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Welcome back to another episode of Pretty Not Smart with your host, Louis, aka the baddest perra.
Louis, I am so motherfucking over Halloween.
I was too, y'all.We talked about this on the last episode.
I was like, just ripping everything off.
No, literally as soon as like Halloween was over, I went to like the front and I was like, I disconnected all the Halloween shit.
Louis D. Frost said, and he's like, it's time. No, tell me what okay.
No, so I'm obviously highly excited for fucking Christmas, right?But I saw this tick-tock that I was like, I see no, yes I fucking kid.
You know, I woke up the next morning after Halloween crew last fuck I opened my tick-tock and it's this fucking bitch setting up her Christmas tree.I saw that I was with the Christmas song and I was like, okay like I live for it, but also like I
Wait a little bit.No, I saw this one of some guy.He was like, who else's wife is doing this?And he's handing out candy.And the wife is inside setting up her Christmas tree.
I was like, oh, no, because like Loki, I want to start like pretty early November.But I was like, I like him to my circle says, because I got my starting hell early.But when I saw this one, I was like, oh, no, bitch, I'm good.
I'm good.I wait till after I come back from my birthday trip and then I'll start decorating.I'm awake.
But like, like I'm not being a hater, you guys.It was just I was shocked at the fact that I was like, it's November 1st.I know.But also it fucking finally got chilly.
You know what?I said the exact same thing today.That's why I put on this little sweatsuit, right?I checked the weather at the end of the week.I think like coming in next week on Monday, it's going to be 80 degrees.
Well, bitch 80s better than 100.I'm so fucking like I want to shoot down the sun I want there to be snow No, you guys but it's actually like really cold and my feet even hurt a little I don't have fucking um, what is it called?
His toes are all negro.All purple falling off.No, but I finally haven't, like for the last two nights, I haven't had to turn on my AC at night because I like to sleep with my house at 68.
And right now, like I wake up and my house is already at 67 without the AC running.
I know, I'm so happy.It was crazy.Like as soon as they hit Halloween, it just got cold.
I just want it to be really cold.Like I just want to wear oversized hoodies and sweat.
Like I actually almost wear a hoodie today, but I'm going to the gym after this.I was like, nah, I'm going to sweat at the fucking gym with a hoodie.But I was like, I can't believe I'm thinking about wearing a hoodie.
All our hoodies are collecting dust in the closet.
So fucking cochinas with arañas and todo.Yeah, but I'm excited for the cold.I'm ready.
Me too, but before we continue rambling, do you have your fucking idiotic facts of the day?
I do.OK, so jumping into November, November makes me think.Oh, my God.Louie's like, I'm participating in No Net November.Do you remember No Shave November?
Bitch.No, but I'm sure you do.
I never did that.There was girls and like my cheer team and stuff like that.They'd be like, I'm doing no shape November.And I was like, I was like, I don't know.That's why I want to grow your hair out for the winter.
I could never.I fucking hate hair so much.
But I have lazy hair, so.
I just hate it.So November makes me think of fall, Thanksgiving, and it makes me think of my birthday because my birthday is November 4th.When does this episode go live?
Because we're pre-filming you guys.We're being a little early because we don't want to flake on y'all.November 7th.So my birthday should have already passed.
Yeah.So comment happy birthday.
Yeah.What was I going to say?
That it reminds you of your birthday.
oh okay so it makes me think of scorpios like the zodiac not scorpion scorpio like a scorpion the zodiac sign wait yeah it's a zodiac sign right yeah it's a horoscope um and then it makes me think of scorpions so today's fun fact is about a scorpion
And I actually for like, I love learning about scorpions and I actually did not know this because I'm a pendeja.But I guess scorpions glow under ultraviolet light, the UV light.I didn't know that.
It says that they they glow under ultraviolet light because of a substance in their exoskeleton called hyaline.It absorbs UV light and re-emits a visible light.
But I didn't know this and then it brought me back to my birthday shoot from... I was just about to bring that up.Was it last year?Two years ago.
or two years ago, I don't know how I got the balls, the nuts to do this you guys, because now that I think about it, I would never do it again.
I hired a animal specialist and he brought like his collection of a thousand scorpions and I did a live Scorpio shoot with like scorpions all over me and it was fucking disgusting.
And I remember we did like a bathtub little moment and he just dumped all the scorpions on me. And it was so fucking gross.I think I was more terrified that they were going to bite me.
And the guy was like, it's OK if it pokes you like it's they're not venomous anymore, but it is going to pinch a little bit.And they were just like crawling and walking all over me was a nasty shit.
And I had to be like serious so I can serve like videos. But one of them did bit bite me.Shut up.Yeah, it bit me on my arm.
It fucking hurt.It hurt like a bee sting.It fucking hurt.And then it just like a really intense baby school.And I was like, God damn it.I was like, that shit fucking hurt.And he's like, it's OK, it's OK.No, it's not OK.It fucking hurt.
I want to grab a scorpion.I mean, like.
No, just snap it off.And no, the whole time he was being very like, don't squish him, like be careful because they literally they like going into like crevices.
So they like going under my butt, like like it wanted me to squish it because it wants to be like protected.
So they would go like in between my armpits, like in my chichis, like anywhere where that they could like find a little cave.And I was like.
So I was only able to shoot for like very short periods of time because I would get so a skia that I don't know how the fuck I did that.So shout out to two years ago me because I would fucking never do that shit again.
I remember she was sending us videos and I was like so grossed out because I was just the thought of it crawling.
Oh my God.And I put him on my face.
Do you have any BTS ones? I'm sure I do make sure you post those on pretty not smart like videos.
Oh, I probably have videos.
Yeah I remember her sending us videos and then just the pictures like it looked sickening but I just really wanted to do it with them scorpions and then
They told me that they can like AI them and like put them on there But I was like, it's not gonna serve like the same it has to be like a real life one Yes, I'm sure you could tell the difference.
Yeah, and then I think we shot like a short video too with all of them in there Remember this one time we went to an Airbnb and there was a fucking scorpion in there and I wanted to kill myself
Yes, it was the one in Joshua Tree, the one that they ended up like the pipelines broke.
Oh, my God.That's right.They were like all over the floor, no?In the backyard?
No, no, no.It was on the backyard.Yes, there was a lot in the backyard.
The backyard was like filled with them.
But this was inside of the house in the laundry room.
Yeah.I remember we walked in and there was like a little one.But I think I heard that the smaller ones are more venomous than the bigger ones.Really?Something like that.But it was a little one you guys in it.Oh my God.I did not want to sleep there.
And then lucky for us. fucking pipelines outside somehow erupted or some shit.So they ended up like moving us out of the house.
Yeah, I was like the house.The water was leaking completely like to the neighbor's yard.
Yeah, it was really, really bad.So we contacted them and they moved us to a nicer house.
And I was so happy because we didn't even spend one.We didn't spend one.No, we did.Yeah, we did.We spent one night there.
Oh, yeah.The next morning they moved us out.
But I was so scared of sleeping there, you guys, because I was like, bitch, what if there's one in my bed?I know that was really scary and I hated that one.
Speaking about Airbnbs, we need to go to the snow.
Fucking snows at all this year.
It will in January.Doubt it.I want to go to Big Bear.I don't think I've ever gone to Big Bear.
I love Big Bear, you guys.
It gets super crazy packed, though, but I heard I've been plenty of times and it's very pretty.
Yeah, I've been like maybe six, seven times.
I've never seen a picture.I literally have pictures on my Instagram.Well, do you expect to see a bear in the back?
At home, bored, like always.
Bitch.I want to go to Big Bear.
Well, maybe this year we'll get to go to Big Bear.
Yeah, I'll make sure I take her.Yeah.
um anyway something else that i wanted to talk about was we are pre-filming this it is november 2nd so it's the second day of dia de los muertos i've been getting so emotional because um i don't know if you've seen in coco they when they are crossing there is a big orange bridge of sampa tuchil
Or what is the name of the flowers?Sampasuchil.
Yeah.I think they have a funny name, like what I'm saying, but I could be completely wrong.Sampasuchil or something like that.And it's a full bridge full of like those flowers and their petals and they're orange.
And then, oh, I got so emotional this morning and last night because people were like, guys, they're on their way.Oh, my God.And the skies are orange.
In New Mexico, like the skies are literally orange.
No, even here yesterday we had a really pretty sunset.
