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Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
REPLAY: Guest: Nikki Limo - He Murdered Someone on Accident?
Original Airdate: December 3, 2018
Welcome to a brand new season of Don’t Blame Me! Actress Nikki Limo is here to share her amazing advice. We’re answering your questions about being homesick, weed allergies, dating in college, being harassed by a guy with little man syndrome, and reaching out to an ex that murdered someone. We also have a listener sharing support for the caller that was sexually assaulted by her co-worker’s fiance.
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01:04:0706/11/2023
BAIW: Friends Won't Let Me Stay With Them
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Hotels are superior to Airbnb
Melisa: Every year you should do a performance review of your friends
But Are You Wrong:
Trauma Dumping on social media
Extended stay with friends
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: AI Buddies
Melisa: Release: Amazon allowing piss to be sold
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01:04:5702/11/2023
SYNT: Janelle Monáe Concert
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39:2431/10/2023
REPLAY: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew?
Original Air Date: February 24th, 2020
Boze joins us this week to share advice! We're sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend's family doesn't want a relationship with you, how to be friends with someone that dates your leftovers, talking to your boyfriend about sex, and how to break up up with your boyfriend even though his mom is your boss. In Don't Blame Them a listener shares her own advice about your dog being in the room while you're boning.
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… with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I'll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.
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01:09:1730/10/2023
DBM: Sex on Antidepressants
Meghan and Melisa to give advice on:
Putting yourself out there for dating
Being upset about you body's limitations
Health anxiety
Haven't had sex with partner in 8 months
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01:00:0323/10/2023
FF: But Am I Wrong Results: Gay Friends Hooking Up With Straight Men
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29:0420/10/2023
But Am I Watching- Dicks: The Musical
Meghan and Melisa watched A24's (a non-struck company) Dicks: The Musical. It was directed by Larry Charles and written by and starring Josh Sharp and Aaron Jackson. It also stars: Megan Mullally, Nathan Lane, Megan Thee Stallion, and Bowen Yang.
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: This might be one of the greatest films of all time
Meghan: All films should have bloopers
But Are You Wrong:
Meghan and Melisa read various reviews
But Are They Wrong
Melisa: Trevor
Meghan: Twins
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52:0919/10/2023
SYNT: Beyoncé is Taylor's Proud Mom
Meghan and Melisa ask each other @questionsforlove and discuss and Beyoncé and Taylor Swift. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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38:0517/10/2023
FF: But Am I Wrong Results: Dueling Kids Parties
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29:2413/10/2023
BAIW: Gay Friends Hooking Up With Straight Men
Content Warning: Meghan's BATW - School Shooting
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: "If He Wanted To He Would" is bad advice
Meghan: Give politicians their own reality shows
But Are You Wrong:
Weirded out by friends
Reporting your sexist co-worker
But Are They Wrong
Melisa: Men In Stem (Grace Hopper Celebration)
Meghan: Jon Ramono
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01:05:0112/10/2023
SYNT: Is Brisket a Christmas Meat?
Meghan and Melisa are back with another episode of their podcast! This week, they talk about Meghan's whimsical weekend, Melisa's crime scene bed, the incredible Lewis Jack-O-Latern, Melisa's Beyonce tickets, Meghan's Halloween costume, Meghan's dollhouse making, Melisa's brisket, and boy math and good celebrity encounters.
This episode is full of fun and laughter, so be sure to tune in!
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42:3810/10/2023
DBM: Dating Your Cousin's Ex
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Update: Rude Wedding Planner
Friend isn't giving the same energy
Paying too much for a bachelorette party
Picking your cousin or your ex
Getting over an ex that used you for emotional support
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54:3209/10/2023
FF: But Am I Wrong Results? Weird Vibes From Co-Workers
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34:5306/10/2023
BAIW: Dueling Kids Parties
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: We should know less about each other
Melisa: Scary Uber ride
But Are You Wrong:
Person standing the whole concert
Scheduling a birthday party on someone else's birthday
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: Dax Shepherd
Melisa: Bevspeaks
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01:11:5405/10/2023
SYNT: Beyoncé is Melisa's Cousin
Melisa went to Houston for a writing conference and happened to see Shaq and her cousin-in-law Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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01:08:4903/10/2023
DBM: Friend Brought Up My Brother Was In Prison
Content Warning:
#3 Vomit
#4 Sexual coercion
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Friend praising a bigot
Drunk friend being too open with a stranger
Vomiting on a date
Boyfriend being pressured into having sex
Don't Blame Them: Caller whose boyfriend had a higher sex drive
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52:3802/10/2023
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Betrayed by Coworkers
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25:1129/09/2023
BAIW: Weird Vibes From Co-Workers
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Bad driving
Meghan: Stealing stolen things
But Are You Wrong:
Judging Nice People Based on Their Beliefs
(we had to cut the other due to a change in recent events)
But Are They Wrong
Melisa: Lauren Boebert
Meghan: Emma Roberts
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01:06:4728/09/2023
SYNT: Favorite Candy
Meghan and Melisa are getting ready for Halloween, and they're talking all things candy. Melisa only passes out king size bars, and they discuss their favorite treats and the best way to score a free Snickers. Meghan then gets spooked by a halloween display.
