After being inspired to play with the "Wouldn't It Be Nice If ..." manifesting technique from Abraham, my guy showed just how easy it is to be a big winner with it. Also, we have horses!

Year end is a perfect time to release the things, habits, people, or thoughts that aren't serving you. I broke up with my calendar, phone notifications, some social media, covid 2.0, along with a couple friends.  They say breaking up is hard to do, but it's actually a big vibrational relief!

If you could do anything right now, what would it be? That's the question that changes everything. At least, following that answer does. When we honor our highest happiness, we create the kind of alignment that ensures swift delivery of favorite dreams come true.  I propose it's high time we stop muggling our way through life and more consistently live what we know works best: following our highest excitement! 

Of everything I’ve experimented with and all the tools I’ve tried out over the span of two decades, what stands out for me as the single most helpful practice for creating what we want is this: Find a way to feel better.

Before expecting reality to change, we have to lead the way vibrationally. That means being willing to feel what we want before it happens. This is basic stuff, but worth remembering that we can only get what we feel. Feel it first, then let it happen -because reality can only follow your lead.

This last year hasn't been easy for a lot of folks. Which is why it's more important than ever that we turn attention toward what is lovable about 2020, because right now we're setting the tone for 2021. 

An unsuspecting mentor shows conscious creators how to sail through contrast ... Tiktok's @420doggface208 is a great example of how to not get taken out of the game when things go wrong. Instead how to keep your vibe up and let the benefits from contrast roll in.

After watching a couple friends blow their chances to relax and enjoy "time between jobs," I realized they weren't the only ones doing this routine. It's not unusual for us to hold out for the resolution of a problem before we breathe out a sigh of relief and get back to enjoying life. But it doesn't need to be like that ... Conscious creators can make a habit of "enjoying the meantime."

After my attempt to convert an LOA skeptic with a simple manifesting experiment, I realized he's already a master manifestor. Here's what happened when we tried to show each other what we each believed ...

Loving and missing feel like two different emotions to me, so when it was time for White Kitty and Elsa to move out of their worn out bodies and on to whatever's next, I made them a big promise ...  That instead of missing them I would love them. This is another reminder about all the different ways we can practice unconditional love (physical bodies in present reality not required). 

Any time we think we need someone else to behave a certain way in order for us to be happy, we've lost our LOA minds. The truth is our satisfaction and well-being requires only us. So anytime we think someone else is ruining our party, it's worth remembering that we don't need them in order to have what we want. 

Imagine Universe knows an even better way to get you what you want ...  And imagine in order to allow that you need to let go of knowing so certainly what it should be. That was my lesson when manifesting a new physical healer. 

The stories we tell (to ourselves and others) want to keep coming true. Even if we're telling an old story, it looks for ways to unfold in our reality again and again. That's why it's worth being selective about the stories we tell. Some are worth putting on repeat; others ... not so much. 

When we call in something new and better, we have to be willing to make room for that change. Life continually wants to get better for us, and in order for that to happen we have to let go of what was in order to allow for what’s coming. This is a reminder to welcome change when it's upon you ...

A short but sweet reminder about how our focus changes who shows up for us ... which is why the guy I'm dating is different for me than he was for anyone else. Here's to seeing the best in everyone around us!

Some of us act like our problems are powerful things we have to grapple with, when the truth is they can't exist without us.   Problems literally rely on us for their very existence. When we stop feeding them, they stop existing.   This is the conscious creator remedy to problems you'd like to disappear ...

Next time you're frustrated or discouraged because you can't see how things are going to work out for you, remember you're not supposed to see "how."  Your job is to see "what" you want, not how to get there.

When it seems like all the news is bad, all the things are breaking, and nothing will ever be good again … When no one’s nice, and the wrongs can’t be righted, and you can’t even have a good cry because the tears are all used up … That’s a good time to give yourself solace. Grant yourself the gift of relief.

Even when you think it can't get any better, that's exactly what life does when you flow appreciation, because that's what momentum does. Whatever you activate grows! That was this week's reminder out on a new trail with Harvey ...

After a love interest stopped giving me what I wanted, and I eventually stopped needing him to deliver, it came together beautifully. This alignment was somewhat accidental, but you can learn from my experience and do this on purpose next time something isn't coming together for you ...    

What happens when you love someone so much you can't stop talking about how much you love them? That stuff rubs off. :)

When it's time to make a big decision, I don’t have to evaluate the options. I don’t have to perform due diligence. I don’t have to ask the experts. I don’t have to know all the angles or consult the oracle. All I have to do is listen to what feels better. That’s how inner guidance points the way forward. I love remembering that I never need to decide anything. The way is always clear when I listen within to the part of me that knows.

If you think money can't come to you because you don't have a job or any other way it can flow in, you're right.  And if you think money comes to you in all sorts of delightful ways even when you don't have a job, you're right. This is the story of a guy who doubled his income with an "attitude of gratitude."

You can speak up, or not. You can protest, or not. You can be peaceful about it, or not. You can focus on what feels better, or not. No one knows what you should be doing right now except for your inner guidance. Trust that above all else.

