where it’s at right now.  Outcomes and my anticipation at this point is that…  it’s ok if nothing happens of note with it.  I’m not trying to say that that’s whats going to happen and put that out there.  I’m just trying to say it’s ok no matter what…  And I’ve put literally everything I’ve got into it.There’s hope for me as a potential boyfriend.  There’s hope for me as a friend with people where maybe I’m usually impatient and prejudge.I’m going to leave you with this thought, I definitely believe that decisions have already been made, the way the summit is going to go down has already happened…Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:2111/08/2021
“You know what? I’m done, I can’t do it”.  I had one of those moments.

“You know what? I’m done, I can’t do it”. I had one of those moments.

What an awesome recording this is!  At time of recording I had just completed most of the interviews and a huge amount of the heavy lifting of the summit which means I have to start on the copy.  I have 3 more days to do it and it takes me to the breaking point.  I just might have to quit the summit…  again!  Disney + and a good dinner saves the day.Episode notes:Sign up for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here for FREE - Tools For A Good Life SummitFantastic news!  I’m to the point where I’m done inviting speakers, I’m done inviting new speakers…  And I’ve got more scheduled which makes 20.Now I’m at the copy phase.  So to entice people to register for the Tolls For A Good Life Summit FOR FREE and then also  UPGRADE to the VIP All Access Pass…  There is a day of the Body, day of the Mind, and day of the Spirit.   And I’ve got to write copy for all of this.How many times did I almost quit when it came to the copy.  I literally sent emails to leave to bail the 2CCX.  The copy was hard for me.  A lot of emotional heavy lifting.  A lot of mental heavy lifting.  A lot of talking to source, talking to god.  If someone wouldn’t have been for someone telling me that I was being selfish.  I have a lot to offer with this summit I’ve got to bring it to market.  And then the question of is it bringing me closer to god.  I’ve been panicking for a couple days as it is time to get to the copy.  It literally took me 4 months just to get to “The Tools For A Good Life Summit”.  I’ve got 3 days to get it done…  I started messing with the copy and I was already like, “You know what? I’m done, I can’t do it”.  I had one of those moments.  I’ve come so far come all this way.  Like I’ve come a long way with this.  And I literally thought last night “I’m done.  I’ll pull the plug.  I don’t need to finish this”.  “I might even be able to get some sort of a refund from Andrea for uncompleted work”.  Because I was beating my head against the wall.You know what I did?  Guess what I did?  That’s right I prayed.  Wrote a little bit.  I ate, had dinner.  Watched a little Loki, super fun, Disney +.  Iron Man II.  I need some mindless fodder.  I’ve done enough projects to know that sometimes the hardest thing to do is get initial pen to paper.There has been 3 main sources of information coming at me.  Coach Vince, Kombucha Dave and Jim Edwards, and Andrea.  All three different styles of copy.  And those thrashing though my head.  At some point I need to stay true to myself and stop taking input.  No matter what I do somebody is going to recommend changes.  So pick one and go.So I picked a summit to model, and just started modeling it.  Somehow I was inspired after dinner, after Loki, after 1/2 Iron Man.  And I have Momentum.  I will live to survive another day with the summit.I legitimately was thinking, I can’t do this.  I’m pulling the plug after all the work.  Now I’m having a lot of fun, I’m writing the copy.  Like whatever.  It’s the first summit.  Don’t take yourself so seriously, have fun, trust in god, get something down on paper.  The right people will see the message.  Stay true to yourself.  I’m not looking for me today, I’m looking for the me 5 6 7 years ago.  And the summit I’m modeling is perhaps perfect for the me 5 years ago.I’m all in.  Uploading videos.  Furiously writing copy.  Next steps.  Having fun.  Life is good today.  Pray, meditate, journal, read nourishing spiritual literature that calls to you.  Trust the process.  Breath stay in the moment.  And every now and then watch some mindless fodder on the telly.  Sign up for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here for FREE - Tools For A Good Life SummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:4410/08/2021
The summit interviews are amazing btw.  I laughed, I cried, I got shivers up and down my spine.

The summit interviews are amazing btw. I laughed, I cried, I got shivers up and down my spine.

This episode recorded on 7.3.21 was very reflective for me.  I was at the tail end of successfully recording most of the 20 summit interviews and enjoying how far I had come.  And I even pitch the Tools For A Good Life Summit to you.Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitRecorded on 7.3.21 This was my first walk about recording of an episode in a while.  A busy day at the park.  People looking at me like I’m the crazy one as I talk into my device.Sometimes I love editing the episodes, because they are a month to six weeks behind.  I get to see how far I’ve come in that 45 days.   40 days to go ish I had committed committed to the summit.  I had cut the check to the who and had my first project meeting with the “who” Andrea.  Fast forward to today…  I have 16, opps, 32 of the interviews recorded for the summit.  32 of the 40.  16 General Admission and 16 VIP Bonus interviews. Upgrade to the VIP All Access and you are going to get access to the Bonus interviews, Transcripts of all the interviews, MP3’s of all the interviews, all subject to change.  Don’t get all crazy if things get swapper in or out.  A summit notebook (this is no longer in the VIP All Access Pass).The interviews are amazing by the way.  I’ve laughed.  I’ve cried.  I’ve got shivers up and down my spine in a good way.  People have used their techniques on me in the zoom setting…  And it’s been awesome. The summit was $67 before the summit.  $97 During.  And $127 after.  It is currently after, so $127 :).  Prices subject to change!I’m in copy mode now.  Editing interviews.  iMovie.  Now Andrea and I are building out the tech side.  The Copy.  Making it look shiny.  We are just on the start of that. It is copy time.  It is Mischa gets to right copy…  I’m not sure if you know how I feel about copy, YIKES.So I was editing podcast episodes, realized how far I’d come, how I’ve committed to the process.  Most of the upfront interviews all that is done.  The last 4 interviews are scheduled.  I’m just waiting for them to happen over the next week or so…Oh yeah I pitched you you’ve got to register.  toolsforagoodlifesummit.com Register for free!  You are going to have 3 days access for all the General Admission for free.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:1809/08/2021
3 tips to increase your virtual summit registrations!

3 tips to increase your virtual summit registrations!

I just completed producing my first virtual summit and here are 3 TIPS to increase your summit registrations.Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitOn the marketing side of things.  This episode I’m going to talk about…  Some marketing ideas/tactics that I changed right towards the end of the summit that helped increased registrations.As I was busy with the summit…  We had created a promotional center.  Storehouse of all the content that the speakers could send out to their followers.  All optimized for the social media and emails.  Including their affiliate links.  Naively I thought the speakers would dive right in there and take advantage.   Some revenue was on the line from them from the affiliate commission potential.  So they could cary a good message and drive some revenue.it was 16 day promotional cycle.  All set up with 3 emails and 3 social posts for each platform.  I thought it would be on autopilot.  That all the speakers would take action.  But that was not the case.  Next time I will do better with engagement with the speakers that had already done their interviews until the summit goes off.  Numbers started out slow so I started reaching out to the speakers directly via text…  and that helped with the promotion numbers.   And I was told a secret about summit speakers…  “Summit speakers are lazy”  The extra steps of having to go to the promotional center are too much for a speaker.  So I started texting directly to speakers.  Here’s the copy, here’s the pictures optimized…  Just cut and paste them directly to the social media.  That was a game changer.  I did the same with the emails.  Three thingsStay engaged with the speakers after the interviews are done.  Give them updates to stay engaged with them.  Any update, real time updates.  There is no perfect update.Any speakers that are big enough that have marketing team ask that you can go directly to their marketing person.Reach out to the speakers directly with the content.  I kept giving them the content through the last day.  Make it easy as possible for them and I would have started that sooner.Motion creates motion.  Energy creates results.  Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:2908/08/2021
I got to see everything work, I just didn’t get to see them work at the scale I want them to.

I got to see everything work, I just didn’t get to see them work at the scale I want them to.

My reflections of the summit in the heat of the battle.  It’s the 3rd and final day of the summit and I need to walk away and get some fresh air.   I literally can take no more.Episode notes:Got to the tools for a good life summit Virtually and FOR FREE here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitRecorded at 5:00 pm on the 3rd day of the summit…  I had to walk away and get some fresh air.  Beat down and burnt in a good way.What I want to talk about (but don’t get to until the next episode!) is the promotional efforts and adjustments that helped increase the registration numbers.  As of recording there were I think 460 registrants.  25 VIP purchases…  Am I supposed to say these kinds of numbers on this podcast.  I’m going the full disclosure route.  Nothing to hide.Everything worked the way it was supposed to.  And that is the coolest thing to see.  The registration page…  The speakers marketing.  During the summit you increase the price of the VIP all access pass; that encouraged people to upgrade.  The emails and sales pages that were designed to work worked.I got to see everything work, I just didn’t get to see them work at the scale I want them to.It was very fun and very gratifying to see the system’s and the process work.Another really cool thing that happened, or didn’t happen I would say.  There were very few problems logging into the membership area.  It all went extremely smoothly.  Any problems that were there were easy to fix.  I got to do an official refund due to a duplicate purchase.I get great texts from people say how much they enjoyed the speakers!  So it was fun to see that pay off.The other poignant thing to talk about.  If your’re trying to content and be consistent…  Often times it’s just doing it instead of waiting for the perfect time.  I’ve been so busy with the summit that waiting for the perfect time to have concise thoughts for an episode was not happening.   I would encourage you to take the messy action.  Produce your content and get it out there… I was very hopeful that when day 3 of the summit was done I would have freedom!  But per every other milestone it has just opened up another can of worms…  What an order.  Pandora's box opened just a little more.Got to the tools for a good life summit Virtually and FOR FREE here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:1907/08/2021
Interview #31 “Dom the Hypnotist” - Tools For A Good Life Summit Teaser

Interview #31 “Dom the Hypnotist” - Tools For A Good Life Summit Teaser

Here is a little teaser of the Dom The Hypnotist interview from the Tools For A Good Life Summit - Dom knocks it out of the park…  In this teaser you get to hear a little of his back story and how Hypnotherapy, NLP, and like modalities transformed his life.  There is serendipity and the Tools in action!  You can join us Virtually and FOR FREE: link to register in the show notes.Episode notes:Tools For A Good Life Summit - Join us Virtually and FOR FREE here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit0:00:06.2 Mischa Zvegintzov: Welcome back, everybody, to the Tools For A Good Life Summit. And right now I would like to introduce to you Dom... And I might butcher your last name, so bear with me, Bertoncini.0:00:20.0 Dom Bertoncini: Yeah, you hit it right on the head, I'm surprised.0:00:22.8 MZ: Alright, fantastic. AKA, or also known as, Dom The Hypnotist. And I'm gonna tell the people a little about you real quick.0:00:32.0 DB: Cool.0:00:33.0 MZ: Alright, so Dom, you, specialize... You're certified in hypnotherapy, timeline therapy, and neuro-linguistic programming. You specialize in helping people get rid of anxiety, depression, and limiting beliefs, so they can live the life that they want. You have worked with some of the top athletes in the NFL, UFC, and Olympic athletes from all over the world. And a fun fact about Dom, you get randomly referenced by UFC fighters on the Joe Rogan podcast.0:01:11.8 DB: Yeah, awesome, thank you. I appreciate that intro. And sometimes people think that I only work with athletes, but I work with everyday people like myself. There's only so many athletes that you're gonna be able to work with, just because there's only... You think about the NFL, there's only a thousand people, and out of those a thousand people... I have a small group of people that I work with it. Same thing in the UFC, there's only 550 people on the roster. So sometimes people think, "Oh, does he only work with athletes?" or whatever. No, I work with everyday people, like I said, like myself, like yourself, so...0:01:49.9 MZ: Yeah. Perfect, thank you for that. I will tell you, as I've been putting together this summit and I was searching madly for a hypnotherapist…You’ll have listen to this episode to hear the rest of the teaser!  Enjoy :)Tools For A Good Life Summit - Join us Virtually and FOR FREE here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
15:5706/08/2021
The summit launch...the rest of the story.

The summit launch...the rest of the story.

Two main points topic points on this episode.  1 - In the heat of the battle there is no good time to record…  And I have been in the heat of the battle for a couple of months with the summit (said w/love).  2 - It took everything we had to get doors open at 9:00am pst.  Emails saying doors open with the summit link literally started going out 8:55 am.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here! You can join us Virtually and FOR FREE https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitTwo main points topic points on this episode.  1 - In the heat of the battle there is no good time to record…  And I have been in the heat of the battle for a couple of months with the summit (said w/love).  2 - It took everything we had to get doors open at 9:00am pst.  Emails saying doors open with the summit link literally started going out 8:55 am.I am blown out from the launch of the summit.  In a good way, from being busy and creative…  Sufice it to say that this is all the notes you are getting from me on this one!But go register for the summit while you listen! https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:1305/08/2021
When you eat perfectly everyday; it’s ok to have cheeseburger now and then.

When you eat perfectly everyday; it’s ok to have cheeseburger now and then.

