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Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
SYNT: Timely Bridgerton Season 1 Spoilers
This week on the show, Melisa needs your help! She's facing a computer crisis and worries she might be getting scammed for repairs. Can we untangle the tech jargon and find a solution?
Meanwhile, Meghan ditches the epic saga and dives into the world of Bridgerton. We'll dish on the latest season and all the Regency romance drama.
Tune in for laughs, tech tips, and a dose of pop culture obsession!
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40:4928/05/2024
DBM: Trying to Make a Toxic Relationship Work
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Comparing careers with your partner
Constantly breaking up and getting back together
Asking for time off for a vacation
Not want to have kids with a partner that does
Don't Blame Them: Feelings for your friends (5/20/2024)
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01:02:3827/05/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Mother's Day Guilt
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong, Episode 100.
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29:5724/05/2024
BAIW: Quitting Your Dream Job
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa - Wishing for micro-downfalls
Meghan - Pay flight attendants like travel nurses
But Are You Wrong:
Perusing art
Cousin who wants to move in
But Are They Wrong
Marquise White
Harrison Butker
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01:12:5923/05/2024
SYNT: Royally Random - Fall Guy, Football, and Lord of the Rings
This week on Royally Obsessed:
Melisa has some thoughts on the casting of Ryan Gosling in "The Fall Guy," proposing a hilarious alternative.
Get hyped for football season! We dissect the Chargers' NFL schedule release video.
Law of attraction strikes again! Meghan apparently manifested her dream Sports Illustrated cover featuring Gayle King.
Queen Bey fever continues! Meghan introduces her nephew to the music legend.
Melisa pitches a fictionalized Meghan and Harry story to "The Crown" creators.
We break down Charles' official portrait. Regal vibes or room for improvement?
Meghan dives into Middle-earth! Is she the newest Lord of the Rings superfan?
Sean Bean drama! We discuss the actor's reported dislike for working on certain projects.
Melisa's pickle obsession continues! Can she be stopped?
Tune in for laughs, sports talk, and a healthy dose of royal commentary!
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51:1221/05/2024
DBM: Feelings for Your Friend
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Tell your best friend about your feelings before he gets engaged
Mom's a horder
Rooming with your best friend
Don't Blame Them
Friend that don't want you to get married yet (May 13, 2024)
Boyfriend being jealous of guy friends (May 6, 2024)
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51:0020/05/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Husband Starting Standup Comedy
Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong: Husband Starting Standup Comedy and then discuss their new pickle empire.
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43:5917/05/2024
BAIW: Mother's Day Guilt
Content Warning: Body dysmorphia (Melisa BAIW)
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Stop meme-ifying activism
Melisa: Getting banned from events for toxic dieting
But Are You Wrong:
Asking your boyfriend's ex to take a picture down
Not wanting to see your mom
But Are They Wrong
Caroline Konstnar
"Veneer Techs"
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01:12:4116/05/2024
SYNT: Met Gala Review 2024
This episode is a double serve of pop culture and current events. We're dishing on the latest Miss USA drama and keeping you updated on other hot topics.
Feeling inspired by Challengers? We are too! Join us as we channel our inner Williams sisters (and maybe a dash of Coco Gauff) with a deep dive into the world of professional tennis.
Ready to switch gears? We're recapping the Met Gala fashion extravaganza. Get ready for some serious outfit envy as we share our favorite looks (and maybe a few that missed the mark).
So grab your racket, dust off your fascinator, and tune in for another fun-filled episode with Meghan & Melisa!
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55:2714/05/2024
DBM: 2 Bottoms Don't Make a Top
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Dealing with your partner constantly forgetting
Friend that don't want you to get married yet
Feeling like you're in your flop era
Sexual compatibility
Don't Blame Them: Starting Birth Control (May 6th, 2024)
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01:02:3613/05/2024
FF: CHALLENGERS + But am I Wrong? Results - Wanting a "High Value Man"
Meghan and Melisa discuss the results from the But Am I Wrong Episode: Wanting a "High Value Man" and then the incredible film CHALLENGERS.