Yeah, and everybody's just saying like, guys are on their way.Oh my God, it's so like, oh my God, like how exciting.And then I saw people posting drones, like images and videos of like people in Mexico.
the cemeteries are literally full of color and like decorations and the flowers and it's just packed with people and like incense like oh it's so beautiful it's pretty and i guess they do a parade in la ciudad de mexico oh yeah they do like a dia de los muertos parade oh my god oh i wish i was there
hopefully next year I want to go so bad I'm be there for my birthday next year hopefully I'm manifesting it fingers crossed fingers crossed you know it's crazy though so
Always these last months, you guys, October, November, December, I don't even know what day it is because I am just, there's so much shit going on these next few months.
Yeah, I don't know what day it is, but right now you're saying that today's November 2nd.So Dia de los Muertos is November 1st and 2nd, right?Yesterday I was hanging out with Adam and Marlene. I didn't know.
I mean, like I knew it was November 1st because it was the day after like October 31st.But I didn't know that like it was November 1st, like Dia de los Muertos, you know.But really random yesterday.I don't know why.
Like right now I just made the connection.I got the urge to talk about our past family members.
And I was talking about Ruby, I was talking about my grandma, and I was talking about my grandpa, which is really weird now that I think about it, because I'm like, oh my God, well, yesterday was Dia de los Muertos.
And we weren't even talking about Dia de los Muertos or nothing.I don't know why.I literally have no idea why we started talking about it.But like, we never really shared a lot about Ruby just because it was a lot for us to process.
But I told Adam, Lauro, and Marlene, like, what had happened to Ruby. And they all started crying.
So it made me really emotional.But I was really happy that like I got to one talk about Ruby and to like vent about Ruby.And they were just like crying.They were like saying that they were sorry.And then I was telling them about our grandma.
And I was telling them about the story that my dad was saying about the bottle.
So in the episode with my parents, if you guys didn't understand it because it was in Spanish, to not make the story long, basically we feel like our grandma had visited my dad in a weird sign because we feel like she was angry at him for drinking a little chelita.
Basically, it's obviously not in detail.
So like it won't probably make the most sense but basically there was there's a glass bottle of beer bottle and If when you grab it, you can feel like a handprint on it and it's like you could like straight up just feel the thumb and the fingers and it's just crazy to us that
It was like pressed on a glass bottle because any glass bottle would have broken with heat.
Yeah.And at that point, and my dad did say that when he, cause my dad took him out of the box and he manually put one at a time in the fridge, he said it wasn't like that before.There wasn't a dent.
It wasn't until after when he went to go grab the bottle that it had the hand dent on it.And he's like, what the what?
Yeah, but basically I bring that story up again because I was telling so this ties in with you at these dumbass fact So I was telling them that I glow in the dark I was telling all of them about my grandma in that bottle and page right when I'm telling them Marlene's like and she points at the floor and there's a spider and
And I was like, oh, she was like, Adam, kill it.And he was like, that's on it.It doesn't die.And then again, he's like, bitch, bitch, and he kills it.
But then me and Marlene look at each other and Marlene's like, wait, didn't you say that like something about the spiders coming to visit?
Yeah, well, well, from the fun fact that I read last time, that was a good luck or something.Yeah.
What was it?Say it again.
It was just that when spiders when you see a spider on Halloween, it's good luck.
Yeah, but then I was like, well, it's not Halloween, but like, it was like right after.
And I was like, as we were talking about. Bitch, I was scared.
And Adam was like, bitch, y'all made me kill it.
So, a good sign.And you're like, bitch.
And Marlene would tell Adam, we're like, that's bad luck, eh?And he was like, well, fuck you, you guys made me kill it.He's like, I don't want to kill it.But he's like, well, Louis was like, Adam!And then, like, he was like, bitch.
That's, that's, like, pretty scary, though.And, like, just random that, like, you guys are mid-combo, you see a spider.
Yeah, it was really scary.
I don't know if you remember a long time ago.We were kids, so I doubt you remember.I should have shared this story in Halloween, but it just came back to me.
But we used to go to this little Chinese food place in Watsonville where we would always go and eat.One time we were talking about my mom's dad that passed away like a long, long time ago.
I don't think you're born yet.
No, he died in the year that I was born.
Really?Oh, I didn't know that. Ah, you were born in 2009.Alex is still like, I think you got that wrong.
I know, he said you were born in 2001.
We were just casually talking about him.I don't remember the exact combo because we were really young.But do you remember the orange salsa?Como de aceitito que le poniamos al chow mein?It was so good.
And I don't know if you remember, it came in like a plastic container that was see-through.Yeah.It was in the middle of the table.
I know what you're gonna tell them as we were talking about him the little fucking Container of sauce just started moving like towards us.Do you remember that shit?
I remember that and I was like, what the fuck but like my mom was like And it literally was like what like a second or two seconds of it just moving towards us twice it yeah happened twice and it just stopped and
Straight up like okay, if you guys aren't watching then just try to like imagine But it was straight up like this on the table and when we're talking it goes towards my mom like this And then it stops and that's what we're like, what the fuck I do all this it and then I go and just goes
It literally and then so as we obviously try to figure out an explanation, it's like it's a state.It's like oil.So we were like, oh, my God, there's probably oil under it.We pick it up, bitch.It's dry, fucking dry.The table is completely dry.
And we were like, why did it just like randomly move out of nowhere?And right when we were talking about my grandpa.So that shit was fucking scary.
Yeah, it was.So it could have been that state that.But it was just more like.
There was no one outside.And wind can't push that shit because it was full.We were inside.
We were all trying to get rid of all their explanations.We're like, don't even think about it.
We're like, no, the table was not slanted.It was straight.
yeah that shit was crazy on him so i know we've said this millions of times but i definitely do 100 believe in the afterlife and that our loved ones are watching us and then sometimes i wonder to myself like i wonder if like when i die am i gonna be like
like messing around vibes.Like I always wonder, it's like, no, not like that.Like I wonder if I'm going to be pranking my loved ones or like fucking with them.
Bitch, if you fucking try it with me, I will literally go meet you there.
I feel like a hundred percent I would.Like, I feel like I'd be funny.
No, I'm going to rest.I'm tired, bitch.Now I'm tired of that life of bullshit.
I'm going to sleep.I already made enough jokes.I made enough jokes in my life.I feel like I'm going to be like, ah, someone's toes.
Fuck no, I'll fight you wherever you are.
I feel like I'm gonna be a cool abuelita.
I can't picture myself old.
I feel like I can, because I'm already old.
No, I mean like I can appearance wise, but like attitude wise, like I don't know if I'm going to be cranky, if I'm going to be happy.
I feel like you're going to be the exact same way, but more like laid back because you're probably not going to have anything to stress about because you're going to be retired and shit.
My kids and like their kids are gonna be like grandma.Why does grandpa have a fat ass?
I know I am saying this out loud now for everyone who wonders the same thing.Yes.I am taking off my BBO and I'm old Serving No, ma'am.
But maybe you shouldn't take it out because you're going to get a facelift so your body will match.Get an ass lift too.
Fuck you, it's on my back.
A little knot tight in the back?
I feel like, I don't know if you've seen those like abuelitas that serve looks like they're viejitas but they still serve looks.
Bro, why did I picture myself like No, I feel like especially we maintain a healthy lifestyle we can be fit and shit and all sexy looking on the heat balls at that point
Technology is probably going to come up with some shit where you're never going to get old.
Yeah, at that point, I'm going to I'm a drink blood.
You know, Madonna, it's all fucking disgusting.
Yeah.But I am manifesting that I'm going to be a sickening abuelita.And I definitely want to dedicate my viejita to taking care of all my grandkids and kids.And if Louie and Andre ever have kids, I'll take care of them.That'll be my job.
Yeah, I do live for a sickening abuelita.
I love, I love, love, love seeing like abuelitas who like get ready.
Yeah, I'm going to have my Birkin on the side.
No, I just love seeing like las abuelitas, they have their like nails done, their little jewelry.
They still do their little hair.Yeah.
So I'm like, oh, it's cute.
Yeah, shout out to just made me think of my mom's mom.My mom said that our grandma is very, um, como se dice?Like she really cares about her looks.
And that's where my mom learned it from, that my grandma would never leave the house without having her like lipstick, her hair done, empeinadita.So I'm like, okay, that's where my child got it from.That's where we got it from.
Super random, you guys.But I'm talking about it because I know a lot of y'all were saying the same stuff.So I want to ask you.