The Tools For A Good Life Summit IS LIVE!  You can WATCH NOW, for FREE https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit. __________________________The Tools For A Good Life Summit goes LIVE THIS MORNING.  I’m tired and beat down, but in a good way and I’m doing everything that I can to keep my spiritual habits in line.  But as I’m human it is sometimes easier said than done :).  Go check out the summit!  Link in the show notes.Episode notes:It is the morning of the summit being live!  Register here for FREE! https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit.  By the time you are listening to this you can hit play and watch the 20 amazing interviews for FREE.It goes 8 speakers of the Mind, mind things, day one.  6 speakers on Body day two.  And Day 3 is spirit.  Mind is Hypnotherapy, EMDR, Anthony Trucks on Identity.Body day is nutrition, Carisa Caudill.  Some Yoga, Andrew Shultz on yoga.  Body day 2.Day 3 is spirit.  BK on energy healing.  BJ Khalsa on mediation…Everything is blending together.  I haven’t worked on a project this big in a long time.Yoga Teacher Training (YTT) was pretty intense a number of years ago.All of a sudden I haven’t walked in a couple days.  Everything is blending together.  It’s taking everything I’ve got to meditate in the morning.I’m doing so much work at the end of the night that the end of day journaling is definitely slipping…  Sometimes I hope I’m so busy that I can skip the journaling…  Lol.Very sleepless nights as well.  Lots of tossing and turning.  It’s pretty crazy what takes over the mind during a project like this in the middle of the night.  Just trying to find acceptance that there are lots of moving parts keeping me up at night.  It’s like I’m having conversations about the summit and that I’m actually not even working on in real life.  But it doesn’t matter still tossing and turning.The A Course In Miracles is starting to get done a different times.  O yeah, a course in miracles.These are interesting habits to see like what starts to slip as the business roles in…  What excuses do I make and what am I willing to put to the side, perhaps to the detriment of my spiritual connectedness.  The other side of that coin is being willing to be easy on myself and to laugh.  To miss a day here and there.When you eat perfectly everyday.  It’s ok to have cheeseburger now and then.  It’s ok to have a slice of pizza or whatever your hiccup is .  Some popcorn with some greasy butter.   That’s just me though.  Other people may argue differently.And the recording of episodes is definitely going by the way side.  So in an effort to keep with the things that seem to have been helping me in my life these days…  I did my meditation, I did my ACIM, I got out of the house go get your exercise, now record your episode.  The test will be if I journal tonight.  Register for The Tools For A Good Life Summit for Free: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit  and Get the VIP pass before it goes up!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:4104/08/2021
The Tools For A Good Life Summit goes live tomorrow!

The Tools For A Good Life Summit goes live tomorrow!

This is a special live, real time, episode!  I am having so much fun rallying the speakers to promote the Tools Of A Good Life Summit which goes live tomorrow August 4-6th.  And I go into details on a highlight from each speaker.  Of course you can register for free!  Link to register in the show notes.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit For Free here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitHere are just some of the highlights I reference in this episode!  Listen for more!Over 3 days, from August 4th-6th, each one of these 20 masters will be revealing Secrets like: How to salvage a relationship AND do it in an instant.A simple tool, backed by science and research, so that you can transform self judgment into gratitude and appreciation for your life.3 easy tricks that help you sleep soundly every night! A hands on tool that gets rid of the “I should haves” right now - Thank you Jamie Marich!  3 actionable tools to strengthen your relationships with your kids that you can do in real time, right now!3 simple steps, ANYONE can do, that get you back on track. (And the tip within a tip that guarantees success.)The one secret that water does for you that will put your brain on overdrive!ONE TRUTH - “Just because you embrace Spiritual Practices you don’t have to give up success!”  …and really so much more. Come join us Virtually and FOR FREE at the  Tools For A Good Life Summit: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:0903/08/2021
When do I pull the trigger on starting to hire people to help?  When do I take that leap?

When do I pull the trigger on starting to hire people to help? When do I take that leap?

As I get closer to the completion of the Tools For A Good Life Summit I’m reflective on how much having a team would help me.  That I would perhaps be further along.  Not that this is bad, I’m just reflecting on it.  I wonder when I will pull the trigger and perhaps hire some people.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here for FREE: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitI have been in the 2 Comma Club X (2CCX)…  And they give you more work than a person can handle.  And I say that positively.  If you have a full team you can do everything they ask you to do.  Copy, Editing, Publishing, PM’s, “The Who’s”.This is for good nor bad.  I prioritize a lot of my day, like 3 or 4 hours where I’m mediating, reading spiritual literature, some yoga, some exercise :).I just don’t have the capacity to put in 10 hours worth of work.  So I feel extra behind.  Assuming there is a behind!If I had a PM, a copywriter, a podcast manager producer, and a social media person to repurpose all this content I’m creating…  I would be way further ahead than I am.  Not complaining, just stating the facts :).  I have some limiting beliefs that keep me from building a team right out of the gate.Following the instructions.  It works.  From a small scale on up to a big scale.If I was willing to expend the resources…  There is a curve of outflow and inflow and at some point those lines will cross.  I hope! My income from said activities is zero effectively.  But hopefully will go up as a result of the summit.  Register here for FREE: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitI have no problem creating content, snapping pictures, recording content, etc.  People that do a good job of managing that on social media god bless them.  If hired one of them?When the summits done, maybe I take a risk and start investing in support.  My vision is this: when the summit is done and goes evergreen, and people can register for it and enjoy it for years to come.   I can promote it.  Make an effort to get myself out there :).The deeper I get into the summit the more I prioritize working on things…  “work related”.When do I pull the trigger on starting to hire people to help?  When do I take that leap?And the summit is not done yet!  It goes live August 4-6th.  Register for FREE here:https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:0802/08/2021
“It's ok to have a bad day.”

“It's ok to have a bad day.”

I hadn’t recorded in the car in a while.  I notice that a person I see speak all the time is always over the top positive.  And I think ‘It’s ok to have a bad day”.  And that is a very good reminder to myself, to let myself have bad days…  As well as afford the same to others.  Let them have bad days as well.Episode notes:Register for The Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitThis episode is “It is ok to have a bad day.”  There is a guy a see speak a bunch.  Every time I see him he has the “hug everybody, notice the color of the trees, life is amazing” which is great but it’s always over the top.  I was thinking…  Man, what if he has a bad day?  Does he feel he has to hold up this appearance of positive energy?And I was thinking about that for myself as well. How at times in my life I wanted my outsides to…   for appearances, how willing was I to talk about issues that I could have been having.  I’d moved in with this new girl, and we would have these emotional disturbances, call it a fight :).  And I’d go to a recovery meeting, and I had a really hard time conveying that I was in emotional distress.  I remember being shook up and “How can I go to this meeting I’m so emotionally shook up?”  Now I’m very willing to discuss it.  I think I do a fairly good job of being transparent about where I am with things.  Some people tell me “You don’t need to grow anymore!”  I just was thinking, I was feeling for this person, then I can start holding people to this unrealistic standard.Can I be easy on others when they’re perhaps having a bad day.  Can I not hold them in contempt, not hold them in judgment?  Can I anticipate some upheaval?So much of my creative thought process has gone to the Summit and interviewing, I feel like I am starting over with the podcast.  In relation to being able to do an episode everyday.  To be perfectly transparent, my stream of consciousness is lasting like 3 to 5 minutes how in gods name am I going to make it to 8 minutes.  Like I’m starting over.To recap the eppisode:If we are positive people give ourselves space and permission to have bad days and to communicate with people that we are having bad days.  Let's make sure we afford that to other people as well.  Especially people that we may hold in high esteem.  People that are audience facing.  I am nervous as can be and feel like I am starting over with being able to record episodes.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:4001/08/2021
Amy Tran crushed it!

Amy Tran crushed it!

An update on the summit of course.  20 speakers confirmed 15 or so interviews completed.  Some highlights of the Amy Tran interview where she crushed it.  And the definition according to Webster of “Commute” which there’s a lot of them.  And the definition of “immutable”, which there is only one.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitShut up zoom!  9:36 pm on the button.  Quick update!  I’ve got 19 speaker confirmations, perhaps 20.  15 interviews recorded.  Awesome Awesome momentum.I interviewed Amy Tran M.A. today.  She crushed it.  Check her out at www.doodledwellness.com.  her IG @doodledwellness w 165K followers.She was very sweet.  PHD Student.  Does have her MA.  She is all into psychology and psychotherapy.  Knows a ton about CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. We talked about CBT tools tips and tricks.  As well as parents and kids.  How parents when they go through a tough time can hold space for their kids.  And how parents can hold space for their kids in general. You get so much good stuff when you upgrade to the VIP All Access Pass!  Register for free here https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit and then see what’s available for the VIP All Access pass.I’ve been looking up words.  And I love working up words.  I looked up the word “Commute”.  There are so many definitions for Commute.  As well as I look up the definition of “Immutable”Commute, via Webster1a: change or alter1b: to give in exchange for another, exchange.  Commuting foreign currency to domestic.2: to convert something such as a payment into another form.  The periodic payments may be commuted into a lump sum.3: to change a penalty to another less severe.  Commute a death sentence to a life in prison.4: commutateCommute as an intransitive verb1: Make up or compensate.  Commuted for her sins.I, of course, read the word “commute” in A Course In Miracles.  The sentence that I read is so insanely dogmatic that I thought it would scare everyone away.  ACIM, chp 25 “The Justice of God”, sec 7 “the rock of salvation”, sentence 1.  It talks about commute so I looked it up.2: to pay in gross.  Overall total exclusive of deductions.3: to travel back and forth regularly.  As between a suburb and a city.  He commutes every day by car.4: to yield the same mathematical results regardless of order.    Used of two elements undergoing an operation or of two operatives on elements.Commute as a noun1: an act or instance of commuting2: the distance covered in commuting.  i.e. a long commute.Immutable according to webster1: not capable of or susceptible to change.and awesome momentum with the summit.  20 confirmations from the speakers.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:1031/07/2021
Interview #30.  A Random conversation with Roger Burnley

Interview #30. A Random conversation with Roger Burnley

Roger Burnley has been a successful voice coach for many many years starting in 1988.  His youtube channel has 189,000 followers.  This man literally helps you find your voice.  Now into his 70’s he is looking for a Pivot!  Looking is the wrong word, “called” to pivot is much better.  His mission now is to help you find your inner voice no matter what your age.  “I only used the vocal coaching to get to where I am now”.  By random introduction I get to have a conversation with Roger and I go ahead and hit record…  and so it gets to become an episode.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit.You can check out Roger Burnley here his YouTube channel “Roger Burnley Voice Studio” YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClnt3qoAgvP6rLq_kzy4gbwWe talk if you spot it you got it. Separation anxiety, even from horrible circumstances.How do you make the change to your new calling…  “You just do it”.His current offering.  The Complete Artist.  “It’s working so good I need to take it myself”.Lot’s of intuitive stuff he’s channeling……the timing of things.  That means everything on how you evolve and move forward.The only way your going to evolve is looking at the things that are in front of you and deciding…  To either move over them, step around them, or figure out them in some way.And we talk about a lot more…  Perhaps the funnest is getting into his family lineage and history…  There is a lot to be learned.But per this current moment in my life I am neck deep in promoting and working on the back end of the Tools For A Good Life summit, register here:  https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit so you are going to have to listen for the rest.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
01:00:3230/07/2021
“Quiet! Bitch Slap in progress.”  That has got to be the most thoughtful gift ever.

“Quiet! Bitch Slap in progress.” That has got to be the most thoughtful gift ever.

Waylon gives me the most thoughtful Fathers Day gift ever!  The boys mom sends me the sweetest unsolicited Fathers Day text.  And even young Cooper Lee stopped by.  Now that’s a good day.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitIt’s Fathers Day.  I went from one squeaky chair to another.  It might be time for a new intro for the podcast.  Going through some insecurity around the podcast.In regards to Fathers Day.  I got a few texts.  The boys mom sent me a text.  “Happy Fathers Day!  I could not think of a person in this world I would have rather raised my babies.  You are walking into peace.  You have been moving down the road to being the best person possible for so long and that has been reflected in your fatherhood.  Nice Work!”  How sweet is that?My boys are 18 and 20, both out of high school.  The main heavy lifting of fatherhood in this iteration is complete.  and I got that very sweet text :).  I got clean and sober at 17 and I have in recovery and trying to be of service and move with a higher power pretty actively for 35 years now.  I think she was referencing that.I do a lot of interviews right now.  I have a lot of random people stop by.  I have created a great environment for that.  I hand wrote a sign “Recording!  Please be quiet”.  For when the randoms come by to say hi.  I need that red "on air” light.Waylon my 18 year old got me a fathers day present.  a wood sign that says “Quiet! Bitch Slap in progress.”  How fun is that?!  That has got to be the most thoughtful gift ever.  Cooper Lee  swung by.  After dinner.  All of a sudden there he was at the door.  He came by to say his on fathers day.  And he hung out for an hour and a half…  We talked about shiny objects.  Buying shiny objects that we didn’t need.  Cars for him.I don’t have the necessary growth I want for my podcast.  Maybe it's my intro?  Waylon and Dawn gave me commentary that my bitch slap intro may be a bit esoteric.  Maybe I should make it to the point.  In more layman’s terms.  Vs the esoteric madness that it is.  A friend said the intro music reminded her of Pigs In Space…  Lol…Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:1429/07/2021
Yoga saved my arse today.

