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What's up?You sexy motherfuckers.Welcome to another episode of dumb blonde the internet spoke and I listened Miss Gabby Egan is in the motherfucking house, baby.What's up?
Dude, your hair looks so cute.I was just telling you that.It is so adorable.
Yeah, thank you.My hair girl kills it.Shout out Meg.Yay.
And we just found out that Meg and Mimi, who was my hairdresser turned manager, were friends.
Yeah, which is like a small world.
Yeah.So what's been going on with you?What are you guys doing out here in Nashville besides the podcast?
Um, last night we went to Broadway.Um, it wasn't what I expected.I don't think that we really, I think it was cause it was like a Monday night though.
And it was just like, everybody was like 45 plus and it was like, you know, like it just like, we weren't just, we weren't vibing with everybody in there.So just, we weren't fitting in.
It was old people hour.Yeah.
Oh damn it.Nobody was boot scooting bugging.You mean the fucking bachelorette parties that run around with dicks on their foreheads and white boots weren't fucking running around down there? No, that happened.Oh, dude, every fucking day.
I thought like literally everybody's got a dick on their forehead.How did I go on the one day where it's not like coffin?Yeah, that is crazy.So what was it?It was Monday night.That's probably why.Yeah, it might be a little.
Are you guys staying tonight?Are you guys?Yeah, we're saying it'll probably be a little better tonight, but it gets better towards the weekend.I know like Kristen and Whitney and all them are out here right now.I don't know if you know who they are.
They're other tick tockers.No, my God.
She's like, nope.I know.Jacinda is always trying to tell me.She's like, you know this person, this person.And I'm like, no, I think I live under a rock sometimes.But I'm getting better at trying to figure out who people are.
So Jacinda is someone who I met online.And I make t-shirts, and she makes t-shirts.
Yeah, we're going to talk about that.I have a little list of notes over here.
Yeah, we like connected over like her trying to like help me with my business because she's been doing it for five years.And she actually uprooted her whole life and like moved down to Kentucky.
So now she lives five minutes away from me and we kind of help each other run our businesses.It's really cool.
Oh, don't you love that?That's what Mimi did for me, man.She fucking owned a salon.And I literally in 2018, I was like, I want to start this podcast and
fucking you know I can't pay you right now but one of these days I will be able to pay you and she's like fuck it let's go and we've just been together ever since so that's a beautiful friendship yeah that's awesome that's actually like really beautiful yeah no but that's cool that's what Jacinda did for you too I know yeah it's pretty crazy I know it's kind of like hard to like
Sometimes when I really think about it, and I think, well, she has kids, too.So she uprooted her husband, her kids.But I'm really excited, because she lived in the middle of butt-fuck-nowhere Pennsylvania.There was a Sheetz and a Red Light.
There was nothing for miles.So now she gets blowouts and has appointments and stuff.And I love seeing her grow and flourish.
It's pretty awesome.That's a real friendship.Yeah.You guys lifting each other up. So let's just fucking dive in because I googled you last night and today a little bit and just to get some cliff notes and stuff.And you have lived a interesting life.
Yeah.I mean, it's fascinating.
Yeah, it's pretty insane.
I love the way you carry yourself.
I don't even know how I carry myself sometimes.I don't know.I don't know.I feel like I still haven't found myself and I still don't know what I'm doing.I feel like I'm a train wreck, but I feel like I'm on the right path.
I just don't know what I'm doing yet.
You're genuine though.Yeah, I know.That shows through.
I try to be genuine.Sometimes it's hard because I do try to fall into I try to like be when I'm not supposed to like, or I'm trying to like keep up with trends or like keep up with how I'm supposed to be relevant or whatever.
Right.But honestly, like my content does the best when I'm being yourself raw, literally same.
Yeah, no, I totally understand that.I do.I love the way you carry yourself.And I've watched a couple of your videos that you've made this past few weeks.And I was just like,
I think what the internet is missing these days is that genuineness that you have.Everybody's always trying to, like you say, impress everybody.And with you, it's like, what you see is what you get.
If you don't like it, fucking don't let the door hit you on the way out.I know.So I know that about you.
Yeah.And it's kind of been a really hard journey of getting to this point in my life, because I did, for a long time, really care about what people thought about me.Yeah. It just took me getting pushed to the point where I was like, fuck it.
I'm just going to be whoever the fuck I'm going to be.And everybody in my life who's close to me all support me.They're all cheering me on and encouraging me and wanting to see me do great things.
So why the fuck do I care about these people who I don't even know fucking exist, really?Because they're just watching me on the internet.You can block me. never see me again if you choose to, but you stay and you choose to watch me and be toxic.
Yeah, no, it's like, obviously you like me a little bit.
Yeah.Totally.Okay, so let's talk about it.So where did you grow up?
So I was actually born and raised in Fayetteville, North Carolina.I lived there for 20 years.OK, so you are from North Carolina.
Awesome.And how was your childhood growing up?Talk to me about it.Because you did get pregnant at 13, right?So let's talk about the childhood a little bit.
Yeah, so my parents had me late in life.I was an only child.And my mom and dad were 40 when they had me.So when my mom was 40, my dad was 41.And I was the one and only child growing up.So I was kind of like their spoiled little baby.
He played professional basketball whenever he was younger.So he became a college coach.That was his job.And my mom was a real estate agent.So we weren't really struggling.We were middle class or lower middle class.And I had a nice life growing up.
But I definitely do think when you're an only child, you get so bored.And I really didn't have like, I did have a lot of attention from my dad.But my mom was always busy working.And I was with my grandma a lot. I don't know.
I feel like I was always kind of lonely as a kid.And I don't know why.And so as soon as I started getting male attention, when I was like, I had a great childhood.
But as soon as I hit 12, 13, and I started getting male attention, and these older boys were starting to show interest to me, that was where I wanted.I feel like I needed more affection or something.
I don't know how to describe that.
I get it.I totally understand it.You remind me a lot of Bailey.Doesn't she remind you of Bailey, our daughter? It's his daughter, but she's mine too.She's just my little bonus baby, but you remind me a lot of her too.
So hearing that makes me think like, Oh my God, is this what she's going through?Cause she just turned 14 right now and she's starting to go through some shit and I'm just like, okay, this makes sense.So. keep talking you're helping me over here.
Well no yeah like I feel like when I was younger um I was always taller than all the girls in school and so I was also like a little bit chubbier and chunkier than all the other girls and I definitely I didn't fit in like I was like the weirdo like I was the weird kid like to be completely honest with you I was the weird kid and like I really didn't fit into any like
of the girl groups or like make any girlfriends in school.Like I was kind of like the weird kid out and I got bullied a lot in school too.
