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Episode: Melissa McCarthy & Ben Falcone

Author: Armchair Umbrella
Duration: 02:04:06

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Melissa McCarthy and Ben Falcone (Hildy the Barback and the Lake of Fire) are actors, comedians, and writers. Melissa and Ben join the Armchair Expert to discuss why they showed up in medieval costumes, having sleepovers with Glenn Close, and tickle parties. Melissa, Ben, and Dax talk about their clandestine

relationship early on, how they deal with comedy comparison, and getting fired from CPK. Melissa and Ben explain the benefits of working with your spouse, how much they love flipping houses, and how they’ve maintained their appetites to keep creating.Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery App or wherever you get your podcasts. Watch new content on YouTube or listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/armchair-expert-with-dax-shepard/ now.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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In this episode of 'Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard,' Melissa McCarthy and Ben Falcone explore humorous and personal anecdotes, such as wearing medieval costumes and unique relationships. They reveal stories of sleepovers with Glenn Close, tickle parties, and their secretive early relationship. The podcast delves into their collaborative work dynamics as a couple, their passion for flipping houses, and Ben's experience at California Pizza Kitchen. They discuss personal growth, fighting societal stereotypes, and the importance of humor in everyday life, celebrating their marriage and creative partnership.

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00:00:00 Speaker_09
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00:00:16 Speaker_09
I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Lily Padman. And we have returning Melissa McCarthy, but now very exciting. One of my oldest friends in LA, Ben Falcone.

00:00:28 Speaker_13
Yes, the duo.

00:00:29 Speaker_09
Ben has been more and more in my life now.

00:00:32 Speaker_13
He's lovely.

00:00:32 Speaker_09
And I just like it so much. I'm reminded of what a sweet boy Ben Falcone is.

00:00:39 Speaker_13
You'll hear he's a little bit of a fraidy cat and it's really cute.

00:00:42 Speaker_09
Yeah. You know what I wish he had done is brought his guitar, sang and played for you. He has the most beautiful voice and he's a great guitar player. And a lot of his sketches were seen and they were so good. Oh my God.

00:00:54 Speaker_09
He and I wrote a song once called Kaleidoscope, and we would spell out the whole thing. Okay, Melissa McCarthy, of course, Bridesmaids, Gilmore Girls, Spy, Ben, Bridesmaids, Tammy. He directed four or five of their movies together.

00:01:08 Speaker_09
And they have a new podcast called Hildy, the Barback, and the Lake of Fire. It's so fun. Comedic Game of Thrones scripted podcast. Very well done. Very funny. So everyone check out Hildy, the bar back in the Lake of Fire.

00:01:25 Speaker_09
Please enjoy Melissa McCarthy and Ben Falcone. Ben, you as well, this is a very cute look for you.

00:01:50 Speaker_03
Oh, thank you very much.

00:01:51 Speaker_09
Don't you agree?

00:01:53 Speaker_05
I'm kind of crazy about it. Yeah.

00:01:56 Speaker_09
It's shocking to me you haven't been cast in a period piece. Well, there's still time. There's still time. And McCarthy, you look beautiful, right? Well, thanks. I said to Melissa, really quick, do you call her McCarthy mostly?

00:02:08 Speaker_09
I call her McCarthy or Mooch.

00:02:09 Speaker_05
He's called Mooch for 20 some years. I did not think my betrothed would be like, hey Mooch. When did I become like a Milwaukee bowler?

00:02:21 Speaker_03
Her habit, though, is we could be talking for 25 minutes. And then the minute I leave, I'm like, OK, I'm going to go use the restroom, whatever I'm going to do. Hey, Ben! That's when she remembers.

00:02:31 Speaker_05
I'd like to say that's not true, but it's like 100% true. The second he's walked away, oh, hey, Ben! Hey, Ben!

00:02:39 Speaker_09
And your nickname for Ben is Ban.

00:02:41 Speaker_05
Ban. Ban.

00:02:42 Speaker_09
Ban. Yeah, I'll say Belle a lot, too, because it's shortest. And also, where I grew up, everyone went by last names. That's how you knew you were a really good friend. Did you guys do that? I did.

00:02:55 Speaker_05
No, nobody has ever really called me That's difficult to do with a lady nail.

00:03:00 Speaker_13
Yeah, you have pretty lady nails on.

00:03:03 Speaker_09
And a really long, what is that thing?

00:03:06 Speaker_05
It's just finger jewelry, Dad.

00:03:07 Speaker_09
Oh my God.

00:03:08 Speaker_05
I mean, your basic stuff.

00:03:10 Speaker_09
Also Amazon, or that's from a real collection?

00:03:13 Speaker_05
This is real. Everything on me, I'm probably hiving under this. I'll talk to you by basis, really.

00:03:19 Speaker_09
You guys are going to be rubbing salve cortisone on each other tonight.

00:03:23 Speaker_05
So much I'll be like, I don't know what that bump is.

00:03:26 Speaker_09
That's definitely irritated. Tell me it's not a boil, Bayon.

00:03:31 Speaker_13
Bayon.

00:03:32 Speaker_10
Bayon.

00:03:33 Speaker_13
For people who are only listening, you should give a context of what's happening.

00:03:36 Speaker_09
Oh, yes, yes. So Ben and Melissa came adorned in, I guess, medieval, middle ages.

00:03:42 Speaker_05
Yeah. Garb.

00:03:44 Speaker_09
Yeah. And I got to say right out of the gates, I thought for sure yours, McCarthy, you had spent a fortune on. Because it looks couture. It really does.

00:03:52 Speaker_05
It looks really nice. I mean, it's like you put enough random pieces together and you just might get something.

00:03:58 Speaker_09
You've kind of piecemealed this.

00:04:00 Speaker_05
This is like one body suit over another. It's like I'm wearing Dua. It's hard. Wow. And just in my, I guess, crotch panel.

00:04:09 Speaker_10
Crotch place.

00:04:10 Speaker_05
Just to keep it more classy.

00:04:11 Speaker_09
Yeah. And protected. Those middle ages, they were coming hard for this. Yeah, they were coming after the crotch.

00:04:17 Speaker_05
This area was in danger.

00:04:19 Speaker_09
So Melissa, I don't even know how I would verbally describe this, but you're in kind of faux chain mail with fluorescent under scaling.

00:04:27 Speaker_05
It's a lime green unitard.

00:04:30 Speaker_09
Uh-huh.

00:04:30 Speaker_05
And then over that I've put in my head was supposed to look like dragon. Yes, it looks like dragon. Dragon. Scales. Scales. And then finger bedobbles.

00:04:39 Speaker_09
And nice leather shoulder plates. It's really true. A big cross section of leather across the breasts.

00:04:44 Speaker_05
So it's medieval with like a whisper of gimp.

00:04:48 Speaker_09
Yes, it really does look like the famous gimp outfit. Much more artistically. Thank you, thank you. That's what I was going for. You look like a learned man from the Middle Ages.

00:04:58 Speaker_03
Yeah, I should have like a pipe and a big book.

00:05:00 Speaker_09
Yeah, you can read and you're good with letters and papaya.

00:05:04 Speaker_04
Papaya.

00:05:06 Speaker_10
I meant papayas.

00:05:08 Speaker_09
I thought you were just going, he likes fruit.

00:05:10 Speaker_05
Dax always kind of distinguishes personalities by fruit. Specific fruit moments.

00:05:15 Speaker_09
You know McCarthy, she's a real banana. That's what I'd say about you. I wouldn't if I had to pick a specific... What would you?

00:05:21 Speaker_13
Now this is a fun game.

00:05:23 Speaker_09
Kiwi.

00:05:24 Speaker_13
I'm a kiwi or you're a kiwi?

00:05:25 Speaker_09
You're a kiwi.

00:05:26 Speaker_05
I'm a kiwi.

00:05:26 Speaker_09
Yeah, yeah. No. Well, I said that because that's my favorite fruit. It's so sweet and yummy, but also mild. It's a milder fruit. It is a milder fruit. It is, right?

00:05:38 Speaker_05
Also, I just watched something where someone's like, oh, you're missing out. You should be eating the outside too. And I was like, no.

00:05:44 Speaker_03
I don't think so. Absolutely not.

00:05:46 Speaker_05
No, but they were like, you're missing all this good.

00:05:48 Speaker_03
I'm like, I'm not eating fur.

00:05:49 Speaker_13
Also, did you have a sketch somewhere that you said a big hit at Kiwi? Because our friend Jess says that all the time. And I believe it's you.

00:05:59 Speaker_10
Well, their friend Jess as well. Ding, ding, ding. Giant Jess.

00:06:03 Speaker_05
Giant called Jess. We just saw him not too long ago.

00:06:07 Speaker_09
Affectionately known as Giant Jess.

00:06:08 Speaker_05
He's a banana. Yeah.

00:06:09 Speaker_09
Is he a banana?

00:06:13 Speaker_11
With that height. No, I don't see Mr. Pickles.

00:06:17 Speaker_09
No, he's a carrot.

00:06:18 Speaker_12
Well, that's not a fruit at all.

00:06:19 Speaker_09
You're right. With the red. This is embarrassing. Wow. It's really easy to get it wrong in this game. I feel like people are going to be offended by whatever you say.

00:06:27 Speaker_05
I suggest it could be a pineapple. Oh, I like that. Crickly? No, a plume. Yes, a plume on top.

00:06:34 Speaker_03
And pineapple's delicious. Very.

00:06:36 Speaker_05
Oh, by the way, Ben eats people. I could not think of the word cannibal to save my life. So I was like, he does that thing where people eat other, you know when people eat people? I don't even remember where I was. Cannibalism.

00:06:50 Speaker_09
Cannibalism. Okay, all this is because you guys have a podcast, which is, well, let's me just start by saying it's interesting that you got into the podcast space in the hardest possible way to do it, which is.

00:07:03 Speaker_03
That's our way, Dad.

00:07:04 Speaker_05
Fully scripted. Oh, it's a terrible idea.

00:07:07 Speaker_09
So hard. Super produced, incredibly well done, I'll add. I keep thinking I'm bumping into something and it's my horns are squeaking on my head. I don't know how long I can go with the horns. I'm going to have head hives for sure. Oh, yeah.

00:07:21 Speaker_09
I just have a big line of sweat across the table there for a second. OK, but yeah, the amount of work on your plate is hefty for this. Yeah.

00:07:30 Speaker_05
Super high work effort.

00:07:32 Speaker_03
Cost us a good little bit. Hard to break even.

00:07:34 Speaker_05
We're the studio. No one's part of it. Just us.

00:07:36 Speaker_03
Sure, sure, sure.

00:07:37 Speaker_05
Really wrote something that is incredibly visual, but you'll never see it. stack that deck up and you're like, wow, we're like two wrongs don't make it right.

00:07:47 Speaker_03
But what about like six?

00:07:50 Speaker_05
It was so poorly done.

00:07:54 Speaker_09
I actually think it's fantastic, but it's just so much work.

00:07:57 Speaker_05
What was really shocking is that just we kept asking people to do it. We were like, will we even get through the explanation? And then it was pretty shocking when people were like, oh, yeah.

00:08:07 Speaker_09
Who are you most nervous to approach? Because you have Glenn Close. That one seemed really nerve wracking to explain what this would be to her.

00:08:15 Speaker_05
She's so funny and loves like a weird thing. So I was like, I think this might be right and close as we all know.

00:08:21 Speaker_03
What was interesting was you're out of town. So you zoomed in and said hi. I have met Glenn a couple times just at functions and stuff. But at first it was we have a very quick VO for you to do. And then I

00:08:30 Speaker_03
And I was like, what if she actually wants to do something fun? So that morning I went in super early and wrote five pages. So her stuff gets more and more and it develops with Octavia as it goes.

00:08:40 Speaker_03
But what I found was I was so glad I did because she really wanted to do more.

00:08:45 Speaker_09
She's incredible. I don't want to say anyone's the best part, but I was like, wow, she fucking brought it for this. And then I assumed you guys are super close. You're not.

00:08:54 Speaker_05
We have not worked together. We're trying to work together, but we've known each other for years. A crossroads in my life. She was in town. We were going to go out to dinner and we're talking about two different things.

00:09:04 Speaker_05
And then before we got off the phone, after we said, oh, let's have dinner tonight. And she's like, can I stay over tonight? I leave in the morning. And I was like, yes, you can.

00:09:11 Speaker_07
Yes, you can. And I literally was like, let's sleep over.

00:09:18 Speaker_03
And I was in Australia, so jealous.

00:09:20 Speaker_05
I was like a little bit out of body.

00:09:22 Speaker_09
Just the two of you? Were you with the kids? I was with the kids, yeah. It was just you two in the home.

00:09:26 Speaker_05
And I was like, absolutely, you can. At any moment with no advance notice, Glenn can sleep at my house.

00:09:32 Speaker_09
Here's the key to the home. Feel free to use it or not. So first you guys went out to dinner and it was a fun dinner.

00:09:37 Speaker_05
Fun dinner.

00:09:38 Speaker_09
Cocktails. Everyone's relaxed.

00:09:41 Speaker_05
Super relaxed. She's really funny. We're talking about all this stuff, going off on random stories. Great dinner. And then we got in Jammies and said good night.

00:09:49 Speaker_09
It was wonderful. Okay, so no post-dinner in Jammies. Was there any TV or anything?

00:09:55 Speaker_12
No, there wasn't, because we got home pretty late and she was leaving really early in the morning. Okay. Jax always thinks when girls have sleepovers, they fuck.

00:10:04 Speaker_05
That's what this was for. I thought pillow fight was gonna be said. I didn't anticipate.

00:10:09 Speaker_09
Well, that's obviously one of the stepping stones en route to the ultimate. What if you'd have got the call from McCarthy and she said, Ben, I did fuck Miss Close last night. I need you to know this. I'd be like, all right. Yeah. I'd be like, I get it.

00:10:24 Speaker_10
I'd be like, yeah, she's wonderful.

00:10:27 Speaker_05
But I always want to know, where did that start with, like, tickle party and, like, pillow fight? I'm like, never in my life.

00:10:33 Speaker_05
The only time I've probably hit someone with a pillow was, like, my sister and I fighting, and I was like, I'm going to fucking knock your block off. Yeah, yeah. Like, it wasn't like, it's not flirty.

00:10:41 Speaker_05
Yeah, and I've never, to my knowledge, tickled one of my friends.

00:10:45 Speaker_09
Well, we know where it came from. It came from movies that guys wrote. Yeah, like Animal House or whatever. What they dreamed was happening.

00:10:51 Speaker_05
That's my question. Why is that like, man, I'd love to see her tickle her.

00:10:56 Speaker_04
Oh!

00:10:57 Speaker_09
Oh! Look at her tickling her. Pick up the pillow. Oh my God, he's gonna hit her with the pillow. Oh my God. Hit her so soft and hard with the pillow.

00:11:05 Speaker_04
Oh, God.

00:11:06 Speaker_09
Hit her soft and hard, but then too soft. And then... It was soft. It was soft. She doesn't like it. Gail doesn't like it.

00:11:13 Speaker_07
She wants more, harder. Oh, Gail. No.

00:11:15 Speaker_10
I want Dax to write that full scene. If I wrote an entire movie, it takes place at a pillow fight.

00:11:22 Speaker_05
And it's just one escalating tickle pillow fight. But then there's a danger element, because one of the women has a foam pillow, so it's just more wet.

00:11:29 Speaker_09
Yes, without one that's the Hypoalgaeic member of the crew.

00:11:32 Speaker_05
I'm waiting to get this script.

00:11:34 Speaker_09
Okay. I do have you playing a very pivotal role.

00:11:37 Speaker_05
Am I the pillow?

00:11:40 Speaker_09
Is there a thing about Glenn that you kind of latched on to that you like about her? Or is she mentor-y to you?

00:11:47 Speaker_05
She has never taken a wrong turn, and she has such a long career. And I remember seeing Dangerous Liaisons. She broke my brain. There's that moment toward the end when she stands up and she gets like jeered by the audience. Before you could do CGI stuff,

00:12:02 Speaker_05
You see her through her white makeup, her cheeks really flush red and it's on camera, which means she started in one thing and then fully flush red within the take.

00:12:13 Speaker_05
And I remember being like, not scared me, but I just couldn't conceive of your emotions being so powerful that it's physical. I latched onto that of something to strive for, that you're so in it in reality that it's coming out physically.

00:12:27 Speaker_09
Yeah, because you can fake crying a bit. There can be, what do they put in, menthol?

00:12:31 Speaker_03
Yeah, menthol and stuff. Glycerin stuff.

00:12:33 Speaker_09
And presumably people can just start crying. But yeah, making your cheeks flush, that would be better than wiggling your ears. That'd be crazy control.

00:12:41 Speaker_05
It's crazy control and then crazy out of control all at the same time.

00:12:45 Speaker_09
Octavia is an easy pitch. We had Octavia since we've had you, and it was so much fun. Who met Octavia first? You did, yeah, Melissa?

00:12:53 Speaker_05
We met her at the same time at Groundlings.

00:12:55 Speaker_09
Did you guys have early levels together?

00:12:57 Speaker_03
Yeah, we met in lab. So we were writing stuff, and Tate was in that class, and that's when we started seeing Octavia.

00:13:02 Speaker_05
Octavia would come to watch the shows when we were at the Groundlings, and her laugh was so infectious and crazy, because she does have the best laugh in the universe, that the shows would go better.

00:13:13 Speaker_05
And then we started getting panicky, and we would call Tate and be like, your friend's coming, right? I've got a new sketch to put in. So she started coming more and more and more.

00:13:22 Speaker_05
And when she was in the audience, she has such a big laugh, but it's not. It wasn't fake. It wasn't fake. And it just makes everyone else be like, oh, this is wonderful. So we were like stacking the deck.

00:13:31 Speaker_09
Yeah, she rises the whole tide. Yeah. Okay, so we all met, I'm not sure, since we never had classes together.

00:13:38 Speaker_03
It was like between levels, right? God, what year is that? This would have been mid to late 90s?

00:13:43 Speaker_09
I'm just wondering how we ended up all in a group together, yet I don't think I had had classes with anybody.

00:13:48 Speaker_05
I don't know. And what was it called? The Barry Foote something?

00:13:51 Speaker_03
No, we were the House of Floyd.

00:13:52 Speaker_05
Oh, House of Floyd.

00:13:53 Speaker_03
Weren't we the House of Floyd? Remember, we did a show at the Coronet Theater and we had to cancel a show because no one showed up.

00:13:59 Speaker_04
One guy showed up.

00:14:01 Speaker_05
And you guys made me go outside to tell him we can't do the show for one person.

00:14:05 Speaker_03
Because we were doing this artsy thing of like, well, there's one member of the audience. Do we need to do the show? And Melissa's like, no!