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41:0310/05/2024
BAIW: Husband Starting Standup Comedy
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Drew Barrymore should stick to acting
Meghan: Charging people to get out of debt is wrong
But Are You Wrong:
Selling stolen artwork
Supporting your husband's delusional dream
But Are They Wrong
Youthforia, Jerry Seinfeld, Aaron Rodgers, Boeing and more!
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01:22:5109/05/2024
SYNT: OVHO!
This episode is a wild ride! Buckle up as Melisa celebrates Kendrick Lamar's diss track aimed at her least favorite rapper (you can probably guess who). Meghan discusses the whole Katherine Asplundh username debacle. We get an update on the important dip-n-dots legacy, and then talk about Barbara Streisand's social media Boomer moment.
Need a break from reality? We've got you covered with a Kirstie Alley tangent before diving deep into the cult classic "Drop Dead Gorgeous." Meghan keeps us grounded with Chris Pine's hot new look. Finally, Melisa fills us in on her latest TV obsessions: Girls5Eva, Loot, and X-Men '97.
Tune in for laughs, pop culture chaos, and maybe even a sprinkle of nostalgia.
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56:1607/05/2024
DBM: Starting Birth Control
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Update/Advice: Moving past a racist therapist (May 22, 2023)
Boyfriend being jealous of guy friends
Living with a partner for the first time
Getting pranked
Boyfriend using my instagram for his private time
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52:3006/05/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong Results - Reporting Influencers
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26:5303/05/2024
BAIW CLASSIC: Boyfriend Want to Go Into Law Enforcement
Original Air Date: Sep 15th 2022
For But Am I Wrong
Meghan: Forbes Lists aren't real
Melisa: We shouldn’t reward people for giving away money when they don’t need it
In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations:
Fixing a problem within a system
Snitching on a "friend"
And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate
Meghan nominates Brittany Kerr
Melisa nominates Aries Spears and Tiffany Haddish
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01:02:4802/05/2024
SYNT: Gratefulness, Gross Discoveries & New Beginnings!
Ever wake up feeling full of thanks? Melisa starts the episode on a high note, sharing what she's grateful for.
Meanwhile, Meghan's dealing with a creepy crawly situation involving... well, let's just say it's not ideal. (Hint: Think tiny, furry, and unwelcome!)
Things are looking up for Melisa though! She dives into details about filming her new movie project.
But wait, there's more! Meghan also spills the tea on a recent movie marathon featuring "DUNE 2" and something called "CHALLENGER" (we have questions!)
Plus, Melisa has a job update you won't want to miss!
Tune in for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, from gratitude to gross discoveries, and everything in between!
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49:4530/04/2024
DBM CLASSIC: Be An Informant
Aug 29th 2022
Melisa tells about her day from hell and then...
Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Update - Boyfriend feels entitled to my body (10.1)
Roommates left apartment filthy
Inviting friend's toxic +1 to your wedding
Kicked off ex's cellphone plan
Don't Blame Them - Friend not supporting your move (10.6)
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01:33:5129/04/2024
BAIW CLASSIC: Should I Ghost My Tinder Date?
Original Air Date: Oct 13th 2022
For But Am I Wrong
Melisa: Not speaking to have the check came (Note: LA restaurants don't split checks)
Meghan: If something is cheap, someone is paying for it
In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations:
Exes mom wanting her son to visit your dog
Someone thinking they/them pronouns are disrespectful
Tinder date giving you the ick
Fiance that doesn't follow through with surprises
And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate,
Melisa nominates: Dr. Oz and the puppies, alleged racist church climber, Lance Wallnau and his anointed cakes, Racist Sheriff Jody Greene, alleged nose biter Doug Ramsey
Meghan nominate: Cheaters Adam Levine and Ned Fulmer, wannabe gay icon Lena Dunham, Dahmer Doc Fans, LAPD
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01:37:2625/04/2024
SYNT: New WNBA Fans
This week, Meghan regales Melisa (again) with tales of Chapel Roan. Meghan visits her neighbors with chickens and tell them of Melisa's love of Grease Live. Plus, Mariska Hargitay proves she's a hero on and off-screen!