So as soon as I started to get a little pretty and lose a little bit of weight and these men, like these not men, boys, these boys.
Gotta be careful, the internet will come for you.
Yeah, let me chill out on that one.Yeah, when these boys would start giving me attention and like thought that I was pretty, it's something that I had never had before, you know?And so like, I really like fell right into that trap.
And so when I was 13, like on the weekends, it was like starting in sixth grade.I don't know what my parents were thinking or any of these people's parents were thinking.
They used to drop like sixth graders off at the skating rink and leave them from 7 p.m.to 11 p.m.to go like roller skating around.And that's where I met my son's dad.He was 16 and I was 12 at the time, about to be 13.And I got pregnant.
It's a little different.I think a 16-year-old knows what's going on, too.I think so, too, now that I'm older.Yeah.OK.I didn't know if that has been an issue with you guys, because I don't really know that whole story.
Yeah.Looking back, it definitely wasn't like, it was consensual.
Right.Absolutely.But you're 12, and what do you know?I feel like 16, you're a little bit
smarter yeah like i was in seventh grade and he was like a sophomore in high school yeah you know when i was a sophomore in high school i knew what fucking was yeah you know like i knew what happened like i like i knew like i knew yeah like more than like he kind of took advantage of your innocence i don't know him i don't know the situation but from an outsider just hearing that like 16 and 12 is kind of
thick a little bit it's kind of gross and it wasn't like uh illegal like there was nothing but the state did look into it like when my son was born yeah the state did actually look into it and like cps got involved i actually just did a story time on tiktok about it did see that we'll get into that real quick so let's rewind let's go back to the skating rink you met okay okay what's it are we allowed to say his name or baby daddy baby daddy we can name him like
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all right sperm donor yeah sperm donor sperm donor i like that so yeah i met him at the skating rink and we started kick do you know what kick is the messenger yes the old school messenger yeah so like that was what we started talking on back in the day and it was like going back and forth and um i would only get to see him at the skating rinks well then my dad he was a basketball coach and his team would travel like
around and he would be gone for weekends and stuff and I had convinced my mom to let us start like hanging out outside of the skating rink and my mom was like no like he's older like you know like no and she did know that he was older but like
I don't know.I don't know.I don't know.I don't know.But she said, yeah.And we started hanging out outside.And then we ended up hooking up one of the times that we were hanging out when my dad was gone.
And it really sucks because I was really like a daddy's girl growing up.My dad was my, that sucks.
i never really thought about it that way i'm sorry i'm not trying to get emotional but no yeah okay breathe i was like really do it i know it's okay to feel that though like i'm learning that with my therapist you don't cut off emotions because that hurts you more just let it flow yeah like i um i was really a daddy's girl growing up and like
When I got pregnant, it was almost like my dad didn't even know.He couldn't even believe it.It was almost like a thing where it was like, he thought I was on drugs.When I sat him down to tell him, he was like, what, did you get caught with drugs?
Did you get caught with, are you in trouble?And I was like, no, I'm pregnant.And he was like, Oh, is this like a joke?Like, oh, you trying to mess with me, you know?And it was like, no, like this is like literally going on.
And it was almost like he had almost like no reaction to it because it was like not even the truth.
Yeah.And I just remember it was like the awkwardest time of my life because my mom, she was trying to like, you know, console everybody and like make everything OK, which obviously nothing was OK.
But she wanted to go on a walk outside, like the three of us.So we went on this long ass walk. and walked around the neighborhood in silence.And it was like, that's how I went telling my parents that I was pregnant at 13.
And honestly, like my dad didn't talk to me, I don't think for like a month after that, unless it was like mandatory.Like I would go up and talk to him and he just had nothing to say to me.
I think it was probably you're his baby and he just, he probably internalized that and was like, what did I do wrong?And I think he probably took that really hard.I don't think it had anything to do with you.
Yeah, and I think a lot of people do blame my parents, but I really don't think.My parents, I know.I know my parents love me more than anything.And they did the best that they could.This is their first time doing life, too, just like me.
They are not perfect by any means at all.My parents both get on my nerves a little bit.But they're human, and I don't blame them for what happened. It's just kind of something that happened, and I made the best out of it.
I did the best that I could with the cards that I was dealt.
So let's talk about it.So you're 13.You're going into labor.Take me into that day.Well, first of all, how was the pregnancy?Did sperm donors stick around?Did he make it hell?No, dude.Literally, like,
So it's crazy because sperm donor so he as soon as I found out that I was pregnant he was like relatively like okay about it and I thought okay well this is gonna be like well that that was another thing I didn't at the time I didn't know whether or not I was gonna keep the baby really because my mom had given me both options.
So I obviously, at the time, I'm very pro-choice, I'm pro-do-whatever-the-fuck-you-want, but I chose, I could not get rid of my son.I was like, it just feels like I need to have him.For me, in my head, it just wasn't an option.
So I decided to move forward, and when I told him, hey, I'm having this baby, my parents know, I'm probably never gonna see you again, because my dad's probably gonna murder you.
But he decided to stick stick around and like my mom still snuck us around to see each other.He just wasn't allowed at the house and like my mom still like let us like go eat and like go have like dinner together so we could see each other.
But then he started like went off with his life kind of, you know, started dating girls at his school and dating girls that were easier to date, you know, and I didn't want to have the responsibility.
Right, so the whole pregnancy, I was literally having a mental breakdown.I went into preterm labor when I was 33 weeks, I think because of how stressed out I was.
I was, yeah, no, that was the most traumatic time of my life, and I blocked a lot of it out because it was rough.It was rough.So he came back.He left me and didn't talk to me, blocked me on everything for majority of the pregnancy.
And then right- What a fucking douchebag.Uh-huh.
Yeah.And then right before I had my son and I was like, you know, his due date's approaching.He hits me up and he's like, I really fucked up.Like, I want to get back with you.And of course, me, I'm like, I've been waiting, bitch.I'm waiting for you.
I know.And it's embarrassing, but I mean, it's embarrassing.You were so young and you didn't know it is not your fault.
Right.I literally like wanted him more than anything, which is like looking back, like I was so desperate for him, like, because I wanted my son to have some sort of like normality and like, I just was desperate for it.
And so whenever he came back, I was like, Oh yeah, come back.Like, you know, like, yeah, we can make this work.Like we can try to see what we can do or whatever.
Like this is when the C-section is going to be because I had to get a planned C-section because at the time I was only 13.I wasn't really done growing yet.Yeah.
so I had a contracted pelvis and my son couldn't like fit through my birth canal so they're like we're gonna go ahead and like schedule you for a c-section because we don't want to risk him getting stuck and then either something happening to either like y'all it's just a high-risk case so we're just gonna do the c-section yeah so a lot of that is a lot girl to go through at such a young age baby yeah how were you feeling mentally like just in
Like, how did you process it?Did you have anybody that you could talk to?Did your mom help you?Like, did you go to therapy?Did anybody help you work through all that?