00:14:10 Speaker_05
Then I had to go out and tell him and he wasn't like, oh, I get it. He was like, well, this is ridiculous. That's a 300 seat audience and you're the only one who can't do it. He was so mad at me. Was it sketch or improv or both? Sketch.

00:14:23 Speaker_05
I think that was sketch. Yeah. I can't remember any sketches from that. Did you do your grocery guy?

00:14:29 Speaker_09
Yeah, we had a sketch where we found love. Yeah, you were the grocery guy and you were... You were doing samples. You were handing out samples.

00:14:37 Speaker_05
Weirdly, that's a chestnut I pulled out quite often. I have always been obsessed in real life with people handing out samples at a grocery store. And I think I've written like multiple sketches about it.

00:14:47 Speaker_12
Because why?

00:14:48 Speaker_05
What's their psychology? I like having surprise snacks. You're around the corner and someone's like, would you like to try this Colby cheese? I'm like, sure as shit would. Yeah. Or like a summer sausage thing.

00:14:59 Speaker_05
And you're like, I would like a piece of summer sausage.

00:15:01 Speaker_09
My dad's weekend was planned around going to Costco on the day where they had many, many samples. And he got in numerous fights with other people who were either trying to get too many samples or maybe he was trying to get too many samples.

00:15:14 Speaker_09
He was asked to stop coming to his Costco because he had been in so many dustups over the samples.

00:15:20 Speaker_05
See, we can connect.

00:15:21 Speaker_09
And I was visiting one time, he goes, let's go up to Costco.

00:15:23 Speaker_10
I'm going to bring you with me. I bet they'll let me in.

00:15:32 Speaker_03
Was this when you were sort of a celebrity person and that's when he was like, oh, you'll get me into Costco. He had been asked to not.

00:15:39 Speaker_05
Of all the wheels you want greased, it's like, can you get me into that Costco I'm banned? That's wonderful. That's pretty good.

00:15:46 Speaker_09
This is a fun opportunity for me to ask about your guys' original love affair because I was very much in the group. You guys had a secret love affair. Do you remember it being secret?

00:15:55 Speaker_02
Clandestine?

00:15:56 Speaker_03
It was fairly clandestine, especially you were right there when we just were starting to go out. Or not.

00:16:02 Speaker_05
Yeah, because it was that thing of we were all friends and then you didn't want to be like, well, maybe we've started smooching. We didn't know how to bring it up. And then what if we brought it up and then it went away? Yeah.

00:16:12 Speaker_05
And then I also thought, oh, my gosh, what if this doesn't work out? Ben's like my best friend. And what if this screws it up? And then Mike McDonald. He busted you or he busted us. He busted us at the snake pit. I think it's still there.

00:16:24 Speaker_05
Maybe on Melrose, but just to dive.

00:16:26 Speaker_09
That's where you went after class.

00:16:28 Speaker_05
We would always go there after class, and Mike McDonald, there's probably like 10 of us around a table, and just would not drop eye contact with me. And literally, he kept looking at Ben and then staring at me.

00:16:38 Speaker_05
And then he made some rather pornographic hand gestures. He did. And he said, I know. And I was like, I don't know what you're talking about.

00:16:46 Speaker_09
He cornered you.

00:16:46 Speaker_05
No, he never moved from the table. So it's like everybody's talking and he's just like... And I was like, no, I'm not talking to you. And he's like, I know. Cat's out of the bag. Cat's out of the bag.

00:16:55 Speaker_09
Cat's out of the bag, guys. So you've been married for 19 years, but you were together for how long?

00:17:00 Speaker_05
19 to... Tonight.

00:17:01 Speaker_09
Tomorrow.

00:17:02 Speaker_05
Oh my gosh, congratulations.

00:17:04 Speaker_09
Tonight is the only anniversary that came in the evening. Wait, tomorrow's your anniversary? Yeah, 19 years. Of wedding? Of wedding, yeah. We might have a same anniversary, or if not, really close. I'm not sure on our date, but I know it's October.

00:17:18 Speaker_03
And how many years? 11 married. We've been together, what, 26? Yeah, we dated a while before that.

00:17:23 Speaker_02
Were you guys, like, writing sketches at your house, and then... Here we go. A hand, you know, there's like, oh, my pen, I dropped it. Oh, wow.

00:17:30 Speaker_03
So you're writing your own version of Dax's pillow stuff.

00:17:33 Speaker_02
Are you going to do a pillow fight scenario?

00:17:37 Speaker_03
Tickling each other.

00:17:38 Speaker_05
We tickled our way into two children.

00:17:41 Speaker_13
Speaking of tickling, because you did ask, why is that hot? I kind of get why tickling is hot. Oh, tell me. Because it's like that loss of control. Oh, OK. A little bit adjacent.

00:17:53 Speaker_09
Tickling is orgasm adjacent. If someone's truly tickling you, you can't do anything but be tickled.

00:17:59 Speaker_05
Let's try that today. Give it a whirl. Ben just blacks out. Ooh, that went, that did not go as planned.

00:18:08 Speaker_09
You have your special feather that you got off of Amazon. You know, I wonder if people have ever tried to coordinate that.

00:18:13 Speaker_12
Well, David Ferrier's movie Tickled, incredible documentary. No, no, but I've heard about it. It's creepy.

00:18:21 Speaker_09
The premise was he noticed these videos online and the premise was like competitive tickling. And then he noticed, well, all the participants are 17 to 19 year old, very buff boys.

00:18:30 Speaker_09
So that's interesting that they're the only ones that are into this competitive tickling.

00:18:34 Speaker_05
You go to like a meet?

00:18:35 Speaker_09
You would have a tickle-off in a room. And he's like, something stinks here. And he started investigating. And it turns out there was this man in New York who was funding all this.

00:18:43 Speaker_09
And really, he just wanted videos of young athletic boys tickling each other. And then he spends a great deal of time tracking this man down. And he's, of course, very weird.

00:18:54 Speaker_09
And then he starts coming to the screenings of the movies once it gets to Sundance. And there's like a follow-up doc with the guy. Got sued a bunch of times.

00:19:02 Speaker_05
I always meant to watch that. I don't know how that came off the list. It's really good.

00:19:06 Speaker_09
It's really good, and it's so convoluted. I have some compassion for the guy, because he just wants to play around and tickle, but he couldn't allow himself, because he's older. Does he participate in the tickling?

00:19:16 Speaker_09
I think it's some weird corruption of having a secret. You know what I'm saying?

00:19:20 Speaker_09
Like, I think he would have liked to have been an openly gay guy in the 80s, and he came into all this money, and then I think not being able to live out that thing, it got obscured into this weird, that's how he could experience it.

00:19:33 Speaker_02
This makes me sad.

00:19:34 Speaker_09
It does, and he is a bad guy.

00:19:36 Speaker_13
You can be bad and- Good. No, you can be bad and you can have compassion, and sad, yeah.

00:19:42 Speaker_09
Okay, back to the writing sessions. Were you guys ever blurring the lines during writing sessions? I don't think during writing sessions. You guys kept it, really?

00:19:49 Speaker_03
Well, I was like, well, this sketch is very important.

00:19:54 Speaker_05
Also, I don't know if it really set the mood when one of us was like, I think I come in like this.

00:19:59 Speaker_07
No, we like this old man.

00:20:01 Speaker_05
What we were doing and what we visually looked like at Groundlings, the fact that somehow that stirred the pot is pretty amazing.

00:20:09 Speaker_09
But it was a hotbed for sexual tension, wasn't it? Oh my goodness, yes. I was so horny and tensed up in class. I think seeing women be hysterical was very hot.

00:20:23 Speaker_11
Yeah.

00:20:24 Speaker_09
I do.

00:20:24 Speaker_05
He was hot.

00:20:25 Speaker_09
Yeah, you're watching someone be great at the thing they're great at.

00:20:27 Speaker_05
Yeah, that's true. That's appealing.

00:20:29 Speaker_09
It's like, attractive. You've gotten out of the way all the normal embarrassment jitters you'd have.

00:20:33 Speaker_05
You've already hit rock bottom so fast. When you're in ill-fitting Dockers, you know, a tube top and a wig not unlike what Ben's wearing right now. Is that a page boy, I think?

00:20:43 Speaker_10
I think it's a page boy wig. I have the worst admission to make. I thought that was your real hair with a hat on over it, even though I just saw you in it. But now I'm realizing that.

00:20:54 Speaker_03
No, that's it. And in fact. You're so hot. It's so hot. I gotta take this wig off in a second. No, I love doing it with you.

00:21:03 Speaker_05
I love that it's like a Tony Tennille. Just a little cup under.

00:21:07 Speaker_09
What's a Tony Tennille?

00:21:08 Speaker_05
Captain Tennille.

00:21:09 Speaker_09
Captain Tennille, okay.

00:21:11 Speaker_05
Just kind of keeping it current.

00:21:12 Speaker_09
OK, so no fornication during the writing sessions. And then it all came out. I do remember learning as a group, but everyone was so excited. That was my recollection when we found out you were lovers. Yeah.

00:21:23 Speaker_09
Oh, when you love two people in a group and then they fall in love with each other. Yeah. There's that old sort of saying, like, don't date people you work with or whatever.

00:21:31 Speaker_03
I think it's don't shit with me. Yeah.

00:21:33 Speaker_07
So I said, I don't know why you're waking it up right now.

00:21:36 Speaker_03
You know what I did first? But I think that's an unhealthy thing to tell people because where are you supposed to go? Where am I supposed to shit?

00:21:44 Speaker_10
If I live and work in a sexual toilet, riddle me this. I'm so sweaty. Let's get it on. Let's get it on. What was the last interview of your life? The fitting end. I do have to say, what a way to go. We started it together and now we're done.

00:22:12 Speaker_05
That's how he came in, just like, and then he died.

00:22:15 Speaker_09
And then he died. He never was there for the Peabody Award that he'll be the bartender on. Oh, God. Okay. So I want to talk about the fun mutual ride you guys have taken together because it's just very unique.

00:22:29 Speaker_09
Are you aware of the other couples that came before you? There's like Dizzy and Desi and there's not a bunch. Shepard and Belle. Also members of the shit we're eat

00:22:47 Speaker_07
We got into some sexual shit eating, as I recall.

00:22:51 Speaker_09
Maybe that should be our club we create together. Shit-wear-y club.

00:22:54 Speaker_05
I'll make beautiful velvet jackets. Keep it classy. I don't think we ever thought about it. What's really weird is people, they don't anymore, but literally for like the first 15 years, they're like, oh God, how can you work with your husband?

00:23:08 Speaker_05
Which also just always said so much about the interviewer. Over a decade of like, Really? I mean, you say it's fun, but it has to be excruciating. And I'm like, I'm so sorry your life is so shitty.

00:23:19 Speaker_03
How many times have you walked off set?

00:23:22 Speaker_09
Zero. They haven't been directing those things, and the director's not allowed to walk off. It's more an extra freedom to pitch a fit.

00:23:30 Speaker_05
Speaking of Belle, when it was for The Boss, literally every single interviewer was like, who's the boss between you two?

00:23:38 Speaker_03
Oh, every time. Every single question. You know how junkets can be, and just to get the same question. And they wanted us so badly to say, I fucking hate her. That is what they wanted. And I wouldn't do it because I don't.

00:23:53 Speaker_03
And so I'd be like, well, the boss is our kids. And they'd be like, OK, next. Yeah.

00:23:58 Speaker_05
Yeah. They wanted. By the way, we're not even really fucking married. This is all a sham. Your children are actors. Do you get that?

00:24:06 Speaker_09
Yeah, yeah, we've had a fair deal of that. But so much of it for me has been where my own self-esteem is at when I'm hearing the question. Like, if I'm being dead honest.

00:24:15 Speaker_09
I used to go on talk shows and they would want to talk about Kristen the whole time. And in my insecure mind, I'd be like, yeah, because they'd way rather be talking to her.

00:24:22 Speaker_09
And now that I don't feel that way, I'm like, no, that's all you have to talk about. She goes and talks about me and then I go on places and talk about her. And that's just what it is. There's nothing going on beyond that.

00:24:32 Speaker_09
But there were periods where my insecurity, I would really hear the 12 questions throughout the press junket that confirm what I was afraid people thought.

00:24:41 Speaker_03
Which is that you're a big nothing and she's great.

00:24:43 Speaker_09
She's a big star and I'm a loser. Sure. And if she's in my thing, she's doing me a favor. If I'm in her thing, she's doing me a favor.

00:24:53 Speaker_11
She's yelling out a lot of favors.

00:24:54 Speaker_09
Yeah. Yeah. It's just a one way favor street.

00:24:58 Speaker_03
Do you have any of that? Sure. I don't know. I think it just is always rooting for McCarthy. And we struggled a lot to start in those times, those spicy times that Monica wishes we had a few more stories about. I had no money.

00:25:12 Speaker_03
I'd go to her house and like awkwardly hang around. And then she'd be like, Oh, I have a sandwich. And I'd be like, Oh, Cool, that's so weird. I mean, I'll have it, I wouldn't even, but. I'm gonna eat it to be polite, all of it.

00:25:24 Speaker_03
I'm gonna be polite, and also I haven't eaten since yesterday, so.

00:25:27 Speaker_05
It's nice to start when you're both kind of struggling, and you build together.

00:25:30 Speaker_03
You know, though, I do remember, so there was one time, early in our relationship, one thing that's great about Melissa is she, way earlier than me, like if I pointed something out, a little constructive criticism, instead of just being like, hey, fuck off, she would be like,

00:25:44 Speaker_03
OK, if she thought it had merit.

00:25:46 Speaker_02
Yeah.

00:25:47 Speaker_03
And I was like, wow, she takes the note instead of just getting defensive, which is what most people that I knew in our 20s would all do. Like, fuck you, you don't know. You'd be like, I don't know. What am I doing?

00:25:56 Speaker_03
But I remember I was like, you don't get it. If you were in a lower place, like where I am in my career, you'd understand.

00:26:01 Speaker_03
And I think she said, well, why on earth would you root for me to get to a place that's harder in my career rather than rooting for yourself to get to a better place? So I, for once, took the note. I was like,

00:26:12 Speaker_03
Oh, and so early on, I was like, who knows what's going to happen with any of us at any point. If you love the person, you love the person and you're rooting from the whole time.

00:26:19 Speaker_09
Yeah. I'm guessing now. Melissa was so close your ears. Melissa was so way out in front of everybody comedically. There is an objectivity to how we all met where I never had any problem rooting for.

00:26:35 Speaker_09
I had no illusions in my mind I was as good as Melissa and that I should be somewhere Melissa was.

00:26:42 Speaker_03
I agree with you. There were only a few people that could do stuff that she could do and in all the different ways that she could do it.

00:26:48 Speaker_03
I had no doubts that I, myself or yourself or lots of us could go on stage and do stuff that really would work and really would be great.

00:26:54 Speaker_03
But in terms of someone who is just at that next other level, someone that's just going to make an audience go kind of batshit crazy in a great way.

00:27:02 Speaker_03
I thought I could maybe help write those things, but I didn't ever think I could execute him as a performer.

00:27:06 Speaker_09
Totally. If you and I had a sketch together, we had a pretty good sense that it was going to be three minutes.

00:27:11 Speaker_03
Yeah.

00:27:11 Speaker_09
If Melissa had a sketch that on paper was two minutes, it might be nine and a half. Right, depending on how it goes. She might get that fervor going in the audience and all hell might break loose.

00:27:20 Speaker_03
I was there in the back when she broke her nose on stage trying to make a balloon pop. You ended up doing it on SNL, the sketch where you got all the balloons. I forget who you ended up hitting on in SNL. Sudeikis? Yeah, it was Sudeikis.

00:27:31 Speaker_03
But she did it at Groundlings first. You can't pop my little balloons, guys. Yeah, and she tried to pop it and she was like... I learned that on stage. The audience was going crazy because they saw that she couldn't do it. Yes!

00:27:38 Speaker_03
And they knew how bad she wanted to do it. And so she would get more and more air.

00:27:42 Speaker_05
Whoa! Bang! Whoa! And then I was finally I was holding in front of my chest and I just started repeatedly Slamming my chest down and then I was now into the 35 36 37.

00:27:54 Speaker_05
I'm diving on it Oh my god, and then finally I slammed myself down face first and it did pop my head and I was like, oh I'm blacking out

00:28:07 Speaker_03
And meanwhile, I was not directing that show. I was there just because I had time and I wanted to go see it was previews, maybe. And so I was in the back.

00:28:13 Speaker_03
And even though I wasn't the director, I was like, turn the lights off because I knew she was in danger. Blood was next. But I guarantee you, if I had somehow managed to make it happen, she would have never forgiven me.

00:28:25 Speaker_05
Was there blood no, but some kind of weird liquid which I don't know where that's from Blood so I thought oh my god, this is gonna be scaring people. But once I got to the mirror, it was just all clear Like saliva poured out here. Yeah

00:28:42 Speaker_05
but like a cup of it. And people were still laughing. I know, is it brain matter? And I was like, boy, they're clapping, but I'm covered in blood. But it wasn't blood. I went to see a plastic surgeon just to be like, do I need to reset it?

00:28:52 Speaker_05
And he asked me how I did it. And then he just was like, excuse me. And he brought in like two or three of his nurses. He's like, will you explain what you did again? And I was like, well, this just seems like it's entertaining to me. This isn't medical.

00:29:04 Speaker_05
And he's like, oh, it's not medical at all.

00:29:07 Speaker_09
I just wanted to get the story right, and I'm not the best at repeating stories, so... They were just like, God, that's the dumbest thing we've ever heard. And for me, too, that weirdly has been helpful with Belle. I can't sing.

00:29:17 Speaker_09
I don't look like... Well, she's not a human.

00:29:19 Speaker_05
No, she's got too many things she does wrong.

00:29:21 Speaker_09
I'm fine with her lane, and I know I have no place in that lane.

00:29:25 Speaker_05
But everybody has their own lane.

00:29:27 Speaker_09
Yeah, yeah. I would take pride in the fact that I was a writer. I'm like, well, I'm a writer. That's something I value a lot, when I would think about what my lane is.

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00:31:48 Speaker_03
When you hopefully get on a way to a better spot, that is when you're able to be objective and say, oh my gosh, she's amazing at that. Oh my gosh, she's so good at that.

00:31:56 Speaker_03
And not to say you could never get better, but I'm never going to be a great piano player. There's certain things that you're like, and that's okay.

00:32:03 Speaker_09
When you're young, you want all the things. You're watching Glenn Close in that thing. And you're like, well, I need to do that as well.

00:32:08 Speaker_05
I think there's a thing coming up when you watch everybody and you so admire it, but also you're like, I guess I have to be able to do all of it. Which is just not how it works.

00:32:16 Speaker_05
And I think with the little age and experience, you're like, oh no, no, no, that's not my thing. I can't do it. It's a magic trick that that person can do.

