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She's also the co-host of another show we do together called Smart Money Happy Hour.The number to call is 888-825-5225.
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The world is heavy and we're out here just making light of it all and showing you a path forward, some hope.So Jeremy's going to kick us off across the border in Ottawa, Canada.What's going on, Jeremy?
Oh, just trying to keep one foot in front of the other.How about yourself?
That's right, my friend.How can we help?
Well, hopefully with some answers to some money problems.
In a nutshell, I uprooted my family and moved, ended up taking about a 65% pay cut, and now everything's just starting to pile up and pile up, and I wanna know if it makes me a deadbeat father if I move back to my old job where I'm making north of 150K versus south of 50K.
Just to keep all the bills paid and food in the fridge.
Well, what was the reason for you to uproot them and take this pay cut?There was clearly a big enough reason that you guys decided to do this.
Just to keep the family together, be a little bit closer to my partner's family.They're super close.
But... Okay, and now you're realizing we can't sustain this financially.With our lifestyle, our bills, and our much lower income, this is stressful for us, even though we're closer to family.
Are you in a... When you moved away, how far away are you from where you guys moved?Because when you said, to go back to my job, does that mean move again to go back to the old job, or you could do something different with where you guys live now?
It's 3,000 miles. And I was told if I go back, I'm going back by myself.
Yeah.Does she understand what's going on financially at all?How is she feeling?Is she stressed about it?
She knows that it's not well, but she's kind of blind to it.And she just took a different job to work less hours too. which isn't helping anything.
Okay.When you say she's blind to it, does that mean that she doesn't have all the information or she has all the information, but the way she's processing it is not correct in reality?
Uh, I think she's just ignoring the, the issue.
Okay.How much are you guys in the whole month financially with after everything's paid?How much, how much more do you need?
I don't know.She doesn't tell me what her expenses are.
Okay.So you guys don't have any finances combined?No.Are you legally married or just cohabitating?
We're common law.We got two little ones.
Okay.And bank accounts are separate.Do you guys Venmo each other for the mortgage?How does this work?
I take care of the mortgage in one vehicle and she does the rest.
Okay, and she's not feeling the stress of this financially, just you?
No, she is too, because apparently she hasn't been able to make her minimums either.
Okay, so it's sounding more like a relationship issue, Jeremy.It sounds like you guys just aren't doing well as a couple in general.I don't know if money's the main issue.I think it's become a symptom of it.
But you guys, it doesn't sound like you guys communicate well or have the same goals or do this life together very well.It seems very separate, even from an emotional standpoint.Is that right?
It's getting there.That's for sure.
Well, it sounds like you went along with this to appease her, to be closer to family, knowing full well you guys were going to be in the hole financially.
And I don't know if you didn't make that clear or if she just was blind to it, as you said, and just going, I don't care.We're making this move.We'll figure it out.Pretty much.
Well, I don't know who your God is, but you need to come to Jesus' conversation where you go, listen, you're clearly not doing well financially, I'm not doing well financially, this family's not doing well financially, and life is too short to live with this kind of stress.
So if we're going to stay here, we have to make it work.And here's what that's gonna take. And that's when we lay out the finances together, get on a budget together, and figure out what the hole is and how we're getting out of it.
And that might mean you need to find a higher paying job.She needs to work more hours.We need to combine bank accounts.That might be some of the next steps you take.
Okay.And if that doesn't work, should I jump back out to my old jobs just so that I know that my kids are fed?
I mean, that's the noble thing to do.I don't think it helps your marriage at all, or with this common law situation you have going on.So you're gonna grow further apart while keeping the kids fed.And so I'd rather keep the kids fed.
Can you keep the kids fed, though, where you guys are to be able to work on the relationship and get a higher paying job where you are?
Or can you sell the car and make other sacrifices to cover your four walls for now?
The car's upside down by about 15.
Do you know what she makes at all?
Uh, she's supposed to make 85 a year, but she has a habit of not going to, uh, to work.
Wouldn't you get fired?And if I don't show up to work enough, Dave says, all right, we're going to find someone else who can actually do this job.
Well, uh, she's, uh, works in healthcare, so they're, they're begging for people to, to work there.
Okay.What were you doing before when you were making six figures?
I was working in a mining industry.
And that industry obviously doesn't exist where you're at.No.Is there an equivalent or is there a better construction job up the ladder that you can aim toward?
I've progressed up the ladder in my company a little bit already. And the next step would be to become a supervisor, but that's at least a year and a half out.
Because I've asked my boss for more hours, and if he would be able to give me a wage increase, and he just said that I'm not there yet.
OK.So, Jeremy, I think what it comes down to is you guys aren't paying your bills.I mean, what's happening financially, there's an issue.
The adult thing is that you both sit down together and say, here's what it takes to run our household, and we have to make X amount every month for this to happen.And we don't get to decide that we don't feel like doing that.That has to happen.
So either we're cutting our freaking lifestyle and taking everything off the table and doing nothing in order to feed the kids, Or we're going to have to decide different jobs.We're going to have to choose to move back.
We don't get to just sit and not make money and not pay our bills.We can't do that.So that's not an option.We're adults and this is part of life.And so that's one thing.But the other thing I'm very concerned about, Jeremy, is the relationship.I mean,
I mean, it just, it sounds bizarre to me that she's so in the clouds, um, that she wants nothing to do with you financially.Then she's made that very clear.My question is why?Because longterm, this is not a sustained relationship.
You cannot live your life on two separate pages financially because what that is, it's an indicator of how your relationship is in general and you guys are going to just keep moving further and further apart and you guys have two kids together, so it's worth the fight.
But you first, from a tactical standpoint, have to get enough money in to pay the bills.And you both have to come to that understanding.
And if she is so in the clouds in that, then she may not be a great partner long term, because she's probably in the clouds on everything else.So there has to be some big decisions that are going to be really difficult.
But you both have to step up as adults and decide to face it together.
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All right, today's question comes from Sid in Nebraska.What's your advice about retired senior citizens purchasing a house?Between Social Security and pensions, my husband and I have an annual income of about $125,000.
We have $200,000 in cash and a little over $500,000 in our IRA accounts. we are gonna buy a house for about $450,000.
Should we take money out of our IRAs to pay for the house or keep it invested and take monthly distributions to help pay off the mortgage in less than 10 years?
This is like a little common core math riddle.It's very exciting.Okay, so the house is 450. They have some cash, 200k, so that's great, that would be a serious down payment if they took that minus an emergency fund.
And they could take some from the IRA and pay cash, but that would deplete their nest egg.So they would have to live off of Social Security and pensions for the rest of their life.
Which, we don't know how old they are, how many years they'll live, I don't have a crystal ball.
But it sounds like between the social security and the pension, it's not bad.
I could live off of that.
So it depends.They live in Nebraska, don't know what the cost of living is there.But I do like the idea of they could take on a mortgage because they're paying rent right now.
Yeah, totally.So if they could at least have a fixed expense of a mortgage, and then knock that out over time.And if times get tough, they have the money and they can leave the money invested, let it continue to grow.
And seven or 10 years from now, let's have a goal to have no payments in the world.
Yeah, I think that's it.I think you do still have an aggressive goal of paying it off because as quickly as you can pay it off, that's going to leave those investments to continue to grow.
versus feeling like- In a perfect world, I'd say let's buy the house with cash.