Yeah.So at the time, my cousin Corrine, she's 10 years older than me.So she lived right down the street.
And she was going through, like, she wasn't pregnant, but she was going through, like, really hard times with her boyfriend, who she had been with for a while.And she was, like, madly in love with.
And he was, like, cheating on her and, like, being a complete douchebag. So I'm 13 and pregnant.I'm her cousin.I'm available all the time.She leaned in on me.I leaned in on her.She took me on so many adventures when I was pregnant to keep my mind.
Taking me to the mall and to get pedicures and shopping.She was your angel.I don't think I would have been able to get through it without her, genuinely.And I don't talk to her that much anymore.And that makes me emotional, too.
You're carrying a lot, mama.
I need to go back to therapy again.
Shit, I need another therapist.I'm already in therapy before.Listen, baby, I'm going to a therapy camp in March, so don't even play.Are you really?Therapy doesn't end.Oh, yeah, for sure.They have them out here in Nashville.
I'll tell you about it if you ever want to go.It's a week-long trauma thing where you go for six days, you turn your phone off, and you just work on yourself.
Because I'm telling you baby that shit is fucking it's priceless to be able to work through all the shit You've been through and I can tell you're still hurting really bad.
Oh, yeah, I'm sorry And if we had a napkin, I would give you one, but we don't Sorry I got Chachi.You want to wipe your tears with Chachi?This is washable and reusable and recyclable.Yeah, we got toilet paper.That's what we're working with here.
We are trailer park around here, okay?Oh, me too.So it's cool.I just want to hug you, baby.Here's some... some stuff for your tears.
I really didn't think I was gonna cry or I wouldn't have paid to get my hair and makeup done today.
Listen, that's just part of your genuineness.Yeah, I think that's why people love you so much because you're not fucking here to just be this Billy badass.Like you have pain that you're fucking still working through.Yeah.
And I think that's so admirable that you can wear your heart on your sleeve like that.So
I think that people think that like I am faking it or like that's the majority.Like people think that I'm putting on a persona or whatever.But I think that a lot of people think that is because I don't really talk about how much I'm hurting online.
Yeah.Well you can't.Yeah.People eat that up.They fucking use it against you.Yeah.It's you know.Yeah.I don't know.And also who wants to fucking cry in a camera.
No, I understand there's every now and then you need to fucking have a good cry, which I never have yet.
But if there's some people who like to cry on the camera a lot, and I just don't understand it, you know, like, yeah, like when I'm crying, that's like the last time I want to post a video.Yeah, genuinely.
I think that's more real than anything, you know?Yeah.
So I'm just doing my best.
So let's take me to your your delivery. You're going in for delivery.Baby daddy called said he wants to get back together.
Yeah, so my son's dad, like a week before my son was supposed to be born, swoops back in.And he wants to be in the room for the C-section.And there's only one person allowed in the room because it's like an operating room or whatever.
And my dad was the one who wanted to be back there.
And I chose.Dad warmed up to you during the pregnancy?Yeah, he was really supportive.
My dad was really supportive once he got over it.Yeah, he used to take me to ultrasound appointments and buy me snacks and food. He was honestly great.We love dad.Once he actually got over it, it was great.
But I could only pick one person to go in the C-section room with me.And it was between baby daddy and my dad.And I picked my baby daddy, like an idiot.So he went back there with me and was able to watch my son be born and all that stuff.
I wish I would have picked my dad.
Yeah, and I know that my dad doesn't like resent me for that or anything like that But I do wish that I would have picked my dad or like my mom or somebody else because I think deserve that Yeah, I don't think that he did deserve that.
Yeah, I don't think that he did and my son like literally is One of the best kids in the entire world like and I know that's biased like every mom says but like my son is like so sensitive and he has emotions and he's in I'm sorry.
You're okay He's just like such an asshole for like not getting his shit together.
So nine years later even after Me allowing him to be around still even after everything that he's done to me There's an open an open line of communication like my son has his own phone Still doesn't call still doesn't pick up the damn phone and it's like what are you doing, dude?
Like this is the best kid ever.He's Smart kind sweet caring.He's in touch with his emotions.He's like Awesome, you know and he just doesn't care.He just had a new baby You know got married has a new family and it's like hey
Yeah.Just forget about the one that you started with.Right.I know I keep getting off track.No, you're fine.You're totally that's what the podcast is all about.And that's why I always try to rope you back in.
You know, some men just don't get it and they're never going to get it and you're never going to get the apology or the person that you want.So it's like, you know, your baby boy has you and that's all that fucking matters.
He's got mama bear who loves the fuck out of him.And, you know, I know it sucks not having dad around, but it's probably for the best because he might hurt him more just being around
He doesn't seem like the type of human that can, you know, keep a relationship going, so.The consistency.Yeah, exactly.
And that's what's important, is the consistency.And it's like, either like, be involved or don't be involved.But like, you being in and out is kind of a problem because then it's like, Is my dad going to call?Where is my dad?What's going on?
When can I see him?And it's like, I don't have these answers, dude.He doesn't talk to me.I don't know what to say.
He's like his whole own human with his whole own personality.And it's crazy how fast kids just grow up.Yeah.
So you're what?Hold on.I'm trying to do the math here.You're 20.I'm 22.Yeah.You're still a baby yourself, too.You have so much life to live, girl.It's crazy.It's insane.
And you've already lived like a full fucking life.I know.
Right now with these braces, like I get them off in two weeks.And I'm honestly I cannot be happier because I look like a child sometimes.And I'm going through life with four kids and married and all that stuff.
And like people do not take me seriously. And I think it's the rainbows too, though.
Like I do it to my damn self, you know, like no, just always be you.Who gives a fuck?They'll take you serious.Just let your let whatever it is you're doing speak for itself.People will respect you no matter what.They'll have to respect you.
So let's take it back.So you just gave birth.You're in the hospital bed.Take me from there.
So yeah, the first thing that they do when you go in to get a c-section is they make you sign all the paperwork, and then they bring you back to this prepping thing where you put this shower cap on and lay you down.
And then they shaved my coochie for me.Wow.Yeah.That was nice.
I never had that done before.Shit, I need to go have a kid then. I get my coochie shave.It's way cheaper to do it at a salon or something.
But yeah, so they did that.And then they wheeled me back to the actual operating room.Or no, they wheeled me to another room to get my spinal tab.Those scare me.God.
no dude it made my whole leg go numb i was freaking out literally it was so bad then i started going numb and once i started going numb they put the catheter in and uh all of a sudden the doctor had said that i was gonna feel like an elephant like sitting on my chest or something and i did and that was them like pushing my son out of the incision
And then he was born and I heard him start crying and he was into the world.