Melisa also talks about her fun-filled friend's birthday weekend and her upcoming trip to Houston to see Beyoncé in concert.
Join Meghan and Melisa for a spooky and sweet episode of their podcast!
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44:5526/09/2023
DBM: In Love With A Family Friend
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Fiance's sister not taking accountability
Getting over someone you've never been with
Different sex drives in a relationship
Co-working having a boozy baby shower
Don't Blame Them: Confessing your feelings to a friend
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55:3525/09/2023
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Our Petty Friend Rachel
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28:5422/09/2023
BAIW: Betrayed By Coworkers
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Stop having audience cameras at award shows
Melisa: Calling coworkers family is a form of harassment
But Are You Wrong:
False performance review
Cutting a friend out of your life
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher
Melisa: Tina Trahan
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01:09:2921/09/2023
SYNT: A Work Trip, a Height Difference, and a Trip to New York
Meghan and Mats go on a work trip together, and Meghan can't stop talking about Melisa. Their height difference shocks everyone. Back home, Melisa's writing group is going great, and she's on track to finish her pilot this week. Then, Meghan and Melisa plan a trip to New York, but they're trying to keep it clean.
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49:0119/09/2023
DBM: Breaking Up Over Cultural Differences
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Scared being home alone
Cultural differences when dating
Friends in difference financial situations
Rude wedding planning
Don't Blame Theme: Not knowing if you're bisexual
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01:08:2718/09/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: Creating Bigger Conversations
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30:3315/09/2023
Our Petty Friend Rachel
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa - Text messages are unprofessional
Meghan - Celebrities might fuck you, but not if you're weird
But Are You Wrong:
Husband is fed up with our friend
Partner is always interrupting
But Are They Wrong
Melisa - Officer Francesco Marlett and Virginia Pinto
Meghan - Joe Jonas' PR Team
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01:13:2514/09/2023
Meghan Needs New Teeth
In this episode of the podcast, Meghan and Melisa discuss Meghan's need for new teeth. Meghan is not enjoying life and doesn't take Melisa's suggestion for cooking food. Neither of them like surprises. Meghan is in a hotel room and has a new job. Melisa has been checking to make sure Meghan has some signs of life. Melisa is having chill weekends because she has some busy weeks coming up. She's also prepping her outfit for Beyonce. Melisa has been named president of her writing group and Meghan thinks she would make an excellent cult leader. Meghan installed a new ring camera. Meghan wants what Melisa considers the ugliest crocs she's ever seen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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38:5412/09/2023
I'm Forgettable
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Update: Dad is delusional about home repairs
People don't remember what I saw
Friend thinks I'm going to hell
Suppressing romantic feelings
Obsessing over hookups
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01:15:2011/09/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: Puss Pooped On My Partner
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39:4308/09/2023
Creating Bigger Conversations
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Social Media and becoming an influencer is not meant for straight cis men
Melisa: The Charmin Bears
But Are You Wrong:
Parents are critical of Bachelor contestants
"Rude" customers
But Are They Wrong
Laura Siegemund and Marijana Veljovic
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55:1407/09/2023
Google Sniper/Two Girls, One Hive
Melisa and Meghan are two best friends who are always up for a good time. But when Melisa encourages Meghan to go to a white girl meet-up, Meghan is hesitant. She's not sure if she'll fit in, and she's worried about what people will think of her beekeeper outfit.
But Melisa is convinced that Meghan will have a great time. She knows that Meghan is a kind and funny person, and she thinks that the other women at the meet-up will love her.
In this episode, Melisa and Meghan talk about productivity, friendship, and what it means to be yourself. They also give their listeners some tips on how to be more productive and how to find their own unique sense of style.
So whether you're a white girl or not, this episode is for you! Join Melisa and Meghan as they explore the world of friendship, productivity, and self-expression.
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44:0205/09/2023
Missing Your Friend After Taking Her Man
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Guy keeps bailing on plans
Cheating on your partner
Dating someone your family hates
Dating your friend's ex
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55:2404/09/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: Racist Podcast (+Explain This to Me)
Meghan and Melisa read the results of But Am I Wrong Results: Racist Podcast and play another round of the very unserious game, Explain This To Me Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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36:0501/09/2023
Puss Pooped On My Partner
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Hard Seltzer has gone too far
Meghan: Celebrities are not your friends. You're a stalker. Go home.