There's not a ton of that to go around right now.
If they had a $3 million nest egg plus this- Or, I mean, not even looking at $450,000 house.I mean, if you're retired, get something smaller too.
Do you need a three bedroom at this stage of life?Maybe you can downsize.I think that's the move, but I like the way they're thinking. And I don't think there's a wrong option here, but the goal is let's have no payments as soon as possible.
Yes, it's great.Glad we agreed on something today, Rachel.We got there.
Always disagreeing, George.
So much disagreement.All right.Amy's up next in Savannah, Georgia.What's going on, Amy?
Hey, guys, how's it going?
Good.Thank you.Thanks for having me.
I am looking for your top investment recommendations to a entrepreneur in her 20s.Nice.What do you do? I have an online business.It's digital marketing based, but we work with influencers.
And, um, uh, have multiple other online business ideas as well as a brick and mortar and want to get into real estate investment.So just looking to set myself up well while we're young.
Fantastic.Are you married?
Okay.And what is the household income between what you take home from the business and 75?Yes. Okay, what part of that is yours from the business?
That, so we both work full-time for our business.Okay.So that's what we take home together from the business.
Is it just you two working the business or do you have other employees?
We have four other contractors on our team.
Cool.And so what is your next goal?Do you guys have debt you're trying to clean up?Do you have savings you're working on?Or are you in that investment phase where you've already got those two done?
Yeah, we're on step four.So we've got the emergency fund.We've got all the debt covered except for the mortgage.
And so I really, you know, you hear all the advice, retirement accounts, life insurance, stock market, real estate, and I just want some narrow direction on where we should be investing.
Yeah.Well, we have very simple instruction when it comes to investing, and that's mutual funds and real estate.That's pretty much all Dave Ramsey does.That's the only thing I've done.Rachel may be fancier than me.I don't know.
No requirement. no retirement account needed.Well, no, you do need a retirement.
That's what's within the retirement accounts.And you have options as a self-employed person that I want everyone to know.
If you're self-employed, you're a freelancer, contractor, you don't just get to say, well, I don't have a 401k, so I guess I'll never invest.You have the option of a solo 401k if it's just you and your spouse.
You have the option of a simple IRA or a SEP IRA.So those are some options you can look into.And I'd be working with a financial advisor to figure out which one you can legally do for your situation.
Yeah, so I think the goal, Amy, for you guys is to invest 15% of your income into retirement.
And so that's going to look like, from a business side, what George is saying, yeah, there's SEPs, there's solo IRAs, there's different options for entrepreneurs when it comes to investing for retirement.
Then there's also just your traditional, like, just a Roth IRA. And anyone can open up that.You can put in, I think, $7,000 a year per person.So you can do that as well.So those are two great avenues to be putting that 15%.
And then anything above that, once you guys are at a point that the house has paid off and all of it, that's when you can get a little bit more expanded when it comes to investing.
So that's when you'd max out those retirement accounts, because those are just great from a tax perspective.A lot of those grow tax free, which is fantastic. Or, yeah, or real estate's another great option down the road.
And we always talk about paid-for real estate, so it's not starting big and fancy.You're actually starting pretty slow, because it's at the speed of cash.
And it's only after you've got your primary house paid off.
Yeah, this is after, yeah.That's a long ways away.But for right now, Amy, that shooting for that 15% of your income going into retirement specifically is going to be the best bet for you.
Perfect.So what about like a separate mutual fund through Fidelity or something like that?
Just like a taxable brokerage account?Yeah.I wouldn't worry about that.You know, the wisest thing to do is to take advantage of these tax advantage accounts first, like the Roth IRA.
And then put extra money towards the house.Do you guys own a house? Yeah.Okay, so I would put extra money to pay that off first before I opened up just like a mutual fund account.
And then again, once the house is paid off, that's one thing Winston and I did.We opened up with just a separate mutual fund account that we just kind of had in there just to put extra money in, you know, if we had it.
So yeah, so there's definitely those other options.
That's more of a baby step seven item.Once you get the house paid off, then you can increase your investing and then those taxable accounts become part of your wealth building plan to maximize it.
But for, if I was in your shoes, Amy, I would just open up two Roth IRAs.Both of you put 15% in there.That's a little over 11 grand between the two accounts.And within the Roth IRA, once you have money in there, you have to actually purchase funds.
And that's where we talk about those gross stock mutual funds.Got it.Okay.
Can I ask you a real estate question?
So we've, we've purchased our first home in the forethought of turning it into a rental after the fact. So what is your advice on how long to live in it?Can we move out of it before it's paid off to buy something else?
Like what would your recommendation be there?
I mean, I would, I would get to a point that you would be able to cashflow the next purchase because, um, yeah, I mean, cause if anything, it's, if you went and got another mortgage and had a rental, then the rental payment, you know, is, is paying the, is going to eventually be paying the mortgage of your primary house.
It's just adding another layer of risk and headache and I'll tell you what I did.I just sold the house and used all of the equity toward the next one until you have that house paid off.Then you can focus on cash flowing that next purchase.
So that's the simplest, most peaceful way to go about it.But again, if you scroll TikTok, you're going to see a lot of people going, Oh my gosh, no, keep it as a rental every time.Why would you let go of it?
Yeah, and I love the question though, Amy, because I think, again, we're all for real estate investing, but I do think there is this romanticized idea of having rental property, and it's not that passive.I mean, there is so much that goes into it.
You have to deal with people, you're dealing with stuff breaking.I mean, you have this massive asset, and if you don't have a lot of cash flow to cover some of those things, It just ends up being a real headache.
And so, again, the most peaceful thing to do is, what I would do is, yeah, roll all your equity into the next house.And like Winston and I, which I know this is, these years aren't here anymore, but this was about a decade ago.
But we got a condo, George, for $44,000 in foreclosure.Simpler times.It was far out of Nashville, crappy, crappy condo.We went and redid it and all of it.And we kept it for about a decade and then sold it. And I appreciate it.
You can start really, really small.Start small.Don't feel like you have to go big.And again, it's not as passive as you think.It's a lot of work.It's a lot of work.
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What's going on, Lindsey?
Hey, guys.How are you all?
We're doing well.How can we help today?
So I have a quick question.My boyfriend and I have recently moved in together, and we've been together for about a year now.I'm very early on in the baby steps, so I have about $700 in my $1,000 fund.Good for you.And yeah, it's a big deal.
So I have about $30,000 in debt. And this was all accumulated before we got together.He has his own debt.I don't know all of it, but it's definitely not as much as I have.
Um, my question is, do I focus on my debt alone and he focused on his debt alone or should we combine these and tackle them together?I just don't know what's right.
So keeping them separate is what we would recommend because you guys aren't legally married.So combining finances to someone that you're not married to can get really messy, really, really fast.So yeah, I would definitely keep it separate.
So I would work two completely separate baby steps.So you have your 700 with your debt, he has his.And then if you guys ever did get married, then you would combine it.After you say, I do, rings are on.
Good to go combine it all and you you can work out of one account.
But yeah, what we have found Lindsay is just that You know if or when you know breakup happens and so much of either his assets your assets end up getting entangled with each other and you're using your Income to pay off his debt.
He's using his income to pay off your debt and it really from a individual standpoint.
You've made no progress or less progress than you would have made if you just worked on your own if something were to happen and you guys separated so So yeah, that's what we would we would say.