00:32:22 Speaker_09
It is comforting to know it does happen to Kristen. So one time we were at a party and we spent the whole night talking with Tina and Amy. And then the next day we went for a walk and she doesn't mind that I tell the story.

00:32:33 Speaker_09
And we're on a walk in the neighborhood, and she's going, I'm just so not funny. I don't know why I'm allowed to be in these movies. I'm not funny.

00:32:42 Speaker_09
And I said, well, honey, are you as funny as Tina and Amy, two of the five funniest people on planet Earth? No, you're not as funny as Tina and Amy. And then yet you can do all this other stuff.

00:32:54 Speaker_13
It's so funny. It's so different. They do one thing. She's so funny in another way. This business is full of comparison and it's actually so subjective. It's the one you actually should never be comparing.

00:33:07 Speaker_05
Gloria Steinem always says linked, not ranked. Yeah, which is like an incredible thing. We're linked by what we do, but who wins what? Everything's apples to, you know, cantaloupe. It's not the same. We're not supposed to be ranking things like that.

00:33:20 Speaker_05
That's where it gets so weird.

00:33:22 Speaker_09
What I've been impressed with, with both of you, we just played poker, Ben. It was so fun. If I haven't said publicly, you invited me to poker and it was all the folks from more than 20 years ago.

00:33:33 Speaker_03
Did you use the dry ice machine? We did bring him in with a fog machine. We did play a little, what did we play for you? Stranglehold. Uncle Ted Nugent was playing a little Stranglehold. Everyone was very excited to see him.

00:33:45 Speaker_09
I was catching up because whenever there's a surprise guest at poker, at Ben's poker game, they have to enter in a fog machine and have some kind of something.

00:33:53 Speaker_03
Yeah, just so there's a little bit of acclaim. I think coming out of COVID, I was like, you know what? People deserve a little applause. It's so good to see you. Let's give them a cool rockstar intro. Let's eventize your existence. Exactly.

00:34:05 Speaker_03
And we played for like 20 bucks. There's no, it's more about just the joy of seeing people after a long time. Some people hadn't seen Dax probably for 20 years.

00:34:12 Speaker_09
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, it was so fun and it was so heartwarming. We're all still the same and we've all changed, which is interesting.

00:34:18 Speaker_09
But all that to say, you guys have, in a very, very admirable way, but I can't imagine it's completely without effort or struggle, which is, you guys have had the same friendship group the whole ride.

00:34:31 Speaker_05
We weirdly met a bunch of people during COVID.

00:34:34 Speaker_09
Oh, you did? You guys got real social during COVID?

00:34:37 Speaker_05
By the way, I'll explain that later. No, we were on FaceTime call. We were like, let's at least see other faces. So we were like, let's have a cocktail on Friday night.

00:34:48 Speaker_03
It was with Banks and Max.

00:34:50 Speaker_05
And they were on. And then Liz midway through was like, I'm putting Adam Shankman on. And so he came on and we're just talking about random stuff. He's like, I'm going to make a Q&A. And he was just baking all through COVID. And he's like, whoever wins.

00:35:03 Speaker_03
Well, first I said, we're going to watch every Oscar movie ever because I was going to do the thing where you're like, I'm going to learn a language. I'm going to play piano.

00:35:09 Speaker_03
So I was like, I'm going to watch every Oscar winning movie that's ever won, because what else am I doing? How long is this going to last? Best picture. Best picture only.

00:35:16 Speaker_03
So we started in a course, Adam, it was before you could go in somebody's house unless you were potted. And so he was like, I'll do like a Q&A. I'll make a trivia night about the movie.

00:35:24 Speaker_03
And then whoever wins, I will bring you some kind of delicious baked good and leave it outside your house. Oh my goodness. So it was amazing. And then Amy and Darren joined and it became this thing.

00:35:33 Speaker_05
It just kept growing and growing. And it was so fun. And people were in different countries and we would still do it.

00:35:39 Speaker_09
Yeah, you guys were in Australia?

00:35:41 Speaker_05
Eventually we were.

00:35:42 Speaker_09
So you're doing like 8 a.m. coffee as well there. We're doing like coffee and they're having like a cocktail. I guess it'll be coffee.

00:35:47 Speaker_03
There was one time Steve Mallory was in it too and he was in Australia with me doing this show. She was in London Adam was in Ireland. Some people were in L.A. Yeah, so it was like 7.30 in the morning on a Sunday morning.

00:35:59 Speaker_05
It started with, we're all in this Zoom call. And then Steve Mallory, who we all know, super funny guy. He wrote this thing with us, by the way.

00:36:07 Speaker_09
He's written the five movies in some capacity.

00:36:12 Speaker_03
Well, he and I wrote this. Part of the easy part of what we did is we basically wrote two full movies. Hey, cool.

00:36:18 Speaker_05
But it was Lawrence of Arabia, and as we all popped up on Zoom, all of a sudden, Steve is in full costume. There was an awkward pause. One by one, people were like, yeah, we'll be right fucking back.

00:36:29 Speaker_05
And you've got a bunch of creative people pent up, and it was like, you're making wigs out of toilet paper rolls. And then from then on, it was full costume.

00:36:38 Speaker_03
Amy Adams was the queen, right, for Patton. She was a human tank and she could move and it was coming out of her chest plate thing. Oh, yeah.

00:36:45 Speaker_05
It's unbelievable. Things got super elaborate. Sometimes I would spend like 30 hours that week just working on a costume. It just went away because we had nothing else to do. It's like a Sunday company all over. Yeah.

00:36:56 Speaker_09
Get your costume ready.

00:36:58 Speaker_11
Did you watch all the movies?

00:36:59 Speaker_09
I did.

00:37:00 Speaker_11
Wow. That's impressive.

00:37:01 Speaker_09
Which one were you like, I have a new appreciation for and which one were you like, I don't know.

00:37:06 Speaker_05
I had not seen Wings, which is the first. The first Oscar winning movie. It's unbelievable. There's a romance between these two soldiers. Male soldiers? Mm-hmm. Is there a kiss or just that moment?

00:37:16 Speaker_03
There's a moment, I think.

00:37:17 Speaker_05
And also, the director was a fighter pilot, so the footage in the planes is...

00:37:22 Speaker_03
So when you see a plane go down, it's because they brought a plane down.

00:37:25 Speaker_03
It was the first visual effects too, because these stunt pilots, these former Air Force guys that had been in, I guess, World War I, they would jump out of a plane that they put a smoke pack thing in.

00:37:36 Speaker_03
And then the one thing you would see is they just tried to erase on the actual film negative. You'd see like a yellow dot as the person theoretically would have been parachuting, hopefully to safety.

00:37:45 Speaker_03
But yeah, so talk about, you know, you're like a thrill. Thrill Rider. You're the kind of guy who likes to jump out of a crashy airplane, right? Yeah. You're like, I wonder how they did that. And it's like, oh, they crashed planes. Wow. Crazy.

00:37:57 Speaker_03
I think my favorite one that either I hadn't appreciated or something, but now I could watch it every day is In the Heat of the Night. Have you seen that one? Sidney Poitier, Rod Steiger. I haven't seen it. I just know of it.

00:38:09 Speaker_03
Is that the first thing he won for? Sidney Poitier did not win. And I was sort of keeping loose track. Again, not to rank, but that was one of my favorite performances I've ever seen. And he did not win. He won the year later for something else. Splendor.

00:38:22 Speaker_03
Guess who's coming to dinner? Something. And then ones that didn't hold up. Patton. She did not like that. She got so mad at his eyebrows.

00:38:30 Speaker_05
The opening of Patton.

00:38:31 Speaker_09
Speech in front of the American flag.

00:38:33 Speaker_05
So his face is massive. It looks like, no offense to anyone, because makeup was great by then. There are artists doing it. It just looked like he took two tubes of toothpaste and went. it right over the eyebrows and kind of brushed it in.

00:38:47 Speaker_05
And I was like, it's a closeup. It's an extreme closeup.

00:38:51 Speaker_09
Made her very angry.

00:38:52 Speaker_05
Oh, it made me so mad.

00:38:53 Speaker_09
It's probably the HD of it all. Chris and I made the grave mistake of they showed Game of Thrones at IMAX one year in preparation of the new season. And we went and we were like, ooh, the wall. The wall's plastic. The wall's like a set.

00:39:08 Speaker_02
Oh, really?

00:39:09 Speaker_09
which you cannot tell on TV, but IMAX, you're like, oh no, now this looks insane. It's like a styrofoam wall.

00:39:16 Speaker_03
I'm not scared of a wind walker climbing that plastic thing.

00:39:19 Speaker_12
It's a zipper.

00:39:20 Speaker_09
They can defend this? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Is that that guy's cell phone in his pocket? Yeah, that was not advisable. Okay, but back to what I was going to say is, has it been challenging at all to navigate? Because I've talked about this a lot on here.

00:39:34 Speaker_09
I have a real fair amount of survivor's guilt. I've met so many people that were so fucking good at all of this that didn't get to buy a house at the end of it all. And it's really heartbreaking.

00:39:47 Speaker_09
And in the past, I think I've maybe just ran away from some of those people. That wasn't the easiest road for me to navigate. But you guys, you're still with everyone. Has that been hard at all?

00:39:56 Speaker_03
I think sometimes it can be a little tricky, particularly if you think that someone is trying something that is like a tricky path and you have a bunch of advice you would probably tell them. But then you're like, who am I to give anybody advice?

00:40:10 Speaker_03
And so I never do. So that is the tricky thing, because I also always thought if I can make it to a point where I don't have to wait tables. If I can just do the thing that I'm meant to do, if it's a stage show or whatever, that to me would be enough.

00:40:23 Speaker_03
And then to get more than that, I was like, that's never the bargain I made with the deities. I guess I feel guilty or something.

00:40:30 Speaker_05
I thought if I could just get a SAG card, and then I was like, man, what if one day I can work enough to have SAG insurance? I was like, well, just try to get your card. Don't go crazy and expect to get insurance out of this deal.

00:40:44 Speaker_05
And so sometimes I am just kind of a little bewildered that I get to go to work every day and I love it. Like I nerdishly still love it. Every time we start a new project, as we're driving to work the first day, we're like, oh my God.

00:40:57 Speaker_05
I still have that feeling where I'm like, I get on the lot and I get to go put on some kind of suit.

00:41:02 Speaker_03
Every time we get on the lot, we always feel like it's a mistake. Every single time. I'm just like, they're gonna make us leave. Because I remember way back, I talk about how I struggled, so did Mr. Shepard.

00:41:12 Speaker_03
We would take long walks, and to our shame, we would complain a lot, as I recall. We might walk four or five miles. Sure, sure, sure.

00:41:19 Speaker_03
And because we had nothing else to do, no kids or anything, so we would also be walking at like 10.30 at night, and you and Tim Lovestead would stop at Cafe 50's and get a giant coffee at like 10 o'clock.

00:41:30 Speaker_09
You know, we used to drink coffee right up till bed. Yeah.

00:41:34 Speaker_03
It wasn't helping us, but we were just like trying to commiserate to say, maybe someday something will get easier.

00:41:39 Speaker_09
Well, a lot of people have heard my CPK story that listened to the show and people should know that Ben got me the job at California. I'm part of the family. And you were like a beloved staff member.

00:41:51 Speaker_07
Oh, no.

00:41:52 Speaker_09
And I didn't make it. I didn't make the cut. I was a host for a while.

00:41:56 Speaker_03
Because you had to leave for an audition or something, right?

00:41:58 Speaker_09
No. Remember, Dan gave me my review, and he gave me a 7 out of 10 for punctuality. And I had been 15 minutes early to every shift. I don't remember this. You don't. I sit down for my review and he gives me this. So punctuality seven, that's great.

00:42:13 Speaker_09
Now appearance. And I go, Oh Dan, I've been 15 minutes early to every shift. You were always early. Cause I want to eat that bread and back.

00:42:19 Speaker_09
Cause your first job was to cut up all the bread on the machine and you could eat half a loaf before anyone knew what was going on. Dip it in barbecue and ranch. That was my meal. And I said, well, Dan, I've been so early. How would I get a 10?

00:42:33 Speaker_09
An hour early? And he goes, well, we just can't start you at a 10 because you got to try to grow and get better. What? And I was like, oh, OK. And then he went on to a couple more. And then I just go, Dan, I think I'm going to quit. And he goes, why?

00:42:50 Speaker_09
You don't know this? So he goes, what? And I go, yeah, that sounds wild. Like if I was early and you're trying to make me more, this feels very like weird and manipulative. I can't. I'm going to quit. And then I left.

00:43:01 Speaker_09
And then I got a voicemail on my recorder at home and it was Dan and he said, listen, Dex, I've thought over the punctuality and I'm willing to go to eight.

00:43:13 Speaker_07
I do remember him. He countered at eight. Not even fucking nine or ten. Dan, what are you thinking?

00:43:21 Speaker_10
And I loved him. It's not his fault.

00:43:23 Speaker_03
Dan was a sweet manager guy. Very muscular. Very muscular guy. Very sweet. He fired me too. He fired you? Yeah. Do you know what a secret shopper is?

00:43:32 Speaker_12
Yes.

00:43:32 Speaker_03
Okay, so you know what a secret chopper is.

00:43:34 Speaker_09
Well, let's just tell everyone. Corporate has some employees go visit the restaurant, and you don't know you're waiting on one of these people, and then they give you a review. Exactly.

00:43:41 Speaker_03
Right, so I worked at the CPK in Brentwood. Can we do one second on the CPK in Brentwood?

00:43:45 Speaker_09
I think it's really relevant for the listener. Okay, yeah. It's a mid-priced restaurant, but it's in Brentwood where everything's really expensive. So people that come in are expecting a level of service that, frankly, CPK doesn't offer.

00:43:58 Speaker_09
So they were so mad you couldn't make reservations. I was at the host stand, and I just heard complaint after complaint of how unacceptable it was you can't make a reservation. And I want to go, yeah, because a pizza is $9 and that's how it is here.

00:44:10 Speaker_09
But anyways, I think that's relevant.

00:44:12 Speaker_03
It is. People would come and they would come right before a movie at that cinema on Wilshire. I don't even know if it's still there, but that was basically what people would come for. So right before the seven o'clock movie place would fill up.

00:44:22 Speaker_03
Everyone wants everything all at once. And I just got in a secret shop before and I got like a 97 because they also wanted you to be so specific. Like when you give an appetizer, I wouldn't just say, hey, can I get you an appetizer or something?

00:44:33 Speaker_03
Are you guys hungry yet? Would you like some delicious spinach artichoke dip or perhaps some hummus? Sometimes they would want you to push liquor during the day.

00:44:40 Speaker_03
Like, so at 1145, you're like, would you like a Long Island iced tea or a spicy tea margarita? People are like, no, I would not.

00:44:47 Speaker_04
Can I get you started with three shots?

00:44:54 Speaker_10
We've got a nice Patron Añejo at 11.45.

00:44:57 Speaker_03
I think you're going to enjoy that with your half-chopped salad. So anyway, long story short, they split all the tables apart. So I'm like slammed. I'm in the weeds, as they say. The last table was the secret shoppers.

00:45:13 Speaker_03
I remember weird questions like, what kind of shrimp are on the shrimp scampi pizza? And I'm like, it's bay shrimp. It's really good. And I got to go because somebody wants iced tea or whatever.

00:45:23 Speaker_05
Which, by the way, you've never spoken to anyone that curtly.

00:45:25 Speaker_03
No, I was just very busy. And so I was like, I'll be right back. Do you remember the score I got? Because now I can't remember. It was something like a 39 out of 100. So what CPK would do is they would call.

00:45:36 Speaker_03
And this is back when you had an answering machine, right? Same as Daxter. Tape cassette. And so, hey, Ben, it's Dan. I got to talk to you over at the restaurant, okay?

00:45:48 Speaker_03
And I knew that that meant when they called you in, they wanted to fire you in person because it was a restaurant started by lawyers. So I call them back and I say, Dan, what's going on? Are you going to fire me?

00:45:57 Speaker_03
How long did you work there at that point? I had worked at the one at Marina Del Rey. I played softball with that Marina Del Rey. So I was really in the culture. I was embedded. I'd probably been there like four-ish years, maybe five.

00:46:12 Speaker_03
And I go, are you going to fire me? And he goes, yeah. I'm like, well, then I don't want to come in, Dan. I'm not going to walk in there so you can fire me. Did you go in? No. I was like, can you just mail me my check? That would be fine with me.

00:46:27 Speaker_03
I said, what happened? He goes, you got a 39 on the secret chopper. I was like, he was some other manager. I pulled all the tables apart. He goes, yeah, I know.

00:46:34 Speaker_11
Oh, that feels unfair.

00:46:35 Speaker_09
But you got a 39. 39, we can't come back from a 39, guys.

00:46:38 Speaker_03
No, we can't come back, and I'm still mad about it.

00:46:40 Speaker_05
I love four years of good service, and because you didn't offer a 9 a.m. Long Island ice cream to someone, and you didn't talk in detail about the... I didn't talk in detail about the shrimp on the shrimp scampi pizza.

00:46:50 Speaker_03
That's what I remember they ordered.

00:46:51 Speaker_13
Also seems like those secret shoppers were trying to be, like, the best secret shoppers.

00:46:56 Speaker_03
And maybe they didn't know, you're gonna take this young man's job away. Dan is gonna leave him a voicemail.

00:47:01 Speaker_09
That's so generous. The whole thing boils down to some very subjective person's day they're having when they sit down. Could they find parking there? Probably not. That place was a zoo. Yeah, it was tough.

00:47:10 Speaker_09
What all happened before they sat down in there and started asking about the shrimp at CPK? It's gulf shrimp, it came in this morning, I unloaded the pallet, just pulled it out of ice.

00:47:23 Speaker_03
He was wearing a beautiful outfit, he's dressed like a longshoreman, his name is Dale. The captain and the longshoreman came. I spoke to them for a while, but not too long, because they had a busy day, as do I. They're individual bags of shrimp.

00:47:40 Speaker_09
Right now, I bring back what we started talking about before you sat down, which is the notion of retirement. Would you be any good at it? Your hunch, Ben, was that it won't be easy.

00:47:49 Speaker_03
I don't think it'll take for me because I do have to kind of write every day. I'll write whether it's going to get made into something or not. Yeah. So I guess I could be retired. It's just a question of if anyone's buying what I'm selling or not.

00:48:00 Speaker_09
Would you just return to prose, though, maybe? Maybe. What do you like writing better? I declared I'm done writing scripts like seven years ago. I had a couple of scripts I owed. I'm like, I'm just done with this. I can't stand it anymore.

00:48:12 Speaker_09
And then I started writing for fun again. And then I just started writing prose. And now I'm kind of writing a memoir. But I'll just write for fun. And I'm like, oh, I remember this. Writing because you like constructing sentences is fun.

