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Melanie Curtin
Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.evolutionary.men/apply.Get in touch at [email protected].
87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)
If you want a fun date idea (whether you're dating or in a relationship), listen to this! We talk about healthy sex, sexual expression, and how you as a man can help women open up even more. (Spoiler alert: burlesque, striptease, and sexy dance may be involved!)
46:3703/01/2020
86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)
Sex, dating, and relationships are challenging -- especially when you add an STI (aka STD) into the mix. Here, Adrial shows how having an STI like herpes can actually be an opportunity for greater intimacy between men, women, and any other sexual and relationship partners.
58:1027/12/2019
85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogue
As a man, do you need a lot of money to be successful with women? Who should pay on a date, or the hotel on a weekend getaway when you're in a relationship? Here, we get honest about how we feel about men and money when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships.
01:06:0220/12/2019
84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)
When it comes to men, women, dating, relationships and sex, alcohol is frequently part of the equation. But what do you do when your drinking starts affecting (or compromising) your relationship? One man's exploration of his own alcoholism is illuminating.
01:13:1913/12/2019
83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)
Killing Kittens is a woman-run sex party company that also hosts sex-positive mixers and events for both men and women. Founder Emma Sayle takes us through what it was like to create the organization and how it can improve your sex, dating, and relationship life all at the same time.
37:4006/12/2019
82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, if you're a man who has sex with women, you're going to want to listen to this. This skill is make-or-break in terms of attracting women and setting the feminine on fire, both sexually and romantically.
31:3329/11/2019
81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)
The penis: it's miraculous and can also prove frustrating for some men when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships. What do you do when you can't get it up or you come too soon? Ruwan shares his personal journey overcoming erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.
57:2622/11/2019
80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Lovely of GoodPorn)
If you're talking about men & women, sex & dating, relationships & turn-on, eventually you're going to talk about porn. A multi-billion dollar industry, it's both polarizing and perpetual. Respect for performers (porn stars) is just one part of the equation. Ethical porn is sexy ... and important.
39:0915/11/2019
79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)
If you see an attractive woman at Whole Foods, a cafe, or just on the street, how do you talk to her without being creepy? Four of us girls share our favorite stories on times men have done this well. Dating, sex, and relationships are easier when you get the inside scoop. :)
01:03:2008/11/2019
78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!
Oral sex, cunnilingus -- it's a part of sexuality, dating, and relationships that can help two people be very connected ... or disconnected, depending on the circumstance. Here, three man get real about going down on women and its impact on their relationships, including married life.
56:2401/11/2019
77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)
When a woman feels pain during sex, a man can often feel helpless. Alone. Whether in a dating, relationship, or marriage context, painful sex can be very damaging - but doesn't have to be! Sextech CEO Emily Sauer talks about her personal experience with this issue and her brilliant invention to help with it.
50:0725/10/2019
76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.
55:0218/10/2019
76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?
Sex is critical to both men and women in marriages and relationships of all kinds (including dating). What do you do when one partner -- husband or wife -- stops wanting to have sex? This episode covers one man's personal journey of sexual difference in relationship.
53:1211/10/2019
75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)
Men and women have different experiences in the world, including around sex and safety. We talk through times men have done things that felt creepy vs. things that have had us feel safe, whether in dating, relationships, or otherwise.
53:5304/10/2019
74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)
Men and women often want to turn each other on, especially in the context of sex, dating and relationships. But how do you keep sexual attraction hot in longer-term relationships, like marriages? The evolution of modern relationships suggests that polarity plays a key role.
49:3720/09/2019
73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisite
When it comes to sex for women, going down on her is one of the most pleasurable acts. Oral sex can bring immense pleasure ... or it can be meh. Whether in dating or committed relationships, men who are skilled in this sexual act stand out.
01:08:4013/09/2019
72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?
We get real and personal in discussing whether we feel "ready" to be in a relationship. Whether you're a man or a woman, and whether it's just sex, dating, or a marriage you're wanting, there's an art to understanding whether you're prepared physically, emotionally, and spiritually for relationship.