In true WNBA fan fashion, the dynamic duo celebrates Caitlyn Clark's SNL appearance and reminisce about Kyla Pratt's iconic WNBA commercial intro. Meghan finally catches up on Hustlers, and Melisa gears up to film her movie. But things take a hilarious turn when pogo stick woes and a Bison butchering confession come to light.
Tune in for laughs, girl power, and a whole lot of fun!
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52:4223/04/2024
DBM: Flirting With An Older Coworker
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Lying cohorts
Finishing school vs. taking a job
Going into acting
Boss wants to report a man flirting with me\
Don't Blame Them: Roommate Gets It In With The Door Open (4.15.2024)
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01:11:1522/04/2024
BAIW: Wanting a "High Value Man"
Content Warning: Melisa's BATW - Child Trafficking
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Hiding behind Disney doesn't make you less racist
Meghan: Streetlights are the new headlights
But Are You Wrong:
Difficult coworkers
A friend who wants a dusty
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: Disney's disability program
Melisa: Mother/Son Duo - Kedria Grisby and Roger Magee
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01:11:5118/04/2024
SYNT: Episode Description: Monopoly Mayhem, Movie Magic, and Desperate Housewives
This week, Meghan and Melisa dive headfirst into the ruthless world of Monopoly GO! Will Meghan's epic mudslide come in handy during this cutthroat game? (Spoiler alert: probably not!)
Plus, get ready for a double dose of soapy goodness. Meghan gets Mats hooked on Desperate Housewives, and Melisa recommends the addictive follow-up, Devious Maids.
We also get a glimpse into Melisa's busy life! From channeling her inner Wisteria Lane resident for a communications class speech to gearing up to film her movie next week, it's all go, go, go!
And the plot thickens! Melisa might have a hot new job opportunity, and she's spilling all her LinkedIn secrets to help you land your dream role too.
Don't miss this episode for laughs, life hacks, and maybe a few questionable Monopoly strategies...
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38:5516/04/2024
DBM: Roommate Gets It In With the Door Open
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Friend is a Pickmeisha
Being the nosey neighbor
Mom doesn't trust men
Bestie has sex with the door open
Don't Blame Them: ADHD in the workplace (4.8.2024)
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Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
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57:1615/04/2024
BAIW: Reporting Influencers
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Liking animals more than you like humans is a red flag
Melisa: Going to an alpha male bootcamp is the most beta male thing you can do, next to running an alpha male bootcamp
But Are You Wrong:
Disclosing paid sponsorships
Declining inheritance
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: Sam Doll
Melisa: Wet Pants Denim
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01:15:3911/04/2024
SYNT: Cowboy Carter
Ever wonder what the difference is between a question and a quandary? We do! Join Meghan and Melisa as they delve into the world of words and Spelling Bees.
This week's challenge: Quamoclit. Do you know what that means?
We also dish on the latest pop culture happenings. Did Meghan conquer "The Holdovers" and "Dumb Money"? Did Melisa live up to her weekend plans of Beyonce marathons and country croonin' with Cowboy Carter?
Tune in for pop culture debates, linguistic quandaries, and a whole lot of laughs!
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01:08:5809/04/2024
DBM: Student Won't Hold Brown Kids' Hands
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
ADHD in the workplace
Can't get off from penetration
Student being taught racism
Leaning on your partner during mental health struggle
Don't Blame Them: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (3/25/2024)
Book Rec:
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59:4608/04/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Hookup Said "I Love You"
Meghan and Melisa read the results for But Am I Wrong episode: My Hookup Said "I Love You"
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21:4205/04/2024
BAIW: Putting Your Daughter on Birth Control
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: DEI Is the new "n" word with a hard "r"
Meghan: Writing is for women
But Are You Wrong:
Preventing a teenage pregnancy
Going to church on Easter
But Are They Wrong
Melisa: Mario Perron
Meghan: Men punching women in NYC
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01:12:3604/04/2024
SYNT: Have You Ever Had A Warm Nut In Your Mouth?