00:48:24 Speaker_09
The math of it, the puzzle of it.

00:48:26 Speaker_05
Satisfying.

00:48:26 Speaker_09
Yeah, I don't think I'd ever stop riding. But anyways, all that to say, I said, I think I'll do fine with it because we had nine years of practice. You and I have been retired. Being unemployed.

00:48:36 Speaker_03
We were retired in our 20s. Yes.

00:48:39 Speaker_09
So it's like you go to the promenade and watch a film, the cheap showing at the AMC 7. You knew where to go get a cheap slice of pizza, bike rides on the Strand. I know how to fill up a day. I think I learned that. And some people don't ever learn that.

00:48:52 Speaker_03
Well, now that you've got access to all those cars that you always were so hot and heavy for, that'll do it.

00:48:57 Speaker_09
I don't like them all as much as I thought I was gonna. What? I mean, I really like them, but I don't find that I'm driving around in them a ton. Do you like to still take them apart and put them back together? I like to buy them.

00:49:09 Speaker_09
I like to look at them and have a big fantasy about them, and then I like to put them in my garage, and then I like to have them break, and then worry about what needs fixing, and sometimes dream that the whole garage catches on fire and it all goes away.

00:49:23 Speaker_09
So this is no longer... But I still love it. Okay, so you love it. Yeah, yeah. I'm just not sure how much of my day it's going to take up.

00:49:29 Speaker_05
You never drive your old one.

00:49:31 Speaker_09
There you go. I know.

00:49:32 Speaker_05
You've got a nice Ranchero. Yeah, it's cool.

00:49:34 Speaker_09
And you pulled a fast one, right? That was a very sweet move.

00:49:37 Speaker_05
It was Dan Aykroyd's car in Tammy, and I brought it back from North Carolina for your... Was that for your 40th? 40th. I like driving it. I mean, not me driving it, but I like driving it with you.

00:49:47 Speaker_03
Yeah.

00:49:48 Speaker_09
Uh-oh, we stumbled upon a real sore subject.

00:49:50 Speaker_03
No, no. Now I'm wondering, because it's up at the beach, and I'm just wondering if I know how to start it. Because I'm the opposite. Like, you're good with all that stuff. If you pull out this car, automatically, just people appear.

00:50:04 Speaker_03
They've got tank tops on and maybe a tattoo on their leg. What do you got under the hood there? And I'm like, I have no idea, sir.

00:50:10 Speaker_05
But my wife quilted the leather.

00:50:15 Speaker_03
Dude, look at the interior. It's really neat.

00:50:18 Speaker_13
Well, what was both of your cars? Like, his was cars, what were yours? If I had this level of success or money, I want this.

00:50:26 Speaker_05
I like housey stuff. Anything to do with design. I'm constantly working on building a nest. Yeah, me too. I just love it. Even when I was a kid, to my parents, I'd be like, you know, if we knocked this wall out, it would open.

00:50:38 Speaker_04
They're like, you wrecked this house.

00:50:40 Speaker_05
She would take this place down. I love the whole construction process. You love a remodel.

00:50:44 Speaker_03
I love a remodel.

00:50:45 Speaker_05
He hates it.

00:50:46 Speaker_03
Never ever has anyone said, oh, we can do this. It's easier than we thought. It's cheaper than we thought. It's going to be a little faster than we thought. It used to be double the price. Now it's like, let's just triple it.

00:50:55 Speaker_09
For us, it was like, let's four times it. Let's four it. Let's three X the timeline. Has that changed? Because you started early. You have always been a house flipper. That first yellow one, you did a real number on and made it super cute.

00:51:07 Speaker_05
And that one, I think what got me is that was my first house. I loved that house in Los Feliz. And then everything was easy. It was so filthy. It was built in 1912.

00:51:17 Speaker_05
It was so pretty, but it was just like dirty plates on the floor, garbage everywhere, open food. One of the open houses, we were standing in a bedroom and I was like, oh my God, because I couldn't even fathom, can I really

00:51:30 Speaker_05
get this place and we're in there for maybe 20 minutes just talking I was there with a friend there was mattresses all over the floor and then 20 minutes in someone rolled over in bed and they had been in

00:51:43 Speaker_04
Oh, no.

00:51:44 Speaker_05
The whole time. Oh, wow. So this was like a den. Some of the doorways, there was like plywood over it and painted. But the more I was in there, because I was so in love with this house, I was like, it's just dirty. I can clean.

00:51:57 Speaker_05
None of the moldings are changed. They just weirdly put plywood over it. So I started going to all the open houses, every single one, and the realtor was like, you can't do this. And I was like, it's an open house.

00:52:08 Speaker_05
And there's people, sometimes they would walk in three, four feet and just turn around and leave because it was so dirty. That's your sweet spot. And if they did come in, that's where I would just, oh, I'm on the tour, too.

00:52:18 Speaker_05
And I'm like, you can't clean this kind of filth. Yeah. I said a lot of things like this is in the walls.

00:52:24 Speaker_09
Yeah.

00:52:25 Speaker_05
This is in the walls.

00:52:26 Speaker_09
This house has bad bones.

00:52:28 Speaker_05
And everything went super easy, and it really was like, oh yeah, we just kicked down the plywood, and it was beautiful underneath it.

00:52:34 Speaker_09
She's always thought every other one would be that easy. Oh, and some of the other ones, there was stuff in the walls. Oh, just absolutely shit shacks. Yeah, Swiss cheese, the whole house.

00:52:43 Speaker_03
They're like, oh, it's gotta come down, including the studs. I remember one time hearing like, we knew about the asbestos, but the black mold, we didn't know about. And I was like...

00:52:53 Speaker_13
Have you ever just immediately sold, like, bought it and actually we can?

00:52:56 Speaker_03
We did do that one time because we got into it and I was like, oh. And then we were about to travel and I was like, honey, can we just say that this one was a mercy? And we did.

00:53:06 Speaker_05
We just sold it right away. And I was so shocked. I was like, we just swapped out. We're like, we bought it. And then we sold it and we're like, get out, get out, get out, get out.

00:53:14 Speaker_09
Go, go, go, go, go, go. The place you're in now, do you think you'll stay? Or is Mama itchy?

00:53:20 Speaker_05
I think even the girls, our girls are like, you won't tell this, right? Yeah, right, right, right. I mean, I think we'll stay, right? I think we'll stay there. It's possible.

00:53:29 Speaker_07
I don't believe her at all.

00:53:31 Speaker_03
I don't think so. I don't know, that really feels like our home. So how old are Lincoln and Delta now? Nine and 11. Nine and 11. Okay, so ours are 17 and 14. Viv is going to be at college somewhere next year.

00:53:43 Speaker_02
Oh my God.

00:53:44 Speaker_03
I know, which is so crazy. But obviously there's some stuff we do here, work, but we've lived in LA for a long time too. So even LA is a little bit up for grabs and that freaks the girls out, even if they don't think that they want to.

00:53:57 Speaker_03
They just want us to be where we are.

00:53:59 Speaker_09
They want you to stay unchanged.

00:54:00 Speaker_03
Yes. I don't care what it is I'm doing, but I want you two to be right here. Monica's the worst offender of that.

00:54:07 Speaker_13
Oh, I'm so bad.

00:54:09 Speaker_03
Really?

00:54:09 Speaker_13
Yeah. I was just home this past weekend and my brother took a long time to leave the house. And it is the first time that I was back that he's permanently out. And I was like, well, this is unacceptable, actually.

00:54:20 Speaker_07
Oh, you wanted Neil to be there. You wanted your brother to be there.

00:54:23 Speaker_13
Yeah. And I've also been, I'm like, you got to get out of here. I've been saying that for years and now he's gone. And it's like, my life is ruined.

00:54:32 Speaker_03
And how often do you go home?

00:54:33 Speaker_13
Like a couple of times a year.

00:54:34 Speaker_03
Perfect. So you want him just to stay there for that Thursday through Sunday.

00:54:41 Speaker_11
Yeah, it was weird. It's weird when your foundation is changing. I don't like that when he wrote,

00:54:55 Speaker_05
When Ben came down in the morning was like, Oh, I have this idea for something. I took it very literally. I was like, that is such an amazing idea to go to school because I didn't finish college.

00:55:06 Speaker_05
And I was like, Oh my God, when Viv goes to school, I should go to college with her. And he's like, This is a cautionary tale. And Viv was like, no, wait, wait, wait, what are we talking about?

00:55:15 Speaker_05
And I was like, I can finish college when you go to college. And he just kept saying, no, the comedy of it is that's a terrible idea. And I literally was like, I don't see what's... I think it's a great idea.

00:55:25 Speaker_05
And I still kind of am like, I still haven't finished college.

00:55:28 Speaker_03
She's like, I just think it's lovely and heartwarming. I'm like, it's supposed to be just funny.

00:55:34 Speaker_09
Okay, I do wanna, you already said you love it, and I do too, and I wonder, obviously you guys started writing and performing together, so it makes a lot more sense for both of you, but do you think also, this is the thing I like about working together, is it's just a lot of compromise.

00:55:49 Speaker_09
You wanna eat somewhere, and you wanna eat somewhere different. You wanna watch something, you maybe wanna watch something.

00:55:54 Speaker_09
When you work together, I think it's this unique time where you have the same goal, which is really kind of hard to have as a couple, the exact same goal.

00:56:04 Speaker_05
It is because also I always call it like the red and yellow. Like if you want yellow, I want blue. And then we're like, Oh, but purple, that it's a constant improvement. It starts okay.

00:56:15 Speaker_05
And then instead of like a fight or a battle, there's some kind of fun puzzle working that I find so satisfying and so fun, but it's never about like my way or his way.

00:56:26 Speaker_09
It's like how to take the good thing out of your idea and the good thing from my idea.

00:56:30 Speaker_05
this new creation's better than either one of us could have done.

00:56:33 Speaker_03
And there's also a certain thing where people say, oh, what's it like working with your wife? And it's every day in certain ways, because part of what we do is for fun. It's how we communicate. We're writing another movie that we want to film soon.

00:56:44 Speaker_03
And on the way over here, we'd just gotten into all this madness. And she's the ringleader of all that. And I'm like, honey, it was more things than possible.

00:56:52 Speaker_05
On the drive, Ben goes, I just wonder if the hats won too many.

00:56:59 Speaker_03
She's like, that's the whole point. But then she pitched a really quick bit for the movie that was so funny that I'm like, yeah, we absolutely should put that in the movie. I read anything in the L.A.

00:57:11 Speaker_03
Times a long time ago about these two physicists that work together. Because for some reason I was reading the obituaries. Oh wow! That's kinky.

00:57:20 Speaker_03
It was about these two physicists and one of them passed away and they called themselves the Mosquito and the Battleship.

00:57:26 Speaker_03
The reason they work so well together is because one of them had 40,000 different mathematical ideas about science and things that I don't understand. And the other one was like, yes, but this is also the solution we're trying to get to.

00:57:39 Speaker_03
So I always think of Melissa and myself that way, where she's got 5,000 good ideas. I got one bad one, but I'm going to stick to it. We're gonna land the plane. I think it's kind of a good match that way.

00:57:49 Speaker_09
Yeah, stick-to-it-ness.

00:57:50 Speaker_05
And also, I say stupid half thoughts that will not become a movie. What I said in the car, Hungry Eyes came on.

00:57:57 Speaker_09
Eric Carman. Really quick, hit me. I wanna... Hungry Eyes. Oh, yeah.

00:58:03 Speaker_05
I don't know the words. But all I say is, I was like, the thing we're writing now, what if every time Andrew Friedman starts to eat chicken wings, that song comes on? And it happens repeatedly through the movie and it slightly goes to slow motion.

00:58:16 Speaker_05
Oh, I think it's up here on the left. And then that's all I've got. He makes a full movie out of my random, scatological thoughts.

00:58:23 Speaker_03
But I mean, how much fun to have somebody that's just pitching bits. I have a question for you. Why did we stop writing scripts? You're very good at it. Was it the notes process? Was it the structure process that started to bum you out?

00:58:32 Speaker_09
Structure sucks. I hate structure, always. And some frustration that you relearn your structure notes every single time you write something. It's just maddening that you don't start there.

00:58:42 Speaker_03
A million times I've thought to myself, you've gotten all of these notes before. They were correct before. A scene where two people are just talking about nothing.

00:58:51 Speaker_03
You've been in the cutting room before, and then sure enough, sure as shit, you look, you're like, so page 30 to 39 is frog shit nothing.

00:59:01 Speaker_09
Yeah, it's that. Notes is rough. It's always feeling like you have homework due everywhere you're at. I would notice Chris and I are on vacation, and she's on vacation, but I'm like, I have two things due.

00:59:12 Speaker_09
At some point, I was like, okay, it's been 15 years of having homework, and I just don't want it again.

00:59:17 Speaker_01
Yeah. Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

00:59:34 Speaker_09
Okay, of the five features you guys have made together, Tammy, The Boss, Life of the Party, Superintelligent, Thunder Force, is one, and let me just say, we always think about when I get to show our girls Hit and Run, because it was our kind of baby, that movie, it was a million dollars and impossible to make, and that movie means so much in so many weird ways.

00:59:55 Speaker_09
Do you guys have a favorite of these five that are so special to you?

00:59:59 Speaker_05
I love them all. Tammy, for the same reason. I just remember pulling onto the set and we were like, look at all these people. Couldn't believe we got to write a movie. Couldn't believe then Ben was directing it.

01:00:10 Speaker_03
Like it was a bit of a... Didn't know what I was doing very much. You know, because you're learning any first time director, prepare it as much as you can. And we had wonderful producers helping us, giving us great advice.

01:00:20 Speaker_03
But that feeling of just learning on the fly knowing that I need to get coverage.

01:00:26 Speaker_05
What does that mean? Also, you were always saying like, I don't know. I'm aware I have to do something. Someone smarter explain how to do that.

01:00:33 Speaker_03
So I was smart enough to know what I didn't know. I love Tammy for that. I have this weird thing because I go through posts. You've watched your movie a hundred million times, as you know. So I don't.

01:00:43 Speaker_03
watch a movie until at least five years after we've released it. I haven't seen Thunderful. We're getting close. Well, no, because it came out, I guess, in 21. But we shot it in 2019. I just recently saw Life of the Party.

01:00:57 Speaker_03
What I like about that, especially today, is it is just a movie that's supposed to be funny. She's really funny throughout the whole freaking movie. The women are great in it. And it was maybe the most fun just to film because

01:01:11 Speaker_03
Everybody's like, you sure you want to get a bunch of women in their 20s? It's probably going to be bitches, you know, literally. Oh, boy. That's good.

01:01:19 Speaker_05
I'm like, that was the most joyful.

01:01:20 Speaker_03
People aren't going to leave their room and they're going to want to wear prettier shit or whatever.

01:01:24 Speaker_05
Jesus. That's the same person that's like tickle, tickle, tickle, tickle.

01:01:30 Speaker_03
But I love that movie for shooting it. All of them are different vibes, but that movie is just not trying too hard. It's just trying to tell this little story. And it's like, we're going to put her in a lot of funny situations.

01:01:40 Speaker_03
Hopefully they're going to work. I saw it recently and I enjoyed it.

01:01:43 Speaker_09
Now, how do you get the idea to do Hildy, the bar back and the Lake of Fire? Are you guys Game of Thrones people? Did you love Game of Thrones? I did.

01:01:53 Speaker_05
I did. Then it got too rough for you, Ben.

01:01:56 Speaker_03
Here's what happened to me. Were you a big one too? Big Game of Thrones? Okay. So I was huge into it. I loved it. It was on Sunday nights, right? It was back before streaming was really, so you kind of had to tune into HBO. You had to watch it.

01:02:06 Speaker_03
Yeah, so I'm super into the show, especially because I got in after that sort of more awkward first season where it was like, we're the sexy show, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. But then there was the part where Pedro Pascal gets on the show. Yes.

01:02:19 Speaker_03
And he's amazing. And then he does all this stuff and he's been so honorable. And he starts walking around the guy and doing this monologue. And I'm like, oh my gosh, I know what's going to happen. And then it was just this crazy, awful visual.

01:02:30 Speaker_03
I'm no good with horror stuff. Oh. So when he gets his eyes squished out. That's what crushes. Squishes. his head and squishes his eyeballs shoot out of his head. And I was horrified, but also I felt manipulated.

01:02:43 Speaker_02
Oh, so that was that was great.

01:02:45 Speaker_03
I felt betrayed. It rattled you. Now you're not being truthful to the character. I thought that they went for gore instead of truth. Does that make sense? Yeah. But I thought the show was incredible.

01:02:54 Speaker_03
And also, if I just weren't so scared of everything, I probably would have kept watching.

01:02:58 Speaker_09
And then you stopped after that.

01:02:59 Speaker_12
Are you guys going to see the substance?

01:03:01 Speaker_03
I've heard the substance is really good.

01:03:03 Speaker_13
Yeah, I've heard it's really good. And it's apparently Barry Gorey. Oh, he may not be seen.

01:03:08 Speaker_05
I don't know what the substance is.

01:03:10 Speaker_13
It's a new Demi Moore movie.

01:03:13 Speaker_05
Oh, yes! Oh, I heard it's very good.

01:03:16 Speaker_13
Yes, and it apparently has tons of pop-outs.

01:03:19 Speaker_05
Oh, okay. What's a pop-out?

01:03:20 Speaker_13
A pop-out is, you know, a jump scare. Oh, a jump scare.

01:03:24 Speaker_09
Okay, that's a new one.

01:03:26 Speaker_13
No, jump scare is what everyone says and we say pop-out.

01:03:29 Speaker_09
Oh, okay.

01:03:30 Speaker_13
So it's like a plastic surgery type thing. She's trying to get youthful. And I don't know all the deets, but apparently someone had a heart attack and a seizure.

01:03:40 Speaker_09
Watching it?

01:03:42 Speaker_11
Oh, my God.

01:03:43 Speaker_09
That's terrible. Isn't that funny? That makes you want to run out and see it.

01:03:46 Speaker_02
Not me. I was like, I can't see it. I got scared. Yeah, I'm scared.

01:03:51 Speaker_09
Is there a lot of strobe light in the film?

01:03:53 Speaker_02
Now I think they just got so scared. Oh my God. I know.

01:03:57 Speaker_03
Then they'll do commercials about it. Remember all the commercials that would be like, people were so scared they passed out. Remember that used to be a whole thing?

01:04:03 Speaker_09
Under no circumstance see this film on March 19th. 3pm, 3.30, 3.35.

01:04:10 Speaker_05
I think I could watch all of that stuff before kids, and now I start to have weird dreams where my kids are now part of it, and I was like, ooh. So I can watch a lot more than Ben can.

01:04:21 Speaker_03
The whole family can, so I'm the one who's like, what's going on in there? Why aren't we still watching it? It's fine if you are.