Everyone was replying to my stories that I look like my mom for Catwoman.Did you see it?
I don't think I noticed that.
Bitch, even I noticed it.So I took the first picture before I posted anything.I took a picture on my Snapchat, which if you don't follow me on Snapchat, Louis BBL.
Follow him on Snapchat right now if you want to laugh.I feel like yours and Adam's now, especially yours, because Adam sometimes doesn't post.Yours are fucking hilarious.
Y'all hear it here first.
And then, you know, and then they'll be reposting his videos from Snap on TikTok and they go viral.And everyone's like, where the fuck do these come from?His Snapchat.
Yeah, this is just her name.Why wait easy?
I with two eyes at the end.
Oh, yeah, two eyes.Sorry, but um, yeah, so I took a picture and even one before I posted I was like, why do you look like my mom shut up?
And then all even on the comments on my picture and like all of my story replies were like Louie look so much like your mom Yeah, but look look at the comments.No, no more like in the in the video bitch.Why don't you have any signal?Oh
Well, all the comments were saying that I look like my mom, but then I kind of figured it out why.Because I was like, I do feel like I look like my mom, like just in general.Look, the top comment.You look like your mom.Oh my God, yes.
But I think I figured out especially why so much in that look.Because I was like, this is the most I've ever gotten that I look like my mom.But I think it's because... You look so good in that.
No, bitch.Shut up.I just bought it from Fashion Nova.
Bitch, I thought that was custom made.
And I wanted to get a custom one, but that one fit me like a fucking glove.
And I love that you put the underwear on top.
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Why?Why do you look like my mom?
Because I was looking at it.I was like, why does everybody say I look like my mom if I have blonde hair?My mom has no blonde hair.So I was like, where's the correlation coming from?And why do I feel like I look like my mom?
But it's because naturally, I'm a morenita. So, my mom is lighter than me.I feel like my mom's closer to you.Like, I'm more more than Nico.
But I was like, I think it's because the blonde wig and my like, blonde eyebrows brought out like the lightness in my skin.So then I was like, and I tried doing my makeup a little bit lighter.So I was like, maybe that's why I look like my chayo.
Because my mom's like, weirita.Well, not weirita, but she's, her skin is lighter than mine.And I'm more like mampa.
I feel like, I hate you.I feel like you always look like my mom to me though.
Yes.Since like all of life.I feel like you've always looked like my mom.
This is the one where I was like, so scary.I was like, was it that one?I'm like, Oh my god, you look just like my mom.
That is so scary.Let me see.
I don't know if y'all can see that from that far.
Oh my god, that's so scary.
That's the one where I was like, oh my god, I hella look like my mom.
Oh my god.Okay, for sure.It's
my mom's nose you'll 100% have my mom's nose and I think it's like just the eyes like the way the eyes are positioned the nose oh my god you guys are twins twins dude you guys it is so crazy I don't know we need to find this picture of my mom and we need to post it on the Instagram there is a picture of my mom when she was like I want to say like eight years old um her mom caught her
Her hair like a little boy haircut.
Yeah, she looks like fucking Louie like My mom's like that looks more like you than So insane, yeah, I think that's so like scary how we literally are like copy and paste our parents
Like I feel really fucking stupid to say this because like it's obvious, but when I say that Ella looks exactly like your Watson Alex, like crazy, like I know, like I never tell that to people because it's like, well, does fucking mom and dad.
But like looking at Ella, like even when I had just recently filmed that little video, yeah, I was like, oh my God, I feel like I have like a mix of both you and Alex and like a little mind fuck. Yeah.
And I was like, but if I concentrate on just you, I see, I feel like Ella looks exactly like you.I see if I concentrate on just Alex, I feel like she looks exactly like Alex.
When Ella was born, you guys, I was tripping the fuck out so hard because, well, when she was born, I didn't know who she was going to look like.And for the longest time, like the first year of her life, she looks like copy and paste grandpa Juan.
She looks like, like Alex's dad.Every time I looked at her, I was like, that's grandpa Juan.I was like, she looks like your dad, Alex.Like they had the same eyes, like the, the way the fate, like it was just copy and paste grandpa Juan.
And then out of nowhere, she started shifting and looking like meh.And I'm like, Oh my God, we keep making this reference.
They probably don't even know where it's from. We're telling Alex to make a short of it guys, cause it's so funny.
It's from the episode where we had Alex on the vodcast.
He was saying that supposedly Ella sounds makes that noise when she's calling.
He's like, Alex, that little gremlin.So we need to make a short about that.But yeah, she, now she looks just like her dad.I feel, I feel like it's twins.
And I feel like I look like Travis.All right.
No, everybody's everybody always says this is Tio Louie or Don Wee.
Don Wee, but I feel like we look more like him than you do.All right.
No, I think so, too.I feel like you two both look more like him than me.
And I feel like I feel like me and Travis are so similar because even our hair is exactly the same.
Me and Travis are the only ones in the Castro family.Well, not the only ones.I mean, like in our immediate family, like mom, dad vibes with you guys.
Me and Travis are the only ones with that got like that hairstyle besides my mom like textured hair like frizzy big textured wavy Yeah, like I feel like if Travis were to let his hair grow out It would turn into curls cuz when he was a baby had a full afro He looked like a little broccoli But then he wanted to shave his head to look like mum fine I never grew back
Yeah, I never grew back the same, but at the when we still let it grow out, it starts to like curl and Louie's like give it a little vibes.And then mine and Andrea's is like just straight.It's like fucking straight.There's no curls in it whatsoever.
And Mampa's, guess we'll never know.
Oh, Mampa's the one with the straight hair.Yeah.He used to get a perm when he was younger.
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How do you feel about your birthday coming up?Like, what are you looking forward to?Are you scared?Are you trying?Nothing.I'm asleep.
I know, but next year I'm going to be 30.I don't know.It's scary, fool.
Yeah, it's really scary once the years go by.
Like it gives me anxiety.I like to not think about it.I feel like ever since I turned 25 every year after, I just I'm like, I don't want to think about it.
I think it's, I know, let me stop you there.No, I think what happens is that when we're younger, we really don't give a fuck about age.
And once you start getting older, like it does start getting like, or, or like when you're younger, you want to get older.
Cause I feel like me when I was younger, I wanted to get older.Like I couldn't wait to be 18 so I can get my driver's license, be more independent, get a job.Like that's what I wanted.
And then I wanted to turn 21 because I was like, Oh my God, I'm gonna be able to go to club.I can drink all that.
you just want to get older to experience more things but then once I feel like I started hitting late 20s I was like stop stop stop like I don't want to turn any older I'm okay that's the same that I feel like I always pops up in my head is that once um what was it
And then I just said, I never forget.
I know that I was like, I forgot.
You're 25.Yeah.Damn.I don't know.Recently somebody asked me, how old is your brother?And I feel like I forever, I'm always going to think you're like 23.And I said, 23.I was like, he's 23.And then Alex was like, no, he just turned 25.
I was like, oh yeah.And I feel like now we'll forever be 18 in my head.
That one scares me.I can't believe she's 21.
I don't like that.She's supposed to be 15.For real.
I did notice, though, like there's a lot of changes, obviously, that people always gave me a heads up of when I was younger.But again, when we're younger, we don't go fuck.
It's just like having fun.
Everybody's going to be like, you're going to wish you weren't getting older, because when we're younger, we want to get older. A lot of us, I feel like, fitness-wise, I feel like back then, I was like, I don't give a fuck about it.
But now I'm like, oh, I wish I would've started back then.
I feel like my body would've been key.Like, you wish you would've taken it seriously earlier.
Like, I would go and I would do things here and there, but I wasn't taking it serious.It was just more like, yeah, I'm here for a little bit of time.
Yeah, me and Louie would work out together, you guys, and we'd be just fucking around at the gym.
Yeah, like, we got some experience, but we'd be fucking around.
We'd be like hanging around the monkey bars, like, ah.Laughing and shit.
Yeah, people were probably like, pobrecitos.Yeah.
Another thing I wish I took more serious was, I don't know if I want to say skincare or like sunscreen. And like, oh, I hate it.Like, it's cause I also hate when like older people would always tell me all these things to like think about.
And I was like, bitch, I'm younger.Yeah.But now I'm like, fuck, I wish I did.Cause like, I look at myself in the mirror now and I feel like I could tell my skin's a little bit more mature.