I was a mom.And how did you, did you feel like everything was worth it at that moment that you had gone through?
Oh yeah.Yeah.It was kind of like a surreal moment for me and I don't really know why, like,
have blocked some of that out like when I yeah I don't know why and that bothers me too but like when I think back to that like I blocked so much of that out and I think that it was because like I was in I was in like in that moment like fight-or-flight like but I had to go you know and it's like I'm one of those people who I'm very good at like masking my emotions like
So my parents were already so freaked out about me going in to have a C-section.My mom was like, you know, having a panic attack.Like her 13-year-old daughter's going in to have a major surgery, you know?
So I had, I felt like, I feel like my whole life, I've always had to put like a poker face on to make everybody else around me happy, you know, or make comfort everybody.
So I felt like I was the one trying to comfort my parents in that moment, being like, everything's gonna be okay.Like, see, I'm not even worried.But inside I was like, Scared.
Yeah, I was scared and you didn't have anybody to kind of comfort the little girl in you Yeah, and I feel like I don't ever I never even allowed that little girl to even come out because she was always like so Pushed down by other people like always hurting me my whole life Almost and I don't even know if that's the right way to describe it But that's just you know, what's coming like coming out of my head, but you know, so
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Yeah, so after I had my son, we were in the hospital for literally almost five days.
I don't know why they kept us so long, because with my daughter, they didn't keep us that long.But they kept me for quite a while.And then once we got discharged from the hospital, I went back and lived with my parents.
So we were living in a two-bedroom townhouse type of thing.And me and my son had our room, and my parents had theirs.And that's just how we lived, yeah.Did you keep going to school and stuff?
So I got pregnant at the end of my seventh grade year and I finished the school year out at the school I was attending.And then eighth grade, my dad, he was already like, he has his master's degree.
So he pulled me out and started homeschooling me with a Christian curriculum.And I took Bible class and stuff.It was really fun.
Was it though?Yeah, it was like, So on top of all the other trauma you have, you have religious trauma too.
Oh, fuck yeah, I have religious trauma out the ass.Really?Oh, yeah.My parents were pretty Bible Belt.I grew up in the church, Lafayette Baptist Church.Wow.That's what it's called.
And every single like, you know, Wednesday, Sunday, we would go out with like church friends.That's where I met my best friend of 20 years was in church.So, yeah.So when I got pregnant at 13, you better believe everybody
in that church had something to say about it.
So it's like you had to, not only did you have to deal with feeling like you let your parents down and your dad down, you had to deal with everybody else having a fucking opinion about you too.Kind of like how it is on the internet now too for you.
Yeah, but I think that's why I'm like so okay with it.And that's why I do so well with it.It's because my whole life, everybody's been talking shit about me.
You might as well just fucking make it into gold.
I've literally made it this far, I can keep going.So it was hard. It was hard.
Did you graduate from the Christian school, or how did that go?
Sixth grade was my last year.I did go to Christian school.Sixth grade was my last year attending the Christian school.I got kicked out for getting a belly button piercing.My mom let me get my belly button pierced in sixth grade.
You know what's so fucking funny?
Mom seems to be the common denominator in some of your bad decisions.We love mom, but come on, mom.We do love mom.
I'm looking at you, if you can see this.
Yeah, we do love mom, but yeah, she did allow me to get my belly button pierced and. I went to school.
I can't believe they kicked you out for that, though.No.Well, I got kicked out of my Christian school for spray painting my name on the back wall.But it wasn't real spray paint.It was fucking snow.The fake snow.I thought it would disappear.
So don't ever fucking spray paint a fucking brick wall with snow because it'll be there.And don't do it in your name.
Oh, my gosh.I didn't know you could do that.
Yeah.No, me either.I did it, though.
Holy crap.But yeah, they they.What was I going to say?
They kicked you out for your belly button being pierced.
Oh, yeah, dude.Yeah, so I had posted a picture after I got my belly button pierced on Facebook.Why did I have a Facebook in sixth grade?I don't know.
But I posted a picture of it on Facebook and my principal, like one of the teachers had seen it or one of the kids was a snitch and someone snitched on me, right?
So I go back to school and the principal calls me into her office and she's like, lift up your shirt. And I'm like, what?And so I did.And she was like, that needs to come out now.That's not appropriate.All this, this, and the third.Calls my mom.
We have to set up a meeting at the school about it.My mom tells me, take it out.I'm not dealing with this.I kept putting it back in.And they would do random belly button checks at school.They would literally pull me out of class to see.
I feel like that would never fly nowadays.
I think that's illegal.Yeah, I feel like that would never fly.
They would call me out of class and take me to the principal's office to check on my belly button.
Yeah, that's weird.That's kind of fucking freaky.Yeah, but and this was this wasn't junior high.This was high school.Oh, sixth grade.OK, this was sixth grade.And then your dad pulled you out in eighth grade.
Yeah, so sixth grade was my last year.Got kicked out of Christian school.Went to public school, seventh grade.Got pregnant.Gotcha.
When my Christian school principal kicked me out of school, she said, you're going to end up pregnant.
Yeah, rubbed that in my face, Tammy.Damn it.Yeah, dude.So I went to seventh grade, was public school, and then that's when I got pregnant.And then eighth grade, my dad pulled me out and homeschooled me.
OK, so did you homeschool all through high school?
No, I homeschooled for eighth grade, had my son, he was like six months old, and I had like six, yeah, he was six months old whenever I went to like public high school.
Okay.That's when I started my ninth grade year.Okay, so you did go back to public school, okay, gotcha.
Yeah, and then I finished high school, like homeschool, community college type of thing, like online program, and I finished my last two years of school in one, and I graduated a year early.
Yay, congratulations.I'm proud of you.So when did you have your daughter?Was that recently or?
So after I graduated high school when I was 17, I went into the military.So I went active duty.
Yes, that's on my notes right here.
Yeah, I went active duty.I was a mechanic in the army for a couple years and that's when I met my husband and I was in the army for about two years and then I got pregnant with my daughter.
That's amazing that you went off to the army.You were just like, fuck it, I'm going to go to the army and be a badass bitch.
Yeah, it was mainly about health insurance, honestly.
She was like, I did have an agenda.
Yeah, it was mainly about health insurance.Health insurance is really not affordable.And I'm really thankful that I can afford it now.
But most people wouldn't think to go into the fucking Army.That's crazy.Is that something that you did want to do?Or do you really feel like you were forced into doing it?
I was sleeping with a lot of Army men at the time in my teenage years.
Gotcha. She's like, fuck it.If you can't beat him, might as well join him.Yeah.