Yoga saved my arse today.

The person I interviewed today was not prepared and it sure felt like a disaster.  I am keenly aware, however, that it could have just been that I woke up on the wrong side of the bed.  One interview cancelled.  But the second interview was AMAZING!  And more confirmations. Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here; https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitWhat happened today.  I had my first super crappy interview.  For the summit.  The dude was not prepared.  It was an “s” show.  “Did he wake up on the wrong side of the bed or what?” It through me sideways…  someone else canceled right before his interview..  So it could have been that I just had a bad attitude and the guy did great.  I am absolutely aware of that.I was like, I am over this.  This summit I am done.  I am canceling the rest of the interviews.  The 8 or 9 that I’ve done I don’t care.  None of this matters.But then I did the next interview with Dr Krista Ryan she crushed it.  https://www.missdoctormom.com/ She brought so much good stuff.  So many tools tips and tricks.  It restored my hope!One minute I’m like “I love summits”.  I have the next ones planned out.  The names.  The speakers picked.  And then I woke up on the wrong side of the bed lol.I am also extremely aware that I don’t know whats good or bad.  We don’t need to through the baby out with the bath water.  Maybe the unprepared person hears the unprepared speaker and is like…  OMG I’m in.  That one is hitting the cutting room floor.Krista Ryan so good!  And I scheduled Amy Tran M.A. Yoga saved my ass today.  I did this awesome practice.  Focused on my breathing.  Re-centered me.  Had a good meal.  Started sending out more invites. TIp of the day for the summits from Krista Ryan.  They don’t necessarily need a big on line following.  Listen to episode for the tips!  (Find the big local area practitioner in the city of the modality you are looking for.)I used the tip and found some good speaker leads.  I found some good local practitioners with big lists!It’s a new day tommorow…Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:4428/07/2021
Now you can see why I quit the sauce.

Now you can see why I quit the sauce.

Somehow I get rolling on the rock bands I liked in my drug addled youth.  And some associated stories that attest to why I quit the sauce as they say.Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good LIfe Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitI did a little walk this morning.  Talking to my friend Bill O.  A couple of hippies looked up and looked at me and asked “Did any ever tell you you look like Robert Plant?”.I loved the Zep.  I was all in on the Zep.  I loved the Who and I loved the Stones.  And some Van Halen, David Lee Roth Van Halen.  Sabbath, Sabbath with OZZy.  Ronnie James Dio.  Band of the 70’s.  I did like some Van Hagar, not enough to buy their records.I literally know people who don’t know who Robert Plant is.  I did hear I look like Owen Wilson, who’s on Loki.  from my friend Mali Wood.  No Kidding.  Mali Wood.When I lived in San Francisco, one of my roommates, back in the 90’s.  Dated Owen Wilson who was in Bottle Rocket at the time.There was the Metallica years.  It was short lived though.  When Master of Puppets came out, no good.  I liked Ride the Lightning and Kill Em All.  Accept, Balls To The Wall.  You got your Balls To The Wall Man.Kiss.  Wild Cherry, Play that Funky Music, and that music service from the 70’s.  The Star Wars album, ELO, Electric Light Orchestra, Boston,I was all in on Kiss.  Destroyer, Dressed to Kill.  That crazy Dressed to Kill album cover.  Styx, Renegade, Kansas, I was not a Kansas fan.  ACDC, Bon Scott, loved them, but a late bloomer.  You do enough drugs and drink enough beer, David Lee Roth can sound good.  So can Bon Scott.  Ah my drug addled youth.  What a shit show it was.One tale.  My junior year of high school.  I’d gotten a DUI in Idaho, this is all sealed by the way.  I did a day or two stint in Idaho.  At the time I was supposed to be in court in Jacson Wy, but I was in Jail in Idaho, so they put a warrant out for my arrest.  Now you can see why I “quit the sauce” as they say.A funny after school weekend jail story.  Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:1927/07/2021
Do I choose to see the son of man or the son of God?  That’s the thought that I am gonna take out to my day.

Do I choose to see the son of man or the son of God? That’s the thought that I am gonna take out to my day.

A morning of closing the loop on yesterdays episode on “Batch episode editing” and then a bunch of definitions like Reverence, Deference, and Esteem.  And some ACIM highlighted sentences.Episode notes:  Register for the "Tools For A Good LIfe Summit" here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitI’ve been batch publishing the podcast episodes.  It takes two days to schedule a weeks worth of episodes.  I find that when I do that I’m much less paying attention to recording new episodes.  The podcast falls out of my radar for the week.  And I get panicky…  I’m never gonna have content again.  And I get in that panic mode!  How am I gonna keep up that pace?  How am I gonna do an episode a day for the rest of the year?  And what am I gonna do year two?And then the thought was…  “Who cares?”So was I like I just need to get back on the mic yo!  Or I’ll never have another episode again.As I was reading ACIM this morning and writing down definitions…  ACIM instructs you too, “As yourself this, can you protect the mind?”  I do not have the answer for you I am meditating on it :).Reverence, according to Webster: 1 Honor or respect felt or shown; deference.Deference: Respect and esteem do a superior or an elder.Esteem: The regard in which one is held.  Especially high regard.2 A gesture of respect3 A state of being revered.One held in reverence; used as a title for a clergymen.Great lines from a course in miracles this morning.Let not your foolish fancies frighten you.What is immortal cannot be attacked.  What is but temporal has but no effect.Temporal1a of or relating to time as opposed to eternity.b of or relating to earthly life.c lay or secular rather than clerical or civil.Lay: Calm, Allay.Allay: To make quiet.Secular: 1b not overtly or specifically religious.  I always get that confused.Back to temporal:2 of or relating to grammatical tense or a distinction of time.3a of or relating to time as distinguished from space.3b of or relating to the sequence of time or too a particular time; chronological.Noun.  Temporal as a noun: a bodily part such as a bone or muscle that is near the temples or the sides of the skull behind the orbits. (That is where my brain normally goes).As an Adjective: 2 of or relating to the temples or the sides of the skull behind the orbits.What is immortal cannot be attacked what is but temporal has no effect.  That gives me calm :).ACIM - Perception: It is the outward picture of a wish, an image that you wanted to be true.“Their difference does not lie in how they look, nor where they go, nor even what they do.”  The illusion that if I change my motiv my action will be different.   They have a different purpose.  My pre-destined actions have a different purpose in my brain.  And then I see everybody else’s as different too.Do I choose to see the son of man or the son of God?  That’s the thought that I am gonna take out to my day.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
14:1826/07/2021
I had “loan-mares” when I was in the mortgage business...

I had “loan-mares” when I was in the mortgage business...

It’s very energetically and emotionally taxing to interview people for the summit and then having to go back and work up the podcast interviews.  It’s hard for me too do both right now all the time…  So I cheated on Interview #24 Courtney L.  A little talk on sleepless nights and “loan mares” from my mortgage days and what are “summit mares” now!Episode notes:Sign up for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitI have taken to scheduling the release of episodes a week at a time.  Editing, writing the notes, this that and the other thing.  The Interview #24 Courtney L. interview, it’s the first time it’s like if I have to listen to this whole thing and take notes I’m not going to get it published…It takes a lot of emotional effort to listen to the interview, take the notes, write the details…  And the interviewing for the summit takes a lot of energy.  I don’t have the energy to edit down one of these podcast interviews…  So I dropped that note in there…  I thought it was funny and it was a breakthrough for me, allowing it to be a little more messy.  But it might have actually been less messy.  It was very freeing non the less.  All of a sudden I had an extra 2, 3, or 4 hours…  and it felt good to relax.  I was gonna use all that extra time to be more productive.  But I just was free to take a nap.Part B.  I have been very restless sleeping.  Once the summit was in full effect I was very restless in my sleeping.  My mentor says…  “Your’e Stressed”.   LOL.  Oh, that’s what it is.Holy spirit please use my dreams on behalf of waking.  Perhaps we are actually sleeping to whats actually around us…  The illusion that time is actually a thing.  Perhaps we won’t know until we die.  And our bodies no longer serve a purpose on the planet as we know it.I had “loan mares” when I was in the mortgage business.  Where I would just be running loan scenarios and it would wake me up in the middle of the night.  Now it’s “summit mares”.  It’s like I’m trying to get things done while I’m sleeping.  If I’m restless when I’m sleeping I’m not in the moment.Maybe I need to start saying that little blurb again.  “Holy spirit please use my dreams on behalf of waking”.  Wait a minute, my dreams are being used on behalf of waking, because it’s waking me to the reality of all we have is this moment.When I’m in the moment all these illusions slip away.  The trick for me right now is when I’m restless and sleeping and churning though interview scenarios or copy ideas…  Hey can I come back to the moment when I am restless?  A) loving the fact that the mind is churning, can I cease control of that and let that go?   B) I’m in bed nothing needs to be done other than being in bed!Free feel to email a comment…  What this to far out there :)?Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:2225/07/2021
Being able to love and admire someone for who they are.  And know “FU&K YEAH” that’s in me too!

Being able to love and admire someone for who they are. And know “FU&K YEAH” that’s in me too!

Waylon, my youngest son, graduated on the day that I recorded this.  And it susses out all kinds of emotions.  From end of child support payments to the massive marker of time it’s quite a day.  And my friend drops an amazing thought bomb on me.  “How about if you spot it you got it and it's about what you admire in people.  If you spot it you’ve got that.”  And well Waylon just is amazing to me so…Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit!Today was the day that my 2nd son, my youngest son, I have two sons, graduated high school.I interviewed Arlina Allen (interview #28)….  And she said the most impactful thing to me.  I am all in on the “if you spot it you got it”.  But I always think of it in terms of negatives.  So I judge this person and it’s a reflection of myself.   She said how about this, how about if you spot it you got it and its about what you admire in people.  If you spot it you’ve got that.“Holy crap!” That is amazing…. So I started thinking about who do I admire. That’s a cool thought.  So that’s been brewing in my mind. And as I’m seeing people I like I’m like “I’ve got that!”I recorded this on June 11… my son graduated high school today. My other son two years ago this day. It’s a very big marker of time.  And I’m sensitive to that :).  Tmi- my child support ended. And I thought it was going to be one of those “be all end all” type of moments. And it wasn’t. It’s not that big a deal. Which is crazy to me.  My boys graduating, wow!  That heavy dadness is complete.  Waylon today at graduation - he was just having fun at graduation.  He spontaneously erupted at the crowd in this beautiful way.  Someone happened to snap a picture. And I was like I fucking love him!  Waylon’s personality is so rad.  I admire it so.  …and I was thinking of Arlina. Omg, I’ve got a personality and I’ve got to love that about myself. It’s this cathartic moment :).  Loving myself for who I am loving people for who they are :).Cooper lee showed up for his brother in a big way!  He made it through the two hour graduation.  Encouraging his brother. I just can’t tell you how much I love him too.Dawn and I shedding tears of joy.  And just thinking of the people who have gone before and who are coming behind. Life is trippy.  If you’ve had kids and made it through god bless you.  If you’ve got young ones and you're on your way god bless you.They (Cooper and Waylon) hugged and it was beautiful.  Amy torn god bless you for snapping that picture.  OMG!  So amazing!And then me just being able to love my boys for who they are and what I admire in them and go “you know what?  That’s in me too. Fuck Yeah!”Omg. All these interviews. I was meditating today. Just so tired.  Just interviewing people.  It just emotionally wears me out.  They are just amazing.  Both Robert Drysdale and Anthony Trucks talked about loving themselves and not needing to please everybody.  As points of learning as they’ve gotten older.  I really needed to hear it.  It’s been a process of loving who I am.  Loving who we are in a non arrogant way.  That’s been the trick for me. Love me or leave me wrapped up in as little arrogance as possible.  …I was physically and mentally exhausted from the summit.  And beat down.  And I asked the universe “how can I be of service to Waylon? How can I make this about Waylon today?”  And my attitude changed in an instant.  I was just laughing as crying on my walk after it all.The big marker of time “check”.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
17:0724/07/2021
Interview #29 Thomas Lancer “The secrets to pulling off a summit!”

Interview #29 Thomas Lancer “The secrets to pulling off a summit!”

Young entrepreneur Thomas Lancer is in Russell Brunson’s high end coaching group the 2CCX with me.  And I record one of our conversations.  I was calling him for help for the summit where he’s one step ahead of me.  Barley into his 20’s he is determined to chart his own path and grow his own business.  We talk his early life and inspiration, the pressures of the 2CCX coaching program, publishing, podcasts, AND ALL THINGS SUMMITs…Episode notes:Go to the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitAs A junior Thomas was training 20 hour per week to go swim D1 in collage and perhaps the Naval Academy, even going so far as to having his nomination from the senator… And an epiphany starts to strike him…  Maybe I should walk away from all my full ride scholarships…Think and Grow Rich and The 4 Hour Work Week…  were an early inspiration.  As well as a professor who had a billion dollar exit…“I realized that business school in university is more like employee school”.Then he’s got to contend with his parents…And for the rest you’ll just have to keep listening. __________________________I’m currently neck deep in promoting the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” so this is all the notes you’ll get from me.  Join the Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit__________________________Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
33:5423/07/2021
Focus on the efforts and not the results.

Focus on the efforts and not the results.