I feel like when I apply makeup now, I'm like, damn, back then I was like, you couldn't see all of my texture.And I was like, now right here, especially like on my under eye, like my cheeks, my pores look a little bit bigger.
Like when I apply makeup, I'm like, fuck, it's not as smooth as it used to be.
And for me, this used to never happen to me.And I noticed it within the last like year and a half. Under my eyes, I wouldn't crease.And now I have like this little wrinkle.Every time I do my makeup, it creases right under my eye and it's a line.
No matter what primer, no matter what the fuck I use, the only time it doesn't do it is when I have a makeup artist do my makeup.Because I don't know what fucking witchcraft they do, but magic.
But when I do it, it always creases and it's just a really harsh line under my eyes.And I'm like, it makes me look obvious.
Cuz we could definitely still achieve like those smooth base cuz like same thing with me when I go with a makeup artist My skin does not look like that like it looks amazing.
Yeah, but it's like it brings back to the same point We're like back then for us, even though we're not makeup artists It was easier to still achieve like a smooth look but not my bitch unless I have a makeup artist working on me like it's harder it's harder, but
And I'm only 25.But I saw this one beautiful thing and I was like, oh, I want that one.What?It was like that wrinkles represent, like, for example, like years of like laughter.
I'm trying to make myself feel better.
Like, but it's true.Like I fucking for a good while, I fucking hated my crow's feet.
You have crow's feet?Yeah, maybe.A little bit.
A little bit.But like, I hated it.I was like, I want to get rid of it.I was like, I was like, I'm always laughing anyways.
I see my smile lines.I was like. You know, every night.
Imagine.It's not even that I laugh all day.It's just that at night I sleep like that.
You sleep like that?That's fucking creepy.
Yeah, but anything you're looking forward to?
I'm just looking forward to just mentally being like 100% healthy and like happier and just kind of fulfilling my dreams.I was gonna say fantasies.It was so true.Fulfilling like my dreams and
stuff like that but I'm also just I feel like I'm in my era where I'm shedding news like I'm shedding old skin like stuff I don't know if you feel that way but definitely as I got older I kind of realized that there's a lot of stuff that aren't worth like time and energy or like
I know we've talked about this before, but just like friends que no te estan ayudando or making your life any easier or any better.It's just kind of like, let's shoo it away.And you know what?I realized that in this past year, it's crazy, right?
Cause I told you that I, I already have like a hard time making friends.And this year I realized that I got rid of three friendships this year.Yeah.And it wasn't anything, well, one of them was a little dramatic,
But two of them weren't necessarily crazy dramatic.But I realized that I made this the the choice of just like kind of distancing myself and stepping away.One of them was I had a friend.She was like cool and all.
She was very she was fun, but I wouldn't call her like, oh, my God, my best friend for life, you know, she but she would come around and she was cool and all.
But I feel like this friend was causing problems with like other friendships of mine never did anything directly to me. but did a few sketchy things to like individuals around me.
Like other friends.And then it would come back to me and I would find out about it.It made me feel like a little bit uncomfortable.And I was like, hmm, like there's there's something going on here.
And like but like I said, they never directly did anything to me.But I feel like if you're messing with people around me that I like feel.
Aren't important to me like that person was important to me as well But they were just messing with other people and causing more circle.Yeah, and I was like, why is this happening?
And I feel like it had happened a few times actually But I um, I always try to give like the benefit of the doubt That's like the problem with being like a good person sometimes but then this friend of mine got in trouble with the law
Yeah.And I feel like for me, that was kind of like where it crossed the line, because it was like they got in trouble with the law and I feel like they weren't taking it seriously.Like they kind of like brushed it under the rug pipes.
Yeah.Like it'll be fine.And I was like, no, bitch, that's not fine.Like, that's not cool.Like what you did, like you're in trouble for that, you know?
And again, I just kind of felt like they were just kind of like putting it under the rug and they're like, I don't give a fuck.Yeah.
and then I feel like after that I just kind of started distancing myself and I was like okay well this person isn't really bringing anything positive into my life and they're just kind of causing chaos where like I'm not asking for this chaos so I feel like I slowly slowly started distancing myself and um
I think they noticed because they would reach out to me a lot and I was kind of just kind of going MIA.Yeah.
Here and there I would reply and be like, oh my God, yes, like I miss you and like stuff like that or like try to have combos, but it just didn't feel the same.
And when it's like forced like that, I was like, no, something here like just isn't the same.And slowly I started distancing myself and we just don't talk anymore.
That was Julie.I was like, she was just on here.
This just happened a week ago.
I feel like Julie can't really do anything really bad for me to like break up with her.
Yeah, at this point we're sisters.I feel like me and Julie can get into like a fist fight and we still be cool.
I'm like, well, let us know so we can broadcast it here.I know.No, but that's crazy.I feel like, um, I feel like that's why when we're older, we have less friends.
It's not because I always thought it was just because y'all didn't fucking make an effort to like make friends.But I think it's also that you don't put so much time and energy into it because you're like, like you just get over things really quickly.
Like it's not like when you're kids or you're like teenagers and you're still like, bitch, fuck you and let's go get food.
Or like you have more time to put energy into that.
You're just like, whatever, I'll brush it off.But like now that you're older, you're like, bitch, I have other things to worry about.I have real shit to deal with.Like, why am I going to deal with something that I don't?
Yeah, and I feel like they weren't taking their shit seriously. like getting in trouble with the law.So I was like, yo, por que me voy a estar preocupando si ni a tu te preocupas?Like a ti te valio verga, pues a mi tambien que me valga verga.
I was more worried because I was like, are you going to be OK?Like, what the fuck?And they were just like, no.And I was like, OK.And I was like, I don't need this stress.I was like, if you don't give a fuck about it, then I'm going to scoot back.
You know, that was one.I don't have friends.I got rid of all my friends.
I'm like, so then who are you celebrating your birthday with?
No, I've talked about it before.I have my group of mom.
I really do love my little mom.Friends are like a sacred group, you guys, because I feel like it was so, so freaking hard for me to find friends.And it's crazy because I've known them for, I think, a year, just a year, just a year.
We were just talking about over dinner last week and we were like, oh, we did this like two years ago.
I got this two years ago.
Year and a half, year and a half, but I feel like I've known him like longer.Yeah.
But we yeah, I feel like I've known him for a long time, but it's it's only been such a short time and I've done so much with them and we've created so many good memories.I feel like it's hard to find friends like that nowadays.
It's like really, really hard.And I haven't gotten in a fight with him ever, ever fight.
But here's another cheese meme another cheese miso tea So there was another friend that I had like gotten close to I don't know how to say this No, I just feel like I Feel like your friends are Well, they should be right your friends should be your number one supporters and what you do.
I and i feel like if they're not then they're not friends you know they should always like have your back and believing you believing you and push you to do better like you don't want any any negativity around you or like envidia or stuff like that
But I had done something like a little I Had just done something that required a lot of support from my friends.Yeah, and I feel like this individual Did not like what I did a good reason or for a bad reason for a stupid reason
Okay.Wait.So what you did was a good thing.
It was like, Oh my God, it was an amazing thing.It was a good ass thing.What I did.Um, and I feel like, um, social media loved it.People loved it when I did, but a certain person was not giving that energy.It was giving like very petty vibes.
And I did not like that from the beginning.And I feel like I felt some kind of energy, like a, a change of energy, real motherfucking quick. And I was like, what the fuck is going on?Like, why is this person acting with me like this?
And I was like, not fucking with it.
So I try to have conversations with this individual, but they just kind of gave me like the.
Like with the other vibes, oh, like I feel like it wasn't I tried having a conversation, but the energy of like wanting to have a conversation about it wasn't reciprocated.Yeah, it was just very like. almost like like what's the word?
I kind of want to say envidiosa, pero con coraje vibes.
Yeah.I don't want to say envidiosa, but like con coraje vibes.Yeah.And I just was not having it.And like I said, being I feel like I'm such a I try to be a good person.I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.And I
I kept continuing to try to have conversations with this individual about like what the fuck was going on or why there was such an energy switch up and all of this, but they just weren't reciprocating it back.
And I feel like I was trying to mend a friendship that I was that it was already fucked. So I kind of at that point was just like why am I like wasting my time and energy on this?
Individual if they made it very loud and clear that they're not happy with what I did.
Yeah, so they're just like bye, you know So I kind of I got really sad about it because I thought that me and this person had like a good friendship That was blooming and growing And I was really happy about it.