Can I ask a harder question Lindsay?
When are you guys getting married?
Well, we have talked about it.Um, it also is kind of weird because I just got out of a 15 year relationship and well, not recently, but you know, a while ago and all of our debts were combined.
Like his debts were my debt, you know, and then separate.We were, yeah.
which is a little different.I was like, man, what if something happens, we're only paying off his debt, and then I look, you know, I'm coming out behind.
That's right.There's a thousand things that could go wrong with this situation, and that's why we recommend just waiting.You'll have legal protection, you'll have the marital unity of going, all right, it is we now.
It's our one account, our one pile of debt, and that is the best way.When you get to that point, you will find that it does accelerate, but now is not the time to do that.
So if and when you guys get married, combine, and we hope both of you are on your journeys and keep each other accountable.Is he on board with this plan?
Yeah, yeah.We've been kind of flirting with the idea separately, obviously, for about three years.
I think you make it a competition, you know what I mean?
No, that's great.That's actually a great idea because everything's a competition.
How about this?You pay yours off first.He's got to pop the question if he's serious about this.
My gosh, it determines on the... He pays his off first.He has to pop the question.Don't listen to that, Lindsay.
I'm kidding.But yeah, don't let debt hold you guys back from getting married either.That's another thing that comes up is they go, well, we want to wait till we're debt free to get married.
Get married when you feel like it's the right time to get married and the debt will take care of itself if you guys are on the same page.
Awesome, awesome, awesome advice.I do have one more quick question.I already know the answer to this, but I just want to see what you guys think.
Okay, tell us the answer after you're done, because I'm curious.
I have about, okay, I have about 20 grand in student loan debt.I plan on going back in January.Obviously, I don't want to take out more debt to do that, so I'm guessing the right answer here is to pay out of pocket.
Yes.Why are you going back?What are you getting back?What kind of degree?
It's a social work degree, so I'm going to be a therapist.I have two years in.I need pretty much two more to even be taken seriously, four more to actually get anything done.So yeah, that's kind of my thought process.
Ooh, that's a good question.I'm going to university, so I'm sure it's going to be up there.Um, I went in Denver for one semester and it cost me 10 grand to walk in the door.
Well, I would caution you to make this as affordable as possible.Cause I don't know if you know, but like social workers aren't, aren't, they're not out there flexing with their crazy high income.
So I don't want you to go spend 50 grand to go make 35.And so if you're going to even cash flow it, find the, is it the only way?Is it the best way?As our friend Ken Coleman would say.
And if that means an online program, a community college, they really don't care where you went.They just want to see that you did the work, you got the experience.
Okay.Okay.That's great advice too.Thank you guys so much.
We helped at least one person today, Rachel.We're off to a great start.All right, let's move on to Stefan in St.Paul, Minnesota.What's going on?
Hey Rachel, how's it going?
Doing great.Hey, um, so a little bit about me, uh, I am 20 years old, uh, and I still live with my parents, uh, out of high school.
I went into trades and I currently work for a solar company where I do a day to day operations and, uh, um, I'm their lead designer as well.So I guess my question for you guys is,
I'm at that stage where I would like to move out and I have a good chunk of money saved, but I'm wondering if I should wait another year or two and put a big, large payment on a house, or I should move out now and slowly save up and wait until the time is right to buy a house.
I mean, I'm usually more on the side of moving out.
And now if you had a very, very specific goal with a very specific timeframe saying, maybe you had $15,000 in debt and you're like, I'm working three jobs, I'm gonna pay this off here, but I'm saving money on rent, but in six months I'm moving out after the debt's paid off.
Like if there was like something that was more specific for you, than maybe considering it.
But the fact that it's just to save up for a down payment on a home, I don't know, there's something to be said about just living on your own and figuring out life.
There is something within your character that changes when you have to be the one responsible completely.And now that you're an adult and you're working full time, you're making great money, I think it's better for you to be out on your own.
Now you're 20 years old, so you're still pretty young. Oh yeah.28s or 30, 32.
I moved out at 20, Stefan, if it gives you any, you know, and I moved across the country, finished school, all that.But in your shoes, I would think it's wise to rent.
It's kind of like, you don't want to go for your first car when you're 16 and get a Lamborghini.It's just too much car.The maintenance is too expensive.You're not prepared for it at that age.So similar to becoming a homeowner at 20,
I would say it's a lot going on right now when your frontal lobe is still developing and you're trying to figure out life, but it's a great way to stair-step it and go, all right, I know how to pay bills on my own, still having to take care of my own life, there's a sense of independence, there's a maturity that happens, and that's why I think it's wise to rent for a year or two or however long it takes.
But to move out, though.Yeah.
Before you... So I would say, absolutely, move out.You're out of debt with an emergency fund.
Um, I currently have, uh, about, I currently owe about $7,000 on my car, but I worked a side hustle over the summer and, uh, I'm ready to pay that off at the end of the year.
Awesome.That would be my goal.Let me get the debt paid off.Let me get a little savings going to prepare for, you know, the deposit that's going to be required for rent, some furniture for my own place.
And then I would say, mom, dad, it's been awesome.Thank you so much.
Yeah, and I would have a money goal between now and February, if you decide to move, whenever you're deciding to move, have a goal of an amount you want and a time frame.
And I think it would be very mature of you to sit down with your parents and say, hey, here's my plan. You know, I'm going to be here for four or five more months.My plan is to save up this.
I'm going to pay off my car and just give them the dignity as parents to be like, yeah, I'm an adult and I'm moving off and well done, mom and dad.Thanks for all the help.And I'm a man now and I'm making my own money and living in my own spot.
I'd be teary-eyed if I was that parent going, I did a good job raising my son, Stefan.We're cheering you on, man.This is awesome.What a fun rite of passage to move out of the house and get your own place, even if that's renting.
It's the wise thing to do.This is The Ramsey Show.
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Oh, this is what we call a callback So you guys took a call on the Ramsey show?Yeah, and it became legendary Dave reacted to this call and we got an email from them back and we wanted to give you guys an update so tee it up Rachel
Yeah, so we got a call when Ken and I were on the show probably a few months ago, and it was a mom who got her daughter tickets to the Taylor Swift concert.
And she was like, well, if she sold those tickets now, she could pay off all of her student loan debt.What should we do? And I'm like, you go to the concert.You live once.This is insane.Go to the concert.You can't get tickets for it.
If you got tickets, you go.You figure out the debt later.You didn't go into debt for the concert, but the tickets are already bought.Just go and enjoy.And then Ken over here became a Swifty and said the same thing.
I was shocked.I asked one quick question to the lady.She said, If we sell them, we'll make somewhere in the 10 grand range and we'll put it towards it."
And I said, are you, were you planning to spend that amount of money out of your own pocket to help your daughter with her student loan?And she said, no.And then I said to Rachel, shock, I think I go make a memory with your two daughters.
Life is short.And she acted like I was the Grinch who got a heart all of a sudden.
I couldn't believe it.So then the comments on YouTube were like, Dave would never give this advice.They're giving the wrong advice that Dave would.So then when Dave was on the show a week later, we played the clips.