Hold onto your Stetsons, because Melisa and Meghan are back for another episode of See You Next Tuesday. Get ready for deep dives into celebrity news, wild tangents, and maybe a sprinkle of digital stalking (don't worry, it's all in good fun).
This episode is packed with:
Movie Magic: The gals brainstorm dream projects for Elizabeth Banks, and Anne Hathaway's press tour takes a hilarious turn.
Green Glam: Meghan's latest health kick involves a surprising ingredient (hint: it's not kale!)
Sims & Superstars: Margot Robbie hits the big screen in a pixelated adventure, and Meghan makes a power move with her nephew and introduces him to Beyoncé.
Truck Talk Tuesdays: Buckle up as Meghan's nephew drops some mind-blowing knowledge about everyone's favorite four-wheeled companions.
The Great Nut Debate: Melisa rehashes an age-old question that leaves Meghan speechless.
Plus, some light Cowboy Carter prep you can handle! (Recorded hours before the album dropped)
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54:4302/04/2024
DBM: Help With Sex
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Making your own friends
Moving on from a bad friendship but she's your boyfriend's sister
Not enjoying sex
Tired of being a bridesmaid
Don't Blame Them: Talking to your red-state of mind family members (From Episode My Friend's Friends Don't Treat Me Like a Friend - 3/25/2024)
Sex Toy Recs:
The Rose
Heartthrob
The Snail
Book Rec:
Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg
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57:0101/04/2024
FF: But Am I Watching Results: Mean Girls the Musical the Movie
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Watching: Mean Girls (2024).
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22:4629/03/2024
BAIW: My Hookup Said "I Love You"
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan - Airplanes Are The New Printers
Melisa: A Rant on Hypocritical Politicians and TikTok
But Are You Wrong:
Love and a 2 year fling
Referring a "friend" for a job
But Are They Wrong
Meghan: Nickelodeon
Melisa: Starbucks
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01:13:2528/03/2024
SYNT: Foxes, Fan Girls & Fantasy!
This episode is a wild ride! First, Melisa digs up a heartwarming story about humans dressing up as foxes to stop imprinting that leads Meghan on a tangent about her enduring love for Kristen Stewart. Buckle up, Twilight fans!
Then, things get heated when Melisa reveals a shocking truth: Meghan has never seen "The Craft!" Prepare for a deep dive into 90s nostalgia (and maybe some unsolicited movie recommendations).
Melisa also offers her controversial take on "The Princess and The Frog," while Meghan finally dives into the much-talked-about "Inventing Anna." Spoiler alert: Melisa has been waiting for this moment for years!
Tune in for laughter, pop culture debates, and maybe a renewed appreciation for classic teen movies.
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39:5626/03/2024
DBM: My Friend's Friends Don't Treat Me Like a Friend
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Update: Getting Your Sister Out of a Bad Relationship (January 29, 2024)
Getting stood up by your "friends"
Telling your conservative parents you're moving in with your boyfriend
Talking to your red-state of mind family members
Hypothetical questions to ask your partner
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01:09:4825/03/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Ghosting Your Therapist
Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: Ghosting Your Therapist.
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21:5122/03/2024
But Am I Watching: Mean Girls The Musical The Movie
This week Meghan and Melisa take a deep dive into the plastics takeover of 2024 with the new musical adaptation of Mean Girls! They discuss their hot takes, share your thoughts, and then pick their best and worst of the film.