I think I talked to you guys about it too.
Like, Oh my God, I just made the connection.Yeah.Literally this whole time.That's all my kind of spacing out because I'm like, you're, you're like brewing now.I know exactly.Yeah.
I feel like I was excited about the, the friendship that was booming and I was really happy about it.And if I'm being honest, I was kind of like really sad when the friendship came to an end.
Yeah.Because I remember that you were like always like, Oh, like, Like when the friendship was still happening.
Yes, it was a cute friendship.And then when it stopped and because of the reason that the friendship ended, I think that's why I was more hurt because I expected a completely different reaction than what I got.
I feel like because I thought this individual was my friend.I thought I was gonna get like a hug Helping hands like let's grass.
Yes, like I thought I was gonna get the best from them And I was so excited to get their support and I feel like I got the complete opposite like complete 360 I was so bummed out.I was like pretty butthurt about it, but also like mad.
Cause I was like, damn, like, then like, what were your true intentions of this friendship?If like I do something and then it like kind of, it seems like it pissed you off.
So that one was really, I didn't see it coming.It really bummed me out.But again, I don't have the time and the energy.And like I said, I was hurt about it.But at the end, I was like, you know what?
If this person doesn't want my friendship, then I'm not going to continue.Yeah, why am I going to, again, try to mend a friendship that was already like fucked, you know?
And yeah, I just got really sad because I didn't get the support that I thought I was going to get from this friend. And I feel like your friends are like your number one supporters.Yeah.
And if there was anything that was like a little iffy, like it would have been good to hear them out if they even tried to.But the fact that it was just more like.
I feel like it was just me trying to mend the relationship or figure out what the fuck was going on.And the other person was just like, I could give two fucks about you.So I feel like I just kind of distanced myself again.
But yeah, that was kind of one of my more harder friendship breakups of the year.
That's to come with the years, you guys, so prepare.Yeah, but it's good because I feel like it really is just I think for anybody and I think some people if you're able to like realize this at an early on age, good for you.
But I for me, I feel like it took me a while.I've always had a smaller friend circle, but I would try so hard to keep friendships that obviously shouldn't have kept being there.
And like I look back and I'm like, oh, why did I try so hard?I'm like, they were the ones fucking up.And I was over here trying to do my best to keep it.But like now I look back at it and I'm like.
If you're like at a younger age and you're able to like just cut off all that bullshit while you can, I think you're going to save yourself a lot of time, um, emotional stress and your love that you can give to somebody else.
Yeah.And then, Oh, I've heard so many stories from like other people where they have altercations with friends and like what, literally what you said, they will let, like, they give these people so many opportunities.Yeah.
And I'm like, oh, my God, we should not do that.
Well, me, I kind of gave this person like a lot of opportunities to have conversations and because I really wanted to mend the friendship because I thought there was like a potential really good friendship in there.
And like I tried and I tried and I tried and that's probably the big reason why a lot of people continue to give these people opportunities because we're like, oh, we can we can mend it or we think we're not going to find like better friendships.
But I feel like. When we're older, we just we just don't have time for that We don't have the energy and time for that and I feel like I'm at the point where like if you do something nasty For me with to me, even if it's like not small nasty thing.
I'm just gonna be like Like if I sense the negativity quickly, I'm just saying Yeah, no.Yeah.Yeah.Bye.
Yeah, I'm at a point right now.Well, I've been at this point.
where I don't seek any new friendships.
But if one he's like, the applications are closed.No, no, no.
I don't seek any new friendships.But if a friendship comes to me and it works, I am more than fucking happy to eat you out.
Have you had any friendships recently where you feel like you're getting used
No, no, I have not had any because again my friend I am done looking for friends and I think some people I can come off kind of like
Closed off sometimes with the one it's because I get anxious but to also because I feel like I really do read the room with how With how what people's intentions a lot.
Mm-hmm, and I feel like I'm really good at that I think that's how I've been able to protect my piece.
Okay, okay, but that's what I'm saying I'm not seeking any new friendships at all because I'm just tired of like the shit that I've had to deal with other people Yeah, but if a friendship comes to me and a friendship blooms out of that then like bitch I will put it my everything it's basically what I'm saying is like
Cause there was a point in my life where I was like literally seeking people out.Like, Hey, let's go grab food.Like just new people because I really wanted to make friends.But at this point I'm like, nah, I'm not doing any of that shit.
But if I meet somebody, like if I meet somebody through somebody else or I just meet somebody at a party and I'm vibing with them and it ends up blooming into a friendship, like that I'm down for that, like it's naturally happening.
Like I will not look for a new friend or like seek somebody out in hopes that it will like bloom into something.Cause I'm like, nah, I'm over that.
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But yeah, I don't think I'm into that.But I am hoping that I meet some new people and maybe some new friends.
You will.And you're also really young.But I also feel like the friends that you have right now are really good friends to you.
Yes, that I don't even need.
You have a really good circle. I know they're good friends when to you when you're not the one that has to ask them all the time to hang out like they ask you.
I remember for a long time ago, you'd be like, I'm the one putting all this energy with people and they don't really want to give energy back.
Yeah, it's fucking annoying.
And I remember poor Louis, when he first moved here, he was like really looking for like a group of of close friends, because I feel like you went you really went through it when we first moved here, because back at home you had Yami and Yami were like butt cheeks like.
They were together, you guys, like boyfriend and girlfriend.Yeah, always.
I was dating Yami more than I was dating my hombre at the time.
Yeah, like there was not a day that he would not see Yami.It was for anything.I'm going to get Yami.
I'm literally going to get Yami.
And there was days where she would sleep over for like two, three days in a row.Like she just wouldn't leave.And like, how am I?She wouldn't leave.No, we loved it.
That's a good friendship.I was just in Watsonville like a few weeks ago and I was like, yeah, we're in Watsonville.
And then Yami will just pull up, you know, she'll stay at the house.
She stayed in our Airbnb.
Oh, yeah, she did.She's like, hey, guys, I feel like Yami, too.She's one of those friendships that it's like she's part of the family at this point because we don't get any bad vibes from her or anything like that.
But when Louis first moved over here, he was like, yeah, me.
I know.I went through a phase during that time, too, of like trying to make new friends. I hated it.
I really I was hanging out with like people but it's just that's why I like right That's what I'm saying right now Like I'm like if I meet somebody through somebody else or somebody just like a friendship blooms like that's cool like in the moment But I hated like when I would like people reach out to me or I'd reach out to them and then we'd like plant something But it was just like hey, it's like awkward It's literally like friendships are literally like a relationship and it's like annoying.
I feel like for me, it was really hard also making friends down here.Cause the only people that I knew at the moment were like content creators when I moved down here.
And I feel like, um, you have to really vibe with people to call them like close, really close friends to the point where like you can be with them 24 seven.
Like you, you were looking for a friendship that you're like, Hey, I'm not getting ready.I'm not doing anything, but like, let's hang out.
Let's hang out.Like come to my house.Let's have wine and watch a movie or like chill vibes. But a lot of people I think we're like we were friends because we were both in the in the same industry.
But then I'm like, fuck, but maybe we don't vibe like that.Like we're not like outside of this stuff.Like we don't really vibe like that.And I feel like I tried with a few people, but I got like the ache right away.
I was like, I can't do this.
Yeah.I was like, I can't do this.Like they're queuing off for a little moment, but I can't have you with you like 24-7 vibes.
Me with Louie.I'm like, oh.You're like, that's pretty not smart.Is it a little moment?
This is my moment with Louie.
Talking about that, actually.Wait, sorry, were you going to say something else?
I don't want to cut you off.No, no, no.
I'm actually genuinely surprised.
So I've obviously like I've thrown some parties and I just threw a Halloween party and I've also been to quite a few parties.
And I'm, needless to say, I'm pretty happy with people right now.I was just shocked.
How many people went to your party?
No, no, no, not that.I was just saying how, like, I've been to a few parties, including mine, where there's been people who are known to have, like, some altercations, like online, like, bit.
Yeah, like they don't fuck with each other.
Yeah, but I've been to quite a few parties Even like at mine where there were people who like quote-unquote don't really fuck with each other But they kept it very cutesy at the party.
Yes, and there's nothing more That makes me happier than a mature bitch.I Fucking hate like bitch.Trust me.I've had people who like I want to be like bit but time and place, right?
