This week we sit down to discuss the upcoming Exxxotica DC convention seminar list.  As with the past lists this one again is growing in the fetish and kink realm of offerings.  From breath play to wax play, to wrapping and so much more.  There is a seminar for everyone that is without question.  Then it’s been awhile so hold on as we hop into the LS site mailbox to read some emails and discuss them.

This week we have the stunning dark haired, busty, Latin veteran of the industry Mandy Muse In the Tub for a full episode conversation.  This conversation was a long time coming as when we first entered the media end of the industry 7 years ago this name came across our desk and we never did an interview.  Thank you Star Factory PR for this conversation.  We discussed so much, from industry, some unique things she does to stay grounded and work on her mental health.  We discuss the everyday things that an industry professional deals with like the intense safety of testing and knowing your status, to conventions and her new upcoming project that will be airing soon.  Tune in to find out what that is and where to fins it, you won't want to miss it.  

We spend a full episode having great conversation and getting know the Minxes.  Angel and Cris Minx are a couple that we discovered a little while back and for one reason or another were not able to meet until Exxxotica NJ and WOW it was a great to finally meet them.  A lifestyle couple turned content creators and performers they are even hotter in person and a great time to chat with.  Conversation just flowed and we look forward to spending time hanging out in the future.  Do yourself a favor, check them out, give them a follow, support them and you will not be disappointed.

We are joined In the Tub this week by the beautiful blonde Nicole Aria.  We discuss her career from that of college graduate and civilian job to pursuing her passion in the adult industry.  Her experimentation prior to and within the industry that has opened more than her mind, listen to find out what her favorite scene is to perform.  You may be surprised.  This woman though only 2 years in the industry has a focused direction and the will and drive to succeed.  Get on the Aria train now because it is cruising and there is no end in sight.  

Our final Exxxotica NJ episode is full of 5 great Dip you Toes in Tub segments from the Nj show floor.  We have again a mix of returners and new guests in the tub that make for a great time.  This year there were plenty of new faces to add to the list during the weekend and we wanted to make sure to have them join us.  This week get in the tub with to chat with Rocky Emerson, Aubrey Kate, Alex Coal, Lexi Luna, and April O'Neil.  Again thank you to all that took time from the busy day of meeting and interacting with their fans to spend some time with us to answer our 10 always changing questions and give you, the listener a peek inside themselves like never before seen.

This week we are fresh off Exxxotica New Jersey 2024 and what a time it was.  The feeling of togetherness and family that comes from these weekends we can not begin to describe.  What Exxxotica means for you the listener is another round of "Dip your Toes in The Tub".  This first episode finds new faces to this segment as it is the first time we are meeting in person since we shared time on a previous show.  The others are staples of the segment and the convention that have become family to us.  Sit back, relax, and enjoy the conversations we have with Brenna McKenna, Katie Kush, Victoria Peaks, Jupiter Jetson, and Kenzie Taylor.

This week we have a full tub as we are joined by 3 guests to discuss a new project launching at Exxxotica NJ.  The stunning Foxxy Darlin comes back into the tub along with Candy and Beks to discuss The Hot Gilf Tour project.  We really get the inside scoop on the where, what, and future vision of the company and IT IS HOT!!!  If you ever hoped for a place to find beautiful Mature woman in one spot this is going to be it.  Are you going to NJ for Exxxotica? Make sure to stop and learn more from them there. 

This week we hop back into the AEBN Trends to discuss the summertime, specifically July and August trends by state. As it has been in the past there is a good bit of different from last time. Then, well we admit it we jumped the gun. Last week we looked at the upcoming Exxxotica seminar list and there wasn't much. Well.... the list was released and we discuss the seminar schedule for those attending and ourselves. What do we find?? There is an interesting trend there as well and we discuss that. Sit back, relax, and don't miss this weeks lead up to Exxxotica and all the fun it has in store.