47:3630/08/2019
71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]
What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples therapist has been an invaluable addition to their relationship. Both men and women will get a lot out of this one.
57:5423/08/2019
70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a man
In both dating and long-term relationships, there's a skill that some men have honed that makes us women fall in love. If it's not present, it's also frequently a deal-breaker. A woman who gets this from her man swoons.
01:10:3309/08/2019
69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)
Both men and women need relationship support, but the default couples counseling session and talk therapy overall can have limited success for men -- and there's nothing wrong with men who've been through that. Whether we're talking about sex, dating, marriage, or other things, we need to support and understand men in order to support lasting transformation.
43:3003/08/2019
68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)
Porn addiction has become a major issue in modern dating and relationships. Both men and women are affected, and it can destroy a marriage or relationship if it's not handled properly. Here, one couple shares openly about their journey through porn addiction and out into the other side.
01:04:5526/07/2019
67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)
Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships -- it's complicated. One thing that simplifies it is this relationship skill that, when guys do it well, makes girls swoon.
48:3019/07/2019
66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.
Men and women want to connect, and this relationship skill rises above the rest as critical when it comes to feminine turn-on. When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, we women LOVE when men *drive.*
55:0512/07/2019
![65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]](https://media.redcircle.com/images/2020/2/21/18/ac23e117-1962-4788-9e8a-4c2311009fb3_21b4e803-bdea-465c-86ad-a67a640e43f7_34c847de-6686-4e0f-8b1e-3599602fac6b_c3dda6c1-8a5a-44e5-bc0b-45c8263e6354_winter.jpg "65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]")
65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]
There's a secret to attracting the right women, whether for sex, dating, or relationships. Hint: It's not actually so much about the women as about the man attracting them. Here's how to be a skillful attractor and picker.
01:00:1006/07/2019
64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)
Sex in a relationship is critical, but often really hard to talk about. One in ten women say it's "impossible" to tell a man what's not working sexually. Whether you're dating or in a marriage, learning to discuss sex and improve in the bedroom makes everything better.
57:0928/06/2019
63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)
Testosterone in men helps with sex drive, motivation, focus, hair growth, and more. Low testosterone is linked to depression, low libido, and more. These are 5 easy, natural ways to boost your testosterone, which will help with dating, relationships, and women, as well as in life.
40:0122/06/2019
62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
Whether you're a man or woman, it's hard when you're dating or in a relationship but aren't sure that person is the one you want to commit to. Attachment theory (anxious/avoidant attachment) reveals interesting concepts around how to be ready to commit to the man or woman of your dreams.
49:4415/06/2019
61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for men
Dating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dynamics you need to know about.
01:03:3107/06/2019
![60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]](https://media.redcircle.com/images/2020/2/21/18/c4b0548d-4ccb-4a38-a877-7f6d9437863f_27651ef2-063a-434a-9197-23bd45cc4e93_1637fb32-2e3f-4c55-9179-e0ef1711accc_41d32e6d-8fd5-423b-8eb1-1986b666413b__photo.jpg "60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]")
60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
Men and women, or male- and female-bodied people, experience attraction based on difference, or polarity. Here's how to use polarity to your advantage in sex, dating, relationships, and more.
53:0330/05/2019
59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)
Cuddling, physical affection, and touch: both men and women need it, and not just in the context of sex, dating or relationships. As human beings, we need touch to feel connected. Cuddle party and connection expert Adam Lippin and I discuss how you can get your touch needs met outside a relationship.
42:4924/05/2019
58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)
Men and women meet, date, have sex, and get married from online dating. Eve Peters created her own dating app to help make the dating process feel easier and smoother, and has some brilliant insights about the future of both online and dating "in real life."
48:2217/05/2019
57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)
Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and relationship lives -- so how do we get there? Ken Blackman, relationship expert, breaks down how to get the sex & orgasms back.