I was like, Dave, you tell America, were we wrong?
and he agreed with us only because it was a gift from the mom to the daughter and he said you can't undo a gift you can't like make her now sell it now he said if your daughter called me then maybe i would make her sell but i think i think we do have a we have a clip we can play james
My daughter is 22 and she just graduated from college with some student loan debt.And about a year ago, she was able to get on the presale and buy three tickets for her, my older daughter, and myself to go to a Taylor Swift concert in Indianapolis.
We got them for like $209 a piece.So now I'm seeing these resale prices.
Oh, it's crazy.It's insane.Yeah.And so I told her like, why don't we sell those tickets?And you can knock down so much of your student loan, but you'd be so far ahead.She says, absolutely.It's non-negotiable.It's a bucket list item.
She's like probably you, Rachel, a 50.And this is, you know,
And it's her money, right?
No, it was my money.Oh, okay.It was my money.I paid for that.But you know, I mean, this is, and for me too, I'm looking at like, you know, she's iconic.I would love to go to her concert.
My daughter of all the people that she could take, she wants to take her sister and me, you know, I mean, that's free.It's going to be a fun thing.Oh my gosh.
What would your take be?What do you think you could make on these tickets?
I'm thinking an average out between 3-4 grand per ticket.
So her student loan debt is $24,000?Correct.And that's what you would want to put the money towards?
Absolutely.100% of it would go to there.
Would you be putting $9,000 plus towards her student loan if you hadn't bought these tickets?I would not. I wouldn't resell these tickets.Here's the deal, Jill.You weren't planning to cut a check for $9,500 to put on your daughter's student loan.
Ever.I was not.So my whole point is... This is like a windfall, right?
If $9,500 fell into my lap, I might do that.
I get it, but this is your daughter's and it's a once-in-a-lifetime concert.
Oh yeah, I agree.You go, Jill.Go to the concert.
You weren't gonna do this anyway and I think your daughter said absolutely no way and I think it creates an unnecessary tension.She's 22.She needs to pay the thing off herself anyway.There's a lot of reasons.I want our audience to know.
I'm not just, I just think when I look at something like this, this is about the emotional, not the financial.
There we go.Oh, man.I mean, that's some common sense wisdom right there.And here's the update.Jill emailed back in.
You should read it.Can I read this email?
Yeah, because I can't.I'll cry.Okay.That's true.I was pretty amazed that my call-in question garnered so much discussion, and the follow-up with Dave and Rachel was great.Love that.
I wanted to send an update because we went to the Indy concert this past Sunday, and it was just as amazing an experience as Rachel indicated it would be. Taylor Swift really puts on an impressive performance, and the crowd and energy was fabulous.
I had a wonderful weekend with my daughters.Like Ken advised, I made great memories with my daughters.I'm attaching a couple photos.You're seeing them on the screen if you're watching on the app or YouTube.
Read what that says.And look at this bracelet, the friendship bracelet that is now Taylor Made Famous.What's it say?
Ken says, make memories.And I got choked up when I read this the other day. I did.Did you ever think that you'd make it to a Taylor Swift friendship bracelet?
No, and it wasn't about that.That's actually like a really cool bucket list thing though.
Yeah, but it wasn't that I was included in that, it was that I had a little teeny tiny really fun and entertaining small infinitesimal play in that mom making memories and I just think that you don't know if you have tomorrow and I think I got choked
Yeah, because I got one little girl.Yeah, and I if Josie said dad taking me to Taylor Swift, I'm gonna go Deliver garbage.
I'll you know, I might feel some ordering garbage I'm just making the point you do and you would do it for a little me a hundred percent.Come on I got a little choky.So it's a little dusty in here.
What is the The TLDR spark notes here is she didn't go into debt to do it.She did not.It was a gift.
She wanted to be generous and make a memory.
Yes.And because that the tickets, the value of the tickets went up so high.
I think there's a lady in the front row that's a little crying.
I think she's laughing at you, Ken. Oh, you're not crying?Maybe she is.
You're kind of laughing at me.
No one knows.She was crying, I think.She was.See, she admitted.Wow.
That's special.It was a sweet thing.I know.And I think we turned Ken into a Swifty by accident.
I don't even know what that means, but sure.
Oh, you are.My daughter is.Deep in your heart, I think you're there.Because it's always the tension on this show when we talk about money that we say you live like no one else so later you can live and give like no one else.And so
This mom was debt free.The mom was responsible financially.She had the cash to pay for these tickets.She did nothing wrong.I mean, nothing that we would say like, oh my gosh, you shouldn't do that.
But her daughter, on the other hand, is the one with the student loans and all of it.But it was a gift to her daughter.And again, it's this tension between we want to be wise financially.You want to get to a place that you financially are at peace.
You have a solid foundation under.You don't have debt.You have an emergency fund.We take care of it.We are adults.We're going to be wise with our money.
But then on the other hand, hear me say this, and all of you that have listened for a long time and are on Baby Steps 4, 5, 6, and 7, enjoy your life.Enjoy your life.And everyone's like, oh, Dave saves all the time.Dave Ramsey doesn't.
He saves, but Dave spends. He ain't eating rice and beans no more.Dave parties like, I mean, he is a spender and that's what we want for you too.We want you to be at a place where you have the money and you can enjoy it.
Downshift from the gazelle intensity to intentionality, budget for it.
Yeah, the Ramsey message is not, oh my gosh, we're gonna have to find coupons for every single purchase for the rest of our lives because we have to just save a ton and we're gonna just die with all this money and we never enjoyed life.
George, we're talking to you, by the way.I know, I felt that, that was a personal attack.
It's the opposite, it's enjoy it, enjoy life.
Some of us enjoy also using a coupon.No, you enjoy counting your money.
You're the nice Ebeneezer Scrooge.
You're not a mean person, but you like counting your coins.
He likes to split appetizers at restaurants with people.I'm like, there's a point, people.There's a point that we need to just relax and enjoy.
Relax and get the appetizer and buy the Taylor Swift ticket.
You know what your advice would have been? If you buy any memorabilia or merch, sell it afterwards.
I probably would have said- George would have sold the tickets.I would have said sell the tickets, invest in a good gross stock mutual fund from 22 to 62, and you'd be a multimillionaire.
Is that really what you would have said in that situation?No.
No, I probably would have been on team Ken and Rachel and said, begrudgingly, YOLO. Even then you gotta throw a begrudgingly on it.Well, it's the recipient's deal.She gets to do what she wants with that gift.
If she wanted to sell it and pay off debt or do anything else, that's up to her.
By the way, I do want to point out that at the very end of that segment, you can go back and watch it on YouTube, and it was also on I think Rachel's Instagram, and she collabed with me on that one, but I finished with a lyric from 22.
And the mom said she followed up.What was it?It was something down bad at the gym.
I thought I was going to be a cool host and drop in a lyric and then mom came right back and Rachel was so happy.I don't know that I've ever gone to commercial break where she was so emotionally just overjoyed. So much fulfillment in her face.
You've got to watch the clip.For those of you that were listening, we played that.You've got to watch her.She's so excited and scared.I want to see you guys communicate only in Taylor Swift lyrics.
And just know, one of the joys of happiness, and they found this scientifically proven.Arthur Brooks talks about this.You actually can find joy when you spend money on experiences with people that you love.It brings actual joy to your life.
So George, let's book a guys trip.
I'm in.He just talked about how he didn't have a lot of friends to travel with.
Me, Deloney, Taylor Swift.No.See, it was great until you said that.