I was like, fuck it.I'll join the army.
I was already in Fayetteville, too, for sure.Yeah.
Dude, yeah.I was honestly like, that's what I'm saying.I had a kid at 13 and then have been on a path of, I feel like, unstable relationships since then.And literally, I don't know what my problem is.
But yeah.Well, maybe childhood trauma that you got to work through.
Yeah, and you know what's crazy is like whenever I say like, oh, I have childhood trauma, my parents are like, oh, childhood trauma.
There's no, you can't have childhood trauma.You can have the most perfect life, and you're still going to have some sort of trauma.Everybody has it.It fucking, you know, we're not minimizing and maximizing anybody's trauma.
It doesn't matter where you came from.Shit's fucked up.The world's fucked up.Yeah.And that shit happens, so. You know, it's not a bad thing.It's just shit you gotta work through.
It's just like stuff that happened.
And yeah, it's that's why like, you know, when I talk about my issues and stuff, it's like with my parents, I feel like when I'm talking about things or like feelings that I'm having, they always think that I'm trying to like blame them for something.
And it's like, no, I'm not trying to blame you.I'm just like reflecting on this because like, for some reason, it's a thought that keeps coming up, you know, like,
And for me, I like to talk about, if something's in my head, I gotta get it out or else I'm gonna go crazy.So yeah, I do think that if you're not in therapy, everybody should go to therapy.Everyone should go, even if you don't have issues.
Absolutely, I agree.So you went into the army, you meet your second baby daddy, who, take me on that journey.
Yeah, so I was 18 when I met my husband.And he was 25.And he was in the process of getting a divorce.We met on Tinder.We were both swiping on Tinder.We matched.
And whenever I first met my husband, I honestly thought that we were just going to hook up because he really wasn't my type.Well, I hate to say that because he is.He is my type.But he wasn't really.I was going for people who were just like,
casual and he was kind of looked like he was looking for something more serious and um we hooked up I tried to ghost him and he uh had texted me like trying to hang out I ghosted him again like didn't want to hang out with him then he texted me he was like asking me for car wash recommendations because I'm from Fayetteville right and I know all the good car washes so I sent him one to one that was closed down
Like, the down, like, closed down, not in business.And he, like, called me and he was like, what the fuck is wrong with you, dude?And I was like, you can't, like, take a hint, bro.Like, I'm not interested.Like, stop hitting me up.
Well, then from that... Did you send him to one that was closed down on purpose?Yeah.
Yeah, I don't know why.I thought it was an accident.I was kind of a bitch back then.Like when I was 18, I was hell on wheels.Yeah, that's hilarious.He called me.He was like, what the fuck?Like you sent me to like a abandoned car wash on purpose.
I was like, yeah, like whatever.
So we started to fuck yourself.
Yeah, go fuck yourself.But after that, we like kind of started vibing because he thought it was kind of funny.And like, you know, he thought I was just fucking with him.He like, He thought I was cute.And I was like, OK, you think my crazy is cute?
Whatever.So we went to Target together.And ever since then, we've kind of been inseparable.We were both really into going to the gym.And we were both in the Army.And we kind of just started coexisting together.
And that's just how it's been since then, literally.
Is that Cody?Yeah, it's Cody.OK, awesome.I did my research a little bit.That's amazing.So he's your BFF.You guys have one daughter together? Yeah, we have one daughter together and then he has two kids with his ex-wife.Okay.Gotcha.Yeah.I love that.
That's how it happens though.Like when you don't plan on being with somebody, you always fucking end up with them.That's how it was with my husband.
I tried to one night stand them and it fucking, here we are seven years later and he's my best fucking friend.Like love him to the moon.
And that's the thing is like people have seen like ups and downs of me and Cody online and like, I wish I would've never fucking talked about shit on the internet.But it's like now it's out there and I can't take it back.And they're like, Oh, like,
Nobody knows what the fuck is going on behind the scene.
They only know what you show them.Yeah.
Like you don't fucking know.Like Cody cheated on her.He cheated.She cheated on him.Who fucking cares?Like we both did.We both done cheated.Like what do you want us to do now?Like we're choosing to try to make things work.
We're choosing to try to like, we're both like kind of fucked up.He has a lot of trauma.He hasn't worked on.I have a lot of trauma.I haven't worked on.It's probably why you guys mesh trauma bonding too.
Genuinely, I think that and we're both at the point in our lives where we're both in therapy like actively in therapy And my husband is 30 years old never been to therapy never wanted to talk about his feelings I have heard this man talk about his feelings more in the past month than in the past five years I've been married.
Are you guys doing like marriage counseling?
Not together yet.He's like kind of like start like because he was really uncomfortable about even talking to a therapist in the first place.
So he's kind of doing his own thing and like first and I'm doing my own thing and then hopefully a little bit down the line we can kind of do something together.When did you get out of the army then and take me from there?I got out of the army in
Josh.OK.I got out of the Army end of 2019.
OK.Yes.And then so you and Cody both got out and kept moving forward.Yeah.
So he got out a little bit before me and then he continued.Well, he was trying to get out of the Army and move back to where we live now, which is like the Cincinnati, Ohio area, because that's where his ex-wife and his kids were living.
And he was trying to move back home because he wanted to be with his kids.But he got out.And there was a couple more months until I was getting out because I was getting out on a pregnancy chapter.
And so he waited until I got out and had the baby and stuff.And then my daughter was like a month old.And we made the move up to northern Kentucky.And that's where we've been for the past three years.
Yay.And what are you guys doing out there?Just living life? She's like, where do I start?
I mean, holy crap.I feel like I'm running a circus out there, honestly.Like, genuinely, like, running a circus.
So we have, like, moved three times in the past year.My dad moved up from North Carolina.He, like, retired.So he's living in his mom. My mom's still in North Carolina.My parents are fucking nuts, dude.
At this point in my life, I feel like I'm raising my damn parents.My dad retired early, and he's living in my condo that I have.He's rent-free.He's living the life up there, retired.
He's like, yeah.He's like, it's your turn to take care of me now, kid.Yeah.
So he's like, my dad, he's going and getting bourbon at all these bourbon, because we're in Kentucky, right?Yeah.And bourbon's good, I guess.He's getting bourbon everywhere.My mom's in North Carolina still doing real estate.
My mom just on a Tuesday sells her house and gets an apartment.My dad has to go down there and help her move.I'm running a tie-dye studio.
No, they're not split.They're just insane.OK.They're just crazy.I'm not even going to ask.
So my dad, he retired early because ever since COVID happened and all the colleges and sports had to put all the regulations on everything, my dad got so depressed. And my dad and my mom, you have to remember, they helped me raise my kid.