When you want to lose the weight, or get rid of the debt, or heal from this illness or stop feeling lonely ...  It's good to remember that we can’t get rid of what we don’t want. Whatever we focus on grows. So when you want to get rid of something, it works way way better when we engage these two things.

What do you consistently do every day without fail? Most of us have something we're super regular about: our daily coffee, checking email, taking supplements or meds.  Of all the things on our daily to-do list, an alignment practice is the one we'll get the most leverage from!

How much contrast do you engage before remembering you can call a halt at any time? I was 17 hours in on a mildly miserable experience before realizing it was time to change my mind. Here's to remembering sooner rather than later that we are in charge of how much contrast we put up with ...

All this talk about global recession sounds like a good time for us to remember that we each create our own financial reality.  These are the three thoughts I use to stay aligned to financial abundance when others choose differently ...

This isn’t our first rodeo. Conscious creators know how to play with contrast. We know how to stay out of resistance. We know how to say yes to what is and to look forward to what comes next. Here are three questions to help us make the most of our time with coronavirus ...

This is our time to shine, fellow creators! We of all people know how to manage our vibe when reality isn't giving easy reasons to feel good. We’ve likely not encountered a more powerful vehicle for ushering in “even better” in our time. Let’s not squander this contrast. We know how it works. Time to use your magic!

Sometimes conscious creators expect the reality to change before our thoughts and feelings do. That’s not how it works! If you’re using law of attraction to manifest a job change, or a new romance, or weight loss, or more money (or anything at all) so that you can feel better, you’ll want to rethink your approach. We can only get what we already feel, so if you’re counting on external life changes in order to feel better, you’re stuck in limbo.

It seems obvious that we’d know how to say yes to what we want when it shows up, but sometimes it’s more challenging than you’d guess … Having what you want takes alignment, and sometimes that takes practice!  

If you've ever adopted unhelpful beliefs because of something you read about a study that was conducted or research that was published, let's remember this about things proven to be "true" ... Anything can be proven true when someone puts enough attention on it.  That's where reality comes from. So don't take those results too seriously unless they help support the reality you prefer.  

It wasn't pretty and I'm not particularly proud of it, but this is the story of what happened when I stopped resisting the low feelings. If you haven't kept your angry skills up to date, this may inspire you to embrace them with more gusto next time the bounce back isn't bouncing.

Current events got you down? You're not alone. Here's a thought that might offer solace in dark times ...

Sometimes it seems impossible to ignore the reality right in front of us. But many of us have more skills than we admit when it comes to pretending ... Ignoring what's so is a manifesting skill we use in lots of other everyday ways that we can bring to bear in our LOA game, too. 

This is the story of the day a muggle love interest had to LOA coach me into dropping thoughts that blocked possibilities for a love relationship. Even I, who knows that anything is possible, lost sight of that in the face of a contrary reality ...

It's a new year and it seems like everyone's got an inspiring message telling us to get out there and carpe diem. They want us to hustle and slay and get busy on those goals, because dreams don't come true while we sit on the couch. Oh, contraire. This is my response to the reader who "knows" he needs to hit the gym in order to hit his fitness goals ...

No LOA lessons or manifesting insights here ... Just a simple activation of joy, appreciation and love as I tell the story of one of my favorite things: Harvey. This is what vibration management is all about: reveling in reasons and excuses to feel good!

A fellow creator said she's tired of feeling angry with her kids' behavior and asked how to use law of attraction to make them behave. This is my take on how to break the cycle and lead the way to positive change. (Hint: it's not about changing their behavior.) I've got my own challenge underway on this same topic, except mine is with cats, not kids. 

As I was inspired to upgrade and eliminate some key relationships this new year, I remembered that no matter how much I focus on "out there," nothing can be any different until I'm feeling it "in here."

When I told a friend about how I was excited to start manifesting easy money in the new year, he pointed out the easy money I already had and was overlooking all along. Getting a new perspective on the current situation is often all that's needed to create alignment that allows more of what we want to manifest.

Who's deciding what you're having? When someone else is delivering what you don't want, remember who's in charge here. It's you - always you. Don't abdicate your choosing power to others who seem to have authority. You're the creative expert in the house.

Before proceeding into tricky territory, do yourself a favor and check your vibration before taking action … A couple seconds to make sure you’re not rolling with contrary energy makes all the difference as to what happens next. It works much better when we pause to clear out any challenging energy before proceeding …

This is what I learned after picking the brain of a muggle friend who was a regular winner at the rodeo for many years. His answers could have come straight from the LOA playbook. Tune in for tips about how to amp up your own next win ...

For those who are new to conscious creation, here’s a quick summary of how to engage your manifesting power. LOA-savvy pros already know this stuff, but it’s a good reminder for those who sometimes make it more complicated than it needs to be. The quick summary of how to manifest what you want using your powers of focus: See it. Feel it. Let guidance reveal it. Tune in for a review of these three elements ... Read at the blog.

My cautionary tale of what to expect when you strongly don't want something to happen ... No matter how many actions you take to prevent it, a vibration of "don't want this" requires it's coming like a freight train!

We know how to spot unhelpful influences in lots of other ways in our life ... Let's get good at spotting those gremlin thoughts, too!