Didn't know where you were going with that.We'll go canoeing with James.Next time you guys host a show together, you better be wearing friendship bracelets, too.Yeah.Let me guess.We're going to go hunting and kill stuff.No, thank you.
I'll take Taylor Swift.This has been The Ramsay Show.
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Alexis will kick us off in Phoenix.How can we help, Alexis?
Hi.Um, so I am a single mom.I'm not a single mom.I'm co-parent and I currently make $50,000 before taxes.So I bring home about 40, 38 to 40,000 after taxes.
Um, and my problem is I have $3,500, um, in bills monthly, but my paychecks, I bring home $3,000 a month.So, you know, I'm always $500 below what I need to pay my bill.So I didn't know,
if it was smart to stop paying my personal loan or to stop contributing to my 401k.Um, but I don't want to hurt my credit, but at the same time, I'm like, maybe it's more important to, you know, tackle the bills that are non-negotiable.
Yeah.How much of the 3000 is debt and how much of it is just bills for lifestyle?
All of it is, um, bills. The $3,500 that I owe monthly, all of it's bills.My rent is, I pay $1,800 for everything in my house.My car note is like $534, car insurance is $200, health insurance is $150.
It all adds up too.Sure, sure, sure.Okay.So tell me the debt specifically.So your car loan is how much total?$30,000.And you pay how much a month?$534.Okay.And then what other debt?You said a personal loan?
Yeah, I have, um, a couple of personal loans.He consolidated it.So I have one 2,500 line, um, and I have a couple of credit cards.So altogether, that's another 10,000.So I'm a $40,000 in debt.
Um, and then just like my, my, the bills that I have 40,000 in debt.
Yes.Okay.So how much is the payment for the personal loan?The 2,500, 300, 300.Okay.And how much are you paying in credit cards every month?
I actually stopped paying, well one of them is $50, I paid $50 for the small credit card, the $500 credit card.The other two ended up going to collections.
So I haven't been making any payments on that and I've been thinking about just letting the other one go to collections.
Yeah, for sure.Okay, so yes, I would stop contributing to your 401k for sure.I would stop any retirement savings.I would press pause on that.So I would call your HR department on Monday and make sure that no more money is taken out.
What percentage is that or what's the monthly amount that's taken out?
$80 and then they go up to 6% so they're matching me to... I contribute to 4% they contribute to.Okay.
Alright, so if we pause that you'll get 80 bucks back in your life.Here's what we're doing the math for.We're trying to find you margin and there's two ways to get it.
Spend less and make more.I think we need to do both.
And this car, Alexis, it is way beyond what we would recommend.We always say that you want anything with motors and wheels to be half or less of your annual income.And yeah, you're making $50,000, you have a $30,000 car, you have too much car.
So I would be getting rid of that.Do you know how much it would be if you sold it, Kelley Blue Book it?
No, I just got it this year.I got it in February, so it's 2024.I don't know, but I know I will be upside down, and I ended up having to get the car because the one that I had, I had just, you know, a little 2016 wasn't the best car.
Alexis, can I, let me, I want to show you something about your language that has gotten you to this point.You said, I had to.
Nobody has to get a $30,000 car. Right.Now, I understand that you didn't have the money to pay for a car in cash, but it's these kinds of decisions where we take that off the table, we start to go, okay, what car can I afford?
Well, I could afford a $7,000 car if I save up 500 bucks a month for the next 12 months.That kind of decision and process will help you get to the point where you no longer ever touch debt again.
Because if you think about it, this car payment is exactly the amount of money you need to stay current on all of your bills every single month and break even.And I would do a private sale.I wouldn't trade it in a dealership or anything.
And so if you're underwater on it, then you will take another small personal loan.And you can add a couple of thousand dollars to that loan as well, just to get a car to get you by.
But again, I'm talking about like a really crappy, not great car, like something really, really, really, really cheap, like five, six, $7,000.Because I would rather you have a $10,000 loan than a $30,000 loan right now.
So if you're underwater by five, let's say it's only worth 25 and you owe 30, and then you're gonna buy one for five, well, that's a 10 grand delta we need to find.
And so that's where Rachel's saying, go down to your credit union, get one personal loan so that we lessen the debt and get you out of that payment.
Yes, and then what's the situation with your kids?You said you're co-parenting.What do your weeks look like?Do you have the kids every day?Are you split custody or how is that working?
Yeah, I have her four to five days a week, but it's, it's, you know, we're very flexible.We don't have like a set. debt schedule, but he does, he's very involved.He has the baby run if I ever need him to, however.Okay.Okay.
So yeah, cause I mean, I, if I were you in this position, um, I see a way out.
You're able to, you're going to be able to get out of this debt, even though I know it feels overwhelming, but if you think about it, if you go down and car and we'll pretend your new loan is 10,000, um, yeah, you have some credit card debt, but then the, that's going to be 12,000.
How much is credit card debt?Do you have? Did you say total?Okay.
So you're cutting your debt in half just by getting rid of this car.Yeah.And that's going to get you out of debt twice as fast.
Yeah.I definitely thought, I'm definitely open to it because I definitely thought about it.I just didn't know how I was going to, um, you know, eat up the, what I was over in, but like, yeah.
Either you have it in savings or you need to get the difference in that personal loan.And it doesn't, do you have anything in savings right now?
Uh, not as of this month, no.I ended up using it all.
Okay, so your next goal, your A1, is number one, keep food on the table.So your four walls need to stay covered before any other bills are paid.So your food, utilities, housing, transportation.
And if that means the bill can't get paid for the credit card companies, whatever.We'll deal with that later.Then beyond that, you need to get a thousand bucks saved really fast to cover those little ankle-biter emergencies.
And then Alexis, too, sorry, I know we're throwing a lot at you, but your rent, you're bringing home $3,000 a month and your rent is $1,800.So that's more than half of your take-home pay.So I don't think that's sustainable.
That's gonna be a really, really hard hole to climb out of, in a sense, versus if it was, you know, A thousand bucks right and I know that rent and more like the housing situation is less in your control It's so difficult.
So so difficult, but again for a season for two years, right?Like it's not gonna be forever but for two years finding something that is way cheaper is something that I would look into too because it's either getting your income up or
or it's going to be lowering your expenses.And that's a glaring expense that I see that's not, from a ratio standpoint, is going to be really difficult for you to get ahead with keeping that more than 50% of your income going to rent.
And so for now, Alexis, that might mean that you get a side household that brings in $125 a month.I mean, $125 a week, that's $500 a month. to keep you afloat, to cover all the bills.
That might be what's necessary in the season on top of working, getting your core income up.
And I would say still on top of moving.Would you, George?
If you can find a place that's cheaper.Might be a little further out, not as nice.
Because I would hate to have a side hustle just to keep your living expenses afloat.Because the goal is that your income keeps everything afloat that you need, your four walls, and anything extra is going at the debt.
And so again, I think it's going to be difficult to do that with that $1,800 rent payment.So I would look really hard Alexis for somewhere cheaper.I hope that helps.
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I'm George Campbell, joined by Rachel Cruz.This is The Ramsey Show.Open phones at 888-825-5225.We're heading to Tampa next to talk to Corey.How can we help, Corey?
Hi there.Thank you for taking my call.
I'm contemplating selling my small business to accept a job that would increase my total income to try and get out of this debt that we're in as quick as possible.And I'm just trying to make sure that I'm doing the right thing.