01:04:27 Speaker_10
Are you knitting when this happens? Knitting everybody a wool hat. Earplugs.

01:04:33 Speaker_03
I'm a huge Tolkien person. That was for all this barback business. So Steve Mallory pitched it to me because he knew how much I was into it. And he was like, women in the movies, which they are, I think, really good movies, they don't do a lot.

01:04:45 Speaker_03
You've got Galadriel, who is super powerful and doesn't take the ring, but then gives everyone a powerful gift. Oh. The action of it is never female-based. Yeah, it's usually not. What's her name? The one who stabs the witch king of Agmar in the face.

01:04:58 Speaker_09
This is all Lord of the Rings.

01:04:59 Speaker_03
So it's more, I grew up reading that.

01:05:01 Speaker_09
You've had a lot of sketches over the years that I've seen that have this leaning. D&D, nerd guy stuff, yes, for sure. Old English speak a little bit. OK, so Mallory said, what if?

01:05:14 Speaker_03
He said, what if we do something that is just a straight up comedy? We get the funny women we know to be the heroes when the men fuck everything up inevitably. And I was like, well, that feels like a story for today. That feels timely.

01:05:27 Speaker_03
It's taken a while because as you said, it's not an easy one. We weren't like, oh, we're just going to pick up things and do. I mean, I know you do tons of research, but I think a lot of people just sort of come on and don't do much.

01:05:37 Speaker_03
We were like, oh, we're going to do the opposite. They built a world. There's a map. Yeah.

01:05:42 Speaker_05
They started with the map. And I was like, OK, this sounds kind of amazing.

01:05:46 Speaker_09
Yeah. And there's eight. How long are the eight?

01:05:48 Speaker_03
Thirty minutes ish.

01:05:50 Speaker_09
Yeah. We're working on a second season to set the scene for us. Of course, McCarthy's playing Hildy and you're a bar back.

01:05:57 Speaker_05
I'm a barback and I do all of the work. It's our father's tavern that, of course, has been given to my brother, Fennec, who Steve Mallory plays, even though he's a complete imbecile. But they're like, well, women can't own property.

01:06:09 Speaker_05
So I do all the work and I'm not allowed to own it.

01:06:12 Speaker_09
And he strolls in and offers everyone free drinks every now and then and fucks everything up.

01:06:16 Speaker_03
Trying to be cool. So what happens is in the first, as in all of these stories, there's some sort of inciting incident, which is that we learned that a bunch of the bad people. What are they called? They're called Morliths.

01:06:28 Speaker_03
And they're coming across the countryside and they're coming straight for the village. Hildy tries to convince them to use magic and different things to figure out a way to like, what do they want? Where are they going? Maybe we could escape.

01:06:39 Speaker_03
And the guys of the village are like, Sometimes you gotta put some armor on and kick some ass. And they go straight at the things and a dragon incinerates them all immediately.

01:06:49 Speaker_03
So it ends up that Hilde and her ragtag group of friends have to defeat this sort of incursion and then also figure out what the hell is going on. Who plays the potions person? Mirabelle is played by a really great actor named Anna Scottney.

01:07:02 Speaker_03
She lives in New Zealand.

01:07:03 Speaker_09
Oh, she's a Kiwi.

01:07:05 Speaker_03
Yeah.

01:07:06 Speaker_09
Oh, I thought it was an Aussie. They're gonna be so mad. But she's incredible.

01:07:09 Speaker_03
Isn't she great? She's such a great actor.

01:07:11 Speaker_09
Was she already a friend?

01:07:12 Speaker_03
She worked with us on God's Favorite Idiot. When we were in Australia, she came over from New Zealand.

01:07:16 Speaker_05
I saw her in, I'm spacing on the name of it, but one of Taika's movies. And I was like, who is it? Like, when you just see someone and you're like, who is this human?

01:07:24 Speaker_03
Yeah.

01:07:24 Speaker_05
She's so good.

01:07:25 Speaker_03
She can do anything.

01:07:26 Speaker_13
Was it Hunt for the Wilderpeople?

01:07:29 Speaker_03
No, it was one where she played like a super tough gal.

01:07:35 Speaker_05
I can see it, but I can't think of the name of it.

01:07:37 Speaker_09
My actor like that right now is Walton Goggins. What can this guy not do? Did you guys watch Fallout by chance?

01:07:43 Speaker_05
I loved it.

01:07:43 Speaker_09
You saw it? I loved Fallout.

01:07:45 Speaker_03
Is it scary? No, I think you can watch it. She gently held my hand and goes, I think you could watch it, honey.

01:07:54 Speaker_09
You have to watch everything first like a child. And my kids too.

01:07:58 Speaker_05
He gets upset. I'm a fragile flower.

01:08:01 Speaker_09
He's really sweet, man. I just can't. There's too many bad things in the world. Okay, so you wrote it all. How long does it take to record it? Who's producing it? It turned out so good. Because this is not a realm you were ever in.

01:08:14 Speaker_03
We're learning kind of as we go. So we recorded it at our office. C. Mallory taught himself how to use a program of a thing so that we could record it in a way. He's very competent. Right. He's very technically competent.

01:08:26 Speaker_03
And he sort of loves that wormhole stuff where I'm like, I'm tired.

01:08:30 Speaker_04
I'm scared.

01:08:34 Speaker_03
And then Damon Jones, who you know.

01:08:36 Speaker_09
Yes, also a poker.

01:08:38 Speaker_03
Yep. He's been writing all the songs as well.

01:08:41 Speaker_05
There's an original song in each.

01:08:43 Speaker_03
Each one has an original song. So the first one, it's why would you ever fuck with the dragon is the song. There's funny, crazy songs he's written. And then we just sort of said, well, hey, Damon, what would happen if you started editing them?

01:08:54 Speaker_03
So he edited one. Candace Brown edited one. Oh, really? Yeah. Mallory edited the first one. The whole team. Yeah, it's been amazing just to bring the family together and see who can do what and pitch in.

01:09:04 Speaker_09
I would imagine at first glance, you're like, oh, this is a great world in which we could try an idea. We wouldn't try to pitch to a studio. We can execute something and then come to find out it's as much work. That's my guess.

01:09:16 Speaker_03
Yeah. This would be such an expensive movie to make. Who knows what anybody wants at any time, but it's just hard to sell a really expensive comedy with giant high concepts. So we're like, you know what? What if we do it in such a way that's easier?

01:09:29 Speaker_03
And then we found out, yeah, it's a lot to make To do it poorly would have been pretty easy. You need a lot of foley, you need a lot of stuff going on.

01:09:38 Speaker_05
We have to figure out what kind of hooves do we want in here.

01:09:41 Speaker_03
We are used to studios being behind us and having access to fact checks, legal things. And then you're like, oh, who's doing it? Oh, that's us two. Okay, cool.

01:09:52 Speaker_09
All the creative and that stuff.

01:09:54 Speaker_05
But then people would come in, like Mike Hitchcock comes in and it's just so stupid. And you're like, my God, we've known this person forever. They're that funny. It's just nonsense.

01:10:05 Speaker_05
And then one after the next, it would be so fun doing the sessions that even with all the work so far, I think anybody who's been killed in the first season, they all come back second season as their twin.

01:10:16 Speaker_03
If we really love somebody's performance, you're like, all right, you're going to come back as your own twin.

01:10:21 Speaker_05
But they're too good. So I'm like, well, Hitchcock has to come back.

01:10:24 Speaker_03
No, Hitchcock stays alive. So he can just be himself.

01:10:26 Speaker_09
He's a wannabe wizard.

01:10:28 Speaker_11
How fun, you guys.

01:10:30 Speaker_09
Yeah. I think everyone's in an interesting phase. I guess here's my question. I've got to ask it to a few people. Do you lament what's happening at comedy or do you go, Oh my God, thank God that we got to do it in the version that we grew up watching.

01:10:44 Speaker_09
Like you guys got to go make good budget comedies for a long time. And are you just in the lamenting phase? Are you in the like, Oh my God, we got in before it was almost impossible.

01:10:57 Speaker_05
I think it has to come back. I think the world needs it. I can't do anything important. I can't clean up the air. I can't fix climate. I just know how to do stupid things to maybe make people forget that the air needs to be cleaned up.

01:11:09 Speaker_05
And I just think the narrative is being sold that they don't work. And yet I'm stopped 15 times a day where people are like, I need to come home from my difficult job and I need to watch you make an ass of yourself. I'm like, you've got it.

01:11:22 Speaker_05
That's all I can do.

01:11:23 Speaker_04
Yeah.

01:11:24 Speaker_05
And I really think things are cyclical. I think people need them. People want them. And like anything, you can start to make a narrative of what is. It doesn't mean it's true. I think we'll circle back.

01:11:34 Speaker_03
I would say like grateful, but greedy. We'll do stuff like we're doing this thing. Who knows what it could be someday. So many people are like, now that we know that it works, we can do a version of that. in some way or other.

01:11:45 Speaker_03
And meanwhile, we're working on other stuff where she's pitching me jokes in the car. I dare to say, I think we'll do some more stuff. And now, will the budgets be what they were? Probably not for a while until the next one works.

01:11:57 Speaker_05
I really want to be part of getting people back in theaters. Not to be like, oh, it's in service of, but there's a weird thing that happens when you sit with a bunch of strangers and you have a collective experience.

01:12:08 Speaker_09
Especially laughing together.

01:12:09 Speaker_05
Absolutely.

01:12:10 Speaker_09
Getting pissed together is really popular.

01:12:13 Speaker_05
That's easy to do, but laughing together or rooting for somebody together, I think did more for us as humans than we give credit to. And I think we trained people to stop doing it. It went pretty quickly, but it was strategically done.

01:12:27 Speaker_05
And I remember being like, why are you training people to stop needing your wares? And I think you can get it back.

01:12:34 Speaker_03
There have been a couple jokes that I remember that we did, like in Tammy, she's a conservative woman to me. Like I was there writing the character, but I still fully want to hang out with Tammy.

01:12:43 Speaker_03
And I think that whole thing, our culture, our country, you know, especially people online and the internet, they're so against each other and angry with each other all the time.

01:12:51 Speaker_03
And I think there's something about having Tammy say a joke like, oh man, gas prices are so high. Thanks, Obamacare. So the audience, I remember

01:12:58 Speaker_03
being at so many screenings, there would be this big laugh, and then there would be a really big second laugh. And then still at the end, people are like, should I be offended? Who's she making fun of?

01:13:07 Speaker_05
Half of the audience laughed because they're like fucking Obama. And then the other half was like, oh my God, she's an idiot. That's not Obama. It was the weirdest split laugh. And every time it was consistent and it was like, okay, that worked.

01:13:18 Speaker_05
Yeah, that's right. Two weird ways to different people.

01:13:21 Speaker_03
We're sort of offending everybody all at once, but in a very loving, prodding way. Critics or whoever can think our movies can be a little too heartwarming or a little too physical.

01:13:30 Speaker_03
But we're actually trying to not get people to sit back on their couch and go, that was clever with a little wide grin. We're trying to get people to laugh hard. We test them to try to make sure they really do it.

01:13:41 Speaker_03
And sometimes to do it, you got to fall down some fucking stairs. Sure. Literally. What's great about this one, she's like, I should fall down some more stairs. Do you have any chronic injuries?

01:13:51 Speaker_05
Oh, yeah.

01:13:52 Speaker_09
You've been hard on yourself.

01:13:53 Speaker_05
Stunt women would be like, you should not be doing it. And I'm like, I love it. I really did love it. And they're like, yeah, but the thing is, you're going to get around 50, and you're going to be an old, beat up stunt woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:14:04 Speaker_05
And that's exactly what happened. Like, my hips are crazy.

01:14:07 Speaker_09
What if you started hanging out with NFL retirees? Because you guys are really good.

01:14:11 Speaker_05
This meniscus is still ripped out at the root. It's been like seven years. Yeah. I just got weird things where I'm like, Oh, this is what they meant. But then still, if we go to do something again, I'll be like, no, I'm gonna. I have gotten better.

01:14:24 Speaker_05
But now anything up on wires, I love. It's literally my happiest place on the planet.

01:14:30 Speaker_03
So Thunder Force, she loves.

01:14:31 Speaker_05
Because I'm just like, I'm here spinning and turning and flipping. Oh, you love it. I love it. I love it.

01:14:36 Speaker_09
I don't like the harness. I don't mind being up, but it hurts to be in the harness.

01:14:40 Speaker_05
You have it so tight, it's killing you. Did it hurt your penis and testicles? Yeah, it hurt my penis quite a bit. No, the trick is if it's so tight that you can't stand it when you're on the ground, then when you go up, it's nice.

01:14:50 Speaker_03
Did you hear the part he said about the penis and testicles? About the penis and testicles? Yeah, it's just a little different for the fellas. It's in the wrong place.

01:14:56 Speaker_09
And then you're constantly on set, you're, I am at least, pulling out all the stuff.

01:14:59 Speaker_03
Yeah, pulling your stuff.

01:15:00 Speaker_09
Like constantly freeing a testicle from one of the straps. Yeah, and you're in spandex.

01:15:05 Speaker_03
Sorry, please don't. And everybody's job is to look at you really closely.

01:15:08 Speaker_09
That's literally my job is to look at Dax's midsection. How much of his dick and balls are visible in this nude colored spandex shorts. I'm blown away that the appetite is still thriving.

01:15:21 Speaker_05
To make stuff?

01:15:22 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:15:23 Speaker_05
I love it. Especially when it just comes up. Literally we're like cooking or something and then just a song comes on or like a stupid bit. A lot of times in the car. We start to build this stupid world.

01:15:34 Speaker_05
The thing we're working on, I got so excited because I was like, oh my god, I know she wears Wranglers.

01:15:39 Speaker_09
Right.

01:15:40 Speaker_05
That was all I needed to be like, oh my God.

01:15:42 Speaker_09
Yeah, someone asked you in an interview I watched this morning that was like, how do you get into this or that character? And you're like, wig is step one.

01:15:49 Speaker_05
The wig does all my work.

01:15:50 Speaker_09
Now you're in your real hair, right?

01:15:51 Speaker_05
This is my real hair. I haven't completely misdrewed. I've been bald for 17 years.

01:15:57 Speaker_09
Oh my God.

01:15:58 Speaker_10
What a reveal that would be since I've known you. Or you have a little mohawk or something.

01:16:02 Speaker_05
Just a little, a little treat under there. We just call it patchy. God, I'd love a wig.

01:16:09 Speaker_09
So going forward, we're going to keep pushing for movies, live experience. Yes, we are. Yeah.

01:16:14 Speaker_05
There's so much dark. It's like anything that leans towards something joyful and funny. And also you got to fuck stuff up.

01:16:20 Speaker_05
You got to make fun of people in a certain way, because at some point you are going to be the one made fun of and you have to be able to be like, yeah, I am like that. I'm an ass. But everybody's kind of getting made fun of.

01:16:30 Speaker_05
Everybody's trying to pick teams so much. It's so boring and it gets us nowhere.

01:16:35 Speaker_09
Well, I adore you guys. I'm really glad that we've all stayed in touch. I had so much fun at poker the other night.

01:16:41 Speaker_03
You're on the list, as you know. I put him on the email list. You wanted it to be official.

01:16:45 Speaker_09
And I was sadly out of town last week, but it got canceled. I was so happy to find out. I'm sad for you guys. I'm happy for me.

01:16:51 Speaker_03
I didn't miss it. We'll do it again shortly, but he can only be the surprise guest once, so there won't be a fog machine. That's fine.

01:16:56 Speaker_09
I was nervous about the end. It had been a long time since I had performed.

01:17:00 Speaker_03
He was great. There were a lot of fist pumps. Yeah. When in doubt, get physical. There's a lot of pieces to it because you're trying to keep somebody in that sort of back room.

01:17:09 Speaker_09
And so he has to also do... I have to operate the smoke machine.

01:17:13 Speaker_03
He had to operate the smoke machine because I don't have like a, you know... You don't have an attendant.

01:17:19 Speaker_09
There's no way for you to cue me, really.

01:17:21 Speaker_03
No, so I start playing the music loud enough that I think he can hear it. And I'm like, it's time. And he's like, let's do it.

01:17:26 Speaker_13
You know what I love? You've continued to be at the Groundlings your whole life. It's so impressive and so awesome.

01:17:32 Speaker_09
I'm very jealous of it. It's so great. I guess that's just my last question. I say this all the time. It's been so fun, the ride, but it didn't ever get better for me than the Sunday company.

01:17:42 Speaker_09
If I'm measuring fun and like the right reasons and no expectations,

01:17:47 Speaker_05
And that crazy schedule that you couldn't get comfy.

01:17:49 Speaker_09
No.

01:17:50 Speaker_05
And then you get used to that. And also you make so many mistakes that probably the healthiest thing I've ever done is I bombed enough so quickly that I was like, and I just stopped caring.

01:18:00 Speaker_05
And I'm like, you're going to fall on your face repeatedly and often. And that's what Sunday Company and then to watch everybody else just be like, yeah, who cares? Yeah, of course you're going to bomb.

01:18:10 Speaker_09
Well, actually, I would say that my funnest memories are the bombs. Yes.

01:18:14 Speaker_03
Even if it's so skinny at that moment.

01:18:17 Speaker_09
But later you walk off stage in the dark and then you get in the green room and you turn and you look at each other to acknowledge how bad it is.

01:18:25 Speaker_10
That exact moment for me is the funnest feeling of my whole existence.

01:18:29 Speaker_05
Just a real dunk of shit.

01:18:31 Speaker_10
You go.

01:18:33 Speaker_07
They didn't laugh once. That was terrible.

01:18:37 Speaker_05
And there's different kinds. It's like sometimes they just weren't getting it. And then other times you were like, I was palpably hated. Not only do they not like what I'm selling, they're angry at me and they strongly dislike it.

01:18:51 Speaker_10
They didn't like the product and they did not like the delivery device. They didn't like the product even more than they didn't like the product.

01:18:58 Speaker_09
Oh, it's so fun. All right, well, I adore you guys. I hope everyone listens to Hildy, The Barback, and The Lake of Fire. I listened to it. It's so well done. I can't believe that's your first foray into this. It's really, really well executed. Thank you.

01:19:13 Speaker_05
Thanks, guys. Thanks for coming. Thanks for putting on costumes with us.

01:19:16 Speaker_09
Yeah, thanks for eventizing.

01:19:18 Speaker_05
I'm gonna go to Trader Joe's now. I'm gonna go shopping. Amazing.

01:19:23 Speaker_03
The last thing they said to her, they're like, you don't have to go to the bathroom, do you?

01:19:28 Speaker_05
How does that happen?

01:19:28 Speaker_09
You're gonna have to cut the back.

01:19:30 Speaker_05
I'm just gonna claw my way out of it.

01:19:32 Speaker_09
Paul Colgan style.