I'm also not the type of person where like if I have a problem with you I
Most likely I'm not going to confront you for like at a fucking party because that's not the place for it I need you to like sit down with me and be like hey I need to talk to you right or some shit or like pull me to the side, but don't make a fucking scene Don't make it fucking stupid none of that shit, but like at these parties I was a little because when even when I was throwing my party I was like fuck like I also hate having to think about like I can't invite this person cuz of this person right it's happened at every single one of my birthday parties and even at the Halloween party and
But I gave up, I was just like, bitch I don't give a fuck, I'm sending an invite.
You're gonna invite whoever the fuck you want.
Yeah, and be fucking mature and don't fucking act a fool and don't cause a fucking scene.And I was really happy that it's been like that.
Well, actually one of my parties, I think it happened after, it was like something happened, but I'm glad that they didn't do shit about it at the party. It was just like whatever, they kept it cute.
They did it off the premises.
I know, literally.It's just nobody wants to fucking deal with shit like that.
I do, I like drama.I'm like, do it, do it.
You're the one person recording.
No, but yeah, like at these parties, I was really happy to see that people just kept it very cute and just like, because I just hate drama, like at parties or I hate drama, like in general, or like I hate like big blown up drama and shit.
So I was just really happy to see that people were like, hey boo boo.
Like everybody was cordial with each other.Yeah, I didn't see no drama or sense any like crazy shit at your party.It was cute vibes.
Not even just at my party, just like all these parties and like it's cool to like, everyone's just there to have a good time.Everyone's there to have fun.Everyone's there to celebrate.
That's what parties should be.Yes.All the time.
Now I could be.But actually that reminds me, I had a little, is it confrontation recently? Confrontation.Yeah, I had one recently and Let me just give y'all the fucking inside scoop about the drama part of it.
Just the confrontation part of it So basically I was at this
party okay I was at a party and I was hanging out with a group of friends and those group of friends were like hey like do you want to come with us we're gonna go with some other friends they're like super cool they're super chill
We just want to meet up with them.So I was like, oh, yeah, that's fine So we're going with them and this group of friend that was taking me to the other group of friends Like they had no idea about anything like they had just met each other.
So they were like very much like basically So basically I go with them to go meet the other group of friends and they're like, oh like this is Baba and this is Baba So I'm like, okay cute.
So I'm saying hi to everybody I'm like, hi nice to meet you and then I look and there's somebody there that I've been wanting to talk to Oh like you guys have a little bit of beef I would not call it beef.
I would just say I would call it steak chicken.It was like a one-sided thing.Oh, so I was just more like I wanted to talk.Okay, because I had some confused the whole thing was just fucking weird as fuck like energy switch.
No, I just needed some shit to be cleared the fuck up, but it wasn't beef with me.Like I wasn't like, I was just like, what the fuck was that about?Basically is what it was coming from my end.But on their end, they had beef with me.
Oh shit.All one sided, all by themselves.
It was very one sided.So basically this person had, said, I don't even, I don't know how to talk about it without like talking about it, because I don't want to like fully say everything.Basically this person had said a lot of things about me online.
And it made me look really bad.And I was like, and this, I thought I was cool with this person.I had met this person a very few amount of times, but every time I talked to them, they were really nice to me, always.
And I was really nice to them, really cool with me.And they were actually dating one of my friends, like a long time ago.That's like how I first knew about them.
But basically, they had came out with a video just talking about all these things about me and it really caught me off guard.I didn't see it.Somebody showed it to me and I was like, what the fuck?So it really caught me off guard.
Like, imagine you being cool with somebody and there's a whole video posted about you, like just talking.
You're like, I thought we were fine.Yes.
But not only that, I was just like, you could have reached out to me. and asked me so it was I wasn't even mad about like them talking about me.I was more mad about it being like and you couldn't just reach out to me.
Yeah, that's giving cloud chasing vibes.
That's why I got bothered because I was like. Everything that you just said right now, I'm a quick message away.
No, he doesn't have my number.
He doesn't.But he could have still reached out to me.
Yeah.Like I know of him.Like we have very mutual friends.Like there's a way.So then I was just like, OK, so I saw this thing and I was like, whatever. So I was really frustrated, not even so much at them.
I was just so frustrated that it had to be taken online.Like I was like, what the heck?Like why?And you guys know me.I don't interact with people talking about me online.I don't give a fuck about it.And I don't have a reason to feed into it.
Like I was just like, nah.So I didn't give a fuck about it.Like the online part, I was just more confused as to like, I thought we were cool and you could have just messaged me.
Why the fuck take it online?
Yes.So I saw this person and when I saw them, I was like, oh, so you saw them after the video. Yes, this is after, this is when I was, this is, yeah, it was after the video, and I saw them there.And I was like, oh.And I wasn't so much like, bitch!
Like, I wasn't gonna do all that.But we were at like a party.So I was like, ugh, like, of course I have to run into you at a party.Like, it just ruined my vibe a little bit, because I am not the type of person to start beef in a setting like that.
Like, I wasn't gonna be like, hey, I need to talk to you.Like, I was just like, ugh.So I was like, you know what, I'ma keep it very cute, I'ma keep it very Demir. And I'm gonna just say hi like that.So I said hi to all of them.
And then I went up to him and I was like, oh, hi, nice to see you again.Like, that's just how I said it.I wasn't like I was just like, nice to see you again.But they seem so happy to see me.Oh, my gosh.
And then I was just like, yeah, and I just kind of stood and I was like, hi.Because I was just again, it made me more frustrated because I was like, girl, where is this coming from?So then after that,
I just kind of stood to the side and I'm not gonna lie I did kill my vibe a little bit not because I was like I wanted to fight them.I was just more like How what do like I don't want to talk about it here time and place.They're here to have fun.
I'm here to have fun Let's just keep it moving So I was just doing my own thing and I will say I was very happy that they came up to me I'm glad that they that they they handled the whole situation pretty mature Which is what I wanted from the beginning like if you have a problem with me talk to me about it
So they came up to me and they were like, hey, I just want to make sure that we're cool.And I was like, what?You're going to ask me if we're cool?
Pitch after what you did.
Yeah, like I was happy that they came up to me again because I wasn't going to come up to them because I didn't want to like ruin their vibe.
But also I hate when like we're supposed to like sweep things under the rug and pretend like it didn't happen.
I hate that too.I hate it.It's so awkward.
So I was happy that they did come up to me because I was like, OK, like they want to talk about it.It's not going to be like, let's sweep it under the rug.
So they were like, hey, I just want to make sure that we're cool and I was kind of like the way that they just asked me if we were cool kind of caught me off guard cuz I was like, what do you mean?Cool.Yeah, so I kind of like stay quiet.
I was like Louie calm the fuck down Don't say some stupid shit cuz I usually wanted to be like bitch.What do you mean?Are we cool?It's like I was just like wait what he's I just want to make sure like we're cool and then I was like, oh
I literally had to take a deep breath.And I was like, I'm going to be completely honest with you.Like, no, like I am not cool with what you did online, but I was just trying to keep it cute.
And long story short, they, um, apologized to me for making that video.So I told them, I was like, okay, thank you for apologizing.That's one.And they basically told me that that video was online because I never got to personally see the video.
Somebody showed it to me.
So they told me that that video was online for not even that long.So I guess they deleted it like right after they posted it.So I guess it wasn't even up for that long.But I didn't know that.
I was under the impression that that video was still live and still roaming and just like chillin, killin on his profile. So they were like, I took it down right away.They're like, I felt like shit for making that video.I was embarrassed.
I let my emotions take the best over me and I made that video and that's not who I am.And as frustrated as I was, I kind of understood him.Cause I've definitely made some videos out of like frustration in the moment.
So I was like, okay, like again, let me shut the fuck up because I understand where they were probably coming from in the moment.I was just more mad of, of like my, my character that was being portrayed.
It was some ugly shit that literally is not representing of who I am It was all assumptions and it was miscommunication So that's why I was frustrated because I was like you could have just asked me about it and I would have cleared it up so easily but basically
They apologized to me, they told me that they were just in a really emotional area, an emotional space, and it just made them react out of frustration, and they deleted it because they regretted it after.
And yeah, we were able to just talk about the whole thing, and they were venting to me about all this other shit that was happening.
But I was really frustrated because they were like, um, they're like I respect you and your family I've been following you guys for so long and blah blah.So then I was like if you respect me, what is that about?