Okay.How much debt are you in?
Right around a hundred thousand before my mortgage.
Okay.And what kind of debt is the a hundred thousand?
Um, let's see, we got 35 is allocated towards the small business.It's a, it's a food truck.Um, so that was a startup loan from friends and family members.Um, about 30,000 in student loans, uh, 10,000 to fix the AC.Um, and then about 20.
2000 and, uh, or no, 25,000 in vehicles.
Okay.And what is this business worth if you were to sell it?
Um, I would estimate around $42,000 to just sell the trailer.Um, and then I also have a truck that I bought to use with the business that I could potentially let go as well.What's that worth?
Um, it's worth right around $13,000 and I owe $18,500 on it.Okay.
So you're about five grand underwater on that. Okay, so you would get $55,000 essentially for selling this business?Correct.And you need another $5,000 to get out of the underwater loan, and you're about $100,000 in debt.
So this gets you out of debt twice as fast, and what's the household income now?
Right now my wife just got a promotion.She makes $67,000 before bonuses with potential $12,000 in bonuses.I make about $550,000 at a part-time job a week.
and then the trailer we really don't take a paycheck from it by just whatever profits at the end of the month i throw at you that which is averaging between uh... you know two thousand and thirty five hundred a month okay so all together you guys make about a hundred k year roughly uh... which it's not including the trailer in any way shape or form seen a card don't take a paycheck from it
And what's the new job Corey that you're looking at?
I would be taking a chef position at the part-time job now which would get me up to 73 guaranteed with a potential 12,000 bonus as well.Amazing.
For the food truck itself, is it something you would go back to doing?If you were completely debt-free, would you still keep doing this, or are you getting burned out?
Well, I kind of burned out on it.I've been doing it for about two and a half, three years, working seven days a week, 70, 80, 90 hour weeks. It was never supposed to be the end all, be all.
It was supposed to be a stepping stone towards a brick and mortar location.And it's just looking like the reality of it puts it, you know, five, six, seven years down the road.And I just don't think that I could put my family through that hardship.
Yeah.And I think, I mean, I think you're, um, listening to your gut and I think you're, you're seeing kind of the tea leaves of what's happening, which I think is really smart, Corey, really, really smart.
Especially when you talk about the food industry, we've gotten calls of people, um, that go straight to want to go straight to the brick and mortar and take out a massive loan.
And the food industry is one of the highest ones that, you know, the highest parts of, of small businesses that goes up and it goes down and it, it closes more than any other industry.Yeah.
It's just a written and as you experience with the food truck, it is just a it's a tough It's a tough world to be in it's a lot of work a lot of work and again not always with the guarantee that it's gonna be successful, so Being a chef somewhere.
I think sounds like the perfect next stepping stone You're gonna get a 50 grand raise while getting rid of half of your debt And you're still doing the thing you love.You're still able to be in that world of cooking and food and hopefully innovating.
Getting experience.Yeah.I mean, to me, this is kind of a no brainer, honestly, because, I don't know, you kind of get to still live your dream, but not have to deal with owning anything right now.
I would do it.I'd try to get top dollar for your trailer and the truck.And do you have anything in savings?
uh... we have uh... right around two thousand in our emergency savings and then i have about two thousand cash that just kind of floats around for expenditures.
Okay, you may want to wait another paycheck or two, get that $5,000 difference that you're underwater on so that you have the money to actually get rid of the note on that truck.Okay.
And that way you're not having to take out another loan to clean this up.And then I'd take that new job, man, and I would clean this mess up.You'll probably get, I mean, you'll be making, what, $150k household at that point?
Roundabouts, yeah.You know, $20k of it's not guaranteed. Yeah, so there is a little bit of a fluctuation on it.
Sure.Making about $150,000 with $50,000 left to pay off, that's going to get knocked out real quick.Versus your situation now, which is we make $80,000, $90,000 with $100,000 to pay off.The math ain't mathing on that one.
So we do need some drastic changes.You're willing to do it.You're burnt out on this.And guess what?Later on down the road, you may decide to do this dream again, but you're going to do it with cash, with more experience, while making more money.
And so I don't want you, I know it's hard to grieve something that you put your heart and soul into, and I can tell you're passionate about it, but there's also wisdom in going, now's not the time.
yeah and you know we've we've just rent found dave ramsey in your whole system a few months ago and we have made considerable progress towards our debt we we always live we get in all of our debts from three years previous we haven't gone into any debt in the last three years we were just paying minimums and then we read um you know uh total money makeover and we've started trying to get out of this debt we're still struggling with the budget somewhat you know i feel like there's still more room
for cutting some expenses, but it's just been a little bit of a struggle.
Yeah, and just to give you some hope in it, I mean, you guys have just been doing this a couple of months, and even with the budget, we say it usually takes about three to four months to really get in the cycle of doing it and it actually be correct that you can live on.
So you guys are just starting out, and the fact that you're so gung-ho about it, I mean, you're gonna make great progress.Great progress.
And the budget is easier to do when you have less debt, more income.The numbers will start to give you some hope instead of go, oh my gosh, how are we gonna fix this puzzle? And so we're wishing you the best, Cori.Appreciate the call.
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All right.Let's go to Kathy in Boston.How can we help Kathy?
Hey, what's your question?
Okay, I'm 67 years old and I'd like to retire in three years and I do have money in stocks and bonds and mutuals and I'm not sure if I should keep it there or if I should maybe switch to annuities or IRAs, DDs.I didn't know the best way to go.
Well, I mean, switching to annuities and IRA, CDs, you're talking about really lowering your ability to make any money.
And so you're just sort of preserving what is, and you know, if you're 67, there's a good chance you live to 87 if you're in good health, right?
And so I want to see your money grow beyond the rate of inflation.So what is your money in and how much?
Um, I have approximately 250, 215,000. And that would be like stocks bonds mutual because I have it in three different places that kind of manage it.
I do have, I did have social security.
And then I work and I work.
Okay.So what's your plan to actually retire?How will you cover your expenses in retirement?
Just with my investments in the money I have.And of course my social security.
What are your monthly expenses?
Oh, um, let's see. Maybe $1,600 a month.I mean, $2,000 would be way overkill.
Okay.And what's your Social Security payment going to be? So that's enough to cover the baseline bills for now, without more inflation.And I would leave your money invested in the market.
I wouldn't go to search for a 4% return when what we see in the market, I just checked my 401k last year, Kathy, 37%.
return when I just left it in and didn't touch it and left it in the overall market and gross stock mutual funds versus those less risky but lower return things like those CDs and annuities.So, I would stay on your plan.This is The Ramsey Show.
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Go download EveryDollar for free in the App Store or Google Play, or you can click the link in the description if you're listening on YouTube or podcast.Stacey's up next in Atlanta, Georgia.How can we help you today, Stacey?
Hey.Hey. My problem is, um, my husband was out of work for two years.He invested in something that just didn't work out.And so, um, he had to go back and get a job and we put all of our life savings, everything, retirement, everything into it.
How much are we talking and what was this investment?
Um, he actually, um, invented a product and it's still underway and EPA just kept putting it back and putting it back and putting it back.
So, um, it's kind of stuck with California's EPA and he just thought it wouldn't be like, Oh, this will be a five year plan.Me, I'm, more realist.I'm like, this is going to take at least 10 or 11 years.Well, I was right.And it's not fun being right.