This week we discuss our trip to downtown Pittsburgh to watch the burlesque parody The Empire Strips Back and it was great as we share in our review.  Then.... Exxxotica 2024 NJ is right around the corner and we dig into the list of performers and seminars for the upcoming show.  The list of performers on the site is one of the largest list we have seen in the years we've been going.  That being said we know all of them never make it for one reason or another however it still has a great turnout on tap and we are looking forward to it.  We discuss some of the affiliates and companies that have supported us over the years so please give them a click below if you so choose.  

intro she has done and continues to do so much within the industry, and then we learn more.  Mr missed a few things while doing his research and well we will just say when you check out her work he had a VERY good excuse!  This 10 year veteran of the industry has a great story and we discuss that and so much more.  She was accommodating for this interview and then we had the pleasure of seeing her later on in the night as she took the stage as the feature entertainer at a local club.  That show was intense and is such a reflection of what we experienced during the interview.  Engaging, energetic, fun, she can work a crowd, and her smile! It will melt you.  Please sit back, relax, enjoy, and show Alison some love and maybe a box or two to open.

This week we are joined In the Tub by the stunning, busty 30J blonde bimbo Bad Bella and learn who she is, where she is going, and what is happening on the ride there. We discuss a little of everything from Vegan diets, to EDM in Vegas, to the fun and excitement she has creating content and filming. This is someone to put on your list to check out as she has some things coming in the future you will be sad you missed.

This week our guest In the Tub is the Stunning, Beautiful, Energetic. Brazzers contract girl, award winning Milf performer, Entrepreneur, Masseuse Alexis Fawx. We spend our time together discussing her career and new project, her branded coffee HAF Coffee the experience of making her own barrel of wine, cooking, podcasting and so much more. It was an honor and pleasure to share time with her and really get to know her and what makes her who she is in the industry and life. Do not miss this and be sure to check out her links below.

This week we are running behind but worth it! At least we think. In the first half we finish up the AEBN episode from last week and cover the top categories of the second quarter based on sales. There are some standards and then there are some new ones we discuss. And then..... it's time to taste test. We have 5 of the 6 flavors of One brand FlavorWave condoms, a purple suction cup dildo and mouths. Yes we taste test the flavors to determine what we think is the best. We discuss feel, flavor, end result of lubricant on them and Mrs may or may not get naughty on air, you will have to listen to find out.

This week we dive back into the AEBN Trends and discuss some trends by state for May and June as well as June and July global trends. There is some change since the last time in these new months. What have you contributed to these trends and what is something you maybe never thought to seek out? Sit back, relax, and you just might hear about something you need to dive into and learn more about.

This week we delve into the fetish world of FinDom with a 20+ year sex worker Master Arch.  He has become a pro in this and many other fetishes and kinks.  We discuss the fact that is still not a widely accepted part of the kink community and why that could be.  What it is that he focuses on which is the professional, ethical, and caring way of working on a kink that gets right into the subs head and psyche and being able to give each sub the session that gives them what they desire and crave.  This is definitely a don't miss conversation that really opened our eyes and answers questions we didn't even know we had.  Sit back, Relax, and enjoy this week In theTub its a good one.

This week In the Tub we have some message board conversations. First is the conversation on the increase of OPP in the lifestyle. If you don't know what we mean give it a listen. This is new to us as we've only experienced once over the years and that was a few years ago. And then we discuss what seems to be an increase in the "BI" male in the lifestyle. We have noticed more males both single and part of couples identifying as Bi on their profiles and obviously we are not alone. We roll through a forum and discuss what others see and what some of those who have changed their preferences have experienced. Here's a guess it's not bad and possibly becoming more accepted in some areas of the lifestyle and as a whole. So sit back, relax, and get ready for some good conversation this week.