I’m having great momentum with the Summit!  More on needing to feel “special”  How all the interviewing from the podcast and the summit speakers is affecting change in me.  And the ideal that action creates action.  So focus on the efforts and not the results.  Episode notes:Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here! https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitThis episode is to talk about some success some momentum.  Feeling like I’m on the right track, trusting in god, taking the next indicated step, not worrying until it’s time to worry.  All these things are paying off.A Course In Miracles is talking about not feeling special.  This need to feel special.  More special and comparing ourselves to others ultimately is the cause of massive discontentment.  As ACIM likes to say the cause of separation and sin.  And Feeling that people are sinful and guilty and that I am sinful and guilty.  The “sin” part may feel a little dogmatic but if you can separate out the dogma.  This needing to feel special, we start judging.  I’ll speak for me.  This very much resonates with me.This awareness of special.  I am not special.  I am special in the everyones special kind of a way.  But when I need to feel more special.  To sound better.  To sound best.  To sound the wisest.  Pontificate the bestest.  And I am working hard to not be that.  And if I’m not sharing then I’m judging those who are sharing.As I’m interviewing speakers and they are enjoying it and having fun and enjoying the project.  And the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” can be a source of good and help and healing and growth and transformation for people.  There is this source of pridefulness that can set in.If I can somehow see that we are all doing it.  How do I see that this is not me but that this is all of us creating that.  Because a glimpse of that is very powerful.A couple of the speaker interactions is we were helping each other.  Growth moments.  And it was very powerful.  One of the speakers said this was very powerful and not matter what you have helped me.  As i’ve been interview for the podcast the illusion of separation has been dissipating.  The humanness has be shining through.  The love that I am having for people, this brood love, not this Hollywood love, but a god love.  Now as i’ve interviewed 7 or 8 people for the summit, I am growing so much.  (Heads up I actually have 20 interviews done for the summit!)  And the illusion that it’s for other people, perhaps it’s just for me :).  Not selfishly but for my own growth trajectory.  JB Scheduled her interview.  Robert Drysdale, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) world champion set up his interview.  I have friends in their 40’s who have been turning to BJJ and it has been powerful for them.  Michael Sandler had said yes (but we were never able to confirm).  I very much have been…  It’s like dating or sales when you get started, I can have so much vested in the response from some person.  And waiting for responses from over here.  I find it is better to keep the actions going.  Action creates action.  As along as I put the action in results will come and I don’t know where from :).Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:4122/07/2021
Oh my gosh…  I’m worrying about nothing, literally!

Oh my gosh… I’m worrying about nothing, literally!

“The Goal Of Specialness”.  Our need to feel special is the source of our discontentment.  How does one stop comparing?  Will I ever stop looking for a girl?  Will I ever stop looking for “the job?”  “…to be released from limits”Episode notes:Check out the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit.I’m still reading A Course In Miracles diligently.  Friday and Saturday mornings I miss them…  Usually I would tackle later in the day…  But since I’m busy w the summit I’m not.  I’m still heavy in the ACIM and grooving on it.  And I’m currently in this chapter right now called “The Goal Of Specialness”.  And effectively the more we try to feel special the more brain damage we feel.  That is the source of our pain.  Mischa wants to be special.  Mischa wants to be different, from you.  Perhaps better than, or seem better then, or loved more.  Or have a GF that thinks I’m specialer.  All these different ways to say it.  And that’s a massive source of our discontentment.One of the signs of that is that I compare myself to others.  If I’m comparing myself to others it’s because I want to be special or not as un-special.All the notes I wrote today:I messed up on episodes, I actually posted the same episode twice in a row.  I was so tired when I was working them up I posted them twice.  IN the moment it felt mission critical and like I totally messed up.  I’m going to loose listeners and all this stuff.  “Will I be worried about this, or will it even make a difference in two months?  Two years?  Will it matter?  And more over will I care?  And I love that thought!  It just dropped in and gave me freedom.  It does not matter and I had total freedom from there!  Oh my gosh…  I’m worrying about nothing, literally!The “Goal of Specialness” ACIM.How can one stop comparing?  That’s an interesting thought.  I have lot’s of opportunities to compare myself…  Compare my thoughts to what they’re saying.  Which can be so warped!  How do I stop comparing?  I do it, but how?  There’s some prayers in there… “We are all gods children.”  Will I ever stop looking for a girl?  Whenever I’m on a meeting?  Or out and about?  Being single…  Even if it’s not on my radar, inevitably if I see somebody that is attractive to me I’m like “Is that the one?” and I start sizing her up.  Will I ever stop sizing up the opposite sex?Will I ever stop looking for “The Job”.  Or that thing to do.  Even when I was having success.It will find me.  The job or the girl.…and “to be released from limits.”  I associate egoically what being released from limits means.  Or I attach that to what my ego associates as limits.  Notoriety, adoration, money, power, traditional success.  Looks Likes Follows. Influence.  When I am released from limits I am gonna be released to get all the egoic goodies.  Not to spiritually soar with god.  Or to be completely 100% free of all the egoic limitations.  To be one with god?  NO!  So I can get all the shiny objects.Habits to not feel special.  Or how about “specialer than you”.  Can I see, whomever I look at, everyone, as a shining light of god?  What if they were, or are, a shining light of god.  What if everybody I looked at and saw and came across was a shining light of god?  No matter who they came into my awareness…   Whether news, Facebook feeds, insta feeds, walking down the road, zoom meetings.  What if truly, everyone I saw, was a shining light of god.  I freeking love that thought.   If I could put that into my awareness more and more and more. Perhaps I will be free and released from my egoic limits.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:4721/07/2021
Does she even realize she's speaking on my summit!

Does she even realize she's speaking on my summit!

The shenanigans of trying to schedule one of the speakers reminds me of a Seinfeld episode, a total comedy of errors.  Does she even realize she’s speaking on a summit?Episode notes:Got to the Tools For a Good Life Summit here: https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummit!  One of the funniest things that’s happened along the way happened today.  I invited a speaker to the summit…  And I have been communicating with a speakers assistant...  The back and forth back and forth.   So JB Owen was the speaker prospect and I have a 20 minute meet and great Zoom call w her.  So she could suss out if I’m a worthy cause.  JB helps people get their stories on paper and publishes them…  Writing can be obviously very cathartic.  So I invited JB to speak on writing as a tool for a good life.  A cathartic cool.  And she’s very busy helping people publish books…My follow up skills paid off…  She believes in the mission.  And I had scheduled the “pre call”So I’m chatting with JB today and writing being cathartic…  And she keeps inadvertently saying podcast.  And I’ve got all these great people that can speak on your podcast like I am…So she might have been thinking podcast episodes and I’m thinking summit speaker interviews.  And it was like a Seinfeld episode, a total comedy of errors.  So I still don’t know, I think her assistant knows, if we are talking podcast or summit!  LOL.  I think her assistant knows…But I was frustrated because I wasn’t sure wether to update the speaker landing page with another confirmed speaker…  And obviously I’m very excited to have JB on board as a speaker.  One because I think she is amazing and two and time your follow up skills pay off it feels amazing.I’m just going to act as if.  I am just going to act as if she’s talking about the summit and me too.  And so I’ll try to reconfirm it with the assistant…  When the interview gets scheduled I’m just going to assume it’s for the summit…But they have not scheduled the interview yet so all this worrying could be for not.  Amy Tran did confirm.  As did a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu guy, Robert Drysdale.   But again this is how it works “Don’t spend the money until the check is cashed.”  So JB’s on board, Amy’s on board, Robert’s on board, but until it’s scheduled and they’ve recorded you never know.  I totally could be pulling the trigger on this telling you so soon.  But I’m willing to come back on and tell you that perhaps they weren’t able to come through.(Spoiler alert!  Amy Tran and Robert Drysdale did confirm and complete the summit interviews!  JB Owen, well, she was not able to complete the interview after various scheduling shenanigans and 12th hour cancelations!  But JB and I did have fun in our attempt to complete the interview.)Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:3120/07/2021
“If I treated my wife as nice as I treated that damn dog...”

“If I treated my wife as nice as I treated that damn dog...”

At the height of my marriage I was successful in sales, we had two kids, we fought about getting a dog…  and I was arrogant as can be.  I came home one day and there was that damn dog!  It turns out if I could have been as nice to my wife as I was to that damn dog I might still be married today.Episode notes:Check out the “Tools For A Good Life Summit!"This episode is about “if I treated my wife as nice as I treated that damn dog”.  I fought with my wife about getting a dog for ever.  Dawn is my x-wife and the boys mom and we get to laugh about these stories.  At the height of my marriage to Dawn I was successful in the mortgage business, I was making good money for the family…  I was in my mid to late 30’s and I had a good run.  Had a couple a young kids and I was arrogant, she was a stay at home mom, and I was like “I’m working, I’m producing, I’m bringing home the bacon…” And in hindsight I should be afforded certain “dickness” or “Assholeness”.  I was surfing a lot. I could be frustrated when I came home.One time I was asked to grab something from the grocery store on the way home.  Which was sort of on the way by the way.  And I remember, I lost my shit…  I had an arrogant attitude.  It was going to be out so much to go get hamburger buns and lettuce…  “Machy” was the dogs name.  A little Yorky.  Little bastard pissed all over the house.  We started calling him the crotch warmer 2000 cause he would sleep between my legs and keep my crotch warm.  God I loved that dog!Anyway, I come home one day and there’s that damn dog.  She just went ahead and got it…  I was always prioritizing my stuff.  God forgive I brought her some flowers now and then…  I was always scared if I bought her flowers it would escalate.  So lame.God I was a pain in the ass I had lots of opinions and was real snappy.  I was just what you’d expect from an A type sales guy who demanded respect.  This might sound worse than it is.I just remember that at that time I’d come home and give that dog so much love and be so forgiving of that little dog.  And in spite of the dogs little hiccups it had I loved and treated that dog very good.  I had this total moment of awareness, “OMG, if I could just be as nice to Dawn as I was to that damn dog, I might still be married today.”…I talked about it once, and people thought it was really funny and a lot of successful husbands could relate.  They were like “Holy crap, I perhaps treat my pets better than I do my family.”.Holy crap - I’ve come a long way people, I have come a long way.I would encourage you - If you are lucky enough to have a wife, and you’re luck enough to have a pet. Please treat your significant other as well as you treat your pet.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
09:4419/07/2021
“Do the dishes for God”

“Do the dishes for God”

“Do the dishes for God”.  That’s what somebody told me back on the day.  When my life was on the line in early recovery…  And I thought doing the dishes at my job was beneath me.  And arrogance was seeping out of my pores…  Love you John B you helped saved my life.Episode notes:Check out the “Tools For A Good Life Summit!”“Do the dishes for God”.  That’s what I had a sponsor tell me back in the day.  Way way back in the day.  A spiritual mentor, a sober coach, a sponsor.  That’s what the call “those things” in recovery.  I have been sober since I was 17 years and 9 months old.  The last day of high school I was on an airplane headed to a treatment center.  The judge had given me the option of, 6 months in jail, or go to treatment and get sober.  Thanks to a confluence circumstances I was inspired for sobriety.  And it has stuck one day at a time.My first couple years of sobriety were kind of unruly.  For the 12 steps to be affective you must take the 12 steps.  The first couple of years I decided to hold meetings hostage with my complaining and crying and arrogant youthful attitude.  I came to a point at a couple years of embrace the 12 step methodology, get a sponsor…  Just so you know I do not represent the 12 steps.  I could flame out and then people would be like “recovery doesn’t work!”…I was coming unglued and my sponsor John B…  who was the night cook at the “Elkhorn Cafe”.  And John was a calm dude.  and I wanted that.  So I asked John to be my sponsor and my life changed that day.  And he encouraged me to do the dishes for God.I had this habit of at the time, I was arrogant, and whenever I got a job I wanted to be boss, CEO, whatever…  I did not like paying my dues…So I worked at “Mountain High Pizza Pie” and I was tasked with doing the dishes and I was not happy about it. “Don’t you know who I am?”I didn’t think I could survive if I had to continue to do the dishes from time to time at my job because it was beneath me and I thought I should be the manager.   And he said, “Perhaps you should do the dishes for God.”  “Do the dishes for God, do a good job for God.”  And it worked.  I was like “yes, I can do that.”  Do it for something greater than myself.  And this process of the summit reminds of that…  and when Kent said “stop being selfish, you are just worried about yourself, you can help so many people!”  And I was reminded of yes, do what you are doing for a higher order perhaps, if you don like the word “God”…  To give back…And for whatever reason the other day, I as was looking for motivation to continue on, I was reminded of John B, “do the dishes for God.”  And from then on I got much better and paying your dues, and working, and doing it for the good of the restaurant, the good of the cause…  Have I said that enough.God bless John B…  he was so patient, he would just…  I don’t even know what happened to him.  The dude saved my life literally…  We would read the “Big Book”.  So much good content in there.  And how he modeled recovery for me is how I still to this day 33 years later (cause it took me a couple years to getting around to asking for help) I still use that foundation that he gave me.  So John B, who used to work at the “Elk Horn Cafe” if you are listening…  “I love you”.  Thank you for saving my life, for giving me the time you gave me.  For teaching me accountability.  Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:3118/07/2021
“Dad, I’ve got something to tell you...  I got a girl pregnant!”