01:19:33 Speaker_07
All right, love you guys.

01:19:36 Speaker_09
Love you guys. Stay tuned for the fact check so you can hear all the facts that were wrong. We're in the dog days of warmth. I just looked at the calendar ahead. Next Tuesday, it stops. Or it begins, however you wanna look at it.

01:19:55 Speaker_09
Fall will be here, it'll be in the 60s. Oh, phew. Oh, good, phew.

01:20:01 Speaker_13
Yeah, I'm ready.

01:20:02 Speaker_09
You like your heat, though, but you're on foot, is that why you're not liking it?

01:20:05 Speaker_13
I like sweaters.

01:20:06 Speaker_09
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:20:08 Speaker_13
I love sweaters, and yeah, I've been hot lately from my wogs.

01:20:12 Speaker_09
Yeah, because your car is being fixed.

01:20:15 Speaker_13
It's fixed.

01:20:15 Speaker_09
It's fixed.

01:20:16 Speaker_13
It arrived today.

01:20:17 Speaker_09
You saw it?

01:20:18 Speaker_13
I just saw it.

01:20:19 Speaker_09
How's it look?

01:20:21 Speaker_13
Great.

01:20:22 Speaker_09
It does.

01:20:23 Speaker_13
It looks great. You're not gonna believe it.

01:20:26 Speaker_09
Okay, let's tell people this story. Let's just say that you had a little incident with a pole. I did. Passing your rear door. And it's pretty demolished. And you took it- It didn't look good. For an estimate somewhere to get fixed.

01:20:43 Speaker_09
And what was the estimate? $10,000, right. And so I said, hey, I got a great guy like in the Valley, Louie, who I found through Tyler, who's fixed my shit all the time.

01:20:55 Speaker_09
He's fixed the back of the, I have ruined the tailgate of my pickup truck three full times with the trailer where the fuel tank on back crushed the, I've always found him so affordable.

01:21:05 Speaker_09
So I asked him, I put you on a chain, I said, can you help my friend Monica? Yeah. All right, so original estimate was $10,000. And what was his estimate? It's like you either time traveled to get it done or you took it to some other country.

01:21:25 Speaker_13
I was shocked when I got that number. And then I thought, well, there's no way, probably once he gets in there, he's gonna be like, this is more than 650. But even still, I was like, even if it's double that, it's so much.

01:21:39 Speaker_09
If it's quadruple that, it's still less than half of what the other. Exactly. Even I, when I heard that estimate, I was like, I mean, did he look at it? Also, There's no way he's gonna be able to fix it for that price, and you're saying it looks great?

01:21:53 Speaker_13
It looks great.

01:21:54 Speaker_09
Fuck, what a delight.

01:21:56 Speaker_13
And it was $6.50.

01:21:56 Speaker_09
Some people are still honest.

01:21:59 Speaker_13
I know, I know.

01:22:01 Speaker_09
Maybe too honest.

01:22:02 Speaker_13
I just ran out there, because Juancho dropped it off out there.

01:22:07 Speaker_09
Shout out Juancho.

01:22:08 Speaker_13
Yes, and I went and I got it, and I somehow lost my phone in the process.

01:22:14 Speaker_09
Oh.

01:22:14 Speaker_13
So it's probably in the car, I hope. Oof. But I don't know, yep.

01:22:20 Speaker_09
You lose your phone enough that you can be relaxed when it's missing, right?

01:22:23 Speaker_13
I'm not relaxed, it's like stressing me out a little bit.

01:22:26 Speaker_09
I wouldn't even be able to function in this fact check.

01:22:29 Speaker_13
It's a good challenge to not be so attached.

01:22:32 Speaker_09
You're right, it's a great mental exercise. I have so much to cover. Once in a blue moon, I make a list of things I wanna cover in the fact check and that blue moon has arrived.

01:22:42 Speaker_13
Oh boy, cause I also have a list.

01:22:44 Speaker_09
Oh you do? Personal or episode related?

01:22:47 Speaker_13
Well, I have a list of facts, but then I also have personals.

01:22:50 Speaker_09
That's a given. I'm going to get out my list. Do you want to go first? I don't want to presume to go first.

01:22:55 Speaker_13
I do want to talk about my finger.

01:22:57 Speaker_09
Okay, great. Let's talk about it. So we were in- I'll put this down. And I'm sorry if it's triggering that I know where my phone is.

01:23:05 Speaker_13
It's a little. And it's taunting me, I can see it.

01:23:07 Speaker_09
Oh, look, your phone. I have your phone, now you can relax.

01:23:09 Speaker_13
Oh, great. We were in Austin, and it was really fun.

01:23:14 Speaker_09
It always delivers. Yeah. God bless Austin.

01:23:16 Speaker_13
It was so fun.

01:23:17 Speaker_09
American by birth, Texan by the grace of God. That's what they say, yeah.

01:23:21 Speaker_13
They also say, bigger the hair, the closer to God.

01:23:24 Speaker_09
Oh, I've not heard that one. That's great.

01:23:26 Speaker_13
The higher the hair, the closer to God. One of those.

01:23:29 Speaker_09
Also, they say when you're bowling for a finish, you're followed through. You shake the hand with the Lord.

01:23:32 Speaker_13
Oh, wow. I've never heard that.

01:23:34 Speaker_09
Isn't that great?

01:23:35 Speaker_13
I'm going to try that. So we were in Austin, and I was at breakfast. And, uh, great breakfast.

01:23:41 Speaker_09
Was I there or was this a separate?

01:23:42 Speaker_13
You were not there. This is when I went with Ange to... Yes, you went to another lunch spot, and I had a massage, so I had to, our schedules were not aligning.

01:23:51 Speaker_09
So I went to- You blew me off several times, which I just tip my hat to you. You really were on your own path.

01:23:58 Speaker_13
Well, blowing off- I invited you to a party. We'll circle back to this conversation, okay?

01:24:03 Speaker_09
Earmark. Not a sponsor, Earmark.

01:24:06 Speaker_13
That's a great name for a business, actually.

01:24:08 Speaker_09
Earmark.

01:24:09 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:24:10 Speaker_09
We just copyrighted it, don't try.

01:24:11 Speaker_13
Don't take it.

01:24:12 Speaker_09
Get all the handles wrong.

01:24:13 Speaker_13
We already got it. Okay, so I was walking, you know I love to walk when I'm on vacation.

01:24:19 Speaker_08
Yeah.

01:24:20 Speaker_13
I go to random locations and then I walk for a long time back to my original destination. Starting point. Or to my destination in my original location. Yeah.

01:24:29 Speaker_13
So I was like 35 minutes from the hotel and I'm walking and I'm listening to Elizabeth and Andy, but nobody's listening right. And it's so, it's so lovely.

01:24:39 Speaker_09
Dream weather, 75 every day.

01:24:40 Speaker_13
Great weather. And all of a sudden I feel like something's sort of in my hair. And since I had headphones in, I was like, oh, maybe like my thing is caught. And I swatted it with my hand and I got stung.

01:24:57 Speaker_09
Sting, and maybe even sting, sting, sting.

01:25:00 Speaker_13
I'm starting to wonder if there was multiple stings.

01:25:02 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:25:03 Speaker_13
So I was shook, and I grabbed my hand. The stinger was still half in.

01:25:08 Speaker_08
You saw it?

01:25:08 Speaker_09
Uh-huh.

01:25:09 Speaker_08
Okay.

01:25:09 Speaker_13
It had white stuff.

01:25:10 Speaker_09
Well, then only one.

01:25:11 Speaker_13
No, unless it stung and then that's where it ended.

01:25:14 Speaker_09
Oh, okay, that's a good point.

01:25:15 Speaker_13
Yeah. So then I yanked it out. I'm not sure if I got it all.

01:25:21 Speaker_09
Well, do you see a black dot anywhere on your hand? There's a dot. There is? Mm-hmm. You might need Carly. You might need her to get in there, so there's nobody better.

01:25:31 Speaker_13
I know, I know.

01:25:32 Speaker_09
Well, Lobby, she did it for Calvin once, too. Yeah, she's, guys, if you're out there, use Louie as a paint body and use my sister Carly for any minor elective surgeries.

01:25:42 Speaker_13
She is good at it. Anywho, so that was a bummer, right? Like, it hurt, obviously, but I was like, eh, whatever.

01:25:48 Speaker_12
Yeah.

01:25:49 Speaker_13
And I have a ring on that finger, a very important ring.

01:25:55 Speaker_09
Sweetest story.

01:25:56 Speaker_13
So like a super thin gold ring with a tiny, tiny diamond on it. And I bought it after I booked my first commercial here.

01:26:03 Speaker_09
See, that's the really cute part. You went out and spoiled yourself a little bit. I did.

01:26:08 Speaker_13
I was proud of myself for booking that role.

01:26:11 Speaker_09
Yeah, I'm proud of myself.

01:26:12 Speaker_13
I'm proud of myself, I'm proud of myself. I was. And I, yeah, so I bought that ring. So this is like 12 years ago, probably, 13.

01:26:24 Speaker_09
25 year old baby.

01:26:26 Speaker_13
I barely take that ring off. I've taken it off a couple other times in life for like an hour. But it's hard to get off even when, even normally, it's very hard to get off. It fits perfect. Like a glove.

01:26:39 Speaker_13
And I didn't anticipate what would happen next, which is that my hand would, my finger would start swelling like crazy.

01:26:46 Speaker_09
Ballooned up. We could use the word balloon.

01:26:49 Speaker_13
Yeah. And so by the time, the next morning, by the time I looked at it, the finger was enormous and the ring was extremely tight.

01:26:59 Speaker_09
I took one look at it and then I had to fight off a panic attack. Cause you know, my only phobias are really claustrophobia. Somehow that fits in claustrophobia for me.

01:27:10 Speaker_09
I don't wear rings because the few times I've put them on, even if it's a little questionable whether it's going to come off, I panic.

01:27:19 Speaker_12
Yeah.

01:27:19 Speaker_09
And in fact, like on parenthood, I had to wear a wedding ring and I got to wear a heat. The only way I can wear one is if it's way too big and then it's falling off. So it's a whole thing, but I hate that.

01:27:29 Speaker_09
So I took a look at that and I was like, fuck that. I, we got to get that off of you right now. Should I go buy pliers?

01:27:36 Speaker_13
I know, and I said, absolutely not, this is a very important ring.

01:27:39 Speaker_09
Yeah, it's a source of all your good luck.

01:27:41 Speaker_13
Yes, we'll get into that because, so I was like, this is an important ring, without it, who am I? And yes, all my money and luck and a fortune is attached to this ring and safety and security. So I was like, it'll be fine.

01:27:57 Speaker_13
This is probably the biggest it'll get, it'll go down and it'll be fine. Cut to the next day, it's worse.

01:28:05 Speaker_08
Was that a Thursday you got it?

01:28:07 Speaker_13
I got it on Thursday.

01:28:08 Speaker_08
Stung on Thursday.

01:28:10 Speaker_13
Friday it didn't look good. No. Saturday it didn't look good. No. And Sunday I was flying home.

01:28:17 Speaker_04
Yeah.

01:28:17 Speaker_13
We flew separately.

01:28:19 Speaker_04
Yeah.

01:28:19 Speaker_13
I woke up and I was like, oh my God, what am I doing? Like, I'm about to get on this plane. The pressure is going to be so intense on the plane.

01:28:30 Speaker_13
And, and what if it's a blood, like, I hadn't thought about this, but I was like, what if this is like a blood clot situation?

01:28:36 Speaker_09
I said immediately, this is, could be gangrene.

01:28:39 Speaker_13
I know gangrene, I'm not as worried about as I am a blood clot and an aneurysm, because I'm very scared of aneurysms.

01:28:46 Speaker_09
Okay, and I need to point out, we were recording yesterday and I pointed this out. I'm gonna point it out here. This wonderful juxtaposition of you both being terrified of aneurysms and blood clots.

01:28:59 Speaker_09
And what I might deem of hypochondriac, I know you'll push back on that, but I think you're a hypochondriac. and simultaneous to being a hypochondriac, when you have legitimate injuries and problems, you completely ignore them.

01:29:11 Speaker_13
So case in point- I just think they'll be fine.

01:29:14 Speaker_09
That's ignoring them. Your ear was so infected and nearly gangrenous, and you let it go on for, how long was that escapades? A month?

01:29:25 Speaker_13
It was a while.

01:29:26 Speaker_09
It was so long. You look like you were a rugby player or an MMA fighter. You look like you had cauliflower ear. No, I didn't. Yes, you did. You had cauliflower ear. No, don't say that.

01:29:35 Speaker_13
Don't stop saying cauliflower.

01:29:36 Speaker_09
You had cauliflower ear down in Louisville. Louisville.

01:29:39 Speaker_13
I didn't have that.

01:29:40 Speaker_09
Okay, it was disgusting. It looked like you were gonna go septic or sepsis, whatever the word is, really quickly. And then people may remember I performed a surgery on you.

01:29:49 Speaker_12
You did.

01:29:50 Speaker_09
And it's a great video. Back to Carly. She watches it weekly.

01:29:53 Speaker_13
She loves that video.

01:29:54 Speaker_09
Probably just a brush up on her skills.

01:29:56 Speaker_13
Yeah, so Sunday morning, I think, what have I done? I've made a huge mistake. Also, I'm flying separately from you. So if I have an aneurysm, I'll be by myself.

01:30:05 Speaker_13
I hadn't even anticipated the fact that that could be, I thought like, you know, the pressure, but I was like, I'll deal with it. I'll put ice on it.

01:30:14 Speaker_13
But then when I got in my head that there could be a blood, cause you know, you are more prone to blood clots on a plane.

01:30:19 Speaker_09
Yes, that's true. Because of inactivity.

01:30:22 Speaker_13
Right, but since I was pulling up all the blood in my finger, I didn't know what I was, I didn't know what I had set myself up for.

01:30:28 Speaker_09
Yeah, I don't wanna beat a dead horse, but when you don't have circulation, what you risk is that that blood will become necrotic and poisonous. And when that happens, it starts spreading. And then we're lobbing off body parts.

01:30:42 Speaker_09
People get gangrene on their toe and they lose their whole foot. So like, you were fucking, you're playing with fire.

01:30:48 Speaker_13
I was playing with fire.

01:30:48 Speaker_09
And you're worried about a clot, which is not the right thing. Now, we'll get comments from physicians, so maybe I'm wrong. Hold on, hold your horses.

01:30:54 Speaker_13
Yeah, hold your horses.

01:30:56 Speaker_09
But as your friend, I'm like, let's get this thing off you before you have, what if you didn't have your middle finger right now?

01:31:02 Speaker_13
I know, look, it's still a little precarious, we'll get to that.

01:31:05 Speaker_09
You struggle with your self-image enough. AI had in there four fingers on one hand, you think you're gonna be able to overcome that?

01:31:11 Speaker_13
Yes, I'm very strong.

01:31:12 Speaker_09
You're a babe and you think you're a dog. Imagine now you have nine fingers all in. You'd have to cut off another one to make it even, that's a side note. Oh my God, okay.

01:31:20 Speaker_13
Now, I did decide that morning that this ring's probably gotta go before I get on this plane. But then I thought, how the fuck am I gonna do that?

01:31:28 Speaker_13
So then I went into the cupboard at the hotel and I got the wine opener and I was trying to use that to get it off. is a pretty good idea. Why are you looking like that? That's a good idea when there's no pliers around.

01:31:45 Speaker_09
That's a terrible idea. Why?

01:31:46 Speaker_13
That's the sharpest object.

01:31:48 Speaker_09
And all you were gonna add to that, yes, it's a sharp object that you're gonna be going like this with. It's so not controlled. You're gonna be putting a ton of pressure on the corner of that, and you're gonna now slice open your big donut finger.

01:31:59 Speaker_09
I was worried about that. Your water weenie finger. The fucking ring's still gonna be on there. Now you're gushing blood. I mean, maybe some of the pressure will be, anyways.

01:32:07 Speaker_13
Anyway, I tried it a couple times, didn't work.

01:32:09 Speaker_09
I'm so glad you didn't slice your finger in half.

01:32:12 Speaker_13
So then I get to the airport and I am starting to panic a little bit. I get my ice. I'm trying to ice it. Nothing's really happening. And then I decide to buy, I had Advil already. I decided to buy aspirin and Benadryl. Aspirin in case of the clot in hand.

01:32:34 Speaker_09
You wanna thin out your blood a little bit, sure. I need to add to people, too, so they understand, because we haven't really given them.

01:32:40 Speaker_09
I need people to understand that the diameter of your middle knuckle on your middle finger was twice the size of the diameter of where the ring was. I need people to understand, this is a real cartoonish Robert Crumb drawing of a finger.

01:32:56 Speaker_13
I have a picture, it doesn't do it justice, but I can post that.

01:33:03 Speaker_09
It had that sense that if you poked it with a tiny needle, it would pop.

01:33:07 Speaker_13
Yeah, and I was poking it. It didn't pop.

01:33:14 Speaker_01
Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

01:33:28 Speaker_13
Anyway, so, and also, okay, our poor, one of our bosses was on our flight who we had just met.

01:33:35 Speaker_09
Oh, really? You didn't tell me that.

01:33:36 Speaker_13
Yes, so.

01:33:37 Speaker_09
On your flight.

01:33:38 Speaker_13
On my flight.

01:33:38 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:33:39 Speaker_13
And I, and she's awesome. We had just met her and poor thing, I like, and I was like, are you on this flight? And she said, yes, great, see you at the airport. And then she texted me, I'll see you there. And I was like, yeah.

01:33:52 Speaker_13
Also my finger, I got stung by a bee. My finger's huge and I'm a little worried it's gonna explode.

01:33:58 Speaker_09
I feel eight years old right now.

01:34:00 Speaker_13
Yeah, I did. I felt like I was so glad there was gonna be somebody else there in case I died.

01:34:06 Speaker_09
Yeah, okay.

01:34:07 Speaker_13
Poor her, because she has two kids and she was on this vacation.

01:34:11 Speaker_09
It was her first trip without kids. And now she has you as a kid.

01:34:15 Speaker_13
Deal with this kid. And she was so cute. She arrived at the terminal with some ice, which was really nice. I had already got some ice for myself, of course.

01:34:24 Speaker_13
I also text my friend Sally, who is on the East Coast, because it was early, so I knew all my friends on the West Coast would be asleep, so I texted Sally from Argent.

01:34:36 Speaker_09
I did not know it had gotten to this level.

01:34:38 Speaker_13
Yeah, I know, I didn't tell you.

01:34:39 Speaker_09
Remember when you cut your finger in your apartment? But it sounds very similar.

01:34:43 Speaker_13
But that, you are saying it's serious and now you're trying to act like it's not serious. So that's why I wanted to set the table correctly that this was a problem.

01:34:54 Speaker_09
Okay.