This week we go briefly back into the mailbox to check on what's happening. We then dig into an article from The Indy Star that digs into the top 15 Swinger states based on Google searches. We also discuss other lifestyle topics that the article discusses. There is some that is discussions we've already had over the years and some that are new. Overall very interesting article and discussion. So please sit back, relax, and enjoy!

This week In the Tub we have a full episode conversation with the south Florida blonde bombshell Joslyn Jane. She may stand just 5’9 but her 34G breasts, beautiful curves, and outgoing, fun-loving personality makes her way bigger than that. She’s made an impact on the industry in her 8 years and there is plenty to come. Oh, and did we mention she’s a sports fan also? We discuss a little of everything and really enjoy our time getting to know her and get a peak into the future as well. So sit back, relax, and enjoy this weeks episode.

This week we sit down with the beautiful, high energy, firecracker Brenna McKenna. The episode is definitely filled with so much where do we start?? From a great intro right into a power surge at the studio and rebooting everything to get back on with her. Mr's audio after the surge being crazy and not knowing until post production, The great discussion on everything from dancing, on set, off set, aquariums, and pets. Brenna has a mind set and it is determination and doing it her way and loving every minute of it. And of course then the show intro takes 3 takes to get right because why would it be easy this week. At the end we have made a beautiful, fun loving, great friend and excited are bring her to you. You will now most likely find a new follow on social media because she is well worth it!

This week as we had some bad family news Mr went ahead and pulled some recordings from the archives. Archives??? at 127 episodes you may ask... Yes they are the archives! We revisit some of the past guests during convention season and their Dip your toes segments. We have Kenzie Taylor, Katie Morgan, Maya Romero, Lilly Belle, and Rocky Emerson all in one episode from multiple convention locations since our beginnings. So sit back and take a trip down memory lane with us this week and see where we started and where we are heading.

This week we digest the top 25 selling straight female performers from Q2 of 2024 on AEBN trends we look at our past guests and find some new names on the list. Then we hop into Reddit and discuss some topics from a swinger sub. There is some debate and conversation regarding "no" words in a profile. What words or phrases in a profile make you jump past and say not them? It is interesting to see what some people's thought process is and it opens up conversation with us as well.

On this weeks episode we are coming off a long Fourth of July celebration, that didn't stop the mailbox from growing. We hop into the LS mailbox for the half and see what the guys have to say lately. In the second half we talk some Reddit boards and LS topics. One that was really got us is what changes the LS has had on you as a person. This is interesting and we have our own talks about it between us. Definitely some fun talks this week as we get ready for another busy week of life here in the Burgh. So sit back, relax, and enjoy!

This week we are joined by award nominated and winning cam model veteran DahliaIsDopey.  We discuss everything from her start and concerns to her intense comic book collection and World of Warcraft life.  She has accomplished so much and continues with projects from game creation for her cam shows to her upcoming release of an industry tarot card deck.  This is as much a don't miss episode as her cam shows and podcast are.  Sit back, listen, give her a follow, and enjoy.  And don't forget to subscribe to The Not Safe Safe Space Podcast and give her and her co-hosts a listen!

This week after reading some LS forum posts specifically one asking about time to the pop shot and quick male orgasms we decided to take the question to the interwebs and see what research says.  Why not?? And yes we did find a few articles and one in particular that discussed ways to prolong that Pop Shot for men. I an article from Healthline they discuss numerous proven ways to extend the orgasm from at home exercises to medical assistance and numerous things in between.  It was a very interesting hole we dove into for sure.  Men you are not alone and the LS can change your normal one way or the other, if you are on the short line this is something worth reading.

After a week off to handle personal things and some family health we are back. This week we discuss Tri-mix the ED penile injection as it is discussed in depth on a LS forum. We never knew it was prevalent within the LS and guess we were wrong. Then it's been awhile so why not hop into Mrs. box to see what the world of singles is up too.