“Dad, I’ve got something to tell you... I got a girl pregnant!”

Check out the "Tools For A Good Life Summit" here www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.comOn this day my 20 year old told me he got a girl pregnant!  He actually didn’t he just wanted to soften me up for some other news.  And we get to hang out and talk for 3 hours because he wanted to hear my life story back when I was his age…   And he sure did listen!  It was kind of a wild day I must say.Episode notes:Hat Hair - My hair literally looks like a hat…  I was on a 3 hour Russell Brunson call… I’m not happy with Russel Brunson right now.  “Damn you Russell Brunson!  Some super exciting training he was doing live for us on the 2CCX…  I got baited into it…  Russell!  Had plans to do all this work today…  but then a 3 hour training… argh.Purpose of this episode…  What happened today, yesterday.My 20 yr old son cooper came over to get his important mail today…  These are the times I get to see him these days.  “Dad, I’ve got something to tell you.”  “I got a girl pregnant!”  What!  “No I didn’t, but I’m moving to Los Angeles with some friends…”My other son is 18…  I feel like I’m full heading into empty nest mode.We hung out for three hours, and talked.  I got to tell him I’m proud of him…  The little guy.  He’s 6’2”.I want to go strike out and try some new stuff…  He wanted to hear about my times when I was his age…Well I got sober, I was a pro snowboarder, I was in the inaugural Swatch World Snowboarding championships!  But I had a brittle body so I kept hurting my ankle…  So off to fly airplanes and go to college…  I almost killed myself multiple times being a dumb ass in an airplane…  Yeah I’m gonna die if I do this or I’m going to be bored out of my brain flying a bus around.  You’re just flying a bus and it’s more boring then that.Than off to Bozeman for the rest of my “5 yr degree”.  Where I opened a dance club w my buddy Eric.  Oh I had a card room to…  Before I quit gambling in 1995 because I was a gambling addict as well.  I was a professional gambler.  I played in the World Series of Poker in 1994.  I won a seat into the Texas Hold ‘em main table.  Then I graduated w/my finance degree.  “How the hell did you end up in San Francisco”…I wanted to move to the big city :).  I got an opportunity to house sit in the San Francisco bay area…By a confluence of circumstances I became a DJ…“What ever happened to Eric?”   Eric died of AIDS.  Mis you Eric, Love you Eric…Cooper listened to it all.  ‘OMG you’ve had such an amazing life”.  He was captivated.  “I want some of that, I want to go try new things.”It was a very sweet moment!  I felt like if I did not tell that story it would have slipped through the cracks…I got to tell him I loved him and am proud of him.OMG I was broke in my mid twenties trying businesses and somehow I made it all happen.  So I was scared for him for a moment…All young people move out and figure it out.There were a bunch of tears, and I meditated a bunch of times to let those emotions flow through.  Beautiful, rich, melancholy, LIFE…  Just feeling it :).Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:4217/07/2021
Interview #28 Arlina A. 27 years one day at a time and still growing...

Interview #28 Arlina A. 27 years one day at a time and still growing...

Arlina A has been in recovery for 27 years and her mission is to help other people.  Currently she’s filling the hole of helping women to find sobriety inside and outside of traditional recovery.  Much to many’s chagrin it turns out there just may be solutions outside of the “12 steps”.  Arlina is incredibly well read in the personal growth space and can put her money where her mouth is…  She’s funny, fun to talk to, and just an all out amazing women.  She gets into her most recent bitch slap at the end.Episode notes:Register for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.comArlina A from Idaho.   You can find everything Arlina here: www.Soberlifeschool.comShe was the first podcast I was on. And yes I was a little unruly on her podcast:). One day at a time podcast. https://odaatchat.com/ She’s had her podcast 5 years. June 2016. How does that happen? (Tim Ferriss)Corporate sales history:).   Celebrated shopping and the fan fare wares off.  The “something I said helped her stay sober” moment that outweighed any big check moment.Arlina’s been sober 27 years. We are not reps for AA lol.You’ve got to give it away to keep it and I’m greedy so…Some women don’t want to go to a “He” centered format…The big book and 12x12 are magical. Take what you like and leave the rest.Fear of death will manifest differently for women maybe. Men and the warrior mentality. Men are considered disposable…. What is our value?  Those who are able to confront intimacy. Comparison is the thrift of joy.What you think about you bring about. Be intentional and mindful and look at the positives.  Focus on what you are doing right so you can do more of that.I’m of the mindset that everyone is doing the best they can with the information they have in the moment. The brain-it’s an efficiency thing.You can’t hate yourself into wellness. The inner dialogue is just ridiculous.The whole idea about meditation is to give us a little pause between the thought and the response.  The brains job is to think.  That’s it’s job. But we don’t need to attach ourselves to those thoughts.Your tool for evolution If you spot it you got it!  You can’t love or hate something about yourself unless it’s something you love or hate about someone else.  The pot calling the kettle black.But it also works about the people you admire.Making the popping sound.  “Make the popping sound son.”The sound that you hear when your hard comes out of your ass. Or In a more spiritual way it’s when the veil of denial is lifted.I had no tools to resolve my pain to resolution.A little riff on “the steps”…The distractions (addictions) are endless!The limitless possibilities are available all the time.My ability to recognize where I am making mistakes turned out to be my super power.  “I am not what I do”.Recovery is about recovering our whole selves. The good and the bad.   Can you love your unloveable parts?  Could I meet my dearest charterer defect with empathy and compassion?If I’m judging others I am really judging myself…. The reverse of that is true as well. George Orwell - You get in trouble your thought crimes.Oprah riff.  She loves Oprah. Oprah introduced her to all these teachers that have blown her mind and transformed her world.Marianne Williamson, Gary Zukav, Deepak Chopra, Wayne dyer. “The seed of the soul”, “The Dancing Wu Li Masters”I quit the corporate life - I could not live any longer not being aligned with my purpose, which is to help others.The practical solutions that Marianne Williamson offers.  Tell me what you love about men “We’re not complicated…” (and more).  I love her answer of how men are relative to women.Gary Zhukov - what a sweet sweet soul. Depack’s meditations.  Wayne Dyer. Tony Robins. “Change your mind, change your life”Who’s the biggest pain in the ass in the world right now?  Politicians.Aa is not the only way.  There are many paths to recovery.  Addiction is a very complicated issue.  Using people to make myself feel better.   SLAA. Sex and love addicts anonymous.I’m broken, I’ll never be fixed, I’m hopeless.  At essence we are all basically the same. We are all doing the best we can with the information we have.   There are teachers bringing light and love into the world.  The answers are out there.Negativity bias.  Confirmation bias. There is no difference. We are all in the same boat.  Often times people aren’t able to move to solution until their pain and feelings are validated.Tara Brach - RAIN MeditationWhat is it that I do want?  That’s a more interesting question then what’s wrong with me…  Ask better questions.  We need to ask better questions.Vulnerability and transparency and that requires a lot of courage.   I have lots of unpopular optionsWhen someone is sharing at a meeting and someone starts to cry, I hate the tissue distributors. Something is emerging, something needs to come out through tears, the are finally processing their negativity and someone shoved a tissue in their hand.   It disrupts that persons process and I’m like “you fuckers!”  Just let people cry - when they are ready for a tissue they will ask for one.  And more on the “tissue distributors”.I really do think that “the men should work with the men and the women should work with the women”. An recovery saying.  When you know better you should do better.  Not all (recovery) meetings are created equal. Some (recovery) meetings are very sick.AA (recovery) is not the only way - people hate to hear that.  We are not doctors, it is not ok to tell somebody to not to take their meditation.There was a period where I thought I new better - I was confused about my role as a sponsor let’s say.  Where I thought I new better than they did about themselves.We are always changing.  We are always evolving or devolving.  Are used to think that I knew what was better for other people. I was self-righteous.When I turned twenty (years sober) my overwhelming feeling was shame.  Shame that I wasn’t “better yet”. That was the thought that came up for me and I was unprepared for it. That kind of shame   Omg I still have judgments. Maybe that was when I started thinking we should focus on our assets.Instead of looking at how far I’d come I was looking at how far I needed to go. The default mode network. It’s always challenging to break out of that default mode.Her most recent bitch slap - she had just put her son into treatment. “I didn’t realize how asleep at the wheel I had been”.   At home. I have this workaholism thing.  So that was brought to light. “Like last week!” What I know to do is double down on my self care practice.  Why am I distracting so much?  Why can’t I tolerate silence.  Every waking moment was filled with… ( her list is awesome)(Son is 17)Drastic change in the way I’m feeling thinking seeing the world.  I was in denial about my kids.  They are video game kids.  They never went anywhere or did anything…. But low and behold…. I was not aware of the facts shall we say.  “I looked good for a while”. I’m awake now. To my codependency.  I was paralyzed by fear.  I was in denial and I didn’t even know it.I created “Bite me” custom cookies. I’m scaling!  I’m always feeding my brain and it felt like a distraction.  This all came to light last week.  Home Depot.  More doing. I’m exhausted Mischa.  I’m exhausted. The biggest blow up she’s seen in recovery. She saw her friend at a meeting in the morning…. And she was dead 3 hours later.   If you have chronic pain go see a board certified addiction specialist.Talk about a wake up call.  Hence her recovery podcast. The “One day at a time” podcast.Rebirth stories?  We see so many good things on the daily. Thousands of good things go right every day.   I’ve seen some crazy ass people…. And their lives change. Some people are unrecognizable for the better.  It happens all the time.Our little worlds are so small.  There’s room for us all.  There’s enough crazy to go around. Look for her “Brain Washers Club”. A membership site.You can find everything Arlina here: www.Soberlifeschool.com.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
01:35:4516/07/2021
Turns out I had a lot of success going legit

Turns out I had a lot of success going legit

Going legit at Wells Fargo Home Mortgage leads to great success!  My fears of doing things by the book were totally unfounded.  And I promise I'll get to the "Do the dishes for God" episode. Episode notes:Check out the "Tools For A Good Life Summit" here: www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.com.I am sure the anticipation is thick…  For the “Do the Dishes for God” episode.  Part of my journey is trying to do things legit.  Can I just do things legit.Is that what an entrepreneur does…?  Find out what the rules are and then break em without going to jail?When I worked at WellsFargo Home Mortgage (WFHM) what I was good at was figuring out there systems and then working within those systems.  Now and then you would get your hand slapped. When I started there in 2001 many things were coming together for me.  Date, sales, tech, CRM’s, telemarketing, etc.  Building lists, marketing to them, and then getting the phone to ring.I was good at leveraging the Wells Fargo brand name and the good will.  WFHM has a whole process for getting your marketing approved…  Of course I started by bootlegging, in an ethical way, my marketing.  The issue was that you had to have the disclosures dialed in.  So I didn’t know an better.  I was having a ton of success…  A flier ends up in the wrong hands.  “Hey, these are bootlegged, what are you doing?” So that’s how I would push the envelope.. As for forgiveness and not permission, that was my forte.  And bosses loved me for that and hated me for that.I had this amazing fear that, Wells Fargo is so restrictive there’s no way they will let me work with my ideas.  Better to bootleg than ask for permission.  Of course when I started going through the proper channels it worked very well AND I was legit all of a sudden.  It was a powerful lesson for me.I cheated ONE TIME in high school…  I don’t know what possessed me…  But my history teacher saw me, said something really funny, and then let me off the hook in a real funny way.The fliers, they were done properly.  I was able to have a lot of success and follow the rules.  I was also scared of having my lists scrubbed against the Wells Fargo database.  Of course initially I didn’t care and they were like guess what you should.  It totally worked out because I had my lists scrubbed, had my fliers approved, etc and thrived! My god that was a long time ago by now…  I will get to the do the dishes for god the next episode.My path to legitimacy, for service… Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:0715/07/2021
When I say "I'm good at it"; it means "I'll do it".

When I say "I'm good at it"; it means "I'll do it".

Well, I don’t get to the two stories I meant to get to…   But I do talk about my skill set that I am good at recording podcast episodes and what that means…  Also a progress reset on where I currently stand with the projects I’m tasked to do…  Turns out it’s not as all bad as I may have thought.  And that feels good.Episode notes:See the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.comThe main purpose of this episode is “Do the dishes for God” story…It turns out I’m good at recording episodes.  When I say “I’m good at it”.  I’ll do it.  I could literally do it everyday.  If tasked I could record an episode every day.  I read good content out of ACIM…  Books on the bookshelf.  I’m honestly good at rambling about nothing, I’m not saying that’s good.  And it turns out that that’s a skill.We are tasked to “publish a lot”.  Learn to publish, create that publishing base of content.  Learn how to communicate with your audience.  How to test ideas.  Turns out you have to have your shit together to test ideas.  I am shooting from the hip a lot.  I appreciate your patience in that regard.I chose podcast.Where I am behind on many things, one of which is the summit, although I am on task on the summit now.  (I got the required summit docs on DocuSign!  Created the stuff on docusign, got it sent out to the speakers, they are officially signing on docusign, and everyone is happy!) (I feel good about that right now.).In theory, you were supposed to start the summit starting month 2.  (As it goes in the high end coaching group 2CCX I’m in.)  And been done with the summit end of month 4…Took me a little bit more to get started lol!  But I am on track.The publishing that I am doing constantly is a good thing.  Where others may find it hard.  Perhaps I could help other people learn how to publish more consistently?  That is something that I have to offer in the group that I am in.  Because they encourage us to trade services with each other…  Any who it was a pleasant reminder that I am on task on track with some of the stuff although it feels like I am not on track with a lot of the stuff.I had this vision, when the “Tools Of A Good Life Summit” is done and complete, I am very much looking to go on tour with it…  Go on podcast tour.  Tell people.  It is a good thing to talk about.  A great thing to promote.  I am very excited to have that to lead to get on podcasts.  I think it will be great content for the podcast hosts!  People are thirsty for good content.…Do the dishes for God.  I think I am going to save that for the next episode.Another story…  If I treated my wife as nice as I treated that dog that I had…  This is when I was married…  OMG how good my relationship may have been…Love to all…Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:4014/07/2021
I truly, at this point in my life, literally don’t know what the heck I’m doing.