And so he had to get a job.He's 61.Nobody wanted to hire him.And he's a smart guy.Somebody finally did hire him.He's making 135,000 a year.
Good.And how much money did you guys take?How much money went into all of this?
Um, we put a million into it.
Was this cash or did you take on debt?
No, we took everything out.Um, yeah.
So you still owe a million dollars in debt?
No, no, no.We don't.Thank God.We only owe, um, we only owe $80,000 in debt.We have a house.Um, it's, um.
Did he borrow on the house at all?
Oh, Stacy.How long ago was this?
Oh, well, we've been in it for about 10, 10 years, 11 years.Yeah.
So over the course of that amount of time is it added up to a million.
You were just dumping money into it.There's nothing we can get out of this.
He put a million in and then they would pay, you know, he was trying to pay and, um, had investors and everything, but people dropped out and it's just, it's been a shit show.
So what's your income?Are you working?
So I have always been a stay-at-home mom.I had raised my kids.I had a special needs child who they said no one ever would graduate, but we actually got him to where he has a skill.He's a welder now.
But all my efforts were put there.So at one time I was capable.
So your household income is now $135K.You owe $80K in consumer debt, correct?
Yes.Okay.What's your question?In the house.We own the house.
Um, is it, is it outright or do you guys, uh, do you guys owe anything on a mortgage?
We own it.We own, we owe $375,000 on it.You owe that.Um, yes.And so of course we've thought about moving.We've tried to figure out where to move and God, the housing market is terrible, um, where we're at.
And so we're trying to figure out that I am working part time.I'm actually in my spare time an artist, so I sell pieces for like, $3,500 a piece for my art, but there are a few, you know, it's one every two or three months.
That's, that doesn't cut it.
Um, and I have applied to over 314 places, 12 interviews and repeat interviews only to not be hired.Uh, cause nobody wants 55 year old with no health education.So I just need to know, do I get a consolidated loan and put it off?
Cause the interest rates are killing us.
Consolidated alone isn't going to solve any of your problems.You're just moving the debt around, and they're going to take an average of the rates.So it's not really going to, you know, work any miracles here.
Your best bet is to use this $135k of income you have, live on as little as you can, and throw the rest of this $80k until it's knocked out.
Just keep going at it and you think it'll make a dent.
Well, here's the good news.If you use the debt snowball method, smallest to largest balance, ignore the interest rates.I know that's hard right now because you see how much you're paying.But as you knock out the little debt, you free up a payment.
Now take all the margin you were throwing at that, throw it at the next smallest debt, you free up a payment.And you see that as you go downhill, the debt snowball is going to pick up more snow.
Stacey, how often can you paint?Because when you said, I can sell a painting for $3,500, I mean, that's
If you can sell one a month, that's serious income.
Yeah, I mean, I'm not kidding.
I know, and I'm trying desperately to get there.I have literally tried to build my own website on my own, did it, and I've been doing this.I'm not good with social media.
Well, get connected with your local art communities, art galleries.
Do you have paintings sitting waiting to be sold? Oh yeah.Okay.Okay.Okay.So it's not a matter of like, okay, gotcha.
Maybe you could sell prints.I mean, there's a lot of options in the art world where you can make some good money and it sounds like you're talented.
Yeah.I, it's just.In the jobs you're applying for.I'm not an entrepreneur.Yeah, yeah.No, you're good Stacey.I think, yeah, yeah.Um, what kind of jobs have you been applying for?I'm just curious.Has it just been.Oh my gosh.You name it.
I've applied for.So even like administration type roles.Um.Everything.Everything.
Literally.I mean everything.
And, um, you know what you could, have you looked at, um, online type jobs?Like, I just wonder even for like, as a virtual assistant, like usually moms that have raised kids can get crap done.
Like they know how to schedule, they know how to run a household.Um, so I even wonder from like a virtual side, you could do a virtual thing and paint and try to kind of get that going.
I haven't done that.Um, I have not been that virtual assistant.
I would look into something like that.Cause a lot of people, you hadn't even pieced together a couple of jobs.
Cause some people just need someone for 10 hours a week, you know, and you could get, you know, two or three people that, that you're helping.Um, and then on the side, how old are your kids?
They're, they're grown now.The youngest is still, he's a 21 and still living at home, but we're 20 something year olds.Yes.
Okay.Daughter in law.Well, have, have, ask your son.
Well, I was going to just, I, well, I'm thinking from a social media perspective, ask one of your sons, any of like their girlfriends that they know, or people like friends and jump on the phone and learn some of this.I'm not kidding.
Like this is, and you don't have to grow this like crazy account, but getting your, your paintings out there.Cause Stacy, I really think that $3,500, that's.I've got 450 followers right now.
I'm trying to work toward get 500 because then I can start getting payments for like affiliate, you know These are the ideas when you start coming up with not what's the next piece of debt we can jump to?
because you're gonna get out of this, but the only way out is to get out, not to switch it to a different type of loan with slightly lower interest.You guys are your best bet to get out with this amazing income.
And that's just gonna mean getting to work and living on less.So do a budget with your husband tonight and go, what can we live on?How little can we live on out of this 135 so that we can get out of debt fast?
And considering you guys have no retirement, Stacey, you probably will be, you guys probably will be working for the next probably 10 years or so.So we're gonna give you Ken Coleman's material, his assessment.
Yes, find the work you're wired to do.It comes with his Get Clear Career Assessment, so take that.
And it's awesome because it will, as you fill it out, maybe spark ideas for you from a work standpoint.
That could just kind of get your wheels turning on other opportunities to get some income in because I think that's gonna be your best bet and And I'm and I'm so I'm so sorry that this happens I mean, I know you guys are adults and you guys made the decision and you're reaping the you know, the consequences of it Well, it's really hard
Oh yes, good, I'll throw that in there.I'll throw that in there too.I have been a little bitter about all this.I would too, Stacey, I would too.But you guys, yeah, as a couple, you know, I mean that's a, that's a hard, it's a hard pill to swallow.
It's a big thing to grieve.
It's a hard pill to swallow that you guys, but you know how to save, you guys had a million dollars. at one point.So obviously, you know, we'll make it.Yeah, you will.You will.Well, hang on the line.
We'll get you Ken Coleman's material in my contentment journal.And we'll get that out to you, Stacey.But it is it's it's it's a little bit of the grind.And it's that that pill of bitterness of like, man, yeah, what did we do?
But hey, that was in the past.And now you get to choose choose a different future.
I'm choosing hope and choosing confidence. Don't say, who's going to want to hire a 55, I would want to hire Stacey.She sounds very hardworking and talented.
And so you get back out there and you show them what you're made of, Stacey, and call us back when you guys are debt free.We can't wait to celebrate with you.This is the Ramsey Show.
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Welcome back to the Ramsey show.I'm George Campbell joined by Rachel Cruz.Open phones at 888-825-5225.You call in, we'll help you take the right next step for your life and your money.Dan is up next in Chicago.How can we help Dan?
Yeah, I'm a pastor, and most of my ministry, I've lived in a home that has been provided by the church, and I'm getting ready to retire, and my wife and I kind of feel like we need to buy a modest home in order to, you know, perhaps gain a little bit of equity and protect us from, you know, rising rents and things like that.