I was like, why would you do that in the first place?So
I was really frustrated, but at the end I was able to hear them out I got to hear where they were coming from and I was really happy that they were owning up to what they did because if they would have been like bit like still not they fully took Responsibility over what they did and how they did and how they handled it and they apologized to me and I was like, you know what?
just because you're being really mature about the whole situation, you're owning up.None of it was, they never threw shots at me.
They literally were just like, and I explained to them what they misunderstood from my end, and they were like, I completely understand everything.
They're like, I know you didn't do anything wrong, I know you didn't come from a bad place, and this is this.So that made me feel good because there's some people who will apologize, but with a backhanded apology.
They'll be like, I'm sorry you felt that way, I hate that.Or like,
Um, i'm sorry about this but that but like well you also did this well you also did but it wasn't like that or like if he would have fake apologized but the video's still up yeah like shit like that yeah so i was just like but they handled the whole thing really well and we ended up like hugging it out at the end so i was like no it's okay like you know what you're fine it happened but definitely a lot more mature than i expected the situation to go like i thought i was gonna go a completely different route
No, and that's why I was like happy that it went that way.But at the end of the day, I was still bothered, but bothered at like, well, you know, social media is like people will take something and run with it.
It was more bugging me that like I was like, oh, well, whoever saw that video is going to leave something of is always going to think something of me because of that.
And it bugged me because I was like, oh, but then at the end of the day, I was like, you know what?
Literally what snapped me out of it, because like after we talked and we hugged it out or whatever, I just kind of stood there and I was just kind of like taking it in because I was still really frustrated, not so much at them, just at the video in general.
But I was like, you know what, at the end of the day, I need to remind myself that one, I'm never gonna make everybody happy.Two, people will always have something to say about me.
And three, whether I suck somebody's dick or ass, they will probably still hate me at the end of the day if they really just don't want to like me.So I was like, There's nothing I could do about it and it really just like snapped me out of it.
But that was like probably like the most like recent confrontation thing that I've had and it's been a really long time since I've confronted somebody because again like I really don't feed into these things you guys.
But this was just bound to happen because we have very similar friends. So I'm glad that it happened the way that it did, but it's like what you were saying where you like just, I mean, this person was never like really a friendship.
It's more like an acquaintance.
We were like acquaintances and we were cordial with each other.They were always really nice to me and they were always really friendly with me.So that's why it just caught me off guard.
But it was just like, oh my God, it's been such a long time since I've had to like deal with something like that.I'm glad that I went the way that it did and it wasn't anything worse than what it had to be.
I really don't like the fact that because we're on the internet and we do social media and all this stuff, people sometimes will automatically just like, instead of talking to you, will take it to the internet for whatever fucking reason.
Because I'm pretty sure If you weren't who you are, if you weren't Louis Castro, excuse me, they would not have gone to the Internet and made that whole video.
But they made a video was full on to bash me.They make those videos because they know your impact on social media and they obviously want to do something about your character or they want to bash you as you know.So that stuff is so fucking annoying.
And I've had to deal with this shit for all of like my OG perras who have been with me for like years.
Y'all know this is not the first time this happens to me I've had to deal with people making videos of me that are straight-up bullshit to so many times but like I've never had to speak on any of them and like this one the only reason I'm speaking up on this one is because I am bringing it up but also because I wanted to just Appreciate that somebody was being mature about something well partially mature because the first part of the whole but
I've never had to deal with it because people always like watch these videos and they're like one that does not sound like Louie at all like two like that doesn't make any sense and like I think from an outside view people who just straight-up don't like me and don't watch me I can't come off as a bitch like I heard that a million times but I think for like I think people always people always say that I have a fucking like bitch face and then obviously like me calling myself the baddest perra people probably think that I'm always like
But I think the people who watch us online and people who really dig into our content, they're like, no, these bitches are dumb as fuck.
Yeah, I don't think they're like that.
They're just like, we're literally here for fun.We're here to do mensadas and we're here to just make people laugh and have a good time.
Like every time these people have made these videos about me and people want like our viewers watch them They're like vision does not sound like shit Louie would do at all right so with this video I do remember I never got to see it, but the comments well from what people were telling me the comments were calling it bullshit
And I don't know what video it was and literally I think I ran into it, too The comments were literally like you're fucking stupid.
Like you sound like you're making this up Yeah, Louie is not like that and it's happened so many and so I'm glad that y'all got my back like that to be able to call bullshit when bullshit is needed to be called out, but it's happened like dude, I feel like if you were and if you were a bad person and
You wouldn't be able to hide it for this long.Like you've been on social media for such a long time Like I feel like if you were like me Were genuinely like bad people.I don't think we'd be able to like hide it for this fucking long
And I wouldn't not, I'm pretty sure all the people who I'm friends with, even your other content creators you guys follow, would not have me around.
Right, and I feel like true colors always come out, no matter what.
I feel like if we were genuinely bad people or some of this shit was true or whatever, there's no fucking way that you wouldn't have more drama surrounding you or bad shit around you, you know?That obviously doesn't happen.
And I feel like also, I feel like I've said this before, my friendships that I've had for years, not be friendships for years if I... was such a bad person.All right, they're just as equally as bad.
You know, your story about the whole video thing reminded me of another story that happened to me.I remember you me telling you about this one because I was like pissed about it.So I'm just tell y'all straight up.
I think I feel like I've shared this story before on the podcast, but I do not remember.So I'm going to share it again. one time this so fucking random.We went to a party.And we were at the party and we were all drinking and you were there.
I was there and we're like pretty drunk at this point.And some girl. that I've never seen in my life.This is the first time I meet her.And when I'm drunk, I'm even more friendly than when I'm not.So she comes up to me, she's like, hi, Iwatsi.
And I was like, oh my God, hi.And this was an event with creators.There was a lot of creators.And this girl comes up to me and she was like, hi, how are you, blah, blah, blah.And I'm like, hi, how are you? I'm all hugging her cause I'm all borracha.
She's like, I need to tell you something.And I was like, okay, like what is it?She's like, I made a video about you.And then I was like, oh my God, how cool.And she's like, no, it wasn't.And she's like, it wasn't a good video, it was bad.
And I was like, what the fuck?And then I was like, dude, I was drunk, but I remember what I was saying.And I was just like, it's okay.Like, don't worry about it.Like, fuck all the negativity, fuck bad vibes.Cause I was so borracha, right?
You're just trying to have fun.
Yeah, I was just trying to have fun.We're at a party.And then she's like, no, like I just wanted to tell you that I'm so sorry about the video.And I was like, bitch, I don't even know what I told her.
I was like, I don't fucking know what video you're talking about, but I'm just here to have a good time.Like, who cares?Like, stop talking about it.I don't give a fuck.Like, let's have fun.
She's like, I know, but I feel really bad about it because it went viral. And then like this bitch just I think she wanted a reaction out of me.I don't know what the fuck she wanted.
And I don't know if she was as much as me because she was like straight up trying to have a conversation.I'm over here like I'm all trying to be cool.And then she was just like it was about like an argument that you had with your man on social media.
And I gave like my point of view.I wasn't really talking shit about you, but I was talking like
about the topic and like a lot of people just agreed with me so the video went viral wait no to make it worse this hasn't to make it worse i thought it was gonna be a video of her and you having like beef no this had nothing to do with her nothing to do with her i i don't know what her content is i like
I don't I didn't even know her.
Her video was just beef about her input.
Yes.Like I guess it was giving her opinion.Obviously, her opinion wasn't needed.Nobody asked for it, but she really wanted to give her fucking opinion.And it went viral.And well, I didn't even know about it.So I guess it didn't go that viral.
Yeah, whatever.And then she brought it up to me.And then I was just like, kind of like thrown off a little bit.And then again, I was just like, girl, like, it's fine.I don't give a shit about it.Like, it's all good.I let it go.
And she was like, OK, well, I just wanted to let you know.Have fun.Have a good night.I'll see you around.I was like, OK, bye.Have a good night. And I think like that was it.And I was like, eh, like I'm gonna keep partying.
The next day I remembered, like briefly remembered the conversation.I was like, some girl said that she made a video about me.And I was like, and I was so curious what it was.So I went to go look it up and I found her.
I don't even remember what I typed in, but I was like, you at C-Drama, like I'm looking up on TikTok and I found it.And it was basically her just giving her two cents about me and an argument that me and Alex had had.
And I didn't give a fuck about it.I didn't care about it.