I truly, at this point in my life, literally don’t know what the heck I’m doing.

I start going through my nightly inventory; what do I need to talk to my mentor about?  Chicks man.  Which brings up the old GF.  Then I wonder what the hell I’m doing with my life…  And I cap it off with a 6 or 7 minute riff on the definition of “remit”.Episode notes:Check out the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here! www.toolsforagoodlifesumit.comI honestly don’t know what the hell I’m doing…  I truly, at this point in my life, literally don’t know what the hell I’m doing.Going over my nightly inventory :).  What do I need to discuss with my mentor?  “Chicks man. Chicks.”  That’s what I need to talk to him about.My last GF we broke up in November, right before Thanksgiving…  And actually we were just friends…  And I guess we broke up from being friends.  But I have really been off the market completely.  And kind of liking it :).  But now and then I wonder will I ever date again.  Will I ever be compelled; other than a random, the girl, that I would see walking and crossing paths?Update on the girl, wha wha wha.  A friend told me.…did I already talk about that?  See I don’t know what the hell I’m doing.Right now in this moment…  I’m like;  I’ve spent all this money on this coaching program…  I do have a podcast out of it.  “Hey! I got a podcast out of it.”  Yeah me, everybody and their brother and their dog has a podcast…  And a friend says yeah, “and their cat”.  Just in this moment as I was hunting for more influencers to get on my summit I had a moment of financial insecurity.  What the hell am I doing?  And what am I going to do with my life?  I was talking to Meg… and I was saying “I’m going to be on my death bed and wondering what I am going to do with my life?”I looked up the word “remitted” today…  And OMG it’s the longest definition in the world…  Here it is!  I’m not going to type it all out :).Which led to “desist”.  I better look up “Desist”.  You get that too.Ok - Remitted - 1c; to let attention or diligence slacken: relax.OMG, I love that, it’s so good.  I was not sleeping well for a bit…  And my mentor was like it’s “stress”.  I was like holy crap is that whats keeping me up.  Stress from the summit.  and I’m paying for it.Hey bro, why don’t you just relax, that is what relaxing is!After all the definitions…  Isn’t remit (or remitted) the best word ever!?I hope you’re listening to this as you’re going to bed and my soothing voice is putting you to sleep.  Or it’s getting you excited for the office if you are listening to it in the morning.more on remit.  it goes on.I was horrible in english…  I looked up intransitive, it means, not transitive.  Not transitive lol.  It did nothing for me.  I still do not know what an intransitive verb is.The noun definition of “remit”…  You’ll have to listen.Take a jaunt over to Britten and drop the word “remit”!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
14:0013/07/2021
The illusion of “alone”.

The illusion of “alone”.

I read some notes today after a juicy meditation and such, and go down the list.  Thoughts on "alone".  Quick what is Gods will.  An update on “the girl” (anti-climactic), which of course reminds me of a story!  And some bad ass A Course In Miracles!   Episode notes:Sign up for the "Tools For A Good Life Summit" here www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.comI’d written down some notes after I’d done my meditation and done the ACIM.  I’d contemplated sin, I’d contemplated, I’d contemplated death, I’d contemplated…  If I could see myself in others as sinless I could have that ultimate love.  I love that idea I do.I’m going to show some vulnerability and read them to you.What do I fear about my words, about my jovialness, about my thoughts?  I am scared to push people away and be alone.  So what?  It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.  If I’m not being myself I’m going to not be bringing in the right people.  They will not see me as authentic.I literally can’t fuck it up!  And I am alone anyway :). I.e not in a relationship.  And I have a lot of alone time anyway.  Ironically I am learning I am not alone…  I am only alone with God.  And I am a part of God and so is everyone else.  So I am alone with everyone, all the time.  The illusion of alone.I am doing enough, I am enough, and so is everyone :).  God has me doing what he wants me to do right now, because I am doing it.  What’s Gods will?  What’s happening right now.  This old-timer told me that.  A very wise man.  “You know what Gods will is?”  “It’s what’s happening right now.”  God has me doing what he wants me to do right now, because I am doing it.Update on the girl:  Whahhh whahhh whahhh…  It petered out so fast, before it even  started…  But it was fun to get a phone number.Which reminded me of a story.  Back when I was in Casper Community Collage, Harvard on the hill.  My roommate Dave tells me…  Talk to two new girls a day, a simple interaction, and you will find yourself a date and/or a girlfriend.  He told me that and I applied it and the results were amazing.  I put action out that way and this really cool girl showed up from somewhere else.  She just plopped in.  You can apply this to anything.  I applied it to sales all the time.  You apply action, the results will come, you just don’t know where from.  I’ve never seen it fail.  It may be as a direct result…  or it may be from a perceived “random” occurrence :).More ACIM stuff.  “Nothing around you is but part of you…”  “Look on it lovingly and see the light of heaven in it, so you will come to understand all that is given you.”  Those were instructions.Put your contempt aside and try it!  That used to suss out contempt in me.Everything I look at tomorrow, every person place or thing, I am going to try to consciously look on it lovingly, no matter what, and see the light of heaven in it.  You know why?  So I will come to understand that all is given me.Let it rip.  No apologies.  And afford that to everyone else.  Bam!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
09:5612/07/2021
Here is the definition of “Sin” according to Webster…

Here is the definition of “Sin” according to Webster…

Reading “A Course In Miracles” all the time it is always talking about sin, and that sin is an illusion.  And it mentions the word A LOT.  So I go ahead and look it up in the dictionary.  It makes for a lot of fun.  Also a tiny blurb on projecting and all as control freaks who are afraid of death :).Episode notes:Register for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here: www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.comI have not done an A Course In Miracles episode in a while.  A feel like the ACIM episodes are very vulnerable for me because I start talking about God and sin and it can feel very dogmatic and I am not a very dogmatic person.  Much of what ACIM talks about is that sin is an illusion, that sin is not real.  That I am not sinful.  That you are not sinful.  That all of us, everybody, and this is the rub, everybody, even the people who you think are sinful.  Are not.  We are all one…  The illusion of separation, so sin is not real, because we are all what.ACIM uses the word often.Here is the definition of Sin according to Webster’s dictionary:Sin1 a: an offense against religious or moral law.1 b: an action that is thought to be highly reprehensible.The more we can see that sin is an illusion, than the better we will feel about others and about ourselves.1 c: an often serious shortcoming or fault.I am going all in on this idea that there is no sin.  Can my god be big enough that there is no sin?  If there is an executioner coming to get me, can I smile at him as he opens the door to the executioners room?  Can I believe there is something more/greater beyond me?2 a: a transgression of the law of god.  (That’s pretty heavy)2 b: a vitiated state of human nature in which the self is estranged from god.I love that, we feel separate.Vitiated:1 to make faulty or defective/impair2 to debase in moral or aesthetic status.3 to make in affective.An ineffective state of human nature in which the self is estranged from god!  I love that.  When I am estranged from god I am ineffective.Sin as a Verb.  Sinned sinning.1 To commit a sin.  To commit an offense or fault.I love the idea that we are all gods children, everybody.  And so none of us are committing offenses or faults, we are doing the best we can in the moment.ACIM Chp 23, THE WAR AGAINST YOURSELF, sec "Introduction", 2.4. “It is as certain you will fear what you attack as it is sure you will love as what you perceive as sinless.”  And I thought that was pretty fancy.Some commentary on that that I am to tired to type cause I’m tired from working on the summit :).Ok, a big thought people…  So what upsets me, If I’m projecting on to people, If I look at a murderer and think they are bad it is just because I fear death.  The illusion of dying in the right way.  Or the right time.  We are all just a bunch of control freaks who have a hard time comprehending the end.  Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:5011/07/2021
Is that pronounced “Wean’er?”  Or “Wine’er?”

Is that pronounced “Wean’er?” Or “Wine’er?”

On this episode I am all in on the 2021 Tools For A Good Life Summit!  I am having a ton of fun interviewing the speakers and more speakers confirm.  The numbers are playing out.  And a little rif on my son may just fail a class and not graduate high school! I had to call him out.Episode notes:Register here for the Tools For A Good Life Summit  www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.com!  I am all in on the summit.  From previous episodes I realize how much I had been hedging…But first, please Jesus let Waylon graduate…  I got the email that no father wants!  “Your son is in danger of not graduating!”  As I record this he has 3 weeks left of school and he has an “F” in history.  I’m sorry to call you out Waylon but my god!  He had all A’s last year, but the senioritous and the covid…  He’s trying, he’s gone from 25% to 37%…  But he’s got a way to go…  I let my guard down for a minute and…  I thought he was on auto pilot and he was on auto pilot to not graduating…But anyway, I am all in on the summit!  as I was editing old episodes when I recorded this one I realized I was hedging in a big way.  But just confirming again that I am all in :).  Cutting the check was the all all in moment.  As of this recording may 28th I have 5 of the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” interviews done.  Register here www.toolsforagoodlifesummit.com!  I interviewed Craig Weiner today and he was awesome!  We had a funny moment with his last name…He’s been helping people for 20-30 years.  What a great guy man.I have interviewed a diverse bunch.  There is a spiritual theme through all of these speakers…  They are all tapped in.I’ve all of the sudden started clocking the hours.  The universe has helped make space for that.THe numbers are working to about 1 speaker per 10 emails.  I got a couple of speakers from the 2nd invite sent to speakers.  I.e. invited them again…Recording podcast episodes has really taken a back seat…  So much of my creative energy has gone to the summit that it seems to be taking from episode recording.  I am 6 weeks ahead so there actually is no sense of urgency :).  The episode I just edited today, which was recorded 6 weeks ago, I wanted to not publish that episode!  Cause it sucked…  But I published it anyway.A teaser for my “top tips to going through divorce gracefully” episode.  It’s funny, some people don’t want to go through their divorce gracefully…  They want to fight :).Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
12:2310/07/2021
Interview #27 "Meg the Awesome!"

Interview #27 "Meg the Awesome!"