This week we go back to AEBN Trends to see what Yinz pervs been searchin in the first quarter of 2024.  And there are some surprises!  We check the world trends, top searches, and by state.  We will say that one search took the country by Storm.  We briefly touch on the X platform now vaguely in a round about way that sexual content is an artistic expression and will be allowed.  Listen to get our take and please hit us up on email to give us your take and thoughts.  

This weeks episode is part 2 of our conversation with multi award nominated and winning performer and AVN Hall of Famer Jewel De'Nyle. It was an honor to sit and talk to her. In this second part of our conversation we discuss tattoos, her reemergence into the industry and how it is different, and upcoming video game feature and much more. If her name resonates with you and you are not aware that she is back and working her OF then do yourself a favor and be sure to check her out there and on her social media links.

This weeks episode is part 1 of 2 of our conversation with multi award nominated and winning performer and AVN Hall of Famer Jewel De'Nyle.  It was an honor to sit and talk to her and discuss so much from her start in the late 90's and how the industry has totally changed since then.  She discusses her trials and tribulations going from elite performer to company owner and exit from the industry as she saw the changes happening, fought the fight and decided to take a 13 year hiatus from it.  She is back as you will hear some of with the remainder to come in our next episode.  If her name resonates with you and you are not aware that she is back and working her OF then do yourself a favor and be sure to check her out there and on her social media links. 

This week we are joined by multi nominated cam model and content creator Valentina Fox.  We spend time getting to know her and what brought her into the industry and the world of financial domination and fetish modeling.  She has a great story and you can tell she is excited to share it with us and the listeners.  Just recently signing with am agent she is primed and ready to next the next steps in the industry to continue to grow her name and brand she has built to this point.  Please take a minute and look her up online and her socials as she will be growing in those without question over the next year and beyond.

This week Mr. is flying solo and sits for a conversation with H. Roland, a photographer, videographer, director, and veteran in the adult industry in the Netherlands and Europe. The conversation is informative, captivating, and very educational as we discuss the differences between the views of the US and Europe. We also discuss in depth his new project, The XXXLIFE website approaching launch and thought and vision behind it. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the very interesting conversation this week, and be on the lookout for this new platform launch!

This week we wrap up our Exxxotica Chicago trip. Mrs. talks about her new experience in the dungeon while at the show. We talk about some of the new things and changes from last year to this year. What is a game changer as far as pizza toppings. And end it all With conversations with the beautiful Kenzie Taylor and stunning Katie Kush. Don't miss these talks as they are always on point, fun, and high energy.

Well, we survived yet another Exxxotica and are ready to tell about it.  This weeks episode features 4 Dip your toes in the Tub segments from the show floor in Chicago.  We had the pleasure of meeting 2 brand new performers to us this episode and they kick off the shenanigans and festivities.  the list consists of Ellie Taylor, Stephanie Love, Rocky Emerson, and Selena Ivy.  It is a great mix of fun friends and new exciting beautiful women, not to be missed.  

This week we are fresh off of our Exxxotica Chicago trip however we couldn't wait to bring this full length episode conversation to you, the listeners. We had the pleasure of sitting to talk with newcomer Abby Somers and just as her performances are the conversation will not disappoint. We discuss her young career and what went into her decision to jump into mainstream performing head first, literally. She has worked with some of the top production companies in her short time and things don't look to slow down. She is on a path of success and is completely down to earth about it and excited at what the future holds. If you haven't heard the name or watched the performances, find them because you will be happy for sure.

This week as we get prepared for our trip to Chicago We research and discuss sex toy and fetish searches by state as published by Kinky Cloth and Flogged including the number of searches made. The information is pretty interesting and also shocking in some ways. Then we jump into the LS mailbox and see what people are reaching out to us about. And as normal the majority are single guys shooting their load...... or really trying to.