So my dad and my son, my dad is practically my son's dad.I mean, literally has helped me raise him through and through, like both of my parents have.He's probably so close with him.Oh, yeah.
So my dad, after we moved up here, my dad got really depressed.And he didn't have me or my son anymore.Basketball wasn't the same.
Yeah, yeah, we do.We genuinely do.
And you guys need him.He needs to feel like he's needed.
Yeah, so he decided, you know, after COVID kind of ruined everything for basketball and he was depressed.He was like, I'm going to retire early and I'm going to move up there.
So I started moving all over the place trying to find a different house for us to live in. That was a nightmare.And then my dad went and lived in our condo that we had.
I love it.They sound like my kind of people.So let's talk about this t-shirt business that you have.So t-shirts, yeah.
I started drawing these stickers with one of my friends back in the beginning of 2021, or 2020.I don't remember when it was.
But the stickers turned into me making tie-dye t-shirts, but we're actually about to open up a storefront now, too So like we're gonna have an in-person experience Anyways, oh you're gonna have so many people going through there because you have so many people who love you I'm having a panic attack.
It's gonna be like a meet-and-greet every day for you.
I know I'm kind of excited.
I'm panicking, I'm panicking.No, you're good.I know.Yeah, so my mother-in-law and I, we started tie-dyeing t-shirts in the garage.We wanted to make these buddy shirts.It was like a stony marijuana leaf.And we wanted to put it on a shirt.
And so we came up, we drew the design on our iPad, and we were so proud of this shirt we created.And we were going to hand tie-dye all of them.And they sold out so fast. And so me and my mother-in-law were like, well, that was fun as fuck.
Let's keep doing it.So we kept doing it, and people really liked tie-dye.People talk so much shit like tie-dye is out of style.I don't think tie-dye will ever go out of style.People, everybody wears tie-dye, yeah.
Yeah, it could be dark colors, neutrals.
It's been around since the fucking 70s.
Yeah, literally.And even if you don't like it, you could have a tie-dye something, or a jammy shirt, or whatever the fuck.Tie-dye is happy, OK?I like colors.
So we just started selling t-shirts, and it's turned into now I have the back of one of my friend's nail salons.I rent the back of that out in an alley, and that's our tie-dye shop.So we spent like $15,000 renovating this literal hole in the wall.
and turn it into like this.
Yeah, that's amazing.It was pretty crazy.I love that.I love what you're doing.I think I think the energy that you're putting out in the world is coming back to you, you know, like you're just trying to do right.And it's coming back tenfold.
I'm trying.You're doing good.Thank you.OK, so when did you get on TikTok? 2020.2020.I feel like everybody and their mom got on TikTok in 2020.
Yeah.Okay.So you got to take me on that journey with TikTok.
Well, I mean, like I, I mean, I messed around with TikTok in like 2018, like I, you know, whatever, but I didn't start like actually like posting consistently until I was, I moved up to Kentucky and I was staying at home through COVID with four kids at 19, 20 years old.
um and I was so bored and like depressed and like I was breastfeeding my daughter she breastfed for like two years so that really like literally sucked the life out of me but um yeah so um What was I going to say?TikTok.Oh yeah.She's like squirrel.
So I, um, I started making TikTok videos with my kids, like throughout COVID cause I was stuck at like, my husband was working at the time, like full time and his, so was his ex-wife.
So the kids would be with me because I was a stay at home mom, home with the baby already.Do you get along with his ex-wife? Yeah, for the most part.Me and her, we're good.Sometimes she'd be coming at me crazy.But for the most part, we're good.
There's no issues.I'm definitely never going to cause an issue with her.And she doesn't want issues either.So we're baseline.I love that.
They deserve to see.That's what I always tell her, is that I want the kids to see us be happy.Yes.I want them to be happy.
That's the most important thing.Yeah.Absolutely.
I don't know. we were talking about you were at home getting the life sucked out of your titties and you hopped on TikTok.
Yeah so I hopped on TikTok and my kids liked making TikTok videos with me and so we would make like dance videos and like my stepdaughter and I would make like these skits of us like doing all sorts of things and my videos started getting like tractions and
my videos started getting traction and I just kept posting like and then I started like talking and it was soon as I started talking and not using sounds anymore that's when I just blew up like it was like almost overnight I went from having like 10k to like 600k yeah and then it went from me having 600k to me getting banned on TikTok entirely they fucking do that all the time man
Yeah, so I just restarted a new account.And within literally two days, that account that I started got a million followers.Wow.In two days.Wow. I don't even know how that's possible.And I still like have the screenshots of it.Yeah.
And everything, because I remember like taking screenshots throughout the night of me like this isn't even fucking possible.
You have a crazy cult following.Like when I get on my lives and fucking just say, well, who should I bring on the podcast?I mean, I'm talking like Gabby, Gabby, Gabby, Gabby.I didn't even know who you were. I know.
But we had never crossed TikTok FYPs.So I'm like, who is Gabby?And then they started tagging me in that one video that you made.And they were like, she needs to come on the podcast.And then I kind of went down the wormhole.
And I was like, I like this chick.I like her vibes.Well, please don't hate me.
But before I got invited on this podcast, I really didn't know who you were.And then you invited me on.And I was like, OK, buddy, I'm going to go down this rabbit hole.And so, dude, you can totally edit this out if you want.
I thought that you were 28 years old.Oh, I love that.
Keep it in.No, do not edit that.
I thought that you were like 28, 29.And I was like, oh, I'm so excited.And my husband is asking me questions like, oh, Jelly Rolls wife or whatever.Like, that's so cool.
Like, you know, and he was like, how the fuck you don't know who these people are?What the fuck is living under a fucking rock?
well anyway it's so weird how tiktok is we just never crossed fyps now you're all over it now you're all over mine so it's like yeah you know now you're all over mine too i think it's ever since i followed you yeah but now you're all over mine but yeah it's pretty insane yeah but no i'm not i'm 43 so no
dude i googled like how old is or no i didn't google that i said uh bunny xo i was googling you yeah that's what i was doing sneaky um but um i was googling you and it said all your facts about you and i was like which aren't facts i don't know who makes those pages you're not five nine no how tall are you i'm five five five six yeah because like i said five nine and i was like she's probably
I wouldn't mind being 5'9", but I don't know who does the online shit or where they get it from.They fucking said my dad's name is like Bill Spills and I'm like, that is really cool, but no, that's not his name. Like there's so many things.
I think we need to do a tick tock of like things that are online that we like, you know, like we should do that today after we, we get done just like squash and rumors, you know, there's one page that says I've had a facelift cheek implants, fucking a blepharoplasty.
And I'm like, not yet, but I will pass where you get like the skin above your eyes cut, like just crazy shit.And I'm like, dude, I've had fucking lip filler, eye filler, and fucking Botox.Like it's just crazy.