But Are You Wrong:
Forced to sleep on an air mattress
Re-homing cats
But Are They Wrong
Ne-yo
Madeline Argy
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51:2131/08/2023
I Could Die Here, I Could Die There, I Could Die Anywhere
Melisa survived being on a horse that didn't want to be ridden and Meghan learns that she's not spontaneous. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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40:0329/08/2023
Selfishly Moving
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Moving to a new country
Giving a friend in a toxic relationship advice
Complicated relationships with mom
Sister in a "toxic" relationship
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58:3128/08/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: My Friend Turned Off Their Location on My Birthday
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25:0525/08/2023
Racist Podcast
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Kill someone in their home
Melisa: Predatory real estate agents in Hawaii
But Are You Wrong:
Friend investing in a racist's podcast
Charging interest to a couple
But Are They Wrong
International Chess Federation
Leigh Anne and Sean Tuohy
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01:03:4324/08/2023
A Very Sexy Episode
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Questioning if you're bisexual
Sex Playlist
Improving your sexual performance
Don't Blame Them: Sermon Facial
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58:5121/08/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: My Sugar Daddy Might Be Married
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33:4618/08/2023
My Friend Turned Off Their Location on My Birthday
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: I Take It Back, Riverboats are Better Than Cruise Ships (Battle of Montgomery)
Meghan: New Content Creators Are Out of Control and Nobody Is Copying (Tay BeepBoop)
But Are You Wrong:
Disinviting Friend From a Concert
Friend Disappeared On My Birthday
But Are They Wrong
Tarek El Mousa/Flip or Flop
Luke Jones and Laura Bileskalne/Down Under
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01:18:5517/08/2023
Meghan's Birthday Weekend
Meghan and Melisa celebrate Meghan's birthday with Taylor Swift, a surprise getaway, and some drama.
Meghan saw Taylor Swift in concert and had the time of her life. Mats took her on a surprise getaway to the 'Bu, where they relaxed and enjoyed each other's company.
Melisa was less impressed with the concert, but she did enjoy Allison's graduation party and Black Men Can't Jump [In Hollywood]'s live show. After the show, she was badgered by a man who was trying to make her famous.
Meghan and Melisa also shared some birthday texts from their exes. Meghan and Melisa share birthday texts they got from their exes.
This episode is full of laughs, drama, and great music. It's the perfect listen for anyone who loves Taylor Swift, live shows, or birthday celebrations.
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42:5215/08/2023
Facial Sermons
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Update: Newly long distance relationship
Not attending your friend's brother's wedding
Helping your partner with time blindness
Client forcing the Good Word on you
Frustrations with dating
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51:2614/08/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: Drunk Driving Without Her Neck Brace
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26:5011/08/2023
My Sugar Daddy Might Be Married
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Normalize Sitting At Concerts
Melisa: Celebrate Summer With Sundresses and Hoochie Daddy Shorts
But Are You Wrong:
Not allowing kids at your wedding
Questioning your Sugar Daddy
But Are They Wrong
Predator sending condoms in the mail
Booktok/Hockey Drama
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01:18:0510/08/2023
Transparent Like a Ghost
In this podcast, two friends share their stories about the ups and downs of life. In this episode, Meghan talks about her experience pretending to be a nanny for a day and getting attacked by "seagulls". Melisa, on the other hand, had a terrible weekend after her external hard drive crashed. But her weekend was turned around when she had a creative epiphany and visited a cute coffee shop. She also found Meghan a friend on TikTok.
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32:0308/08/2023
Adjusting to a Long Distance Relationship
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Staying in a relationship when moving to a different country
Going from a large area to a small area for grad school
Friends commenting on your body
DBT: Leaning off THC
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47:0507/08/2023
But Am I Wrong Results: Disapointment
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20:4704/08/2023
Drunk Driving Without Her Neck Brace
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Stop Touching People
Melisa: Stop Going to Florida
But Are You Wrong:
Being Loud at Concerts
Caring for your dad's ex
But Are They Wrong
Robbie Williams
Jason Aldean
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01:14:3103/08/2023
German Chocolate Cake Isn't German
In this episode of the podcast, Melisa rants about the origins of German chocolate cake. She shares why people are confused about why the cake is called "German" when it is not actually German. She also talks about her experience in a water balloon war and how her lungs won. Finally, she shares her love of Mariah Carey's audiobooks.
Meghan is Part of Her New Nibbling's Birth Plan
Meghan is also on the podcast to talk about her new nibbling's birth plan. She shares her thoughts on epidurals, natural childbirth, and doulas (not really). She also talks about her experience as a birth partner.
Melisa's cleaning led to a discussion about massage chairs, their made up history of adjustable beds, and hysteria. She shares her thoughts on the benefits of massage chairs and how they can help with stress and pain. She also talks about the history of adjustable beds and how they were originally used to treat hysteria.
Finally, Melisa shares her love of Mariah Carey's audiobooks. She talks about how she loves listening to Mariah Carey's voice and how the audiobooks help her relax and de-stress.
Listen to this episode to hear Melisa's rants, Meghan's birth plan, and Melisa's love of Mariah Carey's audiobooks.
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39:5601/08/2023