After interview #11 Jess Beers and Interview #16 Greg Beckett, I introduce you to the fourth part and final piece of the Flow Group: Meg Gibbs!  Meg has deep deep routes in Native American Shamanism and those style modalities; effectively having grown up in it with her family…  She is also powerful in movement having being a trained dancer since a very young age.  And, of course there, is more to the story…  There are bombs a plenty in this one! Episode notes:I'm still working hard on the Tools For A Good Life Summit register here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/ and actually take all the notes for this episode while I was walking...  Not a bad job!Find all things Meg Gibbs right here: www.Meggibbs.comArc of life.  Megs mom died when she was young.  Breast cancer 3 times. 9 - 24 effectively.  Ended up being primary caregiver.  Best friend etc.  spiritual worker.  Indigenous perspective. Meg effectively got mentored in the buis at a young age.Grief - I get to decide.  I like toTalk about grief w some sassyness.  Nobody gets to decide what you’re going through but you.  There are some universal truths but…Mz- Kyle cease. The grief pattern.  I finally feel like I’m on the other side of grief.  My parents died at same time as her mom.She joined a “the dinner party”. Gone through loss in 20’s and 30’s.I like her idea of compounding loss…That feeling of all my heart is being ripped out of my body again. Where other people take a couple days eat ice cream and are back out there… They’re like whatever I don’t care :-)Don’t cry at the barista just get my chai and leave… Don’t cry at the barista just get my chai and leave.You’ve got to do it the best way you know how…  I so value people who show up… Even though they know they’re gonna say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. They still show up.“That sense of who is that part of me. What is that maybe wants to be rekindled And maybe what part wants to be let go of.Transition to following her inspiration to become a coach…  When I found Coaching I was like “You mean I get to get paid to have important conversations about people’s dreams and fears and shit that matters…That’s the rainbow and butterflies version. But that’s not what happened… That’s not how it went.People think coaching is advice giving. And it’s not.  Coaching is about asking questions and drawing somebody’s answers out of themselves. Out of Their truths. Out of their knowing.  It’s not my job to tell somebody what to do.So I started a business in the midst of grief…. I didn’t know this was going to be hard. I just knew I’d like to talking to people.   And eight years deep and I’m still trying to figure it out…  We are in this for the long-haul. I signed up for this 10 or 20 year track.Which direction do you want to go?  Native American Shamanism  and how powerful rich and deep that is in your life. Or the movement exercises and visualizations.Has an alternative family…. Lesbian moms. Huge gay family. Lots of adopted family.  Was trying to have a normal experience and failing…When 11 Mom started working with a Lakota teacher so she started working with the Lakota teacher to….  And the Native American shamanism starts from there….Godfather started the “First Existential Congregation” when she was 6. The first E…The way I decided which collage to go to is I did a Medicean wheel in the back yard…I was totally misunderstood in the outer world.I want to help people feel safe in the world.Shamanism is how I see the world. It’s very ingrained in how I see the world.As a child I grew out unblocked.  You told me to go outside and find spirit and that’s what I did.  When 17 yrs old. Meets her other teacher, Don Mariano, lives in the Andes of Peru. He is a mountain shaman vs a jungle shaman.This integrated into how I see the world and how I show up in the world. Vs I learned a methodology and now I’m going to teach it to you.She was in the “AP” class of healers at a young age.   “I’m so weird”.  I came out of the womb with no chance of being normal. And I was so mad about it as a kid. “I just wanted to be a cheerleader.”I have these kind of seminal moments…Dance…. The movement thing…  I was 11 when I started dance…. I grew up really fast…. I had joined a conservatory and was dancing in New York by 12….I have learned to name now “dance trauma”…. The body issue stuff from hitting puberty. I was “voluptuous”.  It was a hard experience. We lied on our resumes about our weight when we were 14.  It was not a realistic standard of how it is to be a person.At some point I started Choreography and started to focus on the process and creating a sacred place of feeling safe in your body…At 17 18 my life was over because I was not going to be able to be the professional dancer that I strives to be since I was twelve because my body type wasn’t right.   There’s a meg shaped hole in the universe and I’m the only one that can fill it.  That failure I experienced created the space that I hold for people.She references “The Liz Lerman Dance Exchange”. https://www.danceexchange.org/.At one point she works with disabled body dancers…. An amazing combo of humans.  “There’s 17000 other ways to do this”.The experience of just “being in my body” is probably the most powerful learning that I’ve had in all these years.(MZ) One of the most powerful things that you did for me…. Find the fun ness!  It’s been huge in my life.  Honoring the little boy in me. I was wanting to have that piece of freedom again. And note have to be an “achievement”.Her move to Colorado from Atlanta.  She really wanted it to be California….I just kept waiting and people kept mentioning Colorado.  “But it’s cold!”  A wise person tells her perhaps people are a little more grounded in the mountains.  I got off the plane and knew it was right.  That sense of release of having a place is really phenomenal.   Deciding to stay is opening up that community.  And that I am where I am supposed to be.Kyle Cease.   How did you end up at flow group?  Comedy is what helps me get through.  And he labeled himself as a transformational comedian.  So…. Jaunting off to “EOL” In CA followed the breadcrumbs. Flow group, I had money to play with…  Perhaps anti climactic for you.  “Yes”.No current relationship.  Single and ready to flamingo 🦩:).  I’m open to whoever wants to waltz into my life and be the right person long term.EMDR - to work on trauma around loss from her mom.In a 9 month training with Resmaa Menakem who wrote “My Grandmother's Hands: Radicalized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and BodiesI”f now is the time… what do I want to do with that?I started doing some of the “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up”  To help sleep “The Power of When: Discover Your Chronotype”.  Different sleep chrono types.  I’ve got to get my house in order.There is no wrong way to do it.  There is no wrong way to be you in the world.For all things Meg go to www.Meggibbs.com…and a meditation to take us home.Thank you Meg the awesome :)Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
01:32:2309/07/2021
It was like “What the F just happened? Somehow I’m divorced dad guy.”

It was like “What the F just happened? Somehow I’m divorced dad guy.”

I made my last child support payment this day…  As a divorced dad it took me a while to come to terms with, “OMG I’m divorced dad guy, and I’m making child support and alimony payments?”  I also discuss some of the awesome summit interviews that I have had for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit”…  I’m definitely pleasantly surprised!Episode notes:Tools For A Good Life Summit - Register here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/I made my last child support payment today…  It’s a big deal.  It’s sussing out interesting emotions in me.  I got separated tail end of 2010…  10.5 yrs ago.  That’s a lot of years of child support payments.As a divorced dad it took me a while to come to terms with, OMG I’m divorced dad guy, and I’m making child support and alimony payments.  It was such a disassociated moment because I had worked so hard to build a family and everything…  It was like, “What the F just happened?”  Somehow I’m divorced dad guy.On the one hand I was like “I can’t wait until this is over and those are done.”  But I had the very distinct awareness that  “You’re just going to be a lot older”.  So better enjoy making the payments because when they end you are just going to be a lot older.  And guess what “I’m just a lot older”.  It’s such a marker of time.  Both my boys are done with high school…  And heading into their 20’s.  One’s already 20.  It’s a trippy thing man. Life is a trippy thing.As mentioned already, I got 35 yrs sober.  “I am not the clean and sober rep.”  I just happened to be a dude who is clean and sober.  And got to do a good 2/3’s of his life, so far, as that.  It’s trippy.I recorded two interviews for the summit and they were awesome!  They were really good.  Some people are dropping some nuggets of goodness and it’s a lot of fun.Dom The Hypnotist - https://www.domthehypnotist.com/ I was so pleasantly surprised man.  He crushed it!  OMG he was good.  Just the positivity and the awareness…  I knew when I found him, This is a down to earth legit dude man, who knows about hypnotherapy, it would be amazing if I got him on.  And sure enough I did.  You have his interviews to look forward to…The other was Sheryne Willson - https://www.innermindperformance.com/ Gosh she’s beautiful, a beautiful women just A shining light, and vulnerable.  And willing to go for it.  I was totally crushing on her.  I could be in love lol.  So pleasantly surprised she had so many nuggets and bombs.  I was so pleasantly surprised with both of them.  Craig Weiner is tomorrow…Sheryne asked me a couple of great questions and caught me off guard.It’s coming together (the summit), I don’t know how.  Tools For A Good Life Summit - Register here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
09:4208/07/2021
I’m very grateful for my parents because they saved me a lifetime of misery.  Yes they did...

I’m very grateful for my parents because they saved me a lifetime of misery. Yes they did...

I’m very reflective as I recorded this episode.  It is the 35th yr anniversary of me getting clean and sober.  I tell you a little about some funny moments around that week of time; as well as it is hitting me very hard how my parents effectively helped save me from a lifetime of misery.Episode notes:It still freaks me out that Zoom tells me “I’m Recording”.I’m somber, yet excited, and exhausted, and hopeful, and all these emotions going through me…May 27th, 35 years ago today, was the day I got clean and sober.  I was 17 years and 9 months old.  For some reason I’m feeling it today.  That’s like 35 years, 3 and 1/2 decades, that is quite a thing.  Just with love, and amazement, and awareness, and awe.  I don’t mean that in an egotistical way…  I am at awe at the workings of the universe.  I am grateful and humbled.Some people said some really sweet things to me today.  To be able to take those thoughts in , those nice words in, in a group setting…  Some people were very nice and impassioned in what they were saying.  Just good things.  To feel that love.  And to see other people be really uncomfortable, as awesomeness was showered on me :).I want you to know that 35 years ago, Judge Rank…  I had graduated to Judge Rank.  And when you graduated to Judge Rank you were in trouble.My father was a lawyer in town, a lawyer of note, and he had worked a deal with judge Rank…I have him the whole “I have a friend routine”.  He said I’ve already heard the story, don’t go to school, or they will arrest you.So he worked the deal…  You can go to jail for 6 months or you can go to treatment.  And by the grace of god I new that sobriety was the path.  “Great you can go turn yourself in in jail”.They let me go to the last day of high school and I walked out of school, got in a car, headed to the airport, and was on a plane to a treatment center. Both my mother and father, who both passed away sober.  Layed the foundation of recovery for me.  Mom had dad had planted the seed of recovery in me.  That initial spark took hold.  That’s quite a thing I think.  I’m very grateful for my parents, because they saved me a lifetime of misery.  Yes they did.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
08:4107/07/2021
Look, this isn’t even real, it’s already happened or it’s a week away!

Look, this isn’t even real, it’s already happened or it’s a week away!

As I continue to check of boxes of the summit project, each milestone I think, “Ok, now I’ll be able to get some sleep.”  But it just keeps opening Pandora’s Box just a little bit further!Episode notes:Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here! https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/Blow nose, Clear throat, have a sip of water, make sure you have a glass of water available.  That is my pre episode record checklist.  This episode is about Pandora’s Box.  The Pandora’s Box episode.  I better record this before I go to bed, or it will be one of those that I write it down that I never get to; because I have stacks of those.About a week ago I really started not sleep well at night.  Tossing and turning, the mind churning.  I’d recorded a couple interviews…  I thought that after I did the first summit interview everything would settle down.  The summit interviews are very different, I’m trying to suss out usable steps for the listeners.  Valuable content.  I was nervous about that.  That’s a lot of pressure.Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here! https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/Again, the first interview was Anthony Trucks, and he told some great stories of 60,000 person stadium moments…So after I got the 2nd interview done I would sleep better…  But it’s like Pandora’s Box.  Each box that I check, each checklist that I get done, it opens the box even more!  So there is a whole new set of things to worry about…Every step where I have the breakthrough and think I’m done just leads to a bigger part of the puzzle.  When I committed to the “Who” I was like please let this allow me to get some sleep…I would be rolling through the interviews in my head in the middle of the night…  “This interviews done, why is it rolling though my melon?”Look, this isn’t even real, it’s already happened or it’s a week away.“Getting one thing done and I hope it provides relief, but it just opens the box further”.  Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
08:0206/07/2021
I whipped out the credit card. That’s the ultimate level of commitment isn’t it?

I whipped out the credit card. That’s the ultimate level of commitment isn’t it?

Recap: 1) The amazing Dawson Church is on the summit!  2) When podcasting; make sure you’re prepared. Your nose is blown, you have your water, and you’ve cleared your throat. And 3) How the “Who” fell into place. I committed to the “Who”!  And more!Episode notes:It is incredible now that I’m a professional podcaster all the you have to do before you hit record.Blow your nose.Make sure your throats clear.Make sure you have a glass of water.  Today - a very exciting day.  My 5th speaker confirmation.  Dawson church. Who wrote “Bliss Brain”. Very excited about that.  You have Dawson church to look forward to on the “Tools for a good life summit” click here to register.I’m burnt out and tired today :).I committed a to a who!  I cut a check to the “who” Andrea .  Andrea, Yeah!  She will help me on the summit tech side of things.  She is going to help me build the summit “literally”.  All the website stuff.  All the magic. All the automation. All the hosting.  It is going to allow you to have a beautiful experience.I whipped out the credit card. That’s the ultimate level of commitment isn’t it? Because up until that exact moment I had just been scheduling and doing interviews.  Plunking out some cash.  Yeah. It’s happening.  July 26-28th.It’s cool how she fell into place. She is the perfect who for me. She was who #3.  Who  #1’s mother told on me so I lost him.  I was a little bit disturbed by the universe. It was wishful thinking that who number one would work right away. Number 2 was not a good fit either.  But I learned a lot from both.I had this moment of “it could go one of two ways.”  One was panic and put everything on hold - until I found The Who.  I did have that thought.  …but then the next thought; Be calm no need to panic.  Keep pressing on. Keep interviewing inviting speakers and The Who will drop into place when the time is right.And then shows up Andrea :). Patient.  I need some patience. She’s patient w me. And she is very good at what she does so you know you are in good hands my audience. It is going to be an amazing experience top to bottom.Recap: How The Who fell into place. I committed to The Who.  Make sure you’re prepared. Your nose is blown, you have your water, and you’ve cleared your throat.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:4705/07/2021
I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time!  Yay!

I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time! Yay!

Two main topics of discussion today… I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time and the fun insecurities that came from that.  And how am I gonna deal with time right now?  Cause the illusion of time is real!Episode notes:Tell me what you’re gonna say say it. Tell em what you said.I’m a bit obsessive compulsive with my phone right now as I reach out to speakers… (And I talked to that new girl.)  Looking for that adrenaline pop of the “yes”.God bless podcasting and god bless that letting go of attachment, saying what’s on your mind and being messy…. Cause Having to do it right sometimes is to much work.Gonna talk about two things.I was interviewed for a podcast for the first time!How am I gonna deal with time right now?  Cause the illusion of time is real.So Arlina’s “one day at a time podcast”. You can listen to the interview here https://odaatchat.com/index.php/2021/06/02/mischa/ Up until now I was not ready to go on a podcast and I was aware of it.  I didn’t want to look bad let’s say.  The ego was strong.Sometimes I have these deep metaphysical thoughts and I fell like I don’t know how to talk about them yet. So she reached back out…. “Let’s swap episodes.”“Let’s do it” and I volunteered to go on first.  It was cool to put that fear aside and put myself out there to new levels.I think it went good :). And I let it rip. I talked about some stuff and I was like “uh oh”. Every five years I’m like damn “whatever I was talking about five years ago I was talking out my ass”.“Man was I just being self important?”As I get new ideas I assume they are new to everybody.   And they’re like duh Mischa. I’ve been playing in that space for a long time.  “Welcome to the party”It’s all in good fun.The other thing is.  As I’m feeling the time crunch of the summit…. Now I’ve got to systemize the thank you’s.   Omg further behind…. And I’m editing up the interviews.    I can’t spend a whole evening editing up podcast interviews.  I’ve got to find a better way.  That can be a who or a how.  I can take bits of the summit interviews and turn those into episodes.  One to pre sell and the other a cool little teaser. Conversations that I’m naturally having with people I need to be recording them and turn that into content. And it could be super fun.I got interviewed for a podcast! Yay!Deal with the illusion of time. That sure does feel real!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:2804/07/2021
The right information is going to come at the right time.  You do not need to worry.