The shit that people come up with, you know?Yeah.They will make up anything that they can.Yeah.No, it's nuts. OK, so we got off track, but OK, so you got on TikTok in 2020.
You gained two million, a million followers in two days, and then you just took it from there because you do have this crazy fucking cult following.Like, it's nuts.Like you could post anything and it's a million views.
I didn't realize I had a cult following, honestly, until recently.And I know that the views and stuff have been there and stuff, and the followers have been there.But also, like a lot of other creators talk about, I do get stagnant.
So I'll start losing followers and all that stuff.But I didn't realize how cult my following was until recently, where I've noticed that I have to really start watching what I say and really make sure that I'm not talking about people.
um really make sure that i'm not talking about people um in any like negative light because people can take that so i mean even if you say something positive about somebody they'll still fucking twist it and be like she was being what's the word snarky right and like you know like all that shit and i just i can't fuck it they've done that to me and i the internet like love you but hate you at the same time it's like there's just those people on there who nitpick everything you do and
You know, it's like it gets to a point where you're like in a glass, you know, and you don't know which direction to go because people are always going to twist whatever you say.Yeah.
You don't know what to do.You're like, should I do this?Should I post this?Should I not post this?And it's like, no matter what I do, I'm fucked.So I'm just going to do whatever the hell I want to do.
Exactly.Did something recently happen that I don't even know?
Well, I mean, like recently, like I've had like a lot of like friend drama that hasn't been online.Like I've just had like a lot of like of my friends be just like really shitty recently.And that's nothing that I'm like,
gonna go into real depth about, but I have like, people do, people do not know what the fuck is going on behind the scenes.Okay, people don't.And I, people love to say that I'm the drama and that I love drama, but I really am the quietest person.
I have some really shady shit going on in my life right now, and I don't even know how to deal with it.And people online are like, nitpicking at things and like trying to like bring things up and it's like Filtering comment as that.
Oh, yes.Can we please talk about this?
Every fucking creator filters their comments every big creator filters their comments because I had to turn my filters on for the first time ever Fucking and delete comments when I was going through the drama this last week and people were like, oh she's filtering her comment She's deleting her comments damn fucking
straight I am.I don't want to deal with your fucking weird toxicity energy.Like it's weird.
You have to go through and read that shit.It's not good for you.
Yeah.If you don't want to.Yeah.Yeah.Exactly.
I think that.OK.I also just like you said, I haven't started like filtering comments until recently, but it's gotten worse.
Like in the last fucking like month or two.Like, yeah.Crazy how bad Tick-Tock's gotten, dude.
But it's just because it's, it's honestly just because it's annoying.Yeah.It's like, why?Like if you don't want to walk, just don't comment.Like don't leave this shit here for everybody else to read.Like, fuck.
I think I saw a video that you posted the other day and you were talking about like you, your friend hasn't been in your videos or something like that.And they're like coming for you.Is that what you're talking about?The drama in your life right now?
Yeah, so like there we've had like a bunch of like shady shit going like with between me Olivia and Jacinda and like a other couple of people who have been involved with it too, but it's like Obviously like, you know people go through rough patches and friendships and stuff like that But it's like people will like connect me to somebody and if they're not in my video anymore or like it's like where is this person and it's like
They have a whole nother TikTok account.Yeah, go ask them.Yeah, if you're worried about Olivia, go ask her.She just posted like two hours ago.You know what I mean?So it's like, I don't know.I feel like.
I feel like it's just because I need to start focusing a lot more energy towards myself and my small circle, which is what's in my house, the people that are in my house.That's your family.
Yeah, those are the people who, as long as the people that are in my house and then the people who are in my small circle right outside of my house are good, I don't need to fucking give a fuck about everybody else.
And I think that's where, like, a lot of my issues are coming from are from taking these outside voices from other people and, like, letting it fuck up, you know, my my personal life, which is easy to do.
Yeah.People will make you start thinking shit.And you're just like, what is this real?Who am I?You know?
Yeah.Literally, I have I've been I've been going through kind of like an existential, not existential.I always say that like existential.What does that mean?
Don't put me on the spot. on the spot like that.I think it's like something like big, like life-changing, right?Now I got to fucking Google it.Hold on.I'm sorry.Hold on.You're good.I'm like, god damn it.Hold on.Define ex.How do you even spell it?
Here we go.Define existential.The climate crisis and an existential threat to the world concerned with existence. Yeah, me affirming or implying the existence of a thing.Yeah, okay.So another word for existential is verifiable.
So if that helps anything, but yeah, everybody that's a welcome to your English fucking class today. Yeah, I still don't know.Me either.I still didn't understand it.I'm just going to go with what I said, and I think it's life-changing and big, OK?
Yeah.You're going through some sort of crisis that's making you want to change.Speaking of crisis, can we talk about your arrest in Vegas?Mm-hmm.What happened?
Girl, I still wish I knew.So yeah, I'm open to talking about it now that I'm not getting charged with two felonies.
I wanted to tell you, Bucky Buchanan and fucking Jack Buchanan, they used to be my lawyers.They're amazing in Vegas.
So good.Jack Buchanan, who was my attorney in my case. Bucky's his dad.I think his dad passed away.
Uh-huh.Yeah.Well, Jack, whoever, he literally was a killer attorney.
No, he's amazing.Shout out Jack Buchanan, man.He's amazing.If you ever need a really good lawyer in Vegas, go to Jack Buchanan, because that motherfucker got me out of a lot of shit.
And James Levitt. I've had a few lawyers out there.
Cause you live in Vegas part-time, right?
I'm from Vegas.I actually grew up there.So.
Okay, cool.Cool.So yeah.Um, I never have been to Vegas before that.My first time ever going to Vegas was my husband and I's a three year wedding, or I don't remember what year it was, but it was in 2021.
And, uh, so we go out to Vegas for our anniversary and we stayed at the cosmopolitan and it was so nice.And we got a nice room and we started drinking like immediately when we got there, like 9. and drank all day.
And I mean, I drank so much that day and I was fine.Went to bed at like 10 p.m.because we had been up early drinking and woke up the next day, ate a big breakfast, like huge breakfast at this buffet, the Wicked Spoon.
And then after that, we started going to like put our bathing suits on to go to like this pool club called the Marquee Pool Club.And anyway, so we go in there, I had two drinks. Two sex on the beaches, okay?
I didn't, I don't even think I finished the second one.I, in the pool somewhere, black out and wake up in a straight jacket in jail, in take.Oh no.And I genuinely, people think that I'm lying whenever I say I don't remember that.
I'm not getting charged with anything.Like, I could literally be like, I lied.Like, it doesn't matter.They can't like re-pull it up or anything.Like the case, like it's dismissed.