This week we are joined in the tub by Jason, who is the owner of Sugar Cookie.  What you say is Sugar Cookie? Well, it is only the largest LF social media group in Ontario, they host parties catering to many different branches of the LS community, and is a safe judgement free networking place for all.  They also operate an online retail store and Jason himself has been in the LS for numerous years as a single male so brings some of that insight and thought process to our conversation as well.  This was a great time, very informative, great conversation, and pointers for all.  Please sit back, relax, and enjoy this one AH. 

On this weeks episode we are joined by the sexy, fun loving content creator, podcast hosting couple of Jazmine and JR Cruz.  Our first time meeting them and we will say it will not be our last.  We discuss life, content and fetish creation, and what led them to starting a podcast and what is the vision behind it.  That being said it is the same as us and we found we have so much in common, other than 2 hot women.  Sit back , relax, enjoy, and give them both a follow and listen as they are supporting sex positivity the same as we are.  

This week we get to AEBN Trends and discuss both state searches and the most current worldwide searches and see what may have changed as we kick off 2024.  There are some different things that were not discussed and shown at the end of last year.  In the second half we hit the Exxxotica Expo website and take a look at some of the new faces that will be appearing in Chicago April 12-14 and WOW there are some new faces that are sure to draw crowds.  We then again as always go through the seminar list that we always say we are going to hit some and have yet to.  This year they have some new seminar topics that hit many topics and encompass everything from mental health and tantric to HJ and butt stuff.  Be sure to check out the list if you plan on attending and mark your schedule to hop into the ones that peek your interest. 

This week we are joined in the tub by the beautiful brunette newcomer Elizabeth Skylar.  We discuss everything from her beginnings in the cam world in 2020 to her first scene in 2023 and what she envisions the future to be.  She is so much fun to talk with, she is genuine, down to earth, and honest which helps make her future in the industry one that will last for years and no doubt bring award nominations and wins.  Keep your eyes on her because it is nothing but exciting, blood pumping, heart racing art she is putting onto a screen for all her fans.  

This week we are joined again by Ranjan and Chelsa, they first joined us back on episode 77 as we talked their journey in the lifestyle and working on societal acceptance. This episode we discuss BTS of what goes into a hotel takeover that guests may not think about and don't really see. Did you ever think that the hotel takeover you are at actually started being planned probably a year ago. From location, to entertainment, to security so much and so many are involved. In the second half we discuss a project they are working on which really is something very interesting and could help both new and veterans in the LS help clarify some of the terms used. So back, relax, enjoy, and learn this week with us.

This week we review the Adult Time year in review and discuss the top performers, key words, and other fun stuff searched and viewed on their site. They have such a great platform with so much to chose from and something for everyone you are guaranteed to find something to get you all hot and bothered and also to possibly learn something with some of their studios. We wrap up the episode once again on Reddit discussing some LS discussions.

This week we get "Inspired" as we sit and have a conversation with our special guest.  Foxxxy Darlin is a newcomer to all things fun, exciting, and empowering.  She is just under a year into the LS, content creation, and performing. She discusses overcoming societal norms and living life and exploring for her enjoyment and overcoming the fears of what society thinks  and how they view her.  Her strength and mindset in Mrs. words is inspiring as the fear and worry is real and we all can relate.  This beautiful woman is so great to talk with and really take a page from her book and just do it for yourself/  We are not here for a long time so make the most out of the time, make memories, have fun, and do what makes you feel good.  Follow her on her socials and her website below for more and be sure to catch her at an upcoming convention this year.

This week we are joined by a fellow podcaster, event host and half of the mind behind Full Swap Radio and Krazy Kasbh events. We really dig into what drove the forming and launch of Full Swap Radio and the move into Krazy Kasbh events. The focus on full inclusion, safety, and overall experience to shine a positive light on the industry is strong and both Kole and Mrs Amanda are determined to show the positives and it comes out in this conversation. Do yourself a favor and not only check out Full Swap Radio but Krazy Kasbh as well on the links below.