58:5010/05/2019
56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)
Whether dating or in a relationship, if a man and woman are having sex, both are affected if she can't get wet (natural lubrication). If you've ever been with someone struggling with vaginal dryness or other ladyparts issues, listen to this! We delve into the jade egg, vaginal steaming,
01:05:0203/05/2019
55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)
Both men and women want even better, more connected sex (who doesn't?) Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship (or married), all couples can use help around communication in sex. This is a great episode for those who want an easy way to deepen their sex life.
57:0326/04/2019
54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)
What do most couples argue about? When "should" you go to couples counseling? Men and women can use support when it comes to dating and relationships, and couples therapists can help. Here, we go over encouraging research around attachment, and how it can provide more safety and nourishment in romantic relationships.
36:0219/04/2019
53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)
Going through a breakup is difficult. Jason Lange and I talk through how men with women who are ex-girlfriends or ex-wives can reenter the sex and dating even more resilient than before the breakup.
01:05:0412/04/2019
52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?
Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships: things can get complex. Dating advice is often to be clear and direct, but the reality of leading a woman on is complicated.
01:09:2729/03/2019
51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differently
What does it mean to lead someone on? Where's the line between dating and sex and rejection? When women and men connect, it can be beautiful. It can also lead to suffering. We'd love for men to approach this one thing differently when it comes to dating.
01:25:3822/03/2019
50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)
Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into love beyond monogamy reveals unexpected dating dynamics.
54:5115/03/2019
49: The key to dating with ease (for men)
Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refreshing on having deep, healthy, and fulfilling healthy relationships with women (and dating advice).
01:21:0308/03/2019
48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)
Who should pay on the first date - men or women? What about after you're dating, or in a relationship? How does paying affect the sex? Money, dating, and relationships: let's talk about it.
33:1322/02/2019
47 - A love poem for you
On this, the week of Valentine's Day, whether you're a man or a woman, single, in a relationship, dating, or any of the rest of it -- here is a love poem just for you. Xoxo.
04:1915/02/2019
46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasies
Three men get real about their sexual fantasies and how they fit in with real women, sex, dating, relationships, and more. We also go over the top ten most popular male fantasies.
01:11:3708/02/2019
45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!
What's *your* sexual fantasy? We talk about whether we fantasize about the men we're dating or in relationships with, and what our ideal sex is in our fantasies (including the taboo ones).
01:10:3801/02/2019
44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)
Most men aren't raised to be able to access both their heart and their power, and their dating lives suffer. This is one man's riveting journey of transformation around power, that led to healthier relationships not only with women, but relationships of all kinds.
59:2025/01/2019
43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)
Finding your purpose: both men and women want it. Here's how one guy did it. We also touch on how does doing what you love (and getting paid for it) affects your sex, dating, and relationship life.
57:3111/01/2019
42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)
When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, can you intentionally attract a healthy, giving, loving partner? The short answer is yes. The long answer is this episode, which outlines a 2-step process to magnetize the man or woman (or men/women ;)) you really want.
01:00:0304/01/2019
![41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]](https://media.redcircle.com/images/2020/2/21/18/bc3ffeef-d6ea-4770-8a4c-afb3ba743cf1_0f5335e6-fd9b-403e-835b-db184b0f2541_dear_men_podcast_thumbnail_1400x1400.jpg "41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]")
41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman for whom sex was painful ... and how she and her husband negotiated that.
55:0221/12/2018
41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?
In the age of modern dating, it can be hard to know when to text vs. call vs. FB message vs. Instagram DM her... women and men, guys and girls, everyone differs when it comes to HOW they like to be communicated with. Sex, dating, and relationships are better when communication is clear and easy.
43:2514/12/2018
40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)
The personal development world is obsessed with men being "on purpose," and there's a lot out there about how that impacts the guy's sex, dating, and relationship life. But what purpose really mean, and is it really realistic for the masculine to "find" it?
46:0407/12/2018