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01:17:2121/03/2024
DBM: Death to Your 20s
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Engaged before moving abroad
Funeral themed birthday
Parents blaming you for their divorce
DBT
-New Hobby
-Making Work Friends
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57:4118/03/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Friend Has Bad Breath
Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: My Friend Has Bad Breath
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40:0015/03/2024
BAIW: Ghosting Your Therapist
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: 99% of TikToks are staged
Melisa: The President is not a celebrity
But Are You Wrong:
Borrowing money from your anniversary fund
Not missing going to therapy
But Are They Wrong
Savory Fig
Michael Meyden
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01:17:5614/03/2024
SYNT: What are The Boy Nuns Called?
This episode of See You Next Tuesday is a wild ride! Meghan and Melisa dish on Melisa's sister's crush (awkward!), then take a deep dive into the fascinating world of world record tongues.
Brace yourselves, because the secret's out: these ladies were secret band kids. They reminisce about middle school clubs and their shared love for the Smith family (Melisa's even directing Willow Smith's audiobook!).
Get ready for double the podcast fun: Melisa spills the beans about her new project, "Full Discourse" with Josh Elkin, featuring Josh Josh Scherer! Plus, Meghan reviews the new Tyler Perry Classic.
Later, Meghan shares her thoughts on the movie "Dune" (the Chalé-manders better watch out!), and the conversation somehow takes a hilarious turn towards fashion icons Stacy London and Clinton Kelly.
This episode is jam-packed with laughter, surprises, and a whole lot of nostalgia. Don't miss it!
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44:3512/03/2024
DBM: I Don't Want to Get Married
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Attachment styles and dating
Parents still parenting even though I'm in college
Making friends at work
Racist Boss
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01:06:5611/03/2024
But Am I Watching Results: This Is Me... Now: A Love Story
Meghan and Melisa share the results from the But Am I Watching episode of Jennifer Lopez's This Is Me... Now: A Love Story.
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40:1208/03/2024
BAIW: My Friend Has Bad Breath
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa - Don't Bring Babies on a Plane Unless It's an Emergency
Meghan - Men Shouldn't Be Doctors
But Are You Wrong:
Telling a friend about their breath
Moving out of a terrible situation
But Are They Wrong
Judge Robert Adrian
Kellogg's CEO
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01:23:2807/03/2024
SYNT: LA Reboot and Spidey Overload
This week on See You Next Tuesday:
Melisa reads your thoughts on D&D Alignments and reveals where she falls.
Meghan accidentally marathoned a bunch of Spiderman movies. Did she get her fill of the Tom Holland and Zendaya magic (aka Tomdaya)?
After a whirlwind adventure, Melisa is back in LA, ready to hit the ground running and reboot her life for the year. Hear all about her plans and fresh start!
Meghan gets down and dirty (literally) with some yard work. Was it a back-breaking chore or a surprisingly zen experience?
Join us for a fun-filled episode packed with pop culture references, personal updates, and a healthy dose of laughter!
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44:2105/03/2024
DBM: Aunt is Competing with Me
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Zero motivation for school
Complicated relationship with mom
I hooked up with the guy I'm dating's friend
Aunt wants to do everything with me
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01:00:2804/03/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Not Inviting Brother's Girlfriend on Vacation
Meghan and Melisa discuss the results of But Am I Wrong: Not Inviting Brother's Girlfriend on Vacation.
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29:3901/03/2024
But Am I Watching: This Is Me...Now: A Love Story
Meghan and Melisa watch Jennifer Lopez's incredible film: This Is Me...Now: A Love Story.
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan - This Movie is sponsored by AI
Melisa - It doesn't deserve the hate it's getting
But Are You Wrong:
JLo needs to stop rapping
JLo has incited cringy wedding dances
But Are They Wrong
Meghan - Jay Shetty and Sadhguru
Melisa - The casting for the Zodiac Council
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01:13:2029/02/2024
DBM: One-Upping Trauma
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Update: Karaoke Stalker
Find a hobby
Friend is constantly lying
Parent try to set you up
Letting your kids go to sleepovers
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58:3926/02/2024
FF: But Am I Wrong? Results - Scaring Straight Men
Meghan and Melisa discuss the results from But Am I Wrong: Scaring Straight Men then talk about MonopolyGo.
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33:2523/02/2024