Episode 21 | Is It Me or My Employee?
Contrary to popular employee belief, most leaders are not sitting in their offices dreaming of ways to make your life difficult. We don’t prefer to do things the long way. We don’t enjoy the time we spend writing policy, creating guidelines, or giving instructions and we certainly get no thrill out of disciplinary conversations. We just want to get things done as quickly, efficiently, and effectively as possible in a manner that aligns with our mission and mitigates risks. As nonprofit leaders, we do what we do because we want to make a difference. We advocate for clients in spacing that aren’t always the most welcoming for us. We ask for support to serve our clients and pay our employees. We look for partnerships, processes, and platforms that will make all of these easier for everyone. But, we are also human. We get tired, frustrated, and discouraged. We can’t always ensure that our emotions won’t influence perspective, choices, or words . . . or at least I can’t. It’s a fact of life. However, there is a difference between being ruled by your emotions and occasionally effected by them. There’s a difference between being justifiably frustrated by poor performance and just being a jerk. But, the most poor-performing employees will assume you are the latter, regardless of how inconsistent the behavior is when compared how you’ve engaged them in the past or when you were not under so much professional or personal stress. So, how do you know which is which – whether you are justifiably frustrated or being a jerk? And, how do you maintain composure in either instance. Let’s talk about it.