I don't have- What did they take you to jail for?Did they tell you?
So, no, like, yeah, I mean, they told me after, obviously, but they told me that I was initially, I've seen the security footage from the Cosmopolitan.Not good.Definitely should have been taken to jail.I agree with them.
But, yeah, I've seen... What were you doing?I was running from them.Oh. Faster.
Why were you running?You just didn't know?In a thong.Oh, nice.Bikini.I would pay to see that footage.
Honestly, I'm so glad that I don't even have a copy of that footage.
But what were you running for?
Did you do something?I don't know.They said that they initially security called the police because I was trespassing and I had gotten into an altercation with somebody at the pool and then they kicked me out.
Apparently I was screaming and being disorderly at the pool and then they kicked me out. After security was with you, nobody saw my husband was with me.
Cody, what the fuck happened?
I know he he still feels so bad about this.Like he honestly has never forgiven himself.But so we had we were having drinks and there was this group of guys and group of girls.And there was a couple guys, couple girls.
And like the girls had like kind of made friends with me.And like we went to the bathroom together and we're like joking around and stuff.
And they were trying to make plans with me to do something later that evening because they had like tickets to something. And during that same time that all that had happened, my husband was like caught up in a group of guys that were talking to him.
And then I like went back to the pool area and got in the pool.And that's the last thing that I remember.You just probably got lit.
They might have that or somebody might have put something in your drink.
That's what I'm saying.I only had two drinks, and I don't remember anything.And I was fighting people.
This is why I don't drink anymore, ladies and gentlemen.Yeah.Especially from bars.You can't trust anybody.Bartenders fucking roofie people now.
I think that it was because I have never blacked out like that from alcohol before.I've gotten really drunk, but I remember what I do.I can be crazy, and I don't know what happened.But that was crazy.
They said that they were initially going to just book me on trespassing. But they booked me on felony battery on police officer, two charges of that, two counts of felony battery on a police officer for kicking them in the testicles.
Makes you sound like a thug.And I was like, I was crying in there, bitch.
Girl, we all cry when we go to jail.We all cry when we get caught.They didn't give me a phone call at all.Oh, they were trying to teach you a lesson.
They did.They taught me a good one.I'm never going back to Vegas.
Well, you got to come back.Come back with me.
I know.Yeah, I need to go back to Vegas for sure.My husband and I have been talking about it just because I had one bad experience.
Yeah, you got to go experience it again because we love Vegas.We fall in love with Vegas each time.Every time we go back, you know, like I don't want to live there ever again.But visiting I'm just like, oh,
But what if they ban me from the strip for life?
They won't.That's called being blackballed, and it's very rare.The only people that they do that to are people who are scamming the casinos.
Oh, so the paper that they gave me with a map that said you are banned from the strip is kind of a bunch of baloney?
Well, I'd so if they did 86 They said I'm gonna refer this in my court case I'm gonna put it on certain casinos that they banned you from or was it like they said strip like they have a map the map of
Right.And the Cosmos here and they put a red or not a red.It was a yellow box around a whole area that I am not ever allowed to go.
Normally, they ban you from like the sister properties.
So that's why I say ban me from the Cosmo.Yeah, I barely made it out of the building when I was running.You know what I mean?Like just ban me from my property.
I think you'll be fine if you go back in there.Just don't cause a fucking ruckus, you know, like just kind of lay low.If you ever do go back.That's the thing.
Could you imagine next time?
No.Something else happened.Listen, I'm not going to give you advice.You do what you want to do.Don't go back to those casinos.So let's touch on your podcast.You have a podcast, right?Called the Don't Be Rude podcast.That was like years ago.Was it?
OK, why don't you do it?I think you would be a great fucking podcast host.
Because I'm like slammed.Yeah, because well, I mean, maybe like, because I see like, you know, you're set up like I say, Oh, yeah, I could do it too.But also like, it's hard people.
It's time, it takes up a lot of money.And you don't make money unless you fucking really work your ass off and know how to fucking turn that into money like pot.They don't realize that podcasting is a fucking black hole.
Like literally everybody who's podcasting is either paying for it out of pocket or they have sponsors.
I don't have sponsors, so I'm doing the other, you know, and just, I've been doing this five years and I'm just now last year and this year making really good money off of it.
That's see, that's what I'm saying.You have to have the time to invest into like, just like take talk for me.You don't have to invest that time in the beginning.I didn't make a penny off of tech talk for the first year that I was doing it.
You know, then I started making a little bit of money, but
What does 2023 hold for you?What are you going to do this year?What do you want to do this year?If you could manifest anything to happen this year, what would you want to manifest?
She's like, what do I want to do?I want peace. I need to really start prioritizing peace in my life and I'm really getting to that point.I want things that are gonna bring me peace at the end of the day.
I know that I'm a chaotic person and that'll probably never change.When's your birthday?March 7th. Pisces.Yeah, I know that I'm chaotic, but I do really enjoy being at peace with myself and my emotions and stuff.
It's okay, I'll be all over the place still, but I really do want to be at peace with myself and with those around me.I want to be in a peaceful place.
For sure.You are learning, you know, I mean, you said you're what, 21?22.I mean, you've got the road is fucking so vast and so long of like how many people that you're going to become.You know what I'm saying?
You're going to you're in your peace era right now.Next, you know, six months from now, you're going to be in another era like you're just going to keep discovering who you are.
And I think that you're really fucking self-aware for a 22 year old like you.You're very mature.
I try and I like one of my biggest things is like I really try to like self-accountability like yeah I always like to kind of like call myself out on the spot on things just because like I Don't have time to like keep fucking up in life, right?
So I just like I don't know dude like I I don't even know what I was talking about.
I just want to say meeting you is just so I love your vibe.I love everything about you.And I hope that you'll come back like once a year and check in.I will ask.Yeah, for sure.
Thank you for coming on the podcast, even despite all the crazy shit I was going through this week.
Hopefully, you don't get hated on for having me on the podcast.
You know what?They could fucking hate.I don't care anymore.Jesus Christ.I don't think I did anything too bad.No, you're amazing.
And I think you have a really amazing story, but also just the way that you, like I said, you're just very authentic and endearing.And I think that people need to hear that side of you.
I think people needed to see that you actually have emotions and you're not a robot that just fucking makes TikToks. I forgot that I was crying.
Oh, OK, the trauma.But yeah, no, I am.I'm glad that I came to because this definitely this is better than I expected.So, yeah, I really appreciate you for having me on.
Thank you.All right.Shout out where everybody can find you.
Oh, um, your socials, you can find me on Tik TOK and Instagram at baby Egan, or you can just literally Google search my name, Gabby Egan, and all my show file is right there.
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