But what bugs me about it was the fact that she was so persistent.I feel like she was trying to get a reaction out of me.
And when she did not get the reaction that she wanted out of me, she was kind of like, like, I feel like like, what is the point if you're going to make a video about me?Cool.I don't give a fuck.Do what you got to do.
But the fact that she came up to me and wanted it to be known, like, I made a video about you, like talking about you.And it went viral. And I was just like, what?I was a bitch.I don't give a fuck.Like people make videos about me all the time.
And the video was still up?
Yes, the video is still up to this day.
At that point, it's like literally what is the point?
Yes.Like it was just giving very much like she wanted a reaction out of me vibes.But that was it.She.Oh, and oh, my God, this was so fucking annoying, too, from that night when she was telling me about the video.
She was just like, yeah, I went viral, but I don't watch you.I don't know anything about you.Like, I don't know nothing about like she had to make it known that she was like, I don't follow you.Like, I don't even know what you do.
I don't know anything about you.Like she had to make that known.Like I feel like that was giving cringy vibes, like you're here talking to me.You know my name.You know my face.
You're talking about me, you know, but it was giving me such an ache that she was like, yeah, I don't know.You don't follow.You don't know anything about you.But I did make a video that went viral and I was just Oh, you want a high five?
You want to come over to my house?
And bitch, to make this so much worse, Ay se acabo.Again, I didn't even know her name.I had to like figure it out on my own.Ay se quedo the drama.I was like, I'm never going to see this bitch again.This world is so big.Bye.Oh my God, Louis.
I ended up going to a show with my friends and there she was in my group of friends.And I was like, I was like, ah, like I literally was like, oh my God.And I remember I pulled Alex to the side.I was like, Alex, come here.
And I was like, that's the girl that like told me all this shit when I was borracha vibes.Like the girl that said she made a video about me.I fucking said it.And I was heated because I was just like, who the fuck is this bitch?
Like why is she with my friends?
Why is she with my friends?And it turned out that she was kind of like familiar relatives with one of my close friends.So I was like, oh my God, so what the fuck is she doing here?
So then I tell my friends, my mom friends, I was like, girls, this is what's going on.Like, and this is how I feel about it.And all my friends were like, you know, like having my backpipes.
But I was like, let's not make a big scene, but I don't feel comfortable.I feel actually very uncomfortable because I don't know like her intentions.I don't know if she's going to be recording me from word cloud.
Like what if she's going to make more videos about me?Like I felt so uncomfortable.And I told my all my friends about it.Like I feel really uncomfortable, but I tried not making like a big deal about it.
So the whole night, me and the girl, because she was in my circle of friends, we kind of didn't talk. The whole night, I think we said hi to each other, but it was so fucking awkward.Like it was very awkward.
And you could tell that she was being extra awkward with me.Like, I don't know if her head was like, maybe she doesn't remember what I told her or I don't know, but she just kind of like kept side-eyeing me the whole night.It was very awkward.
And to make matters worse, I ran into her like another three or four times because she was in the same group of my friends. And I think one of the times I texted you and I told you like, hey, and I was like, I'm getting anxious.
Yeah, I was like, I'm getting anxious because of this girl.Like, I don't know her intentions, but I feel really uncomfortable.Like, am I exaggerating?Like, I just don't feel good.
I think you told me like it's okay like don't make a big deal like, you know, it's probably just it's just in her own head, you know, but it was so awkward that I have I had to keep running into this person and me not knowing like their true intentions and it was just so fucking awkward and to this day I feel like
Every time I see her, I just kind of have my guard up because I don't, I honestly don't know.And I, we never had a conversation after like the whole thing happened.We never had a convo about anything.It's just always been super fucking awkward.
Yeah, that's really awkward and I feel like it's it makes it more awkward because one you guys don't know each other and Two like the way that she came up to you and try to make it known and like I feel like I would Have been like, okay, you know what just sweep it under the rug and like you don't have to be besties But you know keep it cute and cordial, but the fact that like the video still up then yeah, it's like what the fuck is intention then yeah, and
It's just that to me that's so crazy.
It's like you're just sitting there making videos Like imagine like making a random video about somebody that you don't know you give your two cents Your opinion that nobody asked for right and then you randomly run into them.
It's more like choose a side, right?Like okay, you made this video you kept it up.You wanted to say whatever you said and Then stick to those opinions and don't talk to me.
Don't come up because you don't know me.You don't know my name.You don't know anything about me.You don't give a fuck about anything about me.
Stick to your opinions and stay over there.
You're in a position where you're like in that awkward like I don't want to say hi to you because I don't know you either.But then she came up to you to like make it known. Like didn't take down the video or apologize.
Yes.Like, OK, if she would have never ever came up to me and told me about her little video, I would have never known about it.I would have never seen it.And she could have like kept it cute and quiet to herself.
Those are my opinions.I mean, just stay over here.
Yeah.And like, you know, and me and her could have been like, hey, cool, whatever.Maybe we could have even like talked and she would have been like, oh, shit, I gave my opinion where it wasn't needed.And she's actually a cool person, you know.
Or I really don't fucking like this bitch.
Yeah.Or she stay all the way over here.Or she could be like, fuck this hoe, whatever.It's her opinion.But it just I don't know.It's just like a giant ick to me.
And it was I don't know.And I just hate the fact that I kept running into her over and over.But I haven't seen her in a while and I hope I don't.
It's so awkward yeah, and I also I feel like I hate this about myself too cuz like I always give people the I never I don't like to start a necessary drama or beef or anything But like even with this with this guy Like I feel like any other person like what I what he did and the video and everything any other person would be like big
Right to me like bitch the fact that I was like hugged him.I hugged it out.I was just like, you know, it's okay I accept your apology.Thank you for talking.
I literally told I was like, thank you for talking to me about it I was like and I told him I was it's not the best place I would have liked to I was like, but realistically we don't know each other outside of like our friends So when was I ever gonna see him again?
Right?So it kind of had to happen right there and then but I Yeah, I mean, like on my end, like I feel like it's still very cordial, still will continue to be cordial, but with you it's more like, bitch, what was the whole point of that?
Choose a side.I just, I will not get over the fact that she had to make it known to me what she did.I'm just like, you should have just kept it to yourself, babe.And we could have probably been better off.
It was probably her, her guilt.
Why does Alex always hit himself?
It was probably her guilt, but that's all I'm saying like she was a side because if it was her guilt That's where she would come up and be like, hey I feel like she made this video and delete the video and move on move on and like maybe Talk again.
I mean you guys don't need to because you guys don't fucking know each other but like yeah There's like I just feel like she never thought we were gonna run into each other the way that we did So I feel like after we did constantly keep running into each other.
She probably felt awkward as fuck like oh
You know, well, that's our little events.
Yeah, that was a good little venting moment.I know if I can not expect to talk about we're all talking about brujas and goes for the last like 40 days.
Yeah, we got to talk shit.I had to talk about drama.
If you guys ever have some drama that you wanna squash or anything, I always try to remind myself about time and place.And I know sometimes things can be really frustrating when someone's talking shit about you.
So try to just contain yourself and try to talk it out.And yes, not everything is gonna maybe turn out the best way, but at least what needed to be said was said and you guys can move your own separate ways or just keep it cordial and keep it cute.
Yeah, I never like to resort to like big.
No, it's because most of the time it's one sided.Right.And that's why it's like there's no need to be like big.
Don't like add more fucking.Como se dice?
Fuel to the fire.Like if they want to fight in their own little head and they want to have problems that are one sided, let them.
Like if it was if it's obviously very different.If like I have beef with a bitch and the bitch has beef with me, then I'll At that point, yes, there is no keep it cute, keep it demure.
At that point, it's just like, bitch, put up a butt and be like, bitch.But for most of these things, and I feel like a lot of y'all probably deal with this shit, because I dealt with a lot with this shit at school, too.It's one sided shit.
Yeah, we should have a wrestling match, Louis.
We host people.We should do one where you guys send in your dramas. And we can give you advice.That'd be a good one.
Y'all could be like, so this bitch slept with my man.I'm just kidding.
Oh my God, that would be a good one.I don't know.Do it, do it.Sleep with your host.
But yeah.And then also don't let people burn your little light of good energy.If you're sensing that bad energy, shoo them away because you don't need that shit in your life.
But thank you guys for listening to today's little juicy ass episode.
And we'll see you guys in 2026. Bitch!
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