That's wise.I'm sorry?That is wise. I like that.Why?No, it's why.Sorry.There is wisdom in that, Dan.I like that.Okay.So you want to buy a house when you retire next year?Yeah.How much money do you guys have?
Well, we're going to have about $2,000 a month after the Medicare deduction in social security.We've got about $350,000 in a 403B account and we've got $50,000 cash. We don't have any debt.Just didn't know what the right move for us would be.
Is it better for us to go ahead and spend the money on rent or is it better for us to try to find a home that's within our price range and then take on a mortgage?
Well, I'll give you the good news and bad news.The great news is you're going to retire with no debt and an emergency fund.
The bad news is you don't have much money to put into a house as a down payment to be able to afford the mortgage because you said your income is going to be fixed at two grand a month in retirement.
Yeah, plus whatever we withdraw out of our 403B.
And the 403B at 350, I mean, it's not a massive nest egg that's going to last us, you know, 30 years.And so how much money can you guys save in the meantime to get a down payment while you still are working?
Well, we're saving right now about $1,300 a month.And I'm planning on working, you know, another 10 or 12 months.
Yes, that'll be close to $15,000.Yeah, I mean, have you looked at homes?I know it says Chicago on the board where you're from, I guess a suburb of Chicago.Have you looked at homes and what they're costing?
Yeah, we're really in a small town about west of Chicago and we feel like we can get a more than adequate home for us for, you know, in the $140, $150 range.Okay. Yep.
I would sit down tonight and pull up the mortgage calculator and say, hey, if we put, let's say 50 down into a house, we had $100,000 mortgage, what would that be monthly?
Because my concern is if you're living off of 2K and you're probably not gonna be able to pull a ton off of that 403B while it's sitting at this stage at 350, because you would decimate it.
If you took out 150 from that 403B, I mean, that's a large part of your nest egg that you've unplugged from future compound growth. And so I would sit down to see, does it make sense to rent?
Can we rent for, you know, 750 in our area versus the mortgage being 1200 bucks?That's the kind of math I'd be doing to see how can we live off of this income?
Because it's not a lot of income to live off of just considering the two grand plus a little bit from the 403B. Yeah, okay.
But you wouldn't say to rent long term though, George.
No, long term, I'd rather have you in a house.
Right now, it's just, there's not a ton of money to throw into the house and just purchase it with cash without just using up all of your retirement.
No, yeah, and you may not have to purchase it in cash.You could put down payments.
You put 50 down, took $100,000 mortgage.
I doubt the payment would be astronomically high.But again, if you're making two grand and the payment's a thousand bucks, that's a lot of your world just eaten up by the mortgage.
Yeah. I didn't know what my options were.
Could you work longer?Could you do an extra year?
I could, yeah.I'm not under any pressure to retire or anything like that.
Just to give you guys a little more wiggle room, allow your nest egg to grow, allow you to get more cash for the down payment, that would give me some more peace personally.
Because you guys could get close to, I mean, if you guys saved for the next two years, let's say you could save up to 30 grand in just that cashflow that you're, you know, living off of, uh, plus the 50 that you have, uh, that gets you close to 50% of a one 40 mortgage.
You know what I mean?So like your, your math is, um, it can compound pretty quick if you, if you do work maybe one more year.
Yeah, and if I were you in your shoes and I would sit down with a financial advisor who can kind of crunch these numbers for you, but I wouldn't be comfortable taking out more than a thousand or 1500 bucks a month out of that four or three B, because you guys might have another 30 years ahead of you that you need to live off of this.
Right.And so that's where the numbers come in.
Yeah, how much are your expenses a month, Dan, for you guys?How much do you guys spend a month?
Right now, probably about, I don't know, $28,000 to $3,000, something like that.And that's without paying rent?That's right, that's right.
So then, that's $4,000.Let's pretend that the mortgage was $1,000.So that means you'll need $4,000 a month And so you get the $2,000 that you were saying comes in from Social Security and everything, and making sure that you can withdraw again.
We're just speaking on round numbers here.
Napkin math would say, you know, taking out $2,000 out of that nest egg every single month, you'd probably run out of money. while your expenses may be going up later in life.So that's my concern.
I don't want you guys to be down to the wire every single year.That's not the kind of retirement I want to have.
And so that's where we were saying pause, work longer, keep stashing away in that nest egg, stash money away for the down payment, and then see where you're at a year or two from now.
Okay. All right, well, I appreciate your advice.Yeah, I hope that helps, Dan.
Wishing you the best in retirement.
For sure, and that's a common issue that we hear with people that do ministry and housing is provided, is like, oh my gosh, that's great, I don't have to pay for rent or a mortgage, and then you get
to Dan's age, retirement age, and there hasn't been any intentional saving towards a house.And then you're kind of stuck.
So if you're in that spot, here's what I would do if I was in your shoes.Whatever you would be paying market rent, I would take that amount and put it away in an investment account for as long as you have that career.
So that when you do retire, you go, oh my gosh, we have 400 grand just allocated for housing.
For a house.To go buy a place in cash. And always remember that your housing line item in your budget is usually number one, the most expensive and number two, the most volatile because rent especially will always be going up.
That's what we've experienced right over the last few years.Like it continues to go up.It rarely, if it never goes down.
And so 20 years from now, Dan's rent might be four grand.
Exactly.So if you like just say, well, I'm never going to buy a house.I'm going to just be a renter for the rest of my life.Well, that's one expense in your budget.
That's very expensive and will continue to go up variable versus saying, I'm going to buy a home. and I'm gonna work to pay it off.That's why it's Baby Step 6.We actually met somebody at the break, George.She just paid off her house on Tuesday.
And someone else had paid off their house that was here for their 40th birthday.It was two in a row.Two houses in a row that were, people paid off their house.
Yes, and so that's the beauty is that line item again. is out of the budget.
So retirement has a lot more flexibility.That's right.When you get that house paid off going into retirement.So that's the goal.
Rachel, we've got a really fun little assessment on the website right now that helps people figure out if they're staying on track with the baby steps.So you can take a quick quiz to check your progress and receive a personalized plan just for you.
So here's how you get the get started assessment.Go to the show notes of this episode, the description, click on the link titled, are you on track with the baby steps?And you can complete the quiz.
Yeah and this is always helpful because especially if you're new to the show a lot of people find us on podcast or YouTube and been listening just a little bit.
you know, there to know kind of where you stack up against other, other people, you know, other people, other Americans, but also against the plan just to kind of know where, where am I?Like, how do I even start this process?
It helps you really kind of get a baseline for it.And I think that's always helpful if you're, you know, money's an area for some people, they don't really think about, they don't really, yeah, there's no really plan.
You're doing 17 things at once.
That's right.Yes.But so to get actually a concrete idea of, okay, this is exactly the next thing I need to be doing.It's a great tool.So make sure to check it out.
Can I tell you one of my secret gear grinders?Oh, I can't wait.When people say, so Rachel, we've been doing the baby steps just out of order.And I go, well then you're not doing the baby steps.
If you're investing and trying to pay off debt and saving and you bought a house while you're in debt, I'm like, don't say you're doing the baby steps out of order, just tell me you're not doing the baby steps. Just tell me you're investing.
Just a personal little grudge there, George.
You know, it's rare that I'm bothered by something.I'm kidding.
George is not uptight at all.No worries.Not tightly wung.
We're going to unwind him. Enjoy this Friday.
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