The right information is going to come at the right time. You do not need to worry.

First a riff on how, with my hair, the look I’m going for is “Middle Aged Jesus”.  And then moving from a state of busy overwhelm and a little sleeplessness to everything is happening when, and where, and how it’s supposed to.  So love it.  Bottom line is the summit is just a representation of, and my insecurities around the summit are just magnifications of, my insecurities around life…Episode notes:  Register for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/The look I’m going, with my hair, middle aged Jesus.  Said with love and no disrespect to Jesus or any Jesus believers out there.  But then as I saw my hair getting fuller and bigger, i thought…  All the pictures I’ve seen of Jesus, he does not have as much hair as I do.  His is maybe a little stringier, it’s long.  Shoulder length, but it’s not quite as full and curly.  A little more danglier curls.  Maybe that’s because they didn’t shower as much back in the day…Again, no disrespect to Jesus, but my hair is a little fuller.  So middle aged Samson, that’s the look I’m going for.I keep having this interesting experience of being pushed to the limit relative to time and what I’m capable of doing.  Then I have that peak experience, slight overwhelm state, what is happening around here?  How is this gonna get done?Then I will get a key bit done…  Yesterday it was creating some templates for speakers, some responses.  It seems sometimes like people don’t like templating responses because they feel it de-personalizes it.  But you can do a template and have it still be personal…  the details can be templated, but you make it personal around that.We called it “one-timing” it back in the mortgage business.  “One Time” it.  If you are going to be sending the same thing lots of times, create it one time so then you can automate it.  People know it is the important stuff I need to know, and they don’t need it re-typed every time to feel special.Anyhow, the peak overwhelm state, is making for a few sleepless nights…  So I’ve been going to god.  Like in the middle of the night, hey god :).  The dogma less god…I woke up at 4:30…  Went to my hour mediation.  Which have been awesome my meditations are really good right now.Although I might not be having the transcendent experiences because I’m not doing it right…  According to some Kriya Yoga practitioners.But I had the opposite of the overwhelm this morning.  I had the, everything is fine, everything is ok, everything its supposed to happen, and it’s gonna happen the way its supposed to happen.  I am in good hands and I am free of the attachment of how when or what is gonna go down, and it’s gonna go down the way it’s supposed to.  And I love that!How am I gonna edit the interviews for the podcast, edit the interviews for the summit, perhaps a who?  A really cool ideas came to me of who I could repurpose bits of the summit interviews for the podcast and it would be promotional at the same time.The right information is going to come at the right time.  You do not need to worry.  And that feels good.  And having that free of the expectation of whats going to come of it.  The attachment of how when and where has slipped away.  At least in this moment.  The right stuff is gonna happen at the right time.  And not only for the summit but for life.  Everything is happening when, and where, and how it’s supposed to.  So love it.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
13:5103/07/2021
Interview #26 Sales Ascender Sean Malone

Interview #26 Sales Ascender Sean Malone

Sean Malone’s “Bitch Slap” happened to be a bottom in his business…  He walked away from a 7 figure company to start anew…  Make no mistake Sean Malone is good at what he does and his new business, Sales Ascenders, is on the rise and good for his family and his soul!  What's the number one thing he attributes to his success?  Listen in!  You'll want the answer.Episode notes:We’ve got sales stories, sports stories, and there’s some tears.  Sean is a master salesman, and a master of the sales process, you'll probably want to hire him when we're done! Catch a listen because he gives you a frameworks, tips, tricks, and tools to help you succeed.My favorite bombs!"Small audiences can create big revenue if you do it right."“I had a coach that taught me the fundamentals and I practiced the craft”“Mind work, skill work, network. Every time! “The books he references:"Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business" by Gino Wickman https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1936661845/ref=cm\_sw\_em\_r\_mt\_dp\_BCCXEMVPMJK6Y4KPZ9T9?\_encoding=UTF8&psc=1"Rocket Fuel: The One Essential Combination That Will Get You More of What You Want from Your Business" by Gino Wickman https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1941631150/ref=cm\_sw\_em\_r\_mt\_dp\_HGNDXDFAPXTGEY48C431?\_encoding=UTF8&psc=1Thank you Sean Malone!  You crushed!Check out the Sales Ascenders Inner Circle private FaceBook Group here, (it is value add all the way) perhaps they will let you in: https://bit.ly/SalesAscendersInnerCircleYou can sneak peak and demo there software here: https://bit.ly/FlowChatDemo1And I’m still working on my Tools For A Good Life Summit - Register Here - https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/ So that’s all the notes you get!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
55:0102/07/2021
It turns out I was fretting for not; I’ve comfortably landed at 20 speakers.

It turns out I was fretting for not; I’ve comfortably landed at 20 speakers.

A real time update on where I am with the summit.  If you’ve been listening to my podcast for a while you know that i’m a month or so behind from recording to publishing…  But to make sure everyone knows the Tools For A Good Life Summit is happening in a big way I thought I would give a realtime update as I’m driving to IKEA killing time…  Episode notes:Register for the “Tools For A Good Life Summit” here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/A driving episode!  Off to Ikea - To get Waylon a new rug for his room.  I’m either getting him a new rug for his room OR I am wasting time from working on copy for the 2021 Tools For A Good Life Summit”.  As I record this episode I have 20 confirmed speakers with 15 of the interviews recorded…  and that’s good and I’m happy.  It’s time to shift to next steps!  I was hoping for 30, and for a while I was absolutely worried I was only gonna have 4 speakers.  And it turns out I was fretting for not; I’ve comfortably landed between 4 and 30 speakers at 20.To help me get to 20 I had a few missing holes or gaps in what I wanted people to speak on so I strictly focused on those gaps…  Service, nutrition, and not nutrition to get ripped but nutrition for stress management, a balanced nutrition person.  Also EMDR, and DBT.  And CBT.  Amy Tran is the Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) speaker, and she was amazing, speaking to parents with kids.Was hoping for some chill prayer…  Some non dogmatic prayer…  Someone to speak on talking to source.  But I have a few speakers who speak to prayer so all good.Its time to get copy together.  And it’s kind of freaking me out.  There is free access and paid access.  Paid access is unlimited viewing as well as bonus videos, some speakers are offering VIP bonus gifts, summit workbook, transcript, MP3’s so you can download and listen on the go…There will be this membership page that is all within the summit funnel.  There is a membership landing page where everyone goes and watches the videos, etc.You need copy for two reasons. 1) to explain how everything works so they can partake and then 2) sales copy to entice people to register.  So I get to work on sales copy.  What’s freaking me out on sales copy is it took me 6 months to figure out what to name the summit in there first place.  A headline to get me started…  And that headline is not sufficient, lol.So it’s taken me so much mental effort and stamina to get here that I am scared..So here I am going to IKEA to get Waylon a good rug for his room…  One to replace the  temporary one I got him a bit ago…Teenagers are hard on things that is all there is to it…  So I’m headed to Ikea to get him a nice rug and to kill time before I work on sales copy.  v2Register for the Tools For A Good Life Summit here https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com/Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
11:2801/07/2021
“Welcome back to the ‘Tools For A Good Life Summit’…”

“Welcome back to the ‘Tools For A Good Life Summit’…”

I recorded this episode on May 18, 2021.  I had just completed my first official summit interview with Anthony Trucks…  And it was awesome and I was pumped up.  (As I publish this episode I have 20 speakers confirmed with 15 of the interviews recorded!)  I also give you a fairly good rundown of what the Tools For A Good Life Summit is going to be about.Episode notes:I did my first summit interview…  And oh my gosh I was so nervous.  Keep in mind I’ve interviewed 25 people for the podcast.  Made hundreds of thousands of cold calls for when I was selling.  You are affectively interviewing your customer in sales…  I give you a quick little education on selling mortgages, lol.In the morning to do list.  Prep for the Anthony Trucks interview…   The big fear, as I interview for the podcast I have a ton of flexibility.  While for the summit there is a specific agenda.“The Tools For A Good Life Summit” https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.com Bringing together 30  speakers to talk about tools/modalities for guys like me…  successful or once successful, going through a rough patch, where two of the three legs of the stools are nocked out from under them…Anthony is personality profiles, specifically your identity.  So you can use that as a tool to get headed in the new right direction.  When the person is done listening to the interview on the summit there is actionable steps they can take from listing to the summit.Two part interview for the summit.  A “free session” and a “bonus session”“Welcome back to the Tools For A Good Life Summit…”  “Upgrade to the All Access Pass”.Where you can go find them, etc…I did his “what is your identity” question and it was so awesome!  It helped me press forward with the summit!  Take is quiz here! https://identityshift.outgrow.us/sloworgoquizAnthony Trucks crushed it!  He gives you actionable steps!  You will love the Summit interviews…  https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.comIt was incredible how much fear I had before the interview!  Before it I was thinking “What have I done”.I got a new round of invites out!  Guiding people to the speaker invite page.  And it worked!  So excited to have that stuff come together.Follow the steps, take the instructions!  And Bam! Bob’s your uncle! I have momentum!Tools to grow, change,  thrive, get through hard times.  OMG, you look so professional!Anthony Trucks thank you so much for being my first interview for the summit, for showing up, for just crushing it and providing amazing content.Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
14:4630/06/2021
There was some subversive manipulative behavior going on.

There was some subversive manipulative behavior going on.

On Krystal Kelly’s interview, for the good of the people, I edited out a sentence or two.  And the cool thing was that I was willing to edit out, and to edit out without any drama…  Which was not necessarily the case with the very first interview I did…  Turns out I am making progress!Episode notes:Being willing to take out some of the juicy parts of an interview…  On Krystal Kelly’s interview, perhaps for the good of the people it would be worth to cut out 15 seconds here, 15 seconds there…  But at first I wasn’t. While doing yoga the inspiration came to me to ask Crystal if she wanted to edit out some parts of the interview.   And that was a breakthrough for me.   The actual first interview I recorded with Lisa Randall I was super stubborn and published her episode even though she didn’t want me to…  There was some subversive manipulative behavior going on… Mischa you’re just being an asshole…  Of course I finally took Lisa’s it down a week later :).So it was a really cool moment to be willing to and quickly offer up to edit out something…  That’s growth for Mischa…  And not being so attached to outcomes… Krystal only wanted one sentence out lol :).  She didn’t really care but was just being safe.And Lisa’s interview is now a ghost episode…  And I love that!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov    Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:1529/06/2021
Enjoy the down time.  Recharge.  Don’t feel guilty about it!

Enjoy the down time. Recharge. Don’t feel guilty about it!

After pushing hard to get the “Tools For A Good Life Summit”; building the speaker invite list, sending invite emails, speaker contracts, building the speaker invite page, etc, I’m wiped out!  And I was able to take a couple days off and not feel guilty about it!  Now that’s progress.Episode notes:Sign up for summit here: https://toolsforagoodlifesummit.comI don’t know if this is going to be useful information or not…  But I was crushed from the big push last month…  All the summit stuff…  Building the invite list, sending out the invites, the contracts, building the the speaker invite page, etc, etc…  I should have made the speaker landing page first.  It answers many of the questions that speakers have, and makes it more personal, more useful…  I was even giving personal replies to the “no’s”…  The summit school is a 90 day process that has you working on the summit every day.  And I’ve reset that timeline a few times.  Bottom line is I was wiped out.  I knew I was done, no more bandwidth to work on the summit for a couple days.  This is the cool realization that came out of it: I was able to not feel guilty about not working on it sooner in the day.  Enjoy the down time.  Re-charge, don’t feel guilty about it!  Laying in the grass in the sun at the park, for like 3 hours.  I was stone cold kicking it, in the grass, in the park.  It was so good.  I don’t do that enough.  Parks are awesome!  It was fun to play the uncle with my friends boys.Kids sure do need a lot of attention.  Tag, chase me, spin on the spin’y thing…Then it was watch a movie and not feel guilty, and I didn’t!  Then some yoga and a hot shower!A really good day of doing nothing and savoring it!Start podcasting!  Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic, you can literally take it anywhere on the fly https://amzn.to/2Mnba3QAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peace    See more resources at https://belove.media/resources.   Email me: [email protected]   For social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/  https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzov     Subscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.  Mischa's Stuff!Join my Podcast guest speaking Masterclass: Register NowThis Masterclass will teach you:How to speak with confidence and authenticity.How to find podcasts that attract your ideal audience.How to get booked without the hassle.Ideal for coaches, course creators, and heart-centered entrepreneurs who want to generate leads, customers, and sales in a genuine way.Join us and start your journey to becoming a podcast guest-speaking pro!Register Now______________________For social Media:      LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mischaz/Subscribe and share with your business associates who could use a listen!
10:2228/06/2021