01:34:54 Speaker_13
Now you're trying to act all like it wasn't a problem, you're a hypochondriac.

01:34:58 Speaker_09
No, it's a problem, but calling a friend in New York.

01:35:03 Speaker_13
Why? What?

01:35:06 Speaker_09
Well, how is she gonna be a part of the game plan?

01:35:08 Speaker_13
Well, why don't you keep listening?

01:35:09 Speaker_09
Okay, okay.

01:35:10 Speaker_13
So I said, Sally, hey, I'm so sorry to bother you.

01:35:13 Speaker_09
Hey, guy.

01:35:13 Speaker_13
Do you know any doctors or medical professionals on the East Coast who could be up right now? And she said, yes. And so she put me on two texts with two different people. Okay.

01:35:26 Speaker_13
And I sent Tally a picture of my finger and she sent the picture to them and said, this is Monica. This is what happened. And I just said, hey, I'm just, you know, I'm about to get on the flight. I'm wondering if I should do anything.

01:35:37 Speaker_13
Should I take, oh, this is another thing. I really didn't want to take the Benadryl because I didn't want to be sleepy all day.

01:35:44 Speaker_09
Okay.

01:35:45 Speaker_13
Okay.

01:35:45 Speaker_09
You're juggling a lot of objectives.

01:35:47 Speaker_13
Do I need to take this Benadryl? I also have aspirin. Am I at risk for a blood clot? And the doctor said, he said, keep an eye on it. Maybe take the Benadryl. If it's starting to change color, you need to go to the ER and have it cut off. Right.

01:36:06 Speaker_13
At the ring.

01:36:07 Speaker_09
Yeah. And just really quick, not to escalate this, But it would change color, not because of a blood clot.

01:36:14 Speaker_13
It doesn't matter. He said I wasn't at risk for the blood clot, so I felt better. I was like, okay, then this is fine. However, the second medical professional was like, can you get the ring off? You definitely need to take Benadryl.

01:36:28 Speaker_13
She seemed scared, more scared.

01:36:30 Speaker_09
Was there a lot of exclamation points in her text? How do you know she was scared?

01:36:34 Speaker_13
I could tell by the way it was punctuated.

01:36:37 Speaker_09
What if her text response said, Stop this exchange, dial 911.

01:36:41 Speaker_13
I know, that's what it felt.

01:36:43 Speaker_09
Yeah. That's what it felt. You kind of wanted them to say that.

01:36:45 Speaker_13
No, I didn't because I was really, I was like, I got to get home.

01:36:49 Speaker_09
Right.

01:36:50 Speaker_13
I want to go home now.

01:36:51 Speaker_11
Yeah.

01:36:52 Speaker_13
I took the Benadryl.

01:36:54 Speaker_11
Yeah.

01:36:54 Speaker_13
We get on the plane. I'm there with our boss.

01:36:57 Speaker_04
Yeah. She's taken care of me. You're seated next to each other?

01:36:59 Speaker_13
Yeah, she saved me a seat, which was really nice. Anyway, we chatted the whole time. We had a great flight. It was so fun. My finger didn't explode. Oh, okay, great. And I knew it wasn't clotting. So I was like, great. So Jess picks me up from the airport.

01:37:11 Speaker_13
I'm like, this is what happened. He was like, oh my God, that looks horrible. We need to do something about this. And I was like, no, I made it through the flight. So I think it's at its peak now. I think it's going to go down. It's going to be fine.

01:37:23 Speaker_13
I'm back feeling very confident.

01:37:25 Speaker_09
Yeah. Bullish.

01:37:26 Speaker_13
Then I woke up the next morning and it looked worse.

01:37:30 Speaker_09
Well, in the middle of the night it got hot and itchy.

01:37:32 Speaker_13
Yeah, and that had been happening for a couple of days. And that's the other thing, it's still happening. Last night, I woke up in the middle of night, it's like on fire and so itchy. What the fuck is going on?

01:37:46 Speaker_09
Histamines, it's sending histamines there.

01:37:49 Speaker_13
So anyway, yesterday, I mean, Monday, I arrive, the finger is looking blue enough for me to be like, all right, we got to. And so you cut it off.

01:38:01 Speaker_09
Well, hold on a second.

01:38:02 Speaker_13
Okay, now you can step in.

01:38:03 Speaker_09
That's not exactly what happened. You didn't come to me and say, all right, I'm ready.

01:38:07 Speaker_13
In my head, I did.

01:38:08 Speaker_09
You said nothing. And then I looked at your finger and I said, by God, Monica, please let me cut that ring off.

01:38:16 Speaker_13
Well, I said, I knew and I arrived that day.

01:38:19 Speaker_09
And then I drug you to my tool bench. I put ether over your face so you'd pass out.

01:38:26 Speaker_13
And you stole all my money.

01:38:27 Speaker_09
And then I snipped it off.

01:38:29 Speaker_13
Yeah, you did.

01:38:30 Speaker_09
Real quick, everything was solved.

01:38:32 Speaker_13
Well, it did immediately help. I was like, yeah, that definitely did help.

01:38:36 Speaker_09
And the swelling went down.

01:38:38 Speaker_13
Swelling went down within a few hours. Like, it went down a lot. It's still swollen.

01:38:41 Speaker_09
Sure, sure, sure. But it's not a water weenie.

01:38:44 Speaker_13
It's not at all what it looked like. I was able to move the ring to a different finger and I just like sort of kind of closed it up in the back and I felt safe.

01:38:54 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:38:55 Speaker_13
But I, it's not going to last like that.

01:38:58 Speaker_09
It's a very easy soldering for somebody.

01:39:01 Speaker_13
But am I gonna go through all that trouble for this?

01:39:03 Speaker_09
All that, ask Juancho to go to a jewelry store and get it soldered? That doesn't sound very hard.

01:39:08 Speaker_13
It's like a $200 ring, it's like I'm gonna do all this?

01:39:13 Speaker_09
Yes, of course, and in fact, that's a great message.

01:39:17 Speaker_12
To the universe.

01:39:19 Speaker_09
exterior force is divine value for you. That ring means more to you than your thousand dollar bone cuff, or however much that thing is.

01:39:27 Speaker_13
Oh yeah, much, yeah.

01:39:28 Speaker_09
So of course, spare no expense, because that has real value.

01:39:31 Speaker_13
Fuck, I'm saying the opposite in my head. I'm like, Monica, stop. you need to stop putting so much emphasis on material items. Like, it's a ring. It's not that big of a deal.

01:39:45 Speaker_09
It's not in charge of your destiny. It doesn't have magic powers. Yes.

01:39:48 Speaker_09
But it is a thing that you bought as a reward for yourself when you came to a place to try to do something that was very hard and you did it and you were proud of yourself and that's very sweet and that's probably the most important piece of jewelry you actually have.

01:40:00 Speaker_13
It is, but I'm not throwing it away.

01:40:02 Speaker_09
Well, go get it fixed.

01:40:05 Speaker_13
Send it to Louie.

01:40:07 Speaker_09
Send it to Louie. I bet if he can fix your door for $6.50, he'll have this ring back on your finger for $12. Okay?

01:40:15 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:40:15 Speaker_09
Louie, are you listening? I don't think he's a listener.

01:40:18 Speaker_13
Yet.

01:40:19 Speaker_09
Yeah, that's a good point.

01:40:21 Speaker_13
So, all to say, that was the drama, and I am really sad about the ring, and I'm gonna decide maybe I will fix it. It's very thin gold, I mean, I don't know, we'll see.

01:40:32 Speaker_09
We'll see.

01:40:33 Speaker_13
And my finger still really hurts and is really itchy.

01:40:36 Speaker_09
But it's way, way significantly better, just like your ear got better really quick. Now I know the issue you're trying to confront on this recent life challenge is don't assign so much power to these things. Yeah. And that's a great one.

01:40:49 Speaker_09
But I would like you to also consider paying less attention to the things you don't have and more attention to the problems you do have.

01:40:57 Speaker_13
What do you mean?

01:40:58 Speaker_09
Like you'll spend so much time worrying about a blood clot that you don't have. And then you're not spending a lot of time on your ear or your finger, which are clearly fucked up. So maybe just also, I take that back. You're on your own path.

01:41:12 Speaker_09
It's going great.

01:41:13 Speaker_02
It's going pretty good.

01:41:14 Speaker_09
It's going really good. Back to Austin.

01:41:17 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:41:18 Speaker_09
Really fun time.

01:41:19 Speaker_13
Yes.

01:41:19 Speaker_09
We did a couple panels.

01:41:21 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:41:22 Speaker_09
We had, fucking shout out, not a sponsor, Lambert Steakhouse.

01:41:26 Speaker_13
Oh my God.

01:41:27 Speaker_09
Guys, we went out to eat on Wednesday with lovely Adam Grant. He was part of our panel.

01:41:32 Speaker_12
Yep.

01:41:33 Speaker_09
Went to Lambert's. I got the ribeye. Yeah. In three bites in, the addict panicked. Yeah, of course. I need a second one of these, because the thought of this being over is terrifying. Yeah. It was so good. I don't know what's in it.

01:41:50 Speaker_09
A friend suggested it might have been marinated with maple syrup.

01:41:55 Speaker_04
Yeah.

01:41:55 Speaker_09
It had horseradish, which you don't generally like, smeared all over the top with this very sweet glaze, charred medium. The fat was all melted. It was so sweet.

01:42:04 Speaker_13
I mean, it was just like sugar, the whole thing.

01:42:06 Speaker_09
It was like a Snickers bar or something.

01:42:08 Speaker_13
Yeah, it was delicious.

01:42:09 Speaker_09
My God, it was so good. And all I thought about every 10 minutes following that meal was getting another one. So we went back in two days. Yep. And I did no sides or anything and just did two ribeyes. You did two.

01:42:24 Speaker_13
And I was worried, but you did just fine.

01:42:27 Speaker_09
I felt so strong.

01:42:28 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:42:29 Speaker_09
I felt like a bull.

01:42:30 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:42:30 Speaker_09
I almost ran out the side of the restaurant through the brick wall instead of using the door. It was so good. Got to go to Barton Springs. It was closed one day, heartbreaker. I can never seem to remember their closed for cleaning on Thursday.

01:42:43 Speaker_09
I can't tell you how many times I've driven there on Thursday, unloaded all my shit, walked to the gate and go, oh yeah, that's right, they cleaned it on Thursday. That happened again. But went out with Rory and Ange a couple times.

01:42:52 Speaker_09
Big shout out to Rory and Ange, lent us an outrageously beautiful car. Couldn't rent a car, no inventory, because F1 weekend. So I got this beautiful car, I'm almost embarrassed to say what it is, but I guess it's not my car, but it was a Bentley.

01:43:08 Speaker_13
It was a Bentley.

01:43:08 Speaker_09
It was a green, sexy Bentley.

01:43:10 Speaker_13
It was gorgeous.

01:43:11 Speaker_09
I felt like royalty driving it. I was like, oh, I understand why people drive these cars.

01:43:16 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:43:16 Speaker_09
Plush, fast.

01:43:17 Speaker_13
And we ate Dairy Queen in there.

01:43:19 Speaker_09
We had, not in the- We spilled it all over the car, Rory.

01:43:21 Speaker_13
No, we didn't.

01:43:22 Speaker_09
We didn't. We went to Dairy Queen twice and you said, are we gonna eat in the car? And I said, of course. How fucking rude could that be? Borrow someone's Bentley and go to Dairy Queen. Oh, you also got a dip cone, which is a fucking mess.

01:43:37 Speaker_09
There was shit leaking all over all the side. Like you would have destroyed that car. It would have made your door repair.

01:43:43 Speaker_13
Well, I was more like, how are we going to do this? Like, I didn't even consider the fact that we wouldn't eat in the, I've never done that.

01:43:48 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:43:49 Speaker_13
So I, that wasn't even an option in my head. So I was kind of like, is this a good idea? Us going to Dairy Queen in this car?

01:43:55 Speaker_09
Right, but I knew we were gonna eat outside because it's a dicey Dairy Queen, which I like. There's like, the parking lot is potentially... That's why I don't even think it's an option. There's certainly been gunshots in the parking lot.

01:44:07 Speaker_09
How many, I won't claim, but definitely they've been inside the Dairy Queen and heard gunshots. And I like that. You sit outside and people, there's shit going on. Anyways, then we went to the sprint race.

01:44:19 Speaker_13
Yeah, which was so fun.

01:44:20 Speaker_09
So fun. Great race.

01:44:22 Speaker_13
We got to go with Amazon, which was really nice.

01:44:24 Speaker_09
Really fun. Guests of Amazon. And Max Verstappen, who had not won in a while, won the sprint race, which made me so happy. Yep. Didn't win the big race, but that's okay.

01:44:35 Speaker_13
Oh, he didn't.

01:44:36 Speaker_09
He didn't. But Charles Leclerc didn't. That's nice. He hasn't won in a while, too, and I love Charles Leclerc.

01:44:40 Speaker_13
Okay, great. Yeah, that was fun. You were a good luck charm.

01:44:44 Speaker_09
I was a good luck charm. Then we went, same day, this might be the most eventful day ever.

01:44:49 Speaker_12
Huge day.

01:44:50 Speaker_09
When you talk about like going to see Beyonce or going to see Taylor Swift or going to a Superbowl, we got two of them in one day. A Formula One race in Austin is an event of a lifetime. And then in the evening, what did we do?

01:45:03 Speaker_13
We went to the Texas-Georgia game.

01:45:05 Speaker_09
Texas-Georgia, this was the game of the century. Huge game. I had not been, I had only been to a UCLA game and no disrespect to my alma mater, what a fucking joke of a show they put on at UCLA compared to what's happening in Texas.

01:45:20 Speaker_13
What's happening in the SEC, the SEC.

01:45:22 Speaker_09
Yeah, I know you're horny for the SEC. You must have said SEC like 12 times while we were there.

01:45:30 Speaker_13
Because that's the truth.

01:45:33 Speaker_09
I'm sure you're right, I know nothing about that.

01:45:36 Speaker_13
Well, yeah, but you kept going like SEC and now you're in the SEC you like it was the first because I was telling you I'm Confused because I don't remember us ever playing Texas while I was at Georgia So I was confused the Longhorns hook them.

01:45:49 Speaker_13
Oh, then I checked in with With my friend Robbie who knows everything about college football and I said I don't remember this and he said we didn't play them because they just joined the SEC this year First year, so it was a big deal.

01:46:03 Speaker_13
They're playing in the big leagues now

01:46:05 Speaker_09
Yep, that was mostly your point.

01:46:07 Speaker_13
Yep. It was because they were number one going into this game.

01:46:11 Speaker_09
Okay, all great. They bring up Bovee. Is that the name of the mascot? I think. A longhorn hook'em. 2,000 pound, biggest mascot. What are we gonna do?

01:46:22 Speaker_13
We're gonna have a fight on this. I wanted to have the fight while we were there, but you were mad at me quite a bit.

01:46:29 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:46:30 Speaker_13
You, you were mad at me quite a bit really mad, but now I'm getting actually mad.

01:46:33 Speaker_09
You were pretty, you were kind of actually mad at me.

01:46:36 Speaker_13
If you don't remember, I wasn't because I knew why I understood why you were pretending to be a Texas fan there because should we, should we be, can we tell people what we were doing?

01:46:46 Speaker_09
Yeah. We were guests of my new boyfriend, Matthew McConaughey. Well, we didn't see him.

01:46:51 Speaker_13
We didn't see him because he's on the field.

01:46:53 Speaker_09
I can do 45 minutes of Makanae. Makanae is the actual mascot of... Texas football. The Longhorns. Bevo. D-vo? Bevo, B-E-V-O. Bevo.

01:47:06 Speaker_13
We're sure that's how you pronounce it?

01:47:08 Speaker_09
No, I have no idea. Bevo, Bevo. If we were filming a movie of what happened, my guess is we're gonna have to do about 12 takes to get the timing right of what happened when they showed McConaughey on the big screen.

01:47:19 Speaker_09
Well, first of all, the place is incredibly on fire.

01:47:23 Speaker_13
Oh, yeah.

01:47:23 Speaker_09
They're going so fucking hard. The jets fly over, there's smoke everywhere. They're running out fucking pyrotechnics. Bovee or Bud Bevy or Dovim, they run her out or him out. The Longhorns, you got to hook them. And then going around and then...

01:47:40 Speaker_09
They show all the fun footage and everything and they're kind of showing famous alumni and everything.

01:47:44 Speaker_09
And then all of a sudden they show like some person's famous face and then they show like a mystery face and all of a sudden goes to a live shot and McConaughey's back is to the camera, right?

01:47:55 Speaker_09
And the second that shot comes on, he throws his head back and gives up the horns. Yeah.

01:48:00 Speaker_13
It was fantastic.

01:48:01 Speaker_09
It was glorious.

01:48:03 Speaker_12
It was really good.

01:48:04 Speaker_09
Fuck, I'm like, this guy is magic. And he's on the field, he's the coach.

01:48:08 Speaker_13
He gets to be on the field, yeah.

01:48:10 Speaker_09
He owns the whole place. It's his team, it's McConaughey's Longhorns. And he's wearing a cowboy hat and a brown leather jacket and he turned around and gave the horns and his fucking face was glistening. I was like, this motherfucker is a star.

01:48:26 Speaker_13
He's a star, there's no getting around it. I'm in love with him. I know you are. And we were guests of his, it was so sweet. It was. We were in his suite.

01:48:34 Speaker_09
Yes.

01:48:34 Speaker_13
And we were with his friends and his family and they were all lovely.

01:48:37 Speaker_09
Oh my God, nicest group of folks. That's telling, by the way. Like, I only know McConaughey so much. We went up Lambert's, ding, ding, ding.

01:48:44 Speaker_13
Yep.

01:48:44 Speaker_09
And then we've interviewed him. But I think when you meet people's friends.

01:48:48 Speaker_13
Huge.

01:48:48 Speaker_09
Yeah, you really understand who the person is.

01:48:50 Speaker_13
And his kids were so polite and nice and sweet. Oh, they're just lovely.

01:48:55 Speaker_09
Two things, A, I love Austin. Austin's my place, you know, it's my spiritual calling. That's not the right word. It's my spiritual center. I love Austin. You know, I've wanted to move there a bunch of times.

01:49:06 Speaker_09
I told you recently, I really, if I had to do it all over again, I went to another college, it would definitely be University of Texas, Austin. I feel like that's my vibe.

01:49:14 Speaker_13
You can't.

01:49:17 Speaker_09
You can't even walk with me a little bit.

01:49:18 Speaker_13
I can't because you already told me on the trip that you would rather live in Paris than Austin.

01:49:23 Speaker_09
No, I think we're talking about time, uh, teleporting.

01:49:26 Speaker_13
No, we were not. I said, I said something about Austin and then you said, well, I don't know if I wouldn't pick Paris.