This week In the Tub we explore some SubReddit threads and discuss our thoughts on the lifestyle questions and situations posed. There is one that hits home as we have been in the situation and from our end it end as a great experience not once but twice! We also take some time to discuss our journey into the OF world and what it takes to become a creator and then it's not over. The time that needs invested to make a creator successful is at the least a part time job. Planning photos, videos, launch times and dates, are you going to collab with others? WOW it is intense and we are seeing it first hand as we decide to navigate it and see what it is all about and what past guests do to be successful in that part of the industry.

On this weeks episode we hop into the AEBN Trends website to discuss the Q4 trends and top selling straight female performers. Followed by the 2023 trends report and the top 100 top selling female performers. Both lists are interesting as we have discussed the quarterly ones throughout the past year on previous episodes and see how everything finishes is very interesting. There are some unique categories with very interesting moves on the chart and worth taking a look if you may want to find something new and see if something tickles your fancy that you never thought about. In the second half we discuss a Toronto Sun article that discusses some upcoming sexual trends for 2024 and some of those require some research to get the exact definition. This is an interesting article and we can see some correlation between the searched trends and the actual sex trends they discuss. So grab a cold drink, sit back, and lets talk trends this week.

This weeks episode features a full length conversation with content creator, performer and Playboy Playmate Briti Black. Being someone very new to us we really talk about everything from what drove her to start content creating to her centerfold in Playboy and gaining her bunny ears as a Playboy Playmate in 2023. Her an Mrs. really bonded as they both grew up very similar and now share the sex positive attitude and beliefs. This was a great conversation and we are so happy to have had the opportunity to someone as beautiful inside and out as Briti is. Please sit back, relax, and enjoy our talk and be sure to give her a follow and support in everything she does.

This week we have a full episode conversation with AVN nominated Newcomer Kelsey Kane. We had the pleasure of meeting her at Exxxotica NJ where she dipped her toes in the tub for a short interview on Episode 93. She jumps all the way into the tub this week and we learn so much more about where she started and what brought her to the place in the industry she is today. This stunning blonde is smart, sexy, driven and has goals she is knocking off her list daily. As we say in her intro, this is the start so get on the bus now and enjoy the ride because it's going to be a fun one with her. Don't hop out too early this week as we do wrap up with a very educated talk about Chicago's own Malort.

This week we start the new year and into the 100's with a peek into the LS mailbox to see if anyone made some NY resolutions when it comes to sending invites..... listen to find out that answer. In the second half we sit down and chat with Playboy playmate, content creator, and performer Tiffani Madison. Her journey is a great one and her future map is direct. She will most definitely be gracing the screen and pages for years to come. Don't miss this discussion or her on screen or print. Sit back, relax, and enjoy this weeks episode in the tub.

This week we celebrate the milestone of 100 Episodes with a life audience of friends, mentors, past guest, whatever else you can consider these people. They are FAMILY to us! In the first half of the show we reminisce over the last 99 episodes and some of what we have learned about ourselves, about our guests, and friendships we've made over the years. None of this would be possible without the support of the PR Agents, Performers, Creators, listeners, and everyone who has assisted along the way and continues to help and support us. We take some great audience questions as well that gets us thinking about what this journey has meant to us and how it continues to make us better people. The second half, oh we break out some articles and discuss everything from your sign to trying to figure out how someone spends 7 hours getting the freak on to only get caught and have to explain things. 7 HOURS!! That’s wild. Sit back, Relax, and Enjoy Episode 100.

In the 2023 year end episode and the last for us in double digits we dig into 2 websites and discuss trends in porn. In the first half we go back to old faithful AEBN trends and discuss searches within the US in September and October and then world searches in October and November. There are changes since the last time we checked and they are interesting. In the second half we hit Porn Hub 2023 Year in review and there is so much information on this report. We discuss some of it however we could have gone on for a lot longer, but we will leave that up to you to do some "research" Have a Happy and Safe New Year and we will catch you on Episode 100 for our celebration episode.