01:49:34 Speaker_09
Okay. But again, I don't speak French. All right, so as much as I love Paris, I'm not actually, when it comes down to it, certain I would live in Paris over Austin. None of this is here nor there.

01:49:48 Speaker_12
It's here.

01:49:49 Speaker_09
So I of course wanted to support Texas because of our host, but then also I love Texas. I love University of Texas.

01:49:57 Speaker_07
I love them. What do you mean I do? How do you love a place you've never been? Do you remember my last trip there?

01:50:02 Speaker_09
I went to the campus and wandered around and I was looking at how they positioned the campus on the Capitol sight line. Do you remember all that? I've never wandered the campus of any other college other than Harvard.

01:50:15 Speaker_13
Yeah, but wander the campus.

01:50:17 Speaker_09
I'm at my hotel, I'm like, yeah, I gotta walk around UT, I like this, I'm gonna go look at this place, I love this place. Anyways.

01:50:24 Speaker_13
Any who's. Okay, so. So I decided to maintain my integrity. I'm at a real crossroads here before we go to this game because I am like, what the fuck am I gonna do? Am I gonna not wear Georgia clothes because that feels like really wrong in my bones.

01:50:44 Speaker_09
Now here's my issue. So I was, do you remember, I was a hundred percent supportive of you wearing your red. And I said, they'll love having you in the suite. It's fun to have one of the rivals there.

01:50:56 Speaker_09
So I was like very supportive and I said they would like it. And they did. They were like, oh good.

01:51:03 Speaker_13
Yeah, they did.

01:51:03 Speaker_09
We had a Georgia fan. Then there was fun. There was secretly three Georgia fans there, which we found out, which was fun.

01:51:08 Speaker_04
That was fun.

01:51:09 Speaker_09
And so I was very supportive of you rooting on Georgia. And I don't know why you were so mad I was rooting on Texas.

01:51:18 Speaker_13
Do you, you don't see the difference, me rooting for Georgia, a school I went to?

01:51:23 Speaker_09
No, I fully understand why you were supporting Georgia.

01:51:26 Speaker_13
But yes, so it's not an equivalent for you to root for a school that you didn't go to and have no connection to.

01:51:31 Speaker_09
But I like and have an affinity for. And I would naturally, if you're not in the picture, and I'm in Texas at that game, I'm rooting for the Longhorns.

01:51:41 Speaker_13
That's fine.

01:51:43 Speaker_09
I'm just like- I don't know why it's a betrayal. It became a betrayal or it's potentially a betrayal.

01:51:49 Speaker_13
It makes no sense. It just doesn't make any sense to me. Like if I'm with you at some anthropology conference and it's like UCLA anthropology versus Harvard anthropology. And I'm like, yeah, I'm here for Harvard. You'd be like, why?

01:52:08 Speaker_13
I mean, I love Harvard. Harvard's amazing. It's great. I love the campus.

01:52:13 Speaker_09
I guess my comp was if we go to the Formula One race and you're rooting for Lando Norris to pass Max, Max is my driver. I don't mind at all if you're rooting for, I don't want, I don't need you to be rooting for the same person I am.

01:52:30 Speaker_13
But it's not, it's not the same when, None of us are friends with any of the F1 players or- I was. Well, we were friends with Danny and so for me- By the way, we fought over that.

01:52:46 Speaker_09
So this is consistent.

01:52:48 Speaker_13
Okay.

01:52:49 Speaker_09
Because you in the past were like, how are you saying Max is your favorite driver when your friend is Daniel Ricciardo? Yeah, I think that's- And I said, I am friends with Daniel and I love him and I would help him move furniture. He's my friend.

01:53:02 Speaker_09
That doesn't mean I have to have him as my favorite driver. I'm not friends with him because he's my favorite driver. I'm friends with him because I like him. And my favorite driver is Max Verstappen. Like, I don't know how else to say it.

01:53:13 Speaker_09
And I don't, that's, that was fine with me.

01:53:17 Speaker_13
Well, of course it's fine with you. That's your, it's your opinion and your decision.

01:53:20 Speaker_09
Yeah. I don't require people to like what I like to be friends with me. I don't require, if a friend of mine's favorite podcast is Rogan over our show or SmartList, that doesn't bother me at all.

01:53:32 Speaker_13
No, that doesn't bother me at all either.

01:53:35 Speaker_09
So why would Ricardo demand that I'm Rudy? I'm going to root for someone that's going to win. And Ricardo wasn't in a position to win since we've been friends.

01:53:43 Speaker_13
He wasn't driving for Red Bull or... You're picking based on who's going to win, not based on anything else.

01:53:50 Speaker_09
Well, I'm picking who I think is the best driver.

01:53:52 Speaker_13
I'm back to football.

01:53:53 Speaker_09
Okay, let's go back to football.

01:53:55 Speaker_13
So you, it's not like you grew up a Texas fan. If you did, of course, of course, I'd be like, yeah, he's a Texas fan. This is the way it goes. You're not.

01:54:06 Speaker_09
Do you know what I would do though?

01:54:08 Speaker_13
What?

01:54:08 Speaker_09
Just to scramble your brain a little bit further. If we were watching Georgia play UCLA, I would have rooted for Georgia. How much does that fuck you up? Because I will say, and I explained this to you when we were there.

01:54:21 Speaker_09
If I have a team, the only team I watch games of in the last couple of years are U of M and Georgia. As you remember, I got very excited when Georgia won. It was very fun. I like rooting for them.

01:54:34 Speaker_09
And I was rooting for Texas that night, but I like Georgia very much. I like Georgia more than I would want UCLA to win. Then if we threw U of M in there, that'd be very confusing.

01:54:44 Speaker_09
I'd probably want U of M to win over UCLA, even though I didn't even go there.

01:54:47 Speaker_13
That I can get behind. Again, that makes more sense to me. You grew up in Michigan. Of course you want Michigan to win things. That makes sense.

01:54:57 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:54:58 Speaker_13
Texas does not make sense.

01:55:00 Speaker_09
It does to me because Austin's my place for 21 years since I did Idiocracy there.

01:55:05 Speaker_13
All right, well, they lost and it was really fucking fun for me to be there. And us really crushed. Welcome to the SEC, Texas, because you are in a little over your head.

01:55:20 Speaker_09
Okay.

01:55:21 Speaker_13
Okay. Great. Great. Great. I was proud of my boys. My George boys. You know, I went there, right?

01:55:31 Speaker_09
Oh yeah, I know. Yeah, dogs.

01:55:33 Speaker_13
Sick them. It's not an arbitrary.

01:55:35 Speaker_09
Sick them.

01:55:36 Speaker_13
Oh, that's the first time I've ever heard you say that.

01:55:38 Speaker_09
No, it's not. Yeah, it is. I've said sick them a lot. I like to say these little catchphrases, roll tight, sick them, hook them horns. I think if we dare, we don't have time.

01:55:49 Speaker_13
What?

01:55:50 Speaker_09
But the core, if like a therapist was sitting here, we both know what the core of this is.

01:55:55 Speaker_13
Of course. My fear is that you don't have any loyalty.

01:55:59 Speaker_09
That's right. You pick things I don't pick as a test of loyalty.

01:56:05 Speaker_13
I pick things you don't.

01:56:06 Speaker_09
Well, there were two things on the trip that were kind of tests of loyalty.

01:56:11 Speaker_13
Okay, what was the other? Oh, like a serious thing?

01:56:14 Speaker_09
Yeah. And so you and I have different baseline of what we expect from people who love us.

01:56:21 Speaker_13
What do you expect?

01:56:22 Speaker_09
that you don't gossip behind my back.

01:56:25 Speaker_13
Even though, you know, you've gossiped about people behind their, we have gossiped about people we love behind their back. Me and you together, so I know it's true.

01:56:33 Speaker_09
Well, okay, I mean, this is, I think there's differences in this. And you have commended me in the past and I'm not someone who talks shit about all my friends. You're not. You've like commended me for that.

01:56:44 Speaker_13
You don't talk shit, but me and you have talked about people.

01:56:47 Speaker_09
But generally, I think we've talked about people who have real, like, that are going through real problems.

01:56:53 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:56:53 Speaker_09
And I'm not getting off on the, do you hear so-and-so? No. I know the difference.

01:56:58 Speaker_13
I do too.

01:56:59 Speaker_09
Yeah, so when you're excited to share information about somebody else, to raise your personal status, because you have a secret that you've been entrusted with, that is one thing to me.

01:57:10 Speaker_09
So at any rate, we have different criteria and that's just how it is unfortunately. Like you and I have different criteria and those are not gonna ever match up. Like, I'm never going to say an enemy of yours is an enemy of mine.

01:57:24 Speaker_09
And I'm never going to love someone because you love them. I'll either love the person or hate the person, but it won't be that. Our friendship will have nothing to do with that. And I'll either love or hate Georgia because I love or hate Georgia.

01:57:36 Speaker_09
I don't take on my friends' lists of, you know, allies and enemies.

01:57:42 Speaker_13
Yeah, which is fine with me. It's just when you have no skin in the game at all, I don't understand why you wouldn't just, like for me, if I don't have a, like I'm not gonna switch my view.

01:57:56 Speaker_13
Like if I'm a Georgia fan and you're a huge Michigan, like this insane Michigan fan, I'm of course not gonna be like, I guess now I'm a Michigan fan because it's for Dak.

01:58:04 Speaker_09
And by the way, I don't want a friend like that.

01:58:07 Speaker_13
No, I know.

01:58:07 Speaker_09
Yeah.

01:58:08 Speaker_13
But if I have no connection,

01:58:10 Speaker_09
I know now you and I could debate that you think I have no connection and that's fine. I did not go to school there. But 21 years ago, I did a movie there and I fell in love there. And I go there more than any other place. Yes, I know that.

01:58:20 Speaker_09
I mean, just by a factor of 10, I've been to Austin over the last 21 years, 10 times more than any other place.

01:58:26 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:58:27 Speaker_09
I love it there. I've walked the campus. I love it there. I want them to win. I love that town. I loved the stadium. I loved what was happening. You don't think I have any business loving them, but I do. Okay. Because I love Austin.

01:58:42 Speaker_13
I get it. I just can't relate.

01:58:44 Speaker_09
Right.

01:58:44 Speaker_13
Because if I, I think if I really do believe if it was reversed and we were in New York, New York is my favorite city. I fucking love it.

01:58:52 Speaker_13
I want, I, if we're in New York and they were doing something against something you cared about, I would be rooting for who you wanted to win because I, I love New York, but I'm not, That's all I do, is I love it.

01:59:09 Speaker_13
Like, I can't, I don't feel a deeper connection.

01:59:11 Speaker_09
You would show your love for me the way you want me to show my love for you. Well, don't we all do that? But I don't want you to root for anything I root for. Like, that's the huge chasm between us. That's the thing that's hard for us to resolve.

01:59:26 Speaker_09
Because you would do that for me.

01:59:29 Speaker_13
And I don't want- It's not for you.

01:59:31 Speaker_09
Okay.

01:59:32 Speaker_13
It's just like, why wouldn't I pick the side of the person I care of? Why wouldn't I do that when I have no, I have no reason not to do it. That's the thing.

01:59:41 Speaker_09
Sure.

01:59:42 Speaker_13
It's not for you. It's not like, well, I'm doing a big thing for you right now and I'm taking this on.

01:59:45 Speaker_09
If they were playing the Oklahoma Sooners, I would have rooted for Georgia.

01:59:49 Speaker_13
Yeah.

01:59:50 Speaker_09
Yeah. If it means nothing, of course.

01:59:52 Speaker_13
Right. Yeah, I get that, but I get that.

01:59:54 Speaker_09
Okay, I have a bunch of stuff, but the only thing I, the top priority of mine is to talk about the English teacher.

02:00:01 Speaker_13
Oh wow, yeah, fantastic.

02:00:04 Speaker_09
That's number one priority. Right. In retrospect, I should have said it just at the top for a second as a teaser, but maybe I'll say it in the intro. We have watched The English Teacher on Hulu and we fucking love it. It's so goddamn good.

02:00:23 Speaker_13
It is.

02:00:24 Speaker_09
And it's more than just good.

02:00:25 Speaker_13
Yeah.

02:00:26 Speaker_09
There's something important about it too.

02:00:28 Speaker_02
Yeah.

02:00:29 Speaker_09
And I'll tell you, it's like an evolution for me.

02:00:31 Speaker_02
Let's hear it.

02:00:33 Speaker_09
Which is, and I can admit all this, you know, there was some period in the evolution of comedy since I've been in it for 30 years, where people made fun of different groups. Those groups didn't have an equal microphone.

02:00:47 Speaker_12
Yeah.

02:00:48 Speaker_09
And it was unfair. It was lopsided. If a white comedian's making jokes about Toyota Camry ownership in the Indian community, There's no one else there to punch back. Then Husson comes along and he makes tons of jokes about the Toyota Corolla or Camry.

02:01:06 Speaker_09
And as groups have become disenfranchised, so what I was worried about in that spell is there was some part of me that has a core belief that everyone should be made fun of. That it's like positive. It's humanizing, it's fun.

02:01:21 Speaker_09
If the spirit's right, it is a good part of us. And comedy is this great tool to point out things in a very special way that only comedy can do. So the notion to me that no one was gonna get made fun of anymore was a little concerning to me.

02:01:37 Speaker_09
Now what has happened, and this show to me is like one of the proofs of this, is that the solution was give all of these disenfranchised groups platforms and representation and shows and time on stage and all this, and they'll make fun of themselves.

02:01:55 Speaker_13
Or others.

02:01:56 Speaker_09
And us. And everyone. You know, whatever group. But Huston's making fun of Indians in a great way. Think it still needs to happen. You know, this group's making fun of this group. But to have a gay show creator and lead actor. Yes.

02:02:12 Speaker_09
Brian Jordan Alvarez, who's the lead of the show, and he is the creator.

02:02:16 Speaker_04
Yeah.

02:02:17 Speaker_09
To let him handle that whole zone of gayness in a school as an openly gay teacher is just great. And the perspective's better.

02:02:27 Speaker_13
Definitely.

02:02:28 Speaker_09
The perspective is so complete.

02:02:30 Speaker_13
Mm-hmm.

02:02:31 Speaker_09
So everything's happening at once. He's like making great points we should all think about. Then he's making fun of some things that are nuts.

02:02:37 Speaker_13
Totally.

02:02:37 Speaker_09
And it's him doing it, so it feels great.

02:02:40 Speaker_13
Yeah, I feel safe.

02:02:41 Speaker_09
Yeah. And I'm like, all right, here we go. This is kind of the thing I minimally hoped would happen over time, which is like, yeah, we should keep fucking poking at everyone, but it should be the people in the group doing the poking.

02:02:54 Speaker_13
Yeah. It's such a funny show.

02:02:56 Speaker_09
It's so good. We had only known about it because they said our show on it. And then I fucking narcissistically only went and watched that thing because people told me, oh, it's like, yeah, I watched the clip.

02:03:07 Speaker_09
Now that I've watched the whole show, now I feel insanely flattered that he brought us up in this show that is perfection.

02:03:16 Speaker_13
It's great.

02:03:17 Speaker_09
Fuck, it makes me happy.

02:03:18 Speaker_13
It's so flattering. Okay, I'm going to do a few facts quickly. Okay. Very quickly. The big hit of KiwiSketch, people should watch that. It's called Taste Test. It's on SNL, but if you type that in, you can find it. It's so funny.

02:03:31 Speaker_13
When did Dangerous Liaisons come out? 1988. Ooh.

02:03:37 Speaker_08
One's years old.

02:03:38 Speaker_13
Just one's years old. The snake pit is still there.

02:03:41 Speaker_08
Oh, it is. Oh, great.

02:03:43 Speaker_13
What did Sidney Poitier. Poitier. Poitier. He won the Academy Award for Lilies of the Field.

02:03:52 Speaker_08
Oh, never seen it.

02:03:53 Speaker_13
Yeah, me either.

02:03:54 Speaker_08
You should, it's your middle name.

02:03:56 Speaker_13
It is. One of the actors in their podcast, one of the voice actors in their podcast that we were discussing.

02:04:03 Speaker_08
The Aussie?

02:04:05 Speaker_13
Yes. Well, she's from New Zealand. She's a Kiwi. Speaking of Kiwi, big hit of Kiwi, her name's Anna Scottney. And they were saying that they saw her in a Taika movie. That movie is called The Breaker Uppers. Taika produced it.

02:04:23 Speaker_08
Okay, the Breaker Uppers.

02:04:24 Speaker_13
Mm-hmm. And Gloria Steinem, we are linked, not ranked. Love that. She brought that up. Melissa brought that up. And there's a store and there's bracelets.

02:04:35 Speaker_08
Oh.

02:04:36 Speaker_13
Let the cat out of the bag. I just wanted to look up the explanation for that phrase.

02:04:42 Speaker_08
Yeah.

02:04:43 Speaker_13
In medieval markets, animals like piglets, chickens, and ducks were sold in sacks. Dishonest merchants would sometimes swap out a pig for a cat when the customer looked away.

02:04:52 Speaker_13
The buyer wouldn't realize they'd been cheated until they got home and opened the bag, which is when they would have let the cat out of the bag.

02:04:59 Speaker_08
Oh, wow.

02:05:00 Speaker_13
I know. I liked that. And that's it.

02:05:03 Speaker_09
That's that?

02:05:04 Speaker_13
Yes.

02:05:05 Speaker_09
Oh, wonderful. Last thing, I'm sorry.

02:05:07 Speaker_02
That's okay.

02:05:07 Speaker_09
People have pointed out, and I think they're dead right. If you recall in our Jeff Bridges interview, when it started out, he said, I think I just saw you playing an addict in something.

02:05:18 Speaker_11
Oh.

02:05:18 Speaker_09
And I was like, yeah, I don't think I've played an addict. Remember there's a confusion.

02:05:21 Speaker_11
I do remember that.

02:05:22 Speaker_09
And people were very smart to point out. Zach Braff played an addict in Bad Monkey, which was, Definitely airing at that moment, he a thousand percent thought. Isn't that great?

02:05:35 Speaker_11
Wow.

02:05:36 Speaker_13
That's fantastic. It's still happening. I will say the, recently he posted a picture of something, of him, like with some kid. And I think the kid is like touching his face.

02:05:46 Speaker_13
So I can't, you couldn't see his face completely, but I was scrolling on Instagram and I a hundred percent thought it was you.

02:05:51 Speaker_09
You thought there was a little kid touching my face.

02:05:52 Speaker_13
Yes.

02:05:53 Speaker_09
Yeah. Wow. Here we go. 20 years in and it's still happening.

02:05:57 Speaker_13
I know.

02:05:59 Speaker_09
It's great. It's great. All right. I love you.

02:06:02 Speaker_13
Love you.

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